Just enjoying solitude. There's a reason why in every mythic tradition, the wise person has to go out in a desert or up on a mountaintop or whatever to achieve enlightenment
Then the trick is whether or not you want to come back and help all the other people
When the kids are in school or at friends/grandparents go to the gym together and lift heavy at least twice a week. Try once a week or biweekly to make days where one of you takes the kids to the aquarium/pool/bowling/park etc. so the other can chill at home or do something without the kids. My wife took the kids to the aquarium and then the pool today, I slept in until 9:30, woke up, hit the gym and did OHP and accessory lifts, came home, showered, ate a 20 oz ribeye, then took a nap in my hammock. Last week I took the kids fishing and she went to hot yoga, grabbed sushi with her friends, and came home and took a nap. Also make sure and have sex regulary, and have nights occasionally where you just focus on massaging/getting them off before bed and vice versa for you. When my wife is stressed I'll run her a bath, then lay down a beach towel in bed, and give her a full body massage with coconut oil, then get out a hitachi and have her use it while I kiss her body, neck, suck on her breasts, and then make out when she's nearing orgasm. Then afterwards lightly stroke her back, ass, and thighs until she falls asleep. Inversely, if work has been busy as frick or I'm just run down, my wife will give me a body massage, then titfrick my wiener and then deepthroat until I nut, then stroke my back until I doze off. Don't let yourselves get out of shape and don't allow yourselves to both get run down and miserable. I have so many friends that are just fat balls of stress now. Most importantly, don't feed your kids slop or let them be fatties.
He's absolutely right. I don't even want women other than to pump and dump them and people are so fricking self centered and needy I don't want friends either.
You get set in your own ways, habits, routine etc. If enough time goes by you lose your ability to take other peoples wants or needs into consideration. This makes it very hard to get into a relationship. Now the biggest con to entering a relationship would be having to take time out of your day to tend to someone else's needs instead of coming home and just doing what you want to do. Because of this you'll avoid trying to get into a relationship and probably end up dying alone.
Half heartedly trying to get into dating at age 30 and I already hate this kind of shit, I just don't care about thinking about other people lives, I just want to live my own life and block everyone out until I want to see them
no point in a relationship in 1919+103 unless it's true love or to make a kid
the idea of a transactional "I do your thing then you do my thing" is bullshit
I guess having fun with yourself is one of life's little pleasures. If you're never single and you never found the right one, you crave it like a cold drink sometimes.
He's right. The closest I've ever gotten to relationships is fricking the same girl multiple times a week. There was comfort in waking up in the morning, having breakfast, cuddling, all that shit. Then she starts talking about the way you dress, the places you go together, and the way you style your hair. Or worse, she uses you like a dildo and then complains when you use her like a fleshlight.
Relationships are a meme. I'd rather go abroad and poke holes in condoms to spread my seed than spend one goddamn second in a committed relationship. Compromising yourself for another person's image is bullshit.
Some people are just wired different. I've known several people who NEED to be in a relationship. If they get dumped there's no taking time off and just chilling, doing stuff they want etc, they need to get into another relationship immediately.
they cause themselves more pain than anyone i have ever seen. even worse is that they rely on other people to listen to their pain so someone else can explain what the problem is
I haven't had friends for years, and i don't really miss those connections with people
I like my coworkers and get along with them, but i dont want to make friends with anyone there since i want to leave work at work. The days when I can just lay in my bed with no calls or emails and no plans are truly my favourite days
is 26 too late to get your shit together? I must have posted the same thing at 23 but looking back I was a child back then, wonder when I'll be 30 if I'll ask the same question again and then look back to when I was 26
>Your 20s pass by you in a flash then it's all over and you can stop caring. >t. 32 year old neet virgin
27 y.o NEET here, I literally don't remember my anything after 21
I cant do anything about the past, what's done is done
I can only make the choice of doing better in the present. Just remember that live is a marathon, not a sprint. Live at your own pace
>is 26 too late to get your shit together? >4 years to fix yourself >4 years to find a wife and impregnate her >dad at 35, which is OK, you won't be dying at 50
He meant what all conventionally attractive well adjusted celebrities mean. He's busted enough nuts and had enough fun to want to just enjoy some time off.
It's one thing to choose isolation, it's another entirely when society at large could give a damn if you ever existed.
He's not wrong. Most people are scum especially in large doses. Being alone is the only way to live. Traveling the world alone is actually amazing as well.
He's a lonely guy.
For himself.
he found the truth
he became comfy
>mfw been method acting that i am alone since i finished high school
Same but go back to Cinemaphile gay
being alone, but not completely isolated from people you can spend time occsionally, is the final redpill
Just enjoying solitude. There's a reason why in every mythic tradition, the wise person has to go out in a desert or up on a mountaintop or whatever to achieve enlightenment
Then the trick is whether or not you want to come back and help all the other people
This is fine when you are strong, when you are weak you will realize it isn't enough.
