saw this in whiplash and thought it has to be mega awkward
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Do strangers really ask out other strangers out to eat like in movies?
saw this in whiplash and thought it has to be mega awkward
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yeah it's balls fr fr no cap
why
I can do all 3 faces after this game of Apex.
Only if get 3 (yous) though.
I've done it for free for long enough.
happy birthday Goshen sorry I wasn't able to make it
Wasn't it just a date?
yeah it's awkward
but sometimes it works
I tried it once with a girl I noticed when I was in college. I was really awkward and she seemed realy nice.
Went up and just asked her and her reply was a simple "no".
That taught me a lot about socialising.
damn discord really fricked you zoomers up huh
Only Chads can get away with it, though.
massive spoiler alert OP, movies aren't real life.
DROPPED
I don't even know where to begin to get a date
It was a different time.
Not complete strangers.
I've literally never heard of a woman accepting a date invitation form someone she had at least some introductory conversation with.
just "hey lets go grab food" to an absolute stranger will rightfully get you a rejection, no matter how hot or confident you are.
At the very least there's 30 seconds of small talk so she knows you're not a moronic schizo
>do non-spergs who actually go out and live life instead of learning about it through movies really do this normal and expected thing?
90% of threads on Cinemaphile. Yes, normal people regularly do normal human things. Yes, you are moronic for wondering if it's abnormal or uncomfortable, and even more moronic for asking. No, you will not ever learn anything by asking goblins about human interaction on Cinemaphile.
Anything else?
this. only me and this poster is correct. you all are wrong.
Recently moved back to my home town after 15 years to work a shitty convenience store job after my life fell apart and a girl I used to make laugh in school came into the store and recognized me. We got talking and it turns out she'd just been through a break up too, so I said "we should go on a date!" and she laughed and said that would be hilarious then left with her groceries. Not sure if we're dating or not now...
wow bro you are totally in there
yeah i met my wife in a bar and i'm a total introvert
we just started talking and it happened
it really does just happen like that
how did that conversation start?
Yes if you're reasonably attractive and if you have confidence/charm. My cousin is at best a 6/10 and stocky but 6'2 was walking his dog on the beach and ran into his now wife whose a smoking hot redhead. She asked him to take a picture of her and her friends which he obliged and struck up a conversation with her. They exchanged phone numbers, went on a date, and 4 years later they got married.
Not anymore.
Plus, even if you do have the balls to ask out a girl you don't know, I guarantee she's talking to 10 different guys on tinder
Dating is over, just frick hookers for the rest of your life or wait until robot waifus become real
mindbroken
Get ahold of yourself
>tfw every time you talk to a girl you don't know they're subconsciously thinking that you'll murder them if they reject you
>this leaves me in a stalemate because women never make the first move, but me making the first move puts them in an uncomfortable position
So what am I supposed to do?
Be like water on a duck's skin.
If she brutally rejects you or humiliates you, don't take it personally and just walk away. Nothing is more powerful than not giving a frick.
Being a dude is living in hard mode unless you're the 1% of Alphas. We're supposed to be rejected and shot down. But it's like fishing, you'll eventually catch 1 if you keep at it. Most importantly, don't act clingy or desperate. Treat it like a game. Shrug and laugh it off when she snaps, "I HAVE A BOYFRIEND!" or any other bullshit.
It's okay to strike out. It's part of life, but you gotta take a swing at least. I got rejected dozens upon dozens of times before a cute 7/10 liked how I didn't take it personally and decided to give me a chance. I dated her for 8 months and honestly had fun before she had to move away.
>I HAVE A BOYFRIEND
The correct reaponse is to say "I didnt ask" and then immediately walk away because she is going to sperg out.
Which is what I did though I just replied,"That's great. He's a lucky man."
don't just talk to women with the intention of asking them out, they can smell that shit.
be sociable and make friends. go out and have some fun.
show genuine interest in other people and their lives and you will meet the right woman without feeling like a serial killer
>t.beta orbiter
>age 27
>fricked 14 women so far
how about you?
