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>attractive female
>lonely
In the book she's described as mid and then she has a real glow up in College
>mid female
>lonely
you sure you wanna keep going?
>mid
>woman
>lonely
Things never happen in life moment
>that
>attractive
>2/10 would not bang
I didn't say she was a 2, just not particularly attractive.
She is lonely in the show because she is a c**t to everyone.
I only watched the first episode but she doesn't look that attractive in that episode to get away with being a c**t. She looks like a solid 7/10.
What show?
sexist
but true
no,that's stating a fact
She's lonely in high school because she's the only rich person in a town full of working class people and chavs, and she's neglected by her mom and abused by her brother (who admittedly is more liked despite being rich) which leads to her being both standoffish/posh and really shy/repressed. I knew a girl who was exactly like that, she was really cute only she had crooked teeth, so people fixated on the looks part and disliked her for it without seeing the class angle. This led to her being really unpopular and insecure. Then she fixed her teeth and cut contact with everyone from school including me.
Great series really, as mentioned above, every plot point in it is incredibly relatable to me. All of the stuff shown happened either to myself personally (especially having a high school gf whom I mistreated for no rational reason, moving from a small town to bigger one, being incredibly lonely because of being raised in a working class family and sticking out in an academic environment and my friend ruining his life back home) or to my friends. Like most of these "slice of life" series are unrealistic crap, but this one cuts really close to home. The only pretentious bit was Marianne's BDSM streak because of how pronounced it was, but I know a girl with literally the same dynamic leading to the same fetishes, only barely anyone knows it.
lmao she's also rich apart from being a 9/10? poor little soul I pity her
Softcore porn series pretending to be a relationship drama.
Why are you reading female romance fantasy books?
Haven't read the book, but in the series the guy is the main character, ie the camera stays with him when the girl is offscreen and more attention is paid to his life and thoughts. She's a main character too, but he's more center stage. And it's not a romance fantasy since they more or less ruin each other's lives and don't end up together in the end.
Anyway I may watch soap operas if I feel like it and I did feel like watching this since it captivated me with the hopeless doomerism mixed with relatable stories. I was subjected to watching Skins and stuff like that with my gf like 10 years ago and it they all sucked ass compared to this series.
i know anon , while the book is absolute trash with such lazy communist commentary the series is so much better in both the political side with not pushing too much the class difference between the protagonists and imbibing the relationship with so much more emotion in a motionless modern dating world. As a 26 yr old fat loser im ashamed to admit the amount of times i've watched this series. Great acting by both.
>Great acting by both.
Taking clothes of all the time does not require talent.
dont know anon , really liked Paul Mescal and he was great in Aftersun .
Patrician taste anon.
I guarantee people saw the class angle whether they knew it or not. This shit is subconscious.
Yeah definitely. Only after college did I realize that all the people in high school whom I have considered buttholes and tried to avoid them despite them being popular, were simply rich. There was an annoying quality about all of them, but it took me like 5 years to realize that they all shared it and what it was exactly. I was a poor kid who couldn't afford a lot of stuff, especially winter sports that they all were into, but I got good grades so they often tried to approach me.
There were some good rich kids too like the bucktooth girl, but they weren't popular so I got on with them.
Yeah must be rough
this image is misleading because it reality it wouldn't be hands with roses it would be a thousand different dicks behind that door wanting to dick the girl down
being sexualized 24/7 and never noticed as a person hardly help cure the loneliness
Valuing women for their appearance rather than their "personality" does them a favour, if men weren't sexually attracted to women they would have nothing to do with them...
female logic
I could trade places with her but change the men for women
Sex evolves into romance. Deal with it.
Incels will never understand this.
based vagined individual completelly missing the point
I don't know man if dozens of girls showed pussies to me it's still would be not bad.
and you know that how?
you're wrong and know nothing about what men think and want
this image is far more accurate than you will ever realise
>times some random "lonely" chick has been invited to a party because MAYBE she will frick someone and anyway guys just like having girls around: uncountable
>times a lonely male has been invited to a party despite being socially isolated and not good friends with any of the organizers: near 0
And a man is only valued for the labor and resources he can provide, not as a person. Try again, c**t.
>they only want me around for my vegana!
Not only are you wrong about incels, you don’t seem to have ever met one at all. They will listen for fricking weeks to women blather on for the chance at a hug at the end of it all. Friend zoned? They’ll still talk.
its hilarious how literally every reply you've got proves you're right
How?
wrong, the roses are in the hands of "losers" or so called "low value males", or "below 7.5/10s"
Me? I'm the man who sold them those flowers.
ikr kkkkkk
I knew this beautiful girl who got molested by her uncle when she was 11. Tried to kill herself twice, has been perpetually depressed and on meds ever since. When you see her you'd think she could have whoever she wants but no one wants that kind of baggage. She probably could only connect to someone as 'broken' as her.
She's the author (pic related) self-insert. You can tell she picked a "me but actually pretty" kind of actress to play the role.
Playing fast and loose with the word pretty there, anon.
>muh hot lonely f*moid
i saw some shittok the other day about this girl whining how she didnt have any friends growing up, getting bullied, she thought she was ugly yada yada and then casually mentions her college bf in high school, how bois would text her all the time
its rough out there
Why didn't they use a real post from r/manlet? Surely theres a real post on there that is still this bad. Instead it's a post from r/nosleep about some moron signing up to go kill people and can't live with the fact he killed some people.
zoz
i wish peace and happiness on all my manlet bros out there
I've been lonely for 31 years of my life
Gosling being lonlier than the girl above is far more realistic
why?
