if you don't hit something by 17 at the absolute latest consider suicide cause even if you do get laid later you will never have the wholesome teen experience that will inform you of all relationships after that
>i'm sure you learned some important lessons
Maybe "women are insane" but everybody figures that out eventually. I care far more deeply about my current gf, honestly I was never really "in love" with my first gf. She was cute and everything but we just didn't really have anything in common (and she was kind of dumb and bipolar as I would later discover).
>I was never really "in love"
how do people normally fall "in love", I do not think I have ever falling in love with a woman, feeling lust and sexual desire for one, sure, but never love
Well, it seems many people are referring to high running pubescent emotions when they say "love" , which run hand in hand with lust/desire and are often conflated as each other. I think "true" mature love is a combination of all of these things, when you find yourself with someone who has similar goals/interests, is compatible both socially and privately, and mutual attraction. "Love" in my opinion just kind of happens as a result of these factors. I don't think every human is predisposed to having those feelings, or you just haven't met the right person yet. I felt the teenage "omg the world is gonna end if I don't see this person" oneitis with my high school crush but not my actual highschool girlfriend. It never worked out with the crush, had a few casual relationships and a couple long-term but didn't feel anything truly deep with them. Had a couple stretches of being lonely and single in there too. It was only by sheer coincidence that I met my current gf, who I've been with for several years now. There was an initial spark which grew into genuine "love" over the course of about 6months-1 year.
Nah thats bullshit some people are late bloomers 17 is still a kid. If youre 22-24 and a virgin though then youre probably doomed to never have normal relationships with women unless youre religious
if you dont experiment with love when your a teenager you are going to be incredibly clingy and annoying as an adult, especially for your first real relationship
>if you dont experiment with love when your a teenager you are going to be incredibly clingy and annoying as an adult
I had teenage love and I still ended up like this as an adult what does that say about me
if i had to guess you have a deep fear of being alone or some girl burned you badly in the past and you can't get over it. but you should anon i believe in you
>you will never have the wholesome teen experience that will inform you of all relationships after that
You mean to say that all seventeen year olds understand what having a relationship is like and that the person they have those feelings with they're going to marry and be with for the rest of their lives, right? Oh wait...
And it's dwindling. His image helps my argument. Teenagers don't know what a healthy relationship is anymore. Being in that 'touchy feely' kind of relationship is not a relationship. Don't get me wrong, a relationship requires vulnerability and intimacy, but what teenagers engage in and think is truth or what's 'right' is hardly any of those things. If that were the case, we'd give fourteen or fifteen year olds adult status, which we clearly don't.
Also, even many adult people still act juvenile, so age isn't really an indicator of maturity.
Teens can't frick for shit. I don't even remember my first time, and I'm just a 33 years old zoomer with receding hairline and zesty disposition but hetero (so mostly unfrickable).
>you will never have the wholesome teen experience
t. people who never had sex in their teens
holy frick, stop thinking movies are fricking real. Whatever idea you have of teenage romance, it's not like your fricking bittersweet, coming of age romcom or whatever the frick you're watching.
We're in the midst of second sexual revolution with hookup apps, onlyfans, and easy access to endless sources of pornopgraphic content. What you see is the result of an even more liberalized sexual marketplace
Early starters in sex may decrease in the number of people they sleep with but not so much that it'll translate to zero partners since age 18. It's very clear that the sharp increase comes from more adult virgins.
all stuff like tiktok is doing is showing you stuff that was already there. i don't know why you choose to stuff all this shit into your eyeballs hour after hour
That's actually fricked. Half the reason to pay for college is college parties for easy vegana, at least when I was in college. Learn a life skill, play some sports, meet your future wife. There was a point to all this.
the only downside is that if you had engaged in a relation in your young age, you could've met a bit saner type of women than the absolute trash heap of today
also 43 >had a lady but she left because I was too soft like Lloyd Dobler >had a good job waiting but grandpa dies so you have to go be a caretaker for grandma
that's pretty much it. no woman wants to deal with another live-in woman
not dying alone is a big deal. if you're never going to be somebody's special person then that's kind of depressing to think about for most people. might as well be a walking corpse. why show up to work every day if you're just some piece of shit nobody will ever care for?
>little to no female attention during childhood >little to no female attention during adolescence >little to no female attention entering adulthood
I'll be 40 next year, the last time I was touched by a woman I wasn't related to was about 4 years ago, it was a hug from a co-worker.
I like these threads.
Here's how, Starting age 18: >blew chances in high school, bad self esteem/confidence, partly bc of rejections >bad drugs time in college, dropped out (20) >went back to college, unexpected family death, dropped out again(22) >restarted college, focused on that(23) >finished college, felt too weird and old for girls there(26) >started working, still shitty social skills, few women in work environment >age 29/30, towards end of pandemic started making "dating" and "social skills" a job and serious goal >>>Had sex first time at age 30, okay but unremarkable experience, still no "real" gf > better now but not much, still working on it
Virgins romanticize the idea of fricking but the reality of the situation is that it's an exceedingly trivial matter and wasting your life pursuing women is the mark of an insecure man.
They're all the same.
Sexhaver here. Sex is literally one of the most enjoyable and gratifying things you can experience, and is one of the top human joys.
These things are all true. With the way people are, depending on compatibility you'll have good,bad and forgettable sex.
Protips if you are around 25 and under >just don't ignore your social skills, make friends and reach out to them periodically, male and female >you are pretty much always good enough to date and have a relationship, don't put it off for no good reason >don't fricking tell anybody you've got no experience unless you really need to, it puts undue pressure on them >most people are decently nice, this socializing shit isn't that horrible, most people are just fricking moronic > exercise more, and stop jerking off so much, this keeps your urge to have sex higher
I was lucky and I had friends and opportunities to meet new people until I met my first girlfriend, and then I got relatively reclusive after that. The party abruptly ended.
Virgins just have bad luck. Misfortune is a real thing. Not an excuse to be a sad sack of shit, but if I didn't have friends at a younger age, someone with my personality traits could easily never have sex their entire lives.
This is obvious but most nerdy Virgins have nerdy hobbies or habits that don't create opportunities to meet people. School is the obvious place and it's over fast for most
Virgins romanticize the idea of fricking but the reality of the situation is that it's an exceedingly trivial matter and wasting your life pursuing women is the mark of an insecure man.
>Man what's up with you starving guys never shutting about food, it's not that great! >You'll get a burger and you'll get bored halfway through, believe you me!
keeeeeek
Well I'll treat you like a whiny little virginal homosexual if thats what you want. Would you get off on me saying you have a tiny little baby dick too?
Agreed. I have done all kinds of drugs and sex is still one of the best things for me. Not just the cooming part, but everything in combination with a girl who is down to pleasure you and herself.
It is one of the greatest experiences in existence. I feel like those who say otherwise must have never had good sex before. I don't see how you could and then claim it's nothing. Maybe they're just trying to make virgins feel better, but that's not helping them either. Virgins need to know they're missing out on a huge part of the human experience and work harder to get it.
Our monkeybrains dump dopamine during sex for a reason. We're biologically hardwired to seek it out and crave it. What experiences in your life have brought you intense joy and happiness?
>What experiences in your life have brought you intense joy and happiness?
Having something that brings me meaning beyond the immediate existence of pleasure, which is going to fade away and I will have to chase afterwards.
TL;DR: chasing pleasure is indeed beastlike behavior. Be a human, you have the potential to be more than a glorified monkey.
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>Having something that brings me meaning beyond the immediate existence of pleasure,
Like what then? Give me some examples from your life
>which is going to fade away and I will have to chase afterwards.
My past conquests are one of the things that I most frequently reminisce about, and the long term happiness they brought me isn't something I could expect you to understand.
5 months ago
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The answer to both of your questions I can give in a single answer. You live in the past with your memories and reminiscing about the past, and you chase pleasures in the now. You should flip it around. You should delay gratification in the now, so that you can build something in the future. That's what I do, and enjoy. I don't care about my past. There's no point in wasting time in the *now*, existing in the past. Plus, the thing that I consider of a 'higher' virtue than just chasing pleasure, is that I hold my self-expression to a high standard. Meaning, I value authenticity over 'muh dick'. Arguably, having 'higher' goals are more virtuous than immediate 'in the now pleasures'.
5 months ago
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You still haven't told me the activities or hobbies you engage in that bring you long lasting joy and happiness. You just keep finger wagging about how I enjoy sex. Sour grapes methinks
5 months ago
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There you go. You're only thinking in 'real things', which is why you can't think abstractly, which is why sex is the highest of pleasures to you.
