They could probably get away with, if instead of >Ha ha! Warden is so dumb he doesn't know Alice is trans and wants to frick her!
They changed it to >Warden is fully aware Alice is trans, thinks that's great, and wants him to frick him.
Honestly they could probably get away with the same dynamic if it's still not really acknowledged that Alice is trans, I mean it's only explicitly stated in the show a few times, but most of the time characters refer to Alice with the right pronouns and everything, the biggest problem with her in the show is how she's mostly portrayed as vile and disgusting BECAUSE she's trans, which is where the humor of the warden liking her comes from
If they make it less that "she's gross because she's trans" and more "she's gross and just happens to be trans" that would probably be fine
no it still wouldn't fly because a lot of Alice's jokes revolve around her being not only transgender but also quite mannish and tough, it's not an issue that the warden doesn't know, that's the least of the problem. The issue is... I mean look at her. Fricking look at her. You think a design like that would fly? Never.
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Wrong, Cinemaphile also loves Otis.
I think it's just the fact that they're fun characters that were written before the "mandatory legbutt in every cartoon" era. It's like how kids ends up loving veggies if you just allow em to discover them on their own, of course if you shove broccoli down their throat and threaten them if they don't like it they're gonna grow to hate it.
I have at least one friend who likes Alice because she's basically just brock Samson despite the offensive nature. I feel like you could salvage her but it would involve a complete overhaul of her design.
But why would we want to? This i why I don't get the whole reboot craze, why would we take a product of it's time and start walking on eggshells to revive it in a new decrepit form?
Leave it, it was good when it was, don't bring it back because you can't bring it back just as good. Make new stuff.
Seriously all this rebooting is proof that the industry and networks know people love old media, but they can't seem to get it into their thick skulls *why* people love it, they don't understand how they can write new media to make it as good as the old stuff. Literal morono shit.
no it still wouldn't fly because a lot of Alice's jokes revolve around her being not only transgender but also quite mannish and tough, it's not an issue that the warden doesn't know, that's the least of the problem. The issue is... I mean look at her. Fricking look at her. You think a design like that would fly? Never.
The only tran Cinemaphile doesn't hate for some reason
Wrong, Cinemaphile also loves Otis.
I think it's just the fact that they're fun characters that were written before the "mandatory legbutt in every cartoon" era. It's like how kids ends up loving veggies if you just allow em to discover them on their own, of course if you shove broccoli down their throat and threaten them if they don't like it they're gonna grow to hate it.
But that would defeat the point of her character, she's a fricking prison guard she's meant to be rough
There was literally an episode where she tried being more sweet and feminine and realized it doesn't suit her
I'm trans and I like Alice, but maybe I guess If have to rewatch it now to see if I missed something problematic.
I think the character is fine though because everyone respects her, trans or not.
5 months ago
Anonymous
You gotta wonder if they named that character "Alice" since it's one of the most stereotypical troony names
5 months ago
Anonymous
Is it? I don't know many trannies but I usually associate them with gay names like "Luna Amethyst Silverpetal Rainblossom Darkness" or something Not to stir up any shit but why is that? And why is it only MtF's? FtM's always just pick normal names like... Craig or something...
5 months ago
Anonymous
Alice is a stereotypical girl name but I've hardly seen any trannies use it It's because the majority of mtfs want lavish attention and special uniqueness, whereas most ftms just want to pass as male and settle into society.
5 months ago
Anonymous
I think that trender men and women transition for different reasons
A woman is likely to transition when she's not actually transsexual in order to get attention, so they *do* pick weird names like "Dracula Bicycle Number 16 Cactus Prince" but they never go ahead with the transition and cut it out realy because that shit runs it's course by the time they turn 25 at most
Whereas men are likely to transition after being disillusioned with life and seeing that the grass is greener on the other side, that's why so many of them do it at the age of like 40, it's a middle age crisis after years of abuse or nonbelonging
5 months ago
Anonymous
Social moron armchair psychology is one of my favorite features of this website. Thank you.
5 months ago
Anonymous
>Noticing patterns is le psychology
5 months ago
Anonymous
It's not a pattern, you're making assumptions about men seeing the grass greener and women being attention seeking. Men as attention seekers and women as seeing men as advantaged are left out of the equation, something you can also use to invalidate trans trenders. There's no depth to what you're saying, you have an impression and now you can't state it as fact without consequence on the anonymous social moron site.
5 months ago
Anonymous
Or maybe violence is all you’re able to communicate because you’re a gibbering man ape
5 months ago
Anonymous
"Noticing patterns" is a lot more sophisticated sounding than "baselessly theorizing on a subject im unfamiliar with and have at best secondary information on"
5 months ago
Anonymous
Making hypothesises is literally the foundation of the scientific method. moron.
5 months ago
Anonymous
And it helps when it's based on good information and a sample size that makes sense and not just memes based on pronouns in profile twitter furries. It's like if I were to make an assertion on general sexuality using only memes about deviant art, I'd waste my time with hypothesizing around how much people like vote and why that is. Most discussion here would he useless because from the start the sample size is third hand and skewed.
5 months ago
Anonymous
Self reporting is the only way to tell someone's sexual identity, tho.
5 months ago
Anonymous
But you aren't just noticing self reports you're noticing the loudest, obvious, and memorable self reporters based on a sample size of social media posters. This thread of "why are their names funny" hasn't posed any names or real examples. I haven't seen any Luster Diamond Honey type names so I can only assume you're conflating screen names with their actual names. They may be cool or pretty names, but more often it's like Ellen to Elliot.
5 months ago
Anonymous
Quick question, whose more likely to have a theory about superman thats correct? Somebody who reads and collects superman comic books or somebody who saw superman parodies in cartoons and also watched man of steel? Like, do you think theyd have comparable understanding of the character?
5 months ago
Anonymous
>Trans people are just, like, a parody, mang.
Whoah.
5 months ago
Anonymous
>yeah id say im a sex expert, ive seen every judd apatow movie sooo
5 months ago
Anonymous
>You have to transition to be a trans expert
JUST
5 months ago
Anonymous
>why would i need to talk a girl before talking about girls if ive already read pride and prejudice and zombies?
5 months ago
Anonymous
That's not what that anon is implying. In casual conversation we apply meme knowledge based on what we've seen on social media. Treating that as anything but social moron armchair psychology exposes the want to come to that consensus based on that shallow information. It's better to go deeper and use studies or sample sizes that include people who don't put pronouns in bio or have twitter accounts at all.
5 months ago
Anonymous
That or to just keep your conversation as surface level as your knowledge. Like if all you know are the memes and secondary culure of something dont try to theorize on it, theres no need and youll just get more mixed up. I know a lot about computer nerd culture from exposure, i dont know shit about how computers work or how an IT department us structured. I could theorize that nerds compete by building computers and the fastest computer is in charge of the IT department because computer nerds are hierarchal and competitive, but thats a stupid conclusion to draw.
5 months ago
Anonymous
Pretty much this. Posting with even the modifier of "from what I've seen" still needs to come with something to back that up when it's as crazy as "from what I've seen, men become trans when they think that grass is greener on the other side" without even applying that to women going trans, makes it even more wild. It exposes more about the assumptions you're making about people than it is anything you're neutrally observing. You don't see MtF trans saying "yeah I just wanted a man to provide for me and for dudes to get the door" so it's an assumption trying to pass as something observed.
5 months ago
Anonymous
>You don't see MtF trans saying "yeah I just wanted a man to provide for me and for dudes to get the door"
Christ... You're hopeless. MtFs are tired of nit having a GF and being ignored as a disposable loser so they seek to shed the misandrist shackles of being a low status male by attempting to jump to being a female. They aren't looking for chivalry, they're running away from being called a creep for attempting chivalry.
5 months ago
Anonymous
Akshually hes called "Robin" because Batman saved him from a life of crime, his name is a reminder he wont do no more robin' anymore.
Source: i have seen every george clooney batman movie and several meme pages
5 months ago
Anonymous
What's that based on?
5 months ago
Anonymous
The incel to troony pipeline. They get warped with loneliness and sadness until they decide to become the GF. That's what all these """Transbians""" are about.
I do think both FtM and MtF are both green grassing through. FtMs are always regret posting about how nobody cares about them and it's impossible to make friends.
5 months ago
Anonymous
>The incel to troony pipeline
Meaning and referencing what series of facts you can objectively demonstrate?
5 months ago
Anonymous
>FtMs are always regret posting about how nobody cares about them and it's impossible to make friends.
To elaborate, FtMs often seem to be running from being sexualized or expected to reproduce or think that life as a man will be nothing but their sexist mental stereotypes about unearned confidence and society bending over and offering itself up just because you're male.
5 months ago
Anonymous
I know you feel that way, but where did you come up with this theory and what is it based on that you can show us? Do you have one fact?
5 months ago
Anonymous
>what is it based on that you can show us? Do you have one fact?
Again: I have reality. Years of careful observation of reality. It just so happens anytime an e-celeb I follow troons out, it was obvious from a mile away because they'd RP as a fricking lesbian MILF their DnD sessions and shit. Just as an easy example.
If you're gonna spew about MUH STUDIES and MUH SOURCES you can shut the frick up and save us both some time.
5 months ago
Anonymous
>if you're going to post scientific evidence well I wont read any of it because my delusions are all I have got and I've decided they will never change
5 months ago
Anonymous
Not that guy, but if experience and observations don't count for anything, wouldn't that then mean that documented evidence is therefore rendered invalid because those things are compilations of experiences and observations?
5 months ago
Anonymous
>sample sizes and scientific method and sheeeit are the same as random anecdotal experiences
Is this the power of American public education?
5 months ago
Anonymous
You're a dishonest piece of shit. All social/psychological science is deeply political. What I can point at is how often young troons have about 2-3 other mental illnesses and then they get treated for gender dysphoria as if it'll solve all their other issues. There's SHITTONS of data about that now.
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Your theory....is based on memes? Thats not credible. Get away from me.
>memes
No, literal directly observed life experience.
5 months ago
Anonymous
Comorbid conditions are common, what us supposed to be unusual or even disqualifying about them? It stands to reason youd have many issues at once.
5 months ago
Anonymous
>All social/psychological science is deeply political. What I can point at is how often young troons have about 2-3 other mental illnesses and then they get treated for gender dysphoria as if it'll solve all their other issues. There's SHITTONS of data about that now.
So then post some rather than having a meltie over the possibility someone else might do it. You're just screaming into the void rather than using the one thing that ever has any hope of convincing people.
>no direct answer, just use "muh Amerimutt memes"
You are stupid. There's really no point in getting into it. If you're such a gorilla moron Black person that you don't understand why
Not that guy, but if experience and observations don't count for anything, wouldn't that then mean that documented evidence is therefore rendered invalid because those things are compilations of experiences and observations?
is an incredibly stupid thing to waste your time writing, and believe that random anecdotal evidence is equivalent to elaborate studies, then you are too stupid to talk to. I would tell you to have a nice day but you exist to be a Walmart greeter, pay taxes and be something for parents to point at and tell their kids "look, that's a moron, you don't ever want to be as stupid as that dumb motherfricker."
5 months ago
Anonymous
>huuur, yur dum
Not an argument. Good job showing that your so-called stance means nothing if you're this ready and willing to just write somebody off as intellectually inferior so easily
5 months ago
Anonymous
It's not meant to be an argument, I am making fun of you for being a moron.
5 months ago
Anonymous
>it's not meant to be an argument
Except it literally is, but hey, be the pot calling the kettle a Black person
5 months ago
Anonymous
>no direct answer, just use "muh Amerimutt memes"
5 months ago
Anonymous
No those things have more inherent value because they measure, contextualize, evaluate the veracity of and compare multiple observations at once and arrive at hard conclusions often rooted in statistical fact.
What anon is doing is noticing its hot today and deciding that if observable climate trends continue itll be 200 degrees in a few months.
5 months ago
Anonymous
>you can't have a solid outlook on things because you aren't sharing your experiences with others and compiling the data!
Gee, guess that means nobody can be empathetic whatsoever because they aren't sharing their life's experience with several others to make sure their senses all align
5 months ago
Anonymous
>FtMs are always regret posting about how nobody cares about them and it's impossible to make friends
Wow so theyre in the same boat as modern men, what a shock
5 months ago
Anonymous
>Wow so theyre in the same boat as modern men, what a shock
That's the thing. They transition and realize the grass wasn't even REMOTELY greener and realize all they did was riup up their pussy pass. It proves they were hoping life as a man is better/easier.
>The incel to troony pipeline
Meaning and referencing what series of facts you can objectively demonstrate?
>Meaning and referencing what series of facts you can objectively demonstrate?
All the obvious AGPs who have pornbrain. All the cartoonish non-passing sexist caricature-type troons. These are men hoping that as a woman, they can get laid and LARP as a sexist fantasy.
5 months ago
Anonymous
Transmaxxing is a newer meme and it's specific to niche internet culture. It doesn't make sense to bring that up when addressing MtF broadly unless you're going to make it clear that that's an example you are pulling from.
>what is it based on that you can show us? Do you have one fact?
Again: I have reality. Years of careful observation of reality. It just so happens anytime an e-celeb I follow troons out, it was obvious from a mile away because they'd RP as a fricking lesbian MILF their DnD sessions and shit. Just as an easy example.
If you're gonna spew about MUH STUDIES and MUH SOURCES you can shut the frick up and save us both some time.
Your theory....is based on memes? Thats not credible. Get away from me.
5 months ago
Anonymous
Transmaxxing is a newer meme and it's specific to niche internet culture. It doesn't make sense to bring that up when addressing MtF broadly unless you're going to make it clear that that's an example you are pulling from.
5 months ago
Anonymous
>Transmaxxing
Shut the frick up I don't even know what that is >specific to niche internet culture
No it's not. Young men watch porn too much and end up associating female sexual behavior with their own sexual pleasure. Eventually they identify with the prostitute sucking the wiener and not the stud getting sucked after years of jacking off to women sucking wieners.
>if you're going to post scientific evidence well I wont read any of it because my delusions are all I have got and I've decided they will never change
You don't have scientific evidence, you're demanding I produce studies to back up years of observation and personal experience.
ALL troons are sexist caricatures. ALL troons are regressive anti-gay conversion therapy victims. ALL troons would be happy just being NGC.
Pic related: What happens when we blur gender lines.
5 months ago
Anonymous
I don't know what you two are arguing about, I just find it entertaining you would dismiss any sort of academic studies that demonstrate something. The troon epidemic is a forked problem anyway. It's everything from over-exposure to porn as you describe, to womens' birth control in the water supply, to society stomping on men in the legal system and pop culture.
5 months ago
Anonymous
>you would dismiss any sort of academic studies that demonstrate something.
I'm lnot dismissing anything. I would, but that's not me. >The troon epidemic is a forked problem anyway. It's everything from over-exposure to porn as you describe, to womens' birth control in the water supply, to society stomping on men in the legal system and pop culture.
Yeah okay so we mostly agree and you just think I'm the other guy. I'm not.
No those things have more inherent value because they measure, contextualize, evaluate the veracity of and compare multiple observations at once and arrive at hard conclusions often rooted in statistical fact.
What anon is doing is noticing its hot today and deciding that if observable climate trends continue itll be 200 degrees in a few months.
>and deciding that if observable climate trends continue itll be 200 degrees in a few months.
Nope. I'm saying the vast vast majority of troons are just deeply sick and that affirmation is a disgusting trick we play on them. Let men wear dresses and boys own dolls without chemically castrating them like a fricking Nazi.