Because he’s a man.
so women cannot be lonely?
They can definitely feel lonely.
they can feel what they believe loneliness to be
No, even chubbies/fats have at least 3 simps orbiting around
They gotta have either some sort of disability, be extremely ugly or morbidly obese
>They gotta have either some sort of disability, be extremely ugly or morbidly obese
i work in bar that doesn't even matter
So what if they do have a disability? I know an autistic girl who's a virgin in her early 20s and she's very pretty but has a fixation on the idea of finding true love + her autism gets in the way. She does hard drugs (opiates, zannies etc.) and thinks about suicide all the time. But she is a beautiful israeli virgin girl.
Brainwashed israelite. You should tell her to kill herself
I know a pretty 33 year old virgin Christian girl. She’s mentally ill and has sky high standards. Being rejected by a Christian Chad basically mind broke her and she’s sworn off finding a husband. That’s basically the closest you’ll get to an actual femcel, someone who is highly delusional.
>someone who is highly delusional.
does that apply to all people who are +30 year old virgins?
No because unlike women, men can be a +30 year old virgin with a severe mental illness.
usually for women that's the case. men its just a lack of effort/moping about it.
lel. shouldn't laugh but...
A woman's loneliness is entirely self-imposed.
only a goddamn fricking troongot wiil ask question like this. knife to your throat. stab stab stab.
meds
Yup same. I was born lonely, I’ll die lonely.
It's been so long since I've touched a woman that I've settle into this position. Not lonely, just cruising through life
a little bit
I'm alone, I'm not lonely.
this unironically
do not let your dick rule you
This. Why is it so hard for other people to understand this concept?
I can clearly see that the happiest men are parents of happy children in healthy families.
bully for them.
women can never experience true loneliness
Horrible commie book and shit series.
reminder that even the most pure innocent girls have been watching shit like that since their early teens. Slapping, spitting, choking are jsut regular things they did with their ex. Of course not with you though because you're different 🙂
True. The psy ops worked on me and I made 5 girls rim me so far, it's a power thing I just feel good knowing someone is going to kiss and marry this girl that had her tongue in my ass. I really don't understand how rimming got so popular but from something disgusting it has now become mandatory for me.
it's over. The window of opportunity to find a good woman (a virgin) and settle down is 15-22 at most. After that there are no virgins and if you go after them you're a creepy old guy. Might aswell just become an all out cuck, when the alternative is pretending to not know about it.
>I need her to be a virgin!
You sound like such a caricature.
>NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO IT'S UNREALISTIC
It's stupid.
trim your flaps
See
. Who can imagine his wife or girlfriend doing this without immediately wanting to murder everyone within a ten-mile radius? If she's not a virgin, she's not an option, and anyone who says otherwise is either lying or delusional.
9/10 times it's the woman who asks you to do depraved shit like that because they got completely sexually destroyed by a sadistic ex who would "abuse" them (who in their mind is their best sexual partner ever), and will then turn around and complain about men being abusive or some shit.
Wait haha is that the twink from the Nathan fielder skit?
Yes, but that's just how it is when you aren't a normalgay. You walk outside and nobody's anything like you. They'll all act politely, but they aren't your people, you're just coworkers.
>They'll all act politely, but they aren't your people, you're just coworkers.
True. Once you stop being useful to them, then you're out.
I'm god's lonely man
This is the only thing I have in common with Travis but its enough. Frick me
>clip and timestamp related
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These c**ts fetishize loneliness and have never truly felt it.
9:05 of video*
>lonely
>woman
You can only get lonely if you've experienced what it's like to have friends which I have never experienced so no I don't feel lonely. I feel normal.
>women's loneliness
this 10/10 tall handsome attractive Chad is not answering my texts immediately
>men's loneliness
I haven't been hugged in 10 years
I dont get it
Is this some kind of sex movie?
It's a series based on a book written by an ugly commie.
She, naturally, gets the hot guy despite being homely. Can you believe a woman wrote it!?
>commie
I feel like you don't know what this word means.
The book has long fricking paragraphs of flat out discussions of fricking marxism, anon.
the author literally claims she's a marxist you dummy
How is that ugly? She's not a supermodel and has a weird offcenter nose, but she's definitely way better looking than most women, her figure especially.
Did she ditch you in high school that you're so obsessed with her? Are you some Paddy goblinoid with red wiry hair and a ruddy big nose because of all the whisky that you drink?
>pic
oof 3/10
a bit too attractive/skinny to play the woman who acts like their emotions and ego are detached from sex
said no woman ever
>ah, that's nice
Fricking hell Connell, lad
Girls tell me how lonely they are then in the same breath tell me how busy they are with "friendsgiving" and other events they're going to with all these different people.
Yes, you can feel lonely even if you have friends. Sometimes you just don't connect properly with them but you've know them for years or decades. Some of you took loneliness and found a way to be arrogant stuck ups too so you alienate all friends and spend all your days in your room living on welfare and then get mad when people don't isolate themselves like you.
Shut the frick up you attention seeking homosexual.
Your anger tells a lot.
lmao. You're the butthole here. You're a textbook attention prostitute who sits around dumping on your "friends" and then you turn around and throw shade on them saying they're "not enough" for you by saying they make you feel lonely. You're the toxic person in that friend group and deserve to be isolated.