Just to play along here's a list of 'higher' things that I enjoy: >Talking with someone to figure out what bothers them and to solve their emotional knots. I.e. what a therapist does. >Writing a novel/in my diary >Improvise on the piano >Self-development. Or the first thing but on myself. >Critique something on its logical foundations (pick something apart in why it doesn't make sense)
There's probably more.
5 months ago
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Christ what a dullard
5 months ago
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am i being trolled here or what
>writing in your diary is better than having sex
zoomers truly are beyond parody
5 months ago
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>I GOTTA COOOM GOTTTA COOOOOOOM! COOOOOOOOM!! I NEEED A HOLEEEE TO COOOOOOOM!!
5 months ago
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yeah im sure that pen and paper are gonna keep you happy in the long run there anne frank
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This homie is writing in a diary and convincing himself it's better than sex lmao
Raw dogging a pussy and busting inside while a sweaty woman grinds back and forth with her breasts flopping in your face is what I imagine it feels like to mainline heroin
I've tried MDMA and it's probably my favorite intoxicant, but it's good it makes you moronic otherwise I would be tempted to do it all the time. That being said I would rather cum in a woman than roll 99% of the time.
Then you've never tried *good* MDMA(which is understandable, most of the shit available is so heavily cut it's complete crap, and you have about a 25% chance of just being sold crushed up ritalin and caffeine pills). I knew a chem student in uni who made the stuff himself from scratch, gave me a couple of bumps of his once at a party and I literally didn't notice a girl sucked me off. I know it happened because there's video to back up my recollection, but in the moment it was just completely irrelevant background noise to the bliss. The experience actually made me stop taking drugs because I realised if I had the option to take that on a regular basis I'd end up an actual deadbeat junkie.
If the wizards ITT are struggling to be socially functional enough to nail random slags, who I have witnessed getting successfully picked up by men who look like the bastard lovechild of Warwick Davis and a potato with a skin condition, what on earth makes you think we have any chance of being in a loving relationship?
The options for us are lucking into a fumble with one of the aforementioned slags or fricking a hooker, and there are drugs available that are categorically superior to either of those experiences.
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good point, but i just wanted to say that no drug on earth will compare to the serotonin release of having sex with someone you love
Anon, sex with a woman is the penultimate experience of life which in turns leads to procreation, the entire POINT of life. Civilization was created to support familial structures, not NEETS sitting at home collecting social welfare. If women are all the same, why can't you master them, Mr Fox?
The purpose of sex is reproduction
The purpose of food is nourishment
Just because people have sex and then pull out, just because people eat cake and then vomit it out doesn't mean those acts are meant for pleasure and whatever consequences don't matter and can be avoided. It means humans/humanity is trying to cheat the system and are only cheating themselves
Ask normal people
They will say sex is baby making and you eat food so you're not hungry.
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Most people my age I know have sex for fun. Eating food so that you're not hungry is not the same as nourishment, which is what you originally said. If everyone ate for nourishment then people's diets would be impeccable. But most people eat for satiation and to avoid the negative feeling of hunger, hence sloppa diets and obesity in the west and malnourishment from eating a 90% rice diet in the 3rd world.
Nothing is made for pleasure, pleasure is given for motivation, pleasure is never the goal, it's just a orientation mechanism, just like the senses, the goal is never to just "see", seeing helps a real goal rather.
>If women are all the same, why can't you master them
nta, but just because something is known, doesn't make it easy. Just because all women supposedly are 'the same', doesn't mean that 'thing' women are can't be difficult as hell.
True but you're ignoring how other men see men that are virgins and question that their masculinity because of it (at least in the West, can't speak for anywhere else)
29 and virgin speaking. I think some people like myself just has some error in my brain program that makes me unable to get into mating. In other words, I'm an legit autist. Also, porn. Maybe if porn didn't exist at least to the extent that it does these days with internet and all I would've been more proactive about getting laid but since it's easier to just open the computer and fap to futas then why bother with real women.
I was lucky and I had friends and opportunities to meet new people until I met my first girlfriend, and then I got relatively reclusive after that. The party abruptly ended.
Virgins just have bad luck. Misfortune is a real thing. Not an excuse to be a sad sack of shit, but if I didn't have friends at a younger age, someone with my personality traits could easily never have sex their entire lives.
Easy >Bullied in school+by my sister => no self confidence with girls >Dont want: prostitute, fatty, druggy or mental ill woman >I wont ever simp (went on 3 dates, never gave a compliment, always split bills) >am only 7~8 (even a 200kg landwhale has a harem of 9,5~10 thanks to tinder and co) >I dont approach woman >Porn addiction ruined my brain >Somewhat autistic >e-girl chad (once a girl is older than 20 her body starts to get icky, 14-16 are best, tight, thin amd firm) >Not much of a friends guy, I have 3 people I meet since the last 5 years, I am horrible at meeting new people (I am somehow always looking stoned/angry/sad, cant change it its just my face) >Incredible strong emotions (when sad I look like a beaten lamn, when angry I start to shout and look like a mass murderer with a red head and start to shake) and harsh language (you need lo shoot all welfare recipients, burn all murderes, islam is the biggest disaster to ever happen to the world) so new people think of me as a psycho the moment smth tragic happens (grandpa dies, a Black person stole my wallet) (am really empathethic though, i cried when my best friends dad died cause of what he had 2 go through) >Blind when woman look at me >Scared of intimacy/opening up, bottle up my feelings >I want a 0 work woman (I am a really simple man, I need a simple wife (I dont want to do smth exceptional every weekend, I train 5 times a week and go out on the weekends, thats enough 4 me, I dont need spontaneous holidays in italy or a concert)
Had gf at 16. Had a sex and all that, nearly married that year. Broke up at 17 because I fled from the marriage idea. She was 10/10 redhead. One thing I regret is not chasing after a girl who was trying too hard to look cool and hanged with "cool" girls. Am now enamored by the similarly looking one at the age of 33. Had sex before jerking off. jerk offd at around 29 or 30 or something. Anyone saying "if you did not have sex by X" has daddy looming over them and are trying to impress daddy. It is simple as that. Men with self-esteem find their dream and chase it. And it is rarely having a physical act with a woman, because you must have a shallow personality for that to be your dream, and biology-driven non-human cannot be considered men
Yes. If you are chill then this works (worked for me at age 24).
But if you're nervous, awkward, and scared to touch her, then she'll know you have no experience regardless of what you say (also happened to me a couple of times before 24).
Being sexually experienced is not something you can easily fake though. The girl I lost my virginity to sensed my lack of confidence and asked if it was my first time
Sure, but that's not the issue.
The moment you lose your virginity you've made it, from that point on it's just a matter of lying your way into having enough experience to not need to lie anymore.
>You can compose yourself to stand in front of a woman and lie, can't you?
I can barely compose myself to order a pizza. Plus, women can tell you're a virgin and even if they can't, my autistic demeanor would make it very obvious.
Just give me my sex robot already.
The trick is even getting to the point that you would have to lie about this at all. Most people would never be put into a situation where a girl is interested in them in the first place. Other than that, I agree. I lied through my fricking teeth and told her it had been a few years since I last got laid. Thanks to the quarantine, that was a very believable lie.
>31 khv >libido has sunk to all time due to fin >interest in women is gone
Okay I guess? I was kind of desperate for a while, but I feel so neutral about it nowadays. Maybe it's copiu, dunno. But I'm content just taking care of myself mentally and financially, doing stuff I enjoy. Guess sex ain't it, whatever.
It's not even me being ugly or awkward. I just never get passed the small talk. How can I keep talking to you if you refuse to go into detaills, yet you keep hitting me to have this pointless 2 min talk. Women do it all the time to me.
lay off the fin, it's a meme and you are only delaying the inevitable. if she was vain enough to care about balding to pass on you, you can be sure she'll pass once she knows your morning routine and the facade unravels. accept your faults, balding included and it will translate into the person you're trying to be with.
Unironically this. Feeling sorry for yourself just makes it worse, so the cheat code is stop caring and focus on other things in life. Some people have and some don't. That's nature and that's fine.
Same level, fellow wizard. Losing all hope is liberating, like a thing that doesnt affect you in any way.
Unironically this. Feeling sorry for yourself just makes it worse, so the cheat code is stop caring and focus on other things in life. Some people have and some don't. That's nature and that's fine.
That's terrible bros. Everyone should experience sex and romance. Don't give up, at least fool around and have some fun first.
I'm pushing 40 and I'm a virgin. Honestly I don't know. I think it's a mix of being introverted, slightly autistic, disagreeable, not funny, not charming, not being outgoing and being kind of a shut in. I'm not bad looking, I think I just have a really shit personality.
