Yeah, but women seem to think that everything nice that men do for them is just to get in their pants, never mind if its just being nice for the sake of being nice.
Why would you be nice to a woman if you didn't think it was helping you get a chance to root her? Family relations excepted, of course. You have a duty to help family.
Because you can feel bad for a woman having a hard time, motivating you to do something to make her feel better, simple as that. The same for a guy. As for the tranny of the movie, it counts as both cases.
His voice was so obvious. This movie tried way too hard to be progressive. They pretend this guy is a woman, and they pretend that obese Barbie is cute.
Women sound very masculine and nearly always semi retarded these days. I just can't tell anymore which are men and which are just bad quality women. It doesn't help that every woman other then Margot in the film are all ugly which stops the tranny from standing out particularly at least to me.
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Disney's game is creating strawmen with legitimate concerns in their films to be vanquished, ridiculed, or for their motivations to be questioned.
It was played for comedy but pretty simple, basically when he first was seeing real men, he saw that they had power and got respect, and he saw them on horses. Therefore horses must also be part of why they got power and respect. I don’t think it was any deeper than that.
It was played for comedy but pretty simple, basically when he first was seeing real men, he saw that they had power and got respect, and he saw them on horses. Therefore horses must also be part of why they got power and respect. I don’t think it was any deeper than that.
Ken also doesn't own a horse and doesn't get to go horseriding, Barbies do. It's a symbol of the ruling class in barbieworld
>the Kens are misogynistic and evil because they tried to strip away the Barbie’s voting rights >literally the first thing the Barbies try to do prevent Ken’s from voting and rig the election back in their own favor
what did they mean by this? this movie might accidentally be one of the greatest critiques of liberals of all time
Cognitive dissonance. They want audiences to look at Ken's and think "oh how horrible those Ken's are, yes the good Barbie's are right to take away their rights!" Then they will do the same thing in real life with republicans, they are training society to react in the same way.
Read Herbert Marcuse's influential article, "Repressive Tolerance" to understand precisely where they're coming from in their biased enforcement of various policies.
>the Kens are misogynistic and evil because they tried to strip away the Barbie’s voting rights >literally the first thing the Barbies try to do prevent Ken’s from voting and rig the election back in their own favor
what did they mean by this? this movie might accidentally be one of the greatest critiques of liberals of all time
>liberals
I wouldn't call that liberal. The blue team today is marxist-leftist.
>barbieland is a farcical world made by men who have the mentality of little girls >kendomland is a farcical world made by women who have the mentality of little boys >the movie makes fun of real-world women by making fun of in-universe men, and honors real-world men by honoring in-universe women >is obviously trans-exclusionary; how long until the Sashas of the world realize it and cancel Queen Greta? >is actually anti-feminist visa vis the rejection of ideological-based identities, but thats tougher to pick up on
Not really. He tried to spend the night at Margot Robbie's house and she was just blankly staring at him. This would never happen to a woman in the real world unless she was super ugly or fat.
>Not really. He tried to spend the night at Margot Robbie's house and she was just blankly staring at him. This would never happen to a woman in the real world unless she was super ugly or fat.
Exactly the whole idea of the Ken's being an allegory for the historical treatment of women falls completely apart when they still treat them like men otherwise.
but then why does the movie end with the failure of feminism and women going back to patriarchy or whatever the fuck barbieland is in this analogy? surely that's not the message hollywood would want to push?
>end with the failure of feminism and women going back to patriarchy or whatever the fuck barbieland is in this analogy? surely that's not the message hollywood would want to push?
The kens get token representation and a tiny bit more wiggle room, which is supposed to mirror exactly what's happened to women.
The problem is that by the time this movie came out half the supreme court is made up of women. The only places really sex-imbalanced still at the Senate, the presidency, and top-earning CEOs and only that because the old men in them have been around for 60+ years.
I didn't understand why the barbies had like a little council at the start of the movie where they were bitching about corporations or some shit. I thought they had absolute power over the barbie world, so why don't they just change it?
He could have aimed at equality in Barbieland, but he instead wanted to get back at Barbie for years of neglect.
I can't say that he was completely right, but I understood and felt more sympathy for him and his arc than for the Barbies.
>It's like I've been in a dream, where I was somehow really invested in the Zack Snyder cut of Justice League.