5 months ago
Anonymous
>Nope. I'm saying the vast vast majority of troons are just deeply sick
An assumption based purely on your emotions.
5 months ago
Anonymous
>The incel to troony pipeline. They get warped with loneliness and sadness until they decide to become the GF.
You're describing transmaxxing. With all the therapy they need to go through and all the comorbidities that get freely cited even by anti-trans people, there isn't anything to support that beyond online subculture meme groups. It's a demographic, but it's a new online one that actually is full of trenders.
5 months ago
Anonymous
>It's a demographic, but it's a new online one that actually is full of trenders.
Does any of that change the relevance? No. You're just trying to deflect.
Comorbid conditions are common, what us supposed to be unusual or even disqualifying about them? It stands to reason youd have many issues at once.
> It stands to reason youd have many issues at once.
Yeah but... let's say you have BPD, Autism and Depression..... Do you think HRT moodswings or painful body mutilation surgery are gonna make it easier to carry those other burdens? Do you think somebody with severe social anxiety really needs to add the layer of "passing" and being "misgendered" to their issues?
5 months ago
Anonymous
It's not a deflection, it's acknowledging that trenders exist and points to the ones you're speaking of.
5 months ago
Anonymous
Anon, trenders existing at all almost invalidates the entire thing. It used to be less than 1% of people. Perhaps those people are trenders too.
5 months ago
Anonymous
How so? A discord group of doomers doesn't invalidate people actually going to therapy.
5 months ago
Anonymous
Yes but the true groomers are the people teaching kids to be left handed instead of beating that sin out of them. Now its trendy to be left handed and we're up to ears in trenderhanders. The normal number has been eclipsed by all these fakes invalidating the whole concept.
5 months ago
Anonymous
This. People's acceptance of left handedness is hypnotizing them into becoming left handed. Keep that shit at home, it won't be tolerated.
5 months ago
Anonymous
>incel to troony pipeline
I wonder why people never consider the reverse (that being trans predisposing you to being an incel)
5 months ago
Anonymous
Neither have sex, both have given up, both are insufferable when given access to the internet.
5 months ago
Anonymous
You'd think they'd be able to find common ground instead of hating each other then, like with femcels
5 months ago
Anonymous
You do know that most of the studies around that are used to support these movements are done through social media observations, right?
5 months ago
Anonymous
They are not. Because thats made up, id like to invite you to prove it or even just source it to whoever lied to you initially.
5 months ago
Anonymous
You're confusing clickbait articles with studies. Which studies are you speaking of?
5 months ago
Anonymous
>Full on no true scottsman
I accept your concesion.
5 months ago
Anonymous
A clickbait article literally isn't a study.
5 months ago
Anonymous
ehere the frick do you think we are, anon? everything is thread is 100% observation none of us have any qualifications
if you didn't wanna see it you shouldn't have entered the designated bait thread
5 months ago
Anonymous
It'd be fun if it led to articles about attention issues or perceived advantage or even examples, but instead it's just awkward fricks who haven't held a hand repeating "hmmm the femoid brain cannot conceptualize an apple rotating and therefore they want to wear pants and dye their hair and the doomer blackpilled male wants a free ride".
5 months ago
Anonymous
anon the post you're replying to literally never said any of this you just invented a guy in your head to get angry over
5 months ago
Anonymous
>autismos can't into humor
Sad.
5 months ago
Anonymous
That was a joke?
5 months ago
Anonymous
"Evolutionarily speaking the femoid species learned to wear pink because is the color, i presume, of 'pussy', and so pink is the womanly color as this 'pussy' surely is a part of sex...."
5 months ago
Anonymous
"It is unspeakably cruel for women to expect men to fall in line in professional spaces where they wear makeup that simulate sex". Still better than "men castrate themselves like the advisers of royalty before for power".
5 months ago
Anonymous
>"It is unspeakably cruel for women to expect men to fall in line in professional spaces where they wear makeup that simulate sex".
The fact that some dipshit would unironically say this and not understand how insane it sounds is the cherry on top
5 months ago
Anonymous
Its somewhat generational, alice in wonderland was a unisex story boys and girls were both shown growing up and it has an innocent female lead being lead into a strange world. Being trans is very strange and since the new name is new, you dont have much associated with it to begin with. So alice is something a lot of gen x and boomer trans women reached for. But its more stereotype than statistic. The equvivalent for ftms is something like Aiden, Jayden, Braydon or Cedar.
5 months ago
Anonymous
>Aiden, Jayden, Braydon or Cedar
I literally never heard those names they all sound like something a suburban mom would name you
They love their "Ay-" sounds
5 months ago
Anonymous
The stereotype is that ftms are named like a suburban mom named their specialest little man ever, mtfs are named like a suburban mom writing a self insert YA witch character
That's adjacent to the point. Much like how badly cooked broccoli will turn people off of broccoli entirely, poorly written xyz characters will turn people off of xyz characters entirely.
5 months ago
Anonymous
fair point
i think what annoys me, and im sure plenty others, about modern legbutt characters is that it feels like you HAVE to like them, the writer didn't write a character who happens to be gay or transgender and they didn't write a gay or transgender character who's role and identity revolves around that like Alice
they wrote a sextoy, a sextoy for themselves to jerk off their ego with
and the worst part is now i cant even write my own queer character because half the audience will go "OH MAH GAWD IT'S A QUEER THE SHOW MUST BE SHIT" (and frankly i can't blame em, because so many shows just use queer characters to hide their flaws) and the other half of the audience will go "OH QUEER CHARACTER? QUEER? ME? ME ME ME? IM QUEER, MY CARTOON NOW, I DECIDE EVERYTHING, GEMME GEMME YOUR SHOW MINE NOW!"
Otis isn't trans.
He has an udder because the character designers genuinely believed that people were so moronic that they wouldn't know that bulls are male cows. His dad was calling him a fricking sissy in that scene.
Anons forget that whole treated as Manish and strong Alice was also seen as a sex icon not for just the Warden. She was the one several aliens wanted to dick and even after the jail closed for awhile she got into porn and was making good money but I think it wasn't fulfilling. Alice could get away now with a little bit of polish. I honestly want an instance of a non passing troon but in a positive light. Something the non passing troons can look to as a good role model. Accept who they are but also acknowledge the good and bad.
100%, it's narrative space that's rarely explored because it's not trans people in a way that's comfortable for normies, because normies don't want to think about trans people with more nuance than "trans people bad and gross" or "trans women are women there is no difference" and see any of the real difficulties. Which I get, normies are the majority of the market, but it is why you rarely get any kind of trans characters that aren't one of the former two categories in anything big.
But yeah I think the anons that said she needed just a bit more polish and a slightly different focus in terms of jokes was correct. I know trans people that almost like Alice, that feel like she just barely misses the mark and otherwise would really well represent people that can't/won't pass.
Although were such a character made today, we might also get into the funny area where normies are pissed off on the behalf of trans people, while most trans people are fine with it.
It's honestly crazy to me that spanking your kids is actual abuse now. I was a shithead kid and I got into shit that deserved an ass whipping, I can't imagine how jarring it must be to see little gays throw tantrums in stores and knowing the parent can't take them to the car and smack them for acting stupid in public
It's honestly crazy to me that abusing your kids is actual abuse now
I'm sorry you were abused as a kid, take my advice and get some help because you clearly haven't recovered if you still believe that hitting children is even slightly rational
Humans are animals, young animals often respond best to physical punishment. Obviously the line between abuse and discipline is narrow and needs to be watched but you're just moronic if you think there's no room for physical reprimand in parenting
Again, humans more than "just animals," we are animals, sure, but we are significantly more complex than say when you swat a dog for pooing on the rug, vs when you swat a child for throwing a temper tantrum, if you'd actually learn why very young kids throw tantrums and the proper way to deal with them so they learn how to grow out of that behavior (which can be done without violence, and in fact doing so has proven to make healthier, happier people) then you'd realize that no, putting your hand on a child is never acceptable under any circumstances
A human child does not automatically connect the dots that "if I do this and get hit by my parents over it, it means I shouldn't do it" it's more like "I did this innocuous thing in front of my parents and it made them mad at me, they must not like me, I need to be very careful about anything I do around them or else they might get mad at me again"
Again, we are not pavlovian creatures. We are much more complex than that.
5 months ago
Anonymous
Sounds like you didn't get smacked enough as a kid and that's why you're this moronic
5 months ago
Anonymous
I had my fair share of spankings, shoutings, and being grabbed by the neck and dragged across the backyard, thank you very much
5 months ago
Anonymous
It's always the same hysterical gays that oppose beatings, just look at the posts here. I'm not partial to blind violence either, but if reasonable beatings do anything it's not make complete pussies out of men. We need Stalin's beatings.
Funny you say that, because animals don't always associate something they were doing with negative feelings, which you equated to what children do. Sometimes, perhaps even often, they associate the causer of the negative feelings with those negative feelings.
>ITT South Americans and rednecks justifying child abuse
You are all literally subhuman filth. >inb4 you just weren’t spanked maaan
I promise you, I was hit more than you homosexuals ever were. I thank god none of you will breed.
Classist.
We have the lowest crime rates in human history, world wide. Stop watching the news, they're lying to get the ad revenue from people trying to sell you bunkers and canned beans.
Speaking of corporate influence, I'm wondering if there hasn't been a concentrated effort to make parents pushovers so they'll buy whatever their kids want. Western science is just as corrupted with capitalism as any other facet of our society, contrary to what boot-licking socdems/American liberals claim. Ah but no, it's just the political "other" that's the problem. It can't possibly be that the bourgeoisie find and exploit any political "side", no way.
5 months ago
Anonymous
>we need an insane, paranoid, power-hungry butthole
Come on homosexual, even the commies don't like Stalin anymore.
5 months ago
Anonymous
>subhuman communist who worships Stalin likes the idea of smacking kids around
What a shock.
5 months ago
Anonymous
I dunno when my mom spanked me for acting up in school I absolutely understood its because I was acting up in school. Probably cuz she told me it was for acting up in school and I wasnt moronic.
5 months ago
Anonymous
And I'm sure afterwards you became a lovely little well behaved boy and never caused you mom any more problems of course?
5 months ago
Anonymous
>A human child does not automatically connect the dots that "if I do this and get hit by my parents over it, it means I shouldn't do it"
All animals make these simple connections. >it's more like "I did this innocuous thing in front of my parents and it made them mad at me
This only happens if you hit them no matter what they do which causes learned helplessness, this is why you 1: Tell them why they got hit, and 2: Also use positive reinforcement when they do things correctly. > we are not pavlovian creatures.
We are
5 months ago
Anonymous
Guessing you kept touching the hot stove well into your teens.
Anyone hitting their kids for tantrums is a bad, lazy parent. There are however zcenarios where it's at least arguable that physical punishment is preferable. I'll give three
-Child is constantly, repeatedly engaging in dangerous behavior that will inevitably lead to terrible consequences before you are able to reason with them. Imagine a child is yanking the ears of every dog they see and refuses any attempts to reason with them
-A child is physically abusive to other children and is not learning from verbal communication . Several other children don't deserve physical pain and abuse because a parent refuses to discipline their own
-The child literally cannot understand your reasoning and continued verbal efforts start to become abusive themselves (though admittedly 9/10 parents will frick this up and abuse their kids)
Now of course in these cases the circumstance needs to be quite specific, but they follow a trend in that it is better to have the child understand punishment and stop the behavior immediately rather than continue the behavior until bigger problems arise.
This is more personally philosophical, but physical punishment can teach children real boundaries of respect and the relationship between action and consequence that others means cannot reach
See, in what I'd call "children" (basically anyone under 13 or 14) those issues can be resolved by counseling and therapy if the issues are that bad, physical punishment seems like a like effective method. I only really support it once they are of age to start doing real world physical damage, yknow once they're a teenager and their hormones kick in, and they're STILL being a frick tard then sure, a slap across the face is reasonable
5 months ago
Anonymous
I used time sensitive examples for a reason because the alternative of therapy is almost always the most time consuming. Take the second example, Im sure you know as well as I how stubborn some kids are and how much of a torment they can be for other kids, so what do you do when the full attention of a counselor isn't solving the problem? Again, why should several kids suffer because one is acting out, what about the limited resources we have for counseling, why do several children need to be denied attention they might need just so people can focus on the most problematic child. In this case I think it would be appropriate to at least try physical punishment, but in a way that the child can understand. Not blindly striking them out of anger, but after explaining that this will be their consequence if they continue to refuse to change their behavior. Even if it's not the cleanest way to deal.with the problem you are getting more positives than negatives by sparing the other kids the burden of one problematic child
5 months ago
Anonymous
>after explaining that this will be their consequence if they continue to refuse to change their behavior.
This is like putting duct tape over a broken window, it's not going to fix the problem it'll just be a temporary solution. The kid might "behave" for the time being out of fear of being in pain, but they aren't going to fundamentally learn why their actions are wrong and change their behavior internally, they're just going to figure "I'm not allowed to misbehave this way in front of authority figures lest I get painful punishment"
5 months ago
Anonymous
a proper spanking doesn't hurt. It's just mildly embarrasing because your parents disciplined you in public. I don't think anyone is talking about sending the kid to the hospital, lol.
5 months ago
Anonymous
>mildly embarrasing
Maybe on the other guys end but for a kid that can be traumatizing as it shows a lack of respect given to them by their parents, and if their parents don't respect them then why should they respect their parents? In my personal experience, I remember the time my dad pulled my pants down in a Barnes and Noble when I was like 6ish? Yeah, hilarious to him and I'm sure anyone else who reads hears it now, but I still remember that and still respect my dad less because of it all these years later
5 months ago
Anonymous
Your dad sounds based
5 months ago
Anonymous
>my dad pulled my pants down in a Barnes and Noble when I was like 6
Again, hilarious to degenerate Cinemaphile users, but as a kid your father doing something like that for nothing but his own amusement changes your perspective of him
5 months ago
Anonymous
>my dad pulled my pants down in a Barnes and Noble when I was like 6
5 months ago
Anonymous
>malding about a prank
Guess two things stopped growing when you were six.
5 months ago
Anonymous
Do you still talk to him?
5 months ago
Anonymous
>a proper spanking doesn't hurt
You've clearly never taken a dozen lashes on the ass with a leather belt.
5 months ago
Anonymous
That's exactly the advantage of painful punishment, it keeps a child in line while you teach them properly. I'm really not a true advocate for physical discipline, rather I consider it to be part of a parent's toolbox that they will need to know how to use properly
5 months ago
Anonymous
>child is beating up another kid on the playground >that's it Timmy, I'm gonna call the therapist >just you wait, once we get an appointment booked you'll know what you're doing is wrong >Ahhh Dr. Shekelbergstein is always so busy!
5 months ago
Anonymous
God you really only see the world through buzzwords don't you?
5 months ago
Anonymous
>therapy
Hundreds of dollars. >a belt
$14
5 months ago
Anonymous
Maybe you shouldn't have kids if you're poor.
5 months ago
Anonymous
Maybe you shouldn't have kids if you're poor.
Wow, sounds like something has gone horrendously wrong with our economic system when it's easier and cheaper for you to be a bad parent and a bad person rather than actually trying, sounds like we need a new one I'd say
5 months ago
Anonymous
I mean...I agree but good luck changing the status quo.
And I'm sure afterwards you became a lovely little well behaved boy and never caused you mom any more problems of course?
