I can tell if a girl is too. There's a certain vibe that everyone has regardless of gender. I have a sister who tried to tease me that I didn't know what she's gotten up to. I told her with 100% certainty that she's a virgin (despite her having a long term boyfriend). She was shocked by my certainty and I told her I could just tell. Months later I looked at her and realized she was fricking. I could just tell. Told her and she was astonished.
what's holding you back?
despite having various positive traits, I had to reach wizardhood before losing my powers a few months later.
mine was being driven into a hermit state since teenage years, total lack of exposure to girls my own age or otherwise.
various pieces of bad luck and shit happenings before that
low IQ combined with schizoid personality disorder. I get lusty but I have no desire to start a relationship.
And now my penis barely works because of an autoimmune disorder so even if I wanted a gf I'd have to find one that's ok with never having penetrative sex
NTA but for me it's because I was "homeschooled" and grew up in a very rural area so I had no experience socializing with anyone outside a few minutes at church 3x a week.
I dont get it. I only do this as I genuinely don't like other people. I felt no attraction towards any woman I met in school or college. So I wasnt putting on a fake "I don't desire you" thing. I just honestly didnt like them.
I've had sex four times with women, 2 prostitutes and 2 civilians and I could never cum. But this halloween I met with a "femboy" from grindr and experienced the most strong jolts of lust and autoandrophilia I ever had in my life.
Getting a gf is the most rigged shit ever >girls only find you attractive once you're in a relationship >girls don't want to date inexperienced/virgin guys, but how are you supposed to get experience if girls don't want inexperienced guys
bawd fwb>GF right now in today's society
the bawd knows what you both want and wants you to feel good and have a good time too.
Lost my V-card to a bawd when I was 25 and we're still friends that talk every day along with the occasional lewd pic.
Birthday cards and everything.
All the "seeking long term relationship" chicks are just interviewing and feeding their ego. The chicks I tried to actually "date" all just turned into bitter single b***hes. They want the status of being taken by one and desired by others; they don't want to build an actual relationship.
In the short term it's not so easy to immediately get if someone is a virgin or not unless you're a totally dysfunctional disaster who can barely exist in the real world, but in the mid-long term absolutely you can be sure that everyone who you interact with even just semi regularly knows it.
It's mostly subconscious too, people talk about relationships fairly regularly and if you never share anything at all people just sort of get that you first don't want to talk about it, and then why you don't talk about it.
And they almost feel more embarrassed to bring it up to you then you are, you can notice that those people/coworkers stop talking about relationships and sex related things around you altogether because of it.
So in short yes people who know you know, but if they are not family or someone close they don't want to open that can of worms and deal with it around you.
It all comes up fairly quickly though, you can't hide such gigantic life inexperience for long.
This. People just expect you to somehow go through a "bad boy" phase while simultaneously they spam BE A GOOD BOY 24/7 at you for years from all sides.
And then when you just remain a "good boy" like you've been told to they act surprised how you're suddenly an unwanted adult virgin
You can be both moron, you can still do well in school, work hard, be law abiding, and treat bawds like garbage. They eat it up, they crave approval from a good guy that doesn't want them because they have low self esteem. And ALL women have self esteem issues.
I was so ahead of the curve, got the "so mature for your age" when I was 11 and larped as being 14-16.
Then I got the later messages as soon as I hit 19 and transcended them by age 21.
Literal schizo nonsense. Do you think everyone who isn't in a relationship is automatically a virgin? You people have no fricking clue how actual humans think. 99% of people don't even give a shit about you.
Nice quads, but I’ve lived that post buddy. I’ve worked with the same people long enough for them to know I don’t have a girlfriend and haven’t in a long time. And they do talk about sex. I’ve walked into conversations where they’re talking about sex or something related to it. It’s almost never brought up in my presence. When it is it’s because they’re clueless or maybe just trying to flatter me thinking I’m some ladykiller in secret. As anon said people aren’t going to dig too deep into whatever issue you have where you’re seemingly incapable of having a relationship. I consider myself lucky that people even ask me why I don’t, they just see something in me I’m unaware of.
People might not give a shit about you but they most definitely pick you apart and judge. The reason you think people arent able to or dont do it is because your weird ass fails the physiognomy check with a quick glance and thinks how people treat your autistic ass is how they interact with actual people.
In the short term it's not so easy to immediately get if someone is a virgin or not unless you're a totally dysfunctional disaster who can barely exist in the real world, but in the mid-long term absolutely you can be sure that everyone who you interact with even just semi regularly knows it.
It's mostly subconscious too, people talk about relationships fairly regularly and if you never share anything at all people just sort of get that you first don't want to talk about it, and then why you don't talk about it.
And they almost feel more embarrassed to bring it up to you then you are, you can notice that those people/coworkers stop talking about relationships and sex related things around you altogether because of it.
So in short yes people who know you know, but if they are not family or someone close they don't want to open that can of worms and deal with it around you.
It all comes up fairly quickly though, you can't hide such gigantic life inexperience for long.
What if you date an 18 year old at 33 and don't bring it up because it's taboo and makes people(americans) angry?
How much money did you waste on dates, drinks, food, cabs, clothes, gifts and other dumb things that could be easily avoided if you paid for a prostie?
The equivalent of around $15 dollars + gas. I pay for 3 or 4 drinks total, head home and bang. A decent prost is $50+ and it's only 1hr so it's not a better bang for your buck.
How do you get a girl? I mean literally, how do you go from just talking to a girl to suddenly literally inserting your penis into her vegana?
I'm kinda autistic so 90% of the women I went out with were from Tinder, where's there's an established mutual interest. I chat them up and schedule a date, then we chat, drink etc and when the time's right I make the proposition: Wanna head home with me? Just that, I rarely flirt at all.
>Wanna head home with me?
Ok and you head home and then what? How do you escalate, so much so that you're suddenly literally having her stripping naked in front of you and then having sex with you?
