Is being in your 30s really as miserable and depressing as this show makes it out?
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Is being in your 30s really as miserable and depressing as this show makes it out?
Is being in your 30s really as miserable and depressing as this show makes it out?
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try being in you're 40s buddy
life is what you make it buddy.
yup
Try learning to spell
Imagine making it to 40 and you can't differentiate you're/your. Grim.
>Four chan Jeremy, Four? That's insane.
It sucks. You're not far away from your 20s which is prime life and you're close to your 40s which is literally over. Being 30 is like a reality slap that your better times are over and there's nothing but downhills coming.
I reserved my 40s and up for alcoholism
my teens were trash, 20s were mediocre, but my early to mid 30s were fantastic. it's when I started looking like an adult man, had a few promotions and a good income under my belt, and was swimming in 20 year olds who wanted a "daddy". still riding that wave at 36, but I'll probably knock some "nice" girl up and lock her down before I start balding.
>mid 30s guy on Cinemaphile lying about all the 20 year old hot girls who were fricking him
What is it with you people all over this place?
>incels seething that they've wasted their entire lives get jealous every time they see someone who didn't.
What is it with you "people" all over this place?
Every 35 year old single guy on Cinemaphile isn't fricking hot 18-22 year olds. Just stop with the made up stories, it's doing you no good.
how many people do you think post on Cinemaphile, brain damaged incel anon.
>hubrismaxxing
>single, not unemployed, but not greatly employed, renting, away from your main social circle
If you got all or most of these, yes
I'm in my early 30s and I love it, truth is: it has nothing to do with age, it's all a matter of attitude. If you're a boring, low-energy drone, your life will be miserable.
100% true. I'm enjoying my 30's far more than my 20's. VNANMJ
vnanmj?
Very Nice Anal Now Michael Jackson
I for one am 100% convinced all media created in the past 8 years or so was made for the purpose of turning people into low energy gimps, especially music. The hardest top 100 pop song was made by Sam Smith, a homosexual who could realistically be beaten into a pulp by most able bodied men. Says a lot about the utter state of things. Stay high energy bros.
*top 100 pop song in 2023
>especially music
WAYS OF DISCOVERING MUSIC
FIRST, download soulseek.com
1-https://www.tastedive.com/
1.1-Add some movie, game, tv show, book (but NOT music, I wont tell the reason why SPECIFICALLY YOU READING THIS TEXT shouldnt add music, would make the text too long) and click to get music recommendations based at that, try the artist at youtube or try to find his site and try his songs. If you like download it at soulseek.
2-http://rateyourmusic.com/misc/random
2.1-This site is another imdb for music. Create an account at the site (you dont need to use it) and open the link (need an account to do that) you will get an random musical release, if you dont know the release try it at youtube and if you like download soulseek. Do this as much as you want.
3-https://rateyourmusic.com/recs/auto/USERNAME
3.1-Create an account and download and rate alot of albums using step 2, after some amount of albums the link 4 will give you recommendations. Download the ones you can find at soulseek and rate them, after rating them open the link at 4 and do it again as much as wanted. If link 3 dont give you recommendation, open link 2 and rate stuff you receive, until link 3 give you recommendations you can find at soulseek.
3.1.1- Try to not RATE stuff you already know, wont give the entire detail it to not create a HUGE text, but try to not do it, if you DO it, counterbalance by rating alot of albums from link 2.
4-Find some song from some artist you like at youtube. Click at some recommendation from an artist you don't know or click the least famous one. If you don't know the song try it (unless you already know the artist suck). Do this again, but now using this video you watched, and then do it again, and again....
how do I get energy?
I feel privileged to be born into the 21st century with all this past knowledge, freedom and technology yet I waste my life away because I am constantly tired and even things I enjoy intellectually don't give me any physically felt pleasure
You get energy by not being overworked. good luck with that in today's world. Oh and that anon was lying
You also get energy by not being a fat ass and sleeping properly. 90% do neither
It might seem counterintuitive, but to get energy you first need to spend it. Doing exercise will give you energy, because your body will have to adapt and manage the new needs.