Unironically I kinda was. Sure I got into trouble now and again, I was a kid. But I was usually polite and well behaved. My issues were more that I was whiny and cried a lot and that probably has more to do with me being spoiled than being spanked.
5 months ago
Anonymous
You shouldn't have kids if you aren't smart enough to talk to them. They should trust YOU, respect YOU and look to YOU in their times of need. You shouldn't have to pawn your kids off to a therapist or counselor.
>a swat or two
That's also still really bad. This isn't your pet dog who'll still love you after you whack them on the nose with a rolled up newspaper, human children are more complex. You start to lay your hand on them, or hell even so much as threaten to do so and you've lost their unconditional respect, now they fear you and you're no longer a parent to your children, you're a terrifying authority figure that they follow out of fear, and as soon as they get old enough to realize you're aren't all powerful they'll begin to rebel.
No? I got spanked all the time and while sure, I had times when I'd be scared cuz I knew I'd done something wrong it didn't stop me from loving my mom well into adulthood.
My dad was "firm" (grabbing, shaking, breaking my shit, screaming) when I was a kid and it only ended when I took a swing at him at 13 and threatened to stab him in his sleep. The experience gave me a lifelong hatred of authority.
It's all anecdotal but if you can't figure out how to communicate through your kid with words alone you're an uncivilized brainlet and shouldn't have reproduced to begin with.
>My father was on the extreme of the spectrum, ANY physical correction equals a massive beat down because I have tremendous emotional baggage
Incredible
5 months ago
Anonymous
How does someone get this complacent with being slapped around? Would your dad sneak into your room at night and "physically correct" you?
5 months ago
Anonymous
The worst my mom did to me was slap my hand, I'm sorry you had a deadbeat as a father who probably raped you too given your answer.
That's so un-fricking true, it's unbelievable if you actually think that way. Did a best friend ever smack you on the arm as a kid? Did you ever get kicked in the groin while you were playing? Did those things result in you holding a lifelong grudge against the kid who did it, or did it teach you to mind your fricking space and that kids can be rough? If a kid gets spanked for doing something they should know better than, then they won't get hit again after that because they'll have LEARNED THE FRICKING LESSON. You act like any parent who disciplines their child looks for every opportunity to smack their kid around, when in actuality good parents who aren't afraid to spank only end up doing it like 2-3 times total in a kid's life and the kid grows into a better person for it, assuming they aren't a complete little shit, in which case once again *good* parents will recognize that and not bother. Get fricking real. No shit parents shouldn't beat their kids, but spanking doesn't even come close to that.
>You start to lay your hand on them, or hell even so much as threaten to do so and you've lost their unconditional respect
First of all, children of the age that you should spank when they misbehave are not old enough to have enough mental development to have a concept of respect or even comprehend threats, this is why you are using corporal punishment because they are not developed enough to understand larger concepts like empathy or shame.
Secondly you shouldn't want their unconditional respect, you want their CONDITIONAL respect, raising your kid to think they should respect you without condition actually is abusive and is basically setting them up to be taken advantage of.
They should learn to respect you conditionally based on how you act.
But people cannot comprehend respect if they don't have empathy which they cannot learn if they don't understand that there are consequences for them being pricks, ideally they should learn this early, teaching them this early requires corporal punishment because young children are not mentally developed enough to comprehend theory of mind.
5 months ago
Anonymous
I wouldn't say it necessarily requires corporal punishment, but that the use can be more effective when used on young kids compared to older ones. A two year old being a little shit might just need one swat on their ass, and they will likely never act out poorly again. Whereas doing that to an eight year old is likelier to make the kid more rotten because they managed to get to a point where they truly believed being a shithead was acceptable until one day their parents showed them it wasn't. The bottom line is that kids need to learn asap that they can and will get some kind of punishment if they don't behave when they're still at their most malleable, whereas it gets nigh on impossible to instill values when they're at an age that a lot of their future identity is already being cemented.
Your kind don't manage nuclear reactors. When this country's full of you, it's actually going to become a third world shithole. The infrastructure's already falling apart as it is.
Cry harder you Black person. Just because your parents were too strung out to raise you properly doesn't mean society has to deal with your moronation when you grow up. Main reason why so many of you are closeted homosexuals or trannies.
Note how homosexualry has settled into society ever since the governent decided that all slaps are abuse, rather than taking them on a case by case basis.
All the replies to this post just tells me a lot of idiots don't know how to actually discipline a child
seeing the replies to this comment makes me realize why so many kids are doped up on ADHD medication nowadays.
Do anons really think spanking as a last resort after repeated offenses is the same as beating a child over nothing?
A parent holds back when they punish, society does not. It's better to drill that into a kid's skull while they still have the time to correct themselves.
I'm replying to agree with you and frick all the spoiled pansies ITT who think discipline is abuse.
This would turn into a /misc/ thread if we could see flags. Just saying.
It's honestly crazy to me that abusing your kids is actual abuse now
I'm sorry you were abused as a kid, take my advice and get some help because you clearly haven't recovered if you still believe that hitting children is even slightly rational
I can tell you. What parents do in public nowadays when their children has a tantrum is let them cry and roll around on the floor, waiting until they tucker themselves out. It's annoying
Yes, parenting is annoying, if you're doing it properly. You will get frustrated, but in order to be a good parent you need to put your emotions aside and rationally deal with your kid, not project an emotional outburst onto them because you're mentally weak.
It works though. If acting out is met with a lack of attention and good behaviour gets a lot of attention they will naturally be inclined to do what's right. If you punish tantrums directly you create a connection between acting out and attention even if the attention is negative. Another important component is teaching the skills a kid needs to handle their feelings. If you want them to be better, they have to be taught how.
>parents aren't allowed to discipline their kids anymore >kids grow up to be entitled shitheads who use social media >block anyone who doesn't agree with their head-ass nonsense
Depends on what they've done, you can punish a child if they deliberately disobey you (Say if you give them a chore which they refuse to do) you can take away privileges of theirs such as toys and games, however if it's a young kid that isn't properly able to express the new emotions they're feeling, punishment doesn't really solve anything, it just makes them more confused (why am I being punished for expressing myself this way, does that mean it's wrong for me to feel this way, I need to suppress this emotion) then you have adults that can't express their feelings or emotions properly so they bottle them up until they explode
I actually agree with you. But I can see the opposition, I was a pretty bad kid but fear of a whupping only kicked in after I had already done thing I got whupped for. Trouble is, the only alternative is grounding your kid and most children under 10 don't comprehend that as a punishment at all.
And up to that point, max had been doing whatever the frick because he thought he could get away with it. If Max had been even a slight bit shittier of a person, he wouldn't have regretted shit. There is a middle ground.
5 months ago
Anonymous
While Pete's son respects his father, Pete's wife is with Goofy.
Especially kids nowadays. They need that childhood trauma, it builds character.
5 months ago
Anonymous
Yes, they learn that if they have power, they can and should use for others to respect and listen to them
5 months ago
Anonymous
Bullying is a means of correcting antisocial behavior. Granted it almost always goes too far but the answer shouldn't be to completely remove it but rather moderate it, there is no reason why mild bullying couldn't be allowed what needs to be stopped is having it escalate to violence.
Some children deserved to be punched by their parents. Not like knocking teeth out or a shiner or anything, but a good gutpunch for doing something incredibly stupid will make them remember not to do it again.
And not toddlers, of course kek.
If your kid is willing to go forever without TV, phones, video games, toys, snacks or dessert just to be able to be a little shit, I honestly don't think it can be salvaged, and the only solution is murder-suicide.
Just de-auth their devices on network while you blast kidbopz versions of your favorite tunes. Just because you can't strangle the little shits doesn't mean you have to be lazy.
>don't beat your kid >kid responds to things other than beatings
My mum's a kindergarten teacher and the kids that get beaten by their parents are the biggest shitheads because they won't respond to anything other than beatings.
if you have to hit your children to keep them in line you're a shitty parent. you're a grown up and grown ups use their heads to solve problems not just smack them until they go away
Funny because people that never get hit when they misbehave grow up to be sociopaths.
Why would a person who is conditioned from a young age to believe there are no consequences for their actions, that they can treat anyone however they want without repercussion ever care about the feelings of other people?
>It's honestly crazy to me that spanking your kids is actual abuse now
A lot of people have trouble differentiating between disciplining and abusing. This goes for observers as well as the parents doling out the punishment.
Note how homosexualry has settled into society ever since the governent decided that all slaps are abuse, rather than taking them on a case by case basis.
As wimp Cinemaphile's opinions became mainstream, wimps on Cinemaphile were finally able to use mainstream sites and left. As ANGRY normalgay's opinions became ban worthy on mainstream sites, they moved here. Simple, really.
Use your braincells Cinemaphile and apply some real adult logic. Talking and blackmailing isn't going to work if your child start assaulting people thinking they can get away with a verbal warning.
Honestly? I think it stems from women being more allowed to express their sexuality, let me explain, in the past all men thought they were hot shit because they oppressed women, made them think they were less capable than men, ect, and with the rise in women's liberation we have more women who don't feel the need to settle for the VAST amount of shitty men there are in the world, this shift in our dichotomy causes men to go fricking insane, because we're still coming off the heels of this fantasy world where women are servile and men are their "protectors" we have men who still believe they are hot shit getting utterly mind fricked when they enter the real world and women who are sexually liberated tell them to piss off, these men feel the need to prove to themselves and "the world" I guess that they're actually the super cool and badass macho men and women are the issue, which leads to thinking that anything that isn't "macho man" type stuff also contributes to them being seen as lesser men
It's literally just contrarianism. Remember this every single time you see a bunch of Cinemaphile posters displaying extremely bizarre and unjustifiable behaviour. This is an environment wherein dishonesty and trolling are not punished, ergo they will occur.
Being a roidraging tough guy like the guy that got shotgunned by picrelated is bad, but so is being a pussy. No one cares about you if you get trampled on by being a pussy. Not the letter of the law, not the cops, not women, not your woman if she's not top-tier, not your job, not your c**ty boss, not your c**ty HR, not the taxman, not your friends if you haven't known them since childhood, not your society, not the news. As we enter a dark age in Western society you will be incarcerated unjustly and disrespected regularly. The only answer is to retaliate as hard as you can get away with in that circumstance to remove shitheads in your vicinity.
Who's being a "tough guy"?
Corporal punishment was not in any way controversial until maybe twenty years ago and it's still common pretty much everywhere regardless.
It's like saying somebody is pretending to be tough because they drive a car.
You beat bullies, you dont talk to them. You show them someone bigger will frick you up if you dont play nice. That is how reality works libfoid. Violence is all some understand. Eventually they wont be dealing with smaller targets, but ones with a fricking gun and a badge.
I know. I really like his hyper religious dove girl. It's suffering knowing literally nobody would ever waifu any of them enough for art and any thread to even post them is on thin ice so hard to maybe spread attention. Some of them are funny too imo.
5 months ago
Anonymous
Tried looking it up, comic is about a year old and doesn't have much of a backlog?
And you're waifuing these characters already?
I don't blame you, Digital Circus proves people will jump after less
5 months ago
Anonymous
am I moronic for not understanding this one
5 months ago
Anonymous
Look at the photo, the stepbrother banged his wife. I mistook it for an incest joke at first.
5 months ago
Anonymous
It's obvious anon it's... um... the page it's on doesn't clear it up much, almost all the other jokes are... comprehensible >https://www.happyroadkill.com/post/bird-up
5 months ago
Anonymous
It's two unrelated jokes. The first one is making fun of the dove for being so evangelical she's wearing a chastity belt for non-fetish reasons and the second is a cuckolding joke
5 months ago
Anonymous
Renember when Webcomics were mostly made of
A. Shitty comics (like the one you posted)
B. Somewhat good comics
C. Pretentious comics
D. EDGE
F. Sprite comics
G. Furhomosexualtry
H. Nerd stuff
Yeah...Now half of them are gone I mourn for the death of sprite comics, every single fricking day
5 months ago
Anonymous
the only ones that are dead are sprite comics, all all of the other categories are alive and well.
please forgive me!! and tails gets trolled are ongoing and they hit most of those
We have the lowest crime rates in human history, world wide. Stop watching the news, they're lying to get the ad revenue from people trying to sell you bunkers and canned beans.
Yes, crime is and has been going down worldwide for a while now. There was a spike on 2020, and may be in 2027 when world War 3 started, but otherwise there's no reason to assume crime rates will continue to increase after 2030
Either the stats are rigged, or something is making people's perception of the crime rate go up
5 months ago
Anonymous
>something is making people's perception of the crime rate go up
yes, the increased paranoia and fear due to insecurity that much of the world faces has led to the belief that there is much more violent crimes happening more often
i hate that argument, if you raise a kid in an artificial world that you've constructed, they aren't allowed to know about tomatoes but also they're constantly told "You need to kill someone! Go out and kill someone! Do it now!" and that kid grows up to kill someone, is it that kids fault?
5 months ago
Anonymous
So knowledge of tomatoes would prevent a killer in the making from damnation?
It's only evil to kill children, not to hit them. The only thing about hitting children is that as an adult you are automatically stronger than your kids, so it's best to only do spankings and hit them with soft objects like flip flops. Parents shouldn't punch, kick or throw dangerous objects like frying pans at them
Spanking is not about making the kid afraid of being hit. The reason it's a slap (the weakest way to hit someone) on the buttocks (the second strongest muscle and largest concentration of fat on most kids) is precisely so it hurts as little as possible. It's a ritualistic behavior meant to imitate actions that our caveman brain still responds to. Of course, it's not supposed to make you "afraid of being hit". So, it won't fricking work if your parents are more moronic than literal cavement.
>It didn't make me afraid of getting hit.
Thats because your parents didnt hit you hard enough. My knees trembled avery time my dad took off his belt until one day he hit me... and it didnt hurt. It burn and stung a little, but it didnt hurt as much as I remembered it.
As opposed to what?
Kids aren't sentient, people in general barely are, you can't talk someone into behaving like a empathetic human being you have to train them to be through positive and negative reinforcement like training a dog.
Are you going to teach your dog not to piss on the carpet by putting it in the corner and talking to it?
>Kids aren't sentient, people in general barely are,
"Sentient" means "capable of perception via one or more senses". If you have functioning skin, eyes, ears, a nose, or a tongue, you are sentient.
Spanking should be absolutely the last resort to a social or moral (not educational, such as struggling in school) lesson that the kid is just not absorbing or rejecting. It's a mentally damaging act to do, but unfortunately, it's really fricking effective and kind of the impatient parents go-to method. I would never condone hitting, beating, or using a tool of any kind-- no rods or belts or shoes or any of that shit. Spanking is already a violent act as it is, you don't need to put a cherry on top.
And why I say "last resort", I mean last resort. Like, your kid keeps breaking your sisters dolls on purpose and you've spoken to him, grounded him, and done other lighter punishments for over a week straight and he still does it just to be an butthole. If after that, he's still doing it, frick I don't know. I guess you gotta start shelling out money for therapy; sorry, poor parents.
seeing the replies to this comment makes me realize why so many kids are doped up on ADHD medication nowadays.
Do anons really think spanking as a last resort after repeated offenses is the same as beating a child over nothing?
A parent holds back when they punish, society does not. It's better to drill that into a kid's skull while they still have the time to correct themselves.