It's the fate of all blue boards to eventually fill with social shaming and chiding from them, and the mods identify more with women so we can look forward to this being perpetuated until the site requires screen names and passwords.
This entire site is just kissless virgins and failed normalgays.
No one who scrolls through extreme close up pics of Nikocado Avocados brown coinslot butthole to then solve two captchas to then finally make a post replying to another cartoon frog posting anonymous person is normal.
debatable. Cinemaphile has been mainstream for what? well over a decade at this point? i think we've had a normalc**t problem for longer than we didn't at this point. regular people come here for a laugh, like some autist zoo, or a reminder of when they made fun of the less fortunate awkward kids in school. its all a joke to them. just a bunch of losers they can punch down at because it makes them feel better about their own lives. society has told people they're all but justified in demonizing and ridiculing men who are frickups. we're the safe target to unload all their scorn on. its all a joke to them.
I'm not saying they are perfect beings, but that pretty much only IRREGULAR people come to this site. Not to mention that Cinemaphile activity on almost all boards is just going down, while every other social media is only going up
>A regular person
You mean a regular person that spent 10 hours a day watching tik tok, twitter, only fans and other "normie sites"? THAT normal regular person?
>failed normalgays
This is me. I basically walk a fine line between being the self hating anons here and a normie. I’ve had all the life experiences of teenage love with dating and sex and shit but once my engagement failed my life took a nosedive. Work a deadend job to help take care of my parents and no other prospects. Now I shitpost on a Mongolian basket weaving forum lamenting the life I should have had. Sometimes I envy the anons who never experience this stuff. It’s a different kind of hell.
We all go through phases. I can relate to you some and it t helps for me to find the humor in basically everything.
I think "failed normie" pretty much means "normie". Not being where you want to be does not mean you are a failure as most people experience a lot of failure in their lives.
A lot of the people here are just regular people who think this is a place to misbehave.
>It’s the same people that would frick a friend over for a brief moment of gratification. They’re basically women with wieners.
Can confirm. I have a 'friend' (quotation marks because we're apparently close because of circumstance, not really a shared relationship) who's like this. It's clear from his demeanor that he gets a lot of pussy if you didn't know him, and from talking with him he *does* get a lot of pussy. Thing is, you can't make a proper agreement with the guy. He only thinks about himself.
>Cinemaphile was never an incel website until you mongoloids showed up after 2016
twngf is 14 years old anon. /LULZ/ was deleted for being "guys crying about women" even earlier than that
>yeah and it was full of trap porn
It still is >and people trying to hook up which is 100 percent preferable to this clown show of blackpilled lunatics
Those people got moved to /soc/ I'm not really sure what you insist is missing
You want to pretend it's because of newbies when it's that the same people who were ronery a decade ago are even more miserable now
>be a 30 year old perma virgin >make a dating account >write that i'm tired of fricking young women under 25 >i want to try an experienced mature woman >mfw all these milfs contact me right away
Some people are awkward goobers. Some people are ugly. It’s legit not even their fault and they’re mocked for it. I honestly believe we create our own monsters.
I could’ve easily have fricked several girls already but I live in a small apartment with my mom, don’t have a car, don’t have a job, so no money for motels either.
I made out with a handful of girls during college, but I never actually got laid. I have no friends now and I refuse to use dating apps so I'll probably never have se
i'm a 31 year old virgin. it's because i've been a recluse neet since highschool. i'm learning to code and want to get a job within the next year or two.
i've literally never even kissed a woman so i don't know how to kiss. but a lack of confidence is cringe so i'm supposed to confidently start sucking on her fricking lip while she looks at me like "wtf are you doing?" shit's going to suck.
Lost my virginity to a hooker when I was 21.
Fricked another hooker at 22, and a third one at 23.
I'm now 25 and I haven't had sexual contact or a relationship with a woman since. But I can feel that I'm getting closer to giving up for real (and not just bitterly telling myself that because of sour grapes), which is good.
I lost mine at 20, but it wasnt very good. I had sex with 2 other women later on in my 20s. Im now 30 and havent had sex in a long time. Its probably not gonna happen anytime soon unless i hit up an escort. Like i talked to 6 different women last year and all they did was play mindgames with me.This shit is beyond ridiculous.
>people don't like me >don't like people enough to "fix" myself for their benefit >don't see why I should pay a prostitute when I can just have a wank
It's not that hard to grasp, if it doesn't happen naturally at the "correct" time and you don't push hard for it to happen soon after that point, you eventually just stop giving a shit. I still don't tell anyone because people are vapid judgemental arseholes and I already want to murder most within five minutes of starting to talk to them, so a constant barrage of hurr durr "jokes" about it would probably land me in jail, but yeah eventually it just stops having any innate meaning.
unless you are elephant man tier ugly you have to turn down sex. I am a 33 year old virgin and I have turned down sex these times
1. Girl offered to pay me to frick her, I said no because I'm not a prostitute.
2. Guy asked me to frick his girlfriend when we learned I was born at almost the exact same moment as her for magickal reasons. I refused to involve myself in witchcraft and cuckoldry
3. 2 different girls i met on Cinemaphile wanted me to take their virginity, one was underage so I said no, other was neurotic and israeli so i said no.
Plus plenty of other times that were less direct than this, opportunities for romance that I either rejected or was too oblivious to detect at the time. All of that said, being a virgin is one of the least homosexualy ways to deal with sex as long as you're not falling into porn addiction. Having seen the shit sex-havers do for a whiff of pussy I would much, much rather be a virgin instead of settling and dealing with woman issues for anything less than an incredible woman.
>make fun of some virgin on Cinemaphile >he calls me a roastie
You guys don't actually think everyone that makes fun of you for being a virgin is a woman, right?
What about my post makes me a woman? It clearly strikes a nerve but it's just banter. It's like when people post Latinx in obvious ESL threads, it's easy (You)'s
I am used to use random insults since many words have lost their meaning
>i thought it was gonna solve my problems
What makes people believe this
Is not like you are going to wake up the next day stronger or smarter or your dick will be bigger
It's something off about them, I see women the same age with no children in the same light. Like, what went wrong in their upbringing that they ended up like this?
>what went wrong in their upbringing that they ended up like this
Funny enough I had a completely normal standard upbringing with two loving parents, never bullied and no trauma to speak of. And I have siblings and they are both normal people in relationships/marriages.
Yet here I am, almost 30 and never even kissed, let alone had sex.
It just never happened, or to be more precise I never tried to make it happen
Similar boat. Good family relationships, no bullying, etc. I had a lot of male friends in school but only spoke to a girl here or there. Never tried to make any move so when school ended I got a job in a solitary environment and have been solo ever since. Still living with my parents even though we're very well off financially. I just don't see a point in moving out to my own place when I have no reason to. It's not like I'm magically going to find a gf if I do. It's just a waste of money and I'd have to do a ton more chores myself.
The irony is that women who don't have children are actually doing what they "should" be doing if one takes all the global warming stuff seriously (I am not taking a position in this post, just drawing one conclusion). No politician or leader openly speaks seriously about getting the population back down below pre-industrial levels, which is what you would actually have to do if everyone keeps insisting on maintaining something like a first-world standard of living for large numbers of people while at the same time reducing all that stuff they claim to want to reduce.
Personally, my ideal relationship would be totally devoid of precisely the three things that all middle-aged women want: no marriage, no house (which is to say, no debt), no children. Ever. Just two people who while away the time peacefully with each other until death takes them.
Bro, i had about three women in the past that i barely even knew and they were talking about having kids right off the bat. Major red flag right there.
If you make it to 25 as a virgin youve missed more experience than you can make up for, even if you do manage to lose your virginity that woman will never respond to your calls or texts again because you couldnt make her cum
>There is such a thing as getting to know each other and sex is no exception.
Women don't have patience for men who aren't good at sex. They have 500 other guys they could be fricking.
Every time I get close with a girl, something happens, an accident, a misunderstanding, a job change, or whatever, which causes the girl to either leave my life forever, start dating someone else, or just NOPE the frick out, before we actually get anywhere. It's happened many, many times, by age 37, I've given up even trying to date anyone. It's just not my destiny.
It's weird how life plays out, I was a playboy in highschool but the opportunity never presented itself and I fell into depression senior year and that was it for my love life I never had a relationship since then and I'm 30 now. Can't say I'm even sad about no sucky fricky or having a b***h living with me, but I do see young dads with their kids and that does make me feel remorseful, I want those people's lives not the bachelors fricking random chicks every week.