What was the joke here? This is straight out of TBBT it only needs a laughtrack
They specifically said earlier in the movie that Barbie and Ken don't have genitals, so that was the movie's way of letting you know that Barbie has a pussy now.
It's another aspect I just don't understand what greta was trying to convey. The Kens love the barbies but the barbies treat the kens with disdain and seem to resent them being in barbie land yet that isn't some sort of witty critique of real life treatment reversed since it's straight to how men treat women and how women show little deep romantic interest in men as in real life. This movie is so strange in its messaging.
>there's a tranny barbie >she's also the doctor >kens have no rights so presumably something like cock removal surgery would be out of the question for her >meaning she approved her own surgery to escape having no rights
Deepest lore
Barbie and Ken both have no genitalia, and gender is a social construct. Therefore, anyone can be a Barbie or Ken in Barbieland. The better question is then, why would the Kens willingly choose to be Kens?
He committed the cardinal sin of trying to democratically vote to attain civil rights while introducing a new ideology that others around him willfully adopted and cooperated in despite using zero coercive tactics.
Saw it a couple days ago (pirated) and there's really seemingly no logical clarity in what they're attempting to convey, in terms of message. It feels like they just didn't revise the script.
The only prevailing thing that's conveyed to me is that women are neurotic and are unable to actually contemplate their feelings/thoughts and reach any actual conclusions. They just like to feel like their life is dramatic.
There's nonsense strange plot things like if the Kens are like the women of the real world, does that mean the movie wants to imply that feminism is a consequence of women feeling rejected by men? But that's just a minor confusing thing, and not really the worst of it.
The worst for me is that movie complains about the seemingly impossible conflicts women are in (which in fact aren't really impossible at all), and then also continues to further exactly that kind of thinking. ie Barbie has the be the hero, but not too much cause then it's White saviour.
Schizophrenic movie. Total mess.
Exists only so low IQ women can look at the shallow emotions being presented in a given scene through dishonest filmmaking and think "wow that's so true, being a woman is so hard, but also we're so strong and beautiful."
Honestly, it's fucked up and retarded in a very feminine way. Could be meta.
It’s really funny how the women were literally just happier under the patriarchy. There was no indication they’d been brainwashed until Barbie brainwashed one of them when she got back and she said that they were brainwashed lol
Key point: Barbie did NOT brainwash them: it had to be a woman from the real world, because Barbies are 100% human imagination & have no way changing lifestyles.
Thus: >Ken gets patriarchy/ horses idea from real world >transforms everyone instantly >Real woman brings idea to Barbieland >Barbies instantly change ideas
They are like children playing games: just go wherever human thought takes them, with no depth of their own at ALL.
Can’t wait for Barbie 2 where they make Barbie fall in love with a black dude. >Barbie reject fucking gosling ken for a black dude in the real world
Would the second movie makes over a billion dollar?
Marketing >Hey, REMEMBER BARBIE >BARBENHEIMER LOL >Omg, RYAN GOSLING IS LITERALLY ME AGAIN >hey girls, need an excuse to wear matching pink outfits and shout yaas queen slay? >hey guys, want to ironically watch a girls' film to prove that you're not insecure about your masculinity?
It touched upon much discussed topics, and offered no solution. The latter part is crucial, for most other mainstream media products just pretend their stupid empty slogans are the solution.
Why couldn't the Chinese Ken, or Chinken as I prefer to call him, simply spread the CCP propaganda to the other Kens when they were coaxing a coup to overthrow the tyrannical Barbies.
He didn't massacre all the Barbies while they were still in their brainwashed stage, and created the true Kenland, so yes, he did something very wrong.
I'm just Ken (and I'm enough)
And I'm great at doing stuff
So, hey! Check me out, yeah, I'm just Ken
My name's Ken (and so am I)
Put that manly hand in mine
So, hey! World, check me out, yeah, I'm just Ken
I haven't watched the movie and I don't understand this song. Seems like Ken does a bunch of different things. He's skilled. He's attractive. Has style. I assume he's charismatic too.
Why it framed like he's not enough in the first place? It almost seems to me that the movie is reflecting how women currently treat men in society who actually have a lot going for them but are treated like they aren't good enough anyway
That's fine and all. But it also seems a bit anti romance and anti sex for men. Both men and women seek relationships. And do things to attract partners.
