because they dont have sex and thus fixate on it and wouldn't know it's importance or unimportance. why do you write posts like this without thinking about the question on your own for 5 seconds?
because they dont have sex and thus fixate on it and wouldn't know it's importance or unimportance. why do you write posts like this without thinking about the question on your own for 5 seconds?
>haha if I say stupid things people will believe I'm not the virgin here
Sex is like food or water.
Obviously as someone who eats and drinks regularly, you don't think twice about it. But if you're being deprived of it then it becomes a lot more significant
Very well put. I spent several years as an incel and was absolutely fricking miserable, starved for sex. Eventually I managed to work on my social skills enough to start having sex, and although it’s not everything in life, it’s an important piece, and now that I’m in a relationship, if there is a dry spell, I start feeling agitated. If I went back to not getting any I would not be a well-adjusted person.
It's always funny to me how people will say sex means nothing to incels, yet the number one insult towards men is calling them virgins/incels/down bad, etc
Reminds me of when rich people say "money does not bring happiness" yet you never see any of those motherfrickers give it away, "charity" work is to doge taxes and they never give enough away to have any meaningful impact on their life.
We live in a such a gay ass clown world, people cannot even be honest about such simple matters.
Very well put. I spent several years as an incel and was absolutely fricking miserable, starved for sex. Eventually I managed to work on my social skills enough to start having sex, and although it’s not everything in life, it’s an important piece, and now that I’m in a relationship, if there is a dry spell, I start feeling agitated. If I went back to not getting any I would not be a well-adjusted person.
I literally cannot fathom people thinking this way. Sex is not like food or water, it is not necessary at all. It is at best an unneeded luxury. Are people being serious when they say they can't function without sex? I simply can't believe it.
Impossible. I met the first cute smart and interesting girl in years and turned out she had a sex friend and didn't even bother cutting ties between our first and second date. There was no third date, I told her to frick off.
I don't even want to have sex anymore, I fricked 1-2 girls a week for 6 months straight after my last break up. Haven't seen a pussy in 3 months now nor do I want to see one.
I just want someone I could marry but there's not a single decent girl left in this shithole of a city.
>. I met the first cute smart and interesting girl in years and turned out she had a sex friend
haha I know this feel. Frick this world. Become a frickboy like the women love so much or just go full volcel.
I found out my long term gf was having sex with another guy for about the first month I thought we were dating. She was my first real gf in college so I simped and coped
not him, but there's literally not a single thing a therapist could tell me that I haven't already thought of myself. therapy is for unironic mental deficients who have never had an original thought in their lives
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Therapy is a vehicle to arrive at behaviorism, which us actually the useful methodology to practically apply psychological and neurological understanding.
Most people need therapy because they're cognitive process is compensating so much that they'll have a mental lapse if they confront some of the ideas and feeling they're concealing from themself.
>you are projecting your own internalized shame into his post
It is pretty clear in his post that he views "incels" as a separate, inferior class of human beings who possess a collective character flaw, rather than a natural byproduct of deteriorating gender relations.
alluded to, it's about the feeling of inferiority of not being able to get it.
I used to be really self-concious about being a virgin. Got a gf who comes from a conservative family and wants to wait til marriage for sex and despite still being a virgin I don't really care anymore. Obviously I still want it and sometimes it's frustrating but by and large cuddling and making out is more than enough.
Then again I'm still a virgin so take that with a grain of salt.
Something pretty corporate if I remember right. Financials or programming or something. He had a nice office in a nice highrise.
The film is about a brother and sister who were raped as children. The brother copes by being a workaholic pervert and the sister copes by being a lazy prostitute. It all makes sense when you have that bit of context but for whatever reason the director chose to make that key point ultra subtle.
checked and I literally forgot this plot point - I really need to rewatch it.
>FACIAL? WHAT THE FRICK ARE YOU A PSYCOPATH I DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT GODFORSAKEN CORNER OF EARTH WOULD CONCEIVE OF SUCH A THING
imagine if he saw my hard drive
The film is about a brother and sister who were raped as children. The brother copes by being a workaholic pervert and the sister copes by being a lazy prostitute. It all makes sense when you have that bit of context but for whatever reason the director chose to make that key point ultra subtle.