>You cuddle a bit
What happens right before you cuddle? >put something on the TV
So you pretend to go watch a movie every time? >Wait a few minutes
How many minutes? And how do you "pull her close" exactly?
4 months ago
Anonymous
Offer her something to drink, make her comfortable, sit next to her and put something on the TV. Wait a few minutes and pull her close, she'll go for a kiss, or at least give you a hint like eye contact. From the moment she agreed to come to your house she basically decided she's gonna have sex with you, provided you don't frick up.
4 months ago
Anonymous
>What happens right before you cuddle?
You walk into your house/apartment. If she's going back to your place, you do not need to do anything else before you start cuddling. She sits on your couch, you sit next to her and wrap your arm around her. If you want to know what happens before she walks into your place, you have engaging conversations and then come up with some extremely thin excuse to invite her to your place. For me, it was that I had brought up [television show] while we were at dinner and she said we should watch it together.
4 months ago
Anonymous
So you also pretend to watch movies like that other anon?
Is there really no other way to get with a girl today but to pretend that you want to watch a movie/show first?
4 months ago
Anonymous
Sure, there are other ways, but do you have some moral conviction against pretending to watch the television?
When I brought a girl home to watch a movie I wanted to watch the movie. It was the Henry Cavill Superman movie. About 15 minutes into the movie she pulled me up off the couch and asked me to come to bed. The whole time we were in bed I Was just constantly thinking about Superman. I wanted to finish watching it. I went back out and finished watching it by myself after she fell asleep.
I did the same thing once but I powered through.
4 months ago
Anonymous
>do you have some moral conviction against pretending to watch the television
I would just feel incredibly awkward to play this entire pretend of turning on the TV, picking a movie, staring at the opening credits waiting etc doing all that while being aware that both of you know that you're there just to frick. I just couldn't do anything like that, literally like I have to suddenly become an actor doing pretend actions, how do any of you do this shit
4 months ago
Anonymous
>how do any of you do this shit
Because I really want to feel my penis inside of her vegana.
4 months ago
Anonymous
Women like to pretend that they don't know about sex, so you have to play along and accidentally have sex with them after putting on the movie. That way they're not bawds, because they didn't think they would have sex (despite coming home with you).
4 months ago
Anonymous
this feels like how women falsely accuse men of rape
4 months ago
Anonymous
>>Wait a few minutes >How many minutes?
Women, despite being simple creatures, are all different and I cannot give you a clean algorithm to seducing one. At some point you just have to play it by ear. But for most of them, less than 5 minutes. They know why they walked into your residence, you know why they walked into your residence (or theirs). Just kiss da girl.
4 months ago
Anonymous
When I brought a girl home to watch a movie I wanted to watch the movie. It was the Henry Cavill Superman movie. About 15 minutes into the movie she pulled me up off the couch and asked me to come to bed. The whole time we were in bed I Was just constantly thinking about Superman. I wanted to finish watching it. I went back out and finished watching it by myself after she fell asleep.
4 months ago
Anonymous
>At some point you just have to play it by ear.
I wouldn't be asking any of these questions if I could ever do that.
You have to be aware that 95% of what you are describing sounds like elaborate instructions on how to defuse a bomb which end with "just play it by ear"
Offer her something to drink, make her comfortable, sit next to her and put something on the TV. Wait a few minutes and pull her close, she'll go for a kiss, or at least give you a hint like eye contact. From the moment she agreed to come to your house she basically decided she's gonna have sex with you, provided you don't frick up.
When a girl from college came home with me and was in bed with me she told me I was too innocent and she would feel guilty having sex with me.
4 months ago
Anonymous
she did the right thing
4 months ago
Anonymous
Why? She still brought me to lunch the next day and she paid for everything. She was always saying I was cute like a puppy.
4 months ago
Anonymous
Why? She still brought me to lunch the next day and she paid for everything. She was always saying I was cute like a puppy.
Don't take this the wrong way but how were you presenting yourself to her? As a man, or as a puppy?
>You cuddle a bit
What happens right before you cuddle? >put something on the TV
So you pretend to go watch a movie every time? >Wait a few minutes
How many minutes? And how do you "pull her close" exactly?
>What happens right before you cuddle? >How many minutes? And how do you "pull her close" exactly?
Just sit next to her and mind your business while commenting on the movie or anything else. Make her laugh and read her body language, is she stiff or is she comfortable? If she's having fun just throw your arm and her and gently pull her close while she's laughing. She might make eye contact at that very moment, if she does, kiss her. If she doesn't, wait at least 10m and get in her face, lean in for a kiss.
>So you pretend to go watch a movie every time?
Yeah, or a random TV show. If she says she doesn't care it's a good sign, means she's not gonna pay much attention. Just pick some comedy or horror shit
4 months ago
Anonymous
>Make her laugh and read her body language
it's that simple. Just be charming
4 months ago
Anonymous
Well yeah. Just don't be an butthole, if she's in your house she already likes you, if she laughs at your jokes she's already into you. So this is the single time where you have to man up and play into that. It's basic instinct at that point. Getting there is the hardest part but when the time comes, you'll know what to do, don't worry about that part.
>Make her laugh and read her body language
HOW
If she's not laughing at your jokes why is she in your house? Do you think she's having a good time? Does it seem like she wants to bang you? If you can't answer those questions in that situation just play chill and see if she makes a move. IF she doesn't, make an excuse and call her an Uber, then onto the next one. You could try kissing her anyway but I wouldn't recommend that for your first female contact.
4 months ago
Anonymous
>Make her laugh and read her body language
HOW
4 months ago
Anonymous
You should have told her you would feel guilty about raping her.