Was Ken only doing the things he did for attention or was he genuinely into the stuff he was and then expressing his qualities toward the women he was interested in?
And do the Barbies think the Kens are enough or are they part of the problem?
I haven't seen this movie and I never will, but a question for those who have: Is a fan edit possible that turns Ken into the hero he should have been from the very beginning?
throughout the movie he's a simp for barbie who treats him poorly. its set up that kens whole life is to please barbie and he doesn't get anything from her because shes too narcissistic to feel for others. Barbie gets nice stuff and he doesnt cause hes "just ken".
he doesn't get ego until he goes into real world and sees that men have more power there, but in the end its supposed to be a compromise with both of them, Barbie apologizes and like he learns to love himself for who he is, not needing the stereotypes or Barbies approval to be happy. He is enough.
with the song, it's well done by Gosling and a positive message.
I haven't seen this movie and I never will, but a question for those who have: Is a fan edit possible that turns Ken into the hero he should have been from the very beginning?
I do like how the movie is supposed to be a gender swapped version of the power dynamics of men and women and, yet, in Barbieland, the men are still the ones who are initiating interest while the women sit back and treat the men like options on a sushi convetor belt.
And that's sort of where the analogy they are trying to set up breaks down. It's easy to tell Ken that he's good enough on his own without Bernie when it's also taken for granted that the women will have male suitors regardless.
It's really weird the way we treat male sexuality and romantic interest with feminists trying to tell men that they are supposed to be ok with not being loved by other people. Like wtf? Honestly.
In what world do these people live in where they think it's healthy to tell half the population to just be fine not being wanted, or have romance, or attention? That's not human. It's advice for a robot.
Imagine telling a woman this when she complains about men using her and no one actually reciprocating desire toward them: "you need to be happy being single for the rest of your life and if you aren't, it's because you are unhealthy and you are the problem"
That's actually fucking insane but I think a large part of the country now believes this is legitimate advice to give to lonely men
He was simply trying to liberate his people from the tyrannical Barbies
much like Cesar and Napoleon, he was too ambitious for his own good
He made the tranny Barbie feel special. Our guy.
Straight up sis this a win for us
>used to work with a hot girl who sometimes wore glasses
>always made fun of her when she did
why didn't i think of this?
Because she only wore it sometimes
fuck her, you're better off anon
Granted this is a clip , but he seems like hes being a nice guy here. Keep in mind I #1 did not see the movie and #2 am emotionally retarded.
Yeah, but women seem to think that everything nice that men do for them is just to get in their pants, never mind if its just being nice for the sake of being nice.
Why would you be nice to a woman if you didn't think it was helping you get a chance to root her? Family relations excepted, of course. You have a duty to help family.
Because you can feel bad for a woman having a hard time, motivating you to do something to make her feel better, simple as that. The same for a guy. As for the tranny of the movie, it counts as both cases.
Lol that's what men think. God forbid you're just being nice to a guy, they immediately think you want them
That is the only reason I would be paying any attention to a woman yes.
I didn't see the movie and don't plan to, but that's a cute clip
His voice was so obvious. This movie tried way too hard to be progressive. They pretend this guy is a woman, and they pretend that obese Barbie is cute.
I didn't even realise that was a tranny as every other woman other then muh queen robbie is ugly and mutted of appearance.
>of appearance.
Are you deaf? It's blatantly obvious when he opened his mouth.
Women sound very masculine and nearly always semi retarded these days. I just can't tell anymore which are men and which are just bad quality women. It doesn't help that every woman other then Margot in the film are all ugly which stops the tranny from standing out particularly at least to me.
Margot's husband produced the movie and Margot had a strict policy of not allowing hot women to be around her. See Birds of Prey
I love the Goose like you wouldn't believe
Ken's always looking out for his fellow Kings even when they're horribly disfigured. What an inspiration.
If this was a woman and not a troon it would've been a cute moment.
Real men look out for each other.
Based. :3 loved the movie.
but wasn't she pretending here
Trannies like to be treated like women used to like being treated. Actual women are stronk and should be avoided, be Ken.
inb4 >she
hari a queen
ow contrare, all them are just smooth down there. except ken, he has all the genitals.
>ow contrare
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Disney's game is creating strawmen with legitimate concerns in their films to be vanquished, ridiculed, or for their motivations to be questioned.
Someone please watch this and respond to it.
