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Zero. Every man is fulfilled and happy with a large social circle.
most men live mediocre lives lol.
1% of people in the world are millionaires.
really?
then how big is the circle if only 1% of people in the world are millionaires? lol. theres less at the top. unless youre a low status poor person where your social circle is big because you pretty much live in an african tent village where all the villagers know each other lol.
>The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation. What is called resignation is confirmed desperation.
Heny David Thoreau
this isn't new but doesn't make it less sad
it doesn't matter, money is fake and printed, all human thought is fricking nonsense our minds think makes sense and those millionaires will never escape mortality and death and their achievements and superiority amounting to nothing as their minds shut off forever.
go outside, breath it in. this is a beautiful experience we are privileged to be existing in.
i'm aware of this, my life isn't great but better than most because i was born rich. doesn't change the fact our brethren live shit lives with no escape. that still makes me sad
>The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation
this. most men just live mediocre lives with a girl their teenage version wouldnt even have jerkd off too. lmfao.
>you need money to matter
You stupid gorilla Black person
literally me
Nearly all of them. You cannot speak of these feelings. I don’t mean that “society” pushes them away, I mean to speak of them solidifies your weakness. Being a man is shouldering pain and moving on. Not in a gay red pill manosphere way, just as a good policy to have for when shit hits the fan and you have to take care of larger problems in life. Men were made to be lonely. Women can be wonderful and you should still pursue them, but never forget that they are incapable of truly loving anything other than their children. No woman has ever loved their husband; rather they adore the attention and love their husbands give to their wives.
>but never forget that they are incapable of truly loving anything other than their children
Even this might be up in the air if you saw the last decade of white women, women are definitely capable of loving their status more than their children.
This is such a stultified view of masculinity. You are allowed to use your innate emotional intelligence to overcome internal dilemmas. Self-empathy is not a feminine trait, don't permit them to claim that. You don't need to 'shoulder' burdens. You are Sisyphus, not Atlas. You are not immune to emotional pain; it kills your masculine energy, your libido. Realise a real man is a man in touch with his heart.
Chad post, of course it goes ignored.
wise post
Man is at his best when he is struggling to overcome and conquer so we can see Sisyphus as being fulfilled and happy.
You are so deeply insecure and sad.
hes right go back to your hugbox plebbitor
True, cucks seething
My own mother committed fraud and extortion against me. I will not elaborate
can you elaborate on the experience?
yea
>never forget that they are incapable of truly loving anything other than their children. No woman has ever loved their husband
Rookie mistake everyone goes through; mistaking lust for love
>husband
oh, that cuck. lol.
>they are incapable of truly loving anything other than their children.
they dont even love their children. its just something for them to do, taking care of them cause theres nothing else to do for a girl once they hit the wall.
>he's never had a woman truly in love with him and willing to do anything for him upon request
I feel so sorry for you, anon.
>never forget that they are incapable of truly loving anything other than their children. No woman has ever loved their husband;
Pfft, I wish. There's countless examples of horrible mothers who let their husband abuse or neglect the kids and then still insist on defending him.
No it didn't happen to me, but it did to my cousins
>Playing into this
The reality is men are humans and have emotions but women are unironically psychologically children throughout their entire lives.
Their entire view of stability against existential horrors of reality depends on an unbreakable father figure both literally and through their mates.
Crying in front of a woman makes you instantly unattractive just as crying in front of your daughter guarantees daddy issues (I swear my sister started being a c**t to my dad around a time point where he did break down crying over some shit)
It's not that women are looking for a lack of emotion, it's that the primordial reason for crying is infants plea for dependency. A man who sheds a tear usually isn't "in control" of the situation.
Demoralization. Shut up. This in principle only matters.
>shoulder your pain
Shoulder a rifle instead.
If every man shouldered a gun, body armor, and tnt hand grenades, men wouldn’t be stepped on, wouldn’t be terrorized, and would actually restore some influence and power in their own communities.
Film federal agents, follow them home, post their addresses online.
Women can love just fine. They're just spoiled by how easy their lives are, so their thought processes seem alien.
doomspiral hopelessness. You could pick a random indian guy off the street and he would have more love and compassion inside him than this entire thread combined.
Not as many as this cesspool of chronically depressed losers would make you think
Definitely not me. I love life and being alive. I wish you all well and to have a better day tomorrow than this one if it's a bad one.
you're 16
Elaborate.
If I ever see you irl, I'm going to beat your candy ass.
>If I ever see you irl
You don't leave your house lmao
low effort
>lmao
not funny though
anyone posting "lol" or "lmao" is a troony and should be kicked into a furnace.
the one you replied to is a good example
I'd rather have a drink and we can talk.
fake and gay or a women
Same
Not even that I don't have some regrets, but unless you're horribly disfigured or disabled or spent the entirety your 20s and 30s inside a closed room in front of a monitor, it's painfully obvious that life is great
>or spent the entirety your 20s and 30s inside a closed room in front of a monitor,
That anon you replied to. I will add that I don't have any friends and certainly never had a girlfriend and for most other men judging here, that's a hellish place to be. Not for me. I am quite content, though I was told I have some form Asperger's and view the world in my own lens. I don't gel with others but not antisocial even with the last time I had a friend group I was pretty much thrown away and disowned, I still am very much glad to be alive. Even if someone just wants to be on their computer in their own home most of the time, it's still not a bad place to be. There's people passing away as we speak that'd kill for the opportunity to have our time even if others perceive us to be wasting it if we're not out there having sex with a hundred women and organizing parties and getting STD's or whatnot. As long as you draw breath, you have something to smile about. After a certain age, you either change your mindset and gain perspective or your conscious can't take anymore negativity and it filters it out.
Shut up homosexual
Cheers Roge, I appreciate it
i will piledrive you on to that weak-ass stack of dimes you call a neck, jabrony.
pleb here
what is this from
Another Round or Druk depending on the market it’s released in
I'm like that but I'm not sad about it.
Same I am more just embarrassed about it sometimes. I just worry not many people would come to my wedding or funeral, but the quality of people matters more than the quantity I guess.
Why the frick is this cat so chill?
I'm druk btw
>2 kids
>a wife
>a house
>friends he sees every day
AHHHHHHH IM GOING INSANE SAVE ME NIGERMAN
Why is this simple thing now some unattainable pipedream. wtf happened
How is it an unattainable pipe dream?
His wife was cheating on him and his kids were disinterested zoomers. You're right about him having actual friends though so he shouldn't have been acting like he had reason to be super depressed.
It's been a while since I saw the movie but doesn't it portray it as him being to blame for that? His relationship with his wife and kids was bad because of the stiff, closed off person he was before getting druk. His more spontaneous druk personality takes his family camping and they have a good time and IIRC he fricks his wife as well.
Yeah and then they decide him being druk is a problem and go back to hating him. Nothing he does will change how they really feel.
