>having a gf then getting dumped and going back to inceldom?
Once you got a gf it becomes pretty easy to get another one, I was an incel until 29, broke up after a year and now I date and frick tons of girls. I'm now actively looking for a gf but I'm more picky than before.
or maybe it's some other factor... not sure what it could be... it'd have to be something that is the same between each of these realtionships, a persistent element if you will... something that caused you to only attract shitty terrible people... hmmmm what could it be?
be aware that you sound the same as some dumb twitter prostitute saying "ALL MEN BAD" because she only fricks morons
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no.
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so it's okay for you to gain experience and then settle down when it's out of your system, but not for women? how come?
You definitely sound like some roastie who tries to find excuses for being a massive prostitute. Don't worry though some cuckk will settle down with you anyways. They always do.
idk anon… would u rather have met a beautiful girl that you get so close, then something happens where u drift emotionally apart but still lust over each other & it ends on bad terms. But you still remember it all, the good & the bad. The love & lust.
Or never experience any of that & just be exist in a state of never knowing.
I'll tell you that, getting your heart broken by your highschool sweetheart you had a literal teen romcom relationship with and experienced everything together for the first time does hurt really really bad even years after it but i'd rather go through that shitty time after the breakup again than never having experiended that time. Especially the first year. Second year was also amazing then it slowly got worse. We fricked anyways for years after it and would always end up with each other when we were out and drinking. One of us eventually would call because we never really got over each other. Then she moved and i haven't seen her in 3 years or more.
I married my highschool sweetheart and posts like these make me think that's the natural order. Sure we fight every now and again but no one knows me like her.
Go to church.
Btw I had a previous hs gf who convinced me to lose my virginity to her before marriage because she told me she would marry me and have lots of kids. She cheated on me and told me our relationship was never real to begin with. I nearly KMS until an older girl (3 years) started hanging with me. She said she never wanted to marry and have kids though. I waited two years before I was comfortable with saying I was interested in her and six years before I married her and within a year we had our first kid.
Gonna go smoke weed with her now (she introduced it to me which tanked my GPA at the time lol).
>having a gf then getting dumped and going back to inceldom?
Once you got a gf it becomes pretty easy to get another one, I was an incel until 29, broke up after a year and now I date and frick tons of girls. I'm now actively looking for a gf but I'm more picky than before.
being an incel is like living life in a constant gray haze, joyless and uncomfortable but manageable. If I experienced love and then lost it, the sudden disparity in quality of life might actually drive me to suicide.
>having a gf then getting dumped and going back to inceldom?
this 100%. i wish i never had any gfs. before i had relationships i atleast didnt hate women. having been in 3 relationships i now hate them and want nothing to do with them anymore.
I wish I never had a gf, I might have done something with my life at least in pursuit of one, but seeing how you can literally give everything to someone and they just shit on you randomly like you turned into a wienerroach one day, made me realize everything is completely pointless.
Perpetual inceldom is worse, but not dramatically so. The absolute heights of love only *barely* make up for the despair that follows being discarded like trash.
I have been in both positions, didn't have a gf or even a kiss until way later than all my friends, and then got a gf for whom I cared greatly, who then dumped me. Day to day, it's pretty similarly awful, but when I was literally a complete incel, the pain and alienation, and confusion, slowly but surely kept growing in such a way that I don't know what the end result of them would've been. When I was dumped, it was almost intolerable but I could foresee a life involving that kind of pain. In the "never had anyone ever" scenario, I can't picture what it would've felt like to keep going like that for another 10, or even 5 years. So that seems scarier and more severe to me.
being an incel forever
i was upset when she left but it put things in perspective for me and i dont worry about it so much anymore
its just another drug and its way overrated
Got dumped at 22 after a four year relationship. I'm now turning 26 and haven't fricked since. Still waiting for the loneliness to end. I actually feel more socially moronic than before. Time has slipped through my fingers, with thanks to lockdown.
Incel forever is definitely worse it warps your brain until you stop seeing women as human beings. They become your idols and also demons, if you actually get laid and interact with women but then hit an eternal dry spell then you still have that experience in your memory and you don't become a twisted goblin human
That doesn't happen to mentally stable people, but mentally unstable people are of course very over-represented in the pool of virgins. A sane person can eventually accept it's not going to happen and stop being concerned with that aspect of life. It's little different from realizing you're never going to be wealthy or famous after expecting it in your youth.
i unfortunately still think about my ex, from time to time. heck i even had a weird dream last night.