>How the frick do you remain a virgin past age 20?
My 22yo female cousin is still a kissless virgin despite being very beautiful(she looks like prebogged Anya Taylor). How can I get to marry her? She's very religious as expected as well
>Bet she lies.
I know her very well, she was from an all girls schools so she had no prior experience with men prior to college and she barely interacts with her classmates besides college stuff, and since she's studying mechanical engineer, the men are boring as well.
There are 2 things you should never do:
Never stick it in crazy
and stay away from incest
She's just too much of a good woman, and we've become very closed, if she actually gives me the chance I think I'll date her no matter what
I'm 33 but I got as far as a bedroom a couple of years ago and couldn't get it up. I made an excuse and left. I think I either watch too much trap porn or I'm completely fricked. I could probably get as far as that again but no point.
That'll happen when you're an adult virgin. You are nervous as frick and spent 15 years watching people have sex in porn, not knowing what to actually expect. If you weren't comfortable enough for intimacy then it was simply rushed, you'd need a very patient woman that really wants you to get through this hurdle. Or try not jerking off for a month while taking zinc and citrulline malate - guaranteed boner and instacoom as soon as she touches your dick (COUNTS as virginity loss).
I became a wizard so I started reading romance novels as a proxy. I feel all warm and fuzzy when I see two characters I like finally get together. Sometimes I look up the endings to make sure nothing upsetting happens. I've dropped some books because I found out they had a tragic ending where the leads didn't get together or one on them died
>sexologist
Opinion disgarded. Imagine being this obsessed with sex that you make it your profession. Probably got rammed up the ass in the 70's while doing acid and been chasing that high ever since. >not having someone to cuddle, to tell you how beautiful you are and being in close proximity to for an entire year is no life worth living
Is this woman BPD or something?
I have a hard time taking this field of study seriously for a number of reasons, one of the major ones is that anyone partaking in these studies are usually sexually active beyond the norm and heavily skew any numbers. Know what people who dont have sex dont do? Participate in studies about sex.
3 more years. I've got a decent normie job, and my own place.
But honestly at this point,what woman is going to bother with some impossibly akward guy in his mid 30s even if I somehow manage to lure her home drunk from a bar or something I genuinely don't know what to do with her...
These same thread pops up on this board 3-5 times a month and every single time, you homosexuals always bump it to the top of the catalog with half of the replies being people trauma dumping and treating it like their own personal therapist.
I'm 27 and I am a virgin because I have asperger's, I couldn't go to school and I don't go out and meet women and also I hate myself so if I ever do get female attention I tell myself that they are just being friendly and If a woman made an advance on me even if I liked her I would reject her because I don't feel good enough because as I said, I hate myself
Im 40 not religious straight white male and virgin.
I make love to the woman who i 100% commit to instead frick with random bawds.
Had the chance to frick with different woman but due to different circumstances i didnt went for it.
Im 24 and Ive had sex with over 50 women but I larp as a mid 30s virgin on Cinemaphile because its funny
if you don't hit something by 17 at the absolute latest consider suicide cause even if you do get laid later you will never have the wholesome teen experience that will inform you of all relationships after that
My first gf at 16 was legit bipolar and the relationship made senior year a nightmare.
yes but i'm sure you learned some important lessons and no love will ever be as intense after that. for me at least thats how it is
>i'm sure you learned some important lessons
Maybe "women are insane" but everybody figures that out eventually. I care far more deeply about my current gf, honestly I was never really "in love" with my first gf. She was cute and everything but we just didn't really have anything in common (and she was kind of dumb and bipolar as I would later discover).
>I was never really "in love"
how do people normally fall "in love", I do not think I have ever falling in love with a woman, feeling lust and sexual desire for one, sure, but never love
Well, it seems many people are referring to high running pubescent emotions when they say "love" , which run hand in hand with lust/desire and are often conflated as each other. I think "true" mature love is a combination of all of these things, when you find yourself with someone who has similar goals/interests, is compatible both socially and privately, and mutual attraction. "Love" in my opinion just kind of happens as a result of these factors. I don't think every human is predisposed to having those feelings, or you just haven't met the right person yet. I felt the teenage "omg the world is gonna end if I don't see this person" oneitis with my high school crush but not my actual highschool girlfriend. It never worked out with the crush, had a few casual relationships and a couple long-term but didn't feel anything truly deep with them. Had a couple stretches of being lonely and single in there too. It was only by sheer coincidence that I met my current gf, who I've been with for several years now. There was an initial spark which grew into genuine "love" over the course of about 6months-1 year.
Nah thats bullshit some people are late bloomers 17 is still a kid. If youre 22-24 and a virgin though then youre probably doomed to never have normal relationships with women unless youre religious
if you dont experiment with love when your a teenager you are going to be incredibly clingy and annoying as an adult, especially for your first real relationship
>if you dont experiment with love when your a teenager you are going to be incredibly clingy and annoying as an adult
I had teenage love and I still ended up like this as an adult what does that say about me
if i had to guess you have a deep fear of being alone or some girl burned you badly in the past and you can't get over it. but you should anon i believe in you
>if you hadn't done [x] by [age] it's not a big deal
>but if you hadn't done [x] by [different age] it's over
why are people like this?
>why are people like this?
They're morons. Have you ever actually spoken to one of these idiots? They're unbearably fricking tedious.
Some people can't live without labelling everything.
>you will never have the wholesome teen experience that will inform you of all relationships after that
You mean to say that all seventeen year olds understand what having a relationship is like and that the person they have those feelings with they're going to marry and be with for the rest of their lives, right? Oh wait...
By 2024 under 40% of new adults have ever dated.
What's your point?
"inceldoom" will be the biggest social problem of the XXI Century
Under half of 17 year olds have the wholesome teen relationship he was claiming.
And it's dwindling. His image helps my argument. Teenagers don't know what a healthy relationship is anymore. Being in that 'touchy feely' kind of relationship is not a relationship. Don't get me wrong, a relationship requires vulnerability and intimacy, but what teenagers engage in and think is truth or what's 'right' is hardly any of those things. If that were the case, we'd give fourteen or fifteen year olds adult status, which we clearly don't.
Also, even many adult people still act juvenile, so age isn't really an indicator of maturity.
Blame white men.
>Amerucan white men
fixd
>mute video with random subtitles
Teens can't frick for shit. I don't even remember my first time, and I'm just a 33 years old zoomer with receding hairline and zesty disposition but hetero (so mostly unfrickable).
Post nose.
>you will never have the wholesome teen experience
t. people who never had sex in their teens
holy frick, stop thinking movies are fricking real. Whatever idea you have of teenage romance, it's not like your fricking bittersweet, coming of age romcom or whatever the frick you're watching.
crippling depression and schizoid personality disorder
Be short, autistic, ugly, or all 3
Why don't you like the stinky fishy cloakas of womeN???
Why don't you like their moist skin flaps? What's not to like??
Soft wiener syndrome
>past age 20
80% of men under 25 are virgins right now compared to 5% of women being virgins
>source: my hairy ass
The movie is titled 40 yr old virgin, how did you get from 40 all the way to 20. Stop with the shitty bait.
Not sure about 80% but pic related could be close enough
What caused the sudden spike in the 2010s?
women just all fricking the same chads instead of finding partners to settle down with
yeah but why?
did somebody put something in the water or in the air
no, its not societally looked down upon anymore
A well was poisoned, you might say
Did anyone even answer online suryeys before 2012?
>Iran kicks out israelites to America cause they know whats good
based Iran
We're in the midst of second sexual revolution with hookup apps, onlyfans, and easy access to endless sources of pornopgraphic content. What you see is the result of an even more liberalized sexual marketplace
Smartphones and social media.
That's not about virgins nor is it about the 0-25 age bracket.
Early starters in sex may decrease in the number of people they sleep with but not so much that it'll translate to zero partners since age 18. It's very clear that the sharp increase comes from more adult virgins.
Its not that bad but the 80/20 rule is definitely real
all stuff like tiktok is doing is showing you stuff that was already there. i don't know why you choose to stuff all this shit into your eyeballs hour after hour
just be an average man
most men in college will graduate as virgins
That's actually fricked. Half the reason to pay for college is college parties for easy vegana, at least when I was in college. Learn a life skill, play some sports, meet your future wife. There was a point to all this.
aren't you suppose to go to college to get a degree or something like that
I'm 43 and I've never even held hands with a girl.