Also the experiment only lasts a few weeks at most. His wife was clearly cheating on him before then.
Like I said it's been a long time since I saw the film but from what I can recall the implication is that he was a bad husband and father so his relationship with his family being strained is understandable, and while they might have been happy for a few moments when their husband/father suddenly became a way more pleasant person they obviously don't want him to be a self destructive alcoholic either. His wife had been cheating for a long time because her husband was fricking miserable for a long time, though that doesn't really excuse it, she should've asked for a divorce at that point.
>wife and kids treat him like a stranger in his own home
>kids don't respect him at work
I realized recently literally all men want is love and respect. You could live in a mud house if you had respect you'd be happy, or be a worm in a golden palace.
4:51pm, on my second 5dl light beer ( 5,2). got one more of those in the fridge then switching over to 7,5 and topping off with a bottle of single malt.
What a life
bottles halfway done and is only 10:08 for fricks sake
It can't be that many, I can't think of even one I know personally.
Haha what a story Nathan
I don't do much.
I don't see many people.
I know how I ended up like this.
I'm happy this way.
The dude was like fifty. What are you supposed to when you are fifty except work and provide for your family? I get it if you're 20 or 30 with no kids but life for everything else than upkeeping society trough work and family is over when you're 50.
>be introverted and think I dont need friends when the internet exists
>get bored talking to shitposters
>but have no place to go now since my social CV is empty
literally me
go to a bar
The Internet was a mistake, if you're a loser introvert.
It was fine as a crutch for a while, but now it's largely been centralized and killed off by a combo of profit seeking corporations and nurse Ratched Jannies. The old watering holes I used to hang out on are ghost towns, Reddit a hollowed out dystopia, so on, and in the end you got no more crutch. Your hobbies or friend circle irl can't be infiltrated and destroyed by some troony with an agenda irl, but online it can. Everyone with a life moved on to the real world, others went insane or insufferable. What a trap.
You ought to join a tabletop gaming group or maybe a hiking group or a gun club
>doesn't do much
>doesn't see many people
sounds like heaven
I just can't wait for Valentine's Day!!
it’s the best day of the year, i’ve already booked [pending] my girlfriend [pending] a room in a one star hotel in the balkans next to a minefield that’s become overgrown with flowers due to no one walking on it.
woohoo
also looking forward to my birthday, going to be surrounded by friends [pending] and my girlfriend [pending] and her friends [pending] as usual [pending].
might go for a walk in the field of flowers
when I go out and try to talk to anyone, everyone just seems to cold and callous, like I've done something wrong, this is like 100% of the time, even if someone is polite, they make it clear they are not interested in me or talking to me or interacting with me in any way except business or services
You're probably ugly then.
most people are ugly but they have lots of friends
why do you think I'm randomly approaching people on the street
Clearly they aren't as ugly as you are if they have lots of friends and you do not.
>most people are ugly but they have lots of friends
I'm glad you said that, because ugly and attractive are both subjective. If those people have friends, then it means their friends don't think they're ugly. Have you ever had ugly friends? I've been friends with other losers, but they weren't ugly; They were still white people.
For example: Post a picture of an ugly person with friends. You'll realise that their friends are ugly too, and so it's people being friends with others like them, and that's what you need to do, if you want friends.
>Post a picture of an ugly person with friends. You'll realise that their friends are ugly too
this lol. thats why the whole "i hav lots of friend" sthcik dont work.
I'm sorry to say but I have to agree with this anon:
Think about it: If someone approached you on the street, would you want to talk to them? No one would, unless the person was handsome or pretty, and then you would give them a chance.
I'm not a stupid person, and my brain still works like this. It's because humans all believe in eugenics, whether they can admit it or not. Nobody thinks ugly people should exist, and they just do, because society needs the slave labour.
It's happened to me once and I live in a country where you don't make small talk with strangers. Some guy just asked something out of the blue and we exchanged 2-3 sentences he asked if it was alright that he talked to me and I said sure and we talked about random shit for maybe 20 minutes because we were headed in the right direction. My first instinct was that he was either in sales, a scammer or in a cult and was basically out to get something from me but he only wanted someone to talk to for a while, too extroverted despite being Nordic.
i don't mind talking to people irl or being approached as long as they aren't pyschos. it's fun talking to people
I've seen that image you posted before. It's weird, trannies are uniquely positioned to be insightful about the male experience, as they see it from an outsider's perspective, and some of them are even above average intelligence (neurotic people generally are), but because they are insane and highly impressionable they always go loopy at the end, with the 'White Imperialism' nonsense here. A malfunctioning brain can make observations, but can't attribute them to the correct causes.
Why are you trying to call them insane when you have no counter argument? They may be trannies, but what they say makes a lot of sense, whereas the garbage you wrote says nothing at all. Reply after the hide and check your other threads (all filtered) or open some filtered threads, thanks.
NTA but you can correctly identify a problem while also incorrectly identifying the cause.
nta but there's there's only one country in the world where women are more likely to suicide then men - and that's only because it seems to be socially encouraged over there. pic related is the countries with the widest gap, clearly not just a "white imperialism" thing. It's a universal issue with dozens of causes.
Which country? That graphic is weird
China.
>Traditional gender roles in China hold women responsible for keeping the family happy and intact. Suicide for women in China is shown in literature to be an acceptable way to avoid disgrace that may be brought to themselves or their families.
I mean, conservative right-wingers tend not to be trannies, she'd probably still be going on about "white imperialism making men lonely" if she wasn't a troony.
>someone who isn't actually a man, and who never felt themselves as a real woman, educates us all on exactly what it's like to be a man and a woman
frick off
The "women treating you like dirt" part is a bigger blow to the vast majority of men. Nearly everyone I went to school with had some kind of close knit friend group that you could most certainly call intimate and they seemed to turn on each other much less than the women did.
>The "women treating you like dirt" part is a bigger blow to the vast majority of men
Why are people bothered by that, exactly? If women don't want you, then maybe you're not meant to have children. This anon:
says it's 40%, and I'm part of that 40%.
Does everyone lack empathy or something? The world doesn't end because you don't have children; There will be other children.
>Why are people bothered by that, exactly?
Because they have natural urges to be physically and perhaps emotionally close to a woman.
>Does everyone lack empathy or something? Most people who want something are not satisfied at the thought that others have what they want. It's ironic you bring up empathy because it's clear you lack it.
>There will be other children.
But not YOUR children. Do you lack empathy or something? Do you not understand that very fundamental desire held by the vast majority of humans to find a partner and reproduce? Failure to meet these basic goals would obviously depress most people.
it's an essential need to be touched/loved/have sex. i have no idea how people turned this into an 'entitlement' problem
I'm way past tired of people calling those things 'essential needs'
they absolutely, categorically, are not essential needs in the way food/water/shelter/rest are essential needs—you will not die strictly from a lack of positive human contact
you're right but you will die indirectly as a result from being a huge lonely gay
Not if you love yourself for who you are and take good care of yourself
oversocialized NPC. go back to your pride parade.
if he's over-socialized you are one under-socialized motherfricker lmao
being under socialized is better. if you let yourself take that route, you will become what others make of you and end up in a worse place than you'd be if you just stayed alone.
