No idea. I've lived independently for over a decade and still feel like a 30 year old boy. I think you needs the rights of passage your parents took to feel like an adult but the ability to experience those rites of passage has been yanked out from most of us.
Living independently isn't enough. You need a partner, kids, fulfilling life experiences, your own property. Family trips and photo albums, good memories. Slaving away and paying the rent isn't adulthood, it's sustenance.
>You need a partner, kids, fulfilling life experiences, your own property.
Yeah, that's what I was referring to by the rights of passage our parents took.
Marriage, Purchasing your first home, having children. If we can't replicate the rites of passage the adults who raised us did how can we in turn ever consider ourselves adults?
Have you met married people? There are a lot of children in relationships and marriages. And I'm not talking like haha he still watches Disney movies. I'm talking mother frickers that don't know how to operate a stove or a washing machine. Dumbasses that don't know how to pay the electric. You would not believe the stupid shit these "people" do on the daily. So many people are so afraid of being alone they'll put up with almost anything it's actually pretty sad
Living independently isn't enough. You need a partner, kids, fulfilling life experiences, your own property. Family trips and photo albums, good memories. Slaving away and paying the rent isn't adulthood, it's sustenance.
Anyone raised by boomers and after have been inflicted with terminal child abuse and neglect lol
No amount of money can make up for formative experience and genuine human feeling you should have gotten as a child.
None of us were raised to be a true human being in touch with our genuine self. We were raised to be slaves and cogs in the judeo financial system. Your parents happily we along with this, the media facilitated this and this society is glad about this
Get married so you have a woman in your life telling you what to do. Get a 12 hour job so you can give half of it to rich people, the other half to your wife. Use any spare money and time to drink beer and watch some sport. Also have a kid at some point to keep the cycle alive. Develop a light connection to religion later in life so that your fear of death and existential dread won't cripple you.
JUST BECOME HECKIN GOYCATTLE BRO!! GIVE IN TO THE SYSTEM AND TAKE YOUR EXPERIMENTAL ANTIPSYCHOTIC DRUGS!!! YOU JUST HAVE TO BE AN EMOTIONLESS ZOMBIE WHO GETS PUSHED AROUND BY TODAY BORN LUCKIER THAN YOU!!!
OP, we're a generation of men raised by women.
i'm starting to wonder if another woman is really what we need...stop watching porn. go have sex. frick a hooker if you have to. stop touching your own dick. go start a fight. fight with yourself if you have to and wanna avoid getting arrested. go outside, take risks, live. boys stay home and are afraid. boys are dependent. even having a job makes you dependent. with internet you can literally start your own income stream like these homosexual youtubers who just TALK in front of a camera and get free money. go start something. create something. boys consume. get off Cinemaphile for a while. stop consoooming and then talking about what you consoomed. frickin homosexual.
Just stop worrying about it. I became poor and then never again worried about women or maturity or experiences or any of that. I just worry about money.
My grandmother when she was in her 80s said that when she looks into the mirror she feels young but an old woman stares back. Your mind stays young but body gets old
My answer would be stop living your life mainly for your own gratification and put the needs of those around you or more broadly your community ahead of your wants. It's broken down a lot, into making money, starting a family and adult responsibilities. But I think the core aspect of what separates a man from a boy is when that person contributes to his surroundings or at very least takes care of himself. From the days of being old enough to hunt or now getting your a job it's about contributing to society as hole.
Interestingly enough or fricked up maybe is a better term but the reason why I hear so many women saying things like 'a "real man" is willing to raise someone else's kid' is because, at least partially, "manhood" is understood as a service to others. Now I'm not saying fall for that bullshit, if anything be wary of people trying to take advantage of you, I'm just trying to point out what I think I see as what the understanding of acting like a man is.
>woe is me i am such a loser amirite guys
when did this site become infested with normalgay losers? just fricking stop posting if this site has mindbroken you, if you're that stupid for that to happen anyway.
The movie is about how capitalist alienation was so intense and overwhelming that it caused the character to develop psychosis to create a fascist persona to escape his mundane pointless life
You have a poor self image or hold yourself to a standard you feel you cannot attain. People are very poor judges of their own character so thinking like this is a fool's errand. This is especially pronounced in today's world where maturity is linked to certain economic goals that are much harder to achieve than they were 50 years ago but the standards have not changed. Instead ask what maturity will give you when you have it and why you think maturity is the only way to attain these things.
Just wait until you become a 31-year-old boy
start doing meth
Get a full time job and moved out of your parents home. That's pretty much it.
He has a full time job and doesn't live with his parents.
No idea. I've lived independently for over a decade and still feel like a 30 year old boy. I think you needs the rights of passage your parents took to feel like an adult but the ability to experience those rites of passage has been yanked out from most of us.
Living independently isn't enough. You need a partner, kids, fulfilling life experiences, your own property. Family trips and photo albums, good memories. Slaving away and paying the rent isn't adulthood, it's sustenance.