Just be forward. Women love confidence, so just be suggestive or straight up tell them you want to hook up. You'll either score or get shut down, unless you want to date her, don't give a frick if you get rejected, just move on to the next target.
im mildly autistic and its gone like this for me >women start trying to spend more time around me >women starts making eye contact and laughing a lot in my presence >sometimes woman briefly drops hand on shoulder or leg >woman asks to do something with me 1 on 1 >we're alone together and woman gets obviously physical, snuggling or leaning in for a kiss >at this point i usually pull out my dick and wave it in front of her face >she either goes for it or freaks out >either way by the end of the night they are usually disappointed and dont want to see me again
in my defense i do basically nothing. this just happens. i think its bc i am tall and meet a lot of women through my job
depends
sometimes it'll fall on your lap and you won't really realize it til it happens
my first gf was an autismo emo girl, was pretty nice. If there's one thing you should get a hold of, if you have a deep sense of self hatred, you're going to ruin that relationship
Exact same situation with me. She was cute autism I loved her. I ended up ending things because I had unresolved issues like you said and regret it every day. She's with a weird freak now even after I basically begged for her back cause I think she just feels safe that he'll never leave her
>tfw had my fifth flake in a row tonight
I spent the night driving, then went to the store to buy some treats for my baby cousins tomorrow, then I saw a movie, now I'm back home watching Sopranos and drinking a nice black champagne.
Lol, I've been with over 40 woman, 10+ traps and 15+ guys. And that was all before I was married 10 years ago. Hooking up isn't hard, it's being monogamous that's the struggle.
There's a whole demeanor to being a virgin, especially after you turn 20. Girls could almost always tell so I had to put up an incredibly fake character to frick one.
I paid a cute girl at Starbucks 15 dollars to take a picture with me to convince my coworkers I have a girlfriend. I try to stay out of conversations about sex and relationships as I know less than nothing. I think they know on some level as I'm an awkward anxious mess but thankfully don't mess with me about it
>"Sure feels like it sometimes." >implies you've done the deed but gives your lack of experience plausible deniability
For me it is "might as well be" and then a backup story about how I banged a girl in college (I didn't). I've never needed to invoke the backup.
Just stay away from chicks like that bros. They're immature as shit. Not a single girl from Tinder asked me if I was a virgin, not even the one that took my virginity, till this day she doesn't even know. I remember being scared as shit if I ever was confronted about it but it never happened, I think being on Tinder helps cause women assume you already have some degree of experience
For me it is "might as well be" and then a backup story about how I banged a girl in college (I didn't). I've never needed to invoke the backup.
meant more for general conversations with coworkers, etc. Honestly for women, I've had not awful luck letting them know. Some of them want virgins just as much as guys do.
My virginity is lost forever lads... sex is overrated.
I'd rather be a perma virgin and persecuted by this moronic society than suffering as I am right now...
Women are not worth wasting your fricking time over. If you aren't getting pussy, and are currently chasing pussy, it means you have ZERO fricking desirability. Women will literally throw their pussy at you as long as you tick their boxes for attractiveness. You have to be somewhat physically attractive. I say somewhat because it's not necessary to look like your roided the frick out in order to get your crush's panties dripping, you just have to not be in extreme territory in either side of the spectrum: don't look like an emaciated scrawny little puss nugget and don't look like a big fat frick with breasts twice the size of hers. Skinny but lean toned guys slay pussy. Dad bod guys slay pussy. Being fit and looking like a greek god helps immensely because the majority of women PREFER it but it's absolutely not needed and it's a mistake to make that gym-bro lifestyle the epicenter of your idendity because the second factor is that you have to be LIKEABLE. You have to be able to talk to people and make them feel comfortable. Even if you were extremely built, if you talk to women like you watch porn 3 hours a day you're going to put them the frick off. Confidence is key but women will smell fake confidence a mile away and if you oversell yourself they have already mentally placed you into the "will never frick me" part of the diagram. Earn that confidence. Whether through success or achieving physical goals, EARN THAT FRICKING CONFIDENCE. That's it. Literally that's it. If you can be physically attractive and also not be a complete fricking sperg, pussy will proceed to drop in your lap in even increments, and after a while, you will have fricked enough girls to realize that it's really not all its cut out to be. There's nothing more sexy than a woman who isn't into you, because it gives the illusion that it's fruit you can't enjoy. Women are all the same and a dime a dozen when they're into you.
yep, this post is what happens when normies try to give dating advice
I had a trial run of like two weeks of what it means to feel like a normie, it felt like two parts of my brain got finally connected, and I 100% understand what enables people to think they wrote something useful when they write posts like this
it's not like it's even wrong lol
the truth has always been in that cheerleader kiss image
No the point is that I'm saying to you women in their current 2023 state are fricking useless for anything other than a quick pump dump. Even if you're lonely and desperate for human affection, spending one year with a woman will drain your lifeforce completely. > Random arguments about nothing. > She saw you Look at another attractive woman that briefly passed your peripheral? here's 2 hours of passive aggression. > Want to try to get her into your hobbies or interests? Sorry, all you get is slack-jawed stare followed by 30 minutes of her asking what should we eat for dinner. > Her pussy is amazing and new for the first few months. 9 months of sex later, your dick literally will prefer your hand and porn instead of her same old formulaic hole. > Piles of dirty fricking panties, clothes and trash all over your fricking bedroom because she's too lazy to put it in the basket. > Existence runs on social media. Think she'll keep that tender or meaningful moment that happened to her locked up in her memories? Nope. Gotta snap a pic for the gram.