Yes, but isolation/(total or near-total) lack of friendship/(total or near-total) lack of sex and so on are associated with hypertension, heart disease, shorter life expectancy, and so on.
There's more than one variable at work here, but isolation definitely isn't good for you. We evolved as a social species and there's no getting out of that.
so is lack of exercise on all of those counts, but nobody would be ridiculous enough to call that an 'essential need'. Again, 'strongly associated with/necessary for optimum health and performance' does not equate to 'essential need', which is by definition 'a thing without which you will die, specifically as a result of lacking it'
I don't want to live long anyway
She can literally go back to being a woman any time she wants. Trans dicks arent real.
People don't talk to her because she's a "man", they don't talk to her because she's a mentally ill woman cosplaying as a man.
And on that note, most men are not cripplingly lonely. Almost every man woman and moron at my schools and colleges spoke to one another easily and regularly. This includes the real world, too.
The only exception to this are people who actively shun social contact and the severely mentally stunted. Like painting the walls with your own shit- stunted.
kek she almost got it. She's hold all the pieces but her dumb trannified brain from years of propaganda and political indoctrination can't piece them together.
>White imperialism out of nowhere
what the h e double hockey sticks
FWIW, I'm MtF trans (yeah yeah troony troon whatever, get over yourself), and I've absolutely experienced this same phenomenon in reverse. I've got good enough style/genetics to pass pretty often in public, or else just look pretty enough for people not to care (I was already a prettyboy twink before I transitioned)
and yeah, the way I get treated in public now is night and day, it's like the social attitude of the entire human race flipped on its head. Women in particular are just so much kinder and more open to me. I get so many more smiles, compliments, and just picking up friendly small talk with female strangers than I ever did when I was male-presenting. Beforehand, I absolutely got the defense cold-shouldering all the time, but now it's like I'm a member of the club and every woman is a friend now. It feels really good to just have random women come up and and just strike up a chat about where I bought my hat or how cute my coat is etc etc. It's totally incomparable to when I was presenting as a man, casual male-male socialization is basically nonexistent, but female-female is just so anxiety-free. (tbh a lot of this is also probably because I'm not ugly, if I didn't have a pretty face and long hair and was fat it'd be much different.
Men are generally friendlier now, but they still almost never make any comments to me out in public unless I'm at a bar or something. And I'm definitely a lot more on-edge now than I was before, I do have a sense of reservation/fear around men that I never had before.
So yeah, bottom line, it absolutely is a real phenomenon and men have absolutely no idea about it.
didnt read
y(ou) wnbaw
You're supposedly not a man anymore so frick off out of male spaces. It was a thread for men to discuss men not for attention seeking degenerates.
>I've got good enough style/genetics to pass pretty often in public
>when I'm out in public and interact with women, all of them come off as incredibly aloof, cold, and mirthless
Not even remotely true unless you're a very ugly man. Some woman are more guarded than others, but all of them? simply lmao
>US centric
>White imperialism
Oh give me a break, of course a transgender can't actually understand us.
t. Paraguayan
42 reporting in.
iam like this AMA
Are suicidal thoughts haunting you daily or are you fine?
lost job 2 weeks ago. since then its daily again.
then you can tell a newfriend (very little interesting kino) which mads film this is
Men don't cry.
tell Cinemaphile there. they have a feels thread lol. go spam them and call them b***hes.
this was before he discovered booze
lmao what is that giant chunk of ice? is that supposed to be an ice cube?
Yes, you use them with whiskey because they melt slower and water down your drink less
My buddy has a mold to make the big round ice cube. It melts way slower so it doesn’t water down your alcohol, so you get a flavor closer to neat but it’s still nice and cool.
this movie's basic thesis is right. alcohol is the key to being good socially. it's going to probably kill me but i was going to kill myself anyway
Mads is so hot.
Cissy Strut
Tonight the night?
a lot but it's largely a matter of putting effort in
men starting in their late 20's start getting really flaky or avoidant of hanging out I've noticed and you just got to keep at it
part of it is being in relationships but you also have to know when to tell your partner to frick off and let you go hangout with other people
Reddit thread
I know exactly how I got like this, I did it to myself. Anyway, apparently a 1/3 of men have no close friends, and 40% of men will never have children, so quite a few.
i need to get back in touch with some of my friends, we've drifted apart over the past few months and i don't really hang out with a lot of people anymore
What I would like to see in society is some kind of resurgence of gentleman's clubs, only for working and middle class people. There's an unfortunate lack of ways for groups of men to socialize in a healthy way. Far too many men don't hang out with their friends unless they're drinking and there are also far too many men who don't really have any friends or any social circle whatsoever, be it because they're outcasts who never made friends to begin with or they drifted apart when they settled into family life and now they're divorced and lonely, with no real avenue or motivation to find new friends because they're not extroverted and socially skilled enough to do so on their own, and if they were well then they wouldn't be in that position to begin with.
It would be nice if there were associations where you could join to find people in similar situations or where you can just hang out and relax on terms that most men find comfortable, like a drop-in clubhouse where you could play some pool, cards, talk about politics, sports, have a book club or do whatever you want. It feels like organizations like this that focus on personal growth don't really exist unless you want to join a fricking cult or some organization that is either way too religious or political in nature.
This would be based, but the gays would invade and take over within months. We aren't allowed anything anymore
I've no idea how you'd weed out undesirables without making it invite only, which would be bad because then you're essentially just turning it into an exclusive club for people who already enjoy a big social network and high status. I wouldn't want a bunch of vitriolic blackpilled morons ruining the mood but I think there are a lot of men who would fall into the category of being lonely and lost in life but still have potential, even if their social skills would require some polish, but if the associations wanted to have a big focus on self-improvement it would be a good spot for those losers to find bros and mentors to support them on your journey.
Never seen it but pic related looks comfy
>Never seen it but pic related looks comfy
pretty kino show overall, its cast really well with hugh laurie and stephen fry in the main roles
based on the short stories and novels by P.G. Wodehouse written in the 30s so its lots of japes and very english stuff like that
the Drones club like in Jeeves and Wooster would be so kino
mucking about and being cheeky
A place like that would be very quickly colonized by some type of person who would aggressively enforce their codes of conduct and make others feel unwelcome. You also can't segregate based on gender, so there would be women in with all the bullshit that follows.
I think it would end up being the type of establishment that you visit once and it reminds you of why you stopped socializing in the first place.
This has happened to all male activities (poker, boxing, any sport) and is now ruined. The only way to truly do it is to make it a secret org and allow absolutely no women or coloreds etc.
