If you stopped fallaciously thinking that a corollary trend is an absolute or that correlation is the same thing as causation, you wouldn't have people reminding you of the distinction so often that you took the time to make a butthurt info graphic about it.
And of course, it would take a tiny percentage of the time it took you to make said graphic to simply be more precise with your wording and/or stop making outrageous presumptions while justifying them by using statistical data to create strawmen.
tl;dr don't get mad because I correct you, get mad because you're so stupid that I have to
mid 20s. you want a kid by 25 so when you are 35 it is 10 years old. preferably u want a kid at 18 so when you are mid thirties they are finishing high school. it sucks to have your first kid at 40 then they are still in college when you are 60 and you might die before you see them get their own life together and best case scenario you only get grand kids who are too young to really appreciate you.
Tbh, in most normal countries you should be expecting to live past 70s without effort. So if you have your first kid at 40 you can still reasonably expect to live long enough for your grandkids to have some memories of you.
>preferably u want a kid at 18
More like half that age
9 year olds are more than capable of producing and raising offspring
This means you get to how wild and spread your seed between 5-8, with the years prior being reserved for academic and career success
>noooo you must ruin your life like your boomer grandparents and have 3 kids at 18 in a world that is anti-white and with increasing poverty!!! breed you fool, breed for le master race!!!
Having a kid at 18 when you are supposed to be developing skills that secure your financial future for the rest of your life is the most horrible mistake you can make. Go outside. Having kids young ruins men.
If by the age of 27 you don't have a wife, at least one child preferably two, a 250k starter home, 2 vehicles, and 50k in savings then you are essentially a failure.
I know plenty of failures who have all of those things. The key is to define your own terms for success and achieve them while not giving a single solitary shit what anyone else's are. Otherwise you're an NPC.
Turned 27 a couple of months ago. Still feel 23. Makes no difference. No wife no gf no kids shitty job. By the age of 24 i realized my shit was all fricked up, i have put in motion a game plan that is just now playing out. 3 stanking years just to correct a small infraction from my 19s and only now my trajectory is correcting to where i wanted to have been by now. Anyways self employment, proper fullfilling work and a break from social horseshit affairs beside having fun with the boys are the very next step. Some mfs dont realize their shits messed up till they turn 35
I think if you're a 40 year old man with no family people think of you as strange. Even more so if you've never been married at that age.
t. year away from 40 and never been married
Yeah that's how I feel too, I've see women jumping out of it simply because they were bored, like that's the point of a marriage? Routine and all that, obviously life won't be as exciting, you exchanged it for stability. Not even getting into cheating. Marriage these days is as stable as a standard relationship, so what's the point?
Also, I've seen people do a 360 after getting married, not caring anymore, denying sex, etc. I think boomers were right all along we just were too soon to realize it.
Nah that's just how rural/Southern conservative men are; very traditional. If you're unmarried and without children as you near middle age, you're likely going to raise some eyebrows.
A family is just a waste of time. Reject procreation, use all your time to master your craft. Your children will never appreciate your love or sacrifices, your wife will become a wrinkly hag. Bottle your semen and bury it in the permafrost in various locations north of the polar circle so future scientists can clone you.
Never, really, because it’s coming from Marty, who at that point hasn’t reconciled with Maggie and his daughters yet (which he knows), making him a hypocrite as per usual.
Marty had a family but he betrayed and denigrated them to the point of divorce and estrangement, with only partial reconciliation decades later after his name gets in the paper for cracking a cold serial murder case.
i really think it's different if you're stuck in a suburban area or a big city
average age of first marriage goes up considerably if you live in nyc
i'm not saying that's a good thing, but it's definitely not the norm to be married at like 25 here.
I'm gonna kms. There's nothing more awful than considering yourself an outsider all your life and then realizing after a certain point everyone just considers you a freak at best and a loser at worst. Really though, they don't care at all. Lmao.
