BASED!
None of that where do you want go,I dunno,where do you want to go?
How about somewhere on the way home?
I was hoping you could make a uturn,get stuck in traffic for another hour because that diner,definitely closed by now,has really good shakes.
You don't like shakes.
I won't order one,my friend says they are good,now let me tell a long story about somebody you don't know...
>What depressing about drinking a 1961 Chateau Cheval Blanc St. Emilion Grand Cru?
That you're drinking it alone and no one cares what you're drinking.
I was depressed at the beginning of my 30s and desperate, which really turns women off. Now at 35 I don’t give a frick, and more women talk to me and tell me I’m cool. I also lift though.
yeah oddly the more you hate women, the more you get laid. i think its the process of learning how the female mind works and getting laid alot that leads to the hate for a lot of guys.
Only if you have no hobbies or drive. I have my drums, guitars, keyboard and piano. Thriftbooks and Librarygenesis give me access to more books than I could ever read. Video games, films, and shows are available at the touch of a button. I can mountain bike, rock climb, or go to the gym. If I want to get off I have fleshlights, and if I really want a woman I can visit a massage parlor. I honestly feel bad for most dudes. It’s even funnier when they get pissed that their women get sexual around me. I feel bad for most dudes still under the delusion that their women aren’t, at the very least, fantasizing about fricking other dudes.
It’s less coping and more acceptance. Relationships don’t work in the modern world. Women aren’t women anymore and to be with a girl would mean I would have to go back to being a boy. I would like to have a wife and children, own a house in the country and grow my own food. Disconnect from the shitty society we’re currently living in. But almost all modern women are prostitutes. They want me to rescue them from their shitty relationships, but still be able to act like toddlers.
It's actually the opposite. Women will automatically think you like them for their body. No matter how much you try to convince them otherwise. No matter how many songs or poems you write for them. Ok fine b***h, I only like you for your holes. Not complaining if you make them available to me.
The reason they think this is because they frick dudes that con them into it. Girls are also very stupid. It’s why H.H. Holmes and Ted Bundy were so good with them. You’re using the plural them. You care about more than their holes? I doubt it. The fact of the matter is that I’ve been alone so long now that I don’t think I could be comfortable in a relationship. Not unless she was a perfect woman, and there are none. I don’t hate women. They’re products of the world we live in, just like the modern man. Do whatever gives you fulfillment though. However you see it.
You’re the kid, and probably a modern woman. I promise once you get older you’re going to beat your head against the wall begging for a real man, and asking why you still end up in such dead end relationships. This isn’t everyone though, so maybe you’ll be an outlier.
Looking at 30-40 year old women on dating apps is fricking bleak. They have no thoughts or personalities they didn't get from pop media and social media consensus of the last 10 years.
I was playing a game for a while where I would rank women a 1, 2, or 3 based on the content of their profile. 1 was a profile that said nothing other than insanely generic shit like "I like travel!" "Food family fun!" "Equal time outside and inside is bae!", 2 was a profile that at least says something vaguely distinct like she's into classical music or whatever, and 3 is a person who seems highly distinct (specific things, how they relate to her personality). My threshold for a 2 or a 3 was very low, also. I didn't need her to be Albert fricking Einstein to give her a 3.
I expected the ratio of 3:2:1 to be something like 100:5:1, but it's much much more like 1000000:1:0. It's like women are literally afraid to even demonstrate a small amount of personality. I'd go on dates with these women (I'm rich and tall) and they'd be the same in real life, it's like a boring 21 year old airhead, but also extremely uppity and wants a lot of validation for being brave/edgy/smart.
I think women as a collective unit might be broken.
>They have no thoughts or personalities they didn't get from pop media and social media consensus of the last 10 years.
This. If less women were this hollow I wouldn't care but so many are like that.
The only interesting women to me are the really batshit crazy ones
I'm talking like BPD or schizoid type crazy
The problem is that they're extremely unreliable. One day they say they want to marry you and to carry your kids and have a family and the next day they're like GTFO you have no place in my life fricker
You can't really win with wahmin, it's either boring NPC's or crazy disloyal prostitutes fricking you over because they felt like it
>boring 21 year old airhead, but also extremely uppity and wants a lot of validation for being brave/edgy/smart.
An underdeveloped woman is as pleasant to be around as a catty dickless homosexual eunuch.
Real women still exist in religious communities, but they expect that you are a man (not a 30yo boy who posts on tv and games all day), and you also need to actually believe in God.
I didn’t say they all are. And women pay a lot of attention to me. But I have zero trust in them, other than I’ll likely get a disease or get in a fight with a guy she’s trying to hurt or leave.
You're probably still in your 20's. In your 30's your interest in hobbies will begin to fade and you'll need to start taking long breaks from them in order to enjoy them again for a few fleeting days before the existential dread comes back. It's pretty obvious to me now that having a family of my own would be a terrific distraction from this.
No man, I love making my music. I also have a nice DSLR that I use for photography. As shitty as the world is, we have an infinite number of things we can do to distract ourselves from the pains of existence. What have you always wanted to do, but have let this site and the world around you distract you from it? Just do it, man.
Existence isn't pain, that's precisely the issue, existence doesn't make me feel anything. Fiddling around with machines and toys that made some other guy a millionaire, I don't wanna do it anymore, I want to have people who depend on me and look up to me. 11 years ago I had the opportunity to run away with a beautiful woman and her daughter and become a father but I didn't have the courage and now they're all I can think about every minute of every day.
I’ll be 35 in August, and I love making my music, even if I never share it. I also have a nice Rebel Canon DSLR and am probably going to making videos for my songs. Music has always been a passion, but I had to save to afford all the gear.
well yeah, when you're a 25 year old incel you still have hope you'll find a girl and have kids or someshit. at 40+ you realize that it really is over for the rest of your life
Not necessarily. I am 40, and being single and well off means i have the absolute freedom to do whatever i want, whenever i want, and with the status of dating apps these days i can easily get my dick wet. With the amount of film, tv shows, music, books, and video games out there for me to enjoy, a girlfriend would just be getting in the way
sure, ideally i'd like i'd like to find the one that enjoys all the same interests, but i'd much rather be alone, than stuck in a relationship with somebody i'm not obssessed with
In order of most enjoyable:
1. A couple that are very happy with each other
2. Being single but happy with one self
3. being in an unhappy, or complacent couple
4. being single and unhappy
I'd swap 3's first point and 4, dealing with someone else's emotional bullshit in addition to your own is numerically twice as much bullshit to deal with
Literally yeah, dont even try. Truly pointless. Like whats the endgame, have kids? In this world?! Frick off. Theres no good reason to mate, beyond sexual release (just jerk off) and the illusion of not being alone
Tell us more. I'm staring down the barrel of middle age and wondering whether I should be this anon
Not necessarily. I am 40, and being single and well off means i have the absolute freedom to do whatever i want, whenever i want, and with the status of dating apps these days i can easily get my dick wet. With the amount of film, tv shows, music, books, and video games out there for me to enjoy, a girlfriend would just be getting in the way
sure, ideally i'd like i'd like to find the one that enjoys all the same interests, but i'd much rather be alone, than stuck in a relationship with somebody i'm not obssessed with
In order of most enjoyable:
1. A couple that are very happy with each other
2. Being single but happy with one self
3. being in an unhappy, or complacent couple
4. being single and unhappy
or whether I should listen to Jim Norton crying on the radio about how hookers won't stay and watch a movie with him and he's so lonely, and just marry anyone.
Yes. It's honestly telling that you thought of /misc/ as I had thought of the exact same thing, that /misc/ is pretty much along with /LULZ/ THE board for this kind of wallowing misery.
I forget when I stopped browsing it but I rarely even go there to check for some happening like the submarine. Think I did twice for like 3-5 minutes each, and then I briefly checked it for French riot footage. That's it in something like 2 years now. It is an objectively an awful place. It's a majority schizophrenia or ESL demented madness with a huge dose of people gleefully trying to hurt other posters and bring them down emotionally. Their views have nothing to do with it - I'm honestly more anti-semitic since no longer lurking there than I was when I lurked there. If it was a place full of off-color politically incorrect ideology but it wasn't such a miserable shithole I'd be fine with it.
This pic isn't entirely applicable to all of Cinemaphile or social media, though it is to a significant degree. But it is 100% to /misc/. You can make a mild allowance that if you zero in and only and I mean ONLY read some current-events breaking news topic. But anything else and it's >Why listen to people being miserable and despairing. It won't make you happy.
Not just won't make you happy. It won't make you wiser, smarter, more creative, more ambitious. It'll do nothing but make you feel sad. The cruelty is the point.
Well yeah /misc/ is literally a psyop testing ground and firing range for various governments and competing forces, the only reason anyone would go there is during a legitimate happening to get the scoop on things from the one side that wants to tell the truth to make the other side look bad.
Otherwise it's just a carnival of impotent rage and stupidity.
10 months ago
Anonymous
good post yes that makes sense
i went there during the russia coup was very based
10 months ago
Anonymous
Sound defensive and intimidated. I get it - /misc/ is too high level for many. Truth is scary.
10 months ago
Anonymous
Yeah? Vaxxies already died in two-weeks intervals?
Some women (*cough* BPD prostitutes *cough*) are expert shapeshifters and can figure out like half of a man's character and interests just by looking at his face, and then they model every interaction around that, gathering even more information about him in the process (kind of a snowballing effect/positive feedback loop really).
They really make you believe that they're "the one" for you, it's insidious.
Their mask slips only when they've trapped you and made you emotionally invest yourself in them, then their nasty prostitute nature that has been simmering just beneath (and all the resentment, rage and destruction that comes with the package) bursts through and hits you right in the face with no warning. Real neat how that works
Yeah, i should have really vetted the prostitute even more thoroughly in the beginning. She tried to get rid of all her prostitute pictures once i found her other account but it didn't do her any good, lol!
>Some women (*cough* BPD prostitutes *cough*) are expert shapeshifters and can figure out like half of a man's character and interests just by looking at his face, and then they model every interaction around that, gathering even more information about him in the process (kind of a snowballing effect/positive feedback loop really). >They really make you believe that they're "the one" for you, it's insidious.
its really fun to be aware of it and never take them seriously and just enjoy that initial period where they are swallowing your cum, begging to blow you while you watch football, free use grabbing their breasts ass pussy, beg-screaming for you to cum on their face while fricking, telling you all their dirty weird fantasies (live in their closet and come out at night while they are sleeping dressed as a teddy bear and rape them etc)
every young man should be made to take a year long course on this shit. these bpd women drive men to suicide, alcoholism or murder and are celebrated for it.
>or whether I should listen to Jim Norton crying on the radio about how hookers won't stay and watch a movie with him and he's so lonely, and just marry anyone.