I don't dump on my friends, that's why I'm lonely, I keep to myself and things bottle up inside. I don't tell anyone how lonely I am because I don't want to burden them and because generally people don't like it when you do that, I think. I've been a rock for two friends and allowed them to dump their shit on me and I feel like I've really helped them emotionally even if their lives are happier than mine. All you know is anger, that's why nobody likes you.
Yeah,skill issue,not really loneliness.
Hey troony just stop with the armchair "I'm a psychologist" bullshit act you're putting on. We both know you're a frick up because you entered this thread randomly projecting on people so you clearly have a chip on your shoulder when someone shows you a mirror to your toxic personality. I know people like you and you're all snakes in the grass because you're a prostitute for attention. People who get all this love from their friends and family, who then just turn around and say that they don't do enough for you and that they make you lonely are just little prostitutes. I know this because every woman who has told me how "lonely" she was, was just asking me for sex. The OP pic is from a scene where exactly that is happening. Uni girls are not complicated. Inb4 larping, I bet you don't even know what a vegana tastes like.
But now that I think about it, your discord gang are not real friends. A bunch of guys with anime girl avatars, jerking off together to the idea of wearing panties is not a "community." This might be part of your problem.
>bu-bu-but you're mad!
I just don't like little snakes like you. You guys are predators and you waste all our time because of your antics. You are a waste of time.
All this projecting, jeez...
>a-actually you're projecting!!!
Great response, male. Again, you're a waste of time so go ruin your own friendships. It doesn't affect my life at all because I can identify you losers so easily. Yeah yeah yeah, women who can't go two seconds without a study group, "friendsgiving" or getting boned are just as lonely as wizards. Same thing totally.
Nobody believes you.
Why are you so angry? You think if you repeat your little points you'll "meme magic" them into reality? Oh you ruin your relationships, oh you're a man, oh women can't be lonely because they don't go out if their way to self isolate, oh you can't be lonely if you can have meaningless sex like a prostitute.
You just sound insufferable and that's why you're lonely.
You are a woman
Friends are great but they don't fill the same emotional needs as a lover, and vice versa (though lovers are usually but not always friends too.)
While I don't think women can be truly lonely, you can generally feel lonely even with friends, and even with a gf. I'm currently living all on my own hundreds of miles away from anyone I know. I still talk to my friends over the internet and I write with my gf everyday, but I'm still very lonely.
Ironic because I don't think men can ever truly be lonely.
>31 year old kissless virgin
>no friends for over a decade
>even then only ever had one real friend who basically dumped my ass because i'm a frickup
>have to be lectured to about how people doing better than me in literally every single way and living lives i dream of are actually worse off than me and sadder
when exactly did it all become this bad? what did i do to deserve this treatment?
Probably lots, but instead of taking responsibility, you go on Cinemaphile to ask for pity.
nothing about me is attractive to women no matter how fit i get. i'm dumb too and will never make enough money for the average woman who makes a ton more than me by default. i don't understand what i'm supposed to do. would you rather i become delusional and find happiness alone somehow because that's all these types of threads devolve into nowadays
>some people are meant to be alone chud, just deal with it
when that's the main advice for people like me its hard to not get demoralized and depressed.
List every last thing you’ve done with your life to try to attract women
why should i bother trying when the average sex haver literally doesn't have to try to get in relationships and have sex? if you have to "try" to court and woman and it just doesn't happen naturally that's probably a sign that you shouldn't be dating at all. for regular people things happen organically. if you have to weed your way into some friend group that doesn't want you or constantly face rejection that's a sign you're not fit to reproduce or experience intimacy.
>when the average sex haver literally doesn't have to try to get in relationships and have sex
Except they do.
they.. don't. every sex haver i've know just fell into sex and relationships as a teen and stuff just snowballs from there. if you miss out on sex from like 16 to mid 20's you're going to be irreversibly fricked up in terms of social skills, and chances are you're ugly too since no women approached you growing up. so then you just end up an ugly permanently socially moronic subhuman no woman wants.
None of this is really happening to you. Its all in your head. If you want to change, you need to look into Emile Coue and learn positive thinking strategies. Stop reading incel black pill bullshit. There are no "sex havers" in the real world, only desperate, scared people struggling for and occasionally discovering intimacy. Popping a stiffy and boning some insecure girl that doesnt know if you'll be there for her a year from now isnt some incredible feat. The language you use is making that seem like some unreachable herculean task. If you continue to say and think the term "sex haver" you will not have sex. Thats an overblown distinction that doesnt exist amywhere other than your own, overblown insecurity. Until you find the courage to wean off of this self flagellating, self pitying language, you will consign yourself to this artificial misery. Plenty of people start life with a dry spell spanning several decades. Life is not television.
>Popping a stiffy and boning some insecure girl that doesnt know if you'll be there for her a year from now isnt some incredible feat.
i haven't had a woman approach me in my entire life. i have never had a full conversation with a woman unrelated to me. a woman has never touched me. it absolutely is an incredible feat for a woman to even acknowledge my existence period. let alone be intimate with a woman in any way whatsoever.
anon, he's a +30 year old virgin, not a 17 year old spergy dude. Appreciate the effort but it's rather done in his case. If anything he should find some happiness outside love and relationships.