You’re beaten over the head with how le lonely and le bad the life of this legend detective character is because he insists on making microwave dinners instead of ordering food or learning to cook, and tinder swiping grannies instead of looking for crazy b***hes irl
>be me >travel long distance with my female boss and another colleague >couple of hours in I try to fall asleep while they keep chit-chatting >hear her talk about another colleague, similar age as me >"heard this guy broke up with his gf, that's really unfortunate:(" >"past a certain age it gets real hard to meet new people:(" >"you just get used to living alone and stop even trying anymore:(" >"that's so sad:("
it really gutted me bros, I know she wasn't talking about me but everything still applies to myself. if you are single past 35 people will think you are weird and that there is something wrong with you (and there is)
This just means you yourself think it is wrong. Which then either means that either it is indeed wrong for you but you didn't confront it or that you need to stop caring so much about your self-image that it begins to affect your relationship status as somehow wrong.
Notice how he said *can*, as in sometimes but not always.
homosexual
If you stopped fallaciously thinking that a corollary trend is an absolute or that correlation is the same thing as causation, you wouldn't have people reminding you of the distinction so often that you took the time to make a butthurt info graphic about it.
And of course, it would take a tiny percentage of the time it took you to make said graphic to simply be more precise with your wording and/or stop making outrageous presumptions while justifying them by using statistical data to create strawmen.
tl;dr don't get mad because I correct you, get mad because you're so stupid that I have to
T.A.K.A.N
>Talks a lot, knows absolutely nothing
>correlation isn't causation
The most reddit pseud thing to point out.
Most distributions in real life are power laws
he didnt say anything about the center line or the average man. for all we know he could talk about an outlier. in fact his phrasing suggests that.
mid 20s. you want a kid by 25 so when you are 35 it is 10 years old. preferably u want a kid at 18 so when you are mid thirties they are finishing high school. it sucks to have your first kid at 40 then they are still in college when you are 60 and you might die before you see them get their own life together and best case scenario you only get grand kids who are too young to really appreciate you.
Tbh, in most normal countries you should be expecting to live past 70s without effort. So if you have your first kid at 40 you can still reasonably expect to live long enough for your grandkids to have some memories of you.
My grandpa lived until he was 91 and only got really fricked up and couldn't do very much until the last few years of his life from dementia
>preferably u want a kid at 18
More like half that age
9 year olds are more than capable of producing and raising offspring
This means you get to how wild and spread your seed between 5-8, with the years prior being reserved for academic and career success
>noooo you must ruin your life like your boomer grandparents and have 3 kids at 18 in a world that is anti-white and with increasing poverty!!! breed you fool, breed for le master race!!!
Having a kid at 18 when you are supposed to be developing skills that secure your financial future for the rest of your life is the most horrible mistake you can make. Go outside. Having kids young ruins men.
your mother is family
as soon as ye can fill a yogurt bottul back up with yr own homebrew custard
If by the age of 27 you don't have a wife, at least one child preferably two, a 250k starter home, 2 vehicles, and 50k in savings then you are essentially a failure.
I know plenty of failures who have all of those things. The key is to define your own terms for success and achieve them while not giving a single solitary shit what anyone else's are. Otherwise you're an NPC.
Turned 27 a couple of months ago. Still feel 23. Makes no difference. No wife no gf no kids shitty job. By the age of 24 i realized my shit was all fricked up, i have put in motion a game plan that is just now playing out. 3 stanking years just to correct a small infraction from my 19s and only now my trajectory is correcting to where i wanted to have been by now. Anyways self employment, proper fullfilling work and a break from social horseshit affairs beside having fun with the boys are the very next step. Some mfs dont realize their shits messed up till they turn 35
I think if you're a 40 year old man with no family people think of you as strange. Even more so if you've never been married at that age.
t. year away from 40 and never been married
The idea of a person still insecure enough for those things to affect them at the age 40 is baffling to me
Who said I'm insecure? I'm long past caring. I just stated what I perceive to be a fact for most people.
It's not insecurity you will be excluded from social circles and events.
40y without single relationship is usually point of no return
whatever age you are when you read it
I would say past 35. I'm 40 now and yes, it does mean bad things.
back in the day, I hooked up my 30 years old virgin friend to a girl. you should have good friends.
I am 29 years old and I never even kissed a girl
i mean yeah that sounds it sucks but at least you’ve never had mono.