I wish I could have that
>married with 2 kids
When the kids are in school or at friends/grandparents go to the gym together and lift heavy at least twice a week. Try once a week or biweekly to make days where one of you takes the kids to the aquarium/pool/bowling/park etc. so the other can chill at home or do something without the kids. My wife took the kids to the aquarium and then the pool today, I slept in until 9:30, woke up, hit the gym and did OHP and accessory lifts, came home, showered, ate a 20 oz ribeye, then took a nap in my hammock. Last week I took the kids fishing and she went to hot yoga, grabbed sushi with her friends, and came home and took a nap. Also make sure and have sex regulary, and have nights occasionally where you just focus on massaging/getting them off before bed and vice versa for you. When my wife is stressed I'll run her a bath, then lay down a beach towel in bed, and give her a full body massage with coconut oil, then get out a hitachi and have her use it while I kiss her body, neck, suck on her breasts, and then make out when she's nearing orgasm. Then afterwards lightly stroke her back, ass, and thighs until she falls asleep. Inversely, if work has been busy as frick or I'm just run down, my wife will give me a body massage, then titfrick my wiener and then deepthroat until I nut, then stroke my back until I doze off. Don't let yourselves get out of shape and don't allow yourselves to both get run down and miserable. I have so many friends that are just fat balls of stress now. Most importantly, don't feed your kids slop or let them be fatties.
You are cool anon
You sound like a good husband anon 🙂
He's literally me
being alone is great when it's optional
wow, he's just like me
He knows being alone on a Friday night is dangerous
He's not wrong. Choosing to live this way isn't wrong either.
He's absolutely right. I don't even want women other than to pump and dump them and people are so fricking self centered and needy I don't want friends either.
You are literally me.
You get set in your own ways, habits, routine etc. If enough time goes by you lose your ability to take other peoples wants or needs into consideration. This makes it very hard to get into a relationship. Now the biggest con to entering a relationship would be having to take time out of your day to tend to someone else's needs instead of coming home and just doing what you want to do. Because of this you'll avoid trying to get into a relationship and probably end up dying alone.
we all die alone anon, it's living alone that many people can't handle
Half heartedly trying to get into dating at age 30 and I already hate this kind of shit, I just don't care about thinking about other people lives, I just want to live my own life and block everyone out until I want to see them
no point in a relationship in 1919+103 unless it's true love or to make a kid
the idea of a transactional "I do your thing then you do my thing" is bullshit
the way he said "being left alone" hit hard
Last time I saw this, the quote was over a picture of Jim Carrey.
I guess having fun with yourself is one of life's little pleasures. If you're never single and you never found the right one, you crave it like a cold drink sometimes.
He's right. The closest I've ever gotten to relationships is fricking the same girl multiple times a week. There was comfort in waking up in the morning, having breakfast, cuddling, all that shit. Then she starts talking about the way you dress, the places you go together, and the way you style your hair. Or worse, she uses you like a dildo and then complains when you use her like a fleshlight.
Relationships are a meme. I'd rather go abroad and poke holes in condoms to spread my seed than spend one goddamn second in a committed relationship. Compromising yourself for another person's image is bullshit.
Some people are just wired different. I've known several people who NEED to be in a relationship. If they get dumped there's no taking time off and just chilling, doing stuff they want etc, they need to get into another relationship immediately.
Sounds like hell.
they cause themselves more pain than anyone i have ever seen. even worse is that they rely on other people to listen to their pain so someone else can explain what the problem is
>Or worse, she uses you like a dildo and then complains when you use her like a fleshlight.
thank god i'll never have sex and have to deal with this
>Or worse, she uses you like a dildo and then complains when you use her like a fleshlight.
if all you're looking for is to fill a hole in your life, or to stick your dick in one, it's always going to fail unfortunately
he got banned from grindr again?
Living alone is the comfiest life as long as you interact with family and work.
Holy shit bros he's literally me.
Except i'm and actual big guy instead of a meme one. Also not gay.
He's saying he hasn't been alone long enough.
I wish I was alone with him.
>What did he mean by this?
You don't get to bring friends.
I haven't had friends for years, and i don't really miss those connections with people
I like my coworkers and get along with them, but i dont want to make friends with anyone there since i want to leave work at work. The days when I can just lay in my bed with no calls or emails and no plans are truly my favourite days
It's true, it's so fricking good
He meant to say "addictive".
He wasn't alone?
is 26 too late to get your shit together? I must have posted the same thing at 23 but looking back I was a child back then, wonder when I'll be 30 if I'll ask the same question again and then look back to when I was 26
Whenever I wonder if it's too late I remember there are people who become millionaires in their 50s. Life can always change at a moments notice
28 and dont have my shit together, but am working towards it little by little
We can make it bro
How do you cope?
Your 20s pass by you in a flash then it's all over and you can stop caring.
t. 32 year old neet virgin
>Your 20s pass by you in a flash then it's all over and you can stop caring.
>t. 32 year old neet virgin
27 y.o NEET here, I literally don't remember my anything after 21
I cant do anything about the past, what's done is done
I can only make the choice of doing better in the present. Just remember that live is a marathon, not a sprint. Live at your own pace
>is 26 too late to get your shit together?
>4 years to fix yourself
>4 years to find a wife and impregnate her
>dad at 35, which is OK, you won't be dying at 50
Surely you can manage that.
it's not too late, but it would be hard.
Don't give up.
He meant what all conventionally attractive well adjusted celebrities mean. He's busted enough nuts and had enough fun to want to just enjoy some time off.
It's one thing to choose isolation, it's another entirely when society at large could give a damn if you ever existed.
A common side effect of Backpfeifengesicht, no doubt.
>spends one weekend alone
>OMG guys like I'm such an introvert. Like I just love being in my own company.
He's a sad guy
he is literally me, right down to the lips
he meant to spread the good word
What is that minion doing in the background?
he can afford to not talk to anyone
He's not wrong. Most people are scum especially in large doses. Being alone is the only way to live. Traveling the world alone is actually amazing as well.