You're talking about ppl who either had no guidance or single parent households. I wouldn't expect homosexuals on Cinemaphile of all places to know the lines of discipline vs abuse. I said what I said and I stick by it and I'll will spank my child if I KNOW that's the discipline they need in the moment. But of course these go nowhere homosexuals would prefer kids being on pills and transitions because smacking their ass a few times is like summoning Hitler himself.
im obviously biased, but it definitely seemed like most of the times i was hit was because i made a mistake, was blamed for something i didnt do, or said something harmless my parents didnt like.
I remember when I tried to be like a badass little kid and when my dad said he was gonna spank me I just said "I DON'T CARE I LIKE IT!" and my dad never did it again.
My parents actually kicked the shit out of me reguarly as a kid.
My mom used to punch me in the stoch hard enough to knock the wind out of me and judo throw me if I acted up, My dad would put me into chokeholds, I don't consider either of these to be abuse and I find it kind of annoying whenever I tell people about this and they immediately get all weepy "oh my god I'm so sorry that happened to you..." b***h please, are people really so sheltered that they think shit like spanking is abuse? what did all these people from so called non abusive homes get punished? Did they just get away with everything?
I figure people that never got hit as a kid are all rapists/ drug addicts as adults.
wow looks like all of those beatings shook up your brain and rendered you moronic
I never received a beating and I'm a stickler for the law; even shit like going out of my way to use a crosswalk
>My mom used to punch me in the stoch hard enough to knock the wind out of me > My dad would put me into chokeholds >I don't consider either of these to be abuse
My dude, both of those are literally assault, a crime that people get arrested for, you fricking moron. >Le zoom
Nobody would do that shit in public in the fricking 50s, frick outta here with that shit
>a crime that people get arrested for
Not when done to their kids idiot.
No abuse would be doing something that actually causes injury, getting hit or choked is just painful, do you consider stubbing your toe or accidentally scratching yourself abuse?
No the only actually abusive shit my parents did was all the emotional blackmail shit and gaslighting they did when I was a kid, never taking my side about fricking anything, that's the shit that pissed me off not getting punched in the gut when I was genuinely being a c**t. >Nobody would do that shit in public in the fricking 50s
They did far worse back then, my dad's dad broke his bones on multiple occasions, my grandma used to beat my mom with a wire clothes hanger.
Your mind is at its lowest point when you are a child, therefore whatever major experiences you experience as a kid, will affect your life in some way. If you decide to take your anger out on your children they will do the exact same to others and most likely you when they grow up.
If I'm being honest, I want to be a parent someday and I currently have no idea what I'll do to punish my kids. Spanking is pretty probably detrimental (Studies showing longterm detriment on mental health, etc) but sometimes taking toys away (And things of that sort) just isn't enough. I guess timeouts but if a kid is undisciplined getting them to actually comply is gonna be a struggle.
Sometimes you just gotta beat their ass anon. I remember when my uncle caught my cousin smoking he chained him up in the basement like he was Gollum for 3 weeks.
It's honestly crazy to me that spanking your kids is actual abuse now. I was a shithead kid and I got into shit that deserved an ass whipping, I can't imagine how jarring it must be to see little gays throw tantrums in stores and knowing the parent can't take them to the car and smack them for acting stupid in public
Slapping/spanking kids is a very contested issue even outside of us seeing a lot of redditors here. I think it goes without saying spanking them, SOMETIMES popping them on the mouth, is not that bad. You shouldn't start at 11, you need to work with them and let them tucker themselves out in certain situations, but if you just see your son beating or biting another kid or sibling wouldn't that actually be a GOOD thing to associate hurting another citizen with pain?
>I think it goes without saying
Obviously it doesn't go without saying, moron, or you wouldn't have hordes of people calling you an abusive psycho - which you are.
honestly I've never gotten spanked for fighting my brother, they just let us tucker each other out and then separated us. I guess they figured the pain of the reletively even match (we were pretty close in age) was enough to stop usbfrom hurting each other too bad.
>wouldn't that actually be a GOOD thing to associate hurting another citizen with pain?
That's the expected outcome. What you can get instead is that the kid associates the caregiver with pain
What my mother did was explain how whatever undesirable behavior could harm me. She was completely reasonable and logical about what was okay or not okay for me to do so I didn't feel the need to rebel (against what? my own self-interest?) or test her honesty. I was precocious and might've been more trusting than average so maybe this doesn't actually work on the average child. Or maybe it does. I rarely misbehaved and consequently I can count the times I was disciplined on one hand. So that's my recommendation, and start while they're young. I was a baby when she started giving me these explanations.
Timeouts did frick all to me as a kid
If I was sent to my room I would play video games
If they took my video games away I would play with toys
I they took the toys away I would read
If they took books away I would draw
If they said I couldn't draw I would amuse myself with my imagination
Some kids literally cannot be disciplined without corporal punishment, and honestly even that might not work after awhile I stopped caring if I got hit and even egged on my parents, my dad had the idea to start making me run laps as punishment, I ended up liking it and joined the track team... So yeah it can be difficult.
I got spanked all the time but it was for crying, and it has done nothing for me as an adult. Spanking is an abuse because you do not have control of where and when parents can apply it, even if it could be an appropriate response for bad behaviour.
Spanking stops people from becoming narcissistic sociopaths when they grow up. I got spanked exactly one time when I was a kid. Know what I did? I threw a pissed off cat at my mom and it cut her arms open. Can you imagine how much of a piece of shit I'd have grown into if I didn't think there were consequences for my behavior? That spanking was the single best piece of parenting my dad ever did, I unironically grew up to thank him for it. Fricking loved my dad.
Ideally, a child would only get a spanking if they were too stupid to stop doing that thing they won't stop doing.
Perhaps too often, a child gets a spanking because the parent it too stupid to even attempt any other way of telling a child to not behave in the way they are behaving.
Gotta assume all of these replies are some combination of >parents just beat the frick out of you for every minor inconvenience which is not an actual spanking
and/or >literally childless
I'm childless, but i work in a school for 4-6 year olds. Kids that are beaten for missbehaviour usually just try to hide what they have done, and they only "obey" when there's the risk of the parent beating them into a pulp, in the worst cases they even replicate the violence against others when corrected, there's a boy who wants to play non stop foot-ball, the moment the play time ends and I have to take the ball the kid starts to cry and punch my leg, when we told that to his mom, she did grab him and started to give him full force slaps in front of everyone.
Kids who don't get a good beating also can behave bad but you can just stay there not obeying their demands, one hour or another they will undestand and give up.
Also, when the kid who sufffers violence understand that we can't beat him, they just do whatever they want doesn't matter what you do. And when the child grows up and their parents beatings don't hurt that much anymore, they just don't know how to behave in society.
My mom says that me and my siblings should have been beat more as kid so we'd act right and stop neing shitty to her at times.
I'm not saying spankings should be off of the table but I don't know if me getting hurt for being stupid would help. If I did something wrong yeah she can beat me but being hit for a small mistake is probably pushing it. Scolding a kid hits them the hardest when they understand that they screwed up.
Also, do people really care what people do to thier own kids? Nobody today really has a community so don't think you'd be shamed for it.
Corporal punishments can work, when there a time and place for it.
I don't equate spankings to beatings like some. However, my own father found that spanking was less effective than taking toys/games away from me in correcting misbehavior.
One of my first wake up calls to race realism was working as a teacher in an urban environment after years of being a country teacher and having to sit through a lecture on how we can't just get mad at black people for smacking their children because it's their cutlure. All the little millenial teachers had to have a ten minute lobotomy just to reset their brains to "THING I HAVE BEEN TAUGHT IS FUNDAMENTALLY WRONG IS NOW OKAY BUT ONLY IF _____ DOES IT BEEP BOOP." It was my first moment of, "Oh, wow, they really are just pets to you, aren't they?"
It's one thing to give a little harmless smack that they don't like the fact that someone who is normally cared for them has "tried" to harm them for being out of line, but a lot of spanking, actual turn your skin red spanking, was abusive and raised kids to believe that violence is just a clear, easy, and acceptable way to get what you want from people and teaches that people you care about will torture you for not falling in line for them. Some may come out of the experience okay, but every time you're rolling the dice to see if you raise an abusive or borderline adult.
Whoch is why the most violent generation right now, the one doing riots in places like portland, is 20something college kids that have never been physically disciplined as they were raised after the strict laws went into effect. Truly, believing your lying eyes is the worst.
Violent crime and murder have been on the decline and the Rodney King riots are worse. Also the material conditions for millennial and zoomers are worse so they don't have the prospects of owning a home and starting a family with a stable career and future older generations have.
That's a neat idea, but people act for profit in the confines of what is allowed by law and regulations. To control that requires a push for more business regulation, you can't just tell someone to stop doing what's profitable and expect them to stop. Why would they?
Maybe stop selling real estate at all and reorient the development of land away from the profit motive that leads to homelessness as a means of inflating property values and instead create a system of publically distributed houses that create jobs and families?
Frick dude you have to understand...It's not JUST about talking to your kid, and the morons who smack their kids around need to understand you can't JUST smack your kids. You need both.
They have to understand WHY you did it and what they did. They're blank slates, you can't just ask them to clean their room. They don't even know what CLEAN IS. You have to explain it to them. You are their only frame of reference to the world so all information has to be passed through you.
Moreover there's a difference between open defiance and ignorant defiance. If your kid is standing on a table with their pants off you can't just beat them. You have to explain why they're being a little turd. But if they're doing it SPECIFICALLY BECAUSE you told them not to? Sure give em a smack because at some point kids (more so if you have a son) are testing the boundaries because we're hardwired to explore. But AFTER try to figure out why your kid is doing it. They might just want more attention so just ask.
tl;dr You must balance being firm and fair. Smacking is a last resort. Talk to your kids, because in the beginning you are their ONLY source of information to this new world. They genuinely don't know shit.
It's hilarious how many childless incels are seething at this post >spanking bad, when I have a kid (not happening) I'll straighten him out with my le words!
I mean, you could possibly try, but you'd still have to be stern, which either means some yelling, or even a bit of screaming since there's going to be a point during the child's age where they won't listen until stimulated by something that makes them cease their attempts to drown out their parents attempt at authority. The problem is a lot of people seem to think all kids can just be reasoned with in 100% calm terms, and that's just not true because all humans act out, especially in childhood because we all literally don't know better in our early years. Anybody who says "well some kids are pretty agreeable at a young age" is pulling from a literal minority of the rarest instances when some kids weren't being turdlets
>"Listen here BUSTER, spanking is BAD because it causes TRAMA" >"Didn't you know that HITLER, yes the fascist dictator HITLER, used to sit on his throne and watch the NAZIS spank AFRICAN AMERICANS" >"Know your place CHUD"
The trick to corporal punishment is than it's more psychological than physical. A light tap is the same as a hard strike in terms of getting the point across- that a parent is willing to cross a boundary. Straight up taking out anger on a child is the wrong way to do it.
Pepe might be the most salvageable.the but the problem is that WB made a huge deal of getting rid of him. In recent years they toned down his gimmick in a number of ways. Making him less handsy. Having Penelope reciprocate. Letting him lose more. I don't think in current year pepe was doing anything all that questionable and they still chose to get rid of him. Now if they brought him back it'd look like they weren't sticking to their guns. And pepe isn't like speedy who has a huge following so he's probably gone for good.
Honestly the best way to solve it is just to do it like the episode where she reciprocated his feelings but just couldn't stand his smell and he was too obvious to figure it out. I think they did three versions of that. One where she just starts wearing a clothes pin on her nose so she can't smell him, one where perfume spilled on him and he didn't sink anymore, and one where she jumps in garbage so she'll sink too but then it ends with her chasing him instead because now he can't stand her smell.
On the contrary, I actually want to see him pick up the role. Just imagine the backlash: he wrote the book and got Apu dropped because he was called Apu as a kid
Definitely not Hank Azaria's Apu, but didn't they announce they bringing Apu back?
>Claim they won't stop using Apu >They stop using Apu >Claim Homer won't stop strangling Bart and it was all just clickbait >Homer stops strangling Bart for real
Never trust Fox when it comes to this shit
They couldn't even use him back then, he was literally treated as a massive creep in-universe. Frick, he was even the only KND villain to have gotten arrested.
We have studies now on the effects of corporal punishment and how it usually leads to measurable negative mental effects down the line, where does the idea that hitting your kids works even come from and why do people still cling to it?
I'd rather a kid throw tantrums in public than be perfectly behaved but with mental issues that persist to adulthood.
The kind of thinking that tries to curtail kids being kids is the same reason so many of them are on ADHD medication these days, incidentally
Hurt people hurt people, if you have bad parents, say they're maybe alcoholics or just evil and beat you as a kid, you may grow up to belive that's just what parents do, and so on and so forth, we have generations of people that just think "my father beat me as a kid, therefore I outta beat mine! That's how parenting works!" Same reason why so many men in the United States are circumcised.
>animal instincts
Which are notoriously objectively and morally correct always and humans have lived for thousands of years exclusively following our "animal instincts"
You're a fricking idiot, I posted a picture of just a generic skyline full of skyscrapers to show that humans do not follow their "animal instincts" and it's caused us to become a more successful species because of this
Corporal punishment worked for thousands of years, people only started complaining about it for the last few decades.
In the last few decades people who were raised without corporal punishment grow up to be narcissistic sociopathic c**ts because they have never faced consequences for their actions and think the world revolves around them.
>In the last few decades people who were raised without corporal punishment grow up to be narcissistic sociopathic c**ts because they have never faced consequences for their actions and think the world revolves around them.
because you have to beat the hell out of children for them to understand this, right?
>because you have to beat the hell out
Again with the extremes, you literally cant think of degrees of force. A single spank is not beating the hell out of anyone.
>because you have to beat the hell out of children for them to understand this, right?
Unironically yes.
Granted it doesn't necessarily have to be the parent doing the hitting, it could be another adult, another kid, an animal,etc the point is people need to understand that other people have feelings and boundaries and that there are consequences to violating them if you never get that you never learn how to empathize with others and devolve into a solipsistic world view where you don't consider others unless it benefits you.
People have been complaining about the behavior of kids since antiquity, and just because a custom as been carried out for thousands of years does not mean it's a beneficial one
People were complaining about the behavior of KIDS before.
Only recently have we had this behavior being exhibited by large quantities of adults, and we have that because these people were denied valuable life lessons as kids and grow up in a state of arrested development.
Where were all the neets and e-thots and man children in the past?
They were either beaten until they straightened up and flew right or were killed.
anyone else's parents made you hold out your hand to them so they could smack it with a wooden spoon, then smack you after you refused to hold it back out after the first 3 times?
hurting kids might be questionable but I do think parents don't really think things trough one way or another in how to best help their children grow up. A lot of them are to neglecting and let others (tv, the state etc.) do everything. Hurting them doesn't help, pampering them doesn't help, letting them completely to themselves don't help and not being a part of their lives or barely bothering with them doesn't help.
Well first of, you should only have kids if you really want them AND have good (enough) health in the family, I for one wouldn't want to give my kids anything that only makes them suffer more or handicap them. Second, I believe it would be best to explain whatever you can to your children and be nice without being overbearing, try to set a good example. Punish them if they do something wrong but don't turn it into a regular shouting match or use violence (unless they did something very seriously wrong).
>you should only have kids if you really want them AND have good (enough) health in the family
Thinking like this is why many countries around the world now have a shrinking population, your line of thought is gonna collapse our economy and way of life, if not humanity itself.
>your line of thought is gonna collapse our economy and way of life, if not humanity itself.
You are a lunatic, and have been brainwashed by capitalists propaganda.
