Are there any movies about gaslighting/toxic relationships? Besides Gaslight obviously

Are there any movies about gaslighting/toxic relationships? Besides Gaslight obviously

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    No because gaslighting isn't real.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      It is real. I defeated by ex girlfriends gaslighting by taking notes on my phone of things she was saying. When she tried to pull some bullshit I would pull out the notes and be like “Actually you said...” then watch her explode in rage. I don’t miss the constant adrenaline dumps, it took a while for me to recover after we separated.

      I also never came so hard, felt like I was getting sucked into her pussy. It was not worth it.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        This too is not gaslighting but it's very dangerous behavior
        >she tells you some shit like "You're as hateful as your father"
        >confront her about it later
        >she point-blank denies ever saying it AT ALL
        >if you can somehow provide a recording or screenshot she has a meltdown over something else entirely, in order to misdirect

        You haven't been gaslit, you know she said it, but you're up against a brick wall because someone just denied reality

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >someone just denied reality
          Because they are gaslighting.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            > manipulate (someone) using psychological methods into questioning their own sanity or powers of reasoning

            That is what she was doing to me, I thought I was losing my mind until I started taking notes.

            Anon, you’re a big dumby dumb dumb.

            Gaslighting is something that makes YOU doubt your own reality. If your grip on sanity is so weak that someone saying "didn't happen lol" is enough to make you think "Wow, am I actually wrong? Do I have amnesia? Do I actually have... schizophrenia?" then you have bigger problems than worrying if you're being gaslit (tm)

            Denying reality is denying reality, i.e. lying.
            >"Did you murder that person? You were caught on video."
            >No, your honor. That wasn't me.

            Judge just got gaslit I guess

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              No, its when someone tries to make you doubt your own reality, you are describing when it succeeds, but failed attempts are also gaslighting behavior.

              >Judge just got gaslit I guess
              If the judge believes them, sure, even if not, the person attempted to gaslight the judge, it just didn't work.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Fair point, but attempted murder doesn't mean you got murdered. Gaslighting does have a binary outcome; you either doubt your own sanity or not. Maybe over time it DOES work but overall gaslighting behavior =/= the state of being successfully gaslit/gaslighting. By following that logic of labeling everything you DO arrive back at "he disagreed with me, that's gaslighting"

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              You really have no idea what you're talking about.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Stop gaslighting me homosexual, you know I'm right

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                You're overreacting right now

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                I'm not overreacting. I'm sorry, I've just gotten so used to harsh treatment that that is my knee-jerk reaction. I feel like this isn't the real version of me that I'm supposed to be, but we love each other and I know we can resolve it

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Stop feeling sorry for yourself

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                There you go again. By the way I poured your fish tank into your PC

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                You're remembering things wrong. That was a bottle of water

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              It seems like you’re desperately trying to look smart, probably out of some kind of insecurity you are harboring but it is only making you look dumb and immature.

              You’re making a lot of assumptions about the situation and are incapable of extrapolation and understanding as shown from your examples.

              You make it seem so black and white but it’s not, it starts slowly and slowly builds up like the boiling frog metaphor. Also it’s a person who has gained your absolute trust that is doing it which is what makes it so powerful.

              You clearly don’t have much social experience and I hope for your sake you never get entangled in the web of a woman with borderline personality disorder.

              Go out and live life and meet people anon, your inexperience is showing and it’s embarrassing.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Stop gaslighting me also. I've certainly been in relationships with "toxic" people and while labels can help people understand what they're going through, at a certain point it can also hamper actual communication and understanding. You can just sweep everything under an umbrella of "i got gaslit lol" when in the majority of cases, the other person is not an evil manipulator and somewhere there was a failure in communication.

                Dismissing women as BPD is literally just the male equivalent of women dismissing men as gaslighters

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Why do you write like a low class 13 year old trying to seem edgy?

                Also she had a literal diagnosis from a psychiatrist you dumbass.

                You love assuming and making an ass of yourself.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                I write how I write, I'm sorry that it threatens you as "he's tRyInG to LoOk SmArt." I will concede that if she had real BPD then I'm sorry to hear that, I've experienced the same. Sex was absolutely wild but it was the single most damaging relationship of my life

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Bet she was fat, you sound like a gay.
                Big whoop, you got bpd slam pig sex. Who hasn't?

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                What is your angle here? I'm just saying I think "gaslighting" is an overused label and even though it's an Internet argument I just was trying to let you know that we do have some commonality after all nor do I deny your experience, wienersucker

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Oh I wasn't the one you were arguing with, I'm just randomly calling you a gay because you really do sound like you're trying to come across a certain way. Maybe out of insecurity but most likely it's because you're a gay little b***h boy

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Sounds like you're projecting, senpai. I talk how I talk and you're the first person who's ever seemed threatened by it, online or not

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                I never sucked any wieners stop gaslighting me

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                >a person who has gained your absolute trust
                >trusting someone absolutely
                >trusting a female at all
                >calling other people inexperienced
                Naive idiot

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              It doesn't have to work for it to be gaslighting. Her denial of ever saying it is an attempt to get him to doubt his own reality

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          > manipulate (someone) using psychological methods into questioning their own sanity or powers of reasoning

          That is what she was doing to me, I thought I was losing my mind until I started taking notes.

