I was abused by both my parents and not for a single second did it cross my mind that I was at fault. This is some weird mental gymnastics psychologist shit.
I was abused by both my parents and not for a single second did it cross my mind that I was at fault. This is some weird mental gymnastics psychologist shit.
Denying your true feelings in harmful, anon. It's not your fault.
>This is some weird mental gymnastics psychologist shit.
It's actually quite common among child abuse victims, especially if another parent is also being abused. It's a method of making sense of the senseless. Kids do that during divorces as well.
i got filtered by this scene, can someone explain it? >no buildup to anything matt demon should feel sorry for >instead of actually giving out good advice, robie williams just repeats the same blanket phrase over and over again despite it having nothing to do with the protagonist's problems >it works????????
Been a number of years since I've seen the movie but I recall it being about William's character being able to break through Damon's shell in that moment, where as prior Damon was able to waiver off all introspection using his intelligence and personality.
if you're not actually trolling anon, I would recommend asking that question into a search engine like "Its not my fault scene explanation". Would you probably give you a more complete answer then I feel like typing out.
Robin Williams always had a comfy presence in movies. He did some great one like that Gilliam movie and hook, also quite a few duds like the clown doctor movie.
>mom gets into a bad car accident >crutches and constant pain >fused spine, leg etc >do everything I can as a kid to make her happy >nothing works >she used to hit me with those crutches seemingly at random >as an adult I realize it was because she was in terrible pain and there was an annoying child in her way >but as a kid I knew I had done something wrong >get great grades and excel in sports >nothing is ever good enough >graduate and go off to college >dad leaves because he can't handle it anymore >come home to take care of her >few years go by >I tell her I'm leaving too because I can't help her >that night she takes all her pills at once >everyone tells me it's not my fault >spend years obsessing about whose fault it was >blame myself for a long time because it's the only level of control over the bad things in life I feel
I wish something told me it wasn't my fault a lot sooner.
That's not what eats at me after all these years. What lingers is the guilt of the thoughts that hang around >i wish the accident killed her >i wish she died sooner >i'm glad she's finally gone
The primal selfishness that lurks in the shadows of the corners of our minds. The unrestrained animal we temporarily keep at bay.
That's not uncommon, my wife's grandmother deteriorated pretty slow, it took her a few years on painkillers and other meds to finally pass, and it was rough. She did her best but she was in a lot of chronic pain so she said horrible things to people, worse near the end. In a way I was glad my own grandmother went down from leukemia pretty quickly so she was still fully herself the whole time.
Those thoughts are natural and reflexive defense mechanisms because your mind is trying to keep you alive. Somebody once told me that we are not are our first thoughts on any matter because these are often involuntary and not indicative of our true identity or soul. In buddhism they call these kinds of thoughts "the monkey mind" or automatic chatter that is something that is not intrinsic to our true self. I'm sorry you had to suffer and I hope that you're feeling better these days.
When my mom was dying I was the only person she still trusted. She lived alone in subsidized housing, was on dialysis, and getting sicker by the week. I did all that I could and still couldn't fix the situation. She checked herself into hospice and died a few days later. She spent years in agony and declining health with multiple organ failures from lupus. So when she told me she was done fighting, I understood. Being there for a dying parent is hard. But you've gotta do it anyway. Then there pain ends forever. And you have the fulfillment of knowing that you loved each other, and you didn't hide when shit got rough.
you guys ever think about the fact that throughout all of human history parents never lived as long as they do now? So long now that they become an unbearable burden on their own children. It keeps people in an unnatural state of dependence as long as they are alive.
If you wanna go the route of talking about living situations that are different from how they historically were >people living apart, instead of having multigenerational households >people sleeping apart, instead of entire families or groups of friends or even strangers sleeping in one bed >people having kids in their 20s or 30s instead of teens
checked. > multigenerational households
This one is a sad loss and seems to be something that has been pushed from those in power to force dependence on the state instead of the home. >having kids in their 20s or 30s
This has the dual consequence of people having less children and an increase in women ageing out of the ability to have them at all. The future is going to be FILLED with drunk cat ladies.
