yes, people used to be raised in communities that shared their culture, they would learn how to get along with people, they would not be dropped in a high school with wannabe gangsta dipshits they have nothing in common with and end up totally socially ostracized, your crippling loneliness is not normal, it is a recent thing and the result of deliberate social engineering projects designed to take advantage of certain human instincts most normies never introspect or try to understand, they just go along with whatever mass media brainwashes them into doing
I moved from Russia to the US when I was 6, entered school when I was about 9. We lived in poor ghetto Jersey City. I was one of very few pale-skinned kids at my school, most kids were black or hispanic. I started making friends like a year after I got there. Never had problems with loneliness, although I did have some problems with people trying to physically assault me. But not with making friends.
Continued...
Actually in a way it's maybe easier than ever to make friends. Say what you will about all the progressive propaganda, and sure in many ways it's wrong, but I think it does help people from different backgrounds to not automatically distrust each other. Sometimes even if they probably should.
Yep. Here are stats on how lonely America is
https://highlyrespected.substack.com/p/the-loneliness-of-freedom
But it's not just America, the whole West is like that
Questionnaire for anons.
Have you ever >gone to a house party >got drunk >danced >hugged a girl >held a girl's hand >kissed a girl >had sex >not felt suicidal
>gone to a house party
Once when I was 14 >got drunk
Yeah >danced
no >hugged a girl
Yeah >held a girl's hand
no >kissed a girl
Yeah >had sex
Yeah >not felt suicidal
Yeah
>gone to a house party
yes >got drunk
yes >danced
yes >hugged a girl
yes >held a girl's hand
yes >kissed a girl
yes >had sex
yes >not felt suicidal
before all of the above excluding but not limited to the latter
>>gone to a house party
yes, several ( long time ago) >>got drunk
Every day!
not in 25 years or so
a girl
Girls started hugging as a greeting instead of shaking hands/high fiving in the early 2000s, so yes >>held a girl's hand
lol nope
a girl
lol nope >>had sex
no way fag >>not felt suicidal
I used to have good days a few years back
While making out with her, start touching her in places other than her lips. Maybe not if you're still in the middle of a crowd of people, depending on the crowd, and depending on if you think she would feel awkward about that. Suggest to her that you and her go somewhere else where it's more private.
If she is acting turned on enough (making sex noises, writhing around, touching you on your junk, etc) then yeah why not. But generally I would say it's safer to try to more gradually ramp up to that. Try to tease her by doing stuff like running your fingertips up and down her body slowly, moving them closer to her crotch and then further away, stuff like that - try to get her really turned on - and while you're doing that stuff also try to slowly peel her clothes off if she lets you, starting with her shirt.
I've also had it happen that we started fucking immediately after getting into a private space, but I am suggesting the above as a more gradual, safer approach.
And of course always make sure that you have a "take it or leave it" mentality about what is happening, never get so focused on absolutely needing to have sex with her that you do dumb shit like trying to beg her or even worse, coerce her. I know you probably wouldn't anyway, but some guys out there are complete dumbasses.
keep giving her spirits until she blacks out, then take off her clothes and fuck her.
if she was willing to kiss you, she was willing to go further, so just take that as a given.
good luck bro, enjoy.
haha
I know the feeling. but they do, and when you stop doing them, they become absolutely surreal again.
what are your obstacles, some might be surmountable
hahaha
have to find something you like in life man.
if it isn't where you've been so far, or in what you've been doing, you have to drop comfort and familiarity and try new things that scare you.
don't have to be grand things, just the small societal fears that make you feel panic at the idea of doing.
do them, and often they aren't what you'd thought they were. isn't easy, but it is worthwhile
I’ve perpetually lived outside my comfort zone, I’ve tried harder than anyone should have to. And all throughout I’ve watched quiet, shy dorks go have fun with their friends and land amazing girlfriends. Who care about them and love them for who they are. I’m fucking tired of trying goddamnit. The only thing that is 100% under my control is my skill at guitar playing. I can’t make more money because people won’t let me, I can’t meet friends because people won’t let me, I can’t meet a nice girl because people won’t let me. I’m a freak and an outcast. I should be home 24/7 collecting disability because I ACTUALLY have autism, for real. And yet I’ve worked so hard to try and overcome it. I’m close, so close to ending it. I dream about it every day. One day I’ll have legitimately had enough. Boy I can’t wait, I can’t fucking wait.
can you play guitar in front of people, have you tried?
it becomes easier, and then after a while you can play in front of more, then you stop thinking about it.
if you can do that, you could either join or start a band, or go to play on your own at open mic nights at bars.
do that regularly enough and you'll become a fixture. girls will come up to you to talk to you, you then have to look for signs they are interested and keep a conversation.
the key to meeting girls is by regularly going to the same thing, in the same place where there are people around your age.
it builds familiarity, and conversation develops.
