Considering it's Lesbian Visibility Week, how should a realistic lesbian character be written for comics and cartoons?

Considering it's Lesbian Visibility Week, how should a realistic lesbian character be written for comics and cartoons?

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  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I mean, I feel you just write a straight romance but have both involved be women, but I know some people hate that concept

    I wonder how this thread would go over on /lgbt/, if more active and if so, more useful

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      It's never been useful

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      That's really all that's needed to be compelling. Lumity is a decent example, as it wasn't treated any differently in Universe than your standard romance.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      write an entertaining relationship, not necessarily a good/healthy one, and make them both women. That's really about it, for me.

      Do you think there are any good relationships (straight or gay) that a creative should model their queer relationships on? Or on the opposite side, ones to avoid?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >don't scare me like that
        sometimes i wonder what it'd be like to be a woman. i don't mean physically female, y'know breasts and a vegana and the whole lot... i mean mentally. it seems rough, it's like they live their constant life in some kinda social worry, enemies at every turn and needing to overthink every social interaction levied their way
        why do they do this to themselves

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Considering that she asked about a smell first she was probably worried about having an infection or disease. But yeah being a woman seems exhausting, literally will never understand why someone would actively want to be one.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            well it's a mindset so i assume the people who actively wanna become them either already have that personality, or just wanna stay themselves but with a cooch
            but yeah women seem so constantly afraid of life

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          in fairness, her gf is giving her head, I feel like she'd at least want to feel like she's being courteous enough to smell alright down there

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      How is it different from a straight relationship? I emagine we drop the same dopamines when we fall in love.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Different societal expectations would make it different inherently, it's down to how much do you want to get into the weeds with it I suppose

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          How do you convey those social expectations effectively in writing/making comics and cartoons? Do you have a favorite example of this?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Dunno on comics and cartoons. An immediate example that comes to mind was a recent HBO show set in the 1920s where one of the characters is a lesbian, and we see how she has to be one in secret, and kinda breaks another girl's heart because she kinda just started dating her because she was the only other lesbian around, etc.

            Dunno, doesn't have to be too drastic, and I don't think it has to be at all, even- it's fine, especially if your story's not about romance or about society and effects on identity, to just do "normal straight relationship but two girls", as opposed to try to go "ok but how is the relationship different because of how society sees gays" etc.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              >as opposed to try to go "ok but how is the relationship different because of how society sees gays" etc.
              what will it take for media to move past this?

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    write an entertaining relationship, not necessarily a good/healthy one, and make them both women. That's really about it, for me.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >write an entertaining relationship, not necessarily a good/healthy one
      the same holds true for the opposite
      write an entertaining relationship, not n necessarily one with conflict
      it's disheartening that so many people think the only way to make a relationship in fiction entertaining is to to make conflict. Cheating, misunderstandings, arguments. To me that is never fun. But instead, seeing how a couple reacts to an outside problem and overcomes it together by combining their individual quirks.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I find the misunderstandings to be the most frustrating ones, since a lot of them could be resolved by one character having a normal reaction and the other clarifying what they meant or how they felt.

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    she should be interesting, duh. and explicitly uncompromisingly lesbian. none of that shit where she's actually bisexual all along. i think that's what happened to pearl with greg in steven universe because ian jq has a conversion fetish.

    it's also hard to do nowadays because if you see any success with a lesbian character, both executives and fans will try to push a man-larping-as-a-woman into the mix. lesbianism does not involve males in any form, mutilated or otherwise.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >ian jq has a conversion fetish.
      in his case, he might be one of the few cases where he "converted" someone since Sugar seems to have made him the one exception.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        there's no "successful" conversion because a self proclaimed lesbian who falls for a man was bisexual the whole time, y'know? sugar was either bisexual or even heterosexual all along. words have to mean things.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >words have to mean things.
          True, but doesn’t it get a bit more complicated when you have people who identify as nb or he/him lesbians? Sugar I believe identifies as non-binary, at least, and Erika Moen had her whole arc she always talks about.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            no, it doesn't get more complicated. homosexuality is the sexual orientation of being exclusively attracted to your own sex. sexual orientation is innate and immutable.

            a female person who is exclusively attracted to female people is a homosexual (a lesbian) no matter what words she uses to describe herself, or drugs she takes, or surgeries she endures. the only complications that arise is when you get fired or harassed for not playing pretend with delusional people.

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    These homosexuals have an entire week? Trans homosexuals only have Easter!

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    One should be the daughter of a devote christian family who has ideas about the place of women in society (not the kitchen) the other one only exists so the first one can be a lesbian

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Has there been any examples of this in media, especially Cinemaphile media?

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Domestic abuser

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >realistic lesbian character
    People say they want that but they really want something soft or palatable.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >they really want something soft or palatable.
      Do you feel like this is a detriment to writing actual three-dimensional lesbian relationships? Like writers and artists are prepared to do it, but have to soften the edges lest the audience gets mad about it? Artists want to be loved, after all

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Sometimes they can't go all the way due to fear of offending the audience or perpetuating stereotypes. Or the gay characters we do get are stuck in certain boxes and end up being boring.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I can’t tell what is worse: the Jackie reveal or that people at the time treated it like some victory or triumph for her character arc. At best, it was a neutral reveal.