No, a decline in population is not going to lead to the end of humanity, or an economic collapse. 1. The economic is entirely made up, if the people running t don't want it to collapse it won't. 2. Humanity has only grown this size rapidly within the last couple hundred years, we lived for thousands of years on a population of millions or even possibly less
Not only was spanking supposed to be an absolute last resort because your kid was openly mocking that words weren't working on them (which is way more rare than most people realize) for having committed a really fricking bad thing, but Count Spankulot was notoriously a fricking weirdo no one liked in universe and the show regularly treated as a villain that even fricking Father agreed went too fricking far in multiple places.
>ITT: childless virgins tell others how parenting should be done
This was annoying before but now that I am a parent it's become far fricking worse. Seriously you people need to stay the frick in your lanes and leave the parenting to parents.
This is a "where's your cartoon, Goobermeister?" response. Getting micromanaged by non-parents that Luvs diapers are inferior to Huggies diapers is one thing. This is very broad and morality criticism that anyone can take part in. Anyone can step in and say it's not okay to smack your child, your dog, or your spouse. Like, do I need to be married in order to comment on someone in an abusive relationship or something?
>Anyone can step in and say it's not okay to smack your child, your dog, or your spouse. Like, do I need to be married in order to comment on someone in an abusive relationship or something?
No, you have to let parents of children do whatever they wish and you aren't allowed to say a word about it, let them raise future serial killers
>Like, do I need to be married in order to comment on someone in an abusive relationship or something?
Without weighing in on the situation morally, it's kind of been proven that you really should just shut your damn mouth about someone else's spousal abuse. The person being abused most likely is going to see you as an outside force butting into their life and, at the very worst, will confide in their spouse that you are a threat opening you up to a violent action by someone who's been proven to have a pretty violent streak to begin with. Also, that battered wife still isn't going to realize the error of her ways and frick you, man.
>parenting isn't easy
Yet that doesn't stop morons in this thread from pretending they're experts on the subject while never having even done the act necessary for producing offspring.
Have you ever thought that maybe they making a selfless sacrifice by not bringing in sentient life to experience the horrible world while carrying bad genetic traits like lack of height, small penises, and lactose intolerance
What's there to refrute? You made a moronic assumption that still doesn't change the fact that people who have no experience in parenting are acting like they're experts on the subject without any sort of experience or know how.
5 months ago
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You don't need to be a chef to know that certain dishes taste like shit
5 months ago
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You'd sooner trust a chef to make you a meal than some random person off the street.
5 months ago
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Just because you can tell a dish tastes like shit doesn't mean you know what's wrong and how to fix it if you aren't a chef
those ancestors had multiple children who ended up in bad places, or who ended up not creating children at all. Just because a family life is created, doesn't mean it would be a pleasant one, especially if the offsprings of all those ancestors end up being terrorists, murderers, and Cinemaphile users
>WTF you guys aren't parents so you aren't allowed to criticize me, stop telling me to stop beating my children!!
guess I can't look down on child molesting parents either. I'm not a parent, I just don't get it.
Lowkey Im too selfish and lazy to be a parent and my biggest fear about being a father is failing to be a parent. Because not being a parent, my frick ups are my fault and only I suffer. As a parent, my frick ups become my child’s problems.
And the sad part is, I want to be a father and raise a kid, if I did become a father I would want to stay for them, but I know they would be better off if I wasn’t in there life and it just hurts knowing I would be a bad father despite wanting to be a father
So did the erotic feeling of spanking and being spanked developed first by a spanker, or a spankee? And was it issued of pushed back feelings of childhood abuse mixed with the crossing of wirings, or a continuous cycle of violence that turned into pleasure once the roles were inverted for the victim?
Could you name even one example of a bullied person who ended becoming good for society, cause most of them end up alcoholic, abusive to their spouses, and even killers. The bullies end up even worse people morally since they realize they can harm others for fun and get away with it
Thing is some kids got spanked and some kids got cigarettes burns in their faces from their meth addict parents
Daaaaamn. Almost like there’s a limit to the frequency and severity of a punishment. But discipline hurts peepohs feelings 🙁 so let’s just let everyone do what they want.
Me. I learned that decking an butthole in the face is the best way to get them to frick off. But I’m sure crying to the counselor did you wonders too.
We have the lowest crime rates in human history, world wide. Stop watching the news, they're lying to get the ad revenue from people trying to sell you bunkers and canned beans.
Crime has actually been increasing since the St. Floyd’s summer, and it only dropped prior to that because of tough on crime policies and the war on drugs breaking up the mafia and larger gangs, along with locking up current and future criminals
The thing is you can just talk with your kids instead of hitting them. As a parent you have (or at least should have) such a rapport built up with you children that talking to them should suffice. Your words should hold weight enough alone without having to resort to the threat of physical violence.
>ITT South Americans and rednecks justifying child abuse
You are all literally subhuman filth. >inb4 you just weren’t spanked maaan
I promise you, I was hit more than you homosexuals ever were. I thank god none of you will breed.
>People talk about spanking >Anon got fricking HIT instead >Because his frame of reference is violence, he cannot understand discipline
The reason hispanics use a flip flop is precisely because it doesn't hurt, it just makes noise. Like the stupid paper fans the japanese use.
>report the thread
You're a moron, this thread is vastly more entertaining and insightful than the daily fricking "how big is too big" porn threads or the "Dall E Ai" shlock
I think the biggest argument for why spanking actual children is bad is because we had an opportunity for either a good character discussion thread or a massive fetish thread and everyone ended up sperging about their childhood trauma instead.
They're both wrong because they didn't understand love. Goofy thinks being lenient and a buddy is love but that's just affection, Pete thinks making his kid piss scared is love but that's just being overly protective in his own way, keeping him in a bubble that he made with boundaries he set with no regard to his son's feelings or needs. True love is hard and ever since people formed a concept of love they've been trying to crack just defining it in human words without it being a self referential paradox.
>Squidward's father spanked him as a child, isn't that sad? >Yes I suppose that's rather sad but Squidward can relieve himself complaining about it in a Cinemaphile thread. Now get back to work
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Frick them for removing "Shake like me" from streaming, reruns and the fricking "complete ATHF collection" DVD that came out this year
His entire joke was that only an ancient, creepy monster would actually spank a kid in modern times and all the other adults pretty much treated him like a child abuser (even though they themselves were doing worse bodily harm to the KND)
Would you smack your elderly grandmother because she didn't follow your directions? Would you instill her with fear so that she becomes obedient and follows your directions to avoid violent punishment? No?
Then don't hit your kid either.
>Would you smack your elderly grandmother because she didn't follow your directions?
No because she would break also elderly people generally don't need such correction because they have fully formed brains.
But in the case of say an old with dementia who doesn't understand what they are doing you can by all means use physical force to restrain them/ keep them from hurting themselves or others, even if they didn't break from a smack it wouldn't do much good because they won't be able to form new associations like kids can. >Would you instill her with fear
Corporal punishment has nothing to do with fear, it's about creating a pavlovian association between something unpleasant (pain, stress) and the antisocial behavior until they are old enough to develop a sense of empathy or shame.
I'm a weird case. I know my parents fricking sucked at parenting, I was basically never punished for anything. But at the same time, I was treated terribly in general. Moved out at 17. I do care about others and try to be a good person but I'm undisciplined as hell and struggling to learn to be so.
This is what the argument should be about. Not about the psychological ramifications of being hit as a child but the actual parenting in general. My parents were shit at parenting AND spanked/hit me. I was never confused why I got hit because I knew I was being a little shit and was starting to learn that actions have consequences which made sense to me. What didn't make sense to me was the constant arguing, pridefullness, lying, or obsessiveness for control my parents constantly showed. That ended up causing the most damage on my mental well-being and in turn stunted my growth into properly adjusting into adulthood.
>spanking will somehow lead to serial killers
Holy frick, that's one stupid leap of logic. Yes, excessive punishments will yield terrible results, but a fricking swat on the ass isn't going to change a child from Mr. Rogers Jr. to fricking Charles Mason Jr.
The overlap between people who think smacking a child is a crime yet constantly drugging a kid with adhd medication or giving him a smartphone 24/7 is perfectly acceptable just shows that people just change to fit the times, rather than improve.
Ms. Bellum wasn't removed because she offended black people, she was removed because she was supposedly just "token sexy woman character", and the guy in charge of the Powerpuff Girls reboot was literally a weirdo obsessed with one of the character. So much so that he even made a self-insert character designed and voiced by himself
>Ms. Bellum wasn't removed because she offended black people
I meant it more in the way that the characters are viewed as some sort of old shame from a bygone era.
Well that still applies to my point, since "sexy" characters are practically nonexistent now because "muh male fantasy" or whatever talking point is brought up to shame something. Which made the decision to axe Bellum all the more hilarious when she was literally the brains behind the mayor, and her sex appeal was extremely tasteful at all times, especially compared to Minerva who did have her sexiness played as just straight up eye candy in the few segments of classic Animaniacs she appeared in. While I'm not about to claim the lack of sexy women is somehow done to avoid pissing off trans folk, it is pretty baffling how one of the most innocuous "sexy" characters in cartoons is treated like she was a shameful slight against women.
Really. There are no sexy characters at all anymore?
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Not nearly as many as there used to be. Sure, people will sexualize characters from current cartoons, but half the time those characters barely have any curves to them
5 months ago
Anonymous
Ok. So there are still sexy cartoon characters and cartoon characters people find sexy.
5 months ago
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Not nearly as much as there used to be that they're virtually nonexistent
5 months ago
Anonymous
But you just conceded that they arent absent and that people continue to sexualize cartoon characters. At best youre arguing there arent ENOUGH sexy cartoon characters. How many should be in the quota?
5 months ago
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I never said they were completely absent. The point is that they shouldn't be treated as problem because they never were. Why are you moving the goalpost like this?
5 months ago
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He's being pedantic because he jacks off to the little girls from the Owl House.
5 months ago
Anonymous
Im reframing your point to illustrate what i think is a flaw in your argument, maybe 2.
1. If sexy characters in cartoons are practically nonexistant then is the internet so full of sexualizations of these cartoon characters? They cant not be sexy if the general response is sexualization.
2. Your argument indicates that there is a desirable number of sexy cartoon characters but you wont put the number to words because itll sound silly
5 months ago
Anonymous
NTA but you're acting like a character needs to be intentionally designed to be sexy to be sexualized by internet artists.
5 months ago
Anonymous
Close! I dont think a character needs to be designed to be sexy to be sexy, i think they just need to be sexualized. See the onceler for deets.
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Which is just absurd since fricking Maggie Simpson, a literal baby, has tons of porn. Sure, a lot of it uses her various older designs where she's not a baby, but that hasn't stopped some folk from doing smut of her non-adult design. And nobody in their right mind finds babies sexually attractive.
5 months ago
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Pal, people will sexualize literal blobs and blocks if they can feel up to drawing such shapes with curves. That in no way implies that a square (or a box if you want to get three dimensional) is inherently sexual looking, it just means that some people will apply sexiness to things for a number of reasons. Remember, this is the very website where a man admitted to hundreds of anonymous users that he finds floor tiles arousing.
5 months ago
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Ok and if theres a large contigent of people drawing Triangela from Shape Friends with big hooters and posting "Please step me isoceles mommy" then im sorry but that is clearly a sexy shape at least to someone.
Ignoring that literally all cartoon porn is just getting horny for shapes anyway.
5 months ago
Anonymous
It's more than that in a lot of cases. Some characters are liked for being the kind of woman (or man) that tics all the boxes for people, hence why various cartoon and anime girls are so popular. Sure, you can boil it down to them just being shapes on paper/pixels on a screen, but there's still more going on than just neurons activating over shapes
5 months ago
Anonymous
You're just being needlessly obtuse. Sure SOMEONE can find it hot but that's not the same as a sexualized character. Large busts, wide hips, full lips, shapely figures are pretty universally signs of a sexy woman. That's the kind of characters you can't really make anymore. Even adult animation rarely does anymore. If someone can jack it to minnie mouse more power to em but that's clearly not a character that's meant to be sexy.
5 months ago
Anonymous
My homie there's porn of the ghosts from pacman. Rule 34 exists for a reason. The existence of people who will coom to a character does not imply the character is sexy.
nta but it's absolutely a result of this fear of everything old
even if something was never offensive, once it becomes old enough it'll be culled in fear that it miiiight be offensive
Let’s talk about the reverse. How many times did you get in trouble for shit that wasn’t true. But because you’re the kid, and they’re the adult, your side of the story is always in the wrong. Because why would an “adult” lie
Like look, I wasn’t the most well behaved kid. I did stupid shit and got in trouble alot, but I would argue at least 40% of the things I got in trouble for were out of context or straight up lies. I was once accused of throwing glass on the sidewalk by one of my neigherbors and forced to spend the day going around the neighborhood picking up glass shards by hand then right an apology letter for something I didn’t do. Even as an adult I’ve lost a job over shit that didn’t happen because someone lied about my actions.
I got spanked like two times as a kid. First time was because I was being a moronic little turd and poked one of my brothers in the eyes with a stick over not being taken by our grandmother for the day. The second time was because I carelessly pointed a BB gun at the same brother while it was loaded. And while maybe I could try to justify the second time as me just being a small little shit who could just barely hold the damn gun up, I still shouldn't have been pointing that thing at anybody since BBs can do a lot of damage up close. But I sure as hell learned not to act like in such stupid ways after that.
But having said that, I can still point out a method of punishment that I'm pretty resentful of, which was my grandmother's use of soap in the mouth for bad language. That moment still sometimes crops into my head, and I would have much preferred just being sternly talked to or even slapped lightly upside the face for not minding my manners. Being picked up like a dog that shat on the carpet and getting soap crammed in my mouth was extremely alarming to my tiny little brain back then.
So get the frick over yourselves if you think spanking is somehow the Auschwitz treatment
Because to a child it is. It is a terrifying violation of trust that communicates nothing except "fear me because i can create pain in you whenever i am displeased". An adult can differentiate between a slap and a beating. A child who has no life experience only knows that his parents have decided it is acceptable and important that he feels pain.
I think the bigger issue is how many of these abused kids go on to be abusive parents.
Depending on the severity of the spanking, it can quickly become just plain beating. Light use of the hand will just shock the person being spanked more than anything. But excessively hard swats with the hands, or just straight up using an implement like a belt is going to do physical damage. And you can't say that welts from a beat aren't beatings
Do children HAVE to be smacked around to make them behave? No, of course not. But the fact of the matter is that sometimes, not always, but sometimes a child may require a bit of "tough love" as it's called to get them to straighten out. To act like a smack on the ass or a slap to the back of the head will turn a child into a future death row inmate is just flat out disingenuous and not based on any kind of supportable fact. Yes, SOME kids might turn into shit people from how they were raised, but it's not a 100% guarantee. Just like how a person can watch the Rocky Horror Picture show and grow up straight. nobody with a rational mind thinks it always screws with a person's sexuality.
>Nope. I'm saying the vast vast majority of troons are just deeply sick
An assumption based purely on your emotions.
>An assumption based purely on your emotions.
No it's pure common sense AND backed up by tons of studies. That's why they're pulling back on Child/Teen transition in many civilized nations
>All social/psychological science is deeply political. What I can point at is how often young troons have about 2-3 other mental illnesses and then they get treated for gender dysphoria as if it'll solve all their other issues. There's SHITTONS of data about that now.