It’s been years tho, sometimes i feel like i should have not cared & been a ‘player’. But w/e…
Weird, I had a dream about my ex last night too, but it’s the same old story, she doesn’t care, life went on, it’s been almost six years, i dream of her all the time and in my dreams i tell her how i feel, i tell her i dream of her, that every day, every thought, every memory is invaded by her, i tell her i never once stopped thinking of her, i tell her what she means to me, that i never want to let her go, but then i wake up
I can't watch ANY movie without thinking of my ex girlfriend. (10 years next week)
I know it's hard but remember: men and women dont love in the same way. she's not thinking about you, find a way to let her go. find someone else to care for
Girlfriend broke up with me a couple of weeks before Christmas. She wanted marriage pretty quickly, and I couldn't promise that. I understand her decision. At first I was fairly relieved that we had broken up. Less responsibility, less doing things I don't want, less dread about money and stuff like that. I actually think we weren't all that well-suited to each other, with me being shy, introverted and her being experienced, extroverted etc. Still, she was my first real girlfriend. It only last a couple of months, though we had known each other for almost a year. I wish her the best in life. She was pretty nice to me a lot of the time, gave me confidence and taught me to have fun and not take things so seriously. She also gave me a second chance to go out on a date because soon after I asked her out I had an autistic meltdown and sabotaged the entire thing because I was so neurotic about the date. She could have easily dismissed me as a loser or a creep etc. I took her ice skating on our third date and I can see her now just skating so naturally and looking over her shoulder and smiling at me as she was gliding around. I wish her the best in life, hope things work out for her.
Thanks Anon. I really don't worry about myself, since I live with my mother and have it pretty easy. But she was and is in a pretty shitty situation, and will probably have to move quite soon. I told her I will always be here for her whatever happens, and I'll try to do that. It would mean so much to me if I find out in a year's time that she has met somebody new, and that life has worked out for her etc.
>It would mean so much to me if I find out in a year's time that she has met somebody new, and that life has worked out for her etc.
No offense but you sound like a massive cvck to be quite honest.
>She wanted marriage pretty quickly, > and her being experienced, extroverted
If you are in your late 20s or early 30s then be glad it ended. Sounds like you dated some roastie who rode the wiener carorusel and now wanted to settle down after the "experience" phase. The ice skating part sounds kino though. I need to take a girl i like to the ice rink once.
>incel meme
You are pretty fricking naive and probably right now in a relationship with one of them or else it wouldn't have triggered you this much. I am in my late 20s and i have fricked and know girls i am friends with since we are kids that are exactly like this. It's not even like i am saying all girls are that way but late 20s/early30s being experienced and extroverted plus wanting to marry after a short time of being together just screams roastie wanting to settle down. Anyways, go and marry the c**t who has semen in her crotch from 100s of different dudes but don't end up killing yourself when she eventually cheats on you.
Because there are massive differences between a man "getting around" and a woman. A woman, that got around a lot, in most cases will not be able to bond with someone on a level a woman that did not get around will bond. For males this is not something happening a lot. Most men that have fricked around a lot will eventually still be able to bond to a woman the same way they would have if they did not frick around much. Studies and real life experience completely confirms this. I don't even think that guys should have such a high body count either but they mostly will still be able to form a loyal relationship. I also never claimed that i have gotten around much. My body count is still fairly low compared to those that i heard from girls i know or met who were open about it. Two were in the triple digits and that in their mid 20s. I expect from a woman that i want to share the rest of my life with to be at least as me but preferably lower. Again, if you don't think there are any differences then go ahead and try it but don't be surprised when things won't turn out nice for you. I know guys that had it happen to them and i know girls that were in relationships that did it to guys. I had a girl once who was in a relationship without telling me. She rode me like a maniac and her phone next to us would light up with her boyfriends name and a heart. She kept riding with me and tossed her phone away. What a surprise that she was fatherless and was getting around a lot.
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>studies and real life experience
okay, let's see what you're using to get that confirmation bias going then.
I'm not glad, but I am somewhat relieved. I just don't understand the rules of relationships, and I'm not the kind to be carried away and make such a huge decision if I haven't known someone a long time. The ice skating was fun but I really struggled and fell over a bunch of times. One time I fell over and my skates went in the air and I'm grateful I didn't slice someone open.