Otherwise it'll be ruined.
he's right cuck
just make a membership system and say you're full when they try to join
>You also can't segregate based on gender,
lmfao stfu Linda.
theres literally buses for girls and female only gyms.
show your breasts.
Consider becoming a gamer.
you're a homosexual, dude
Too much of a dream, brother. Once it got too popular, there would be morons flocking in trying to devastate something good, women, trannies, homosexuals, attention prostitutes, etc., and it would be impossible to dispose of these fricks without getting some buzzword label like "incels club" or something.
I would love if something what you described would prosper, but our current world wouldn't allow it
>Once it got too popular, there would be morons flocking in trying to devastate something good, women, trannies, homosexuals, attention prostitutes, etc.
Sounds like what happened to Cinemaphile.
you want an unknown and unlicensed bar
You shouldn't have to drink to have a reason to socialize with other people
I've been pretty lucky with coworkers, I work with my best friend and while many guys at work are very Cinemaphile and sportsball oriented they occasionally like to talk about stuff I find interesting, and there's one guy who likes talking about politics, ethics, self help and stuff like that but our views don't align so we get to argue a lot in a very respectful way
NTA but what job do you do anon?
I'm struggling to find work myself, I'm 27 and still living with my parents, I need to go but obviously need something to even begin to be self sustainable. I worked at a indoor paintball parlor but the pay was shit, working with kids ain't for me and after a while I could feel my coworkers noticed I was "off" and started making fun of me, as has happened other times strangers spend enough time with me. I'm just socially stiff, i.e. try to keep interactions at a minimum because I'm really good at saying or doing stupid shit I really shouldn't have, but I think people interpret my prudery as a sense of superiority, and I mean it was like that a few years back before I realized I'm really not better than anyone, but even now where it ain't like that I think people still get that impression
If you’re capable of genuine self-reflection you are better than most people. Sorry, not sorry
I feel self-reflection fricks people more than it helps them. I'm so good at self reflection I figured out I'm actually a useless piece of shit who is nowhere near as good as he thought he was in anything and accomplished nothing in life. Someone who isn't so self aware is more likely to fake it 'till they make it without them even realizing, ergo people without self reflection are actually better equipped to deal with life, conscientiousness is a massive con for a person, like honesty and humility, those won't get you anywhere in life, being an amoral piece of shit on the other hand 100% will. Maybe it was different in some mythical past, but not now, now having those things puts you at a disadvantage, those things mean nothing today
I'm an industrial electrician at a turbine assembly plant, started out on the mechanical side about 9 years ago at a different company, made the jump to electrician (since it was my formal education and they didn't want to employ more mechanics) 3 years after that and then I jumped ship to my current company about another 3 years after that because they pay was a lot better. When I was 19 and out of school I was in a bit of a slump, just sent out half-assed job applications and got nothing. Thankfully I had a really good friend who put in a good work for me and his boss called me up and told me to come for an interview next Monday - same guy made me renew my gym membership and worked out with me when we were on the same shift, real fricking solid friend who I owe a lot to. A lot of jobs hire based on recommendations so there is no shame in asking friends and family for help, in this day and age I would almost say you're stupid if you don't do that unless you have a banger of a resume but then you wouldn't need anybody's help getting a job to begin with.
As for the social part I can't really offer much help. That is arguably the hardest thing for strangers on the internet to give you advice on because they have no idea where you're at in terms of social skills. I wasn't a complete frickup socially, I was just in a slump after school and my friend helped me get out of it and once I usually have no trouble talking to coworkers. Depending on the coworker I often don't enjoy it (I don't like making smalltalk and it doesn't come naturally to me so I have to use a lot of mental energy to keep a conversation going, which can be pretty draining). Like the other anon said you seem to be capable of self reflection at least so try to identify what you're doing wrong and remedy that in incremental steps.
>I'm an industrial electrician at a turbine assembly plant
Frick that's pretty cool, congrats anon.
I dropped out of uni a year ago, really hated it, was stressed all the time feeling like I had to achieve with my grades and felt completely mentally drained afterwards, like I had become more moronic instead of smarter. Even now it feels like I have yet to recuperate, doing mentally taxing things feels more difficult than it used to be, like I can almost feel things like reading or anything requiring an actual thought process hurting my brain.
I'm telling you all this because I obviously need to take some kind of course before I can do a more specialized job like yours (only way out of low-paying paintball parlor or waiter or similar jobs), but I'm completely brainfricked at the moment so it's gonna be a while before I do. Soon, soon
>I'm MtF trans
>MtF
I never understood this shit. Do you have a wiener and balls or do you have a vag? Or rather let me put it in a better way, with which of those were you born with?
>because you're arrogant or otherwise genuinely unlikeable
I used to be like that but I got my attitude fixed. Thank you and the other anons for the advice by the way I appreciate that.
You know I tried to socialize myself again after many years of being on my own, and I play on VRChat a bit. It's full of trannies and gays and furries and weebs but I'm so socially starved at this point that I don't care anymore, besides it doesn't mean I'll turn into one of those, I can still be me and tolerate them. I've only put in a few hours but it's actually the most social interaction I've had in a long time, so if anyone is looking for a place to hang out you can start from there. Sociality is like a muscle, you gotta keep it honed, and mine is woefully atrophied. Start from somewhere, anywhere anon
MtF. Male to female, it's not complicated. I was born with a male body and presented socially as a man, but suffered gender dysphoria. I'm now taking hormones to feminize my body, and am socially presenting totally as a female now. I haven't had surgery yet, but I do strongly desire it, I'm only worried about potential complications (and the cost).
Clear enough for you?
fwiw, I've never been clocked as trans in public, or if I have, nobody has ever said anything about it to me. My social interactions are all overwhelmingly positive nowadays.
That so? I suggest you don't cut your wiener and balls off at the very least unless you wanna 41% yourself, but eh, if you're already taking hormones you're already well on your way there.
>My social interactions are all overwhelmingly positive nowadays.
If you're really as happy as you say you are then why do you still wanna mutilate your own body? Is where you're at now not enough for you? Don't be stupid, you'll regret going that far
Transitioning has actually helped alleiviate a lot of the suicidal thoughts and self-hatred I've carried most of my life, tyvm. And the further I progress, the better I feel about myself.
> Is where you're at now not enough for you?