You have to keep saging it. One sage doesn't downvote it enough.
(You)r age minus 2.
late twenties. when you pass 30 the only women left are the crazies and single moms
>dating your age
lol
If you're posting here you most certainly aren't the kind of guy young women are looking for. No woman wants some autistic doomer homosexual.
I do. I'm trans by the way
That's why you don't fall for the neet meme
I would like to start a family but there’s no way in Hell I’m getting married. I’ve seen what divorce does to men. Not me, not never.
Yeah that's how I feel too, I've see women jumping out of it simply because they were bored, like that's the point of a marriage? Routine and all that, obviously life won't be as exciting, you exchanged it for stability. Not even getting into cheating. Marriage these days is as stable as a standard relationship, so what's the point?
Also, I've seen people do a 360 after getting married, not caring anymore, denying sex, etc. I think boomers were right all along we just were too soon to realize it.
This should only be a problem with women who haven't been married or given birth. Men are disposable by nature.
I bet a woman wrote that line
it's female projection
Nah that's just how rural/Southern conservative men are; very traditional. If you're unmarried and without children as you near middle age, you're likely going to raise some eyebrows.
>I bet a woman wrote that line
moron.
HOLY KWABOLA
28. If you’re approaching 30 without children you’re quite simply not gonna make it in life
I just sharted
about three fiddy
A family is just a waste of time. Reject procreation, use all your time to master your craft. Your children will never appreciate your love or sacrifices, your wife will become a wrinkly hag. Bottle your semen and bury it in the permafrost in various locations north of the polar circle so future scientists can clone you.
Mid 30's
Never, really, because it’s coming from Marty, who at that point hasn’t reconciled with Maggie and his daughters yet (which he knows), making him a hypocrite as per usual.
Marty had a family but he betrayed and denigrated them to the point of divorce and estrangement, with only partial reconciliation decades later after his name gets in the paper for cracking a cold serial murder case.
can you fricking use the quote in your OP so my filter filters this garbage thread incel? Thanks
>can't filter it based on its MD5 hash
Seems like a (You) problem.
Dedicated autists frick with the image so it doesn't show up in 4plebs. You would have to be a moron to filter based on that
>15 hits on 4plebs
>"no I can't :("
How sad.
>this thread has only been made 15 times
kek what a moron. Way to make my point.
Keep seething, gayget. It fuels me.
I wouldn't worry about it. Most of you will never get married or have sex.
anything higher than 21 is pure cope
35
i really think it's different if you're stuck in a suburban area or a big city
average age of first marriage goes up considerably if you live in nyc
i'm not saying that's a good thing, but it's definitely not the norm to be married at like 25 here.
Is not true anymore, the old contract is broken.
No pussy, no work.
No wife, no taxes.
Seethe boomers.
>t. man who cheated on his wife multiple times and destroyed his family
I'm gonna kms. There's nothing more awful than considering yourself an outsider all your life and then realizing after a certain point everyone just considers you a freak at best and a loser at worst. Really though, they don't care at all. Lmao.
You’re beaten over the head with how le lonely and le bad the life of this legend detective character is because he insists on making microwave dinners instead of ordering food or learning to cook, and tinder swiping grannies instead of looking for crazy b***hes irl
>be me
>travel long distance with my female boss and another colleague
>couple of hours in I try to fall asleep while they keep chit-chatting
>hear her talk about another colleague, similar age as me
>"heard this guy broke up with his gf, that's really unfortunate:("
>"past a certain age it gets real hard to meet new people:("
>"you just get used to living alone and stop even trying anymore:("
>"that's so sad:("
it really gutted me bros, I know she wasn't talking about me but everything still applies to myself. if you are single past 35 people will think you are weird and that there is something wrong with you (and there is)
This just means you yourself think it is wrong. Which then either means that either it is indeed wrong for you but you didn't confront it or that you need to stop caring so much about your self-image that it begins to affect your relationship status as somehow wrong.
It's over
I don't know, I'm a wizard lvl 32 and I'm starting to think people think I'm weird
This isn't the 90s/early 2000s anymore. If anything, a man having a family today would be a bad thing.