How am I supposed to "socialize" when I don't relate to most people and find them fucking boring?
Most people my age have no personality besides drinking, social media, and casual sex
>What are bars and nightclubs
What do you do there exactly? >>What are hobby groups (board games like D&D)
I can't concentrate well enough to play those >>What are team sports/martial arts
Not for me
musical instrument, orchestra, choir
drama, theatre, writing group, book club
hiking, walking, nature stuff
drawing, painting, sculpting class
foreign language class/group/meeting
volunteering
studying something new
finding a social job where you have to deal with people
>musical instrument, orchestra, choir
I have no musical talent so pass >writing group, book club >walking >drawing, painting, >foreign language class/group/meeting >volunteering >studying something new >finding a social job where you have to deal with people
I've done these and I never met anyone. I don't know how you're supposed to befriend people, let alone date them. If I ask to hang out with them I get paranoid I'm being too pushy and bothering them
2 months ago
Anonymous
you've done all of those?
how long did you stick with each one?
If you go to one for 6 months, every week at the same time, you should be able to talk with someone.
hi, how are you, how long have you done this for, I'm just starting, what do I do now?
after some weeks of it, or months, having spoken with people enough, say you're going for a drink/something to eat, and invite them along.
if they say no, go anyway eat/drink and then if they ask next time you can say it was pretty good.
helps if it is an interesting place to eat or drink or if there is something else on.
2 months ago
Anonymous
But I'm scared of talking to women. Dating feels kinda predatory or manipulative because as a man you can't just bluntly state "I wanna fuck you" to a woman you just met, no, you have to perform these intricate rituals of small talk, inviting her to coffee, going on dates, etc., and this really feels off and artificial, I just don't know how to do it
2 months ago
Anonymous
Also I'm scared she'll find me bothersome and tell all of her friends that I'm a creep or something
2 months ago
Anonymous
if she does so what. just tell whoever told you that she smelled like she had a bad yeast infection and you accidently told her.
2 months ago
Anonymous
sound advice
2 months ago
Anonymous
go through the motions man, but the key factor is to put out of your mind that you are aiming for the end goal of fucking her or her being your girlfriend, and let that just happen or not happen in the background.
maybe your father wasnt around or your mother had too big an influence, or tv made you think too much about this, especially from the female perspective.
have to drop all that and just keep doing it until it feels natural.
smalltalk feels pointless and forced, but it is what leads to deeper conversations.
same with going for a drink, chat, walk, doing stuff together. it is time spent that let's you learn the other person and brings you closer.
big part of any relationship is sharing - share stories, experiences, open up little by little.ask her about herself, when she shares, you share in roughly equal amount.
back and forth like that.
it will feel more natural and automatic with time.
i think a lot feels hard for some of us because we didn't do it at young ages when we're not really thinking. so we are new to it as adults, and a bit too conscious of it all.
can go through it though
>What are bars and nightclubs
What do you do there exactly? >>What are hobby groups (board games like D&D)
I can't concentrate well enough to play those >>What are team sports/martial arts
Not for me
Yeah most people go to bars with THEIR friends anyways, they don't have the intention of meeting new people
I go to bars all the time and I never met anyone there. What are you even supposed to do? Barge into strangers' conversations and ask to join?
As for nightclubs, I've never been there and don't know what happens there
try actively invading people's conversations and being a bit rude or brash.
if you overhear something, respond to it like a retard.
some girls talking about a film they saw, interrupt and say your opinion, or ask them a question about it.
it's either that or continued isolation.
do that enough times and you'll become good at it, and feel comfortable doing it - you won't even think twice.
and you'll never once give me credit for having told you to do it, or thank me retrospecitvely
I get what you're saying, but it just seems to unnatural and forced
Do normies do stuff like that? Just butt into random conversations and talk to strangers out of the blue?