My dysphoria is just as much physical as it is social. I have never liked having a male body, and starting HRT is the only thing that has made me not feel disgusted when I look in the mirror (and I went through several phases of athleticisn when I was still repressing, both lifting and bulking and doing heavy cardio and going skinny, still always hated myself at the end of the day.) Sexually speaking, I also have just never liked having my penis touched at all, like yeah the physical pleasure response is there, but it just felt totally gross and wrong. When I'm having sex I specifically tell my partner not to touch there, and I so wish it was just gone. Also limits the clothes I can wear without looking like a weirdo pervert
I'll try to do my best to explain, it's very difficult if you haven't been through it yourself. It's like.... a constant feeling of alienation. A constant feeling that something isn't "right", that you're different from all the people around you in an intangible way, just this inescapable feeling that you're *wrong* and broken and different. For me, dysphoria specifically kicked in at puberty, but I didn't even know that being trans was a thing for quite a while, so I had no idea what to do with those feelings other than just feel like some different, misfit thing. It's nothing to do with social abilities or anything - I had friends, was part of social groups, not like an autist or weirdo or whatever. But all that time, it just all felt forced, like I was putting on an act rather than being my actual self, without knowing how to be myself. My whole outward personality just wasn't *me*. And just a growing and growing resentment with the way my body was changing, and my social presentation etc
Thank you for your thoughtful answer anon, I wish you all the best.
A troony who doesn't like having his penis touched has had more action than me. Now I want to 41% instead
>just felt totally gross and wrong. When I'm having sex I specifically tell my partner not to touch there, and I so wish it was just gone. Also limits the clothes I can wear without looking like a weirdo pervert
I see, but cutting your dick off will replace what is ultimately a nuisance to you with a giant gaping wound, no matter the dislike you may have for your willy cutting it off is not worth it. You know, anons throw it around mockingly but the YWNBAW meme really rings true here, I mean are you really justifying the reasoning behind cutting your dick off with "not having it fits better with certain clothes I wanna wear"? Really Black person? You're talking chopping your dick off and that's one of the reasons for it?
This whole post may seem like I'm making fun of you and to some extent I am but what I feel above all is concern: many young folks struggle finding their place in life, in the world, like them you seek ways to mitigate that, but this isn't it, hormones are manageable, but with surgery there is no going back, your feelings of inadequacy with your own gender will not subside, ever, you have to come to terms with this fact and accept it, because the alternative i.e. mutilating yourself is far, far worse, come off the troony circlejerks and snap back to reality, it's not like we're wells of wisdom but we know good enough to at least not do that to our own bodies, don't do it
Lastly I wanna add that I think the reason why you're sharing these details with us at all is that deep down, perhaps subconsciously, you want someone to talk you out of it, because you're smart enough to know deep down that you really shouldn't do this
>You're talking chopping your dick off and that's one of the reasons for it?
....yeah? Why wouldn't it be? I have quite a few reasons for wanting SRS, and that's one of them. I know you think I'm just being a crossdressing pervert LARPer or whatever, but no, believe it or not, I'm actually living my life fully as a woman, and clothing is one facet of that among many. I'm still doing just fine, and I've got plenty of clothes now that I love wearing and already make me feel so much better and more comfortable with myself than I ever felt as a man, and that makes me very happy. But, you seem to have this weird idea that you should stop doing things halfway through? Yes, my transition so far has already done huge, huge huge amounts of help for me mentally, but why wouldn't I continue to do things that will make me feel even better?
And I mean, like I said earlier, I get compliments and called nice things about my clothes and my hair and my nails etc etc basically every time I go out in public nail, and that's hugely validating.... exactly what the point of this thread is, anyway. Being able to socialize with other people. I'm taking the steps I ned to take to feel comfortable with, among other things, socializing with people.
Nah, I just have time to kill and was interested in some of the posts I saw in here.
Well, I tried. Have fun cutting your dick off anon
Sure, use the thread for lonely losers to prey on depressed people to indoctrinate into your cult.
have a nice day rapidly please.
We need solutions for male loneliness that involve less homosexualry and less delusional denial of masculinity and more positive platonic male bonding off the internet.
I might cause offence here but I'm really curious, what does gender dysphoria "feel" like? Can you articulate what it felt like to have a male body but feel yourself to be female? Is it like you have a feminine soul or something, or you just feel you should biologically be female when you look down at your body? I'm not a "YWNBAW" edgy Cinemaphile transphobe but it's such a hard condition for me to conceptualise
>I might cause offence here but I'm really curious, what does gender dysphoria "feel" like?
The person you're talking to is, like all "transsexuals", simply just a gay man who, like all gay men, wants to be fricked by a straight man, which will never, ever happen. They think changing their appearance to look as much like a biological female as possible will aid them in this, but it will not. This is the source of their misery in life and it's why troonyism and everything that goes along with it in the public sphere has exploded in the last 10 years.
Furthermore, there is very good evidence that obligate male homosexuality in humans is pathogenic in origin. This will never be investigated scientifically anytime in the near future due to a combination of funding issues and because coming out and saying homosexuals are literally diseased due to an early-life brain insult from a pathogen (much like narcolepsy) is a non-starter in academic circles.
*shrug*
I'm into a lot sexually, I'd basically call myself pansexual at this point. I'm into guys and girls both, masc and fem. Honestly, cishet men are kinda a turnoff at this point. Only real constant is that I absolutely don't want my penis involved in sex. In a perfect world where I could press a button and havw a perfect vegana I would, but I'm be satisfied just being smooth down there tbh.
At any rate, sex isn't a huge obsession for me, but I'm not asexual either. I like fricking just like most people do, and I want to do it with a body I'm comfortable with.
Glad you got something out of it. There's a lot of misconceptions about trans people floating out there.
People tend to be more attractive when they're not going around spreading hate and intentionally insulting people :^)
Masculine to Feminine.
And you're also an imbecile who misunderstands metaphysics -- typical.
don't do it. you are going to deeply regret it once age catches up with you.
>feminizing my body
you are leaving permanent damage on your body. stop while you can
>I obviously need to take some kind of course before I can do a more specialized job like yours
I learned frick all about my trade in school, I still barely know anything about being an electrician and I get by because my job is for the most part piss easy as long as you can strip a cable properly and read a cable table, we don't even bother with schematics unless you have to troubleshoot or verify something. I was very upfront about my lack of experience when they wanted me to swap from a mechanic to electrician and they just said nah don't worry about it man we'll train you. Unless you work with incredibly technical stuff like programming or a STEM field you can learn 95% of jobs if you're of average intelligence. It's usually just an issue of getting a foot in the door (the catch 22 of getting experience for a good resume) and being a nice person that people actually want to employ.
>You know I tried to socialize myself again after many years of being on my own, and I play on VRChat a bit.
It's good that you get some practice but don't fall into the trap of using online interactions as a substitute for real socialization. I wish I had more useful advice to give you but if I knew a surefire way for lonely men to make friends when they already don't have any then I would write a book and become a millionaire. This is unfortunately a huge problem in society and it's very hard to fix it. I will readily admit that I was depressed and I only made it because I had the good fortune of having normie friends that I could use a springboard to get a job, update my wardrobe, get invites to parties etc. Those things seem so daunting when you're deep in the pit. I'm going to bed now, hope things work out for you in the end anon. Doing it on your own is very hard so identify whatever people you have around you and ask for help.