>This has the dual consequence of people having less children and an increase in women ageing out of the ability to have them at all. The future is going to be FILLED with drunk cat ladies.
It also probably decreases the amount of single mothers. So there's that.
>never
Infant mortality really skews pre industrial life expectancy. If you made it passed childhood, living into your 60s and 70s was pretty likely. Plenty of accounts from cultures all over the world about what to do with the burden of the elderly and infirm. Now put grandma on the ice drift and wave goodbye.
This, everyone thinks the age cap was low but there was just a ton of infant/child mortality dragging the average down, it's why people would have like 7-8 of them.
There is nothing unnatural about what is happening now. The way I see it, is God gave us a sandbox game and we can invent rules within it, to create order. We are still subject to the rules of the sandbox and inadvertently we are imitating the rules of the larger sandbox.
We complain about life being a prison, and our reaction to it, is to narrow down the prison because we can't handle what we've been given. Like a circle within a circle, you're still part of and subject to the rules of the bigger circle.
Basically, everything that happens is natural, because it exists within the world that God has created for us.
We can take care of our sick and elderly and the less fortunate, which is, giving the middlefinger to 'survival of the fittest'. I think it's one of humanity's greatest achievements, but it's still a thin layer of veneer. Whether it's to be considered an act of rebellion or an ode to our creator, I think is a question I'll never find the answer to. Animals take care of the sick and elderly too right, we just do it in a more intricate way.
3 months ago
Anonymous
The memes. The memes in our brains, mitochondria of the mind.
3 months ago
Anonymous
Please don't speak a truth I' not wwilling to admit.
3 months ago
Anonymous
Enough truth. I am nourished by meanings and they are invented lies. Truths starve me to death.
3 months ago
Anonymous
>And where did man come from?
I don't know and neither do you.
3 months ago
Anonymous
You can't say E=MC Square is a universal law when we live in a box that was made by a guy living in a bigger box. Math is a prediction, not science, if you define science as being absolute. Science is just as much about faith as anything. Though I'd rather have my house built by a scientist than by a religious man, they are basically the same thing. Both are built on a consensus of reality.
3 months ago
Anonymous
Mr howard, you know you're not supposed to be on the internet this late in the day. I don't care about your divisions and sheet, you need to go to sleep or imma lose care you.
3 months ago
Anonymous
Mayne, i've been writing formulas that's going to rock the very fabric of your existance.
Checked. For me, idk but my dad lives in a third world country and keeps hitting me up for money once a month. There were a few times where i said no and he would guilt trip me by showing pictures of him in the hospital. Now, i recently blocked him because he called me selfish and shit. Also, its not just him, ive had severak people beg for money. These frickbags dont understand that im on my own and im trying to survive. I have only a few friends, no gf, but i have everything else. At this point, im just going with the flow.
One thing that frightens me is that with the incredible development of AI there exists a very real possibility that life extending technologies will be developed soon, probably within the next decade. My parents are older now in their seventies and I now have anxieties about whether they will live to see those technological developments. It would be horrifying to my future self if I could have extended my parents lifetime and yet they have died suddenly before this tech is available. But then there is also the question of whether using such measures is ethical or safe in the first place. I fear that we are on the precipice of some terrifying sci-fi considerations of moral or ethical scientific applications that overwhelm me with anxiety right now. And I know that as time progresses this anxiety will increase. It's strange because I'm not scared of my own death though.
I doubt any such tech will be applicable to those who pass a certain age range but will work when begun earlier in middle age. Either way its no reason to feel anxiety over. Don't focus on things you have no control over, there's no point
You are right, it's not logical or within the stoic principles to care about things that you have no control over, but I can't help myself. However, David Sinclair and other top researchers in longevity propose that the coming technology will employ a kind of genetic reset, where essentially anyone who undergoes the treatment, regardless of age, will be returned to a state of early adulthood (age 18-20). I don't understand the details myself, but they are doing trials on mice and other animals as we speak. It would be very bizarre and surreal to see my parents looking younger than I am now.