So then post some rather than having a meltie over the possibility someone else might do it. You're just screaming into the void rather than using the one thing that ever has any hope of convincing people.
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You are stupid. There's really no point in getting into it. If you're such a gorilla moron Black person that you don't understand why [...] is an incredibly stupid thing to waste your time writing, and believe that random anecdotal evidence is equivalent to elaborate studies, then you are too stupid to talk to. I would tell you to have a nice day but you exist to be a Walmart greeter, pay taxes and be something for parents to point at and tell their kids "look, that's a moron, you don't ever want to be as stupid as that dumb motherfricker."
>So then post some rather than having a meltie over the possibility someone else might do it.
Nah, it won't convince you. I don't care what you think. You can find the studies if you want. GAG and other groups make this data readily available.
Go educate yourself. GAG[ Gays Against Groomers], Billboard Chris and more have lots of compiled data and links to whistleblowers in the trans community.
Trannies are just NGC People who're being psyopped/gaslit.
But don't you know Google is pozzed and will just censor all of the results anyway? You should give people actual reputable studies demonstrating your point.
"And so Diogenes said 'it's not my job to educate you sweaty do your own research but only with info so bad faith and anti-gay the gays have left GAG' and it was so based a moron put these words in an image."
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My favorite diogenes story was when he trolled plato's definition of man as a featherless biped by throwing a crude map showing where to find chickens at him
Go find it yourself. I told you what it isd and where it is. I'm not spoonfeeding you any more than that. You only get ONE LAST spaggettio airplane landing from this fella.
HERE IT COMES! OPEN UP! EOOOWWWWWWWWW COMING IN FOR A LANDING: Gays against Groomers or Billboard Chris
Anon youre claiming to have this knowledge yet you cant cite any of its numbers or point us directly to it, instead youve referred us to what i can only assume are 2 twitter accounts.
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Go find out for yourself moron. I'm not doing you any more favors.
>twitter accounts
Of course they have twitter. What a moronic deflection. Go look at the data for yourself. Avail yourself. I've led you tot he water but cannot force you to drink.
5 months ago
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>I've led you tot he water
you didnt though
post links
5 months ago
Anonymous
I'm not spoonfeeding you. You can copy paste the keywords I furnished you with into your search engine of choice.
5 months ago
Anonymous
why isnt this image enlarging when i click the arrows in the upper-right corner?
5 months ago
Anonymous
You gave me a treasure map to fantasia written in crayon and told me the blue bits are water.
5 months ago
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No I didn't. Either of those search results gets you EXACTLY what you need and I'm trying to direct you to in the top 5 results.
5 months ago
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Link some.
5 months ago
Anonymous
Eat shit and die. Use the search terms and enlighten yourself. see
Go find it yourself. I told you what it isd and where it is. I'm not spoonfeeding you any more than that. You only get ONE LAST spaggettio airplane landing from this fella.
HERE IT COMES! OPEN UP! EOOOWWWWWWWWW COMING IN FOR A LANDING: Gays against Groomers or Billboard Chris
5 months ago
Anonymous
post links
5 months ago
Anonymous
No. Frick you. You don't want to learn and so you won't be convinced bvy whatever I give you.
If you wanted to learn, you could copy and paste the search terms I provided you with and investigate for yourself. You don't want that. You want me to link something so you can scan it lazily and then find a biased "debunk" that doesn't even actuall debunk or even address the claims. You just want to swat me down so you can further harden your beliefs. If you didn't, you'd be open to doing the research I suggested.
5 months ago
Anonymous
You are a baby man.
5 months ago
Anonymous
Hilarious coming from the pussy who won't even google something and click a top 5 result
post links
You can keep repeating yourself as if it's some sort of win but we both know it's not.
I'm sitting here politely directing you to the info you want and you're making homosexual power games about me doing things you demand of me. Frick you. The info is where I told you it is. If you want it, go fricking get it homosexual.
5 months ago
Anonymous
A baby man in his doo doo palace of lies.
5 months ago
Anonymous
lmao please comtinue to behave in this way
Your 4D chess plan was to sit and argue with a bunch of people you decided weren't going to listen to you anyway for 500 replies?
Well actually the thing is, in almost all online discussions, only about 30% of the people who read the dicussion contribute to it. So I win a possible larger victory with the silent majority every time I make you guys act like fearful childen who can't google something. They see how fearful and dishonest you are. If you had guts or highground or any character, you'd go straight to the sites I mentioned and start ripping the data to shreds. But you won't, because you're afraid to learn or change. And that gets seen too.
5 months ago
Anonymous
By your logic of the silent majority, would it not benefit them to post some actual citations?
5 months ago
Anonymous
>By your logic of the silent majority, would it not benefit them to post some actual citations?
I told them where to find it. It's a much more effective teaching strategy to elicit investigation and curiosity than it is to ram things down people's throats. I pointed to two different places with large amounts of links to data and studies about the issue of trans people. If they want to check, they can. Just like you.
Trying too hard just hardens people you moron. If you're too hardeneed to even do a google, you were a lost cause to begin with.
5 months ago
Anonymous
I think it's safe to say by not posting anything easily accessible you've dwindled the amount of people who might hear you out from "some" to "zero." The couple hundred butthurt replies when called out over this also probably don't help. But in your case it might just be safer to pretend rather than risk you shooting up a mosque.
5 months ago
Anonymous
>I think it's safe to say by not posting anything easily accessible you've dwindled the amount of people who might hear you out from "some" to "zero."
It's not though. People who're actually good faith operators who are opoen to learning will take the step to highlight the search term and right click it then select "search internet".
All you've done is make your side out to be completely dishonest clowns who won't even engage when given something to engage with.
5 months ago
Anonymous
Id actually just prefer to have you make specific claims followed by a direct citation so the conversation is focused on the issues and not on the assumption that the whole corpus of bill board's on twitter roundly justifies any and every claim you could care to make.
5 months ago
Anonymous
>assumption that the whole corpus of bill board's on twitter
But I didn't say check his twitter. He has one yes but I didn't tell you check that. I said google "Billboard Chris". [The first result is his personal website where has a great compilation of damning studies and data]
5 months ago
Anonymous
Sorry i was just mocking you for citing a twitter account and someone called billboard chris.
5 months ago
Anonymous
lmao so you're just gonna make fun of the fact that a guy made a site with tons of very recent relevant data about trans people?
Please continue, you're only smashing the legbutt cause to into smaller and smaller smithereens.
5 months ago
Anonymous
>legbutt
5 months ago
Anonymous
Maybe you should use the site to rustle up some data there pard, your arguments looking weaker than a rattlesnake with dentures ya hear
5 months ago
Anonymous
Nope. That's on you. If you want to learn, you can feed yourself lil' piggy. Trough's over there.
5 months ago
Anonymous
Are you hitting on me pard
5 months ago
Anonymous
>Switching to flirtatious behavior in an attempt to make me lash out or look gay
Classic. You're out of cards.
This. People's acceptance of left handedness is hypnotizing them into becoming left handed. Keep that shit at home, it won't be tolerated.
>giving troony kids special treatment >forcing all the kids through education that muddies basic biological truth
Dude, if I was a neglected 7 year old and I saw how much attention little troony kids get? I'd be jumping onboard just to get sparkly stickers to put on my pencilcase. Much less all the more complex social reasons that happen later.
5 months ago
Anonymous
>trannies say they always felt trans, even as kids >kids say they feel trans
There's no proof that you only suddenly feel like a woman in adulthood with no such feelings in childhood. Trannies have been reporting and going to therapy for this shit that's been going on since before adulthood and before it was acceptable to the point that teachers would ever bring it up in a classroom. You're ignoring facts and spinning a narrative.
5 months ago
Anonymous
>There's no proof that you only suddenly feel like a woman in adulthood with no such feelings in childhood.
There is no such thing as "feeling like a woman". You have the chromosomes you have and the you have the personality and interests that you have.
In order to "feel like a woman" one must think there are things and feelings that are woman only but also have these feelings without any real lived experience. It's nonsense. >Trannies have been reporting and going to therapy for this shit that's been going on since before adulthood and before it was acceptable to the point that teachers would ever bring it up in a classroom.
Literally not relevant. People also report being dinosaurs when they're young. My little brother thought he was a Kaiju. He would crab walk around the playground screeching like Destoroyah.
5 months ago
Anonymous
I see all this talk about what men and women are and aren't and I just think:
But if there is nothing deeper to it, then what if a person just wants to change their clothes, body and appearance?
5 months ago
Anonymous
Adults can do what they want. I think it's probably also okay to let your son dress in frilly pinks. What's not okay is when you demand others play along with a fantasy or deny reality. Be a boy named "Billy" who wears pink and loves nail polish. Use normal pronouns. Stop trespassing onto other people's reality. Your need to piss in a pink room next to real women doesn't override their right to have bioligically limited spaces.
5 months ago
Anonymous
Does that mean the religious can't impose their values on pedos?
5 months ago
Anonymous
No because pedos are immoral on a level beyond the religious and spiritual. Most culture understand consent and sexual trauma. It's a basic human truth akin to gender reality.
5 months ago
Anonymous
>Most culture >basic human truth
Exceptions sure are a lazy way to avoid admitting error.
5 months ago
Anonymous
So is the flawed logic of assuming every moral issue is because of religion.
5 months ago
Anonymous
Indeed
5 months ago
Anonymous
I don't care if people legally get their name changed, so why would I care if they change their pronouns?
No you don't have me confused. You just think there's "authentic" troons when there's no such thing and such a thing cannot even logically be possible. ALL trans people are self-hating gays, gender-non conformers, grooming victims or dishonest fetishists.
There is nothing else to it and every argument that would try to rebutt this stance has to accomplish sisyphean tasks like saying a boy liking pink and wanting to suck dicks makes him a girl and not just a femme gay.
>ALL trans people are self-hating gays, gender-non conformers, grooming victims or dishonest fetishists.
You say this like it's a gotcha but most trans people self-identify as gender-non conforming.
5 months ago
Anonymous
>so why would I care if they change their pronouns?
They're demanding you lie and view reality as they demand you to. A bearded man doesn't get to ask for "She/Her", a lanklet MtF doesn't get to demand "He/Him" and nobody gets to demand "They/Them". You get the pronouns I choose base on how I read your biological sex. If people get it wrong often, that's no skin off your nose anyways unless your whole life is a big LARP and this guy is breaking character and ruining your immersion.
It's very simple: Do what you want and keep your fricking delusions to yourself.
Yes. That was an inflammatory inquiry meant to dig at [...]'s declaration that the need to piss in a pink room next to real women doesn't override their right to have bioligically limited spaces. A jab if you will at favoring the realities of some over others.
>favoring the realities of some over others.
Yeah phsyical and mental security override your mental illness. Pretty clean case. You aren't having your reality intruded on when women say they don't want your male muscles in their pisspot rooms.
5 months ago
Anonymous
>phsyical and mental security override your mental illness
So then why is it acceptable to attack pedos, but then decry muslims attacking those that morally offend them?
5 months ago
Anonymous
>most trans people self-identify as gender-non conforming.
So you're in the wrong body and know which one you should be in but ALSO non of the genders are things you conform to? That's a self-negation you moron.
5 months ago
Anonymous
>There is no such thing as "feeling like a woman".
Dresses arent a function of biology so gravitating towards those arent chromosome based either way.
>Literally not relevant.
It's relevant because you're saying that they're all trenders, either lonely incels or gets who want attention. This all operates under new things like trans acceptance in classrooms and incel discord groups being the only influences in trans people.
5 months ago
Anonymous
>. This all operates under new things like trans acceptance in classrooms and incel discord groups being the only influences in trans people.
You're being purposefully moronic: Without all the current social incentives and bioligical influences of today, the rate of troon trend was less than 1%. I'm just saying the trenders used to be small in number and have grown massively. That back when it was less than 1%, they were just self-hating gays or gender non-conformers who would do ANYTHING to just live a "normal" life. >Dresses arent a function of biology so gravitating towards those arent chromosome based either way.
Are you actually saying anything? I don't think this is a reply or a response... Just a trueism.
>Most culture >basic human truth
Exceptions sure are a lazy way to avoid admitting error.
Shut the fricking up kiddy diddler. There's also cultures where they cut the clits off girls. Bad culture exist.
5 months ago
Anonymous
>Bad culture exist
Who decides which are good?
5 months ago
Anonymous
Basic morality and morals do not derive directly from Religion. Basic pro-social pro-human behavior is always the moral behavior. There's no blurriness or confusion about it unless you're a sociopath.
5 months ago
Anonymous
If people change, what is pro-social or pro-human?
5 months ago
Anonymous
People don't change. What a dishonest fricking shithead attitude. People are always the same, they just get taken in by moronic ideas.
5 months ago
Anonymous
Being taken in by moronic ideas isn't a change?
5 months ago
Anonymous
Correct. You're still the same human, you're just wrong and stupid. That doesn't constitute change.
5 months ago
Anonymous
Does that mean that no matter what happens to a human, its always a human? No matter how disfigured, contorted, or distorted it gets?
5 months ago
Anonymous
Look, if you want to frick kids, just come out and say it. People have said far worse things on this shithole of a site
5 months ago
Anonymous
Why do you want me to?
5 months ago
Anonymous
Because it sure sounds like that's what you want if you're so fixated on pedos being rightfully dunked on by society
5 months ago
Anonymous
How am I fixated on pedos if you steered the conversation back to it after the question of people changing?
5 months ago
Anonymous
You literally brought it up first
5 months ago
Anonymous
Yes. That was an inflammatory inquiry meant to dig at
Adults can do what they want. I think it's probably also okay to let your son dress in frilly pinks. What's not okay is when you demand others play along with a fantasy or deny reality. Be a boy named "Billy" who wears pink and loves nail polish. Use normal pronouns. Stop trespassing onto other people's reality. Your need to piss in a pink room next to real women doesn't override their right to have bioligically limited spaces.
's declaration that the need to piss in a pink room next to real women doesn't override their right to have bioligically limited spaces. A jab if you will at favoring the realities of some over others.
5 months ago
Anonymous
I must have confused you with someone else who was implying it's mostly trenders. I know that acceptance increases trenders, I already mentioned transmaxxers.
5 months ago
Anonymous
No you don't have me confused. You just think there's "authentic" troons when there's no such thing and such a thing cannot even logically be possible. ALL trans people are self-hating gays, gender-non conformers, grooming victims or dishonest fetishists.
There is nothing else to it and every argument that would try to rebutt this stance has to accomplish sisyphean tasks like saying a boy liking pink and wanting to suck dicks makes him a girl and not just a femme gay.
5 months ago
Anonymous
>like saying a boy liking pink and wanting to suck dicks makes him a girl and not just a femme gay.
You're showing you have no idea what trannies are, just memes. Thanks for proving the point
And it helps when it's based on good information and a sample size that makes sense and not just memes based on pronouns in profile twitter furries. It's like if I were to make an assertion on general sexuality using only memes about deviant art, I'd waste my time with hypothesizing around how much people like vote and why that is. Most discussion here would he useless because from the start the sample size is third hand and skewed.
Why is everyone so obsessed with vore? Don't they know that's not how sex work? It must be grooming from all those Kirby games.
5 months ago
Anonymous
No, you're completely ignoring what goes on. If a young boy expresses interest in traditionally female interests nowadays, they get pushed into the troony pipeline. Same for young girls who like being muddy and T-Rex toys.