There is no such thing as "first I will get the energy, then spend it", you need to do some sort of cardio, preferably high intensity, and resistance training of some sort, or join a sport like any martial art which has a lot of benefits.
When it comes to food I will avoid giving too many advice because it's highly dependent of you and your specific needs, but generally you want to avoid spiking your insulin too much with eating too many carbs at once, you probably have a deficit in essential micronutrients (like most people in the developed world), get a full blood check if you can afford it and get your vitamins in check (through natural food instead of complements, preferably).
Don't neglect intellectual work, read classic books, avoid dopamine dispensers, join a book club if you must.
Also don't forget to get some sun every day.
There are plenty of ways not to get overworked, if you can't figure this out in today's world you have a IQ below 100, which is fine, but don't project on me.
i have an iq of 9 million
>This is why they would rather live in filth than lift a finger to pick up after themselves, why only a man could conceive of something as horrifying as the gooncave.
Don't give me that, I've seen enough women's bedrooms to know that's bullshit
>I've seen enough women's bedrooms-
well then you probably haven't seen a gooncave. bless your normie heart
How many gooncaves have you visited? I understand gooners gather together to jerk off in groups.
>>This is why they would rather live in filth than lift a finger to pick up after themselves, why only a man could conceive of something as horrifying as the gooncave.
Wrong, its just that only 15% of woman have spontaneous desire while 75% of man have it.
>keto enthusiasts
lmfao
>dude if you're not le extrovert you're suicidal!
that's not how it works
>If you're a boring, low-energy drone, your life will be miserable.
Literally me. But I've always been this way so I don't blame anyone but myself, at least I am self aware of my relative uselessness. I just stopped caring and life got better
I'm a boring low energy drone I couldn't be more content with life
how are you able to recognize that you're boring low energy drone but be happy? i am the same but its driven me to the point of suicide.
because you learn to focus on the things in life that make you happy instead of dwelling on your perceived flaws.
what the other anon said. but first you gotta accept that that's who you are, otherwise you'll always feel shitty.
I was diagnosed with a congenital heart problem that I never even fully realized I had until my 30s and went to the ER over it
20s are objectively way better simply because the likelihood of something being physically wrong with you are way lower
> pic related
Do you have anymore harsh truths like that?
Not really, but if you liked it you should read Dostoyevsky or Camus, there are plenty of authors to get harsh truths from.
I feel like this but now I think it's an unearned sense of pride. I feel like I let myself down implying I had potential for something amazing. But the truth is I am not important. No matter what imaginary thing I would have achieved the world can live without it. This might sound grim at first but not treating yourself as a tragic main character is the first step to move on from regret and approach life with more humility.
cut yourself some slack and be your own best friend. that being said one person can make the world better, the cure for polio was discovered by one scientist who did not give p.
that's not a harsh truth, my friend. It's hole.jpg
uhh picel is kinda cope.
it has been proven that some women are into psychopath/sociopath aka criminal types and not because of "le energy", but because of how "dangerous" they are and their masculinity.
Yeah, this is yet another case of people putting the cart before the horse. Men with "high energy" don't have it because they're better people, they have it because they have a lifetime of positive experiences to shape their worldview. If you're a Cinemaphile incel, you don't have that and that's what matters.
Really, it all comes down to genetics and hormones.
image is broadly true tbh
worth noting that it's not an exclusively male trait, and than men find inactive women repulsive too
How profound. Internet buzzwords, armchair psychology and no actual definition of what "energy" is.
Yeah that picture is cope. Women want top 1 percent of men. Overwhelming evidence of this. If you are 6'5 and rich you don't need energy.
Ok? All of this is predetermined anyways, why would I fret about not being 6'5 if it's literally impossible?
The reality is that either you do or you don't "get it." The seething replies here clearly don't get it, and they never will, so it's kind of pointless wasting breath on them.
I hate this website, every board is /LULZ/.
There's no point in wanting to be happy.