>Next, the researchers gave the mice a gene therapy that reversed the epigenetic changes they’d caused.
>“It’s like rebooting a malfunctioning computer,” said Sinclair.
>The ICE mice’s organs and tissues resumed a youthful state.
>The therapy “set in motion an epigenetic program that led cells to restore the epigenetic information they had when they were young,” said Sinclair. “It’s a permanent reset.”
I'm 40 and I would give anything to go back to that world. It was like a different planet, another existence, the aesthetics and the hope.... I try not to think about it.
>wife farts in her sleep >”was that you?” >tell her ‘it’s not your fault’ >”huh?” She farts again >‘it’s not your fault’ >”don’t do this to me Shaun, not you” she’s farting louder now >‘it’s not your fault’ >”oh god!” She farts uncontrollably, tears running down her face
>wife farts in her sleep >”was that you?” >tell her ‘it’s not your fault’ >”huh?” She farts again >‘it’s not your fault’ >”don’t do this to me Shaun, not you” she’s farting louder now >‘it’s not your fault’ >”oh god!” She farts uncontrollably, tears running down her face
>dad tells me about how his mom would get beaten by her second husband >she later cuts off all contact with him as an adult >mom tells me about how she got molested by her cousin when she was in kindergarten
What the frick bros
I was molested by a male baby sitter. There’s a reason guys hate gays.
Sorry that happened to you anon.
[...]
That anon. I was sleeping in bed with my dad one time and he was kind of drunk but anyway he started to reach into the back of my underwear and touched my butt. I think maybe he thought i was my mom. It was really weird and i haven't talked to anyone about it except for now. My dad never brought it up and i just pretend like it never happened. He's an alcoholic though.
I got molested by an older boy when i was kid. We were sleeping in bed together because my family was staying with theirs and there weren't enough beds so we had to share. He convinced me to take off my clothes and we touched each other's dicks lol. I told my mom about it a few weeks later because i felt so guilty. Nothing happened after. He actually later went on to be on a really popular reality tv show on TLC. And ya he's gay.
I got molested by an older boy when i was kid. We were sleeping in bed together because my family was staying with theirs and there weren't enough beds so we had to share. He convinced me to take off my clothes and we touched each other's dicks lol. I told my mom about it a few weeks later because i felt so guilty. Nothing happened after. He actually later went on to be on a really popular reality tv show on TLC. And ya he's gay.
Same except I never told anyone but my first gf and my parents as an adult. No I will not be talking about it or telling anyone else.
That anon. I was sleeping in bed with my dad one time and he was kind of drunk but anyway he started to reach into the back of my underwear and touched my butt. I think maybe he thought i was my mom. It was really weird and i haven't talked to anyone about it except for now. My dad never brought it up and i just pretend like it never happened. He's an alcoholic though.
I’m sure it’s a huge reason. I think a significant percentage of men were molested as children and they never have and never will tell anyone about it.
My older brother groped my breasts and vag when I was 12 to 14. He's three years older than me. I have intimacy issues and sleep disorders because of his abuse.
I know. It took me a long time to accept it, and I'm still working on resolving my childhood trauma, and this film has touched me deeply and I love it a lot. It's a great coming of age story, brilliantly acted by the two leads and the script is just amazing. All the scenes between Will and Sean are just something, Robin Williams was truly a great actor, and Matt Damon did pretty good to stand his own grand against him in here.
>He offered me a choice. The rabbit, the dildo, or the forearm
Which one'd you choice?
>The forearm
Why?
>Cause frick me that's why
honestly, I'm sure it is. I always manage to frick everything up
kek yeah, i didn't identify with this movie at all. i'm a complete frickup.
Hi Jet
It's not your fault
Demented sicko Croatian crack baby frick
It’s definitely my fault she left
Was shie a virgin? Did you love her? Who cares.
yes it is and you're a bad therapist
shut the frick up shut up! not you! not you! shut the frick up!