          Anon, you’re a big dumby dumb dumb.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >if you can somehow provide a recording or screenshot she has a meltdown over something else entirely, in order to misdirect
          That's when she gets angry and accuses you of violating her trust and being paranoid because you recorded her without permission, or kept notes on what was said. That's seriously unhinged behaviour, anon. You need psychological help. You're acting just like your mother/father/whoever you told her about in confidence.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >confront her about it later
          Nope, immediately.
          >she denies anything that's real
          Goodbye prostitute, I'm not wasting my energy/time on some total frickwit

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Never happened.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          And I deserved it

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        My current gf does this when I bring up her bawd past. She tries to weasel out of things she’s admitted or straight up deny them, but then it dawned on me that maybe I’m the abuser for endlessly bringing this shit up while staying with her. She’s done everything in her power to appease me and I’ll still bring it up eventually. Feels bad.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          You may be abusing her, but she absolutely deserves it for being a bawd

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Yeah, it's kind of a given. They seem to want you to give them shit for being a bawd and if you don't you're a lesser man because who would want to be with a bawd?
            So mind broken that anyone that wants to be with you isn't a catch because you think you're damaged good.
            I blame sexual trauma, it really does a number on people and is a bad thing

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              You should find someone less broken and leave your current gf. That or start beating her

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Does she give you different versions of events? For example claim she didn't do a certain thing one day, but the next time say she might have? That shit drives me insane. Im glad I'm not the only one who goes through this.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Yeah, she’s constantly drip feeding more and more info when I basically start interrogating her, or if I bring up an event she told me about earlier there’s always like an addition to the event she previously told me about. I honestly don’t even know why I’m still with her, I’m not a pussy hound type of guy, but I definitely am bordering on being an emotional abuser, so I think I feel like I don’t deserve better or some shit. This is the second girl now like this I’ve dated after losing 2 good girls due to my shitty behavior, so on some level it feels like my karma.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >I also never came so hard, felt like I was getting sucked into her pussy. It was not worth it.

        You think you had it bad, by ex gave her butt.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        None of that was real you're imagining things, do you have any idea how crazy you sound?

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    That entire chart is standard female behavior

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Orgasmo does it perfectly

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    The Screaming Skull

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    So is it just taboo to tell people that they're wrong about things now?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      It's not at all, you sound crazy and paranoid.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Kek. Gaslighting has two branches
        >disagreeing with me is gaslighting
        >"real" gaslighting
        Real gaslighting can be as extreme as "you're just hallucinating babe" but that's rare and only works in the most abusive of relationships with a mindbroken partner. It can be more subtle like saying "I'm worried about X" "X is normal behavior, what do you mean?" And if you spend time wondering "IS X normal behavior? Maybe I've been wrong this whole time" it's technically gaslighting

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous
  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Memento
    Titanic

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm getting a lot of narcissistic YouTube recommendations. I confronted a narcissist recently and their eyes turned black and their face lost all expression.
    It was spooky, like a doll

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I worked with one was legitimately one, and not just some twitter b***h online claiming it for attention. She was one of the most insufferable, miserable, and completely delusional people I’ve ever met in my life. I’ve never seen someone so incapable of thinking about someone other than themselves as I have this b***h. Even after I threatened to fling her out of a glass window she continued to blame me for the entire blowout she started and could only see herself as a victim. I’ve never been the type of homosexual to get someone fired, or run to hr or anything of the sort, but seeing that b***h get fired and have a complete meltdown on her final day was one of the most satisfying things ever.

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous
    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      this isn't gaslighting either. gaslighting involves actively convincing somebody that they're crazy by contriving situations that cause them to question their sanity. if the objective of him denying what was happening right in front of her was to convince her she was insane instead of just trying to get away with the cheating itself it would be gaslighting.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        She clearly was questioning her sanity, you faceblind moron, you don't even just need facial expression cues when she kept looking around and you could practically see her sub-vocalizing his words, "what woman" before she just gave up on the reality she just witnessed and offered to cook for him.

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    the most common form of gaslighting is without a fricking doubt this
    >did you steal my phone?
    >"WHAT?"
    >you heard me
    >"YOUR PHONE?"
    >yes
    >"I DIDN'T EVEN KNOW YOUR PHONE WAS STOLEN"
    >"SO HOW COULD I HAVE DONE IT"
    playing dumb. pretending that you don't know what a person is talking about.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Do I have to speak in capslock for it to count

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You need help

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    There's a pretty famous one...

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >no mention of Rosemary's Baby
    for shame

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous
  15. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You might like Gaslight

  16. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I know a really good one but it would spoil the ending

  17. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    People are such week willed gaytrons.

    It's called lying, people lie. You don't believe their fricking lies and you certainly don't have to have a mental breakdown because somebody is lying to you.

  18. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Personally I just go into reddit when Married At First Sight airs in Australia and laugh at how they claim that everything any of the men do on that show is apparently gaslighting

  19. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    sometimes people legitimately sound crazy. my dad will literally mishear shit and then yell at me. i have no fricking idea how to handle that

  20. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    People definitely overuse the term nowadays. Anytime you tell a girl under 30 that she’s mistaken about something, there’s a 50/50 chance she’ll come away thinking you were trying to gaslight her. People are often wrong, people often overreact. You don’t wanna hear it in the moment, but it doesn’t mean someone is trying to make you question your sanity.
    That said, real gaslighting does happen occasionally. Usually by people who are, themselves, mentally ill.
    It’s sort of a ‘fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me,’ situation, though. After a couple times, you should trust yourself enough to realize what’s going on and get away from anyone so dishonest and manipulative.

  21. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Gaslighting was invented to shirk away responsabilitiy for your self (if you are a woman).

    That's literally all it is.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      It's not really personal responsibility for their actions that they run away from I think it's being called upon to care about another person or duties.
      They just want to be kids, they avoid being bad but evade getting in trouble. Like children.
      It's not complicated if you imagine yourself at like age 5 and how scary it is to be in trouble

  22. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    There's no such thing as gaslighting

  23. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    the original play gaslight

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