Trans idealogy is hatefully regressive gender roles nonsense that literally genocides gays. Most trannies turn out gay if they just cope with the dysphoria until they're older. They're literally hunting out future gays and sterilizing them.
5 months ago
Anonymous
>If a young boy expresses interest in traditionally female interests nowadays, they get pushed into the troony pipeline.
That's not true. I've seen anti-trans propaganda based on regret and malpractice and that never comes up. It's why you haven't provided a source, you're telling me this happens and to accept it uncritically like you have.
5 months ago
Anonymous
Cope as much as you want, there are girls who had their breasts zippered at 16 who still have complications and bleeding from the procedure half a decade later. People brought in and medicated just because they're unconfortable and confused.
>LINKS AND PROOF
Google the terms I told you to google homosexual
5 months ago
Anonymous
I've already told you I've seen regret and malpractice cases. The fact that you think that's supposed to make me believe your entire moron narrative shows you really are a social moron.
5 months ago
Anonymous
>I've already told you I've seen regret and malpractice cases
Yeah because we do this shit to minors. It's not ok. >The fact that you think that's supposed to make me believe your entire moron narrative shows you really are a social moron.
No you're just unwilling to accept that it's causing extreme harm and is LITERAL anti-gay genocide. You're taking all the gay kids and telling them they aren't a boykissing boy, they're actually a girl and that's why they want to kiss boys.
5 months ago
Anonymous
>Gay genocide does not involve killing gays
What a lame ass shit genocide.
5 months ago
Anonymous
sterilizing all the gays you can convince to take drugs that chemically castrate them is a pretty hardcore genocide but yeah it's not a violent active one, it's a meta genocide.
5 months ago
Anonymous
A Metacide, gonna steal that for a coffee table book idea
5 months ago
Anonymous
>Trans idealogy is hatefully regressive gender roles nonsense that literally genocides gays.
Gays left GAG because the GOP was supporting genocide of gays through DeSantis who slammed Trump for being too pro-gay by offering condolences to the Pulse shooting and topping it off with pro-DeSantis, pro-nazi imagery. "Groomer" isn't what they're just calling people who talk about gender shit in a classroom, they're talking about all gays. You having some sort of special sensitivity that makes it so you see "trans ideology" as hateful and genocidal should have you calling every Republican a nazi but you're far from that. You have a fun narrative that cuts around real hate and functions off braindead and unsubstantiated memes.
5 months ago
Anonymous
>Gays left GAG
No they didn't. I still follow them on twitter. They still just post pro gay, anti gender ideaology materials all the time. You're just posting the leftoid rebuttal that gets sharewd in troony circles as an attempt to stymie discussion and prevent people from seeing truth. >Groomer" isn't what they're just calling people who talk about gender shit in a classroom, they're talking about all gays.
No they aren't. I've even seen them at legit Groomer Storytime protests. Obvious bulldyke lebos and shit.
5 months ago
Anonymous
>I've already told you I've seen regret and malpractice cases
Yeah because we do this shit to minors. It's not ok. >The fact that you think that's supposed to make me believe your entire moron narrative shows you really are a social moron.
No you're just unwilling to accept that it's causing extreme harm and is LITERAL anti-gay genocide. You're taking all the gay kids and telling them they aren't a boykissing boy, they're actually a girl and that's why they want to kiss boys.
Assuming you aren't trolling, you are an interesting case. We all have our thresholds for what we tolerate and what gets us going and social media has warped our perspectives about what big things are happening. This reluctance of yours to cite studies and leaning on cherry picked gag info all while saying all trans people aren't real shows why you accept these narratives so easily. In a case like this it isn't really about grooming, it isn't about kids, it's about a lack of understanding about what trannies are and a complete ignoring of decades of research and cases from decades before what you're calling grooming today.
5 months ago
Anonymous
I hate you and your kind, but love homos. Frick you.
5 months ago
Anonymous
>Without all the current social incentives and bioligical influences of today, the rate of troon trend was less than 1%
The rate of homosexuals was once just as small because of societal circumstances, but that doesn't make it any less valid
5 months ago
Anonymous
Yes it does because being gay is something you can actually define. Being a troony just means you hate yourself and want to cope with drugs and surgery. Being gay means you prefer to frick with people who have the same body as you.
This is a PATHETIC cope.
5 months ago
Anonymous
DAMMIT, HEAVY! FRICK OFF!
You. Are. Dead!
5 months ago
Anonymous
post links
5 months ago
Anonymous
Your 4D chess plan was to sit and argue with a bunch of people you decided weren't going to listen to you anyway for 500 replies?
I'm just reminded that a former coworker once tried to say the philosophers totally argued like internet dwelling morons and I can't help but find it hilarious that Socrates would have said "listen here, you dumb Black person" or something to that effect
Wouldn’t he basically mindbreak them via spanking and turn them into slaves?
Alice is unironically fine
They could probably get away with, if instead of
>Ha ha! Warden is so dumb he doesn't know Alice is trans and wants to frick her!
They changed it to
>Warden is fully aware Alice is trans, thinks that's great, and wants him to frick him.
Honestly they could probably get away with the same dynamic if it's still not really acknowledged that Alice is trans, I mean it's only explicitly stated in the show a few times, but most of the time characters refer to Alice with the right pronouns and everything, the biggest problem with her in the show is how she's mostly portrayed as vile and disgusting BECAUSE she's trans, which is where the humor of the warden liking her comes from
If they make it less that "she's gross because she's trans" and more "she's gross and just happens to be trans" that would probably be fine
I have at least one friend who likes Alice because she's basically just brock Samson despite the offensive nature. I feel like you could salvage her but it would involve a complete overhaul of her design.
But why would we want to? This i why I don't get the whole reboot craze, why would we take a product of it's time and start walking on eggshells to revive it in a new decrepit form?
Leave it, it was good when it was, don't bring it back because you can't bring it back just as good. Make new stuff.
Seriously all this rebooting is proof that the industry and networks know people love old media, but they can't seem to get it into their thick skulls *why* people love it, they don't understand how they can write new media to make it as good as the old stuff. Literal morono shit.
no it still wouldn't fly because a lot of Alice's jokes revolve around her being not only transgender but also quite mannish and tough, it's not an issue that the warden doesn't know, that's the least of the problem. The issue is... I mean look at her. Fricking look at her. You think a design like that would fly? Never.
Wrong, Cinemaphile also loves Otis.
I think it's just the fact that they're fun characters that were written before the "mandatory legbutt in every cartoon" era. It's like how kids ends up loving veggies if you just allow em to discover them on their own, of course if you shove broccoli down their throat and threaten them if they don't like it they're gonna grow to hate it.
Kawaii-fy her. Make her a snu snu amazoness.
But that would defeat the point of her character, she's a fricking prison guard she's meant to be rough
There was literally an episode where she tried being more sweet and feminine and realized it doesn't suit her
I'm trans and I like Alice, but maybe I guess If have to rewatch it now to see if I missed something problematic.
I think the character is fine though because everyone respects her, trans or not.
You gotta wonder if they named that character "Alice" since it's one of the most stereotypical troony names
Is it? I don't know many trannies but I usually associate them with gay names like "Luna Amethyst Silverpetal Rainblossom Darkness" or something
Not to stir up any shit but why is that? And why is it only MtF's? FtM's always just pick normal names like... Craig or something...
Alice is a stereotypical girl name but I've hardly seen any trannies use it
It's because the majority of mtfs want lavish attention and special uniqueness, whereas most ftms just want to pass as male and settle into society.
I think that trender men and women transition for different reasons
A woman is likely to transition when she's not actually transsexual in order to get attention, so they *do* pick weird names like "Dracula Bicycle Number 16 Cactus Prince" but they never go ahead with the transition and cut it out realy because that shit runs it's course by the time they turn 25 at most
Whereas men are likely to transition after being disillusioned with life and seeing that the grass is greener on the other side, that's why so many of them do it at the age of like 40, it's a middle age crisis after years of abuse or nonbelonging
Social moron armchair psychology is one of my favorite features of this website. Thank you.
>Noticing patterns is le psychology
It's not a pattern, you're making assumptions about men seeing the grass greener and women being attention seeking. Men as attention seekers and women as seeing men as advantaged are left out of the equation, something you can also use to invalidate trans trenders. There's no depth to what you're saying, you have an impression and now you can't state it as fact without consequence on the anonymous social moron site.
Or maybe violence is all you’re able to communicate because you’re a gibbering man ape
"Noticing patterns" is a lot more sophisticated sounding than "baselessly theorizing on a subject im unfamiliar with and have at best secondary information on"
Making hypothesises is literally the foundation of the scientific method. moron.
And it helps when it's based on good information and a sample size that makes sense and not just memes based on pronouns in profile twitter furries. It's like if I were to make an assertion on general sexuality using only memes about deviant art, I'd waste my time with hypothesizing around how much people like vote and why that is. Most discussion here would he useless because from the start the sample size is third hand and skewed.
Self reporting is the only way to tell someone's sexual identity, tho.
But you aren't just noticing self reports you're noticing the loudest, obvious, and memorable self reporters based on a sample size of social media posters. This thread of "why are their names funny" hasn't posed any names or real examples. I haven't seen any Luster Diamond Honey type names so I can only assume you're conflating screen names with their actual names. They may be cool or pretty names, but more often it's like Ellen to Elliot.
Quick question, whose more likely to have a theory about superman thats correct? Somebody who reads and collects superman comic books or somebody who saw superman parodies in cartoons and also watched man of steel? Like, do you think theyd have comparable understanding of the character?
>Trans people are just, like, a parody, mang.
Whoah.
>yeah id say im a sex expert, ive seen every judd apatow movie sooo
>You have to transition to be a trans expert
JUST
>why would i need to talk a girl before talking about girls if ive already read pride and prejudice and zombies?
That's not what that anon is implying. In casual conversation we apply meme knowledge based on what we've seen on social media. Treating that as anything but social moron armchair psychology exposes the want to come to that consensus based on that shallow information. It's better to go deeper and use studies or sample sizes that include people who don't put pronouns in bio or have twitter accounts at all.
That or to just keep your conversation as surface level as your knowledge. Like if all you know are the memes and secondary culure of something dont try to theorize on it, theres no need and youll just get more mixed up. I know a lot about computer nerd culture from exposure, i dont know shit about how computers work or how an IT department us structured. I could theorize that nerds compete by building computers and the fastest computer is in charge of the IT department because computer nerds are hierarchal and competitive, but thats a stupid conclusion to draw.
Pretty much this. Posting with even the modifier of "from what I've seen" still needs to come with something to back that up when it's as crazy as "from what I've seen, men become trans when they think that grass is greener on the other side" without even applying that to women going trans, makes it even more wild. It exposes more about the assumptions you're making about people than it is anything you're neutrally observing. You don't see MtF trans saying "yeah I just wanted a man to provide for me and for dudes to get the door" so it's an assumption trying to pass as something observed.
>You don't see MtF trans saying "yeah I just wanted a man to provide for me and for dudes to get the door"
Christ... You're hopeless. MtFs are tired of nit having a GF and being ignored as a disposable loser so they seek to shed the misandrist shackles of being a low status male by attempting to jump to being a female. They aren't looking for chivalry, they're running away from being called a creep for attempting chivalry.
Akshually hes called "Robin" because Batman saved him from a life of crime, his name is a reminder he wont do no more robin' anymore.
Source: i have seen every george clooney batman movie and several meme pages
What's that based on?
The incel to troony pipeline. They get warped with loneliness and sadness until they decide to become the GF. That's what all these """Transbians""" are about.
I do think both FtM and MtF are both green grassing through. FtMs are always regret posting about how nobody cares about them and it's impossible to make friends.
>The incel to troony pipeline
Meaning and referencing what series of facts you can objectively demonstrate?
>FtMs are always regret posting about how nobody cares about them and it's impossible to make friends.
To elaborate, FtMs often seem to be running from being sexualized or expected to reproduce or think that life as a man will be nothing but their sexist mental stereotypes about unearned confidence and society bending over and offering itself up just because you're male.
I know you feel that way, but where did you come up with this theory and what is it based on that you can show us? Do you have one fact?
>what is it based on that you can show us? Do you have one fact?
Again: I have reality. Years of careful observation of reality. It just so happens anytime an e-celeb I follow troons out, it was obvious from a mile away because they'd RP as a fricking lesbian MILF their DnD sessions and shit. Just as an easy example.
If you're gonna spew about MUH STUDIES and MUH SOURCES you can shut the frick up and save us both some time.
>if you're going to post scientific evidence well I wont read any of it because my delusions are all I have got and I've decided they will never change
Not that guy, but if experience and observations don't count for anything, wouldn't that then mean that documented evidence is therefore rendered invalid because those things are compilations of experiences and observations?
>sample sizes and scientific method and sheeeit are the same as random anecdotal experiences
Is this the power of American public education?
You're a dishonest piece of shit. All social/psychological science is deeply political. What I can point at is how often young troons have about 2-3 other mental illnesses and then they get treated for gender dysphoria as if it'll solve all their other issues. There's SHITTONS of data about that now.
>memes
No, literal directly observed life experience.
Comorbid conditions are common, what us supposed to be unusual or even disqualifying about them? It stands to reason youd have many issues at once.
>All social/psychological science is deeply political. What I can point at is how often young troons have about 2-3 other mental illnesses and then they get treated for gender dysphoria as if it'll solve all their other issues. There's SHITTONS of data about that now.
So then post some rather than having a meltie over the possibility someone else might do it. You're just screaming into the void rather than using the one thing that ever has any hope of convincing people.
You are stupid. There's really no point in getting into it. If you're such a gorilla moron Black person that you don't understand why
is an incredibly stupid thing to waste your time writing, and believe that random anecdotal evidence is equivalent to elaborate studies, then you are too stupid to talk to. I would tell you to have a nice day but you exist to be a Walmart greeter, pay taxes and be something for parents to point at and tell their kids "look, that's a moron, you don't ever want to be as stupid as that dumb motherfricker."
>huuur, yur dum
Not an argument. Good job showing that your so-called stance means nothing if you're this ready and willing to just write somebody off as intellectually inferior so easily
It's not meant to be an argument, I am making fun of you for being a moron.
>it's not meant to be an argument
Except it literally is, but hey, be the pot calling the kettle a Black person
>no direct answer, just use "muh Amerimutt memes"
No those things have more inherent value because they measure, contextualize, evaluate the veracity of and compare multiple observations at once and arrive at hard conclusions often rooted in statistical fact.
What anon is doing is noticing its hot today and deciding that if observable climate trends continue itll be 200 degrees in a few months.
>you can't have a solid outlook on things because you aren't sharing your experiences with others and compiling the data!
Gee, guess that means nobody can be empathetic whatsoever because they aren't sharing their life's experience with several others to make sure their senses all align
>FtMs are always regret posting about how nobody cares about them and it's impossible to make friends
Wow so theyre in the same boat as modern men, what a shock
>Wow so theyre in the same boat as modern men, what a shock
That's the thing. They transition and realize the grass wasn't even REMOTELY greener and realize all they did was riup up their pussy pass. It proves they were hoping life as a man is better/easier.
>Meaning and referencing what series of facts you can objectively demonstrate?
All the obvious AGPs who have pornbrain. All the cartoonish non-passing sexist caricature-type troons. These are men hoping that as a woman, they can get laid and LARP as a sexist fantasy.
Your theory....is based on memes? Thats not credible. Get away from me.