Jesus christ, did he really say that? What a fricking moron. If you get involved with a crazy b***h, your life is over. Just look at Chris watts, his woman drove him to fricking child murder! I have a crazy lady in my home right now and I want to fricking die. Thank God I'm not married to her, who knows what is do. now I'm trying to plan my escape.
I'm 38 and despite starting to get fat I've never gotten more pussy. 25-30 year old women love late 30s, early 40s guys as long as you have decent income and you're not a creep
Yes, you've basically failed at life. No amount of copes can help you. I've got about 5 years before I become this, and am actively trying to change, if I don't succeed I'll just rope by then.
That's why you travel. That's the only time it's acceptable to eat alone at a restaurant. You don't want people in your community knowing you as that sad 40 y/o incel lmao
>You don't want people in your community knowing you as that sad 40 y/o incel lmao
oh yeah...that would be, terrible.
Hypothetically, what would you do if they did know?
No one cares if they see you at a restaurant by yourself, they serve poison and goy slop anyways. What's really depressing is going to fairs, theme parks, or other attractions by yourself. Everyone automatically assumes you only go to those yourself, and if you show up by yourself then you must be perving on people. I always make sure to go first thing to events as soon as they open so I can avoid all the stares and awkardness, then leave around noon once all the normalgays start showing up en masse.
When you go to those places in a group I never ever looked or cared about other people. Other than looking a girls ofc.The acutal issue is that it's actually not as much fun alone.
Most people look at other people and then instantly forget them, doesn't matter who you are, especially in a crowded place
10 months ago
Anonymous
You really don't understand and I don't expect you to.
10 months ago
Anonymous
I'm telling you the truth, it's all in your head, people you think "give you wierd looks" will not even remember they even saw you within 5 minutes of your interaction, if they were even looking at you at all.
10 months ago
Anonymous
It's literally not.
Again I don't expect you to understand because you obviously look normal enough and go to these places with at least one other person.
10 months ago
Anonymous
You forget the normal people, not the weirdos.
10 months ago
Anonymous
It's literally not.
Again I don't expect you to understand because you obviously look normal enough and go to these places with at least one other person.
I definitely forget the "wierdos" and the normal people because I'm more preoccupied with noticing if people are looking at me than spending time worrying about what some random person in a sea of people is doing.
10 months ago
Anonymous
You sound stupider than most people. Maybe you do lack the mental capacity.
Dude if someone’s at a theme park and all that is preoccupying their mind is seeing a guy alone then they aren’t worth worrying about. They’re at fricking Disney or Universal and all that is living rent free in their heads is “ugh that guy was alone”
Being bald and short gets easier as you age, 40 year old women don’t give a shit because they’re just as pathetic as you are if they’re single and 40 year olds don’t typically get into fights
Only one left still giving a shit by 40 about height is yourself unironically
It depends how you deal with loneliness. Charlie Sheen said it best, you dont pay the hookers for sex (getting sex is easy these days especially in your late 30s, 40) you pay them to leave
Sounds like Jim Norton has crippling loneliness and has too high standards for his own good
The only thing I miss is sex. I finally figured out that I don't like attachments and I'm not really great at playing house and going to dinner parties and shit, so it's best to not be married or dating. I really like my solitude, actually, and by the time I'm 55, I probably won't even be able to get it up anymore anyway.
I wish I could remember the name of the book, but some sociologist recently published something for the general reader about aging alone, and found to her surprise that most people enjoy it.
I think in the case of Miles, it wasn't that he felt alone as such, but rather that he met someone great and external circumstances fricked it up. Then the wound deepens running into his ex. It's worth noting how the film ends. If anything, the lesson is be careful who your bestie is. He might be an inadvertent wienerblocker.
you're me, anon. i kind of miss sex? but not that much. i have come to accept porn. also the women i can see nude in porn are women i would never able to get in RL, unless i became a completely different person.
Speaking of wienerblockers but both women and men are equally horrible for that. I’ve seen married men try their hardest to make sure their single buddies don’t get laid but I’ve also seen random women try their best for guys not to score because they’re bitter c**ts. If you’re a single guy never trust a friend or relative male or female because they’ll try to frick you over on purpose. There’s reason why there’s an incel epidemic because regular people want other men to suffer because it makes them feel good. Don’t trust anyone when it comes to trying to pick up relationships.
Being single in your late 20s and early 30s is depressing because that's when all your friends are getting married and starting families. Being single in your 30s and 40s less so because that's when all your friends are getting divorced and having their lives destroyed by their ex wives and you realize you dodged a bullet.
I think younger people would be surprised by the amount of cope people go through to justify their marital status. On both sides.
Single people wishing they were hitched, married people wishing they were single. Friends being jealous that they can't do this or that like their other friends. Mostly people just want to keep up appearances with what they assume they're supposed to do.
She probably is but one day you’ll be 35 and you’ll realize that it’s great to experience schadenfreude when terrible shitty people make terrible decisions and pay for it online but irl people do indeed tend to run the gamut and just because she waited doesn’t mean she’s some unrepentant Twitter prostitute and that you are also getting older and that even if your gun still fires full mags the idea of raising a baby and very young kid past 40 becomes much less appealing every single day
Allow me to give a non-bot reply and say you’re a complete idiot. 6 months, you hardly know this moron. Your lease that you’re signing will be for longer than you’ve known this person, and you’re gonna knock her up too? Absolute fool.
I have to admit I've been in a drought myself. It's mostly self-inflicted. After my last break-up five years ago, I just couldn't land a frick buddy via Tinder. They're all single moms looking for stability (and I don't blame them at all), but that's just not what I'm looking for.
I have a 40-hole body count, and most of it was in college, like half. In the last 20 years, it's been like maybe five.
Well I had sex because as I met this girl in my last years in college (I was a virgin in high school) turns out she was an actual prostitute a prostitute who escorted in massage parlours and I had unprotected sex with her totally clueless. I also fell hard for her even though she treated me like shit I had no clue women could be that cruel and she did shit like rack up my financial debts and shit. By the end of it I was in the mental ward after nearly killing myself. So yeah I’ve had a twenty years drought because even after all that every time I try to meet someone either I get roped into another woman who just wants to use and abuse me or I can’t trust them. Also I am an attractive and fit guy but women weirdly just want to be friends and use me for financial and emotional support and won’t frick me because I guess I have simp written all over me.
Starting off my 30s now and I really don't feel ready for the whole relationship/kids thing yet... but I do want a family at some point. I feel like there's not much time left. I don't want be the old boomer with young kids.
I do enjoy alone time but the only family I really have is my parents which means that if I don't create one I'm going to die a lonely death one day
Imagine fricking older women who have way more psychological problems than a young girl? There’s a reason why widows and old maids were considered witches in the old days
Right. I'm late 30s and only really care about a same race female with a good personality. Age, body, and face don't really matter anymore: I have a good imagination.
It can be. I know some people can fill their time with various hobbies and solo travel, but even as an introvert, I like to do those things with another person and I'd probably just laze about a lot if I was single into my 40's
it's an incel-style pill you take when your ugly friend gets a cute girl. pop the pill & say he's "offy-doofy maxxing" - it's a way to explain how non chads get laid, while incels still do not get laid
>it's a way to explain how non chads get laid, while incels still do not get laid
The real explanation: they have a personality and can speak to women without being found revolting.
> There is an unknown factor that drives mating success that is not easily perceivable. >Some oofy doofy theorists argue this unknown factor is pheromones, >immune system compatibility genes, blood factors, or a man's physiognomy (as distinct from his physical attractiveness.
This part is true though, either you have x or you don’t
The fact that men and women work together now doesn’t help much. Women in the work place play games and thoroughly enjoy the games. They don’t need men anymore for anything other than attention and sexual gratification, so even if you’re sporting a big dick and a nice income, you’re still looking at something that isn’t going to last. The best thing you can do is find contentment with yourself, figure out what you’re passionate about and get good at it. Making women your life is one of the most pathetic things you can do. Most dudes act like they’re still in middle school when it comes to chicks.
Boomers have the ability to laugh at themselves and don’t need to hide behind 37 layers of gayass irony and coping about gettin pussy when they’re in their 40s like the lamest nerd to ever finally hit a stride only when he’s half fricking dead
They had sex and kids and partied and worked careers and had irl friends for 20+ years straight by the time they hit 45 or so, so they just ride it out
They were definitely happier and more well adjusted and satisfied about their aging than any dork here.
This. Why would I bother wasting so much time, money, and energy trying to get with a 4/10 when I can just hop online and see 11/10 women all for fast and free?
It’s pretty tucking brutal.
I see a lot of posters in this thread going on about “being 35 and having fun”. I was like that too.
It really does hit different in your 40s, it can become creepy for you to be certain social groups when you truely start to age, so you age out of a bunch of stuff. Where in your 30s you can blend with 22 year olds.
And the feeling is you are really fricked if you don’t get someone soon.
>he thinks people want relationship for sex,
Point at him and laugh
>in your 30s you can blend in with 22yo
I'm mid 30s and look young but there's no fricking chance I could blend in with a zoomer crowd. Everyone born post 2000 is terrible and the same
Same age and the "friends" part is the hardest when they've all got families of their own. It's rare to get to spend time with them since theyre all busy with their families and when you do manage to get some time with them it feels like being on the hot seat while they all interrogate you for why you're not married with a family like them. I've learned that people really can't just be happy with their own lives, they have to simultaneously look down on every one else below them. For example, my one friend lived with his parents for a long time then finally got his own place. The very WEEK he moved out for the first time, he starts constantly asking everyone else when theyre "finally" going to move out on their own. The first fricking week he's already on a high horse looking down at people. Thats how people are with houses, jobs, marriages, kids. Just having them themselves isnt enough, they must also look down on anyone without them
Your friends suck, but your basic observations are also why I left off of interacting with old college friends once they got married (and predictably, divorced, at least in one case that I know about). Not out of resentment, but, they're busy with the woman/kid, that's the major theme for the next decade. Recently two reached out to me, but it's a very slight also-ran socialization catch-up thing. I visited an old friend about two years ago and he seemed to have a comfy house. I had the good sense to be polite, only give a small dose of myself and not overstay my welcome, leaving after three hours or so.
It's only depressing if you don't enjoy your own company
Also this, but solitude is my comfort zone. I suspect that most people aren't worth breaking it for.
The thing I noticed is that my friends and family that have girlfriends/wifes is that they became boring, they wish they had more time to do their own shit and they seem to be enslaved to what the wife/girlfriend think about how the use their time and how they use their money, I don't see many if any advantages to this.
That is because they married the wrong people.
My wife knows that I need my 48 hours a week minimum of me time spread across at least 5 days. I give her two consecutive days to spend time with me and then the rest of the week it's me time outside of meals, sex and Bible study
>don't see many if any advantages to this.
The advantage is you are not alone.
People will give up a lot for that.