You're not missing much.
the only downside is that if you had engaged in a relation in your young age, you could've met a bit saner type of women than the absolute trash heap of today
How does it get that bad
also 43
>had a lady but she left because I was too soft like Lloyd Dobler
>had a good job waiting but grandpa dies so you have to go be a caretaker for grandma
that's pretty much it. no woman wants to deal with another live-in woman
it really sucks to have family.
You're doing an honourable thing
certainly not according to this thread and OP
>what i would do to grab some appealing boob, grabbing an ass is just not the same
Indolence
Just be fat, short, or ugly.
is sex really that big deal?
The woman has to be in it, which is like 20% of women.
The others are like planks that think they just have to show up with their c**t.
To the public who will judge you, sure
not dying alone is a big deal. if you're never going to be somebody's special person then that's kind of depressing to think about for most people. might as well be a walking corpse. why show up to work every day if you're just some piece of shit nobody will ever care for?
I now understand why I'm a drug addict.
You'll be ostracized, roasted at every single opportune moment and treated as lesser if you haven't experienced it. So yeah kinda.
>little to no female attention during childhood
>little to no female attention during adolescence
>little to no female attention entering adulthood
I'll be 40 next year, the last time I was touched by a woman I wasn't related to was about 4 years ago, it was a hug from a co-worker.
I like these threads.
Considering how shit the dating market is, if you weren't a social butterfly in HS or college your chances of meeting a nice girl are slim to none.
what's the problem with zoomer girls
Society made them aware of the power of their vegana.
I think it has a lot to do with environment, I was a virgin until 21 and then got laid 2 weeks after moving away from my parents
Here's how, Starting age 18:
>blew chances in high school, bad self esteem/confidence, partly bc of rejections
>bad drugs time in college, dropped out (20)
>went back to college, unexpected family death, dropped out again(22)
>restarted college, focused on that(23)
>finished college, felt too weird and old for girls there(26)
>started working, still shitty social skills, few women in work environment
>age 29/30, towards end of pandemic started making "dating" and "social skills" a job and serious goal
>>>Had sex first time at age 30, okay but unremarkable experience, still no "real" gf
> better now but not much, still working on it
These things are all true. With the way people are, depending on compatibility you'll have good,bad and forgettable sex.
Protips if you are around 25 and under
>just don't ignore your social skills, make friends and reach out to them periodically, male and female
>you are pretty much always good enough to date and have a relationship, don't put it off for no good reason
>don't fricking tell anybody you've got no experience unless you really need to, it puts undue pressure on them
>most people are decently nice, this socializing shit isn't that horrible, most people are just fricking moronic
> exercise more, and stop jerking off so much, this keeps your urge to have sex higher
This is obvious but most nerdy Virgins have nerdy hobbies or habits that don't create opportunities to meet people. School is the obvious place and it's over fast for most
Same lost it at 21, the. Turn into sex crazed butthole
>worked in 00s circuitcity
who was the lumbergh of this workplace?
Virgins romanticize the idea of fricking but the reality of the situation is that it's an exceedingly trivial matter and wasting your life pursuing women is the mark of an insecure man.
They're all the same.
>Man what's up with you starving guys never shutting about food, it's not that great!
>You'll get a burger and you'll get bored halfway through, believe you me!
keeeeeek
Sexhaver here. Sex is literally one of the most enjoyable and gratifying things you can experience, and is one of the top human joys.
I bet, gargling on tyrones balls while you get pouned by pedro must surely be the best moment of your week
Just being honest, not trying to touch a sore spot
God you write so gay, call me a homosexual or a Black person or a troony, stop with that reddit pseudointellectuality shit
Well I'll treat you like a whiny little virginal homosexual if thats what you want. Would you get off on me saying you have a tiny little baby dick too?
Thats better
>call me a homosexual troony daddy
what a weirdo
checked, thoughever
you are such a raging homosexual "dude we are on on le edgy Cinemaphile"
grow the frick up you fricking moron no one cares, and if not going on reddit is a pride of point to you it just shows what a pathetic worm you are.
sour grapes
Agreed. I have done all kinds of drugs and sex is still one of the best things for me. Not just the cooming part, but everything in combination with a girl who is down to pleasure you and herself.
It is one of the greatest experiences in existence. I feel like those who say otherwise must have never had good sex before. I don't see how you could and then claim it's nothing. Maybe they're just trying to make virgins feel better, but that's not helping them either. Virgins need to know they're missing out on a huge part of the human experience and work harder to get it.
It says something about you if you consider sex to be the peak of human experience.
Our monkeybrains dump dopamine during sex for a reason. We're biologically hardwired to seek it out and crave it. What experiences in your life have brought you intense joy and happiness?
>What experiences in your life have brought you intense joy and happiness?
drugs, vidya, sports
>What experiences in your life have brought you intense joy and happiness?
Having something that brings me meaning beyond the immediate existence of pleasure, which is going to fade away and I will have to chase afterwards.
TL;DR: chasing pleasure is indeed beastlike behavior. Be a human, you have the potential to be more than a glorified monkey.
>Having something that brings me meaning beyond the immediate existence of pleasure,
Like what then? Give me some examples from your life
>which is going to fade away and I will have to chase afterwards.
My past conquests are one of the things that I most frequently reminisce about, and the long term happiness they brought me isn't something I could expect you to understand.
The answer to both of your questions I can give in a single answer. You live in the past with your memories and reminiscing about the past, and you chase pleasures in the now. You should flip it around. You should delay gratification in the now, so that you can build something in the future. That's what I do, and enjoy. I don't care about my past. There's no point in wasting time in the *now*, existing in the past. Plus, the thing that I consider of a 'higher' virtue than just chasing pleasure, is that I hold my self-expression to a high standard. Meaning, I value authenticity over 'muh dick'. Arguably, having 'higher' goals are more virtuous than immediate 'in the now pleasures'.
You still haven't told me the activities or hobbies you engage in that bring you long lasting joy and happiness. You just keep finger wagging about how I enjoy sex. Sour grapes methinks
There you go. You're only thinking in 'real things', which is why you can't think abstractly, which is why sex is the highest of pleasures to you.
Just to play along here's a list of 'higher' things that I enjoy:
>Talking with someone to figure out what bothers them and to solve their emotional knots. I.e. what a therapist does.
>Writing a novel/in my diary
>Improvise on the piano
>Self-development. Or the first thing but on myself.
>Critique something on its logical foundations (pick something apart in why it doesn't make sense)
There's probably more.
Christ what a dullard
am i being trolled here or what
>writing in your diary is better than having sex
zoomers truly are beyond parody
>I GOTTA COOOM GOTTTA COOOOOOOM! COOOOOOOOM!! I NEEED A HOLEEEE TO COOOOOOOM!!
yeah im sure that pen and paper are gonna keep you happy in the long run there anne frank
This homie is writing in a diary and convincing himself it's better than sex lmao
It's barely better than jacking off.
getting conflicting message here
Raw dogging a pussy and busting inside while a sweaty woman grinds back and forth with her breasts flopping in your face is what I imagine it feels like to mainline heroin
The words of a man who's never tried heroin. Or MDMA. Or even just some really good weed tbh.
I've tried MDMA and it's probably my favorite intoxicant, but it's good it makes you moronic otherwise I would be tempted to do it all the time. That being said I would rather cum in a woman than roll 99% of the time.
Then you've never tried *good* MDMA(which is understandable, most of the shit available is so heavily cut it's complete crap, and you have about a 25% chance of just being sold crushed up ritalin and caffeine pills). I knew a chem student in uni who made the stuff himself from scratch, gave me a couple of bumps of his once at a party and I literally didn't notice a girl sucked me off. I know it happened because there's video to back up my recollection, but in the moment it was just completely irrelevant background noise to the bliss. The experience actually made me stop taking drugs because I realised if I had the option to take that on a regular basis I'd end up an actual deadbeat junkie.
sex with someone you love is 100 times better than heroin. opium was pretty close though
t. former junkie
If the wizards ITT are struggling to be socially functional enough to nail random slags, who I have witnessed getting successfully picked up by men who look like the bastard lovechild of Warwick Davis and a potato with a skin condition, what on earth makes you think we have any chance of being in a loving relationship?
The options for us are lucking into a fumble with one of the aforementioned slags or fricking a hooker, and there are drugs available that are categorically superior to either of those experiences.
good point, but i just wanted to say that no drug on earth will compare to the serotonin release of having sex with someone you love
Some people can take it or leave it. Depends on your own preferences.
yeah incel the point isnt fricking a hole but having someine to love you
you ever felt love?
You really don't get it, do you?