I was abused by both my parents and not for a single second did it cross my mind that I was at fault. This is some weird mental gymnastics psychologist shit.
It's akin to current day white people apologizing for the colonial past of their ancestors. It's a crack in their minds, I think.
It's not your fault.
I know, obviously. It's just logic.
its not your fault
It's not your fault
Denying your true feelings in harmful, anon. It's not your fault.
It wasn't your fault anon
It wasn't your fault anon
first time in the history of these countless threads where I think an anon really needs to be told it's not your fault
It wasn't your fault anon
oh grow up homie. boo hoo "i was abused" shut up homie goofy ass mf
Its not your fault anon
are you going to scream shrilly and histerically "that's not your fault" everytime someone posts now? if so, let me get out of this shitty thread
All that shit that happened to you, anon? It's not your fault.
Anon..
See this shit? All this shit...
It's not your fault.
you should have been whipped, homosexual.
Probably something like classical conditioning from a parent makes it a natural reaction as you trust them
>This is some weird mental gymnastics psychologist shit.
It's actually quite common among child abuse victims, especially if another parent is also being abused. It's a method of making sense of the senseless. Kids do that during divorces as well.
It's not your fault.
>not knowing that trauma triggers a reflex of guilt and shame
It's not your fault. Really.
Except you have your family's genes, so you'll probably be abusive too, lol
It actually could have been your fault.
What were you wearing?
if i was in that film i would just be like wtf are you talking about
i guess i must be smarter than will then
Thanks Robin you seem like a stable and reasonable person yourself
i got filtered by this scene, can someone explain it?
>no buildup to anything matt demon should feel sorry for
>instead of actually giving out good advice, robie williams just repeats the same blanket phrase over and over again despite it having nothing to do with the protagonist's problems
>it works????????
sounds like you had a good childhood then. you wouldn't get it.
Been a number of years since I've seen the movie but I recall it being about William's character being able to break through Damon's shell in that moment, where as prior Damon was able to waiver off all introspection using his intelligence and personality.
if you're not actually trolling anon, I would recommend asking that question into a search engine like "Its not my fault scene explanation". Would you probably give you a more complete answer then I feel like typing out.
mah boys wikkid traumatised
I have cried everytime this scene happened when watching it. If you haven't, then you're stunted.
Robin Williams always had a comfy presence in movies. He did some great one like that Gilliam movie and hook, also quite a few duds like the clown doctor movie.
>no accountability
fatherless behavior
>mom gets into a bad car accident
>crutches and constant pain
>fused spine, leg etc
>do everything I can as a kid to make her happy
>nothing works
>she used to hit me with those crutches seemingly at random
>as an adult I realize it was because she was in terrible pain and there was an annoying child in her way
>but as a kid I knew I had done something wrong
>get great grades and excel in sports
>nothing is ever good enough
>graduate and go off to college
>dad leaves because he can't handle it anymore
>come home to take care of her
>few years go by
>I tell her I'm leaving too because I can't help her
>that night she takes all her pills at once
>everyone tells me it's not my fault
>spend years obsessing about whose fault it was
>blame myself for a long time because it's the only level of control over the bad things in life I feel
I wish something told me it wasn't my fault a lot sooner.
You're gonna be in for a wild ride if you ever do mushrooms.
I've deliberately avoided psychedelics and other things that "open" the mind. There are a lot of doors best left locked.
i don't know about that, but good luck
it's 100% your fault.
That's not what eats at me after all these years. What lingers is the guilt of the thoughts that hang around
>i wish the accident killed her
>i wish she died sooner
>i'm glad she's finally gone
The primal selfishness that lurks in the shadows of the corners of our minds. The unrestrained animal we temporarily keep at bay.
just accept that life is better with her gone anon, nothing selfish about it. Be better than your parents and remember...Its not your fault
Indeed. However, the enjoyment I find shit posting in this thread is in fact all of your faults.