That’s huge for people. Forgot the 40s, in your 50s it’s almost impossible without support, you throw your back out and you can’t even pull your underwear up alone for 3 months.
You don”5 want to be the guy looking for whoever is left over in your 40s
One thing I am eternally grateful for, is that I have had relationships/sex. I bet that if I hadn't, I would spend my life thinking "what if" and resenting what I never experienced.
I am heading towards my 40s being single. It's not so much that I mind or don't mind, it's that I have enough experience with women to know what it feels like to be in a relationship with one. Sometimes I miss having someone to be close to, but then I remember that 99% of the experience was her being a c**t for no reason.
It's all a mix of good and bad. The minute you're in a relationship you starting fantasizing about being single again. You have to make peace with whatever is currently happening. The only thing that is truly poison is the misery you inflict on yourself.
Yep, this. I sometimes think, I wish I could bottle the knowledge that it's not that big a deal and you're not missing out on much by not having it, so I could give it to my incel homies for free and free them of their FOMO.
>99% of the experience was her being a c**t for no reason.
Basically yeah
The ONLY gf i've got almost exclusively fond memories of was my first practice whale gf who was really glad i asked her out, she was one based unit i tell you what
the only women i have exclusively fond memories of are the once i had an intense sexual relationship for about a month when they start trying to get their hooks into me and eat my soul and i said nah
>Sometimes I miss having someone to be close to, but then I remember that 99% of the experience was her being a c**t for no reason.
Ideally it would be more like 50:50 angel to c**t ratio, but it's an important point that if you start a relationship with someone, and talking to them literally all the time every day for months, years, decades isn't enjoyable, then a relationship isn't going to make you happier.
So? First of all, you don't need to tell anyone. Secondly, if I would be an unkissed 40y+ virgin, I wouldn't care a damn about what others say when I trip to Thailand and eventually back with a that wife.
I mean what exactly do you really have to lose at this point?
i dunno, maybe if you have siblings or parents or something like that. anyone who knows, knows. If I know someone went to Thailand, I know about that person. people used to be more open about having traveled there. now they aren't so open about it. smart
I lived in Thailand for over a year, but I never engaged with a Thai - I had my gf with me. That's fine, but I enjoyed the chitchat in the girly bars with them, getting to know a lot of what goes down.
I just recently was there on Songlran, the Thai new years festival and had the blast of my life. Look it up on YT what it is.
I do not inflate a Thai journey with sex tourism. I am aware of the reputation, but it's only justified for people barely leaving their home.
I dont wanna spend time with women. It's so funny how such a preference makes so many homosexuals seethe.
NOOOO U MUST REPRODUCE/UR JUST COPING/UMMM HAVE SEX SWEETIE
Like why the frick do people care so much? I dont want kids or be around a woman, why am I supposed to want this? Because society says so? Oh you're gonna be a loser! Oh you must le hecking crave sexerino, your life wont be like a movie!!
Oh no braindead normies who already mock and think lowly of me won't like me!! You NEED their validation OK you just DO!
Biology wants us to reproduce with as many women as possible so go out and have 50 bastard children or you aren't human.
You don't have to. But I assume you are a human and you can't escape that, however hard you try
I'll just pay a hooker if I truly crave sex. Thinking a woman and a relationship will actually save someone from a schizoid personality is hilarious. You could give me everything this life can offer, it still wouldn't fix me internally. I still would be longing for greener pastures.
Nothing wrong with that but you seem to be getting overly pissed about it. If you already concluded you want to be by yourself you'd proudly present that and not worry about people who don't understand your situation.
It makes me pissy because such a preference is literally haram. It's worse to say that than to admit you are Ted Bundy cause atleast Ted Bundy is getting le hecking pussy bro! That's all that matters man.
The thing that is most perverse about our current situation is that having children is the worst thing that you can possibly do for the species overall right now (and for the born children themselves, but that's a separate discussion), and yet every individual remains hard-wired to want to frick, to feel the need to have children. To compete for no reason, and to no higher purpose. We're not getting off this rock. The best management would be to maintain a relatively low (as in pre-industrial) herd count so that most everybody can enjoy a first-world standard of living, but no one is prepared or capable of seriously discussing how to do that, because there's no external god or other system which might manage us. I like to imagine just teleporting fertile women's ova out of their wombs regularly until we get back down around 2-500M (the bottleneck for the species), but that isn't tenable. Actually the maligned "globalists" are right about this (we actually do need to reduce the population) but they don't have the power to do it in a humane way, so they can only engineer wars, vaccines and other less pleasant mechanisms.
The concern about population control in the latter part of the 20th century was closer to the truth, even though the underlying environmental concerns are unimportant. More recently ~~*everyone*~~ has taken an accelerationist tack: "why not just have a billion Americans?" China has likewise abandoned its old wise ways. Everyone just wants to be a stupid dumb ape and see what sticks even though the long-term consequences don't matter at the moment of your death.
We're not getting off this ball. If we were capable of rationally deliberating as a group, the thing to do would be to manage ourselves per the above. But that's not going to happen because intra-species competition.
I am sorry to bring this to you but
1. First comes my kids and wife, then the rest of close family, then my friends and so on... Then somewhen the society at large. I have zero reasons to change that.
2. Believing your kids would hurt the planet is a result of decades of environmental doomsday-affinity. As long as you don't produce 10 useless refugees, you are fine and don't believe anything else.
3. While a love this planet and the universe, first come my interests see above, because without my agendas, the rest is meaningless to me. And I am sure I am not the only one. I will not sacrifice anything. Believing you must sacrifice to help the planet survive is religious at best.
10 months ago
Anonymous
You're not saying anything interesting or unexpected, and you've failed to register the tension between "muh environment" and the more philosophical considerations. You're just an automaton doing what it does, and so am I.
Of course you care about your immediate family above all other considerations. That's natural, and etc as you said. That isn't an interesting remark, and it doesn't make you wise. Your central mistake is in 2, where you cope with breeding by thinking yourself better than the sub-saharan africans who poop out like ten or so of which six die, and sometimes for family survival (not that it matters). Quite apart from any environmental argument, there is an obscene proliferation of life in this world. I can't park anywhere. The point being that I would like most people to be able to park somewhere. I want a first world standard of living for most (those who deserve it, anyway), so that we can spread out in our limited space.
In point three you just double down on the human-individual automaton imperative stuff, ignoring the anti-environmental suggestion above. I don't care about helping the "planet" survive, as you say, I just want the whole species to be able to live comfortably. Carlin actually has a bit about this that is relevant. It's the stuff running around on top of the planet that's the point.
10 months ago
Anonymous
Nothing that I said needs to be interesting. In fact it's as interesting to you as is your post to me, as I read nearly similar, repetitive words countless of times. No offense please. Remarks regarding the value of my writings don't matter to me. My point was to make some points. You are human, you can't escape your biological programming. Try and you end in misery. Is that wise? It is what comes closest to objective truth or truth in it's most practical sense.
If you can't park anywhere then move elsewhere. Central America is as dense populated as Greenland with pinguins. Or go to Alaska. But stop complaining about your living situation when you are obviously choosing it this way.
>Because your biology says so, you moron.
Not him, but I completely lack the desire to have kids. Not "I feel the need to reproduce but decided not to" but complete absence of such thoughts or desires.
I like sex but never ever wanted a child or to impregnate a woman.
Nothing wrong with that but you seem to be getting overly pissed about it. If you already concluded you want to be by yourself you'd proudly present that and not worry about people who don't understand your situation.
This guy gets, it minus the memes/pent up rage. Who gives a shit how you live your life? Most people are braindead cattle and anyone who puts any stock into them is just as braindead. Frick normalgays, frick the government, frick people who tell you how to live, and frick the jannies.
Only if you are an autist like me. All my peers are married or raising their children. I wish I could blame video games but I never played them much as an adult. I was a loser in my 20's, and the trend did not break.
Don't be a homosexual like me, I am sure it rips for some people.
only if you've spilled your seed in some woman already and weakened your spiritual powers. if you've managed to stay pure then at 40 your powers would be quite formidable and you may daily know the pleasures of plying through arcane and esoteric texts.
>has a job >still gets pussy >has enough money to afford literal unicorn bottles of wine >WTF IM SADDDDD MY EX WIFE LEFT ME BAWWW
It's a great movie but holy shit does Miles as a character piss me the frick off almost as much as Thomas Hayden Church does
I mean, it never even began. Its all in the face and bla bla bla.... ok what are you supposed to do? Theres no choice here, you are either handsome or ugly.
And dont come me with surgeries. It all feels so disgusting, you are ugly and they hate you, they depise you, then from the blue you become magically good looking, AND NOW YOU CAN BE LOVED, previously you couldnt be loved but now you can. What does it mean love then? This cant be love. I mean is right there, is the opposite of love. So what are you gonna do? Nothing theres nothing to do. You stay alone because everyone hates you, and do whatever you want on your own.
>But You Don't Understand When I'm Attempting To Explain >Because You Know It All And I Guess Things Will Never Change >But You Might Need My Hand When, Falling In Your Hole >Your Disposition I'll Remember, When I'm Letting Go
Turned 43 last week. Haven't had sex in 4 years and no gf since 2015. Not bitter though, I had a few long term relationships and fricked around 30 girls (and no fatties, can't get it up for them).
Think I'm resigned to being alone. I don't mind it so much now and just can't see myself in a relationship with a normal girl and doing normie things, things have gone too far in terms of isolation and perferring to be by myself.
I put on a lot of weight around 40 and started losing hair, but the last 6 months have go back into great shape and shaved head. I've been getting looks from girls and there's 2 in the local shop who seem to flirt a lot and always talk when I come in.
So I recommend exercise and becoming comfortable with yourself and the situation. also realise maybe you're not cut out for the normie life. I think my ideal would be a stoner chick who just comes round to get high and frick now and again. I had that before and it wes good but she moved away.
not 40 yet, but i prefer being alone. actively have rejected women who approach me.
i am 100% antisocial though, so im not normal. dont understand why people get "lonely" i think it just means they are bored/boring people that need to latch onto others and pretend to have fun together
Hey calm down Chang, im just asking cause it changes shit. Your boys back home have a serious pussy shortage.
What kind are you? The snow bunny chaser or you stick to your own? What’s the ratio of Chinese girls out there? What’re your chances of love you don’t take it?
Absolutely take the deal. I'd love to have this kind of arranged marriage service available to me. Obviously you're Chinese so every other aspect of your existence is shit and you have a tiny penis, but you should definitely take advantage of that one benefit you get from it.
Unironically same, but I'm a Muzzie not Chinese. Not only was I offered an arranged marriage, my Mom in particular wants me to have more than one wife so that I can give her a lot of grandchildren. I talked her out of it for the time being because I hate women and one is more than enough, but she's very insistent. Already met a few women but I've turned them down for one reason or another.