>It would mean so much to me if I find out in a year's time that she has met somebody new, and that life has worked out for her etc.
No offense but you sound like a massive cvck to be quite honest.
Yeah, I understand that. But like I said, she's in a shitty situation and having someone would make her life so much easier.
yeh. i spend 100% of my free time thinkin about her even when i hate the dumb gym shit she is doing now. i would love her flat ass and all but she wants chads to look at her. it hurts so much
>fricked up with last girl I was with >only get interested / feedback from girls who are currently in a relationship >get teased by them but know that it's just a game
Suffering
We also watched Terrence Malick's To The Wonder together, and I started to fall asleep towards the end. I could see her looking at me though so I woke up and just tried to stay awake. She enjoyed it I think. That night as I was leaving the room and she was in bed, she whispered in the dark that she was falling in love with me but I pretended not to hear and said "what?" and she pretended to be asleep when I asked that. It's sad to think she opened up to me and that I hurt her by not being able to give her what she needed in life.
There is some peace in knowing that no woman was, is or ever will be interested in me whatsoever.
Sure at the base level it's just coping, but I see nearly every man around me spend so much time, money and effort every single day on either trying to get a woman or in trying to keep his woman while I live care-free without ever even contemplating if anyone likes me or not. Makes life a lot simpler.
I'm a 28 year old man and I love ya romance. I started reading them to simulate the experience of romance. It makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside when I see two characters I like get together. I project myself onto the guy.
I've dropped some book because I looked up the ending and found out one of the leads died or they didn't get together. That really upsets me.
Terrible choice, she waxes everything below the eyebrows.
But if that's really your taste, you should make her into your AI gf on janitorai, it's pretty good and free. I think they already have a few bots based on her.
>Watched this movie months after first and only gf breaks up with me >Relationship lasted only a few months from January 2018 to May 2018 >I was a few months away from turning 25 that year. She broke up with me shortly after my 25th birthday >b***h gave me an STD that luckily was curable >Spent months living with condition >Ended up gently rejecting a girl because of my std; didn't mention it to her, just said I wasn't ready to date again >Eventually I got cured >Fricked two single moms a year or two later >Haven't gotten laid since April 2020;Have been single since 2018
I have gone on dates here and there but nothing goes anywhere. I had a date last week which I drove an hour to get to. At this point I've accepted that I'll be single. If something happens and I click with a decent woman, I just want to have my fun with her (go on cute dates, send each other memes and have sex). I worked hard to build my peace and unfortunately I can't risk throwing that away. Not only that but everyone around keeps saying I don't need a relationship to be complete but they can't live without their fricking partner
I once watched a serbian film with my ex and she started to blow me during mid of the movie and we would start to frick while it runs in the back. Same happened while watching Human Centipede 2. She was totally into Horror movies and a freak.
you can only understand it once you've had a relationship end. I watched it as a KHV and didn't get it. Then I rewatched it after breaking up with my first gf and it destroyed me.
This is the most high school level shit. "Bwawaaah, I want to forget her, bwaaaah" so they make a whole light sci-fi plot about it. I fricking hate Charlie Kaufman, every one of his movies is some semi-autobiogaphical whining about him being a bad person.
t. never had a girlfriend
Same. It will be nine years in a few months.
Hell, I can’t cook a meal, take a shower, hum a tune, tie my shoelaces, without thinking of her.
Weird thing is, it wasn’t like this as long as we somewhat loosely kept in touch. Then a couple years ago she went no contact and I started hanging on to memories as if my life depended from it. It’s such bullshit. One time I realized that I couldn’t remember tiny details like how her front teeth come together (slightly crooked inward) and that gutted me.
Eventually you get numb to it, but it’s always there and it always sucks.
I can't watch this without thinking about her >remember her clutching my arm >remember her listening to me explain the plot >remember us laughing >remember us crying
Reading this thread made me realize that my interest in women goes as far as getting my dick wet.
Relationships are overrated. 99% of women are vapid thots. I'll never find a partner who shares the same interests as me so might as well swallow my pride and pay some Ukrainian prostitute for a single night.
whats worse? being an incel forever, or having a gf then getting dumped and going back to inceldom?
>having a gf then getting dumped and going back to inceldom?
Once you got a gf it becomes pretty easy to get another one, I was an incel until 29, broke up after a year and now I date and frick tons of girls. I'm now actively looking for a gf but I'm more picky than before.