2 months ago
Anonymous
I've never seen anyone do it except eccentric/mentally ill old people
2 months ago
Anonymous
maybe they kept their friend group from school, I don't know man. but I do know if you are outside of it all and starting from scratch again, you have to find a way in and if opportunities aren't presenting themselves, you have to make them.
i had to learn all this the hard way, so I'm passing on what I've learned to you guys to hopefully spare you more wasted years.
i do know that this kind of chatting with strangers and joining conversations used to happen a lot more, so it isn't so unnatural, it is just a bit forgotten.
some might respond in a short way with you, or say thanks bye - let it be like water off a duck's back, smile and say see you and go elsewhere in the bar or just enjoy your own or other company.
if you keep your cool, people notice and also you feel more comfortable, don't over think it and also enjoy the experience more.
some might respond well, you smalltalk for a bit, questions develop you have something in common and you have a good chat.
sometimes you meet those people again, or exchange numbers.
if you just enjoy it, you'll do better, they see you have no alterior motive and are just chatting.
have to actively seek out things to do and other human beans after school is done.
no one tells you this, so you languish.
no one told me, so I spent over a decade in isolation until I figured it out for myself.
none of it is easy, but you have to put into your mind that there is no alternative - no one is coming to save you, you have to treat it like you are stuck on a desert island and have to "find food/shelter/make a fire/keep yourself warm and dry" all yourself.
in this case it is pushing yourself to look for things to do and doing them.
i went through the same feelings for years, "where are all the people?" was a really demoralising feeling.
had I done something, almost anything and stuck with it, I would have met people and bettered my situation
join an activity and go very regularly for at least several months.
pick something you are or could be half interested in, that has people your own age - theoretically.
see what the mixture is like the first time, if there is a decent mix, keep going.
This is hilarious. What's your personality - being a frogposter? Nobody on this fucking site has a personality. They used to, but now it's entirely normalfags. Tell me what your personality is. If the answer is dumb then I'll filter the thread, like the rest of the board is filtered.
I'll wait 10 minutes from when I made this post if any of you two digit IQ NPCs wants to explain what your personality is and then I'll filter the thread. The truth is I can't tell any of you apart, because you don't have a personality.
I go with my gf to parties but I never enjoy it, can anyone explain to an autist how to enjoy parties? I would unironically rather just be doing my hobbies and that's all I think about the entire time, "when the fuck can we leave so I can get back to what I like doing?"
learn to dance, take classes if necessary and push out all thoughts of what other people might think of you.
dance to the music, find people to talk to and try to enjoy it. there isn't much to them really, but if you are enjoying any part of it, then your girlfriend will be happier because she wants you to enjoy things, the time will pass faster and they won't be such a big deal anymore.
You have to switch your brain away from focusing on those things toward enjoying talking to people.
The problem is, it's difficult to switch back, at least for me. I'll be fine on my own, go to a few parties, get used to socializing, and then if I'm not socializing I feel lonely, and have to slowly adjust myself back again.
They still do, that's why they're normies.
do normal fags actually enjoy life?
I think they do and frankly it disturbs me
yes, people used to be raised in communities that shared their culture, they would learn how to get along with people, they would not be dropped in a high school with wannabe gangsta dipshits they have nothing in common with and end up totally socially ostracized, your crippling loneliness is not normal, it is a recent thing and the result of deliberate social engineering projects designed to take advantage of certain human instincts most normies never introspect or try to understand, they just go along with whatever mass media brainwashes them into doing
I moved from Russia to the US when I was 6, entered school when I was about 9. We lived in poor ghetto Jersey City. I was one of very few pale-skinned kids at my school, most kids were black or hispanic. I started making friends like a year after I got there. Never had problems with loneliness, although I did have some problems with people trying to physically assault me. But not with making friends.
Continued...
Actually in a way it's maybe easier than ever to make friends. Say what you will about all the progressive propaganda, and sure in many ways it's wrong, but I think it does help people from different backgrounds to not automatically distrust each other. Sometimes even if they probably should.
>loneliness is not normal, it is a recent thing
True
Yep. Here are stats on how lonely America is
https://highlyrespected.substack.com/p/the-loneliness-of-freedom
But it's not just America, the whole West is like that
There is no word for loneliness in Middle English. They didn't know the concept. Really makes you think.
Despite what terminally online incels tell you, people still hang out in real life despite the existence of social media.