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Lesbian Visibility Week
    Oh frick off.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This, you want a "realistic" lesbian?
      Write a cynical shithead of a woman, who is trying to grow out of her abusive habits by going to therapy, whom is also trying to get a date, and fails time and time again.

      Also this, every year I forget mens day or womens day exist, and have to be reminded Valentines month is also blacks month, stop dedicating "holidays" to people, that's dumb.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      It’s not like you knew of it before, and you won’t remember by tomorrow.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I just took a fat dump.

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Tillie Walden seems pretty good at it.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      What’s the context of the scene here?

  10. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I read one that was interesting but some would probably consider it problematic. Basically they were both trying to keep the relationship a secret and their relationship had problems because they were dumb teenagers who didn't have anything in common aside from both wanting to frick girls while being in a small town and having no options. I think that's part of what's holding lesbian romance back, they're addicted to the purest form of love crap and scared to portray it as 'taboo' because people would get up in arms.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Basically they were both trying to keep the relationship a secret and their relationship had problems because they were dumb teenagers who didn't have anything in common aside from both wanting to frick girls while being in a small town and having no options.
      What's it called?
      >they're addicted to the purest form of love crap and scared to portray it as 'taboo' because people would get up in arms.
      Yeah, I find it annoying. The retort I always hear is "oh well, we need some escapism in queer love" but when everyone tries to create an escapist fantasy where they have a relationship with no problems and only joy, it flattens a lot of potentially interesting things.

  11. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    They should be written as bisexuals. Because lesbians dont exist. If they said they are lesbians that just means they are coping by being stubborn or are a femcel.

  12. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >lesbian visibility week
    What the frick bullshit is this. Its not june yet.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      The lbgtq is the new sciencetology. They’re always in your face cancel anyone that gets in their way have celebrity influence and are constantly trying to brainwash people. Also they’ll use the word bigot to write off any criticism.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        They're also intolerant of nuance and ambiguity in the human condition. Every small sexual divergence needs to be fastidiously labeled and categorized into an ever-expanding list of utter inanity.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >The lbgtq is the new sciencetology

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >all feelings, no thoughts
          I deserve to be heard!

  13. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >lesbians
    Better at least one of them has a wiener or I'll cry transphobia.

  14. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >52% of lesbian relationships

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >before they became lesbians
      fixed that for you

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I see, you think sexuality is mutable? Not innate? So gay people can choose whether or not they are gay?

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >I see, you think sexuality is mutable? Not innate? So gay people can choose whether or not they are gay?
          No, he's saying that sometimes gay people are in straight relationships.

  15. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Lesbian Visibility Week
    Why are you so obedient and servile toward old ass war criminal billionaires ?????????

  16. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    If lesbians want to be visible they should wear reflective tape.

  17. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Why do they look like 4 year olds

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      It's just how the artist draws them.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous
  18. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    have you ever read watchmen?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >women in refrigerators

  19. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Considering it's Lesbian Visibility Week
    they get to be more annoying than the usual for a week?
    How is that possible?
    A foghorn?

  20. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Realistic
    The lesbo should be ugly, obese, and engage in domestic violence on semiregular basis.

  21. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Start by making the characters interesting, then work on the relationship stuff after.

  22. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    a vast majority of lesbians are repulsed by troony freaks
    LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      why is this a regular thought that goes through your head on a daily basis?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        because pointing it out makes bullets go through theirs

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          you're not a wizard mate that's not how it works

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Actually I am.
            *Uses mind powers to make your skull explode through the internet.*

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >a vast majority of lesbians are repulsed by troony freaks
      source?

  23. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >how should a realistic lesbian character be written

  24. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >how should a realistic lesbian character be written for comics and cartoons?
    Toxic and harmful
    She-Ra and Catra are the most realistic depictions of lesbians in media today

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Bisexuals might be skewing the data.

  25. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    i unironically hate women.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I like women, but I also like men, yet we get no fricking cartoons with gay boy characters, what the motherfrick. Im so sick of stinky lesbians. WHERE ARE MY GAY BOYS!?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Is Marco Diaz the only good bisexual male representation in recent years?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        be the change you want to see anon

  26. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    If we are talking realism most lesbian characters would end up in straight relationships.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Wouldn’t that just be bi women though?

  27. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Contrast. Most straight romance has contrast baked in by men and women already contrasting. But how people are different is where fun bits of romance come from. Most lesbian romance fiction either has two samey women doing nothing and then kissing, or shipping artificial polar opposites like an 80 sitcom pitch.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >shipping artificial polar opposites like an 80 sitcom pitch.
      this one is the better of the two, right?

  28. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Lesbian Visibility Week
    were you gays ever not visible?

  29. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Lesbians are only good for porn. I can't stand women and their issues and I can't stand two women trying to make their relationship work when its not all about destroying the patriarchy. Without men to hate most lesbians would likely consider themselves asexual or some shit.

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