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I dont get his obsession with horses , but I did not see the whole movie , just clips
It was played for comedy but pretty simple, basically when he first was seeing real men, he saw that they had power and got respect, and he saw them on horses. Therefore horses must also be part of why they got power and respect. I don’t think it was any deeper than that.
Ahh , I was wondering what the hubbub was. Thanks for the spoonfeed
Ken also doesn't own a horse and doesn't get to go horseriding, Barbies do. It's a symbol of the ruling class in barbieworld
Memes and goslingposting aside, were we actually not supposed to be on his side? Are Hollywood writers this out of touch?
the kens were the women of barbieland
>the Kens are misogynistic and evil because they tried to strip away the Barbie’s voting rights
>literally the first thing the Barbies try to do prevent Ken’s from voting and rig the election back in their own favor
what did they mean by this? this movie might accidentally be one of the greatest critiques of liberals of all time
Cognitive dissonance. They want audiences to look at Ken's and think "oh how horrible those Ken's are, yes the good Barbie's are right to take away their rights!" Then they will do the same thing in real life with republicans, they are training society to react in the same way.
Read Herbert Marcuse's influential article, "Repressive Tolerance" to understand precisely where they're coming from in their biased enforcement of various policies.
>liberals
I wouldn't call that liberal. The blue team today is marxist-leftist.
>marxist-leftist
Yet they hate the poor
It's basically socialism but only for the rich and college students
It’s to show the hypocrisy of both sides. Did you people actually watch this movie?
>barbieland is a farcical world made by men who have the mentality of little girls
>kendomland is a farcical world made by women who have the mentality of little boys
>the movie makes fun of real-world women by making fun of in-universe men, and honors real-world men by honoring in-universe women
>is obviously trans-exclusionary; how long until the Sashas of the world realize it and cancel Queen Greta?
>is actually anti-feminist visa vis the rejection of ideological-based identities, but thats tougher to pick up on
The 19th amendment was a worse mistake than the 18th amendment.
The ending flat out says "Yes, the Ken's will become just like the women in the real world."
Not really. He tried to spend the night at Margot Robbie's house and she was just blankly staring at him. This would never happen to a woman in the real world unless she was super ugly or fat.
>Not really. He tried to spend the night at Margot Robbie's house and she was just blankly staring at him. This would never happen to a woman in the real world unless she was super ugly or fat.
Exactly the whole idea of the Ken's being an allegory for the historical treatment of women falls completely apart when they still treat them like men otherwise.
but then why does the movie end with the failure of feminism and women going back to patriarchy or whatever the fuck barbieland is in this analogy? surely that's not the message hollywood would want to push?
>end with the failure of feminism and women going back to patriarchy or whatever the fuck barbieland is in this analogy? surely that's not the message hollywood would want to push?
The kens get token representation and a tiny bit more wiggle room, which is supposed to mirror exactly what's happened to women.
The problem is that by the time this movie came out half the supreme court is made up of women. The only places really sex-imbalanced still at the Senate, the presidency, and top-earning CEOs and only that because the old men in them have been around for 60+ years.
Fuck men. Thanks.
He's literally me.
Me too
he could be a One Piece villain dressed like this
alright im gonna make webms
As long as they're kenms
They won't be.
I almost came in the theatre this was great.
this is what happens when you give women too much sovereignty, they become anti maids outfits, anti pantyhose, just anti female in general
I didn't understand why the barbies had like a little council at the start of the movie where they were bitching about corporations or some shit. I thought they had absolute power over the barbie world, so why don't they just change it?
This might be one of the greatest satires of all time, I feel like Noah Baumbach really snuck one by everybody.
Felt like that first one was too fast.
there's BE in barbie?
Yes, because there used to be a BE Barbie doll.
nice.
Damnit, Skipper
>LITERALLY AND FIGURATIVELY
he's just like me
>literally and figurately
I know you're browsing this board Greta
He could have aimed at equality in Barbieland, but he instead wanted to get back at Barbie for years of neglect.
I can't say that he was completely right, but I understood and felt more sympathy for him and his arc than for the Barbies.
>It's like I've been in a dream, where I was somehow really invested in the Zack Snyder cut of Justice League.
What was the joke here? This is straight out of TBBT it only needs a laughtrack
The joke is that Warner hates Zack Snyder.