At one point the sister says "we're not bad people, we just come from a bad place" which I guess is supposed to be reveal that they are dealing with childhood sexual trauma. It's pretty ambiguous. If you google that one line you get loads of reviews mentioning that specific line and how vague the whole sexual assault angle is but I don't think the film makes much sense without that interpretation.
https://www.npr.org/2011/12/01/142899350/lives-of-paralyzing-shame-for-reasons-unexplained
>At one point the sister says "we're not bad people, we just come from a bad place" which I guess is supposed to be reveal that they are dealing with childhood sexual trauma. It's pretty ambiguous.
i don't think it's ambiguous. There's no other way to interpret that.
That might be the most likely meaning, but it could also refer to growing up in a degenerate society that worships premarital sex for pleasure and ridicules procreation. More in line with liberal thought patterns, it could refer to growing up in an oppressive religious environment that made sex taboo and resulted in a rebellion later on. It could just mean they were poor fricking losers who never got kissed until they grew up and got away.
>Guy goes out with his afro coworker >Get her in the bedroom >Can't get hard >She says it's okay >Awkwardly leaves >Still has to see him at work the next day
This was before MeToo, so she probably just asked for her two weeks and left. There's really no way of patching that up.
You have to ask yourself if you really want this, if you're really that desperate and if you're ever going to be able to forgive yourself for it. I could never frick a fatty, just imagine the smell and her red face from all the effort of actually moving.
Virgin anon thinks that sex fixes all your problems. I hope that you never have sex and live in your blissfull ignorance forever, and I'm saying it unironically.
Unironically the most relatable movie I've ever seen. I frick hookers all the time but I still feel lonely.
OH POOR YOU
Yes, feel bad for chad
>Chad paying for sex
>I frick hookers all the time
No you dont, pathetic lying b***h. You're really worthless.
imagine getting this insecure over someone paying for sex
Why don't incels understand that sex really isn't that important and you can still be depressed/lonely even if you're having it regularly?
because they dont have sex and thus fixate on it and wouldn't know it's importance or unimportance. why do you write posts like this without thinking about the question on your own for 5 seconds?
>haha if I say stupid things people will believe I'm not the virgin here
Getting sex isn't everything; not getting it is
Everyone who disagrees with you is an incel or chud right.
Sex is a basic need.
Sex is like food or water.
Obviously as someone who eats and drinks regularly, you don't think twice about it. But if you're being deprived of it then it becomes a lot more significant
Very well put. I spent several years as an incel and was absolutely fricking miserable, starved for sex. Eventually I managed to work on my social skills enough to start having sex, and although it’s not everything in life, it’s an important piece, and now that I’m in a relationship, if there is a dry spell, I start feeling agitated. If I went back to not getting any I would not be a well-adjusted person.
It's always funny to me how people will say sex means nothing to incels, yet the number one insult towards men is calling them virgins/incels/down bad, etc
Reminds me of when rich people say "money does not bring happiness" yet you never see any of those motherfrickers give it away, "charity" work is to doge taxes and they never give enough away to have any meaningful impact on their life.
We live in a such a gay ass clown world, people cannot even be honest about such simple matters.
I literally cannot fathom people thinking this way. Sex is not like food or water, it is not necessary at all. It is at best an unneeded luxury. Are people being serious when they say they can't function without sex? I simply can't believe it.
If they got that they wouldn't be incel.
He was still moronic. Forget the sex part, he could’ve easily gotten a girlfriend
Impossible. I met the first cute smart and interesting girl in years and turned out she had a sex friend and didn't even bother cutting ties between our first and second date. There was no third date, I told her to frick off.
I don't even want to have sex anymore, I fricked 1-2 girls a week for 6 months straight after my last break up. Haven't seen a pussy in 3 months now nor do I want to see one.
I just want someone I could marry but there's not a single decent girl left in this shithole of a city.
>. I met the first cute smart and interesting girl in years and turned out she had a sex friend
haha I know this feel. Frick this world. Become a frickboy like the women love so much or just go full volcel.
I found out my long term gf was having sex with another guy for about the first month I thought we were dating. She was my first real gf in college so I simped and coped
they understand, they just don't sympathize.
This is like saying money doesn't buy happiness. No, but it sure as frick makes it easier to find happiness.
Same thing with sex.
he says sex isn't important while shaming people for not having sex in the same sentence.
you are projecting your own internalized shame into his post. go to therapy. having sex will not fix your shame issues.
going to therapy wont fix it either
yes, it will.
not him, but there's literally not a single thing a therapist could tell me that I haven't already thought of myself. therapy is for unironic mental deficients who have never had an original thought in their lives
Therapy is a vehicle to arrive at behaviorism, which us actually the useful methodology to practically apply psychological and neurological understanding.