>I'm going to bed now, hope things work out for you in the end anon
Thanks brah, I appreciate your input, have a good night
I am an electrician as well though no longer now. I regreted every second of this miserable and gay profession and the years of my life wasted on learning it. I am unemployed and on a course for a comfy desk job with my own cubicle. I hope it works out.
Post got too long and I just wanted to add something to the last part; if you're not an butthole (meaning people don't like you because you're socially awkward, not because you're arrogant or otherwise genuinely unlikeable) and you have a colleague (or someone who you at least spend a decent amount of time with) who is capable of being honest then you can just be very direct with them and ask them for advice, if you have any annoying habits, smell bad or whatever it is that you do that tick some people off.
I think high self reflection also correlates with high intelligence and thus a high tendency to worry and overthink things so instead of taking action they get stuck in a loop where they feel even worse because they know what their problems are and they feel like they are more equipped than other people to do deal with them but they can't.
>no place to go where it's just me and my mates or likeminded people who share an interest or several interests
>every group of people I interact with is from work and they are all either losers or painfully boring Netflix normies who have zero interest in hanging out after work and don't do anything after work anyway
>don't know how to find clubs to join where there are interesting people
>nobody is physically active or remotely intelligent.
>change jobs every year and it's just an endless cascade of dull moron normie coworkers talking about whatever Marvel slop they consumed last weekend
Living like this is like I've already died and gone to hell.
As long as it’s private property you can throw out whoever you want for whatever reason you want.
I think a bigger problem would be all the losers who would try to join it just to have somewhere to hang out because they’re poor or whatever and yeah it would become a problem if it got too popular and normies start trying to join in but by then you could just make it members only and leave it at that
I just want something that feels high school-ish, my social skills and charisma only work if I have a captive audience and if I'm around them on a daily basis
yeah that's work
This society and the people controling it want you and I to not have any avenues to express ourselves and want us to be ostracized until we give in to despair. End of. You should be more politically activated. Perhaps, that's a long list of redpills down the road, anon.
Political discussions would be allowed, even encouraged in an association like that, I just wouldn't want it to have an official stance or even unofficially encourage people to organize in a certain way because then the whole thing would inevitably transform into some political movement. I wouldn't want that even if it perfectly aligned with my views, if that was my goal then I'd just start a political party, not a social organization.
Declare the main room of the social club is a mens locker room. No b***hes allowed. Probably stuck with gays still though.
>It would be nice if there were associations where you could join to find people in similar situations or where you can just hang out and relax on terms that most men find comfortable, like a drop-in clubhouse where you could play some pool, cards, talk about politics, sports, have a book club or do whatever you want. It feels like organizations like this that focus on personal growth don't really exist unless you want to join a fricking cult
In Australia,i'd say Army Reserve. Mostly just a social club with some shooting, trade related skills and some fitness. If youre driven, you can learn alot from vets and even deploy.
The two largest natural predators of lonely young men with no purpose in life: trannies and the army.
you want a very miniature casino (no gambling, just hosting friendly card games), bar, smoke lounge. ive had this idea for a while but i have no idea how to run a business and for reasons other people have talked about ive never given it much thought aside from theorycrafting the layout and decor. it would be amazing though
A while back I searched for a gentlemen's club in my city and found there used to be one which had lasted over 100 years, but in 2015 started accepting women and a few years later closed (big surprise).
You're literally here my homie, what the frick did you think this place was? What is Cinemaphile if not a majority male socialization space? Go play with your bros in the TF2 weekend threads on Cinemaphile. Go post about books on Cinemaphile. Go shitpost with the lads on spee. You probably do all of that already, so what more are you looking for? You wanna hold hands irl or something?
>You wanna hold hands irl or something?
Talking to people on Cinemaphile (or online) is not a substitute for meeting people in real life and forming real friendships. This site has also progressively become worse over the years, it's like the new wave of users are completely fricking braindead and have no idea how to act other than a caricature of a Cinemaphile user. Fewer and fewer are fun to argue with or capable of discussing things without having a complete meltdown and spiraling into buzzwords and slurs.
>Talking to people on Cinemaphile (or online) is not a substitute for meeting people in real life and forming real friendships
Boomer cope.
I am 29 years old and I never even kissed a girl
Do you have a waifu at least?
Not really
Does that mean you're a homosexual? A waifu is just any woman you like, but it's usually the one you like the most. Really weird answer, my dude.
Certainly not a gay.
When I see an attractive woman I'd like to be intimate with her, but not enough to actively pursue her or to spend my free time thinking about her endlessly either
>But not YOUR children. Do you lack empathy or something?
I'm probably the empathetic person on Cinemaphile. If my children never exist, then they can't suffer. They'll never have to meet any of you. Do you care what your children will experience? I lived through life, and it wasn't good, so I don't want anyone to go through that. Reply after the hide. I hope everyone continues to write garbage that gets instantly hidden by this little button and can't be recovered. Please keep up the NPC bullshit.
Meant to reply to:
>I'm probably the empathetic person on Cinemaphile
More likely the most insufferable.
>When I see an attractive woman I'd like to be intimate with her, but not enough to actively pursue her or to spend my free time thinking about her endlessly either
That makes me wonder what you think about instead. Is it other men, because you're gay? What else is there to think about?
>Is it other men
Nope.
>What else is there to think about?
I like to fix my shitbox cars and make little shitbox car projects. There's always something to fix/improve.
Sounds extremely boring, but I'm glad you like it. I'm not sure why I call you boring, when what I do is even more boring. I come to a website full of people I don't like, and I attempt to get rid of all the trash, just to discover that it's all trash.
>I like to fix my shitbox cars and make little shitbox car projects. There's always something to fix/improve.
Feels like the same impulse that has animals pace in cages and chew on bars.
Have you tried digging a hole, yet?
>Feels like the same impulse that has animals pace in cages and chew on bars.
Could say the same about men spending endless time, money and effort to maybe get a crumb of pussy
No you couldnt. THAT is primal drive to procreate. What you described is distraction.
you could say it about striving for a boxing championship, or climbing a mountain, or making money.
you chose one of the few things that cant be equated with "my life is pointless so let me make up shit to do until I die".
>primal drive to procreate
Doesn't that just make someone an animal? Because that's what animals do: They procreate just so their kind can keep existing. I think deciding to not have children is humanity exclusive.
>Doesn't that just make someone an animal?
You are an animal.
>I think deciding to not have children is humanity exclusive.
Plenty of animals in stressful situations refuse to mate. You are just being a panda.
You are understimulated and cannot fulfill your primal drives, so you act out to whatever helps deal with that.
The tiger I saw in the zoo had the same drive to walk in a 50 foot loop for four hours.
>You are an animal.