>maybe one day the kens will get as much power in barbieland as women do in the real world
what did they mean by this?
ken will get to steal all of barbie’s money in the divorce even though she’s the one who brought everything in
I like how it ended with a muh pussy joke
But yes this was kens movie and honestly brilliant satire
>WORLD MARINE HQ ANNOUNCING THE ARRIVAL OF WARLORD DONQUIXOTE DOFLAMINGO
THE
LIGHTNING
SASH
IS
FUCKING
COOL
and I want one.
I want to combine it with my Drive jacket
>i'm here to see my gynecologist
I don't get it
They specifically said earlier in the movie that Barbie and Ken don't have genitals, so that was the movie's way of letting you know that Barbie has a pussy now.
epic, I like it
>that one scene where the barbies go from one ken to the other
brilliant showcase of slut culture, greta. bravo
It's another aspect I just don't understand what greta was trying to convey. The Kens love the barbies but the barbies treat the kens with disdain and seem to resent them being in barbie land yet that isn't some sort of witty critique of real life treatment reversed since it's straight to how men treat women and how women show little deep romantic interest in men as in real life. This movie is so strange in its messaging.
Reminder he has 2 different size eyes.
Pretty much every human is unsymmetrical, especially women's breasts.
the word is asymmetrical
His eyes are also too close together but he's somehow still an absolute chad.
he is simply disgusting eugh
>President and Nobel Prize Barbies are both nogs
>there's a tranny barbie
>she's also the doctor
>kens have no rights so presumably something like cock removal surgery would be out of the question for her
>meaning she approved her own surgery to escape having no rights
Deepest lore
>she
Barbie and Ken both have no genitalia, and gender is a social construct. Therefore, anyone can be a Barbie or Ken in Barbieland. The better question is then, why would the Kens willingly choose to be Kens?
You are putting more thought into it than Greta
He committed the cardinal sin of trying to democratically vote to attain civil rights while introducing a new ideology that others around him willfully adopted and cooperated in despite using zero coercive tactics.
Ken literally did nothing wrong
Saw it a couple days ago (pirated) and there's really seemingly no logical clarity in what they're attempting to convey, in terms of message. It feels like they just didn't revise the script.
The only prevailing thing that's conveyed to me is that women are neurotic and are unable to actually contemplate their feelings/thoughts and reach any actual conclusions. They just like to feel like their life is dramatic.
There's nonsense strange plot things like if the Kens are like the women of the real world, does that mean the movie wants to imply that feminism is a consequence of women feeling rejected by men? But that's just a minor confusing thing, and not really the worst of it.
The worst for me is that movie complains about the seemingly impossible conflicts women are in (which in fact aren't really impossible at all), and then also continues to further exactly that kind of thinking. ie Barbie has the be the hero, but not too much cause then it's White saviour.
Schizophrenic movie. Total mess.
Exists only so low IQ women can look at the shallow emotions being presented in a given scene through dishonest filmmaking and think "wow that's so true, being a woman is so hard, but also we're so strong and beautiful."
Honestly, it's fucked up and retarded in a very feminine way. Could be meta.
Hey Ken's
Looking immaculately fashionable today.
LOOKING GOOD KEN
Thanks Ken, I appreciate that.
You're welcome, Ken. Have a nice day on Cinemaphile
Sup, Ken
Who cares, it is a bad movie made for nostalgia hungry millenials and their kids.
It’s really funny how the women were literally just happier under the patriarchy. There was no indication they’d been brainwashed until Barbie brainwashed one of them when she got back and she said that they were brainwashed lol
Key point: Barbie did NOT brainwash them: it had to be a woman from the real world, because Barbies are 100% human imagination & have no way changing lifestyles.
Thus:
>Ken gets patriarchy/ horses idea from real world
>transforms everyone instantly
>Real woman brings idea to Barbieland
>Barbies instantly change ideas
They are like children playing games: just go wherever human thought takes them, with no depth of their own at ALL.
fun movie when you only watch the parts Ken is in
S U B L I M E
Absolutely will not be watching this no matter how many times you sosm this shit
not now, margaret
If you really think this about Ken, you're whats wrong with society
Wasn't this headline confirmed as fake?
It's probably her actual thought though.
I've seen plenty of women seething that Ken stole the show and no one really cares about the Barbies story.
Still fake
Death of the author, etc, etc.