Born and raised in the West, while also being ugly as sin btw. But even then, I have a shot and can even be picky. I feel for my whitecel bros who're basically abandoned by their family and community.
Of course. It's not right that your mothers, fathers, siblings, friends, and neighbors ignore crippling loneliness and isolation. If you're struggling they should make a conscious effort to help you, that's the human thing to do.
Libcucks always equate arranged with forced, when that's not the case. Arrangements just facilitate two people meeting. It's up to both of them to make the final call.
Stay strong brother. I wish I could help, but it's a white problem that needs to be fixed by whites.
Anyway, as shitty as it is, work with the hand you've been given and if you ever have children of your own don't leave them to the wayside as you've been. Though hopefully it won't come to that. Good luck, I'll be rooting for you.
Try 31. Get over it pussy, relationships are almost always serendipity. People who claim hard work and trying are "rewarded" a gf are fricking morons.
If you're really that self-conscious, I'd work on that first and then work on getting out there next. Apps, hobbies, whatever. Just don't give a frick, in the good way and maybe eventually it'll happen and if not, frick it.
Obviously I'd rather be married to a beautiful woman and have kids with her but I'm fine if I end up single and childless in my 40s. I think men will handle it a lot better than the half of modern women that will end up that way.
What's depressing? >Got a rocking bachelor pad >Gets paid to do what he loves (frick around with books) >Can afford just the right amount of wine not to become a total alkie >Can mooch connections and pussy off Gigachad friend
Like the other anon said, the grass is always greener on the other side. I love my wife to death but there are times when I miss being single. Overall I enjoy having a mate though. The companionship alone makes it worth it. It also helps we share similar interests.
Meh, depends. 100% yes however, if you're a woman. Women simply cannot be left alone with their own thoughts running through their heads, it's sheer torture for them. Men are better at keeping busy and being productive. Women need constant validation and applause.
Hitting 40 made me realise the middle east had it right. I mean I don't want to marry a child or anything, but if I could force some nubile 20 year old to marry me I would
>Is being single in your 40s really this depressing?
I basically had the life of those "independent" women who don't take men seriously then get old and realize they fricked up terribly by having done so, before finding a much younger woman and very quickly tying the knot shortly before turning 40.
Yes, it's depressing. Men may be capable of fathering children into old age but the chances of finding a woman young enough to do so and allowing you to after a certain point, slim to none. It's truly is very similar to what single women experience because you're exiting your physical prime, you can grasp the horrible reality of what being alone will force you to endure just to survive life itself, and the chances of that changing are fading fast.
It's not enviable in the least for most people and if you can't conceive of that without having it explained to you, you're either a literal child that needs a change of underwear or you're severely lacking empathy.
That's absolutely not true at all. Read the SMV graph posted above, men enter their sexual prime going into their late 30's and can comfortably cruise on it for a good 20 years or so while having their pick from many fertile (and fertile-ish) women who would love to get their hands on and secure an experienced provider with a stable income for themselves.
The problem is you're competing with many other older men who are taller than you, better looking than you, more successful than you, stronger than you and better with women then you are. You guys don't have a fricking prayer unless you win the lottery.
It's bad because it communicates an array of failures on the man's part, failures due to character traits and behaviors which don't lend themselves to being able to put down roots or tie himself to the social contract the way others have.
Most married men are miserable. It's sad you end up hating the person you cared most about. Some guys see it all around and don't want to take the chance. Who can blame them
I think most men are trying to spilt the difference and have long term gfs they never ever marry. I know two cop lies like this, both of the women are just amazing in every way, these dudes won the lottery.
It is all easier said then d
they're amazing because they're trying to trap the men in a marriage. once they trap a man and put that noose around his neck, that hangman's power changes their personality and dynamic of the relationship.
> changes their personality and dynamic of the relationship.
... And this is the exact type of shit that didn't used to be a problem back when no-fault divorce and feminism/wahmin's rights wasn't a thing yet.
It's the reason so many marriages end in divorce these days. And 80% of these divorces are filed by the prostitutes themselves. The stats have proven this.
Truly pathetic thread. Sounds harsh but many of you offer nothing to this planet. Over the age of 40 and you’re a kissless loser with no direction. You might as well overdose and die tonight and no one else would be affected by your death. Now frick off from my movie board
>Is being single in your 40s really this depressing?
No. By your mid 30's you stop caring. By you're early 40's you're happy to be single. 20's kinda sucks, though.
I'm a 31.5 year old who has not accomplihsed a single thing in my life and I'm a kissless virgin as well. I cannot even fathom the level of misery I will feel as a 40 year old. I desperately hope I am dead before then. I hope I gt the courage to kill myself within the next few years.
Same but I'm starting to get grey hair now, too.
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Not him but I can't. There's at least half a year waiting list to get to the driving test, and I need behind the wheel training before that and the only company that offers services to an adult also has a moronic waiting period. It's impossible to coordinate the two. And to add to the problem, the company only gives you 3 lessons but expects you to still be getting btw training from others in between.
>that offers services to an adult
How strict are the teen learner places? If you can pay will anyone care?
Work on your driver's license. Get out and start doing shit.
Not him but I can't. There's at least half a year waiting list to get to the driving test, and I need behind the wheel training before that and the only company that offers services to an adult also has a moronic waiting period. It's impossible to coordinate the two. And to add to the problem, the company only gives you 3 lessons but expects you to still be getting btw training from others in between.
only if you're a frickin homo
>only if you're a frickin israeli homo
fixed
No it's fantastic.
BASED!
None of that where do you want go,I dunno,where do you want to go?
How about somewhere on the way home?
I was hoping you could make a uturn,get stuck in traffic for another hour because that diner,definitely closed by now,has really good shakes.
You don't like shakes.
I won't order one,my friend says they are good,now let me tell a long story about somebody you don't know...
I imagine it's much much worse
I wish I knew.
>Is being single in your 40s really this depressing?
It was for me. You'll find out soon enough.
If you haven’t made peace with yourself then yes.
What depressing about drinking a 1961 Chateau Cheval Blanc St. Emilion Grand Cru?
>What depressing about drinking a 1961 Chateau Cheval Blanc St. Emilion Grand Cru?
That you're drinking it alone and no one cares what you're drinking.
what movie
Kys Zoomer
I'm 39
Kys boomer
YOU'RE 39 YEARS OLD AND YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT ALF IS!?
>t. cattle
Up
Sideways
Has it
Merlot Mavericks
Problem Chianti 2
The Hangover reboot
American splendor
Wine is for homosexuals
Since when do you get a plate at a fast food joint?
Clearly a diner
I was depressed at the beginning of my 30s and desperate, which really turns women off. Now at 35 I don’t give a frick, and more women talk to me and tell me I’m cool. I also lift though.
By 40 you might get to kiss one keep up the good work anon!
Tell you, you're cool. Kek. Sounds like you have many platonic friends.
Being married and misogynistic turns you into a pussy magnet. It's obnoxious.
yeah oddly the more you hate women, the more you get laid. i think its the process of learning how the female mind works and getting laid alot that leads to the hate for a lot of guys.
being an incel at any age is depressing but the older you get the more pathetic and depressed you become.
Only if you have no hobbies or drive. I have my drums, guitars, keyboard and piano. Thriftbooks and Librarygenesis give me access to more books than I could ever read. Video games, films, and shows are available at the touch of a button. I can mountain bike, rock climb, or go to the gym. If I want to get off I have fleshlights, and if I really want a woman I can visit a massage parlor. I honestly feel bad for most dudes. It’s even funnier when they get pissed that their women get sexual around me. I feel bad for most dudes still under the delusion that their women aren’t, at the very least, fantasizing about fricking other dudes.
kek i've never seen a post coping as hard as yours.
It’s less coping and more acceptance. Relationships don’t work in the modern world. Women aren’t women anymore and to be with a girl would mean I would have to go back to being a boy. I would like to have a wife and children, own a house in the country and grow my own food. Disconnect from the shitty society we’re currently living in. But almost all modern women are prostitutes. They want me to rescue them from their shitty relationships, but still be able to act like toddlers.
It's actually the opposite. Women will automatically think you like them for their body. No matter how much you try to convince them otherwise. No matter how many songs or poems you write for them. Ok fine b***h, I only like you for your holes. Not complaining if you make them available to me.
The reason they think this is because they frick dudes that con them into it. Girls are also very stupid. It’s why H.H. Holmes and Ted Bundy were so good with them. You’re using the plural them. You care about more than their holes? I doubt it. The fact of the matter is that I’ve been alone so long now that I don’t think I could be comfortable in a relationship. Not unless she was a perfect woman, and there are none. I don’t hate women. They’re products of the world we live in, just like the modern man. Do whatever gives you fulfillment though. However you see it.
Kid you're like 20, grow the frick up. "Rescue" them? Lmao
You won't land anyone, male or female, with that attitude
You’re the kid, and probably a modern woman. I promise once you get older you’re going to beat your head against the wall begging for a real man, and asking why you still end up in such dead end relationships. This isn’t everyone though, so maybe you’ll be an outlier.
Looking at 30-40 year old women on dating apps is fricking bleak. They have no thoughts or personalities they didn't get from pop media and social media consensus of the last 10 years.
I was playing a game for a while where I would rank women a 1, 2, or 3 based on the content of their profile. 1 was a profile that said nothing other than insanely generic shit like "I like travel!" "Food family fun!" "Equal time outside and inside is bae!", 2 was a profile that at least says something vaguely distinct like she's into classical music or whatever, and 3 is a person who seems highly distinct (specific things, how they relate to her personality). My threshold for a 2 or a 3 was very low, also. I didn't need her to be Albert fricking Einstein to give her a 3.
I expected the ratio of 3:2:1 to be something like 100:5:1, but it's much much more like 1000000:1:0. It's like women are literally afraid to even demonstrate a small amount of personality. I'd go on dates with these women (I'm rich and tall) and they'd be the same in real life, it's like a boring 21 year old airhead, but also extremely uppity and wants a lot of validation for being brave/edgy/smart.
I think women as a collective unit might be broken.
>They have no thoughts or personalities they didn't get from pop media and social media consensus of the last 10 years.
This. If less women were this hollow I wouldn't care but so many are like that.
The only interesting women to me are the really batshit crazy ones
I'm talking like BPD or schizoid type crazy
The problem is that they're extremely unreliable. One day they say they want to marry you and to carry your kids and have a family and the next day they're like GTFO you have no place in my life fricker
You can't really win with wahmin, it's either boring NPC's or crazy disloyal prostitutes fricking you over because they felt like it
>boring 21 year old airhead, but also extremely uppity and wants a lot of validation for being brave/edgy/smart.
An underdeveloped woman is as pleasant to be around as a catty dickless homosexual eunuch.