Try being a 28 year old NEET virgin who hasn't had a friend since he was 15.
Go skydiving. Just do it, trust me. It's not that expensive, takes one afternoon.
not him, but I did that last summer and it really doesn't change anything.
>he pulled the cord
you did it wrong
And I loved deeper, and I spoke sweeter, and I gave forgiveness I'd been denying
Yeah, but you're still a frogtard who doesn't end sentences properly. No one will ever respect or love you.
I remember when frogs being mainstream normy, but in a post-normy mainstream IB culture world- I came to accept the frog.
same only I am 32
I hate myself for wasting my life but at the same time idk what I could have realistically done
after all it's not like you can force the right thoughts inside your head.
its not too late silly, you have plenty of time to do things you want to do. dont stop yourself before you even start. you can have smaller life goals that better you and make you feel good about yourself, its not over yet dork
Go away shill bot. You frog posters are all chatBOTs, we know.
Yes, I'm 41 and I barely survived my 30s. You start noticing how pointless life really is and how rigged the system really is, but you can't have a nice day because it'll break your parents heart, so you have to keep slogging through life until they both die and you can finally escape the shitshow.
>It's not gonna be born old?
Man, prime Peep Show was absolute keeknow
I've been trying to self suck recently I can just put my foreskin in my mouth now never give up.
Find a meaningful hobby and stick to your principles. I play amateur aussie rules footy and refuse to settle for plain looking women who show interest. I am better than all those losers raising children with some ugly 5/10.
If your life is getting worse in your 30s you are doing something seriously wrong. I have more success, money, less stress, am healthier than ever and have far fewer "dickheads" in my life than in my 20s.
I know a guy who was a 35yo kissless virgin when he married. At 45 he divorced and ran away with a 30yo girl. Another that lived the streets for 7 years, now he is a teacher, great guy. I know a guy that was working dead end jobs his whole life, then at 60 he published his first book and at 65 he became a local writer celebrity. Life is not linear, bros. I'm 36 and when I was a teenager I was miserable fat kid who got bullied all the time, at 23 I was a happy guy, started dating, graduated, but when I was 28 I felt like the worst shit in the world, depressed, lonely, awful job, dreams shattered, addicted. I wondered if that was it for me. At 33 I was much happier and healthier, but struggling with money, a problem I didn't have before. Now I'm okay, I'd say I'm as happy today as I am when I was 23.Your 40s may suck, but your 50s may be incredible. A decade of misery sounds like endless misery, but it isn't, it's a decade. If you're going through hell, keep going. I know it's hard to imagine that much ahead, but the time will pass anyway.
Sounds good, also sounds like you're wasted on this shit site, if you leave so will I
No. Life is actually very long and you always have the time to turn it all around.
No.
>asking Cinemaphile for life advice.
>mfw Mark has a better life than me
Yep, he has property, at least and Is "divorced", which Is seen better than "never married" in society
Those kids have no idea whatsoever of what went on at Stalingrad
If I was wageslaving and single and had to have a roommate to make it at 31 yes I'd be miserable.
you're not waging anymore?
Life is good as long as you stay in shape, have money, have a couple of good friends, and avoid shitty women. If you pull that off, the only major issues in life as you get older are the unfortunate realities of loved ones passing away. Get money, get in shape, get some good friends, and don’t let women enter your life and ruin things. The better of a life you have, the more will try to be a part of it and wreck it. If you hate them appropriately, you’ll find the exceptions. It’s really this simple.
Somewhat accurate
You would get more energy and health if you slept more. Bodybuilders peak in late 30s
if you parents have elderly friends do your best and go above and beyond to be friends with them. help them out and spend time with them, sometimes just your presence can be a kindness that is invaluable and your spirit will be nourished that you did your best helping another in need. a hello even a hug is worth all the treasure in a lifetime.
At 21 all the girls were in love with me but I was a sperg
At 35, my hairline is finally giving up and I've put on weight
I'm pretty depressed but I've got a great big awesome family and I've been in big boy management for 10 years so it's not a total failure to Launch
It sucks.