Most people need therapy because they're cognitive process is compensating so much that they'll have a mental lapse if they confront some of the ideas and feeling they're concealing from themself.
>you are projecting your own internalized shame into his post
It is pretty clear in his post that he views "incels" as a separate, inferior class of human beings who possess a collective character flaw, rather than a natural byproduct of deteriorating gender relations.
Like
alluded to, it's about the feeling of inferiority of not being able to get it.
I used to be really self-concious about being a virgin. Got a gf who comes from a conservative family and wants to wait til marriage for sex and despite still being a virgin I don't really care anymore. Obviously I still want it and sometimes it's frustrating but by and large cuddling and making out is more than enough.
Then again I'm still a virgin so take that with a grain of salt.
>Why don't starving people understand that food really isn't that important and you can still be hungry even if you're eating regularly?
>problems I wish I had
What did he even do for a living to support that lifestyle?
Something pretty corporate if I remember right. Financials or programming or something. He had a nice office in a nice highrise.
checked and I literally forgot this plot point - I really need to rewatch it.
Collecting vintage porn
>FACIAL? WHAT THE FRICK ARE YOU A PSYCOPATH I DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT GODFORSAKEN CORNER OF EARTH WOULD CONCEIVE OF SUCH A THING
imagine if he saw my hard drive
>mfw I only watch vintage
If anyone is curious, Marilyn Jess, Patricia Rhomberg, Chambers, etc
>Patricia Rhomberg
What's 'integration porn' ?
You don't want to know
t.I know
>AHHHHHHH I CAN'T FRICK MY SISTER I'M GOING FRICKING INSANE
The film is about a brother and sister who were raped as children. The brother copes by being a workaholic pervert and the sister copes by being a lazy prostitute. It all makes sense when you have that bit of context but for whatever reason the director chose to make that key point ultra subtle.
idk if you're a sex haver their sexual tension is pretty obvious in a couple scenes
Another symptom of being fricked as a child, they are fricked in the head.
What's the most clear unambiguous point in the movie where this is indicated?
At one point the sister says "we're not bad people, we just come from a bad place" which I guess is supposed to be reveal that they are dealing with childhood sexual trauma. It's pretty ambiguous. If you google that one line you get loads of reviews mentioning that specific line and how vague the whole sexual assault angle is but I don't think the film makes much sense without that interpretation.
https://www.npr.org/2011/12/01/142899350/lives-of-paralyzing-shame-for-reasons-unexplained
>At one point the sister says "we're not bad people, we just come from a bad place" which I guess is supposed to be reveal that they are dealing with childhood sexual trauma. It's pretty ambiguous.
i don't think it's ambiguous. There's no other way to interpret that.
That might be the most likely meaning, but it could also refer to growing up in a degenerate society that worships premarital sex for pleasure and ridicules procreation. More in line with liberal thought patterns, it could refer to growing up in an oppressive religious environment that made sex taboo and resulted in a rebellion later on. It could just mean they were poor fricking losers who never got kissed until they grew up and got away.
>but it could also refer to growing up in a degenerate society that worships premarital sex for pleasure and ridicules procreation.
seek help
was it really that subtle? i thought they had pretty obvious sexual tension.
>subtle
>barely not fricking each other
i wish i had sex
>Guy goes out with his afro coworker
>Get her in the bedroom
>Can't get hard
>She says it's okay
>Awkwardly leaves
>Still has to see him at work the next day
This was before MeToo, so she probably just asked for her two weeks and left. There's really no way of patching that up.
>fantasizing about being defeat
you're mentally ill anon, get help
It's in the fricking movie, homosexual
He was gonna start fricking guys it was that bad man
Movie is great helped me with porn addiction
What did you end up doing?
Imagine if he knew what it feels to be poor, alone and not even able to hire hookerinos.
He'd be hooking up with slam pigs on tinder or... using grindr
I can't bring myself to do it.. I have Hinge and the choices are atrocious..
You have to ask yourself if you really want this, if you're really that desperate and if you're ever going to be able to forgive yourself for it. I could never frick a fatty, just imagine the smell and her red face from all the effort of actually moving.
Virgin anon thinks that sex fixes all your problems. I hope that you never have sex and live in your blissfull ignorance forever, and I'm saying it unironically.
good afternoon, I hate sexhavers