Thanks for the laugh bro, you’ve made it very clear that it’s a you problem, not women
Good job touching a nerve with the simps.
Real women still exist in religious communities, but they expect that you are a man (not a 30yo boy who posts on tv and games all day), and you also need to actually believe in God.
>REEEEE ALL WOMEN ARE prostituteS PAY ATTENTION TO ME
shut the frick up
I didn’t say they all are. And women pay a lot of attention to me. But I have zero trust in them, other than I’ll likely get a disease or get in a fight with a guy she’s trying to hurt or leave.
Based post making failed normalgays absolutely seethe
You're probably still in your 20's. In your 30's your interest in hobbies will begin to fade and you'll need to start taking long breaks from them in order to enjoy them again for a few fleeting days before the existential dread comes back. It's pretty obvious to me now that having a family of my own would be a terrific distraction from this.
No man, I love making my music. I also have a nice DSLR that I use for photography. As shitty as the world is, we have an infinite number of things we can do to distract ourselves from the pains of existence. What have you always wanted to do, but have let this site and the world around you distract you from it? Just do it, man.
Existence isn't pain, that's precisely the issue, existence doesn't make me feel anything. Fiddling around with machines and toys that made some other guy a millionaire, I don't wanna do it anymore, I want to have people who depend on me and look up to me. 11 years ago I had the opportunity to run away with a beautiful woman and her daughter and become a father but I didn't have the courage and now they're all I can think about every minute of every day.
You're fricked, and if you had made that decision you'd still be fricked.
Get yourself unfricked. You are the only one who can control your life.
Seriously man, get some professional help before you traumatize some poor kid by jumping off a bridge
well reddit just arrived, good thread while it lasted.
I’ll be 35 in August, and I love making my music, even if I never share it. I also have a nice Rebel Canon DSLR and am probably going to making videos for my songs. Music has always been a passion, but I had to save to afford all the gear.
well yeah, when you're a 25 year old incel you still have hope you'll find a girl and have kids or someshit. at 40+ you realize that it really is over for the rest of your life
Men's sexual market value peaks at around 38-40 if they have an established career by that point. Anything else is cope.
>if
Not necessarily. I am 40, and being single and well off means i have the absolute freedom to do whatever i want, whenever i want, and with the status of dating apps these days i can easily get my dick wet. With the amount of film, tv shows, music, books, and video games out there for me to enjoy, a girlfriend would just be getting in the way
sure, ideally i'd like i'd like to find the one that enjoys all the same interests, but i'd much rather be alone, than stuck in a relationship with somebody i'm not obssessed with
In order of most enjoyable:
1. A couple that are very happy with each other
2. Being single but happy with one self
3. being in an unhappy, or complacent couple
4. being single and unhappy
I'd swap 3's first point and 4, dealing with someone else's emotional bullshit in addition to your own is numerically twice as much bullshit to deal with
>don’t even try to engage the opposite sex
Fricking demoralization shill. Kys
Not my point but k have a you (You)
Literally yeah, dont even try. Truly pointless. Like whats the endgame, have kids? In this world?! Frick off. Theres no good reason to mate, beyond sexual release (just jerk off) and the illusion of not being alone
actually you're right, depends on the status of the relationship. but yeah if they're unhappy with each other than its worse
and as a happy single man, i look at some of my happily married couples and alot of the the time they are jealous of me
the time (and money if they have kids) i have to do what i want with, while they have to split it by half doing boring shit their wives want to do
It's pathetic that you're in your 40s and still using phrases like "get your dick wet."
nta but no it fricking isn't, moron.
consoom drone
I'm 22 and i hope that i will never end up like you
I’m on my second marriage. Sometimes I wonder why I did this again.
Tell us more. I'm staring down the barrel of middle age and wondering whether I should be this anon
or whether I should listen to Jim Norton crying on the radio about how hookers won't stay and watch a movie with him and he's so lonely, and just marry anyone.
just get a hobby
even with the amount of good films/tv shows to watch and/or rewatch you can keep easily distracted
Why listen to people being miserable and despairing. It won't make you happy.
Yeah but in this regard, never visit /misc/ again, would you?
Yes. It's honestly telling that you thought of /misc/ as I had thought of the exact same thing, that /misc/ is pretty much along with /LULZ/ THE board for this kind of wallowing misery.
I forget when I stopped browsing it but I rarely even go there to check for some happening like the submarine. Think I did twice for like 3-5 minutes each, and then I briefly checked it for French riot footage. That's it in something like 2 years now. It is an objectively an awful place. It's a majority schizophrenia or ESL demented madness with a huge dose of people gleefully trying to hurt other posters and bring them down emotionally. Their views have nothing to do with it - I'm honestly more anti-semitic since no longer lurking there than I was when I lurked there. If it was a place full of off-color politically incorrect ideology but it wasn't such a miserable shithole I'd be fine with it.
This pic isn't entirely applicable to all of Cinemaphile or social media, though it is to a significant degree. But it is 100% to /misc/. You can make a mild allowance that if you zero in and only and I mean ONLY read some current-events breaking news topic. But anything else and it's
>Why listen to people being miserable and despairing. It won't make you happy.
Not just won't make you happy. It won't make you wiser, smarter, more creative, more ambitious. It'll do nothing but make you feel sad. The cruelty is the point.
I 100% agree with that.
Also that you need a well trained filter when browsing it for news.
Well yeah /misc/ is literally a psyop testing ground and firing range for various governments and competing forces, the only reason anyone would go there is during a legitimate happening to get the scoop on things from the one side that wants to tell the truth to make the other side look bad.
Otherwise it's just a carnival of impotent rage and stupidity.
good post yes that makes sense
i went there during the russia coup was very based
Sound defensive and intimidated. I get it - /misc/ is too high level for many. Truth is scary.
Yeah? Vaxxies already died in two-weeks intervals?
Don't marry a random women just cause. A bad partner will cause problems.
>random woman
Some women (*cough* BPD prostitutes *cough*) are expert shapeshifters and can figure out like half of a man's character and interests just by looking at his face, and then they model every interaction around that, gathering even more information about him in the process (kind of a snowballing effect/positive feedback loop really).
They really make you believe that they're "the one" for you, it's insidious.
Their mask slips only when they've trapped you and made you emotionally invest yourself in them, then their nasty prostitute nature that has been simmering just beneath (and all the resentment, rage and destruction that comes with the package) bursts through and hits you right in the face with no warning. Real neat how that works
Yeah, i should have really vetted the prostitute even more thoroughly in the beginning. She tried to get rid of all her prostitute pictures once i found her other account but it didn't do her any good, lol!
Cluster B Studies should be a mandatory freshman high school class
>Some women (*cough* BPD prostitutes *cough*) are expert shapeshifters and can figure out like half of a man's character and interests just by looking at his face, and then they model every interaction around that, gathering even more information about him in the process (kind of a snowballing effect/positive feedback loop really).
>They really make you believe that they're "the one" for you, it's insidious.
its really fun to be aware of it and never take them seriously and just enjoy that initial period where they are swallowing your cum, begging to blow you while you watch football, free use grabbing their breasts ass pussy, beg-screaming for you to cum on their face while fricking, telling you all their dirty weird fantasies (live in their closet and come out at night while they are sleeping dressed as a teddy bear and rape them etc)
every young man should be made to take a year long course on this shit. these bpd women drive men to suicide, alcoholism or murder and are celebrated for it.
>or whether I should listen to Jim Norton crying on the radio about how hookers won't stay and watch a movie with him and he's so lonely, and just marry anyone.
Jesus christ, did he really say that? What a fricking moron. If you get involved with a crazy b***h, your life is over. Just look at Chris watts, his woman drove him to fricking child murder! I have a crazy lady in my home right now and I want to fricking die. Thank God I'm not married to her, who knows what is do. now I'm trying to plan my escape.
make sure the neighbors ring doorbell camera isn't pointing toward your oil drums bro
>Anonymous 07/01/23(Sat)12:03:51 No.186973358▶
what film?
I'm 38 and despite starting to get fat I've never gotten more pussy. 25-30 year old women love late 30s, early 40s guys as long as you have decent income and you're not a creep
i am very successful with women but i'd say 30-35 year old love late 30s -40 year old men
Theres very few girls under 29,30 that would date a 40 year old men (btw i'm talking high 7s and above)
I'm not dating women under 30. Two month FWB at most, usually one or two times max.
Hair situation?
Yes, you've basically failed at life. No amount of copes can help you. I've got about 5 years before I become this, and am actively trying to change, if I don't succeed I'll just rope by then.
You can't really go to restaurant by yourself at any age and not feel like a total failure at life, just gets worse the older you get
That's why you travel. That's the only time it's acceptable to eat alone at a restaurant. You don't want people in your community knowing you as that sad 40 y/o incel lmao
>You don't want people in your community knowing you as that sad 40 y/o incel lmao
oh yeah...that would be, terrible.
Hypothetically, what would you do if they did know?
I'm just going for the food and atmosphere. Never once felt bad about going to a nice restaurant by myself.
Sounds like a (You) problem
No one cares if they see you at a restaurant by yourself, they serve poison and goy slop anyways. What's really depressing is going to fairs, theme parks, or other attractions by yourself. Everyone automatically assumes you only go to those yourself, and if you show up by yourself then you must be perving on people. I always make sure to go first thing to events as soon as they open so I can avoid all the stares and awkardness, then leave around noon once all the normalgays start showing up en masse.
>everyone is… LE STARING AT ME!!! THEYRE ALL GONNA LAUGH AT ME IM NOT INSANE IM NOOOOOOT INSAAAAAANE
When you go to those places in a group I never ever looked or cared about other people. Other than looking a girls ofc.The acutal issue is that it's actually not as much fun alone.
That's genuinely nice of you but most people are not like that. They see you at a theme park for example by yourself and they'll give you weird looks.
Most people look at other people and then instantly forget them, doesn't matter who you are, especially in a crowded place
You really don't understand and I don't expect you to.
I'm telling you the truth, it's all in your head, people you think "give you wierd looks" will not even remember they even saw you within 5 minutes of your interaction, if they were even looking at you at all.
It's literally not.
Again I don't expect you to understand because you obviously look normal enough and go to these places with at least one other person.
You forget the normal people, not the weirdos.
I definitely forget the "wierdos" and the normal people because I'm more preoccupied with noticing if people are looking at me than spending time worrying about what some random person in a sea of people is doing.
You sound stupider than most people. Maybe you do lack the mental capacity.
You're projecting.
Dude if someone’s at a theme park and all that is preoccupying their mind is seeing a guy alone then they aren’t worth worrying about. They’re at fricking Disney or Universal and all that is living rent free in their heads is “ugh that guy was alone”
Only if you are bald and short
Being bald and short gets easier as you age, 40 year old women don’t give a shit because they’re just as pathetic as you are if they’re single and 40 year olds don’t typically get into fights
Only one left still giving a shit by 40 about height is yourself unironically
If your still thinking about your height by the time your 40 you should have just given up a long time ago
>dating women over 35 at any point of your life
Thats a big *yikes* from me bro
It's worse. Miles' character still had some hope.