>After u get a gf it’s easier to get another
>Still hasn’t found a GF after breaking up even tho it’s been a year.
Sure anon, whatever u say
Read again, if you still don't get it you might have to get your brain checked for injury or something.
Oh no I get it anon… u got a gf, got broken up with. And since that you have been dating & fricking “a ton of girls”
But in the year that has passed you still don’t have a gf because you are “picky”
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>But in the year that has passed
Read again, slowly this time, you can do it.
sure dude, now you are ‘actively’ looking for one. mhm
in my case after having some gfs i no longer WANT to get another. they all lie, are fricking moronic, and are a pain in the ass to keep happy.
or maybe it's some other factor... not sure what it could be... it'd have to be something that is the same between each of these realtionships, a persistent element if you will... something that caused you to only attract shitty terrible people... hmmmm what could it be?
Not having a huge dick, being a psychopath, on roids, and from a wealthy family?
yeah thats what im saying the common factor is the women. they were all women.
be aware that you sound the same as some dumb twitter prostitute saying "ALL MEN BAD" because she only fricks morons
no.
You definitely sound like some roastie who tries to find excuses for being a massive prostitute. Don't worry though some cuckk will settle down with you anyways. They always do.
>it'd have to be something that is the same between each of these realtionships, a persistent element if you will...
Yeah, it's women.
idk anon… would u rather have met a beautiful girl that you get so close, then something happens where u drift emotionally apart but still lust over each other & it ends on bad terms. But you still remember it all, the good & the bad. The love & lust.
Or never experience any of that & just be exist in a state of never knowing.
Both are shit, one is less shitty tho.
I like the quiet meditative life of one who slipped between the cracks and watches the world from isolation.
Wait until you reach forty.
I already have.
I'll tell you that, getting your heart broken by your highschool sweetheart you had a literal teen romcom relationship with and experienced everything together for the first time does hurt really really bad even years after it but i'd rather go through that shitty time after the breakup again than never having experiended that time. Especially the first year. Second year was also amazing then it slowly got worse. We fricked anyways for years after it and would always end up with each other when we were out and drinking. One of us eventually would call because we never really got over each other. Then she moved and i haven't seen her in 3 years or more.
covid changed everything
why isn’t she wearing shoes at her wedding? who gets married barefoot?
You take off heels ASAP because they hurt like hell.
I married my highschool sweetheart and posts like these make me think that's the natural order. Sure we fight every now and again but no one knows me like her.
yes, the order is some people aren't allowed to be happy and others go to Cinemaphile to brag
Go to church.
Btw I had a previous hs gf who convinced me to lose my virginity to her before marriage because she told me she would marry me and have lots of kids. She cheated on me and told me our relationship was never real to begin with. I nearly KMS until an older girl (3 years) started hanging with me. She said she never wanted to marry and have kids though. I waited two years before I was comfortable with saying I was interested in her and six years before I married her and within a year we had our first kid.
Gonna go smoke weed with her now (she introduced it to me which tanked my GPA at the time lol).
beta male right here
I challenge you to a pose down.
wow kys
I am happy for you that it worked out in your case. It's the best thing that can happen to you relationship wise. One of my best friends did the same.
The first one
100% this, she might not be as good but still
After the first gf it gets easier to get new girls
Having a kid with the wrong woman.
Being an incel is terrible but at least you have money and freedom. Didnt get laid until I was 27. My life now is infinitely more pathetic.
being an incel forever
being an incel is like living life in a constant gray haze, joyless and uncomfortable but manageable. If I experienced love and then lost it, the sudden disparity in quality of life might actually drive me to suicide.
>having a gf then getting dumped and going back to inceldom?
this 100%. i wish i never had any gfs. before i had relationships i atleast didnt hate women. having been in 3 relationships i now hate them and want nothing to do with them anymore.
No.
I wish I never had a gf, I might have done something with my life at least in pursuit of one, but seeing how you can literally give everything to someone and they just shit on you randomly like you turned into a wienerroach one day, made me realize everything is completely pointless.
Perpetual inceldom is worse, but not dramatically so. The absolute heights of love only *barely* make up for the despair that follows being discarded like trash.