Having a girlfriend is suffering. Having a fwb or a dependable escort is life.
nice dubs, but since you're a normie I'd advise you to not give up
you have the capacity to enjoy woman's presence and flirting, compared to me
there *are* good interesting women out there, you just need to a) use your experience to filter out early women that don't have brain activity beyond generic woman compulsion things and b) be aware of her innate woman flaws and desires and compensate/distract her from them with productive things. It's always going to be a non-stop fight, but as a normie you have the capacity to enjoy it rather that it being meaningless toil
I'm not a normie I've been using this cesspit of a website since 2006 I just got tired of fricking my hand back then so I actually put in effort into improving myself. It's cliche and actually cringe to give a number when talking about how much girls you've slept with but I've fricked a lot of women, whether they were ex girlfriends, frick buddies or escorts and I honestly know them enough to just not want anything beyond sex with them. I'm sure that ideal woman is out there but I just don't care enough to even know what I'd do with her if she ever came along. I feel like I've gotten everything I can possibly experience in one lifetime out of women and the sheer fact remains that they are mostly detriment to your own lifestyle as a whole and are incapable of showing any remote interest into anything that doesn't involve their own presence being in it. Women are just not fricking worth it, but because of primal urges, you'll still need to eventually get a nut in every now and then but that's pretty much it. Sex is a meme.
>I just don't care enough to even know what I'd do with her if she ever came along
well, if you're a normie, then you'd have these several innate desires to "provide", "protect" and "be the best for (competitiveness)"
if you can't dig out emotions like that, then you may be not a normie
it's not a coincidence relationship is also called a "companionship", because woman's supposed to be your companion in doing IRL shit. If you don't want to do anything IRL, or provide for her, then you're SOL
4 months ago
Anonymous
Nah dude like I said I'm not a normie, I was just obsessed with having sex for like a decade. I'm even technically considered bi since I've had girls and guys. I'm a complete homosexual meme, because I can't stand gay people or effeminate gays but I've had dick shoved deep in my guts and down my throat like a handful of times. Homosexuality is a total meme by the way, there's literally nothing more to it than just enjoying the feeling of a dick up your ass or down your throat. If you enjoy being pampered, that's pretty much the "feminine" experience. I've had luck with women and guys because I have that pretty boy face, and I've done so many squats that my thrusts can turn a 2023 woke girlboss into a prohibition era housewife and my ass would clench your dick so tight I'd send your balls to the 9th dimension so it's something both sexes can enjoy. But yeah I still immensely prefer women over men because I'm incapable of developing romantic feelings for a guy, I want dick strictly as a fetish for submission but I've only had romantic feelings for women. But they're awful "life partners." It doesn't take a year to figure out that women will endlessly long for "what could have been" or perpetually ask themselves "am I with the best guy I can be with or is there someone better" even if you're Chad Thunderwiener. Longest relationship lasted 9 years and near the end it was just plain misery. I just got tired of her having everything in our life dictated by what she saw on her phone. She was a perfect housewife, cooked well, kept the house clean, always kept the balls drained but I was just not designed for long term commitment. She's much better off anyway, because I cheated on her a FRICKTON of times.
4 months ago
Anonymous
>It doesn't take a year to figure out that women will endlessly long for "what could have been" or perpetually ask themselves "am I with the best guy I can be with or is there someone better" even if you're Chad Thunderwiener.
that's certainly the life lesson you're supposed to learn at some point, but the actual corollary to all of that is that you CAN'T know that and all you need to do is "enjoy simple things" and "just b urself"
if you know that cheating is wrong and beat yourself over it then you just need either need to not do that and feel good about yourself as a "good christian" or accept that you're actually a chad thunderwiener and keep living that life and search for someone who you'll be able to truly love
all of this can be addressed in fricking therapy or a soul-to-soul conversations with best friends, which is something normies NEED or they keep having unresolved contradicting thoughts in their head
4 months ago
Anonymous
Contradictory thoughts is what makes life meaningful. The human experience is built upon the foundation of riding out the turbulence of uncertainty. Sometimes it's better to romanticize about the idea of something rather than confronting that road face-to-face.
4 months ago
Anonymous
>Contradictory thoughts is what makes life meaningful.
strong positive emotions is what makes life meaningful
if you get that through contradictory emotions somehow, then more power to you, but those are most likely indicative of mismatch of your picture of the world with reality which does not help your life progression
this is good advice. i got a dad bod from drinking a lot recently but real confidence from not giving a frick. been fricking some pretty good looking women, more so than when i was working out all the time
get yourself a normie woman friend, spend some time with her, and then imagine having to live with that for most of your waking life
as an autist, gf is not a good tradeoff of time and effort I have to apply to keep her that I'd rather spend rotting drunk in front of a laptop, considering that I am a beta and cannot flirt/dominate a woman with my monkey brain and have to apply logical part of my brain, which feels like a chore
the normie power is in the fact that they enjoy IRL activities to an extent that their brain says to them "I did not just completely waste my fricking time and money on this dineout/travel/gift to her" and incentivizes them to keep doing that
What are your thoughts/experiences with losing your virginity to an escort/prostitute?
I'm turning 24 soon and I'm still a virgin. I can't really be mad about it though because I don't make any attempt to date or find women. I also was abused as a child and lost all my teenage years to mental illness. I don't even care about the whole sex thing but I feel like if I ever meet a nice girl someday, I would at least like to have some bit of experience so I'm not an awkward and fumbling mess.
I see a lot of people on the Internet all say they regret losing their virginity to a prostitute. Has anyone else here done it before?
Girls can smell if you're a virgin.
Girls can apparently smell whether or not you've ejaculated in the last 10 days or not
i don't think i've give more than 5 days in 20 years
that's nothing to be proud of
I've never jerked off. Never had to.
God and failed fathers made prostitutes for a reason.
I can tell if a girl is too. There's a certain vibe that everyone has regardless of gender. I have a sister who tried to tease me that I didn't know what she's gotten up to. I told her with 100% certainty that she's a virgin (despite her having a long term boyfriend). She was shocked by my certainty and I told her I could just tell. Months later I looked at her and realized she was fricking. I could just tell. Told her and she was astonished.
>anon was the boyfriend
That's cheating
he was also her father, and he told her, and she was flabbergasted.
he was also her aids giver, and he told her, and she was astounded.