If I'm single by 40 I'll just get a sugar baby or hooker. Zoomer hoes are financial desperate
It depends how you deal with loneliness. Charlie Sheen said it best, you dont pay the hookers for sex (getting sex is easy these days especially in your late 30s, 40) you pay them to leave
Sounds like Jim Norton has crippling loneliness and has too high standards for his own good
just be rich and vaguely interesting, then you can keep getting pussy into your 80s, its literally that simple
The only thing I miss is sex. I finally figured out that I don't like attachments and I'm not really great at playing house and going to dinner parties and shit, so it's best to not be married or dating. I really like my solitude, actually, and by the time I'm 55, I probably won't even be able to get it up anymore anyway.
I wish I could remember the name of the book, but some sociologist recently published something for the general reader about aging alone, and found to her surprise that most people enjoy it.
I think in the case of Miles, it wasn't that he felt alone as such, but rather that he met someone great and external circumstances fricked it up. Then the wound deepens running into his ex. It's worth noting how the film ends. If anything, the lesson is be careful who your bestie is. He might be an inadvertent wienerblocker.
you're me, anon. i kind of miss sex? but not that much. i have come to accept porn. also the women i can see nude in porn are women i would never able to get in RL, unless i became a completely different person.
Speaking of wienerblockers but both women and men are equally horrible for that. I’ve seen married men try their hardest to make sure their single buddies don’t get laid but I’ve also seen random women try their best for guys not to score because they’re bitter c**ts. If you’re a single guy never trust a friend or relative male or female because they’ll try to frick you over on purpose. There’s reason why there’s an incel epidemic because regular people want other men to suffer because it makes them feel good. Don’t trust anyone when it comes to trying to pick up relationships.
Women will also block you if they want your dick, even if they know they’ll never take it.
It is but at least in the modern age you have lots of digital slop to use as a distraction.
This is the real issue and the reason for this little group therapy session you all are having. People are hopelessly distracted by virtual fake shit.
Being a jaded 40 y.o divorcee single or a 40 y.o virgin manchild single?
Both are depressing but for completely different reason
Yes it's that bad, and then some.
Being single in your late 20s and early 30s is depressing because that's when all your friends are getting married and starting families. Being single in your 30s and 40s less so because that's when all your friends are getting divorced and having their lives destroyed by their ex wives and you realize you dodged a bullet.
This is where I’m at. I want a family but there’s a lot of work to get there but I really, really don’t want to be divorce raped.
I think younger people would be surprised by the amount of cope people go through to justify their marital status. On both sides.
Single people wishing they were hitched, married people wishing they were single. Friends being jealous that they can't do this or that like their other friends. Mostly people just want to keep up appearances with what they assume they're supposed to do.
The grass is always greener on the other side.
It's much worse
t. 1967 oldgay
Based Gen X. Drop some knowledge on us. How was prom in the Eighties? Did you frick a lot during the Reagan Era?
>1967
>Gen X
Just die already.
35 here, met a girl on hinge 6 months ago and tomorrow we are moving into a place together and i'm putting a baby in her. Proposing to her next month.
Congrats, but just curious, how old is she? Moving at that speed sounds like a woman scared she's running out of eggs fast
She probably is but one day you’ll be 35 and you’ll realize that it’s great to experience schadenfreude when terrible shitty people make terrible decisions and pay for it online but irl people do indeed tend to run the gamut and just because she waited doesn’t mean she’s some unrepentant Twitter prostitute and that you are also getting older and that even if your gun still fires full mags the idea of raising a baby and very young kid past 40 becomes much less appealing every single day
35 same as me
frick yeah bro you giving me hope, i landed a first date on hinge tomorrow.
Moving real quick on some prostitute app chick you've just met. Be careful bro.
Yikes . Praying for it to work out for you anon.
Allow me to give a non-bot reply and say you’re a complete idiot. 6 months, you hardly know this moron. Your lease that you’re signing will be for longer than you’ve known this person, and you’re gonna knock her up too? Absolute fool.
if you haven’t managed to have children yes
I turn 44 tomorrow and haven’t had sex since I’ve been 24
holy fricking shit
I have to admit I've been in a drought myself. It's mostly self-inflicted. After my last break-up five years ago, I just couldn't land a frick buddy via Tinder. They're all single moms looking for stability (and I don't blame them at all), but that's just not what I'm looking for.
I have a 40-hole body count, and most of it was in college, like half. In the last 20 years, it's been like maybe five.
At least you've had sex. 31 years without, and I doubt I ever will.
Well I had sex because as I met this girl in my last years in college (I was a virgin in high school) turns out she was an actual prostitute a prostitute who escorted in massage parlours and I had unprotected sex with her totally clueless. I also fell hard for her even though she treated me like shit I had no clue women could be that cruel and she did shit like rack up my financial debts and shit. By the end of it I was in the mental ward after nearly killing myself. So yeah I’ve had a twenty years drought because even after all that every time I try to meet someone either I get roped into another woman who just wants to use and abuse me or I can’t trust them. Also I am an attractive and fit guy but women weirdly just want to be friends and use me for financial and emotional support and won’t frick me because I guess I have simp written all over me.
I'm in my 40s and haven't had sex since I was a preteen. Get fricked you fricking normie.
No, not really. You get used to it. The relief of the burdens of others is quite saccharine.
Starting off my 30s now and I really don't feel ready for the whole relationship/kids thing yet... but I do want a family at some point. I feel like there's not much time left. I don't want be the old boomer with young kids.
I do enjoy alone time but the only family I really have is my parents which means that if I don't create one I'm going to die a lonely death one day
continued... I just want to bang some 50 year old milf right now tbh
Porn warps your mind, they’re horrible
why is that?
Imagine fricking older women who have way more psychological problems than a young girl? There’s a reason why widows and old maids were considered witches in the old days
Older women are desperate for wiener because they’ve lost their value. You’ll understand some day.
Imagine thinking every dude over fricking 40 can or will bother with even trying to please a 20 something girl
Right. I'm late 30s and only really care about a same race female with a good personality. Age, body, and face don't really matter anymore: I have a good imagination.
everybody dies alone dumbass. nobody wants to hang out at the old folks home
It can be. I know some people can fill their time with various hobbies and solo travel, but even as an introvert, I like to do those things with another person and I'd probably just laze about a lot if I was single into my 40's
if you don't take care of yourself and turn into a schlub then yes
Oofydoofxmaxxing is thing THOUGH
>Oofydoofxmaxxing
lmao i thought you were joking or on drugs/drunk, but looked this up and it's real
>Oofydoofxmaxxing
Qrd?
it's an incel-style pill you take when your ugly friend gets a cute girl. pop the pill & say he's "offy-doofy maxxing" - it's a way to explain how non chads get laid, while incels still do not get laid
>it's a way to explain how non chads get laid, while incels still do not get laid
The real explanation: they have a personality and can speak to women without being found revolting.
> There is an unknown factor that drives mating success that is not easily perceivable.
>Some oofy doofy theorists argue this unknown factor is pheromones, >immune system compatibility genes, blood factors, or a man's physiognomy (as distinct from his physical attractiveness.
This part is true though, either you have x or you don’t
>26 years old
>Dated only one girl
>Together for almost a decade
>Leaves me for someone else
I’ll probably be alone forever and might be better off
The fact that men and women work together now doesn’t help much. Women in the work place play games and thoroughly enjoy the games. They don’t need men anymore for anything other than attention and sexual gratification, so even if you’re sporting a big dick and a nice income, you’re still looking at something that isn’t going to last. The best thing you can do is find contentment with yourself, figure out what you’re passionate about and get good at it. Making women your life is one of the most pathetic things you can do. Most dudes act like they’re still in middle school when it comes to chicks.
>Together for almost a decade
>wasted peak fertile years
>didn't propose
Boomers considered this to be a "comedy" movie btw
Boomers have the ability to laugh at themselves and don’t need to hide behind 37 layers of gayass irony and coping about gettin pussy when they’re in their 40s like the lamest nerd to ever finally hit a stride only when he’s half fricking dead
They had sex and kids and partied and worked careers and had irl friends for 20+ years straight by the time they hit 45 or so, so they just ride it out
They were definitely happier and more well adjusted and satisfied about their aging than any dork here.
>Boomers have the ability to laugh at themselves
They don't, you are gay Boomer.
Who cares about sex? Just smash it to whatever depraved porn you desire instead. So much less fuss and usually far more enjoyable too.
This. Why would I bother wasting so much time, money, and energy trying to get with a 4/10 when I can just hop online and see 11/10 women all for fast and free?
is having some breasts in your hands worth the added BS compared to just wanking it?
In my experience, not really. Sure, it's nice but far from worth it.
Getting my dick in silky smooth pussy is miles better
It’s pretty tucking brutal.
I see a lot of posters in this thread going on about “being 35 and having fun”. I was like that too.
It really does hit different in your 40s, it can become creepy for you to be certain social groups when you truely start to age, so you age out of a bunch of stuff. Where in your 30s you can blend with 22 year olds.
And the feeling is you are really fricked if you don’t get someone soon.
>he thinks people want relationship for sex,
Point at him and laugh
You are weak. Being weak, you've made the classic weak person mistake of assuming everyone is as weak as you.
Yes I am weak, non weak people are not single in thier 40s silly, who do you think you are talking to?
>in your 30s you can blend in with 22yo
I'm mid 30s and look young but there's no fricking chance I could blend in with a zoomer crowd. Everyone born post 2000 is terrible and the same
I'm 35 and no, if you have hobbies, work out and have friends life is fun.
Same age and the "friends" part is the hardest when they've all got families of their own. It's rare to get to spend time with them since theyre all busy with their families and when you do manage to get some time with them it feels like being on the hot seat while they all interrogate you for why you're not married with a family like them. I've learned that people really can't just be happy with their own lives, they have to simultaneously look down on every one else below them. For example, my one friend lived with his parents for a long time then finally got his own place. The very WEEK he moved out for the first time, he starts constantly asking everyone else when theyre "finally" going to move out on their own. The first fricking week he's already on a high horse looking down at people. Thats how people are with houses, jobs, marriages, kids. Just having them themselves isnt enough, they must also look down on anyone without them
Your friends suck, but your basic observations are also why I left off of interacting with old college friends once they got married (and predictably, divorced, at least in one case that I know about). Not out of resentment, but, they're busy with the woman/kid, that's the major theme for the next decade. Recently two reached out to me, but it's a very slight also-ran socialization catch-up thing. I visited an old friend about two years ago and he seemed to have a comfy house. I had the good sense to be polite, only give a small dose of myself and not overstay my welcome, leaving after three hours or so.