Lol. Nice projecting, but humans are above animals. The fact that I can promise you that I'll never have kids, is proof that I'm different to animals. If I thought someone was an animal, I wouldn't reply to them, which I why I don't speak to most on this board. Reply after the hide.
>Lol. Nice projecting, but humans are above animals.
Human bodies are animals. Souls are above mind and body, but all life is a soul, even plants and bacterium.
>The fact that I can promise you that I'll never have kids, is proof that I'm different to animals.
It doesnt. Most bodies dont procreate.
There IS a uniqueness to human bodies, but it isnt choosing in some situations to not procreate. Rabbits do that a whole lot better than humans do.
we are animals moron. one of the lowest iq takes is that we are somehow above our animalistic urges, obviously you don't want to go to the extreme i.e. a Black person
I have a primal drive to work on my cars. Will continue doing that till the day I die
That sounds extremely simple, and I wonder why someone like you would even come to Cinemaphile. Would you really be working on cars if you had the option to do anything? When you've died and you're in the afterlife, will you still be working on cars?
>That sounds extremely simple, and I wonder why someone like you would even come to Cinemaphile
Why, do you think Cinemaphile shitposting is complicated or what? Go to Cinemaphile and you'll find plenty of simple tards like me
>Why, do you think Cinemaphile shitposting is complicated or what?
No, I wonder why you're on Cinemaphile - Television and Film, because anyone who watches TV and Film wants things that they don't have; It's the whole reason for the hobby.
You say you love cars. Wouldn't you want to drive somewhere? Maybe you want to drive somewhere with other people. These are things that I'm sure you want, but you also can't seem to admit it. I'm not asking what you have, and I'm asking what you'd like to have. If someone has no wants, then I'm not sure if they're a person.
Consider this: I build a robot who works in a car factory; That robot does nothing but work on cars. What's the difference between that robot, and the human I replaced? The human would have dreams of a better life, but the robot doesn't. I hope you realise what I'm saying with this; I'm trying to figure out whether I'm speaking to human or robot.
>Cinemaphile
>watching TV and film
Lmao, how new are you? Cinemaphile is the biggest off topic blue board, I mean just look at this entire thread.
>Wouldn't you want to drive somewhere?
I do drive yeah literally me I know
>Maybe you want to drive somewhere with other people
Who said I don't do that?
>I'm not asking what you have, and I'm asking what you'd like to have.
A bigger garage. And sure a pretty girl would be nice, but I don't want that that much to actively pursue it, while I'm definitely actively pursuing a bigger garage.
>Lmao, how new are you?
I've actually been here the longest.
>Who said I don't do that?
You did, because you didn't answer any of my questions. I asked what you'd like to be doing, and you never said. If you do drive places, and have fun doing that, then that's something you enjoy. I'm glad you can admit it. Getting to this point was like blood from a stone.
I wanted to know, because only after you learn what someone wants to do, can you differentiate them from other people. If you asked me what I wanted to do, I would like to be rich, and then I could do something with my friends. Even sitting at a bar costs money.
This is me right now. I work from home and all my friends have moved away or have kids now. I've got a great wife so I try not to dwell too much on not seeing my friends because I don't want to fall into the trap of feeling sorry for myself. But it'll creep in from time to time
Also, I'll be filtering every image in the thread, because nobody writes anything worth reading anyway. Please continue to post text or images for your fellow NPCs to read. I'm sure those conversations will be good.
I'm like this except I DO KNOW how I ended up this way. The writing was on the wall super early for me.
>The writing was on the wall super early for me.
It was for me as well. I sat by myself in high school, so my life was always going to end up this way. I had a neighbour when I was young who lived by himself and watched movies, and I became that guy.
For me it's the first half but not the second. As I watch my parents grow old and feeble I see how important it is for them to have each other and children to lean on when needed, so I feel like I really should be bothered about being alone but for some reason I'm not.
>I feel like I really should be bothered about being alone but for some reason I'm not.
Maybe because you're not selfish. If someone helps an old person, they're losing time and energy doing that. If you're old and looking after yourself, you're not bothering anyone. You should never feel bad about being alone.
Same. Being alone as an old man, regretting not having built a family and a circle of friends around me is one of my worst nightmares and yet I do nothing about it.
who cares? stop taking yourself so seriously, life is temporary
>We are meat skeletons on a floating rock duuude
“Death does not concern us, because as long as we exist, death is not here. And when it does come, we no longer exist” that’s why I care about what I do in life.
what a homosexual
I am Andrew Ryan, and I'm here to ask you a question. Is a man not entitled to go all the way up your ass, and even further? 'No!' says the man in media, 'It's misogynistic".' 'No!' says the man in the government, 'It's sexual assault.' 'No!' says the man on Cinemaphile, 'It's being a cuck.' I rejected those answers; instead, I chose something different. I chose the impossible. I chose... Rapeture
Underrated
lel
Literally me, but I like it.
Some people love being around others a lot, I get annoyed easily with people after a few interactions and need to remind myself that they're not bad people or whatever, I'm just not built for constant friendship/interactions with people.
Have you never met people you liked, and wanted to spend time with? I'm a loner, and even I've had people like that. What about imaginary friends? I hope everyone who's alone at least has those.
No
>
No
where's the thread?
Its not necessarily a bad thing. Scatty narcissistic women are the ones that dont feel comfortable alone doing nothing. Buddha did it and became enlightened.
But like if you go through life not doing anything then what was the point of you even being alive
Maybe we'll all get to do things when we've died; That's what I choose to believe. I was the guy grilling the car guy about his wants, because I personally believe life is about acquiring wants; obtaining them isn't necessary.
What would you like to do? Who would you like to do it with? We're alive to figure out the answers. My life is so meaningless that I have to believe this.
My social life sucks and I'm just 32. I don't want to imagine how lonely I'll be in my late 30s or 40s+
My mates will settle down and have their own families and I'll be by myself fun posting on the internet.
Frick
it will be 2 of us at least
atleast you've had friends
no i dont gay
>blackpilled virgin general
sage
>I don't know how I ended up like this
The worst part is I know why I ended up like this:
>struggle to open up to others
>force myself to open up to someone
>for a close bond with someone
>get used to them being part of my life
>push them away to pursue work
>they fade out of my life
>end up by myself
>end up missing them
>repeat
It's like there's a brick wall in my mind. I know I need to opening up and I need to make an effort to keep them in my life but in the end I push them away and isolate myself. It's fricking hellish.
I'm like this except I don't cry like some pussy.