I have been in both positions, didn't have a gf or even a kiss until way later than all my friends, and then got a gf for whom I cared greatly, who then dumped me. Day to day, it's pretty similarly awful, but when I was literally a complete incel, the pain and alienation, and confusion, slowly but surely kept growing in such a way that I don't know what the end result of them would've been. When I was dumped, it was almost intolerable but I could foresee a life involving that kind of pain. In the "never had anyone ever" scenario, I can't picture what it would've felt like to keep going like that for another 10, or even 5 years. So that seems scarier and more severe to me.
being an incel forever
i was upset when she left but it put things in perspective for me and i dont worry about it so much anymore
its just another drug and its way overrated
Less life experience is worse
Got dumped at 22 after a four year relationship. I'm now turning 26 and haven't fricked since. Still waiting for the loneliness to end. I actually feel more socially moronic than before. Time has slipped through my fingers, with thanks to lockdown.
let me guess, raised by a single mom?
What chud psychology gave you that assumption? I met her a year after my parents split and was living with my father at the time.
>let me guess, raised by a single mom?
so close fricking kek
Black person shakespeare had an exact quote about this and he is 100% right
Incel forever is definitely worse it warps your brain until you stop seeing women as human beings. They become your idols and also demons, if you actually get laid and interact with women but then hit an eternal dry spell then you still have that experience in your memory and you don't become a twisted goblin human
That doesn't happen to mentally stable people, but mentally unstable people are of course very over-represented in the pool of virgins. A sane person can eventually accept it's not going to happen and stop being concerned with that aspect of life. It's little different from realizing you're never going to be wealthy or famous after expecting it in your youth.
eventually, the pain stops and you just go back to enjoying other things, and when I want I can at least go back to the memories of sex.
>getting dumped
Getting cheated on
I don't think I'll ever stop hating women
My ex did the samehe came out as a homo, yet I don't hate men that much
f l o r i d a
I live nowhere near there.
El Kendo in the background
i unfortunately still think about my ex, from time to time. heck i even had a weird dream last night.
It’s been years tho, sometimes i feel like i should have not cared & been a ‘player’. But w/e…
Weird, I had a dream about my ex last night too, but it’s the same old story, she doesn’t care, life went on, it’s been almost six years, i dream of her all the time and in my dreams i tell her how i feel, i tell her i dream of her, that every day, every thought, every memory is invaded by her, i tell her i never once stopped thinking of her, i tell her what she means to me, that i never want to let her go, but then i wake up
you sound like the biggest fricking homosexual ever good lord
Leave him be.
I know it's hard but remember: men and women dont love in the same way. she's not thinking about you, find a way to let her go. find someone else to care for
>find someone else to care for
To get the same shit again? Are you moronic?
>your ex-girlfriend?
My what?
>ex-girlfriend
I am 29 years old and I never even kissed a girl
>ex-gf
at least you get wizard powers next year
>at least you get wizard powers next year
what is the purpose of perpetuating this lie?
t.
you dont become a wizard watching porn all day!
nope, she lives rent free in my head
I have to watch esotsm once a year just to punish myself
>nope, she lives rent free in my head
This. It's been two years.
None of my exes look like Jim Carrey so I assume it's possible
i didn't have a gf when that movie came out
Girlfriend broke up with me a couple of weeks before Christmas. She wanted marriage pretty quickly, and I couldn't promise that. I understand her decision. At first I was fairly relieved that we had broken up. Less responsibility, less doing things I don't want, less dread about money and stuff like that. I actually think we weren't all that well-suited to each other, with me being shy, introverted and her being experienced, extroverted etc. Still, she was my first real girlfriend. It only last a couple of months, though we had known each other for almost a year. I wish her the best in life. She was pretty nice to me a lot of the time, gave me confidence and taught me to have fun and not take things so seriously. She also gave me a second chance to go out on a date because soon after I asked her out I had an autistic meltdown and sabotaged the entire thing because I was so neurotic about the date. She could have easily dismissed me as a loser or a creep etc. I took her ice skating on our third date and I can see her now just skating so naturally and looking over her shoulder and smiling at me as she was gliding around. I wish her the best in life, hope things work out for her.
that last sentence about skating creates a vivid picture, I can’t imagine the pain looking back
It gets better Anon.
Thanks Anon. I really don't worry about myself, since I live with my mother and have it pretty easy. But she was and is in a pretty shitty situation, and will probably have to move quite soon. I told her I will always be here for her whatever happens, and I'll try to do that. It would mean so much to me if I find out in a year's time that she has met somebody new, and that life has worked out for her etc.