You talk about this stuff with your sister? Is this common?
whites are nasty people with loose morals
Can kinda believe that, I know that some people can just tell someone is pregnant without being told just by looking at them
It's all about looks. I'm decent looking and people refuse to believe I'm a virgin, sometimes they even get mad because they think I'm pranking them
what's holding you back?
despite having various positive traits, I had to reach wizardhood before losing my powers a few months later.
mine was being driven into a hermit state since teenage years, total lack of exposure to girls my own age or otherwise.
various pieces of bad luck and shit happenings before that
low IQ combined with schizoid personality disorder. I get lusty but I have no desire to start a relationship.
And now my penis barely works because of an autoimmune disorder so even if I wanted a gf I'd have to find one that's ok with never having penetrative sex
>autoimmune disorder
Which one?
sjogren's
NTA but for me it's because I was "homeschooled" and grew up in a very rural area so I had no experience socializing with anyone outside a few minutes at church 3x a week.
It's the forced "I don't desire you" that virgins do, am I right fellas?
someone post it
I dont get it. I only do this as I genuinely don't like other people. I felt no attraction towards any woman I met in school or college. So I wasnt putting on a fake "I don't desire you" thing. I just honestly didnt like them.
Digits determine how many more times we are going to have this thread.
Cinemaphile - the same 10 threads every day
do you want to go thru the mines of moria again?
thats why im here Black person, i fricking love this thread every single time i see it
She could smell it on him. People back then rarely bathed. She knew he was incel because he didnt stink of pussy just precum piss and shid.
>the precum stench
wait, other people can smell that?
Back when? When dragons existed?
she talks big for a tribewoman who got most likely raped before 12
I've had sex four times with women, 2 prostitutes and 2 civilians and I could never cum. But this halloween I met with a "femboy" from grindr and experienced the most strong jolts of lust and autoandrophilia I ever had in my life.
>and 2 civilians
w-what?
>2 civilians
She could smell the pre-cum
they just know
Getting a gf is the most rigged shit ever
>girls only find you attractive once you're in a relationship
>girls don't want to date inexperienced/virgin guys, but how are you supposed to get experience if girls don't want inexperienced guys
bawd fwb>GF right now in today's society
the bawd knows what you both want and wants you to feel good and have a good time too.
Lost my V-card to a bawd when I was 25 and we're still friends that talk every day along with the occasional lewd pic.
Birthday cards and everything.
All the "seeking long term relationship" chicks are just interviewing and feeding their ego. The chicks I tried to actually "date" all just turned into bitter single b***hes. They want the status of being taken by one and desired by others; they don't want to build an actual relationship.
Supposed to build experience in middle school and high school dawg
Just give the girl a firm handshake.
Just like a job asking for experience: you lie
A saleswoman at the mall was touching me a few months ago and I began leaking pre-cum through my pants. Women are evil.
In the short term it's not so easy to immediately get if someone is a virgin or not unless you're a totally dysfunctional disaster who can barely exist in the real world, but in the mid-long term absolutely you can be sure that everyone who you interact with even just semi regularly knows it.
It's mostly subconscious too, people talk about relationships fairly regularly and if you never share anything at all people just sort of get that you first don't want to talk about it, and then why you don't talk about it.
And they almost feel more embarrassed to bring it up to you then you are, you can notice that those people/coworkers stop talking about relationships and sex related things around you altogether because of it.
So in short yes people who know you know, but if they are not family or someone close they don't want to open that can of worms and deal with it around you.
It all comes up fairly quickly though, you can't hide such gigantic life inexperience for long.
>incel didn't get the memo that different life stages have different expectations of social development
This. People just expect you to somehow go through a "bad boy" phase while simultaneously they spam BE A GOOD BOY 24/7 at you for years from all sides.
And then when you just remain a "good boy" like you've been told to they act surprised how you're suddenly an unwanted adult virgin
>mommy didn't let me be a bad boy >:(
That's feminism
You can be both moron, you can still do well in school, work hard, be law abiding, and treat bawds like garbage. They eat it up, they crave approval from a good guy that doesn't want them because they have low self esteem. And ALL women have self esteem issues.
I was so ahead of the curve, got the "so mature for your age" when I was 11 and larped as being 14-16.
Then I got the later messages as soon as I hit 19 and transcended them by age 21.
Women always just ask me if I'm gay. All my life. Girls in school asked me and girls at college and even women at work.
they can tell
I'm not gay though. I wanted to frick some of the ones asking me if I was gay.
Stop sucking dicks in public then.
>anon what kind of girls do you like
>mfw I'm supposed to be autistic enough to not understand they are asking if ur gay
Literal schizo nonsense. Do you think everyone who isn't in a relationship is automatically a virgin? You people have no fricking clue how actual humans think. 99% of people don't even give a shit about you.
Nice quads, but I’ve lived that post buddy. I’ve worked with the same people long enough for them to know I don’t have a girlfriend and haven’t in a long time. And they do talk about sex. I’ve walked into conversations where they’re talking about sex or something related to it. It’s almost never brought up in my presence. When it is it’s because they’re clueless or maybe just trying to flatter me thinking I’m some ladykiller in secret. As anon said people aren’t going to dig too deep into whatever issue you have where you’re seemingly incapable of having a relationship. I consider myself lucky that people even ask me why I don’t, they just see something in me I’m unaware of.
People might not give a shit about you but they most definitely pick you apart and judge. The reason you think people arent able to or dont do it is because your weird ass fails the physiognomy check with a quick glance and thinks how people treat your autistic ass is how they interact with actual people.
Everyone is guilty of judging others, but guess what? The majority of people are kind and look past these faults to see the better version of you.
I feel like all this insecurity shit you guys have must come from childhood bullying or something.
What if you date an 18 year old at 33 and don't bring it up because it's taboo and makes people(americans) angry?