Anon, sex with a woman is the penultimate experience of life which in turns leads to procreation, the entire POINT of life. Civilization was created to support familial structures, not NEETS sitting at home collecting social welfare. If women are all the same, why can't you master them, Mr Fox?
except that people have sex to have fun and not to have babies
The purpose of sex is reproduction
The purpose of food is nourishment
Just because people have sex and then pull out, just because people eat cake and then vomit it out doesn't mean those acts are meant for pleasure and whatever consequences don't matter and can be avoided. It means humans/humanity is trying to cheat the system and are only cheating themselves
It just sounds like you're making up definitions that contradict what most people do. Sounds like a (You) problem
Ask normal people
They will say sex is baby making and you eat food so you're not hungry.
Most people my age I know have sex for fun. Eating food so that you're not hungry is not the same as nourishment, which is what you originally said. If everyone ate for nourishment then people's diets would be impeccable. But most people eat for satiation and to avoid the negative feeling of hunger, hence sloppa diets and obesity in the west and malnourishment from eating a 90% rice diet in the 3rd world.
Terminal sollipsism.
Nothing is made for pleasure, pleasure is given for motivation, pleasure is never the goal, it's just a orientation mechanism, just like the senses, the goal is never to just "see", seeing helps a real goal rather.
>If women are all the same, why can't you master them
nta, but just because something is known, doesn't make it easy. Just because all women supposedly are 'the same', doesn't mean that 'thing' women are can't be difficult as hell.
Why do people do this. Its like when rich people say having moneu isnt a big deal. Then give all your money away
>but the reality of the situation is that it's an exceedingly trivial matter
For you, because you are a frivolous person
True but you're ignoring how other men see men that are virgins and question that their masculinity because of it (at least in the West, can't speak for anywhere else)
29 and virgin speaking. I think some people like myself just has some error in my brain program that makes me unable to get into mating. In other words, I'm an legit autist. Also, porn. Maybe if porn didn't exist at least to the extent that it does these days with internet and all I would've been more proactive about getting laid but since it's easier to just open the computer and fap to futas then why bother with real women.
I just don't like dealing with people
I was lucky and I had friends and opportunities to meet new people until I met my first girlfriend, and then I got relatively reclusive after that. The party abruptly ended.
Virgins just have bad luck. Misfortune is a real thing. Not an excuse to be a sad sack of shit, but if I didn't have friends at a younger age, someone with my personality traits could easily never have sex their entire lives.
>bro, just get lucky xD
It wasn't advice, you idiot.
Easy
>Bullied in school+by my sister => no self confidence with girls
>Dont want: prostitute, fatty, druggy or mental ill woman
>I wont ever simp (went on 3 dates, never gave a compliment, always split bills)
>am only 7~8 (even a 200kg landwhale has a harem of 9,5~10 thanks to tinder and co)
>I dont approach woman
>Porn addiction ruined my brain
>Somewhat autistic
>e-girl chad (once a girl is older than 20 her body starts to get icky, 14-16 are best, tight, thin amd firm)
>Not much of a friends guy, I have 3 people I meet since the last 5 years, I am horrible at meeting new people (I am somehow always looking stoned/angry/sad, cant change it its just my face)
>Incredible strong emotions (when sad I look like a beaten lamn, when angry I start to shout and look like a mass murderer with a red head and start to shake) and harsh language (you need lo shoot all welfare recipients, burn all murderes, islam is the biggest disaster to ever happen to the world) so new people think of me as a psycho the moment smth tragic happens (grandpa dies, a Black person stole my wallet) (am really empathethic though, i cried when my best friends dad died cause of what he had 2 go through)
>Blind when woman look at me
>Scared of intimacy/opening up, bottle up my feelings
>I want a 0 work woman (I am a really simple man, I need a simple wife (I dont want to do smth exceptional every weekend, I train 5 times a week and go out on the weekends, thats enough 4 me, I dont need spontaneous holidays in italy or a concert)
Just wait until sexbots are a thing
Had gf at 16. Had a sex and all that, nearly married that year. Broke up at 17 because I fled from the marriage idea. She was 10/10 redhead. One thing I regret is not chasing after a girl who was trying too hard to look cool and hanged with "cool" girls. Am now enamored by the similarly looking one at the age of 33. Had sex before jerking off. jerk offd at around 29 or 30 or something. Anyone saying "if you did not have sex by X" has daddy looming over them and are trying to impress daddy. It is simple as that. Men with self-esteem find their dream and chase it. And it is rarely having a physical act with a woman, because you must have a shallow personality for that to be your dream, and biology-driven non-human cannot be considered men
How the frick did you not masterbate as a teen?
You guys know you can literally just lie to the woman you wanna have sex with about your virginity right?
Yes. If you are chill then this works (worked for me at age 24).
But if you're nervous, awkward, and scared to touch her, then she'll know you have no experience regardless of what you say (also happened to me a couple of times before 24).
Being sexually experienced is not something you can easily fake though. The girl I lost my virginity to sensed my lack of confidence and asked if it was my first time
Sure, but that's not the issue.
The moment you lose your virginity you've made it, from that point on it's just a matter of lying your way into having enough experience to not need to lie anymore.
it's not as if they can ask for a refund
>You can compose yourself to stand in front of a woman and lie, can't you?
I can barely compose myself to order a pizza. Plus, women can tell you're a virgin and even if they can't, my autistic demeanor would make it very obvious.
Just give me my sex robot already.
The trick is even getting to the point that you would have to lie about this at all. Most people would never be put into a situation where a girl is interested in them in the first place. Other than that, I agree. I lied through my fricking teeth and told her it had been a few years since I last got laid. Thanks to the quarantine, that was a very believable lie.
Nah they can tell. Girl I lost it to had massive breasts. She started laughing when I started sucking on them because I was so meek and nervous.
1. They will know you are lying
2. If you are a virgin the chances of you being a room with women is zero
>31 khv
>libido has sunk to all time due to fin
>interest in women is gone
Okay I guess? I was kind of desperate for a while, but I feel so neutral about it nowadays. Maybe it's copiu, dunno. But I'm content just taking care of myself mentally and financially, doing stuff I enjoy. Guess sex ain't it, whatever.
do you exercise?
I lift stuff at work and am decently lean/muscled
It's not even me being ugly or awkward. I just never get passed the small talk. How can I keep talking to you if you refuse to go into detaills, yet you keep hitting me to have this pointless 2 min talk. Women do it all the time to me.
lay off the fin, it's a meme and you are only delaying the inevitable. if she was vain enough to care about balding to pass on you, you can be sure she'll pass once she knows your morning routine and the facade unravels. accept your faults, balding included and it will translate into the person you're trying to be with.
My libido is shit too at 34, I think I'm dying bros
going from jerking off twice a day to jerking off twice a week isnt a libido thing, its just you going from a hyper libido to a normal libido
Imagine asking this on Cinemaphile of all places.
If anything this place needs a sex board for this sort of threads
would lurk for sure
Hard work and dedication. Not everyone is as strong as me, but dont let that get you down.
i'm 31 and a kissless virgin, and i will die a virgin.
Same level, fellow wizard. Losing all hope is liberating, like a thing that doesnt affect you in any way.
Unironically this. Feeling sorry for yourself just makes it worse, so the cheat code is stop caring and focus on other things in life. Some people have and some don't. That's nature and that's fine.
That's terrible bros. Everyone should experience sex and romance. Don't give up, at least fool around and have some fun first.
Some people are just meant to die alone. It is what it is, life is still worth living though
>life is still worth living though
Only if are rich
I have tons of money due to not wasting it on holes
Not really, I am not rich and life is still worth living.
Even if life is literally just Cinemaphile shitposting it's still way better than death
Unless you know what happens in death you can't truly know that
Let's put it like this then: Cinemaphile shitposting is better than suicide
Not everyone is equal. Some guys are just meant to have it.
Why does this movie get spammed so much here? I'm not interested in American humor
oi lets see yar postan loicense
be a good lad now
Then leave this American website if it wounds you too much
Where else would I lampoon your culture?
You can always go circlejerk with your buddies on some Brazilian website since threads about virginity seem to touch a sore spot with you.
I'm only interested in their bodies. I have 0 desire to hang out with a woman.
I'm pushing 40 and I'm a virgin. Honestly I don't know. I think it's a mix of being introverted, slightly autistic, disagreeable, not funny, not charming, not being outgoing and being kind of a shut in. I'm not bad looking, I think I just have a really shit personality.
I'm an A-rank introvert.
i have a theory that sex havers spam these threads to make fun of older less fortunate virgin men. like kiwifarms lite. just bored sociopaths.
It's the fate of all blue boards to eventually fill with social shaming and chiding from them, and the mods identify more with women so we can look forward to this being perpetuated until the site requires screen names and passwords.