>It would mean so much to me if I find out in a year's time that she has met somebody new, and that life has worked out for her etc.
No offense but you sound like a massive cvck to be quite honest.
>She wanted marriage pretty quickly,
> and her being experienced, extroverted
If you are in your late 20s or early 30s then be glad it ended. Sounds like you dated some roastie who rode the wiener carorusel and now wanted to settle down after the "experience" phase. The ice skating part sounds kino though. I need to take a girl i like to the ice rink once.
>wait this sounds like one of my incel memes and that makes me feel experienced
you've never fricked a vegana
>incel meme
You are pretty fricking naive and probably right now in a relationship with one of them or else it wouldn't have triggered you this much. I am in my late 20s and i have fricked and know girls i am friends with since we are kids that are exactly like this. It's not even like i am saying all girls are that way but late 20s/early30s being experienced and extroverted plus wanting to marry after a short time of being together just screams roastie wanting to settle down. Anyways, go and marry the c**t who has semen in her crotch from 100s of different dudes but don't end up killing yourself when she eventually cheats on you.
so it's okay for you to gain experience and then settle down when it's out of your system, but not for women? how come?
Because there are massive differences between a man "getting around" and a woman. A woman, that got around a lot, in most cases will not be able to bond with someone on a level a woman that did not get around will bond. For males this is not something happening a lot. Most men that have fricked around a lot will eventually still be able to bond to a woman the same way they would have if they did not frick around much. Studies and real life experience completely confirms this. I don't even think that guys should have such a high body count either but they mostly will still be able to form a loyal relationship. I also never claimed that i have gotten around much. My body count is still fairly low compared to those that i heard from girls i know or met who were open about it. Two were in the triple digits and that in their mid 20s. I expect from a woman that i want to share the rest of my life with to be at least as me but preferably lower. Again, if you don't think there are any differences then go ahead and try it but don't be surprised when things won't turn out nice for you. I know guys that had it happen to them and i know girls that were in relationships that did it to guys. I had a girl once who was in a relationship without telling me. She rode me like a maniac and her phone next to us would light up with her boyfriends name and a heart. She kept riding with me and tossed her phone away. What a surprise that she was fatherless and was getting around a lot.
>studies and real life experience
okay, let's see what you're using to get that confirmation bias going then.
I'm not glad, but I am somewhat relieved. I just don't understand the rules of relationships, and I'm not the kind to be carried away and make such a huge decision if I haven't known someone a long time. The ice skating was fun but I really struggled and fell over a bunch of times. One time I fell over and my skates went in the air and I'm grateful I didn't slice someone open.
Yeah, I understand that. But like I said, she's in a shitty situation and having someone would make her life so much easier.
You sound like a decent guy though. You will eventually find someone. Just don't fall for one who will break your heart.
sometimes i wish i could have this done so i could forget extraemily
u in a parasocial relationship with a streamer?
yeh. i spend 100% of my free time thinkin about her even when i hate the dumb gym shit she is doing now. i would love her flat ass and all but she wants chads to look at her. it hurts so much
What's worse for this generation of young men: identifying with Joel from this film, or identifying with the likes of Andrew Tate?
JUST watched this with my gf and thought about my ex-gf the entire time luckily I prefer my gf to my ex-gf so all’s well that ends well
Who was your girlfriend thinking about?
She was also thinking about his ex-gf (they go full Warmest Color on each other whenever he's out of the house)
>luckily I prefer my gf to my ex-gf
i want that
every single gf i've had was just worse
>fricked up with last girl I was with
>only get interested / feedback from girls who are currently in a relationship
>get teased by them but know that it's just a game
Suffering
reminder: if your GF recommended watching this movie with you it's because she was thinking about her ex while she was with you
Easy.
Le popular quotes are true no matter the situation brainlet
We also watched Terrence Malick's To The Wonder together, and I started to fall asleep towards the end. I could see her looking at me though so I woke up and just tried to stay awake. She enjoyed it I think. That night as I was leaving the room and she was in bed, she whispered in the dark that she was falling in love with me but I pretended not to hear and said "what?" and she pretended to be asleep when I asked that. It's sad to think she opened up to me and that I hurt her by not being able to give her what she needed in life.
There is some peace in knowing that no woman was, is or ever will be interested in me whatsoever.