30 is when the decline begins
You notice that you don't have as much energy as you did in your 20's
Injuries last longer
Aches and pains become more frequent
You realize this is the beginning and it's all downhill from here
You immediately start thinking about how you wasted your 20's
>30 is when the decline begins
only if you completely ignored your health for three decades, otherwise 30s is when you get the second breath
>I have never worked out in my life
>I still eat like a teenager hopped up on hormones.
>Muh aches, muh pains.
Lift up a dumbell chud. Thank me later.
37 here. It varies between individuals. A big deal that people don't talk about is basic brain chemistry; some people are just more prone to being sad. Personally, I feel happy or content most of the time. I have a decent job, I have family and friends that I love, I have hobbies that I genuinely enjoy. I also feel that I have genuine appreciation for simple things.
It's more about the attitude you have towards everything and accepting who you are and where you are in life than it is having money or whatever else.
I'm practically at the top of my career, have a wife and a expecting a kid at 32. These guys were just gays who didn't apply themselves.
thr duality
Some people are in the exact spot than you but still miserable. They see it all as a prison I guess.
My dad was bald at 20 and lived the most fulfilling and happy life I know of. Good friend has the prettiest hair I know at 35 and is miserable.
I'd say balding in your 30s is even less dangerous for your happiness and self respect than at 20.
no one's miserable when their first kid is on the way. maybe half a decade down the road
I think the worst is the loss of potential. In early 20s it felt like theoretically I could achieve anything I wanted if I started now. Now with 30 I know I never had the potential after all and am a loser.
man of la mancha and gattaca recommended watches for you ailment.
No, if you keep your head of hair it's fantastic.
I'm in my 30s and the worst part has been everyone else starts to suck even if you yourself make an effort not to
im in my 30s, no different than teens or 20s for me.
I spent my 20s raising kids and working
Now spending my 30s doing the same but with enough money to have a house and go on 4 day piss ups on stag dos or music festivals
it's the same as being in your 20s except you're less stupid. only towards the end of the 30s you wake up and realize that you're part of the parent generation now and less like a big brother
I'm 32 and I've had more fun in the last 2 years than in the entirety of my 20s. Lost my virginity at 31 and have been banging girls in their 20s pretty much nonstop ever since. Have made a lot of friends and go out pretty much every weekend. I had to turn down like 3 invitations to parties this weekend just so that I could neet it up and play the elden ring DLC for the next two days nonstop. It's been fun.
you've got about 6 years before
Absolutely true, and I okay with that. It already feels that way in many respects, people in their early twenties come to me for advice like I'm some kind of God
>I'm 32 and I've had more fun in the last 2 years than in the entirety of my 20s
what was the change?
not that anon but he has probably graduated and has a relatively good job
his smv has gone up, women young and old chase stable men
a young man has nothing (except if he's a chad)
I had fun in my youth unlike you losers so I don't mind getting older. The only thing is I'm balding at 32
what was fun about your youth
Partying,drinking,underage sex drugs
you can still do that. just hop on fin or get a hair transplant and keep your chin up
nah, it's different when you're 17. there's a thrill to drinking when it's "taboo" and illegal, and there's no other time in your life where you can get away with plowing nubile 14-15 year old teens.
I would kill myself if:
I was still posting here in my 30s/40s
I was bald/balding before 40
>I was still posting here in my 30s/40s
95% of this board is 30+
sure thing grandpa
This is a millennial site zoom zoom, go back
it's not. most people grow out of their edgelord contrarian Cinemaphile phase and then the next generation takes over
Nah, you're here forever
Okay see you in 5 years. Remember you're here forever
>he doesn't know
yea we all said that 15 years ago when we found Cinemaphile, and we're still here.
How do guys sleep with women who don't look like instathots or swimsuit models? I have visible six pack abs and obliques, that makes me objectively superior to literally every pro athlete and olympian on this planet. I feel legitimately offended when some plain jane piece of crap shows interest.