Also this, but solitude is my comfort zone. I suspect that most people aren't worth breaking it for.
I'll let you know in two years
The thing I noticed is that my friends and family that have girlfriends/wifes is that they became boring, they wish they had more time to do their own shit and they seem to be enslaved to what the wife/girlfriend think about how the use their time and how they use their money, I don't see many if any advantages to this.
That is because they married the wrong people.
My wife knows that I need my 48 hours a week minimum of me time spread across at least 5 days. I give her two consecutive days to spend time with me and then the rest of the week it's me time outside of meals, sex and Bible study
>it's me time outside of meals, sex and Bible study
You sound like some psycho that chains his wife up in his flyover state basement
based af, PRAISE ALLAH!
ROASTIES WILL BE PUT BACK IN CUPBOARD THANK U COME AGAIN
>don't see many if any advantages to this.
The advantage is you are not alone.
People will give up a lot for that.
That’s huge for people. Forgot the 40s, in your 50s it’s almost impossible without support, you throw your back out and you can’t even pull your underwear up alone for 3 months.
You don”5 want to be the guy looking for whoever is left over in your 40s
You fat frick. Healthy individuals don't pull their back out at50. Frick, how old are you?
It's only depressing if you don't enjoy your own company
One thing I am eternally grateful for, is that I have had relationships/sex. I bet that if I hadn't, I would spend my life thinking "what if" and resenting what I never experienced.
I am heading towards my 40s being single. It's not so much that I mind or don't mind, it's that I have enough experience with women to know what it feels like to be in a relationship with one. Sometimes I miss having someone to be close to, but then I remember that 99% of the experience was her being a c**t for no reason.
It's all a mix of good and bad. The minute you're in a relationship you starting fantasizing about being single again. You have to make peace with whatever is currently happening. The only thing that is truly poison is the misery you inflict on yourself.
Yep, this. I sometimes think, I wish I could bottle the knowledge that it's not that big a deal and you're not missing out on much by not having it, so I could give it to my incel homies for free and free them of their FOMO.
>99% of the experience was her being a c**t for no reason.
Basically yeah
The ONLY gf i've got almost exclusively fond memories of was my first practice whale gf who was really glad i asked her out, she was one based unit i tell you what
the only women i have exclusively fond memories of are the once i had an intense sexual relationship for about a month when they start trying to get their hooks into me and eat my soul and i said nah
exactly. its ample experience with women that creates misogyny and volceldom
>Sometimes I miss having someone to be close to, but then I remember that 99% of the experience was her being a c**t for no reason.
Ideally it would be more like 50:50 angel to c**t ratio, but it's an important point that if you start a relationship with someone, and talking to them literally all the time every day for months, years, decades isn't enjoyable, then a relationship isn't going to make you happier.
just get mental health counseling from female counselor who is alone in her 50s and she will let you know you're doing just fine
i turn 34 in a few weeks and have never known the touch of a woman
I'll never understand in this cases why just not fly to Thailand, rent a house and stuff it full of hookers. Cost you under a grant.
because then you have to tell people you are traveling to thailand alone
everyone knows, and usually conclude you're doing worse than fricking women
So? First of all, you don't need to tell anyone. Secondly, if I would be an unkissed 40y+ virgin, I wouldn't care a damn about what others say when I trip to Thailand and eventually back with a that wife.
I mean what exactly do you really have to lose at this point?
i dunno, maybe if you have siblings or parents or something like that. anyone who knows, knows. If I know someone went to Thailand, I know about that person. people used to be more open about having traveled there. now they aren't so open about it. smart
I lived in Thailand for over a year, but I never engaged with a Thai - I had my gf with me. That's fine, but I enjoyed the chitchat in the girly bars with them, getting to know a lot of what goes down.
I just recently was there on Songlran, the Thai new years festival and had the blast of my life. Look it up on YT what it is.
I do not inflate a Thai journey with sex tourism. I am aware of the reputation, but it's only justified for people barely leaving their home.
SongKran
Sorry, autocorr
I dont wanna spend time with women. It's so funny how such a preference makes so many homosexuals seethe.
NOOOO U MUST REPRODUCE/UR JUST COPING/UMMM HAVE SEX SWEETIE
Like why the frick do people care so much? I dont want kids or be around a woman, why am I supposed to want this? Because society says so? Oh you're gonna be a loser! Oh you must le hecking crave sexerino, your life wont be like a movie!!
Oh no braindead normies who already mock and think lowly of me won't like me!! You NEED their validation OK you just DO!
>Because society says so?
Because your biology says so, you moron. People who don't want to reproduce aren't fully human.
Biology wants us to reproduce with as many women as possible so go out and have 50 bastard children or you aren't human.
I'll just pay a hooker if I truly crave sex. Thinking a woman and a relationship will actually save someone from a schizoid personality is hilarious. You could give me everything this life can offer, it still wouldn't fix me internally. I still would be longing for greener pastures.
It makes me pissy because such a preference is literally haram. It's worse to say that than to admit you are Ted Bundy cause atleast Ted Bundy is getting le hecking pussy bro! That's all that matters man.
So you have Schizophrenia. Might be that your women-aversion has something to do with it?
The thing that is most perverse about our current situation is that having children is the worst thing that you can possibly do for the species overall right now (and for the born children themselves, but that's a separate discussion), and yet every individual remains hard-wired to want to frick, to feel the need to have children. To compete for no reason, and to no higher purpose. We're not getting off this rock. The best management would be to maintain a relatively low (as in pre-industrial) herd count so that most everybody can enjoy a first-world standard of living, but no one is prepared or capable of seriously discussing how to do that, because there's no external god or other system which might manage us. I like to imagine just teleporting fertile women's ova out of their wombs regularly until we get back down around 2-500M (the bottleneck for the species), but that isn't tenable. Actually the maligned "globalists" are right about this (we actually do need to reduce the population) but they don't have the power to do it in a humane way, so they can only engineer wars, vaccines and other less pleasant mechanisms.
The concern about population control in the latter part of the 20th century was closer to the truth, even though the underlying environmental concerns are unimportant. More recently ~~*everyone*~~ has taken an accelerationist tack: "why not just have a billion Americans?" China has likewise abandoned its old wise ways. Everyone just wants to be a stupid dumb ape and see what sticks even though the long-term consequences don't matter at the moment of your death.
We're not getting off this ball. If we were capable of rationally deliberating as a group, the thing to do would be to manage ourselves per the above. But that's not going to happen because intra-species competition.
I am sorry to bring this to you but
1. First comes my kids and wife, then the rest of close family, then my friends and so on... Then somewhen the society at large. I have zero reasons to change that.
2. Believing your kids would hurt the planet is a result of decades of environmental doomsday-affinity. As long as you don't produce 10 useless refugees, you are fine and don't believe anything else.
3. While a love this planet and the universe, first come my interests see above, because without my agendas, the rest is meaningless to me. And I am sure I am not the only one. I will not sacrifice anything. Believing you must sacrifice to help the planet survive is religious at best.
You're not saying anything interesting or unexpected, and you've failed to register the tension between "muh environment" and the more philosophical considerations. You're just an automaton doing what it does, and so am I.
Of course you care about your immediate family above all other considerations. That's natural, and etc as you said. That isn't an interesting remark, and it doesn't make you wise. Your central mistake is in 2, where you cope with breeding by thinking yourself better than the sub-saharan africans who poop out like ten or so of which six die, and sometimes for family survival (not that it matters). Quite apart from any environmental argument, there is an obscene proliferation of life in this world. I can't park anywhere. The point being that I would like most people to be able to park somewhere. I want a first world standard of living for most (those who deserve it, anyway), so that we can spread out in our limited space.
In point three you just double down on the human-individual automaton imperative stuff, ignoring the anti-environmental suggestion above. I don't care about helping the "planet" survive, as you say, I just want the whole species to be able to live comfortably. Carlin actually has a bit about this that is relevant. It's the stuff running around on top of the planet that's the point.
Nothing that I said needs to be interesting. In fact it's as interesting to you as is your post to me, as I read nearly similar, repetitive words countless of times. No offense please. Remarks regarding the value of my writings don't matter to me. My point was to make some points. You are human, you can't escape your biological programming. Try and you end in misery. Is that wise? It is what comes closest to objective truth or truth in it's most practical sense.
If you can't park anywhere then move elsewhere. Central America is as dense populated as Greenland with pinguins. Or go to Alaska. But stop complaining about your living situation when you are obviously choosing it this way.
>Because your biology says so, you moron.
Not him, but I completely lack the desire to have kids. Not "I feel the need to reproduce but decided not to" but complete absence of such thoughts or desires.
I like sex but never ever wanted a child or to impregnate a woman.
You don't have to. But I assume you are a human and you can't escape that, however hard you try
Nothing wrong with that but you seem to be getting overly pissed about it. If you already concluded you want to be by yourself you'd proudly present that and not worry about people who don't understand your situation.
This guy gets, it minus the memes/pent up rage. Who gives a shit how you live your life? Most people are braindead cattle and anyone who puts any stock into them is just as braindead. Frick normalgays, frick the government, frick people who tell you how to live, and frick the jannies.
I need a woman, not a validation from society. If I like some girl, I don't care what others think. But an entire life without one seems really rough
Only if you are an autist like me. All my peers are married or raising their children. I wish I could blame video games but I never played them much as an adult. I was a loser in my 20's, and the trend did not break.
Don't be a homosexual like me, I am sure it rips for some people.
I'm 32 and no woman wants to have a child with me. It feels like time has run out tbh.
only if you've spilled your seed in some woman already and weakened your spiritual powers. if you've managed to stay pure then at 40 your powers would be quite formidable and you may daily know the pleasures of plying through arcane and esoteric texts.
>wizard at 30
>Faust at 40
What's fifty? Drunken russian cat with firearms?
Bitches can't get enough of my ass
I'm 42 and still a virgin, never even kissed a girl.
>has a job
>still gets pussy
>has enough money to afford literal unicorn bottles of wine
>WTF IM SADDDDD MY EX WIFE LEFT ME BAWWW
It's a great movie but holy shit does Miles as a character piss me the frick off almost as much as Thomas Hayden Church does
I mean, it never even began. Its all in the face and bla bla bla.... ok what are you supposed to do? Theres no choice here, you are either handsome or ugly.
And dont come me with surgeries. It all feels so disgusting, you are ugly and they hate you, they depise you, then from the blue you become magically good looking, AND NOW YOU CAN BE LOVED, previously you couldnt be loved but now you can. What does it mean love then? This cant be love. I mean is right there, is the opposite of love. So what are you gonna do? Nothing theres nothing to do. You stay alone because everyone hates you, and do whatever you want on your own.