Questionnaire for anons.
Have you ever
>gone to a house party
>got drunk
>danced
>hugged a girl
>held a girl's hand
>kissed a girl
>had sex
>not felt suicidal
cells interlinked
>gone to a house party
No
>got drunk
Yes
>danced
Yes
>hugged a girl
Yes
>held a girl's hand
Yes
>kissed a girl
Yes
>had sex
Yes
>not felt suicidal
No
I did all those things during my late teenage years, but I'm still bitter and miserable today.
Good.
>>gone to a house party
Yes
>>got drunk
Yes
Tried to
a girl
Yes
>>held a girl's hand
In non-romantic contexts
a girl
No
>>had sex
No
>>not felt suicidal
Not really
>>gone to a house party
yes
>>got drunk
yes
no
a girl
no
>>held a girl's hand
no
a girl
no
>>had sex
no
>>not felt suicidal
no
y
y
y
y
--------- pit of loneliness
n
n
n
---------- hunger for life
y
Yes to all but 1 and 8
>gone to a house party
Once when I was 14
>got drunk
Yeah
>danced
no
>hugged a girl
Yeah
>held a girl's hand
no
>kissed a girl
Yeah
>had sex
Yeah
>not felt suicidal
Yeah
Yes to all. I was born in 83 but ever since 06 I have not done any of those things.
Did anything big happen in 06?
he left university, became a neet and lost contact with the world
>gone to a house party
yes
>got drunk
yes
>danced
yes
>hugged a girl
yes
>held a girl's hand
yes
>kissed a girl
yes
>had sex
yes
>not felt suicidal
before all of the above excluding but not limited to the latter
Yes to everything except for dancing, and not feeling suicidal
even in the best of times I was like "this is pretty neat I guess but what if instead I could sleep forever and not have any responsibilities?"
>>gone to a house party
yes, several ( long time ago)
>>got drunk
Every day!
not in 25 years or so
a girl
Girls started hugging as a greeting instead of shaking hands/high fiving in the early 2000s, so yes
>>held a girl's hand
lol nope
a girl
lol nope
>>had sex
no way fag
>>not felt suicidal
I used to have good days a few years back
Not bad. Noted
You just wanted to post a sexy 13 year old girl, didn't you.
Weirdo pedo
>post a sexy 13
hummm, yes, just post, yes..........
>calling 13 year olds sexy
What's with all the nonces on this board?
Sophie Marceau is GOAT
yes
we still had school dances into the 1990s, but then diversity attacked.
>gone to a house party
yes
>got drunk
yes
>danced
yes
>hugged a girl
yes
>held a girl's hand
yes
>kissed a girl
yes
>had sex
no
>not felt suicidal
yes
I have made out with like 5 girls. I do not know how to initiate sex. I think I have autism.
While making out with her, start touching her in places other than her lips. Maybe not if you're still in the middle of a crowd of people, depending on the crowd, and depending on if you think she would feel awkward about that. Suggest to her that you and her go somewhere else where it's more private.
I do that, am I supposed to just take my penis out or something?
If she is acting turned on enough (making sex noises, writhing around, touching you on your junk, etc) then yeah why not. But generally I would say it's safer to try to more gradually ramp up to that. Try to tease her by doing stuff like running your fingertips up and down her body slowly, moving them closer to her crotch and then further away, stuff like that - try to get her really turned on - and while you're doing that stuff also try to slowly peel her clothes off if she lets you, starting with her shirt.
I've also had it happen that we started fucking immediately after getting into a private space, but I am suggesting the above as a more gradual, safer approach.
And of course always make sure that you have a "take it or leave it" mentality about what is happening, never get so focused on absolutely needing to have sex with her that you do dumb shit like trying to beg her or even worse, coerce her. I know you probably wouldn't anyway, but some guys out there are complete dumbasses.
How the hell did you initiate kisses?
keep giving her spirits until she blacks out, then take off her clothes and fuck her.
if she was willing to kiss you, she was willing to go further, so just take that as a given.
good luck bro, enjoy.
is that jennifer lawrence?