I'm a pedophobe to be honest.
yeah so are 99.998% of people on earth bud
32 and already started getting grey hairs in my beard
Try 22
do u think that makes men less attractive
idk how I could have given up so early. did nothing in my 20s but browse imageboards and play video games. now I got the desire to live life but I am weighted down by lack of money, skills and health problems from a decade of bad posture, no exercise and bad diet. why could I not have been one of those people who from early age had a productive mindset?
>live life
wtf does that mean? if you mean travel and frick roasties then you're better off without it
gaining knowledge, skills, experience, having some kind of positive impact...
18 year olds have more life experience and skills than me
same
I'm thirty next year, and I'm only just starting to think that I want to go out and have a life away from my pc
But I have no friends, no social skills, and a weak body from a decade of binge drinking and idleness. I have money, but I don't even know where to spend it. You can't buy a social life
I'm 39, my 30s blew by so fast I didn't have time to think about it really. I was mostly busy with work I guess. Was planning to reflect on life later like when I'm 40
One big lesson of civilization is that life has seasons, a beginning and an end. You have to navigate this timeline in way that's realistic and serene. Focusing on age too much is pointless
I remember hearing something like
> The first thing they do in hell is to introduce you to the person you could have been
I find it motivating but maybe for someone else it's the opposite.
I see a lot of complaints in this thread about your bodies and you can make really good transformations in one year and you'll start getting compliments in a couple of months. It's not going to solve everything in your life but it's such a nonissue as long as you actually start and stick with it. It's definitely not too late but don't use that as an excuse to start next month.
>> The first thing they do in hell is to introduce you to the person you could have been
I've heard this before but it sounds naive to me now. I don't think you have true freedom over yourself. It's cruel how on top of having to suffer from the physical consequences of being a loser you also get the mental torture of regret and shame.
No one knows wtf your talking about shill bot. Good god I hate how you guys post threads like this with no context or telling us what show you speak of. Are you all literally low iq austic people or are these just made by AI chat bots. Its one or the other.
worse then better then inconceivably worse on every level
im not more miserable or happy than i was in my 20s or teens
the older i get the less i care about everything
Turning 40 in november and I always assumed I would have some midlife crisis but surprisingly at peace because I've been freaking out about my age forever so I've always been living in a crisis.
If it's always a crisis then it's never a crisis.
Not as miserable as being a mentally ill incel in your 20s.
>not wanting to pollute the internet with more whining I search for "wasted my life" to see how other people deal with this feeling
>9/10 posts are from people between 18-25
at that age it can be if you're mentally ill and keep self sabotaging. the decades will go by very fast
If you live your life the right way, of course it's not. Most normal people in their 30s are married possibly with children, have a good career and finances, have a home, go to the gym, have some friends and actiities they enjoy doing, go traveling.
Imagine actually believing this.
I learned that when I see statements like that it's because those outside are counted mostly as "not people".
It's what happens when you have a bunch of people who misconstrue the things they take for granted in life as general skill/competency and use it to build a bubbles of self-aggrandizing delusion around themselves.
Yes
No.
Things actually get better but you will let go of most of your delusions hopefully so it may become less exciting.
Ultimately if you have any sense you would avoid these two. Mark has absolutely no spine or beliefs and Jeremy is pure Id, like an animal. The show wws good fun up until and including the Dobby arc but with zero redemption or character development it's a law of diminishing returns.
> I heard a podcaster make fun of people with an email job and I don't have a house with playmates and 2 pools should I kill myself?
I have one of the most pathetic lives on here in my 30s (32 to be exact). Kissless virgin, no friends, live with my parents and we don't even get along, no career. I don't drive a car. A few active hobbies I do, and they're sort of enjoyable, but more they are just activities to waste my time. All this is made worse by living in one of the most beautiful, expensive, and successful regions of the world, of which I have experienced none of it.
It's really difficult to put into words how miserable and depressing my life is. I honestly just laugh sometimes, when I'm not crying, when I think about how truly wasted my entire life has been. Obviously it's all my fault, and if you look at my life you'll say how I never did anything to try to better myself so of course I was going to end up like this. But I am so far behind everyone else that I don't even see a point anymore. All I think about 24/7 is suicide.