You need to just be comedian bro
>But You Don't Understand When I'm Attempting To Explain
>Because You Know It All And I Guess Things Will Never Change
>But You Might Need My Hand When, Falling In Your Hole
>Your Disposition I'll Remember, When I'm Letting Go
Only decent song on that album.
Turned 43 last week. Haven't had sex in 4 years and no gf since 2015. Not bitter though, I had a few long term relationships and fricked around 30 girls (and no fatties, can't get it up for them).
Think I'm resigned to being alone. I don't mind it so much now and just can't see myself in a relationship with a normal girl and doing normie things, things have gone too far in terms of isolation and perferring to be by myself.
I put on a lot of weight around 40 and started losing hair, but the last 6 months have go back into great shape and shaved head. I've been getting looks from girls and there's 2 in the local shop who seem to flirt a lot and always talk when I come in.
So I recommend exercise and becoming comfortable with yourself and the situation. also realise maybe you're not cut out for the normie life. I think my ideal would be a stoner chick who just comes round to get high and frick now and again. I had that before and it wes good but she moved away.
You old as frick
Not him but the subjective time distance between 21-26 is the same as the time distance between 27 and 40
Enjoy
>remember when being over the age of 20 was considered old
Man this is a trip, don't take yourselves or others so seriously fellow channelers
People only lived til 45 not all that long ago
yeah, like 5000 years ago? Average 400 years ago was that low because of child mortality, not because most died at 45
Miles deserved it. He stole cash from his mom. He gets that sensitive, sweet, pretty, intelligent blonde only in a movie.
not 40 yet, but i prefer being alone. actively have rejected women who approach me.
i am 100% antisocial though, so im not normal. dont understand why people get "lonely" i think it just means they are bored/boring people that need to latch onto others and pretend to have fun together
pineal gland calcification is a hell of a thing. Years pass by like days, no more long boring summers you had as a kid.
meant for
My Chinese parents were like: if you don't find a gf by 25, we will arrange marriage you to this random chinese girl we found of same social class.
What do I do bros? Do I just take the deal? This doesn't feel right but I don't want to be alone.
Are you in China?
You might as well.
I'm in Colorado you fricking morons, my family IS Chinese though
Hey calm down Chang, im just asking cause it changes shit. Your boys back home have a serious pussy shortage.
What kind are you? The snow bunny chaser or you stick to your own? What’s the ratio of Chinese girls out there? What’re your chances of love you don’t take it?
>That response
Little Emperor for sure. Spoilt little chink.
Eat shit, homosexual. Watch your mouth.
>a chinaman on Cinemaphile
Are you a little emperor?
Why do Asians get to have this but whites can't?
Turkish wienerroaches do too, I citate Ahmet: "if you are too much dumbfrick to find a girl, papa must help"
Because of israelites.
i've found random chinese girls are stinky, so you should be proactive and find one with decent hygiene
Should've known you were the one behind all the Elliott Rodger posts Chang
Absolutely take the deal. I'd love to have this kind of arranged marriage service available to me. Obviously you're Chinese so every other aspect of your existence is shit and you have a tiny penis, but you should definitely take advantage of that one benefit you get from it.
Unironically same, but I'm a Muzzie not Chinese. Not only was I offered an arranged marriage, my Mom in particular wants me to have more than one wife so that I can give her a lot of grandchildren. I talked her out of it for the time being because I hate women and one is more than enough, but she's very insistent. Already met a few women but I've turned them down for one reason or another.
Born and raised in the West, while also being ugly as sin btw. But even then, I have a shot and can even be picky. I feel for my whitecel bros who're basically abandoned by their family and community.
Thank you for understanding our plait
Of course. It's not right that your mothers, fathers, siblings, friends, and neighbors ignore crippling loneliness and isolation. If you're struggling they should make a conscious effort to help you, that's the human thing to do.
Libcucks always equate arranged with forced, when that's not the case. Arrangements just facilitate two people meeting. It's up to both of them to make the final call.
Stay strong brother. I wish I could help, but it's a white problem that needs to be fixed by whites.
Maybe you towelheads aren't bad chaps after all
Cheers
I try.
Anyway, as shitty as it is, work with the hand you've been given and if you ever have children of your own don't leave them to the wayside as you've been. Though hopefully it won't come to that. Good luck, I'll be rooting for you.
Cheers and take care.
wouldn't know, got married in my 20s
Life is only depressing if you make it so. No matter your circumstances. It is a state of mind.
I'm single and I'm 27. I'm starting to get really worried bros...
Worried about what? I'm 30 and single and it's all good.
...unless you're a biological female of course in which case those eggs sure are fragile...
I don't wanna be single. I've only ever dated someone 3 months tops and at my age that's weird.
Try 31. Get over it pussy, relationships are almost always serendipity. People who claim hard work and trying are "rewarded" a gf are fricking morons.
If you're really that self-conscious, I'd work on that first and then work on getting out there next. Apps, hobbies, whatever. Just don't give a frick, in the good way and maybe eventually it'll happen and if not, frick it.
You simply can't give up. Find out what's wrong and fix your shit. Get a respectable friend group and branch out from there.
Obviously I'd rather be married to a beautiful woman and have kids with her but I'm fine if I end up single and childless in my 40s. I think men will handle it a lot better than the half of modern women that will end up that way.
What's depressing?
>Got a rocking bachelor pad
>Gets paid to do what he loves (frick around with books)
>Can afford just the right amount of wine not to become a total alkie
>Can mooch connections and pussy off Gigachad friend
Miles has got it M.A.D.E.
Maybe it was during the golden age (1980-2001) but now, in 2023, it's a blessing.
Well you can’t have friends because most dudes have families and that’s all they’re allowed to do
>most dudes have families
Gonna need a source on that
Like the other anon said, the grass is always greener on the other side. I love my wife to death but there are times when I miss being single. Overall I enjoy having a mate though. The companionship alone makes it worth it. It also helps we share similar interests.
Meh, depends. 100% yes however, if you're a woman. Women simply cannot be left alone with their own thoughts running through their heads, it's sheer torture for them. Men are better at keeping busy and being productive. Women need constant validation and applause.
Hitting 40 made me realise the middle east had it right. I mean I don't want to marry a child or anything, but if I could force some nubile 20 year old to marry me I would
>Is being single in your 40s really this depressing?
I basically had the life of those "independent" women who don't take men seriously then get old and realize they fricked up terribly by having done so, before finding a much younger woman and very quickly tying the knot shortly before turning 40.
Yes, it's depressing. Men may be capable of fathering children into old age but the chances of finding a woman young enough to do so and allowing you to after a certain point, slim to none. It's truly is very similar to what single women experience because you're exiting your physical prime, you can grasp the horrible reality of what being alone will force you to endure just to survive life itself, and the chances of that changing are fading fast.
It's not enviable in the least for most people and if you can't conceive of that without having it explained to you, you're either a literal child that needs a change of underwear or you're severely lacking empathy.
Always assumed this was the source of the 50s/60s mass shooters.
>slim to none
That's absolutely not true at all. Read the SMV graph posted above, men enter their sexual prime going into their late 30's and can comfortably cruise on it for a good 20 years or so while having their pick from many fertile (and fertile-ish) women who would love to get their hands on and secure an experienced provider with a stable income for themselves.
The problem is you're competing with many other older men who are taller than you, better looking than you, more successful than you, stronger than you and better with women then you are. You guys don't have a fricking prayer unless you win the lottery.
What was he trying to convey here?
It's bad because it communicates an array of failures on the man's part, failures due to character traits and behaviors which don't lend themselves to being able to put down roots or tie himself to the social contract the way others have.
Incels.wiki has a good article on oofy doof theory
Most married men are miserable. It's sad you end up hating the person you cared most about. Some guys see it all around and don't want to take the chance. Who can blame them
I think most men are trying to spilt the difference and have long term gfs they never ever marry. I know two cop lies like this, both of the women are just amazing in every way, these dudes won the lottery.
It is all easier said then d
they're amazing because they're trying to trap the men in a marriage. once they trap a man and put that noose around his neck, that hangman's power changes their personality and dynamic of the relationship.
> changes their personality and dynamic of the relationship.
... And this is the exact type of shit that didn't used to be a problem back when no-fault divorce and feminism/wahmin's rights wasn't a thing yet.
It's the reason so many marriages end in divorce these days. And 80% of these divorces are filed by the prostitutes themselves. The stats have proven this.
Giving women rights = Wrecked civilization
Truly pathetic thread. Sounds harsh but many of you offer nothing to this planet. Over the age of 40 and you’re a kissless loser with no direction. You might as well overdose and die tonight and no one else would be affected by your death. Now frick off from my movie board
Sounds like someone forgot to dilate
Sideways was a warning film. Like how do losers like that exist you know?
>Is being single in your 40s really this depressing?
No. By your mid 30's you stop caring. By you're early 40's you're happy to be single. 20's kinda sucks, though.
I'm 32 and have never been on a date, how are they?
Dates are like a job interview that lasts for hours
I really hope so, because I really love mocking them.
It's way worse. Miracle he didn't neck. 10/10 growing into boomerdom movie btw.
I'm a 31.5 year old who has not accomplihsed a single thing in my life and I'm a kissless virgin as well. I cannot even fathom the level of misery I will feel as a 40 year old. I desperately hope I am dead before then. I hope I gt the courage to kill myself within the next few years.
same
go teach english in cambodia or something. your status quo isn't working. disrupt it.
>loser over 30 moves to SEA
Nonce mode activated
>some loser tries something
>LOL LOOK AT THAT LOSER DOING SOMETHING LMAO
anon can never win
>When that woman finds out how I live, any interest she had in me will evaporate real quick
Lads how do you hide how you live from potential gf's?
You just gotta start living better
>being single in your 40s
purgatory
>having a family in your 40s
either hell or heaven
I don't know but I'm going to find out in 8 years.
No, i would say being a gay meth/crackhead in your 40s or older is much, MUCH worse than being a single straight middle aged man
>31
>hair thinning
>still get acne
>no friends
>no drivers license
>never been on a date or relationship
any tips?
Work on your driver's license. Get out and start doing shit.
I don't know anyone with a car and I don't want to be a slave to some instructor who's gonna judge me for first learning in my 30s
Why would the instructor judge you? You'd be a client. They'd be happy as hell if you stink and need twice as long to learn.
I started in my 20's and he didn't give a shit.
>that offers services to an adult
How strict are the teen learner places? If you can pay will anyone care?
Same but I'm starting to get grey hair now, too.
Not him but I can't. There's at least half a year waiting list to get to the driving test, and I need behind the wheel training before that and the only company that offers services to an adult also has a moronic waiting period. It's impossible to coordinate the two. And to add to the problem, the company only gives you 3 lessons but expects you to still be getting btw training from others in between.
Women are a meme
wish i hadn't missed a comfy sideways thread and now it's dead.