That's not uncommon, my wife's grandmother deteriorated pretty slow, it took her a few years on painkillers and other meds to finally pass, and it was rough. She did her best but she was in a lot of chronic pain so she said horrible things to people, worse near the end. In a way I was glad my own grandmother went down from leukemia pretty quickly so she was still fully herself the whole time.
Those thoughts are natural and reflexive defense mechanisms because your mind is trying to keep you alive. Somebody once told me that we are not are our first thoughts on any matter because these are often involuntary and not indicative of our true identity or soul. In buddhism they call these kinds of thoughts "the monkey mind" or automatic chatter that is something that is not intrinsic to our true self. I'm sorry you had to suffer and I hope that you're feeling better these days.
You're terrible.
breasts or gtfo
You just said they did
I hope you're young enough to still enjoy life after realizing you are not at fault at all.
Did you distract your mother for the initial car accident?
*manly hug*
When my mom was dying I was the only person she still trusted. She lived alone in subsidized housing, was on dialysis, and getting sicker by the week. I did all that I could and still couldn't fix the situation. She checked herself into hospice and died a few days later. She spent years in agony and declining health with multiple organ failures from lupus. So when she told me she was done fighting, I understood. Being there for a dying parent is hard. But you've gotta do it anyway. Then there pain ends forever. And you have the fulfillment of knowing that you loved each other, and you didn't hide when shit got rough.
I never liked him. He always looked and sounded phony to me in all his characters, including my vavourite: White |msomnia
It's not my fault, but that doesn't change the reality of the situation
FRICK YOU FRICK YOU FRICK YOU
I had a difficult situation with my dad but I'm never sure how many of my problems I can attribute to it.
yeah ok therapy dork
you guys ever think about the fact that throughout all of human history parents never lived as long as they do now? So long now that they become an unbearable burden on their own children. It keeps people in an unnatural state of dependence as long as they are alive.
It all depends how you age
*puff* *cough*
far out man
If you wanna go the route of talking about living situations that are different from how they historically were
>people living apart, instead of having multigenerational households
>people sleeping apart, instead of entire families or groups of friends or even strangers sleeping in one bed
>people having kids in their 20s or 30s instead of teens
checked.
> multigenerational households
This one is a sad loss and seems to be something that has been pushed from those in power to force dependence on the state instead of the home.
>having kids in their 20s or 30s
This has the dual consequence of people having less children and an increase in women ageing out of the ability to have them at all. The future is going to be FILLED with drunk cat ladies.
>This has the dual consequence of people having less children and an increase in women ageing out of the ability to have them at all. The future is going to be FILLED with drunk cat ladies.
It also probably decreases the amount of single mothers. So there's that.
People having kids in their 20s is the historical norm.
Yeah, and now the average age is 29.7 for their first child.
>never
Infant mortality really skews pre industrial life expectancy. If you made it passed childhood, living into your 60s and 70s was pretty likely. Plenty of accounts from cultures all over the world about what to do with the burden of the elderly and infirm. Now put grandma on the ice drift and wave goodbye.
Even the ice sheet thing was done rarely, and inuits lived in some of the most extreme conditions on earth
This, everyone thinks the age cap was low but there was just a ton of infant/child mortality dragging the average down, it's why people would have like 7-8 of them.
There is nothing unnatural about what is happening now. The way I see it, is God gave us a sandbox game and we can invent rules within it, to create order. We are still subject to the rules of the sandbox and inadvertently we are imitating the rules of the larger sandbox.
We complain about life being a prison, and our reaction to it, is to narrow down the prison because we can't handle what we've been given. Like a circle within a circle, you're still part of and subject to the rules of the bigger circle.
Basically, everything that happens is natural, because it exists within the world that God has created for us.
so if sin and evil is natural why are we punished for it?
Who invented morality?
Man
And where did man come from?