>There are no "sex havers" in the real world
lmao
my old roommate is a greasy 5'8 creep, has no charisma and has slept with 300+ women purely by memorizing PUA techniques and hitting on women dailly. oh he also has no standards and will frick anything. point is, you can definitely fake "organically" meeting and sleeping with women; in fact you basically have to. Women do not want to meet a guy thats strategizing about meeting them. Women want to meet a guy coincidentally or after watching them from afar to vet them. Learning how to fake that coincidental meeting and keeping up the act for 24 - 48 hours is long enough to get laid. I will say admit all these women hate him afterwards but he usually just ghosts now
>no matter how fit i get
Oh please. You've never been to a gym in your life. People there socialize all the time and I bet you've never been fit.
You also made no attempt at building friendships because you thought everyone from your neighborhood or in your class at school was too stupid for you. And you probably don't want to settle for a woman that's not out of your league. Crying about being stupid is not going to net you any sympathy, being stupid was a choice.
>out of your league
meme
i do an hour of cardio most days and eat healthy. i have no need to go to a gym because i'm ugly with a bad frame, muscles aren't going to fix anything and only delusional roid monkeys think otherwise. also no i don't ever judge people like that. people have always judged me by my appearance and have ostracized me my entire life solely because i am ugly. which made it impossible for me to learn any sort of social skills.
>only delusional roid monkeys think otherwise
So... sex havers? All you virgin losers always look down on people but you're the laziest people in the world. Just go to the gym, change your haircut, smile and exercise. Whiny homosexual.
lazy b8/10
the lanky tall handsome dude with a big wiener is fricking more women than any jacked manlet with an ugly face and pencil dick.
The handsome face will bang more than the ugly face but the gymrat will frick more than the friendless loser that never leaves his house. You can cope all you want but you made your bed, now sleep in it.
I wouldn't be a friendless loser virgin if i wasn't ugly and unattractive in every way and absolutely nothing women want out of a man physically. people don't want ugly people for friends because you can't introduce an ugly guy to a girl and you can't use an ugly guy as a wingman.
And you make no effort in trying to be presentable.
why would i when all that matters is face, height, and dick and i have none of that. your chances of ever having sex are determined at birth.
Bro, I've seen hot girls on onlyfans filming porn with their ugly manlet boyfriends with small dicks. You have no excuse because you make no effort to better your situation you think crying about it will magically fix it.
its almost like those men have to settle for gross prostitutes or something. the guys in amateur porn who are hung could easily get some perfect virgin waifu but they're degenerates.
Oh so you think you're better. Lo and behold and that's why nobody likes you.
Lowering your standards works for everyone b. There are millions of hamplanets getting fricked by guys who look like doug walker right now and you're missing out.
those fat girls can still do better than me and act like i don't exist.
>can still do better than me
For one night maybe, but they figure out the supply demand situation eventually. Even if normal fat girls don't immediatelly like you, you can raise your profile by just being more persistent or even going for the mutant fat girls
yeah these threads are pointless nowadays. might as well just tell me to kill myself. that's what you're basically doing anyways.
>Go to the gym? Good sir, why not just tie the noose around my neck instead?
the difference is i'm being a realist. why do you think a small amount of muscles unnoticeable with clothes on is going to suddenly turn an ugly dude into a pussy slayer? why do you even bother typing that? i am not fat, i exercise, muscles are not necessary unless you're already good looking.
>i exercise
Don't believe you.
you can believe whatever you want. i do cardio regularly, eat well, and am around 160lbs at 5'10". i also lost 120lbs years ago and have kept it off. didn't improve my attractiveness or luck with women at all. they still ignore me or look uneasy around me.
>i also lost 120lbs years ago
did your face improve?
i went from fat and ugly to normal weight and ugly so no not really.
atleast now you fit into normal clothes.
t. fat and ugly
Women arent as preoccupied with looks as you think. Confidence is the first thing they see and the prevailing influence on their attraction. You could look like chris hemsworth and still get no action if you cant maintain eye contact and have low self esteem body language. Of course they'll just assume you're a creep or gay
i have literally heard of good looking autistic dudes being approached by women and having sex in hs solely because of their looks. the whole idea that women care about personality more than looks falls apart when you realize they're all over good looking awkward dudes. women are just as shallow as men. you NEED to overcompensate in a million ways IF you don't have good looks.
I am a good looking autistic man and women have never approached me to randomly proposition for sex.
you must have been an ugly duckling or something cause plenty of tall, hung, autistic zoomers fell into sex in HS.
I had long hair and a bad neckbeard. I look a lot better now. I have had a couple of coworkers give me their number. Of course, nothing happened because I am too autistically stunted from years of inexperience and Cinemaphile, but no woman has ever come up to me and asked to bang.
>no woman has ever come up to me and asked to bang
that never happens
I know, that's what I was saying. Other anon claims that happens.
you had women approach you to date. i'm 31 and haven't even been approached by a woman for a conversation. we are not the same.
And guess what anon I never went on a single date with any of them, I asked for another coworkers' number and tried autistically calling her 3 times in a row not realizing she was insta hanging up on me every time and literally for weeks afterward everyone was gossiping about how "he tried calling her 3 times" and shit talking about how much of a weirdo I am and calling me things like stalker, talking about me in Spanish literally right in front of my face. I still haven't gone on a date in over 5 years and I'll be 25 in a month, does that make you feel better?