I had no idea Greta Gerwig was hot
Can’t wait for Barbie 2 where they make Barbie fall in love with a black dude.
>Barbie reject fucking gosling ken for a black dude in the real world
Would the second movie makes over a billion dollar?
how the fuck did a mediocre movie like this made $1.5B?
Marketing
>Hey, REMEMBER BARBIE
>BARBENHEIMER LOL
>Omg, RYAN GOSLING IS LITERALLY ME AGAIN
>hey girls, need an excuse to wear matching pink outfits and shout yaas queen slay?
>hey guys, want to ironically watch a girls' film to prove that you're not insecure about your masculinity?
It's the best comedy in 10 years, that's how.
Many people go to see it more than once: first time as a meme, second time for fun.
>It's the best comedy in 10 years, that's how.
No.!
>can't name a better comedy from the last ten years
pic related was better
It actually is, anon. Sorry, I'm unfortunately never wrong.
It touched upon much discussed topics, and offered no solution. The latter part is crucial, for most other mainstream media products just pretend their stupid empty slogans are the solution.
It was good outside of the dumb preachy monologue 70% through, and the creators didn't realize the unintentional social issues it touched on.
Why couldn't the Chinese Ken, or Chinken as I prefer to call him, simply spread the CCP propaganda to the other Kens when they were coaxing a coup to overthrow the tyrannical Barbies.
He didn't massacre all the Barbies while they were still in their brainwashed stage, and created the true Kenland, so yes, he did something very wrong.
I'm just Ken (and I'm enough)
And I'm great at doing stuff
So, hey! Check me out, yeah, I'm just Ken
My name's Ken (and so am I)
Put that manly hand in mine
So, hey! World, check me out, yeah, I'm just Ken
/ourguy/
I haven't watched the movie and I don't understand this song. Seems like Ken does a bunch of different things. He's skilled. He's attractive. Has style. I assume he's charismatic too.
Why it framed like he's not enough in the first place? It almost seems to me that the movie is reflecting how women currently treat men in society who actually have a lot going for them but are treated like they aren't good enough anyway
The argument is that women have nothing to do with it, men should be satisfied with their own positive qualities and not look for female affirmation.
That's fine and all. But it also seems a bit anti romance and anti sex for men. Both men and women seek relationships. And do things to attract partners.
Was Ken only doing the things he did for attention or was he genuinely into the stuff he was and then expressing his qualities toward the women he was interested in?
And do the Barbies think the Kens are enough or are they part of the problem?
you WILL watch the movie and you will like it lol
throughout the movie he's a simp for barbie who treats him poorly. its set up that kens whole life is to please barbie and he doesn't get anything from her because shes too narcissistic to feel for others. Barbie gets nice stuff and he doesnt cause hes "just ken".
he doesn't get ego until he goes into real world and sees that men have more power there, but in the end its supposed to be a compromise with both of them, Barbie apologizes and like he learns to love himself for who he is, not needing the stereotypes or Barbies approval to be happy. He is enough.
with the song, it's well done by Gosling and a positive message.
TLDR: (You) are Kenough!
ok cool. that doesn't even sound like the anti men sjw stereotype that right wingers complain about. that sounds pretty even handed
>that right wingers complain about
Well yeah, shitters like shapiro et. all are just anita sarkesian but for boys
I haven't seen this movie and I never will, but a question for those who have: Is a fan edit possible that turns Ken into the hero he should have been from the very beginning?
I do like how the movie is supposed to be a gender swapped version of the power dynamics of men and women and, yet, in Barbieland, the men are still the ones who are initiating interest while the women sit back and treat the men like options on a sushi convetor belt.
And that's sort of where the analogy they are trying to set up breaks down. It's easy to tell Ken that he's good enough on his own without Bernie when it's also taken for granted that the women will have male suitors regardless.
It's really weird the way we treat male sexuality and romantic interest with feminists trying to tell men that they are supposed to be ok with not being loved by other people. Like wtf? Honestly.
In what world do these people live in where they think it's healthy to tell half the population to just be fine not being wanted, or have romance, or attention? That's not human. It's advice for a robot.
Imagine telling a woman this when she complains about men using her and no one actually reciprocating desire toward them: "you need to be happy being single for the rest of your life and if you aren't, it's because you are unhealthy and you are the problem"
That's actually fucking insane but I think a large part of the country now believes this is legitimate advice to give to lonely men