Being in your 30s isn't destined to be depressing and miserable if you lived your life the right way. If you acted normal socially so you have lots of social experienced, friends, relationship, if you did well in your working life and career and feel some purpose and financial steadiness, kept up your fitness, found activities you enjoy, life in your 30s can actually be just the beginning of decades of great life. But if you fricked up everything in your teens and 20s like I did, that 30 milestone becomes the most debilitating thing to your existence.
you're going to be saying the same thing about your 30s in your 40s and 50s that your saying about your 20s and 10s right now. how about you just break the loop and get outside your comfort zone. your "problems" are all in your head. the past doesn't exist anymore, focus on what you can do today.
It's much easier said than done to say to just forget about the past.
NTA but he is right. My situation has improved a lot since the beginning of the year (I'm 30 btw). Was having suicidal thoughts all the time and mental issues whereby I couldn't concentrate at all. It got to the point where I was on the brink of losing my job. Luckily my manager was understanding when I said I'd been having mental health issues and we worked out a better way of working for me. So work has gone from dreadful to enjoyable. I also started BJJ again, so I have somewhere social and active to go to every day.
Materially, things are still about the same. Mentally however, I'm doing better. Not perfect, I still have some issues to work through, but better. It's a glass half full situation and you need to understand and believe that if you put in the work, you will FEEL different. You need to stop trusting your thoughts (which are actually just feelings) and judge yourself by your actions. Focus on what's immediately in front of you, would be my advice. Listening to some David Goggins might help you get up and get moving some
>Was having suicidal thoughts all the time and mental issues whereby I couldn't concentrate at all. It got to the point where I was on the brink of losing my job. Luckily my manager was understanding when I said I'd been having mental health issues and we worked out a better way of working for me
You are lucky to have understanding people. I've wasted my life at my worthless job and for quite a while now I no longer speak to anyone, I look miserable 24/7 because I am, I stare at the floor, I want to kill myself every day, I am actively trying to get laid off/fired doing nothing, no one cares. I don't have the confidence to look for anything else, and I despise myself.
>Is being in your 30s really as miserable and depressing as this show makes it out
It's worse. Far worse. Peep Show is aspirational escapism as far as I'm concerned.
Something you absolutely can do is chain wins, set achievable goals and work on them then work on new ones but prove to yourself you can improve your situation. I don't want to get too religious because usually that turns conversations in directions I don't care about but something very positive people with faith do is spending some time giving thanks for things they do have in their lives. Even if you have made the most of the opportunities given to you, even if you haven't earned all you have, it's easy to take for granted and discount what's working in your life.
Life is what YOU make it!
Stop mentally conforming to this idea of what your life is meant to be based on, social norms, memes, the country you live in, how much money you have, your age! Many on Cinemaphile speak like NPC cattle.
>have no friends to motivate me
>have no girlfriend or wife to motivate me
>have no kids to motivate me
>have no parents to motivate me (I live with them but they don't care about my wasted life)
>there's no goals I want to reach to motivate me
yeah for people like me with no purpose in life, the 30s are miserable. but there are plenty of people who have reasons to get up in the morning.
sounds like none of these things will help you anyway. if you look for external things for motivation you'll never be truly happy. find some genuine interests in life
EVERYONE HERE NEEDS TO WTCH THIS! IT WILL HELP!
You're putting too much responsibility on other people.
I know lots of guys who fixed their life in their 30s. Shit, I know a guy who was mostly a NEET (some shitty jobs from time to time) until his early 50s when he finally found something he liked doing and is now well off. My friend knows another guy in his 50s who had a law degree but frickin hated his job and changed careers to something completely different.
It's never too late to fix your life, those who claim it's over after a certain age just want you to be as miserable as them.