Been with 20+ women here. Ask away virgins, I shall aid you in your're quest
How much money did you waste on dates, drinks, food, cabs, clothes, gifts and other dumb things that could be easily avoided if you paid for a prostie?
sometimes life is about the journey and the thrill of the chase, not the destination
The equivalent of around $15 dollars + gas. I pay for 3 or 4 drinks total, head home and bang. A decent prost is $50+ and it's only 1hr so it's not a better bang for your buck.
I'm kinda autistic so 90% of the women I went out with were from Tinder, where's there's an established mutual interest. I chat them up and schedule a date, then we chat, drink etc and when the time's right I make the proposition: Wanna head home with me? Just that, I rarely flirt at all.
>Wanna head home with me?
Ok and you head home and then what? How do you escalate, so much so that you're suddenly literally having her stripping naked in front of you and then having sex with you?
You cuddle a bit, you start kissing, you start touching, you start stripping, you start fricking.
>You cuddle a bit
What happens right before you cuddle?
>put something on the TV
So you pretend to go watch a movie every time?
>Wait a few minutes
How many minutes? And how do you "pull her close" exactly?
>What happens right before you cuddle?
You walk into your house/apartment. If she's going back to your place, you do not need to do anything else before you start cuddling. She sits on your couch, you sit next to her and wrap your arm around her. If you want to know what happens before she walks into your place, you have engaging conversations and then come up with some extremely thin excuse to invite her to your place. For me, it was that I had brought up [television show] while we were at dinner and she said we should watch it together.
So you also pretend to watch movies like that other anon?
Is there really no other way to get with a girl today but to pretend that you want to watch a movie/show first?
Sure, there are other ways, but do you have some moral conviction against pretending to watch the television?
I did the same thing once but I powered through.
>do you have some moral conviction against pretending to watch the television
I would just feel incredibly awkward to play this entire pretend of turning on the TV, picking a movie, staring at the opening credits waiting etc doing all that while being aware that both of you know that you're there just to frick. I just couldn't do anything like that, literally like I have to suddenly become an actor doing pretend actions, how do any of you do this shit
>how do any of you do this shit
Because I really want to feel my penis inside of her vegana.
Women like to pretend that they don't know about sex, so you have to play along and accidentally have sex with them after putting on the movie. That way they're not bawds, because they didn't think they would have sex (despite coming home with you).
this feels like how women falsely accuse men of rape
>>Wait a few minutes
>How many minutes?
Women, despite being simple creatures, are all different and I cannot give you a clean algorithm to seducing one. At some point you just have to play it by ear. But for most of them, less than 5 minutes. They know why they walked into your residence, you know why they walked into your residence (or theirs). Just kiss da girl.
When I brought a girl home to watch a movie I wanted to watch the movie. It was the Henry Cavill Superman movie. About 15 minutes into the movie she pulled me up off the couch and asked me to come to bed. The whole time we were in bed I Was just constantly thinking about Superman. I wanted to finish watching it. I went back out and finished watching it by myself after she fell asleep.
>At some point you just have to play it by ear.
I wouldn't be asking any of these questions if I could ever do that.
You have to be aware that 95% of what you are describing sounds like elaborate instructions on how to defuse a bomb which end with "just play it by ear"
Offer her something to drink, make her comfortable, sit next to her and put something on the TV. Wait a few minutes and pull her close, she'll go for a kiss, or at least give you a hint like eye contact. From the moment she agreed to come to your house she basically decided she's gonna have sex with you, provided you don't frick up.
When a girl from college came home with me and was in bed with me she told me I was too innocent and she would feel guilty having sex with me.
she did the right thing
Why? She still brought me to lunch the next day and she paid for everything. She was always saying I was cute like a puppy.
Don't take this the wrong way but how were you presenting yourself to her? As a man, or as a puppy?
>What happens right before you cuddle?
>How many minutes? And how do you "pull her close" exactly?
Just sit next to her and mind your business while commenting on the movie or anything else. Make her laugh and read her body language, is she stiff or is she comfortable? If she's having fun just throw your arm and her and gently pull her close while she's laughing. She might make eye contact at that very moment, if she does, kiss her. If she doesn't, wait at least 10m and get in her face, lean in for a kiss.
>So you pretend to go watch a movie every time?
Yeah, or a random TV show. If she says she doesn't care it's a good sign, means she's not gonna pay much attention. Just pick some comedy or horror shit
>Make her laugh and read her body language
it's that simple. Just be charming
Well yeah. Just don't be an butthole, if she's in your house she already likes you, if she laughs at your jokes she's already into you. So this is the single time where you have to man up and play into that. It's basic instinct at that point. Getting there is the hardest part but when the time comes, you'll know what to do, don't worry about that part.
If she's not laughing at your jokes why is she in your house? Do you think she's having a good time? Does it seem like she wants to bang you? If you can't answer those questions in that situation just play chill and see if she makes a move. IF she doesn't, make an excuse and call her an Uber, then onto the next one. You could try kissing her anyway but I wouldn't recommend that for your first female contact.
>Make her laugh and read her body language
HOW
You should have told her you would feel guilty about raping her.
Don't think it through that much, if she's coming home, she's down to frick.
How do you get a girl? I mean literally, how do you go from just talking to a girl to suddenly literally inserting your penis into her vegana?
the fact that they can never elaborate on this is proof that we live in a simulation.
oh, ha ha, that is easy, you just -
oh hang on, I have to go. back soon anon brother buddies
Just be forward. Women love confidence, so just be suggestive or straight up tell them you want to hook up. You'll either score or get shut down, unless you want to date her, don't give a frick if you get rejected, just move on to the next target.
Just pull your dick out and shove it right in her mouth. Women love confident men.