Sure at the base level it's just coping, but I see nearly every man around me spend so much time, money and effort every single day on either trying to get a woman or in trying to keep his woman while I live care-free without ever even contemplating if anyone likes me or not. Makes life a lot simpler.
>implying I have an ex
>implying I've ever had a gf
stupid blue reddit board
No
Do normies really?
I never had a gf and never will watch that artsy gay shit movie
I'm a 28 year old man and I love ya romance. I started reading them to simulate the experience of romance. It makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside when I see two characters I like get together. I project myself onto the guy.
I've dropped some book because I looked up the ending and found out one of the leads died or they didn't get together. That really upsets me.
I've also spent thousands of dollars on erotica commissions depicting me and Hailee Steinfeld in a loving relationship because I'm in love with her.
Terrible choice, she waxes everything below the eyebrows.
But if that's really your taste, you should make her into your AI gf on janitorai, it's pretty good and free. I think they already have a few bots based on her.
you're based bro, thanks for the tier list. You're probably going nuts for AI chatbots innit.
Based rec list for a 27yo romantically stunted khhv like me, thanks anon
>Watched this movie months after first and only gf breaks up with me
>Relationship lasted only a few months from January 2018 to May 2018
>I was a few months away from turning 25 that year. She broke up with me shortly after my 25th birthday
>b***h gave me an STD that luckily was curable
>Spent months living with condition
>Ended up gently rejecting a girl because of my std; didn't mention it to her, just said I wasn't ready to date again
>Eventually I got cured
>Fricked two single moms a year or two later
>Haven't gotten laid since April 2020;Have been single since 2018
I have gone on dates here and there but nothing goes anywhere. I had a date last week which I drove an hour to get to. At this point I've accepted that I'll be single. If something happens and I click with a decent woman, I just want to have my fun with her (go on cute dates, send each other memes and have sex). I worked hard to build my peace and unfortunately I can't risk throwing that away. Not only that but everyone around keeps saying I don't need a relationship to be complete but they can't live without their fricking partner
never had a gf i'm 28
I haven't seen this film but my ex manipulated me and cheated on me with my best friend so I doubt it.
Are you still friends with him?
I broke up with my girlfriend on Christmas last year and I haven't been this happy in four years.
This is the movie I watched with my ex on the night we first kissed. The night we became a couple. Goddammit.
I once watched a serbian film with my ex and she started to blow me during mid of the movie and we would start to frick while it runs in the back. Same happened while watching Human Centipede 2. She was totally into Horror movies and a freak.
you can only understand it once you've had a relationship end. I watched it as a KHV and didn't get it. Then I rewatched it after breaking up with my first gf and it destroyed me.
I'm a 32 year old virgin. All this movie made me feel was pain
I'm sorry anon
here's your antidote, baby
This is the most high school level shit. "Bwawaaah, I want to forget her, bwaaaah" so they make a whole light sci-fi plot about it. I fricking hate Charlie Kaufman, every one of his movies is some semi-autobiogaphical whining about him being a bad person.
t. never had a girlfriend
>Can you watch this movie
No can do! Got an 8:30 res at Dorsia. Great sea urchin ceviche.
I can't watch ANY movie without thinking of my ex girlfriend. (10 years next week)
Same. It will be nine years in a few months.
Hell, I can’t cook a meal, take a shower, hum a tune, tie my shoelaces, without thinking of her.
Weird thing is, it wasn’t like this as long as we somewhat loosely kept in touch. Then a couple years ago she went no contact and I started hanging on to memories as if my life depended from it. It’s such bullshit. One time I realized that I couldn’t remember tiny details like how her front teeth come together (slightly crooked inward) and that gutted me.
Eventually you get numb to it, but it’s always there and it always sucks.
i refuse to watch this film because a pajeeta refused to make out with me and left midway
Nope
I can't watch this without thinking about her
>remember her clutching my arm
>remember her listening to me explain the plot
>remember us laughing
>remember us crying
>crying with your gf
Don't do this
>Can't be emotionally vulnerable in front of your gf because she will get the ick and leave you
Wtf is the point then?
Reading this thread made me realize that my interest in women goes as far as getting my dick wet.
Relationships are overrated. 99% of women are vapid thots. I'll never find a partner who shares the same interests as me so might as well swallow my pride and pay some Ukrainian prostitute for a single night.
Yep but also robowaifus are on the horizon