>fricked
beta mindset
men don't orbit chicks in the hope of getting a pity/sleezy frick after putting in effort
being sociable should not be effort if you are functioning human being
I'm not either of y'all but making fun of the dude for saying that stuff about how to be sociable and talk to women is correct, and only people that are insecure about their own abilities in that regard would call him a "beta orbiter." It's just common sense.
> t. 35yo married dude with a body count of 104
>but making fun of the dude for saying that stuff about how to be sociable and talk to women is correct
thanks for agreeing?
Ayo this homie be lowkey preachin' fools, y'all mfers better listen, deadass.
o yea? expert, so then describe the differences in vegana feel since you felt so many
>14 prostitutes not married at almost 30
ngmi
>>age 27
14 women so far
> t. 35yo married dude with a body count of 104
And yet if a woman fricks that many guys you call her every name under the sun. You people are prostitutes with no morals
wrong person to throw this incel hissy fit at as I let my wife be bred by anyone she likes
>show genuine interest in other people
Nah
I leapfrogged the entire process, but you need non-autistic friends to do so. I just asked my friend'a gf to set me up with one of her friends for a date (Christmas party with couples, so not being alone smoothed out most of the awkwardness). She said yes without hesitating because she thinks I'm funny.
Got along pretty well with my date, and voilá. Been dating her for 6 months.
yup, sometimes you met a girl and things just click. I can't explain it.
Can honestly say i've never done that. But im an incel so maybe thats why.
She wasn't a complete random stranger. Its clear he goes to that theater and interacts with her often. They had a rapport. Asking her out was fine. Stop being so autistic.
I always disliked meal dates with strangers, as they are too high effort
Even in the olden days just asking for a cofee or for a drink was much better
I think the only actual dinner date I had in my life as first date was with my cousin
I'd only do this kinda shit after doing 6-8 shots of vodka prior to it
That's actually how I met my GF. We were at a party, and I thought she looked hot as frick. So I just approached her and got talking. We talked for hours, and at the end of the night I asked her out. She said sure, and we exchanged numbers.
I know people think that in the modern age it's impossible to approach women physically, or that tinder is better for the modern tech age. But good old fashioned approaching in person still gets the best results. For me anyway. Women seem more impressed when you have the balls to just walk right up to them. It shows confidence I suppose. And yes, you'll get 9 women not interested for every 10 you talk to, but that's life.
Every worthwhile woman is already taken in my experience.
only if there is mutual attraction, which can be easy to read for a guy because a girl will look flustered and make eye contact sheepishly. it's much harder for a girl to pick up on these queues because guys are often just staring cos theyre bored.
ive asked a bunch of girls out in public and got their numbers and then did nothing about it because i got into my own head or didn't know how to handle it
You have to give them YOUR number, moron. You cant just ask random women for their personal information, fricking idiot
huh? they give me their numbers when i ask - giving them YOUR number is bizarre as frick man no girl wants you to put the ball in their court like that
imagine overthinking the process of exchanging numbers.
if she genuinely liked you that day, she will make effort to stay in touch and you will exchange contact information without thinking about it.
if you have to ask for her number directly at the end of the day, its usually a bad sign
dude. women are not initiators. They would literally die alone if men didn't do everything in the beginning.
There are a few women that take fricking control of their lives and play a more active role, but you can't rely on that.
Even for my 10/10 chad friend, if he never pushed things forward he'd never get laid.
lmao, what world do you live in?
theres at least one woman a month thats hitting on me when I'm out with friends.
I agree that its expected of men to make the first move, but I'm telling you that if she doesnt show any interest about staying in touch during conversation then dont even bother to ask for her number
bros I just want a gf
what do I do when women arent impressed by my encyclopedic knowledge of vanilla wow or anime
Not after COVID.