>that never happens
probably not literally, but i had women i barely knew from a few conversations come up to me drunk and squeeze my dick, expecting me to escalate the situation (which i never did because it grossed me out somehow)
sorry but you're obviously not good looking. cos I know that what he said is true.
You don't think so? My mommy says I'm very handsome. Still haven't showered today yet though.
You're not ugly.
Thanks.
It's on the bigger side but not stupid huge. Dick pics are usually never a good idea.
you kinda look like jonah falcon. do you have a large penis as well? just send dick pics ez sex.
you're nowherea near as good looking as my autistic friend who gets laid. he's so good looking he doesn't even have to talk to girls they come up and talk to him. I don't know why you think you're good looking enough to be able to just frick girls without a personality? you're a good looking man definitely but not as gorgeous as a model or anything.
>Women arent as preoccupied with looks as you think
This is either incel cope, or a woman trying to cope with her own vanity.
>Women arent as preoccupied with looks as you think
they are but they dont say it as men do.
Don't believe you. If it had no results you would've quit.
what the frick do you want me to do homie? post my hand? how can i prove to you i lost that weight like 7 fricking years ago. its not possible anonymously. all i did is change my diet and do regular cardio it isn't hard.
Post belly.
Not trying to insult by telling you to go after fat girls, just trying to make you realize that you do have options. So finding fulfilment with a 2/10 is not possible for you, how about a 3/10? A 4/10? What attractiveness level would allow you to be happy, it's silly obviously it's subjective nonsense - a girl's appearance can't make you happy or sad by itself. You want the social status and leaderboard position that comes with it - that is what you think will make you happy - meaning other people's imagined opinion of you. It's silly, my advise is just let go of the idea that you will be happy when you can be observed with a woman. That doesn't mean you should not be participating in the dating world, just that you shouldn't take it seriously. Bang a hooker, try some corny lines on a desperate fat girl on tinder just for laughs - it's fun! Leave the gay dating scoreboard for the normies.
>>31 year old kissless virgin
>>no friends for over a decade
>>even then only ever had one real friend who basically dumped my ass because i'm a frickup
Are you literally me?
>when exactly did it all become this bad? what did i do to deserve this treatment?
sorry are you getting bombed by israelites right now? no you're not so quit your fricking whining. grow up and take responsibility for your own life. make a change.
>what did i do to deserve this treatment?
lmao who forced you to open this thread, bubba?
She has lots of friends.
She has lots of boyfriends.
I hate women.
What show?
Normal People.
It's a waste of time.
Is this show normal people really a waste of time? never hear dof it but looks like its 12 episodes got good reviews. but if its all about love ill probably get depressed watching it
It's really good. I was sceptical because the book was highly rated by the guardian, but it's legit. Paul Mescal is /ourguy/. Follow it up with aftersun to compound the emptinesd you feel
My problem is that literally nothing happens.
It's a show about fricking nothing, but not in the good Seinfeld way.
Plus, the communism from the books is largely removed from the show -- but does come out during the college parts.
>Ugh I'm so lonely I couldn't find a chad on tinder tonight they were all taken
you get used to it, even if yoi felt the opposite. its quite enjoyable actually. no bickering, no problems of other, no one smarter or stupider than myself, its bliss. maybe i deluded myself so much as to think this way, but as of now i cant complain. no one besides a few others on earth share the same tastes as me and i can perfectly exchange with you rotten ilk on the net
>uh... but she could have SEX! How could someone with access to what I personally lack possibly be ever unhappy?
Incel logic.
Look at this homosexual simping on an image board. lol
>Have
I am. It is wonderful
>Attractive woman talks about depression
>it's another normal people lecturing total frickup losers that all they need to do is shower and gym to be normal thread
lol
reminds me of this
did u even look at the picture? he gets btfo in almost every conversation
You should try normal, you might even like it.
You can't lift your way to normality moron, no amount of self improvement will make someone to who relationships are an alien concept into a normal person
you cant just become normal, if you could everyone would be normal
i go on dates with ugly girls just to have someone to talk to, i think life wouldnt be so bad if i wasnt fat
I seriously hope you don't pay for their shit on those dates. I've become friends with some women, who first rejected me because they thought I was hitting on them, but I legitimately found them interesting in a platonic way.
Funny enough some of them tried initiating a romantic relationship, as they found out I was actually boyfriend material after all, but I shot that down. Kind of hilarious just how much it fricks with their heads.
i pay for drinks, like $20. I make decent money so its not so bad.
Women are just usually unhappy about the kind of people that give them attention. They wish they were people with more status. A lonely man gets no attention at all if he is not constantly out there trying and failing. Both feel bad, but is not the same.
Some of my friends found it absolutely unbelievable that I had less than 50 contacts in my phone. I had to open it and show it to them. I have 37 contacts, more than half of which are things like doctor's offices. I have maybe a dozen real contacts on my phone but I never text or get texts from any of them. Normal people genuinely don't understand the level of isolation and loneliness we are on. To them, loneliness is "I only got invited to 1 party this week" or "I broke up with my girl and it took me 2 whole months to find another one and I only had a measly 3 hookups in that time." The idea that someone can be completely alone and have no one contact them for days or even weeks is quite literally incomprehensible to them.
>isolation and loneliness
>my friends
Yeah, my whole 2 friends. Also, they've started excluding me. We were supposed to watch the AoT finale together, but they tried to reschedule it without me, and now today one of them invited the other to a baby shower, but not me. So yeah, isolation.
my only contacts in my phone are my parents, grandmother, and sister and i'm 31.
they don't know about great forums such as Cinemaphile.