Sophie Marceau in "La Boum"
>
>this is what boomers actually experienced
It's not fair bros
I actually can't believe these things happen in the real world and that people do them
haha
I know the feeling. but they do, and when you stop doing them, they become absolutely surreal again.
what are your obstacles, some might be surmountable
Why couldn’t I have just been stillborn. I hate being alive so much.
hahaha
have to find something you like in life man.
if it isn't where you've been so far, or in what you've been doing, you have to drop comfort and familiarity and try new things that scare you.
don't have to be grand things, just the small societal fears that make you feel panic at the idea of doing.
do them, and often they aren't what you'd thought they were. isn't easy, but it is worthwhile
I’ve perpetually lived outside my comfort zone, I’ve tried harder than anyone should have to. And all throughout I’ve watched quiet, shy dorks go have fun with their friends and land amazing girlfriends. Who care about them and love them for who they are. I’m fucking tired of trying goddamnit. The only thing that is 100% under my control is my skill at guitar playing. I can’t make more money because people won’t let me, I can’t meet friends because people won’t let me, I can’t meet a nice girl because people won’t let me. I’m a freak and an outcast. I should be home 24/7 collecting disability because I ACTUALLY have autism, for real. And yet I’ve worked so hard to try and overcome it. I’m close, so close to ending it. I dream about it every day. One day I’ll have legitimately had enough. Boy I can’t wait, I can’t fucking wait.
can you play guitar in front of people, have you tried?
it becomes easier, and then after a while you can play in front of more, then you stop thinking about it.
if you can do that, you could either join or start a band, or go to play on your own at open mic nights at bars.
do that regularly enough and you'll become a fixture. girls will come up to you to talk to you, you then have to look for signs they are interested and keep a conversation.
the key to meeting girls is by regularly going to the same thing, in the same place where there are people around your age.
it builds familiarity, and conversation develops.
we were blessed with bushes of pretty girls like her and cates. yeah, we are in the correct timeline
How am I supposed to "socialize" when I don't relate to most people and find them fucking boring?
Most people my age have no personality besides drinking, social media, and casual sex
Once you finish school it's basically countdown to suicide since you can't really meet new people anymore
>What are bars and nightclubs
>What are hobby groups (board games like D&D)
>What are team sports/martial arts
There are plenty of ways to meet people after you graduate, I don't know everyone acts like you just don't meet anyone after school
>What are bars and nightclubs
What do you do there exactly?
>>What are hobby groups (board games like D&D)
I can't concentrate well enough to play those
>>What are team sports/martial arts
Not for me
musical instrument, orchestra, choir
drama, theatre, writing group, book club
hiking, walking, nature stuff
drawing, painting, sculpting class
foreign language class/group/meeting
volunteering
studying something new
finding a social job where you have to deal with people
>musical instrument, orchestra, choir
I have no musical talent so pass
>writing group, book club
>walking
>drawing, painting,
>foreign language class/group/meeting
>volunteering
>studying something new
>finding a social job where you have to deal with people
I've done these and I never met anyone. I don't know how you're supposed to befriend people, let alone date them. If I ask to hang out with them I get paranoid I'm being too pushy and bothering them
you've done all of those?
how long did you stick with each one?
If you go to one for 6 months, every week at the same time, you should be able to talk with someone.
hi, how are you, how long have you done this for, I'm just starting, what do I do now?
after some weeks of it, or months, having spoken with people enough, say you're going for a drink/something to eat, and invite them along.
if they say no, go anyway eat/drink and then if they ask next time you can say it was pretty good.
helps if it is an interesting place to eat or drink or if there is something else on.
But I'm scared of talking to women. Dating feels kinda predatory or manipulative because as a man you can't just bluntly state "I wanna fuck you" to a woman you just met, no, you have to perform these intricate rituals of small talk, inviting her to coffee, going on dates, etc., and this really feels off and artificial, I just don't know how to do it
Also I'm scared she'll find me bothersome and tell all of her friends that I'm a creep or something
if she does so what. just tell whoever told you that she smelled like she had a bad yeast infection and you accidently told her.
sound advice
go through the motions man, but the key factor is to put out of your mind that you are aiming for the end goal of fucking her or her being your girlfriend, and let that just happen or not happen in the background.
maybe your father wasnt around or your mother had too big an influence, or tv made you think too much about this, especially from the female perspective.
have to drop all that and just keep doing it until it feels natural.
smalltalk feels pointless and forced, but it is what leads to deeper conversations.
same with going for a drink, chat, walk, doing stuff together. it is time spent that let's you learn the other person and brings you closer.
big part of any relationship is sharing - share stories, experiences, open up little by little.ask her about herself, when she shares, you share in roughly equal amount.
back and forth like that.
it will feel more natural and automatic with time.
i think a lot feels hard for some of us because we didn't do it at young ages when we're not really thinking. so we are new to it as adults, and a bit too conscious of it all.
can go through it though
Yeah most people go to bars with THEIR friends anyways, they don't have the intention of meeting new people
I go to bars all the time and I never met anyone there. What are you even supposed to do? Barge into strangers' conversations and ask to join?