I know you're joking, but sometimes just whipping it out works. Just not at a kindergarten.
im mildly autistic and its gone like this for me
>women start trying to spend more time around me
>women starts making eye contact and laughing a lot in my presence
>sometimes woman briefly drops hand on shoulder or leg
>woman asks to do something with me 1 on 1
>we're alone together and woman gets obviously physical, snuggling or leaning in for a kiss
>at this point i usually pull out my dick and wave it in front of her face
>she either goes for it or freaks out
>either way by the end of the night they are usually disappointed and dont want to see me again
in my defense i do basically nothing. this just happens. i think its bc i am tall and meet a lot of women through my job
vast majority of the time it happens by getting to know women through friends, social groups, hobbies, mutual interests and even work
depends
sometimes it'll fall on your lap and you won't really realize it til it happens
my first gf was an autismo emo girl, was pretty nice. If there's one thing you should get a hold of, if you have a deep sense of self hatred, you're going to ruin that relationship
Exact same situation with me. She was cute autism I loved her. I ended up ending things because I had unresolved issues like you said and regret it every day. She's with a weird freak now even after I basically begged for her back cause I think she just feels safe that he'll never leave her
>tfw had my fifth flake in a row tonight
I spent the night driving, then went to the store to buy some treats for my baby cousins tomorrow, then I saw a movie, now I'm back home watching Sopranos and drinking a nice black champagne.
Lol, I've been with over 40 woman, 10+ traps and 15+ guys. And that was all before I was married 10 years ago. Hooking up isn't hard, it's being monogamous that's the struggle.
treat yourself to a discrete troony every once and awhile. you deserve it. it is 2024 after all
>Hooking up isn't hard
>Posting this on Cinemaphiledotorg
I've been here since 2008, I'm fricked in the head, but I'm smart enough to present a normie to the outside world.
There's a whole demeanor to being a virgin, especially after you turn 20. Girls could almost always tell so I had to put up an incredibly fake character to frick one.
They don't know they can't know
Jon was a crow so she had decent odds of that comment landing. She would've said it either way.
she can smell it.
She was talking to a zoomer.
>"Sure feels like it sometimes."
>implies you've done the deed but gives your lack of experience plausible deniability
For me it is "might as well be" and then a backup story about how I banged a girl in college (I didn't). I've never needed to invoke the backup.
I paid a cute girl at Starbucks 15 dollars to take a picture with me to convince my coworkers I have a girlfriend. I try to stay out of conversations about sex and relationships as I know less than nothing. I think they know on some level as I'm an awkward anxious mess but thankfully don't mess with me about it
aye jern snew, I cooght you lookin' at me piss flaps ya cheeky booga
Accept the ride and subsequent promotion
Just stay away from chicks like that bros. They're immature as shit. Not a single girl from Tinder asked me if I was a virgin, not even the one that took my virginity, till this day she doesn't even know. I remember being scared as shit if I ever was confronted about it but it never happened, I think being on Tinder helps cause women assume you already have some degree of experience
I
meant more for general conversations with coworkers, etc. Honestly for women, I've had not awful luck letting them know. Some of them want virgins just as much as guys do.
They can smell you out. A virgin among normalgays is like a troon among real women.
why do you keep making this thread
Every night until he gets laid.
aka an angel in God's Heaven?
frick yeah b***hes
I wish I was still a virgin tbqh lads...
My virginity is lost forever lads... sex is overrated.
I'd rather be a perma virgin and persecuted by this moronic society than suffering as I am right now...
Bout to drop some heat so listen up homosexuals.
Women are not worth wasting your fricking time over. If you aren't getting pussy, and are currently chasing pussy, it means you have ZERO fricking desirability. Women will literally throw their pussy at you as long as you tick their boxes for attractiveness. You have to be somewhat physically attractive. I say somewhat because it's not necessary to look like your roided the frick out in order to get your crush's panties dripping, you just have to not be in extreme territory in either side of the spectrum: don't look like an emaciated scrawny little puss nugget and don't look like a big fat frick with breasts twice the size of hers. Skinny but lean toned guys slay pussy. Dad bod guys slay pussy. Being fit and looking like a greek god helps immensely because the majority of women PREFER it but it's absolutely not needed and it's a mistake to make that gym-bro lifestyle the epicenter of your idendity because the second factor is that you have to be LIKEABLE. You have to be able to talk to people and make them feel comfortable. Even if you were extremely built, if you talk to women like you watch porn 3 hours a day you're going to put them the frick off. Confidence is key but women will smell fake confidence a mile away and if you oversell yourself they have already mentally placed you into the "will never frick me" part of the diagram. Earn that confidence. Whether through success or achieving physical goals, EARN THAT FRICKING CONFIDENCE. That's it. Literally that's it. If you can be physically attractive and also not be a complete fricking sperg, pussy will proceed to drop in your lap in even increments, and after a while, you will have fricked enough girls to realize that it's really not all its cut out to be. There's nothing more sexy than a woman who isn't into you, because it gives the illusion that it's fruit you can't enjoy. Women are all the same and a dime a dozen when they're into you.
>implying i read your wall of text
Anon, if you're desperate for some pussy just look in the mirror.
Peeko my man!
yep, this post is what happens when normies try to give dating advice
I had a trial run of like two weeks of what it means to feel like a normie, it felt like two parts of my brain got finally connected, and I 100% understand what enables people to think they wrote something useful when they write posts like this
it's not like it's even wrong lol
the truth has always been in that cheerleader kiss image
No the point is that I'm saying to you women in their current 2023 state are fricking useless for anything other than a quick pump dump. Even if you're lonely and desperate for human affection, spending one year with a woman will drain your lifeforce completely.
> Random arguments about nothing.
> She saw you Look at another attractive woman that briefly passed your peripheral? here's 2 hours of passive aggression.
> Want to try to get her into your hobbies or interests? Sorry, all you get is slack-jawed stare followed by 30 minutes of her asking what should we eat for dinner.
> Her pussy is amazing and new for the first few months. 9 months of sex later, your dick literally will prefer your hand and porn instead of her same old formulaic hole.
> Piles of dirty fricking panties, clothes and trash all over your fricking bedroom because she's too lazy to put it in the basket.