Besides the temporary carnal pleasure, do you really think that sort of thing is to be envied? Normies are hyper dependent on social validation. They cant stand being along with themselves. It keeps them locked into a dangerous, infantile, superficial mindset. How they are perceived is everything to them and they ultimately have a broken view of reality. These anons get it
We all live and die alone. The "you" that exists in the minds of your closest friends and family is a shadow, colored by their prejudices. If you could meet the "you" in your own mother's or your best friend's mind, you would probably be disgusted at how they mischaracterize you.
>They cant stand being along with themselves
thats the most dangerous thing
>do you really think that sort of thing is to be envied
Yes, it is. It's not about carnal pleasure, it's about fulfilling social relationships. It's about having people waiting for you to get home, having a reason to get up in the morning. Humans are social animals, our lives are defined primarily through our relationships with others, life is not worth living without a tribe. You're delusional if you think sitting on Cinemaphile could ever be better than going to a baby shower or a birthday party.
Sure, scrolling Cinemaphile is unproductive, but honing a skill in private can be more valuable than going to a birthday party or a baby shower, depending on a persons circumstances. Baby showers are for women anyway. "Fulfilling social relationships" vary from person to person. Not everyone craves the same level of social validation. People need a tribe, but thats not something a person should compromise for. If you arent getting invited to baby showers by a particular group, then they must not share the values you've expressed during your time together. Most people are sick these days. If they cant appreciate your company for some superficial reason like contacts in your phone, thats their problem not yours. I would fast disposses a tribe as psychotic as that.
>honing a skill in private
Black person you think the shut-ins on Cinemaphile are going to be doing that on any given night instead of coping and seething?
I study programming when I'm not getting sucked into scrolling. Nothing stopping other people here from working toward something
>honing a skill in private can be more valuable than going to a birthday party or a baby shower
I thought getting good at something would make me happy so i've studied the blade (drawing), i got pretty good but ultimately i'm just a miserable guy who happens to be pretty good at something. These thoughts make me very bitter, i don't think honing skills worth it, at the end of the day maybe you should just try to get along with people, be normal and flirt with girls, people don't care for skills, even in the workplace they really just want to be around people that makes them feel good.
I have the contacts widget on my phone disabled. It's a device to stay in touch with co-workers, carry out occasional personal errands and to call home twice a week to let the parents know I'm alive and well. I've gotten back into my old habit of also immediately deleting all calls and texts once the piece of business associated with the back-and-forth is finished. Guess what my dumbphone's wallpaper looks like. :^)
Not really, i still have my family, Cousins and have decent relations with my work mates
I wanna try to be more social in 2024 and try to score real friends and a gf, but it's probably gonna take awhile.......
Women can be lonely, but it's always, always their choice. Maybe like 0,1% of female population is lonely by not a choice, like total cripples. Same goes with so called femcels.
>turning 32 in a month
>kissless virgin, never even been on a date
>haven't really had friends since I was a young teenager, never attended parties or prom in high school
>even attended college, lived in a dorm, lived in apartment with people, and basically were just acquaintances with some people, never had college social experience
>still live with parents and we barely speak to each other
>have a pathetic humilaiting job that I'm completely ashamed of and don't speak to coworkers who are all better than me
>so humiliated about how pathetic my life is that I completely and utterly avoid everyone, lie about my life, make absolutely zero attempts to socialize because I don't want anyone to see anything about my life
>there are weekends where if I didn't speak in passing to my parents, I would go days without speaking
>have never had another person besides myself in my bed before
>a lifetime of loneliness that most people can't even fathom
I am completely aware that I have caused this existence for myself, but I am completely socially avoidant. Being socially avoidant left me at this point with a miserable life, and then my miserable life exacerbates my social avoidance because I don't want anyone to see how miserably I live.
Every single day I pray for the strength to commit suicide
I can relate to this way much that I want.
lit me
My life is kind of the same, but i feel ok most of the time. You need to find something interesting to you so you can stop thinking about that shit 24/7.
>You need to find something interesting to you so you can stop thinking about that shit 24/7.
it doesnt matter because everything i do i am reminded about what a loser i am. i go on the subway to work every morning, i look at all the people there and know how mcuh better they are than me, people with real jobs, have money, have friends and relationships, the men and women who all have the ring on their finger. i even have a main hobby i do (officiating sports) that is to be active and waste time, and all i think about is how much more attractive and socially normal the people i officiate are, even more depressing when its youth games with teenagers
sorry for you two
its a pathetic job and the degree was useless. ive already wasted all the years with any chance to do anything. it doesnt matter anymore. i cant even fathom doing a job interview and having to expose my humiliation of how ive wasted my life with no career building at all, and barely any skills. especially with how apparently disastrous the job market is now,theres nothing i could even get. i am completely worthless
What job? You can tell me. You know what I do? I work as 'security' in a clothing store. We're not allowed to actually do anything though, so I'm basically a fancy door greeter. That's it, I stand at the front of the store for hours a day just saying hello to people doing absolutely nothing, watching people gossip. I doubt your job is lower status than mine.
even if someone steals the clothing?
I see people steal shit all the time. We are given very explicit instructions: do nothing. We ask them to pay for it, that's it. If I try to confront them, or take their items, or block the door, or basically do anything, I will be the one fired, our instructions are very clear on that. There is basically no reason for my job to exist because we are powerless and all the other employees know and make fun of us for it.