This entire site is just kissless virgins and failed normalgays.
No one who scrolls through extreme close up pics of Nikocado Avocados brown coinslot butthole to then solve two captchas to then finally make a post replying to another cartoon frog posting anonymous person is normal.
The only people who broke the cycle were the people who left us behind
I like how when he mentions his love for anime he adds that he was "only into it for a summer".
Never forget where your roots.
debatable. Cinemaphile has been mainstream for what? well over a decade at this point? i think we've had a normalc**t problem for longer than we didn't at this point. regular people come here for a laugh, like some autist zoo, or a reminder of when they made fun of the less fortunate awkward kids in school. its all a joke to them. just a bunch of losers they can punch down at because it makes them feel better about their own lives. society has told people they're all but justified in demonizing and ridiculing men who are frickups. we're the safe target to unload all their scorn on. its all a joke to them.
>regular people come here
No they do not.
A regular person finds 90% of this site content as ugly/filthy/worthless. It's like saying regular people like to dumpster dive, no they do not.
i think you underestimate just how ugly and awful the average normalc**t is. more than any shy autist.
I'm not saying they are perfect beings, but that pretty much only IRREGULAR people come to this site. Not to mention that Cinemaphile activity on almost all boards is just going down, while every other social media is only going up
Define regular. I've met a couple people who were married and gainfully employed who browsed Cinemaphile
>A regular person
You mean a regular person that spent 10 hours a day watching tik tok, twitter, only fans and other "normie sites"? THAT normal regular person?
Yes, that person. Yes it's all wicked and moronic, but that fact remains.
>muh Cinemaphile sekrit club
>failed normalgays
This is me. I basically walk a fine line between being the self hating anons here and a normie. I’ve had all the life experiences of teenage love with dating and sex and shit but once my engagement failed my life took a nosedive. Work a deadend job to help take care of my parents and no other prospects. Now I shitpost on a Mongolian basket weaving forum lamenting the life I should have had. Sometimes I envy the anons who never experience this stuff. It’s a different kind of hell.
We all go through phases. I can relate to you some and it t helps for me to find the humor in basically everything.
I think "failed normie" pretty much means "normie". Not being where you want to be does not mean you are a failure as most people experience a lot of failure in their lives.
A lot of the people here are just regular people who think this is a place to misbehave.
this is literally just being alive, no one is having that good of a time if you aren't super wealthy, regardless if your on Cinemaphile or not
It’s the same people that would frick a friend over for a brief moment of gratification. They’re basically women with wieners.
>It’s the same people that would frick a friend over for a brief moment of gratification. They’re basically women with wieners.
Can confirm. I have a 'friend' (quotation marks because we're apparently close because of circumstance, not really a shared relationship) who's like this. It's clear from his demeanor that he gets a lot of pussy if you didn't know him, and from talking with him he *does* get a lot of pussy. Thing is, you can't make a proper agreement with the guy. He only thinks about himself.
that's exactly what it is as is 70 percent of all boards.
Seethe oldtroon, you sound like a middle aged roastie with niglets
Cinemaphile was never an incel website until you mongoloids showed up after 2016
and no one is forcing you to click on this you dense moron
>Cinemaphile was never an incel website until you mongoloids showed up after 2016
twngf is 14 years old anon. /LULZ/ was deleted for being "guys crying about women" even earlier than that
yeah and it was full of trap porn and people trying to hook up which is 100 percent preferable to this clown show of blackpilled lunatics
>yeah and it was full of trap porn
It still is
>and people trying to hook up which is 100 percent preferable to this clown show of blackpilled lunatics
Those people got moved to /soc/ I'm not really sure what you insist is missing
You want to pretend it's because of newbies when it's that the same people who were ronery a decade ago are even more miserable now
>showed up after 2016
Frick off with this gaslighting. I've been here since 2009 and there has been no change
>anime website
>Madoka Magica existed in 2011
And no one is forcing you to make them, homosexual. And stop acting as if what he said personally applies to some millennial Black person like you
>How the frick do you remain a virgin past age 20?
What do you mean how, it's literally the easiest thing in the world??
Just never make any advance on a girl, boom you're a virgin for life it's that simple
>be a 30 year old perma virgin
>make a dating account
>write that i'm tired of fricking young women under 25
>i want to try an experienced mature woman
>mfw all these milfs contact me right away
Well what happened
Some people are awkward goobers. Some people are ugly. It’s legit not even their fault and they’re mocked for it. I honestly believe we create our own monsters.
Why aren't the heckin based jannybros not deleting this?
The thread is about a film.
Nobody is here discussing anything about this film. It's just bunkertrannies and people stupid enough to fall for bait threads.
I'm 24, I fricked 13 people but I haven't had sex in over a year. I lost my mojo
for a normalc**t this is what depression looks like.
Because the majority of people that are virgins are craving for love and companionship and not just randy hole to cum in.
Thing is, "love" as they seek does not exists
>the normalgay twitter tourist thread who can't think about anything than animal sexual intercourse
frick off, for christ's sake.
I could’ve easily have fricked several girls already but I live in a small apartment with my mom, don’t have a car, don’t have a job, so no money for motels either.
I lost my virginity at 24 but the girl was 20 and virgin too so it was all right in the end
I'll rather have some financial/mental stability
I made out with a handful of girls during college, but I never actually got laid. I have no friends now and I refuse to use dating apps so I'll probably never have se
You should try the dating apps, just don't stress over them. It's a good kick in the nuts and ass that might give you some motivation
Dating apps are demotivating, not motivating.
you are whats demotivating, anon. you.
Tinder and Bumble blackpilled me harder than any /LULZ/ thread could even dream of doing. I hate women so fricking much.
sucks to suck
You wouldn't get it.
Don't have a car
i'm a 31 year old virgin. it's because i've been a recluse neet since highschool. i'm learning to code and want to get a job within the next year or two.
i've literally never even kissed a woman so i don't know how to kiss. but a lack of confidence is cringe so i'm supposed to confidently start sucking on her fricking lip while she looks at me like "wtf are you doing?" shit's going to suck.
Because I don't want to pay for sex and rape is wrong.
Other than that connecting with people and convincing a woman to have sex is a bother.
Lost my virginity to a hooker when I was 21.
Fricked another hooker at 22, and a third one at 23.
I'm now 25 and I haven't had sexual contact or a relationship with a woman since. But I can feel that I'm getting closer to giving up for real (and not just bitterly telling myself that because of sour grapes), which is good.
>sexual contact or a relationship with a woman
Is there supposed to be a difference?
I meant casual sex or a relationship, there's a difference. But whatever
>tfw turn down sex from my gf because I'd rather jack off then have to deal with her shit
I wish I was an incel again.
so just break up with her?
she cooks, cleans and brings in money so she's a nice roommate
that's sad. I guess if you prefer that to being by yourself then ok
I lost mine at 20, but it wasnt very good. I had sex with 2 other women later on in my 20s. Im now 30 and havent had sex in a long time. Its probably not gonna happen anytime soon unless i hit up an escort. Like i talked to 6 different women last year and all they did was play mindgames with me.This shit is beyond ridiculous.
>people don't like me
>don't like people enough to "fix" myself for their benefit
>don't see why I should pay a prostitute when I can just have a wank
It's not that hard to grasp, if it doesn't happen naturally at the "correct" time and you don't push hard for it to happen soon after that point, you eventually just stop giving a shit. I still don't tell anyone because people are vapid judgemental arseholes and I already want to murder most within five minutes of starting to talk to them, so a constant barrage of hurr durr "jokes" about it would probably land me in jail, but yeah eventually it just stops having any innate meaning.
OP is israeli
At 21 every man should get a hooker. Idk why would continue to hold your virginity any longer.
something something mental insanity
unless you are elephant man tier ugly you have to turn down sex. I am a 33 year old virgin and I have turned down sex these times
1. Girl offered to pay me to frick her, I said no because I'm not a prostitute.
2. Guy asked me to frick his girlfriend when we learned I was born at almost the exact same moment as her for magickal reasons. I refused to involve myself in witchcraft and cuckoldry
3. 2 different girls i met on Cinemaphile wanted me to take their virginity, one was underage so I said no, other was neurotic and israeli so i said no.