> Existence runs on social media. Think she'll keep that tender or meaningful moment that happened to her locked up in her memories? Nope. Gotta snap a pic for the gram.
Having a girlfriend is suffering. Having a fwb or a dependable escort is life.
nice dubs, but since you're a normie I'd advise you to not give up
you have the capacity to enjoy woman's presence and flirting, compared to me
there *are* good interesting women out there, you just need to a) use your experience to filter out early women that don't have brain activity beyond generic woman compulsion things and b) be aware of her innate woman flaws and desires and compensate/distract her from them with productive things. It's always going to be a non-stop fight, but as a normie you have the capacity to enjoy it rather that it being meaningless toil
I'm not a normie I've been using this cesspit of a website since 2006 I just got tired of fricking my hand back then so I actually put in effort into improving myself. It's cliche and actually cringe to give a number when talking about how much girls you've slept with but I've fricked a lot of women, whether they were ex girlfriends, frick buddies or escorts and I honestly know them enough to just not want anything beyond sex with them. I'm sure that ideal woman is out there but I just don't care enough to even know what I'd do with her if she ever came along. I feel like I've gotten everything I can possibly experience in one lifetime out of women and the sheer fact remains that they are mostly detriment to your own lifestyle as a whole and are incapable of showing any remote interest into anything that doesn't involve their own presence being in it. Women are just not fricking worth it, but because of primal urges, you'll still need to eventually get a nut in every now and then but that's pretty much it. Sex is a meme.
>I just don't care enough to even know what I'd do with her if she ever came along
well, if you're a normie, then you'd have these several innate desires to "provide", "protect" and "be the best for (competitiveness)"
if you can't dig out emotions like that, then you may be not a normie
it's not a coincidence relationship is also called a "companionship", because woman's supposed to be your companion in doing IRL shit. If you don't want to do anything IRL, or provide for her, then you're SOL
Nah dude like I said I'm not a normie, I was just obsessed with having sex for like a decade. I'm even technically considered bi since I've had girls and guys. I'm a complete homosexual meme, because I can't stand gay people or effeminate gays but I've had dick shoved deep in my guts and down my throat like a handful of times. Homosexuality is a total meme by the way, there's literally nothing more to it than just enjoying the feeling of a dick up your ass or down your throat. If you enjoy being pampered, that's pretty much the "feminine" experience. I've had luck with women and guys because I have that pretty boy face, and I've done so many squats that my thrusts can turn a 2023 woke girlboss into a prohibition era housewife and my ass would clench your dick so tight I'd send your balls to the 9th dimension so it's something both sexes can enjoy. But yeah I still immensely prefer women over men because I'm incapable of developing romantic feelings for a guy, I want dick strictly as a fetish for submission but I've only had romantic feelings for women. But they're awful "life partners." It doesn't take a year to figure out that women will endlessly long for "what could have been" or perpetually ask themselves "am I with the best guy I can be with or is there someone better" even if you're Chad Thunderwiener. Longest relationship lasted 9 years and near the end it was just plain misery. I just got tired of her having everything in our life dictated by what she saw on her phone. She was a perfect housewife, cooked well, kept the house clean, always kept the balls drained but I was just not designed for long term commitment. She's much better off anyway, because I cheated on her a FRICKTON of times.
>It doesn't take a year to figure out that women will endlessly long for "what could have been" or perpetually ask themselves "am I with the best guy I can be with or is there someone better" even if you're Chad Thunderwiener.
that's certainly the life lesson you're supposed to learn at some point, but the actual corollary to all of that is that you CAN'T know that and all you need to do is "enjoy simple things" and "just b urself"
if you know that cheating is wrong and beat yourself over it then you just need either need to not do that and feel good about yourself as a "good christian" or accept that you're actually a chad thunderwiener and keep living that life and search for someone who you'll be able to truly love
all of this can be addressed in fricking therapy or a soul-to-soul conversations with best friends, which is something normies NEED or they keep having unresolved contradicting thoughts in their head
Contradictory thoughts is what makes life meaningful. The human experience is built upon the foundation of riding out the turbulence of uncertainty. Sometimes it's better to romanticize about the idea of something rather than confronting that road face-to-face.
>Contradictory thoughts is what makes life meaningful.
strong positive emotions is what makes life meaningful
if you get that through contradictory emotions somehow, then more power to you, but those are most likely indicative of mismatch of your picture of the world with reality which does not help your life progression
this is good advice. i got a dad bod from drinking a lot recently but real confidence from not giving a frick. been fricking some pretty good looking women, more so than when i was working out all the time
*a diamond dozen
Because he didn't rape her.
He's 5'7"
Jesus Christ, if a woman lets you frick her without paying then YOU ARE A NORMALgay. Women are the gatekeepers of societal acceptance.
I’d like to have a gf or something but I really, really despise the companionship of other people. What do?
get yourself a normie woman friend, spend some time with her, and then imagine having to live with that for most of your waking life
as an autist, gf is not a good tradeoff of time and effort I have to apply to keep her that I'd rather spend rotting drunk in front of a laptop, considering that I am a beta and cannot flirt/dominate a woman with my monkey brain and have to apply logical part of my brain, which feels like a chore
the normie power is in the fact that they enjoy IRL activities to an extent that their brain says to them "I did not just completely waste my fricking time and money on this dineout/travel/gift to her" and incentivizes them to keep doing that
What are your thoughts/experiences with losing your virginity to an escort/prostitute?
I'm turning 24 soon and I'm still a virgin. I can't really be mad about it though because I don't make any attempt to date or find women. I also was abused as a child and lost all my teenage years to mental illness. I don't even care about the whole sex thing but I feel like if I ever meet a nice girl someday, I would at least like to have some bit of experience so I'm not an awkward and fumbling mess.
I see a lot of people on the Internet all say they regret losing their virginity to a prostitute. Has anyone else here done it before?
Yeah plus if she gives you a hepres, now you're fricked anyways and you'll associate every act of sex with stds