/int/Black person
Lads when out tonight for the first time in 3 years for a works night out... Shitposting is much much better
I miss having friends. I had a tight knit group of friends that just kind of fizzled out because we all stopped doing drugs and because resentment started to build up. It was so much fun back then. I miss it tremendously. Now I'm just starting a family and focusing on my career. I really can't imagine having male friends anymore because that would require them to be at the same stage of life as me. It was easier when we were all in school because we were all on the same track in life. Now that we are stuck in adult world, everyone just goes on their own. Some of them still hang out and I would get jealous, but it never felt the same. I guess you can't have it all.
yeah. but also i started a new job just to not neet and it fricking sucks i feel tired all the time. it's saturday night in new york city and i'm staying home because i feel to tired to do shit except do laundry and smoke cigarettes. why do wageslaves get so much pride from working? it's gay and a waste of time unless your poor
>give me the bottle
I've thought long and hard about what "isolation" really means and it doesn't mean "loneliness," it means an inability to see oneself as a part of the network of people at large in the world, and that means seeing oneself the way one sees other people. Most lonely people lack that ability. They see themselves as somehow different from other people, usually through value judgments, like being inferior or superior to other people though never any one specific individual. This abstraction and generalization of crowds also plays a big role. Humanity is some sort of unknowable amorphous mass to them instead of entities who move through life and see the world just like they do. They feel they have to appeal to everyone except to individuals, which is impossible and the impossibility of it also drives them deeper into seclusion.
It's largely a mindset issue.
>"loneliness," it means an inability to see oneself as a part of the network of people at large in the world
This is really interesting phenomenology of loneliness, thanks anon. Please keep thinking and writing.
Literally just Hegel by the way
Jesus will take your burden
>reads the bible
>has some marijuana apparatus
Twice over you are a scumbag.
More than ever probably? I'm one of them.
Fridaysdrukchads are much more lively
It’s so tiresome I’m so lonely I haven’t had a irl in 13 years only the voice (God/Jesus ) in my head are my friend
>I’m losing my sanity
embrace the depths of suffering and pray
me right now at 37.
i wake up. i go to work. i go home. look at some boobs. jerk off. eat. maybe watch a movie. sleep. then repeat
i can't complain
like 65%
They're not incels they don't know what it feels like to be lost in total darkness
WW3 will start next year, we're going to be a war generation. This is the make or break situation of the future.
>WW3 will start next year
Yeah right after the Three Gorges Dam bursts and Iran nukes Israel and Trump ends democracy™... in two more weeks
My zoomer brother, we are fricked lad. A war? probably not but if we are try vietnam. No morale, no cohesion, devastation at loss. Our sole purpose is to keep our children off the internet. I was born 2002 so I'm a spring chicken you know but I wholeheartedly believe that my life would be far better if I had no way access to the internet until i was maybe 16ish. Don't pray for war pray for a better future
what war, who cares? the west is like 40% brown now. its done. its over.
true but you and me will still be dragged to fight and die.
oh no dead israelites waaa
sadly because of those dead israelites the world will eventually be nuked to shit
this, don't know what the hell he's talking about. this place is as good as it gets.
>a normalgay's highest value point is sticking your dick in a hole.
just...go play with your funko pops.
I dont know a single person
I dont have even one friend
My parents have long cut off ties with me so I am completely alone
sometimes I go so many days without human contact I feel sick
some online stuff like the kinoplex and mmos give me some reprieve from the loneliness
>have friends
>have family
>have a girlfriend
>have own place
>volunteering
>going to the gym
>in training and education
>still miserable
I'm not sure what happened to me that made me this way.
frick off and die, you LARPer.
neither have you, nobody who posts here has a normalgay social life.
yeah the internet probably I could have done without but I live in a miserable eastern euro country where the youth are miserable and demoralized and no one leads lifes, they just exist and work for no real reason or end. i don't know, i am so fricking out of it, i am aching for a war which will happen.
Ukraine was first blood, then Gaza, it will happen. i'm sorry to say.
No larping here but continue being an insufferable homosexual, I'm sure it'll get your dick wet at some point.
Getting a woman to fall in love with you isn't even hard. I've done it multiple times and I'm not some Chad. Just do things for them and lie and tell them about what your life together will be like. Words work magic on them. Then they get hooked on you.
yeah no if you're not chad they will not even spit in your direction. why make stuff up no one buys for a second?
Why do you allow other losers online influence you to keep being miserable and alone, instead of taking cues from people who are successful? That's something I never understood about people like you. Why copy moronic losers who suck, instead of copying successful dudes?
projecting nonsense that has nothing to do with what i replied to you with.
>taking cues from people who are successful
nta but im a fat manlet and ive had a few long term girlfriends
I just broke up with my girlfriend a month ago and it's the happiest I've been in years. She loved me and had a job but I just didn't find her sexually attractive anymore and didn't like hanging out with her. Once I kicked her out I started drinking less, eating healthier and going back to the gym.
Weirdly the situation I'm in but I can't pull the plug. I've always been the one dumped and I don't have it in me to do the dumping.
How's life in the bedroom? If it's dead and neither of you care then she's 100% cheating on you. I knew she was talking to other guys behind my back but I went a year and a half without being intimate with her because she was bringing in money and I was pocketing what I made since she paid the bills and also cooked and cleaned. It's not worth it unless you're benefiting somehow. I finally couldn't stand it and kicked her out at the beginning of the month when I was really drunk.
Damn. Mads is literally me
I'm 25 years old and a virgin.
i don't even know what i want. a friend would be nice.
Join any community, physically or digitally, and continuously show up. After a couple days people will recognize you and befriend you if you don't come off to weird or aggressive. You've had friends before right? It's not hard to meet new people.
>don't come off to weird or aggressive
lol i failed that test completely a few years ago in college. i think i'd do better now though.
Why don't you start with online communities first? Either Discord or some other live chat site. I made good friends years ago when I streamed card games and got to meet them like a year later in person.
How weird could you possibly be? I'm sure you don't scare people away as badly as you think.
>if you don't come off to weird
What a life! Oh well time for another round
Pathetic
Men do what they need, if you are a little b***h who sits at home and does nothing you deserve it
i can't drink for 12 hours anymore. i'm an amateur now
If you aren't like that before a relationship, you're sure as shit going to end up like that when you're in one.
This is the purpose of something like church or some other community like gun clubs or a martial arts gym. More than having an activity to do you will meet people who become your social circle. Otherwise you end up like every other dropout & hang out at the bar drinking your problems away
I'm a woman.
please please please please please
Why the frick was there no thread yesterday?
That was the day I was druking
Being an incel is better than being in a relationship where you don't find your gf attractive anymore.
just saw the Sand. pretty decent.
Sis on my brethren.
I just fell asleep in my chair for like 15 minutes, time for some caffeine.
hate that groggy feeling after a nap
>month long break from the sauce
Just 4 more days then I'm back on the horse.
ANOTHER ROUND
The way forward is to stop giving a frick about the social backlash for doing your own thing.
If you want to start a straight male only club, then do it. But if you're clever about it then it won't be an issue.
Worried about women or gays whinging about not being able to join? Make a policy that you have to be badly dressed
Stay up to watch the rumble. It's 5:30am. I hate wrestling so much
im b***hmade
im a huge b***h