Not everything is competition, mate. Find something that is meaningful to you, and do it without thinking about the rest of the world. It can be as simple as reading or making origami. The goal is not to make you an expert, but to keep your mind bussy with other things. Feeling less anxious is important to improve.
im not even really comparing myself to others. i know that i will never be anywhere near the normal people in myage group. its comparing myself to myself and how pathetic my life is.
What is your job and what was your degree in? If it's lucrative/has social status there might still be hope yet.
>don't speak to coworkers who are all better than me
what job? sounds like something that you could improve and then the job wouldn't be humiliating anymore?
how have you guys never even been on a date? going on a date with a woman is dead easy just sign up to a dating app and you'll find at least one woman that wants to go out with you.
I have no money now, but i will try again eventually. I am not bad talking to them, but god, i suck at getting their clues after the first dates.
no, ive never been on a date in my life. i became a loser in high school when people started going on dates so there was no reason to try. then i went to college and was still a social loser and i definitely offered nothing to any college-aged girls. and now ive been a loser into my early 30s and its even more useless to try dating women when you're in your mid 20s, late 20s, early30s with nothing but a pathetic life, especially in my area. the concept of even going on a date terrifies me
apps are for chad only bro not gonna waste my time getting 0 matches tbh
apps are only bad if you're ugly. if you're average looking you will at least get 1 match.
frick meant for
im ugly bro
Ah yes the dating apps
>get no matches
>get a match that was obviously accidental as they unmatch you right afterwards
>get one match every 3 months but they will never ever reply to anything you say no matter what opening you use
That's been my experience
> literally download the demoralisation app for your daily demoralisation that's all you have to do
Femanon pls
Are you Schizoid?
don't know don't care
Avoidant personality disorder (AvPD) or Anxious personality disorder is a Cluster C personality disorder characterized by excessive social anxiety and inhibition, fear of intimacy (despite an intense desire for it), severe feelings of inadequacy and inferiority, and an overreliance on avoidance of feared stimuli (e.g. self-imposed social isolation) as a maladaptive coping method.[1] Those affected typically display a pattern of extreme sensitivity to negative evaluation and rejection, a belief that one is socially inept or personally unappealing to others, and avoidance of social interaction despite a strong desire for it.[2] It appears to affect an approximately equal number of men and women.[3]
People with AvPD often avoid social interaction for fear of being ridiculed, humiliated, rejected, or disliked. They typically avoid becoming involved with others unless they are certain they will not be rejected, and may also pre-emptively abandon relationships due to a real or imagined fear that they are at risk of being rejected by the other party.[4]
Childhood emotional neglect (in particular, the rejection of a child by one or both parents) and peer group rejection are associated with an increased risk for its development; however, it is possible for AvPD to occur without any notable history of abuse or neglect.[5]
Avoidant individuals are preoccupied with their own shortcomings and form relationships with others only if they believe they will not be rejected. They often view themselves with contempt, while showing a decreased ability to identify traits within themselves that are generally considered as positive within their societies.[6] Loss and social rejection are so painful that these individuals will choose to be alone rather than risk trying to connect with others.
Some with this disorder fantasize about idealized, accepting, and affectionate relationships because of their desire to belong. They often feel themselves unworthy of the relationships they desire, and shame themselves from ever attempting to begin them. If they do manage to form relationships, it is also common for them to pre-emptively abandon them out of fear of the relationship failing.[4]
Individuals with the disorder tend to describe themselves as uneasy, anxious, lonely, unwanted and isolated from others.[7] They often choose jobs of isolation in which they do not have to interact with others regularly. Avoidant individuals also avoid performing activities in public spaces for fear of embarrassing themselves in front of others.
Symptoms include:
Extreme shyness or anxiety in social situations[3]
Heightened attachment-related anxiety, which may include a fear of abandonment[8]
Substance use disorders[9][10][11]
Fits me to the letter. Though I've been working on it a lot the last decade.
Today I'm squad leader in (country's version of) the National Guard, lead the fitness activities in my company, and run a yoga class at work.
Shit's mentally tough, though.
sounds like you're plenty social, homosexual. shut the frick up.
>Though I've been working on it a lot the last decade
Are you a moron? You need to put in the work to fix yourself just a little bit.
Keep wallowing in your self-pity, friend.
no you're the moron for being a successful normgroid and acting like you have le heckin anxiety.
lol you sure showed that guy, imagine improving!? What a moron!
can you tell me what gym makes me taller and handsome with a big dick? no? have a nice day.
I'd prefer not to kill myself, I'm optimistic.
🙂
enjoying being "right" and miserable though I suppose.
Get the surgery where they break your leg bones and stretch that shit out. Then tie a dumbbell to yer dick for a couple hours a day. Worked for me.
Why don't more women get into e-girlta/Cosplay?
/cgl/ is full of lonely women pic related one of their tea parties.
chad fricked all of them and made them eat his ass.
There are at least two trannies in this image. I'm also 90 per cent sure I know one of the actual women and I heard she's in a 'lesbian marriage' with a transwoman.
How long does it take for touch-starvation to kill you? I want off this ride.
The last time I celebrated a birthday I was 10 years old.
I don't know why I expected a nuanced discussion of how lonely people have been feeling these days, as statistics show, instead of this rather infantile competition of who is actually the most lonely one.