As for nightclubs, I've never been there and don't know what happens there
try actively invading people's conversations and being a bit rude or brash.
if you overhear something, respond to it like a retard.
some girls talking about a film they saw, interrupt and say your opinion, or ask them a question about it.
it's either that or continued isolation.
do that enough times and you'll become good at it, and feel comfortable doing it - you won't even think twice.
and you'll never once give me credit for having told you to do it, or thank me retrospecitvely
I get what you're saying, but it just seems to unnatural and forced
Do normies do stuff like that? Just butt into random conversations and talk to strangers out of the blue?
I've never seen anyone do it except eccentric/mentally ill old people
maybe they kept their friend group from school, I don't know man. but I do know if you are outside of it all and starting from scratch again, you have to find a way in and if opportunities aren't presenting themselves, you have to make them.
i had to learn all this the hard way, so I'm passing on what I've learned to you guys to hopefully spare you more wasted years.
i do know that this kind of chatting with strangers and joining conversations used to happen a lot more, so it isn't so unnatural, it is just a bit forgotten.
some might respond in a short way with you, or say thanks bye - let it be like water off a duck's back, smile and say see you and go elsewhere in the bar or just enjoy your own or other company.
if you keep your cool, people notice and also you feel more comfortable, don't over think it and also enjoy the experience more.
some might respond well, you smalltalk for a bit, questions develop you have something in common and you have a good chat.
sometimes you meet those people again, or exchange numbers.
if you just enjoy it, you'll do better, they see you have no alterior motive and are just chatting.
have to actively seek out things to do and other human beans after school is done.
no one tells you this, so you languish.
no one told me, so I spent over a decade in isolation until I figured it out for myself.
none of it is easy, but you have to put into your mind that there is no alternative - no one is coming to save you, you have to treat it like you are stuck on a desert island and have to "find food/shelter/make a fire/keep yourself warm and dry" all yourself.
in this case it is pushing yourself to look for things to do and doing them.
i went through the same feelings for years, "where are all the people?" was a really demoralising feeling.
had I done something, almost anything and stuck with it, I would have met people and bettered my situation
join an activity and go very regularly for at least several months.
pick something you are or could be half interested in, that has people your own age - theoretically.
see what the mixture is like the first time, if there is a decent mix, keep going.
>Most people my age have no personality
This is hilarious. What's your personality - being a frogposter? Nobody on this fucking site has a personality. They used to, but now it's entirely normalfags. Tell me what your personality is. If the answer is dumb then I'll filter the thread, like the rest of the board is filtered.
I'll wait 10 minutes from when I made this post if any of you two digit IQ NPCs wants to explain what your personality is and then I'll filter the thread. The truth is I can't tell any of you apart, because you don't have a personality.
uh... i play video games and like watching anime and youtube...
I go with my gf to parties but I never enjoy it, can anyone explain to an autist how to enjoy parties? I would unironically rather just be doing my hobbies and that's all I think about the entire time, "when the fuck can we leave so I can get back to what I like doing?"
Normies don't enjoy parties either, you have to be drunk to actually enjoy it
learn to dance, take classes if necessary and push out all thoughts of what other people might think of you.
dance to the music, find people to talk to and try to enjoy it. there isn't much to them really, but if you are enjoying any part of it, then your girlfriend will be happier because she wants you to enjoy things, the time will pass faster and they won't be such a big deal anymore.
You have to switch your brain away from focusing on those things toward enjoying talking to people.
The problem is, it's difficult to switch back, at least for me. I'll be fine on my own, go to a few parties, get used to socializing, and then if I'm not socializing I feel lonely, and have to slowly adjust myself back again.
you do realize socializing isn't that difficult. if you can listen it's even easier. most people love talking about themselves.
it's simple shit
also I want to have so much sex with a woman like Sophie Marceau