We can take care of our sick and elderly and the less fortunate, which is, giving the middlefinger to 'survival of the fittest'. I think it's one of humanity's greatest achievements, but it's still a thin layer of veneer. Whether it's to be considered an act of rebellion or an ode to our creator, I think is a question I'll never find the answer to. Animals take care of the sick and elderly too right, we just do it in a more intricate way.
The memes. The memes in our brains, mitochondria of the mind.
Please don't speak a truth I' not wwilling to admit.
Enough truth. I am nourished by meanings and they are invented lies. Truths starve me to death.
>And where did man come from?
I don't know and neither do you.
You can't say E=MC Square is a universal law when we live in a box that was made by a guy living in a bigger box. Math is a prediction, not science, if you define science as being absolute. Science is just as much about faith as anything. Though I'd rather have my house built by a scientist than by a religious man, they are basically the same thing. Both are built on a consensus of reality.
Mr howard, you know you're not supposed to be on the internet this late in the day. I don't care about your divisions and sheet, you need to go to sleep or imma lose care you.
Mayne, i've been writing formulas that's going to rock the very fabric of your existance.
because it's better to work together, the trick is to be as evil/selfish as your group allows without being punished
You're a moron
I'll take that as a "no, I don't like to think" then.
The flaw in the argument had already been pointed out.
Checked. For me, idk but my dad lives in a third world country and keeps hitting me up for money once a month. There were a few times where i said no and he would guilt trip me by showing pictures of him in the hospital. Now, i recently blocked him because he called me selfish and shit. Also, its not just him, ive had severak people beg for money. These frickbags dont understand that im on my own and im trying to survive. I have only a few friends, no gf, but i have everything else. At this point, im just going with the flow.
It's not your fault.
>just going with the flow
Best thing you can do in life. Keep it up, anon.
One thing that frightens me is that with the incredible development of AI there exists a very real possibility that life extending technologies will be developed soon, probably within the next decade. My parents are older now in their seventies and I now have anxieties about whether they will live to see those technological developments. It would be horrifying to my future self if I could have extended my parents lifetime and yet they have died suddenly before this tech is available. But then there is also the question of whether using such measures is ethical or safe in the first place. I fear that we are on the precipice of some terrifying sci-fi considerations of moral or ethical scientific applications that overwhelm me with anxiety right now. And I know that as time progresses this anxiety will increase. It's strange because I'm not scared of my own death though.
I doubt any such tech will be applicable to those who pass a certain age range but will work when begun earlier in middle age. Either way its no reason to feel anxiety over. Don't focus on things you have no control over, there's no point
You are right, it's not logical or within the stoic principles to care about things that you have no control over, but I can't help myself. However, David Sinclair and other top researchers in longevity propose that the coming technology will employ a kind of genetic reset, where essentially anyone who undergoes the treatment, regardless of age, will be returned to a state of early adulthood (age 18-20). I don't understand the details myself, but they are doing trials on mice and other animals as we speak. It would be very bizarre and surreal to see my parents looking younger than I am now.
That sounds like a load of buuulllllllshit to me, but at the same time I wouldn't be surprised if it became a thing in our lifetimes
It could very well be bullshit, but you never know.
https://hms.harvard.edu/news/loss-epigenetic-information-can-drive-aging-restoration-can-reverse
>Next, the researchers gave the mice a gene therapy that reversed the epigenetic changes they’d caused.
>“It’s like rebooting a malfunctioning computer,” said Sinclair.
>The ICE mice’s organs and tissues resumed a youthful state.
>The therapy “set in motion an epigenetic program that led cells to restore the epigenetic information they had when they were young,” said Sinclair. “It’s a permanent reset.”
It's not your fault OP. It's not your fault.
It's all moot's fault!
>1990 was 34 years ago
Probably long enough to get that double burger off layaway
>almost 40
Time is evil
🙁
I fricking hate life so much
I'm 40 and I would give anything to go back to that world. It was like a different planet, another existence, the aesthetics and the hope.... I try not to think about it.