It is mostly men (for now). It is probably related to social media
what nuance do you want?
there's been a male lonliness epidemic for a while now. women are doing better than ever.
Women have been doing better in other fields, especially academically, but the loneliness epidemic also reached them, although not as hard as it hit men.
>i wish a single woman would acknowledge my existence
vs
>i wish chad would frick me
Loneliness has a lot more to do with friendship than romance, people just have become so much more isolated in a facade of "independence", and the rare solidarity feels either performative or suffocatingly cult-like rather than genuine, and that without mentioning how the internet either is the main cause of it or accelerated it to how it is right now.
I hate women so much it physically hurts
another day another thread where the only advice is
>cope alone better
>have a nice day
>just lift bro
>get le hobby
>women DESERVE chad, chud, you don't know how hard it is not not get the chad dick I WORKED FOR
like bots.
What kind of advice do you want? One where you magically drown in 10/10 pussy without leaving your house?
if you are a truly ugly and socially stunted adult man chances are you're just gonna die a virgin. no woman will find you attractive or desirable at any point no matter how hard you IMPROOOOOOOVE or cope. sex havers don't ever think about this shit or care life just happens organically since childhood, its autopilot for them. it is over.
Chris Chan got a gf
it's never over if you don't give up.
>just become the most famous and deranged lolcow of all time
i see.
mate if someone who is known for fricking their mother and being a deranged lunatic got a gf then you can too
>bro just insanitymaxx
sounds legit.
no
It's not about insanity. Those people are famous, so they have status. Those women date them precisely because of that. If they were same and nobody has heard of them, women would ignore them.
>status
>Boogie
>Chrischan
I get what you mean, but they have negative status. They are popular pieces of shit who attract mentally ill girls who try to fix them. Same as with serial killers.
Popular and known = status. What status does a normal man who works a boring everyday job have? None.
Some women have low standars too. If you want someone who is not insane, you should try to be a better option too.
One where I could have at least a contact on discord to talk with, who can be trusted and has the same level of interest in the relationship, that would be a start. But that's impossible because any woman who advertises herself for something like this online will be flooded with people who want to talk to her.
It's time to start consider the hard uncomfortable truths that society and women are fundamentally broken and wicked in nature. But this is still too much more most people.
Ok. How many of these things have you actually tried before you came b***hing into this thread?
do you even lift bro?
>Cashier says she can bag my items
>I say no that's fine
>Fricking c**t starts doing it anyways
What is his psyop bullshit. I fricking hate women so much. The o my reason I was dealing with her bullshit was because self service kiosks don't have the option to set sale prices.
Is that why she did it, just to frick with me? c**t.
If even fricking Boogie can get a gf (twice), you gays can too. The problem is that you keep wainting for a manic pixie dream girl
I’ve gradually become less lonely over time, whilst ignoring prostitutes/women in general. Not focusing on dating, and just focusing on a few core relationships; yet by physically cutting myself off from 4/5ths of the world, I’m remarkably less lonely. What phenomena is this?
Imagine accepting that Boogie has more status than you. This is some gay cuck mentality
should i make an instagram?
seems thats where people are meeting each other nowadays
Instagram is shit and will make you hate your life more. Get out to real places instead.
But i'm not completely ugly maybe i'll use it to keep in touch with friends, been out of the loop
go to prostitutes,they are pretty much like the average western girl but they only want money from you.
you dont have to be an event manager,entertainer and therapist to them.
>you dont have to be an event manager,entertainer and therapist to them.
kek this is so on point
I’ve never seen this show discussed on here and I literally just finished watching it last night. Strange
I enjoyed it a lot, but I could see it working much better in the book.
>woman in her mid 20s at my workplace
>absolutely insufferable, loud, annoying as frick, obnoxious, cackling, whiny, nagging
>think about the guys I have known who are annoying, obnoxious or loud and they get ostracized and no one wants to be around them, encounter extreme loneliness and have to work every waking moment to do the opposite of what they want to to do stop being annoying
>even guys who have worked here who area little weird but not annoying get ostracized and ridiculed behind their backs
>because she's a woman, she's just viewed as having a "bubbly" personality, everyone likes her, even by the same people who ostracize the "weird" male coworkers, she has a great life, lots of friends, boyfriend, etc
>she's not even an attractive woman who gets leeway
women are incapable of loneliness
Lonely right now
32 years old
3 bed house all on my own
Decent car
Good body
But it all boils down to one thing...
>tfw no gf
congrats on being rich
Yes
only around people
>normal looking woman
>lonely
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I have one friend in the city I live in, and they're moving to another city some time this year. Other than that I see people at work a couple of days a week, but I don't go on work nights out, and my team has a group WhatsApp that for some reason I said I didn't want to take part in, so they all very on conversations after work with one another while I just go home and watch TV and films by myself. Apart from that the only other person I talk to that isn't a shop worker is my mum. I'm 40 next year, never had a gf and am fairly sure I'll end up killing myself after my mum dies, not cos I particularly want to die, but I think I'll just get to the point where I don't see any point in carrying on, and there'll be nobody left to be upset about me dying.
I'm fairly lonely. I have lots of hobbies and enjoy most of my life, but I do wonder if it might be nice to share some of it with someone sometimes.
AT LEAST SAY THE NAME OF THE MOVIE YOU STUPID FRICKING homosexualS
its a show callednormal people
normgroids having sex the motion picture