Plus plenty of other times that were less direct than this, opportunities for romance that I either rejected or was too oblivious to detect at the time. All of that said, being a virgin is one of the least homosexualy ways to deal with sex as long as you're not falling into porn addiction. Having seen the shit sex-havers do for a whiff of pussy I would much, much rather be a virgin instead of settling and dealing with woman issues for anything less than an incredible woman.
i don't care
i'm more interested in a soul friend than the luxury of improved masturbation
Getting married should be more important than some random frick
easily
>make fun of some virgin on Cinemaphile
>he calls me a roastie
You guys don't actually think everyone that makes fun of you for being a virgin is a woman, right?
there are no women here. but you might as well be one by the way you type
What about my post makes me a woman? It clearly strikes a nerve but it's just banter. It's like when people post Latinx in obvious ESL threads, it's easy (You)'s
kek, you're alright anon
I am used to use random insults since many words have lost their meaning
now have a nice day chudcel troon beefcuck
Lost mine at 23, was getting really worried but it was a tremendous weight off my shoulders and i thought it was gonna solve my problems
>i thought it was gonna solve my problems
What makes people believe this
Is not like you are going to wake up the next day stronger or smarter or your dick will be bigger
It's a marker of success that most other men can relate to. Quickly wears off just like anything else.
You don't get to the point of being an adult virgin without being a complete moron detached from reality.
I hear sex smells
Adult virgins creep me out and I'm a 33 year old male.
Why exactly?
Am sure is dumb prejudice but is fun to hear what you people think
It's something off about them, I see women the same age with no children in the same light. Like, what went wrong in their upbringing that they ended up like this?
>what went wrong in their upbringing that they ended up like this
Funny enough I had a completely normal standard upbringing with two loving parents, never bullied and no trauma to speak of. And I have siblings and they are both normal people in relationships/marriages.
Yet here I am, almost 30 and never even kissed, let alone had sex.
It just never happened, or to be more precise I never tried to make it happen
At last, one of the beautiful ones.
Similar boat. Good family relationships, no bullying, etc. I had a lot of male friends in school but only spoke to a girl here or there. Never tried to make any move so when school ended I got a job in a solitary environment and have been solo ever since. Still living with my parents even though we're very well off financially. I just don't see a point in moving out to my own place when I have no reason to. It's not like I'm magically going to find a gf if I do. It's just a waste of money and I'd have to do a ton more chores myself.
The irony is that women who don't have children are actually doing what they "should" be doing if one takes all the global warming stuff seriously (I am not taking a position in this post, just drawing one conclusion). No politician or leader openly speaks seriously about getting the population back down below pre-industrial levels, which is what you would actually have to do if everyone keeps insisting on maintaining something like a first-world standard of living for large numbers of people while at the same time reducing all that stuff they claim to want to reduce.
Personally, my ideal relationship would be totally devoid of precisely the three things that all middle-aged women want: no marriage, no house (which is to say, no debt), no children. Ever. Just two people who while away the time peacefully with each other until death takes them.
Bro, i had about three women in the past that i barely even knew and they were talking about having kids right off the bat. Major red flag right there.
If you make it to 25 as a virgin youve missed more experience than you can make up for, even if you do manage to lose your virginity that woman will never respond to your calls or texts again because you couldnt make her cum
You'll figure it out if you've made it that far.
nah a 25 year old woman has 20 plus bodies by then, if you cant frick like you know what youre doing theyre going to ghost you
You're like the evil voice in the virginal anons head that says "don't do it, you'll fail, it's hopeless".
There is such a thing as getting to know each other and sex is no exception. The virgins don't need to think that far ahead. You're scaring them.
thats the point anon
>There is such a thing as getting to know each other and sex is no exception.
Women don't have patience for men who aren't good at sex. They have 500 other guys they could be fricking.
>being a man
>not having at least 20 bodies by the time your 25
did none of you go to college? wtf
youre on a website where 1/2 to 3/4 of the users are on the autism spectrum
>hey why don't you want to share my stds gyyyz
finished college 4 years ago, never even kissed
Doesn't help that you dorks are crabs in a bucket
>if I've given up hope then you should too
Misery loves company
Then someone owed him money and you defended him and got his money, right?
Don't have a rapist uncle.
Try #metoo
Every time I get close with a girl, something happens, an accident, a misunderstanding, a job change, or whatever, which causes the girl to either leave my life forever, start dating someone else, or just NOPE the frick out, before we actually get anywhere. It's happened many, many times, by age 37, I've given up even trying to date anyone. It's just not my destiny.
It's weird how life plays out, I was a playboy in highschool but the opportunity never presented itself and I fell into depression senior year and that was it for my love life I never had a relationship since then and I'm 30 now. Can't say I'm even sad about no sucky fricky or having a b***h living with me, but I do see young dads with their kids and that does make me feel remorseful, I want those people's lives not the bachelors fricking random chicks every week.
>How the frick do you remain a virgin past age 20?
My 22yo female cousin is still a kissless virgin despite being very beautiful(she looks like prebogged Anya Taylor). How can I get to marry her? She's very religious as expected as well
There are 2 things you should never do:
Never stick it in crazy
and stay away from incest
Bet she lies.
>Bet she lies.
I know her very well, she was from an all girls schools so she had no prior experience with men prior to college and she barely interacts with her classmates besides college stuff, and since she's studying mechanical engineer, the men are boring as well.
She's just too much of a good woman, and we've become very closed, if she actually gives me the chance I think I'll date her no matter what
what state are you in, cousin fricking is legal in many
2 things, always be fricking your cousin, and always be fricking a crazy
ITT:
>women scary and i'm ugly
>/LULZ/ thread
>252 replies
I'm 33 but I got as far as a bedroom a couple of years ago and couldn't get it up. I made an excuse and left. I think I either watch too much trap porn or I'm completely fricked. I could probably get as far as that again but no point.
That'll happen when you're an adult virgin. You are nervous as frick and spent 15 years watching people have sex in porn, not knowing what to actually expect. If you weren't comfortable enough for intimacy then it was simply rushed, you'd need a very patient woman that really wants you to get through this hurdle. Or try not jerking off for a month while taking zinc and citrulline malate - guaranteed boner and instacoom as soon as she touches your dick (COUNTS as virginity loss).
Try not jacking it for awhile. When i did nnn last year i was feeling the difference, also, try doing some exercise.
Don't jack off at least four days in advance and ask to cuddle or makeout first. Nice and slowly. Ten minutes of that and you should be hard.
>Kiss a girl when I was 15
>27 now with nothing after that
I regressed after high school
I became a wizard so I started reading romance novels as a proxy. I feel all warm and fuzzy when I see two characters I like finally get together. Sometimes I look up the endings to make sure nothing upsetting happens. I've dropped some books because I found out they had a tragic ending where the leads didn't get together or one on them died
Did not expect to find this here. Quality tiers image.
This is literally impossible.
Literally possessed by demons.
>sexologist
Opinion disgarded. Imagine being this obsessed with sex that you make it your profession. Probably got rammed up the ass in the 70's while doing acid and been chasing that high ever since.
>not having someone to cuddle, to tell you how beautiful you are and being in close proximity to for an entire year is no life worth living
Is this woman BPD or something?
I have a hard time taking this field of study seriously for a number of reasons, one of the major ones is that anyone partaking in these studies are usually sexually active beyond the norm and heavily skew any numbers. Know what people who dont have sex dont do? Participate in studies about sex.
I turned in my wizard card at age 34. Sex is overrated but it's also wonderful when readily available.
The actual reason is you are either poor, fat, ugly, short or incredibly awkward/dorky. There’s no fault of women, you are just not desirable.
This. But also we hate incels it’s your fault guys.
We are all individually responsible for our own genetics.
You're projecting bunkertroony
3 more years. I've got a decent normie job, and my own place.
But honestly at this point,what woman is going to bother with some impossibly akward guy in his mid 30s even if I somehow manage to lure her home drunk from a bar or something I genuinely don't know what to do with her...
28yo and have not had sex for 8 years.
Trauma
These same thread pops up on this board 3-5 times a month and every single time, you homosexuals always bump it to the top of the catalog with half of the replies being people trauma dumping and treating it like their own personal therapist.
At a certain point you realize you are searching for a greater power and it leads you to the path of wizardry and beyond.
I'm 27 and I am a virgin because I have asperger's, I couldn't go to school and I don't go out and meet women and also I hate myself so if I ever do get female attention I tell myself that they are just being friendly and If a woman made an advance on me even if I liked her I would reject her because I don't feel good enough because as I said, I hate myself
I need help
29 here bro, wizard powers next year!
im 6'3 and i dont get any likes on tinder
having a gf is boring i just want to frick bimbos
Im 40 not religious straight white male and virgin.
I make love to the woman who i 100% commit to instead frick with random bawds.
Had the chance to frick with different woman but due to different circumstances i didnt went for it.