Waiting for someone to shotgun (you) every reply in this thread with
>it's not your fault
No one's gonna do it now.
That's your fault.
Do you like apples?
>one off
It's not your fault
‘Fault’ isn’t a real thing anyway. Things happen.
It is your fault
>that things turned out as ok as they have
WHAT THE FRICK IS THAT ANIMAL
And where did it get that adidas fit
Hey, Adolf, it's not your fault.
oh..no
Ok then smart guy who's fault is it then?
Whoever created the concept of fault
Whoever smelt it, dealt it.
It's not your fart
who's fart is it then?
The dog.
Underrated,
You snoze, you loze.
society
>wife farts in her sleep
>”was that you?”
>tell her ‘it’s not your fault’
>”huh?” She farts again
>‘it’s not your fault’
>”don’t do this to me Shaun, not you” she’s farting louder now
>‘it’s not your fault’
>”oh god!” She farts uncontrollably, tears running down her face
I know, honorary israelite.
>dad tells me about how his mom would get beaten by her second husband
>she later cuts off all contact with him as an adult
>mom tells me about how she got molested by her cousin when she was in kindergarten
What the frick bros
Not even remotely your fault.
Women think they get molested all the time. It's their thing.
Case in point
Look at these girls
I got molested by an older boy when i was kid. We were sleeping in bed together because my family was staying with theirs and there weren't enough beds so we had to share. He convinced me to take off my clothes and we touched each other's dicks lol. I told my mom about it a few weeks later because i felt so guilty. Nothing happened after. He actually later went on to be on a really popular reality tv show on TLC. And ya he's gay.
I was molested by a male baby sitter. There’s a reason guys hate gays.
Sorry that happened to you anon.
That anon. I was sleeping in bed with my dad one time and he was kind of drunk but anyway he started to reach into the back of my underwear and touched my butt. I think maybe he thought i was my mom. It was really weird and i haven't talked to anyone about it except for now. My dad never brought it up and i just pretend like it never happened. He's an alcoholic though.
>There’s a reason guys hate gays.
>Is it the molesting?
>Homophobes were all molested
Kek is that true?
It's not your fault
I’m sure it’s a huge reason. I think a significant percentage of men were molested as children and they never have and never will tell anyone about it.
>be six
>friends 12 year old brother plays doctor with you
Same except I never told anyone but my first gf and my parents as an adult. No I will not be talking about it or telling anyone else.
MATT DAMON.
It's not your fault
My therapist told me the shame of being molested isn’t that it happened, it’s that you enjoyed it.
it's more about body betrayal than enjoying it.. even if it only responded "appropriately" because it thought you were in danger
I just can't not read that word as "the rapist"
It’s not your volt.
I hate this movie
No therapy session ever unfolds like this in real life
Modern therapists are taught to never give actual opinions
>how did that make you feel?
>say more about that
It’s just an endless circlejerk
Mine does when I ask her to
But I did it
My older brother groped my breasts and vag when I was 12 to 14. He's three years older than me. I have intimacy issues and sleep disorders because of his abuse.
Post benis
then he didn't do it right, he should have been more sensual
Was there foreplay? I'm assuming your brother wasn't like 50. In which case he should definitely kissed and warmed you up first
fun thread of posting "it's not your fault" and watching responses
> feeling so broken that I don't want to participate
It's not your fault.
thanks anon. I know
I know. It took me a long time to accept it, and I'm still working on resolving my childhood trauma, and this film has touched me deeply and I love it a lot. It's a great coming of age story, brilliantly acted by the two leads and the script is just amazing. All the scenes between Will and Sean are just something, Robin Williams was truly a great actor, and Matt Damon did pretty good to stand his own grand against him in here.
I've avoided ever seeing this movie. Have I been wrong to do so?
Yes, it's a 90s classic.
This is the same movie but better.
>same director
Some dudes just have a niche, huh?
No, it's shit. Only reason anyone knows about it is because Harvey Weinstein was great at shilling movies he produced.
audiences like you murdered robin williams
were you there?