>You need a partner, kids, fulfilling life experiences, your own property.
Yeah, that's what I was referring to by the rights of passage our parents took.
Marriage, Purchasing your first home, having children. If we can't replicate the rites of passage the adults who raised us did how can we in turn ever consider ourselves adults?
Maybe that’s just what being an adult feels like?
Maybe.
Stop sharing rage bait you frick wit
Have you met married people? There are a lot of children in relationships and marriages. And I'm not talking like haha he still watches Disney movies. I'm talking mother frickers that don't know how to operate a stove or a washing machine. Dumbasses that don't know how to pay the electric. You would not believe the stupid shit these "people" do on the daily. So many people are so afraid of being alone they'll put up with almost anything it's actually pretty sad
Anyone raised by boomers and after have been inflicted with terminal child abuse and neglect lol
No amount of money can make up for formative experience and genuine human feeling you should have gotten as a child.
None of us were raised to be a true human being in touch with our genuine self. We were raised to be slaves and cogs in the judeo financial system. Your parents happily we along with this, the media facilitated this and this society is glad about this
Yes Ivan we know you're raiding.
>nervous israelite people are waking up to his bullshit
>muh russia boogeyman please look at russia don't look at boomers and israelites who have been running this country to the ground since the 60s
You are even more irritating than the Baskin Roberts guy and the Gadon poster.
>surrounding themselves with an infinite wall of excuses and absolute, impenetrable denial
Motherfricker, "rights" of passage?
In fairness it's spelled correctly once and then incorrectly another. Guessing they had a brainfart.
Get married so you have a woman in your life telling you what to do. Get a 12 hour job so you can give half of it to rich people, the other half to your wife. Use any spare money and time to drink beer and watch some sport. Also have a kid at some point to keep the cycle alive. Develop a light connection to religion later in life so that your fear of death and existential dread won't cripple you.
Nailed it
have you tried fricking helena bonham carter?
JUST BECOME HECKIN GOYCATTLE BRO!! GIVE IN TO THE SYSTEM AND TAKE YOUR EXPERIMENTAL ANTIPSYCHOTIC DRUGS!!! YOU JUST HAVE TO BE AN EMOTIONLESS ZOMBIE WHO GETS PUSHED AROUND BY TODAY BORN LUCKIER THAN YOU!!!
If the feeling hasn't gone away by the time you're 25, it's never going away
OP, we're a generation of men raised by women.
i'm starting to wonder if another woman is really what we need...stop watching porn. go have sex. frick a hooker if you have to. stop touching your own dick. go start a fight. fight with yourself if you have to and wanna avoid getting arrested. go outside, take risks, live. boys stay home and are afraid. boys are dependent. even having a job makes you dependent. with internet you can literally start your own income stream like these homosexual youtubers who just TALK in front of a camera and get free money. go start something. create something. boys consume. get off Cinemaphile for a while. stop consoooming and then talking about what you consoomed. frickin homosexual.
Just stop worrying about it. I became poor and then never again worried about women or maturity or experiences or any of that. I just worry about money.
My grandmother when she was in her 80s said that when she looks into the mirror she feels young but an old woman stares back. Your mind stays young but body gets old
idk but i feel you bro. we will make it, possibly
My answer would be stop living your life mainly for your own gratification and put the needs of those around you or more broadly your community ahead of your wants. It's broken down a lot, into making money, starting a family and adult responsibilities. But I think the core aspect of what separates a man from a boy is when that person contributes to his surroundings or at very least takes care of himself. From the days of being old enough to hunt or now getting your a job it's about contributing to society as hole.
Interestingly enough or fricked up maybe is a better term but the reason why I hear so many women saying things like 'a "real man" is willing to raise someone else's kid' is because, at least partially, "manhood" is understood as a service to others. Now I'm not saying fall for that bullshit, if anything be wary of people trying to take advantage of you, I'm just trying to point out what I think I see as what the understanding of acting like a man is.
>woe is me i am such a loser amirite guys
when did this site become infested with normalgay losers? just fricking stop posting if this site has mindbroken you, if you're that stupid for that to happen anyway.
>30
haha
No doubt in my mind.
Just bee urself
>30
>tradesman
>stay at home wife
>2 year old daughter
>Cinemaphile
>still feel like a manchild, insecure in everything I do
don't post your blog here
normal Black person
The movie is about how capitalist alienation was so intense and overwhelming that it caused the character to develop psychosis to create a fascist persona to escape his mundane pointless life
You have a poor self image or hold yourself to a standard you feel you cannot attain. People are very poor judges of their own character so thinking like this is a fool's errand. This is especially pronounced in today's world where maturity is linked to certain economic goals that are much harder to achieve than they were 50 years ago but the standards have not changed. Instead ask what maturity will give you when you have it and why you think maturity is the only way to attain these things.
men under 30 shouldnt start families. They arent real men yet.
They act like teenagers larping as adults and ruin their lives
start punching yourself in the face and living in an abandoned rotting house