I just can't trust myself if I am not inherently smart and needed advice from others and get punished by life first before deciding to change. Just feel like I am going to frick up again or eventually relapse.
how the frick did you know a guy who was neet until his 50s
I know a NEET in his 60s and he has 2 kids. He also probably has no idea what a NEET is.
From work
I quit my studies 7 years ago and have being working as a mail man ever since, I now have a lot of things I wanted (personal belonings and such) but I feel like will never find somebody to love, a house I want (let alone afford), a job I really want (I just don't know what direction to look for) and I have lost quite some hair on the front. I am sure there are those who would say: Why don't you go and meet new people? Why don't you get a new hobby? Thing is I can't stand how most people look these days, I'm at the point that I am almost getting physsically ill/angry just having to gaze at them in my view, all those fricking homosexuals with their ugly beards and bald heads some with glasses, the nigs, the sandnigs, and so fricking many of them so goddamn fat (this isn't even America), most people hardly seem to care for anything and only talk about the stupidest gossip nonsense or football. And the young zoomer homosexuals and alphies always talk so annoying since godforbid they could try to concentrate for more than 8 seconds.
Money is what I struggle with and where I feel my bad choices really did a good amount of irreparable damage. I can still have a future but owning a house without debt is going to take a fricking while.
I just wish I knew what direction I want to go into, I have just no idea
It actually really doesn't matter. Just pick one and go. You willmby dint of meeting people and encountering opportunity end up elsewhere. Doing nothing is just dying slowly. See something through to completion, then try something else. But always finish it and on a good note.
always hated that beady eyed c**t staring directly at the camera
How to unfrick my finances?
Do you have a job, sir?
Yes, 1600€/month sounds slow. I'm guessing the solution is poker, this is the most sensible course of action.
The solution is to sell drugs or start pimping.
based.
>Met ex at 17
>Got married at 21
>She realized she had missed out of her "party girl" phase, so she fricked a coworker on a girls-out night
>Divorced at 31
35 today, haven't found a woman I really want to be in relationship with, and the dating scene has really fricking changed in that decade I was out of the game.
I make enough money to live comfortably, got my own house, spend my time hiking, shit posting, lifting, gaming, cooking and simply just being peaceful without the drama women bring into your life.
>I make enough money to live comfortably, got my own house, spend my time hiking, shit posting, lifting, gaming, cooking and simply just being peaceful without the drama women bring into your life.
wheres the friends?
We're his friends, anon.
Got like three mates I'm really close with.
But the rest I lost in the divorce. Basically all of them were a case of their wifes/girlfriends taking my ex's side, and now they weren't allowed to talk/hang out with me anymore.
Funny how you see who your true friends are in such life crisis.
I can see the blessing, there are friends I want to keep in touch with, but others are repugnant worms that would backstab me for a nickel and personally at this point I consider them friends of friends instead of friends and there's no way to get rid of them.
That too.
I found my early 30's to be a really nice balance of career/money and health. I had the option of dating 20-somethings and they were impressed by stuff like my condo. You don't have to drive junky cars or have roommates anymore. Your T has been reduced a bit so you're more clear-headed but you still have energy.
Late 30's is depressing as hell without a family though. It's like 20-somethings are a different culture/language or something and I'm always violating some unwritten rule. The idea of 30-something single women having nice personalities and being willing to compromise/settle is a myth. I see tons of fit guys with money dating single moms and landwhales. Some of my friends are on the verge of death.
That's the problem with the "just find a less experienced partner" talk. Even if you do the culture will make them feel like they missed out.
congratulations your entire world view of success is based on money.
>dating single moms and landwhales
I have so much trouble dealing with this. You have these screeching harpies with kids and are clearly on drugs and they still have requirements, like don't message me if you don't clear 500K a year. I know that exists and I know they get attention and it always blows my mind.
I don't even bother. Monk-mode it is.
>not married in his 30s
>balance of career/money
>wow women are so impressed by my stuff and my condo
>fit guys with money dating landwhales
beta provider. try offering something to anyone except your income and material goods.
Honestly being a kid is only good because how naive you are before you discover how shitty everything is