if you're even an average-looking dude then how are you not fricking even just a little bit? you supplement your real-life interactions with dating apps since the ROI makes it a braindead endeavor but, since you're average, your best bet is meeting people at work/school where your chances are much better than the digital meat markets. i'm not an attractive dude and 5'7" which would make you believe i'm completely invisible to women if Cinemaphile were to be believed but i'm able to maintain casual relationships with multiple women and, if i wanted, could pursue something more serious with some. i feel like most of you have given up on the idea of meeting someone without ever having actually tried. reality isn't what a bunch of lonely losers on the internet think it is, you shouldn't trust their word on it.
i smoked for 10 years and quit cold turkey because i wanted to. it wasn't even difficult. i dunno, people just love to complain about things being "difficult" when the reality is that they're just not doing enough to increase their likelihood of success. the world is much simpler if you can just proclaim the game is rigged rather than taking the responsibility. it's just sad cause it would only take a moderate amount of effort to substantially improve your own life.
What real life interactions with women? It's work, home, store, repeat. None of these girls on dating sites have anything in common with me or even like my profile back.
i don't understand your expectations. if you refuse to place yourself in settings where interactions can occur then why would you be surprised that you're getting zero interactions? you would have to be attractive for you to find success passively. if you need to ask if you're attractive or not then you're not kek. i'll even take you at your word and completely disregard work as a potential setting for meeting people (this represents a huge handicap), you still have your hours after work and your days off. it's certainly harder to squeeze in socializing after work with whatever responsibilities you have at home BUT you can double-dip on activities you could/should be doing throughout the workweek and make them social. if you're already physically active or want to be then opt to use a public gym from time to time, replace lifting with something like rock climbing or a yoga class, or something, anything. your days off are completely at your mercy, find a hobby to partake in and that's your avenue to making friends which opens the door to an established social circle.
I'm 6'5", pretty fit (205lbs), have a masters degree and a well-paying job. aside from the occasional hooker i haven't had sex in 14 years
assuming you're not horribly disfigured or smell like shit then you're simply refusing to try. you've got some full autism mental block going on. i don't know what else to tell you besides that. lots of dudes with a lot less going on can find partners and it's not that they're all special and you're broken, they're just trying.
I was the same till I was 21 then got a job working at a coffee shop. Eventually it just happened when I hung out with the girl (and by just happened, I mean I grabbed my nuts and went in for a kiss when she was leaving my place). Though it turned out she was a massive, massive prostitute and Im glad she told me her body count before I got my dick out with her. Even thinking that I kissed her grosses me out.
Over 100. She was 18. Yea, I know. This was back in 2010 as well, before all women became bawds from dating apps. I guess I should have seen it coming though, she was kind of a "free spirit". I played it cool when she told me her body count (I actually brought it up first, casually, as I pretend to be a very open person so people feel like they can tell me anything and not be judged), but I called it off the next day, saying Im actually not looking for anything right now after all.
To tell the truth, I don't really want to get a girlfriend or have sex, since I have autism and don't really trust myself with the responsibilities that come with having a girlfriend. Plus I feel like I'll be just fine by myself when I inevitably move out of my parents' house.
Plus if I find myself getting attracted to a girl, I'll just remind myself that I don't deserve a partner, on account of my disability.
I'm 29 and I have never even kissed a girl
That's unthinkable
I'm 34 and have never even been on a date.
Nice concept but it's just too unbelievable.
now youre just lying or just gay
this is an entirely unironic post.
if you're even an average-looking dude then how are you not fricking even just a little bit? you supplement your real-life interactions with dating apps since the ROI makes it a braindead endeavor but, since you're average, your best bet is meeting people at work/school where your chances are much better than the digital meat markets. i'm not an attractive dude and 5'7" which would make you believe i'm completely invisible to women if Cinemaphile were to be believed but i'm able to maintain casual relationships with multiple women and, if i wanted, could pursue something more serious with some. i feel like most of you have given up on the idea of meeting someone without ever having actually tried. reality isn't what a bunch of lonely losers on the internet think it is, you shouldn't trust their word on it.
>if i wanted
lmao
I am sure you can quit smoking anytime too, you just don't want to.
i smoked for 10 years and quit cold turkey because i wanted to. it wasn't even difficult. i dunno, people just love to complain about things being "difficult" when the reality is that they're just not doing enough to increase their likelihood of success. the world is much simpler if you can just proclaim the game is rigged rather than taking the responsibility. it's just sad cause it would only take a moderate amount of effort to substantially improve your own life.
>because i wanted to.
that's why. if you can't quit smoking you don't really want to, you just know that you should.
What real life interactions with women? It's work, home, store, repeat. None of these girls on dating sites have anything in common with me or even like my profile back.
i don't understand your expectations. if you refuse to place yourself in settings where interactions can occur then why would you be surprised that you're getting zero interactions? you would have to be attractive for you to find success passively. if you need to ask if you're attractive or not then you're not kek. i'll even take you at your word and completely disregard work as a potential setting for meeting people (this represents a huge handicap), you still have your hours after work and your days off. it's certainly harder to squeeze in socializing after work with whatever responsibilities you have at home BUT you can double-dip on activities you could/should be doing throughout the workweek and make them social. if you're already physically active or want to be then opt to use a public gym from time to time, replace lifting with something like rock climbing or a yoga class, or something, anything. your days off are completely at your mercy, find a hobby to partake in and that's your avenue to making friends which opens the door to an established social circle.
assuming you're not horribly disfigured or smell like shit then you're simply refusing to try. you've got some full autism mental block going on. i don't know what else to tell you besides that. lots of dudes with a lot less going on can find partners and it's not that they're all special and you're broken, they're just trying.
I'm 6'5", pretty fit (205lbs), have a masters degree and a well-paying job. aside from the occasional hooker i haven't had sex in 14 years
I hope you get raped
Trauma, not every trauma victim is a complete bawd.
You can’t convince the anons on this board that they stand a chance. It’s futile.
I'm 89 and never held hands
Me in 6 years
I m almost 37
I was the same till I was 21 then got a job working at a coffee shop. Eventually it just happened when I hung out with the girl (and by just happened, I mean I grabbed my nuts and went in for a kiss when she was leaving my place). Though it turned out she was a massive, massive prostitute and Im glad she told me her body count before I got my dick out with her. Even thinking that I kissed her grosses me out.
what was her body count
3
Over 100. She was 18. Yea, I know. This was back in 2010 as well, before all women became bawds from dating apps. I guess I should have seen it coming though, she was kind of a "free spirit". I played it cool when she told me her body count (I actually brought it up first, casually, as I pretend to be a very open person so people feel like they can tell me anything and not be judged), but I called it off the next day, saying Im actually not looking for anything right now after all.
I remember seeing this with my girlfriend at the time. We ended up getting into an argument about the ending. What a prostitute.
He's in nofap too. I don't think I've made it over a month.
Simply impossible
Is this poster implying your dick grows every day of not having sex?
To tell the truth, I don't really want to get a girlfriend or have sex, since I have autism and don't really trust myself with the responsibilities that come with having a girlfriend. Plus I feel like I'll be just fine by myself when I inevitably move out of my parents' house.
Plus if I find myself getting attracted to a girl, I'll just remind myself that I don't deserve a partner, on account of my disability.
t. 20 year old college student
lost my virginity at 25
The actual act of sex is almost entirely irrelevant next to actually feeling love from a girl
The Legend of OP: An Original Thread
Frick off.