Transmaxxing is a newer meme and it's specific to niche internet culture. It doesn't make sense to bring that up when addressing MtF broadly unless you're going to make it clear that that's an example you are pulling from.
>Transmaxxing
Shut the frick up I don't even know what that is
>specific to niche internet culture
No it's not. Young men watch porn too much and end up associating female sexual behavior with their own sexual pleasure. Eventually they identify with the prostitute sucking the wiener and not the stud getting sucked after years of jacking off to women sucking wieners.
You don't have scientific evidence, you're demanding I produce studies to back up years of observation and personal experience.
ALL troons are sexist caricatures. ALL troons are regressive anti-gay conversion therapy victims. ALL troons would be happy just being NGC.
Pic related: What happens when we blur gender lines.
I don't know what you two are arguing about, I just find it entertaining you would dismiss any sort of academic studies that demonstrate something. The troon epidemic is a forked problem anyway. It's everything from over-exposure to porn as you describe, to womens' birth control in the water supply, to society stomping on men in the legal system and pop culture.
>you would dismiss any sort of academic studies that demonstrate something.
I'm lnot dismissing anything. I would, but that's not me.
>The troon epidemic is a forked problem anyway. It's everything from over-exposure to porn as you describe, to womens' birth control in the water supply, to society stomping on men in the legal system and pop culture.
Yeah okay so we mostly agree and you just think I'm the other guy. I'm not.
>and deciding that if observable climate trends continue itll be 200 degrees in a few months.
Nope. I'm saying the vast vast majority of troons are just deeply sick and that affirmation is a disgusting trick we play on them. Let men wear dresses and boys own dolls without chemically castrating them like a fricking Nazi.
>Nope. I'm saying the vast vast majority of troons are just deeply sick
An assumption based purely on your emotions.
>The incel to troony pipeline. They get warped with loneliness and sadness until they decide to become the GF.
You're describing transmaxxing. With all the therapy they need to go through and all the comorbidities that get freely cited even by anti-trans people, there isn't anything to support that beyond online subculture meme groups. It's a demographic, but it's a new online one that actually is full of trenders.
>It's a demographic, but it's a new online one that actually is full of trenders.
Does any of that change the relevance? No. You're just trying to deflect.
> It stands to reason youd have many issues at once.
Yeah but... let's say you have BPD, Autism and Depression..... Do you think HRT moodswings or painful body mutilation surgery are gonna make it easier to carry those other burdens? Do you think somebody with severe social anxiety really needs to add the layer of "passing" and being "misgendered" to their issues?
It's not a deflection, it's acknowledging that trenders exist and points to the ones you're speaking of.
Anon, trenders existing at all almost invalidates the entire thing. It used to be less than 1% of people. Perhaps those people are trenders too.
How so? A discord group of doomers doesn't invalidate people actually going to therapy.
Yes but the true groomers are the people teaching kids to be left handed instead of beating that sin out of them. Now its trendy to be left handed and we're up to ears in trenderhanders. The normal number has been eclipsed by all these fakes invalidating the whole concept.
This. People's acceptance of left handedness is hypnotizing them into becoming left handed. Keep that shit at home, it won't be tolerated.
>incel to troony pipeline
I wonder why people never consider the reverse (that being trans predisposing you to being an incel)
Neither have sex, both have given up, both are insufferable when given access to the internet.
You'd think they'd be able to find common ground instead of hating each other then, like with femcels
You do know that most of the studies around that are used to support these movements are done through social media observations, right?
They are not. Because thats made up, id like to invite you to prove it or even just source it to whoever lied to you initially.
You're confusing clickbait articles with studies. Which studies are you speaking of?
>Full on no true scottsman
I accept your concesion.
A clickbait article literally isn't a study.
ehere the frick do you think we are, anon? everything is thread is 100% observation none of us have any qualifications
if you didn't wanna see it you shouldn't have entered the designated bait thread
It'd be fun if it led to articles about attention issues or perceived advantage or even examples, but instead it's just awkward fricks who haven't held a hand repeating "hmmm the femoid brain cannot conceptualize an apple rotating and therefore they want to wear pants and dye their hair and the doomer blackpilled male wants a free ride".
anon the post you're replying to literally never said any of this you just invented a guy in your head to get angry over
>autismos can't into humor
Sad.
That was a joke?
"Evolutionarily speaking the femoid species learned to wear pink because is the color, i presume, of 'pussy', and so pink is the womanly color as this 'pussy' surely is a part of sex...."
"It is unspeakably cruel for women to expect men to fall in line in professional spaces where they wear makeup that simulate sex". Still better than "men castrate themselves like the advisers of royalty before for power".
>"It is unspeakably cruel for women to expect men to fall in line in professional spaces where they wear makeup that simulate sex".
The fact that some dipshit would unironically say this and not understand how insane it sounds is the cherry on top
Its somewhat generational, alice in wonderland was a unisex story boys and girls were both shown growing up and it has an innocent female lead being lead into a strange world. Being trans is very strange and since the new name is new, you dont have much associated with it to begin with. So alice is something a lot of gen x and boomer trans women reached for. But its more stereotype than statistic. The equvivalent for ftms is something like Aiden, Jayden, Braydon or Cedar.
>Aiden, Jayden, Braydon or Cedar
I literally never heard those names they all sound like something a suburban mom would name you
They love their "Ay-" sounds
The stereotype is that ftms are named like a suburban mom named their specialest little man ever, mtfs are named like a suburban mom writing a self insert YA witch character
I see
Also, people don't know how to cook broccoli. Unseasoned boiled broccoli is VILE.
you're right anon but that's besides the point....
That's adjacent to the point. Much like how badly cooked broccoli will turn people off of broccoli entirely, poorly written xyz characters will turn people off of xyz characters entirely.
fair point
i think what annoys me, and im sure plenty others, about modern legbutt characters is that it feels like you HAVE to like them, the writer didn't write a character who happens to be gay or transgender and they didn't write a gay or transgender character who's role and identity revolves around that like Alice
they wrote a sextoy, a sextoy for themselves to jerk off their ego with
and the worst part is now i cant even write my own queer character because half the audience will go "OH MAH GAWD IT'S A QUEER THE SHOW MUST BE SHIT" (and frankly i can't blame em, because so many shows just use queer characters to hide their flaws) and the other half of the audience will go "OH QUEER CHARACTER? QUEER? ME? ME ME ME? IM QUEER, MY CARTOON NOW, I DECIDE EVERYTHING, GEMME GEMME YOUR SHOW MINE NOW!"
No no. Let him cook.
Did you compare the mentality of people against trannies being put in media to that of little kids throwing away their vegetables?
Otis isn't trans.
He has an udder because the character designers genuinely believed that people were so moronic that they wouldn't know that bulls are male cows. His dad was calling him a fricking sissy in that scene.
Anons forget that whole treated as Manish and strong Alice was also seen as a sex icon not for just the Warden. She was the one several aliens wanted to dick and even after the jail closed for awhile she got into porn and was making good money but I think it wasn't fulfilling. Alice could get away now with a little bit of polish. I honestly want an instance of a non passing troon but in a positive light. Something the non passing troons can look to as a good role model. Accept who they are but also acknowledge the good and bad.
100%, it's narrative space that's rarely explored because it's not trans people in a way that's comfortable for normies, because normies don't want to think about trans people with more nuance than "trans people bad and gross" or "trans women are women there is no difference" and see any of the real difficulties. Which I get, normies are the majority of the market, but it is why you rarely get any kind of trans characters that aren't one of the former two categories in anything big.
But yeah I think the anons that said she needed just a bit more polish and a slightly different focus in terms of jokes was correct. I know trans people that almost like Alice, that feel like she just barely misses the mark and otherwise would really well represent people that can't/won't pass.
Although were such a character made today, we might also get into the funny area where normies are pissed off on the behalf of trans people, while most trans people are fine with it.
Anon, I'm pretty sure the Warden knew damn well. There's subtle lines all over. He even called her "necrotic" once.
The only tran Cinemaphile doesn't hate for some reason
>not idealized
>not shoved down our throat at gunpoint
>butt of many jokes
Gee I wonder why
It's honestly crazy to me that spanking your kids is actual abuse now. I was a shithead kid and I got into shit that deserved an ass whipping, I can't imagine how jarring it must be to see little gays throw tantrums in stores and knowing the parent can't take them to the car and smack them for acting stupid in public
There's a big difference in a swat or two and beating your child. I hope you never breed because you'll create a future serial killer.
Humans are animals, young animals often respond best to physical punishment. Obviously the line between abuse and discipline is narrow and needs to be watched but you're just moronic if you think there's no room for physical reprimand in parenting
Again, humans more than "just animals," we are animals, sure, but we are significantly more complex than say when you swat a dog for pooing on the rug, vs when you swat a child for throwing a temper tantrum, if you'd actually learn why very young kids throw tantrums and the proper way to deal with them so they learn how to grow out of that behavior (which can be done without violence, and in fact doing so has proven to make healthier, happier people) then you'd realize that no, putting your hand on a child is never acceptable under any circumstances
No, the correct way is teaching them that behavior like that isn't acceptable. Through pain.
A human child does not automatically connect the dots that "if I do this and get hit by my parents over it, it means I shouldn't do it" it's more like "I did this innocuous thing in front of my parents and it made them mad at me, they must not like me, I need to be very careful about anything I do around them or else they might get mad at me again"
Again, we are not pavlovian creatures. We are much more complex than that.
Sounds like you didn't get smacked enough as a kid and that's why you're this moronic
I had my fair share of spankings, shoutings, and being grabbed by the neck and dragged across the backyard, thank you very much
It's always the same hysterical gays that oppose beatings, just look at the posts here. I'm not partial to blind violence either, but if reasonable beatings do anything it's not make complete pussies out of men.
We need Stalin's beatings.
Funny you say that, because animals don't always associate something they were doing with negative feelings, which you equated to what children do. Sometimes, perhaps even often, they associate the causer of the negative feelings with those negative feelings.
Classist.
Speaking of corporate influence, I'm wondering if there hasn't been a concentrated effort to make parents pushovers so they'll buy whatever their kids want. Western science is just as corrupted with capitalism as any other facet of our society, contrary to what boot-licking socdems/American liberals claim. Ah but no, it's just the political "other" that's the problem. It can't possibly be that the bourgeoisie find and exploit any political "side", no way.
>we need an insane, paranoid, power-hungry butthole
Come on homosexual, even the commies don't like Stalin anymore.
>subhuman communist who worships Stalin likes the idea of smacking kids around
What a shock.
I dunno when my mom spanked me for acting up in school I absolutely understood its because I was acting up in school. Probably cuz she told me it was for acting up in school and I wasnt moronic.
And I'm sure afterwards you became a lovely little well behaved boy and never caused you mom any more problems of course?
>A human child does not automatically connect the dots that "if I do this and get hit by my parents over it, it means I shouldn't do it"
All animals make these simple connections.
>it's more like "I did this innocuous thing in front of my parents and it made them mad at me
This only happens if you hit them no matter what they do which causes learned helplessness, this is why you 1: Tell them why they got hit, and 2: Also use positive reinforcement when they do things correctly.
> we are not pavlovian creatures.
We are
Guessing you kept touching the hot stove well into your teens.
Anyone hitting their kids for tantrums is a bad, lazy parent. There are however zcenarios where it's at least arguable that physical punishment is preferable. I'll give three
-Child is constantly, repeatedly engaging in dangerous behavior that will inevitably lead to terrible consequences before you are able to reason with them. Imagine a child is yanking the ears of every dog they see and refuses any attempts to reason with them
-A child is physically abusive to other children and is not learning from verbal communication . Several other children don't deserve physical pain and abuse because a parent refuses to discipline their own
-The child literally cannot understand your reasoning and continued verbal efforts start to become abusive themselves (though admittedly 9/10 parents will frick this up and abuse their kids)
Now of course in these cases the circumstance needs to be quite specific, but they follow a trend in that it is better to have the child understand punishment and stop the behavior immediately rather than continue the behavior until bigger problems arise.
This is more personally philosophical, but physical punishment can teach children real boundaries of respect and the relationship between action and consequence that others means cannot reach
See, in what I'd call "children" (basically anyone under 13 or 14) those issues can be resolved by counseling and therapy if the issues are that bad, physical punishment seems like a like effective method. I only really support it once they are of age to start doing real world physical damage, yknow once they're a teenager and their hormones kick in, and they're STILL being a frick tard then sure, a slap across the face is reasonable
I used time sensitive examples for a reason because the alternative of therapy is almost always the most time consuming. Take the second example, Im sure you know as well as I how stubborn some kids are and how much of a torment they can be for other kids, so what do you do when the full attention of a counselor isn't solving the problem? Again, why should several kids suffer because one is acting out, what about the limited resources we have for counseling, why do several children need to be denied attention they might need just so people can focus on the most problematic child. In this case I think it would be appropriate to at least try physical punishment, but in a way that the child can understand. Not blindly striking them out of anger, but after explaining that this will be their consequence if they continue to refuse to change their behavior. Even if it's not the cleanest way to deal.with the problem you are getting more positives than negatives by sparing the other kids the burden of one problematic child
>after explaining that this will be their consequence if they continue to refuse to change their behavior.
This is like putting duct tape over a broken window, it's not going to fix the problem it'll just be a temporary solution. The kid might "behave" for the time being out of fear of being in pain, but they aren't going to fundamentally learn why their actions are wrong and change their behavior internally, they're just going to figure "I'm not allowed to misbehave this way in front of authority figures lest I get painful punishment"
a proper spanking doesn't hurt. It's just mildly embarrasing because your parents disciplined you in public. I don't think anyone is talking about sending the kid to the hospital, lol.
>mildly embarrasing
Maybe on the other guys end but for a kid that can be traumatizing as it shows a lack of respect given to them by their parents, and if their parents don't respect them then why should they respect their parents? In my personal experience, I remember the time my dad pulled my pants down in a Barnes and Noble when I was like 6ish? Yeah, hilarious to him and I'm sure anyone else who reads hears it now, but I still remember that and still respect my dad less because of it all these years later
Your dad sounds based
Again, hilarious to degenerate Cinemaphile users, but as a kid your father doing something like that for nothing but his own amusement changes your perspective of him
>my dad pulled my pants down in a Barnes and Noble when I was like 6
>malding about a prank
Guess two things stopped growing when you were six.
Do you still talk to him?
>a proper spanking doesn't hurt
You've clearly never taken a dozen lashes on the ass with a leather belt.
That's exactly the advantage of painful punishment, it keeps a child in line while you teach them properly. I'm really not a true advocate for physical discipline, rather I consider it to be part of a parent's toolbox that they will need to know how to use properly
>child is beating up another kid on the playground
>that's it Timmy, I'm gonna call the therapist
>just you wait, once we get an appointment booked you'll know what you're doing is wrong
>Ahhh Dr. Shekelbergstein is always so busy!
God you really only see the world through buzzwords don't you?
>therapy
Hundreds of dollars.
>a belt
$14
Maybe you shouldn't have kids if you're poor.
Wow, sounds like something has gone horrendously wrong with our economic system when it's easier and cheaper for you to be a bad parent and a bad person rather than actually trying, sounds like we need a new one I'd say
I mean...I agree but good luck changing the status quo.
Unironically I kinda was. Sure I got into trouble now and again, I was a kid. But I was usually polite and well behaved. My issues were more that I was whiny and cried a lot and that probably has more to do with me being spoiled than being spanked.
You shouldn't have kids if you aren't smart enough to talk to them. They should trust YOU, respect YOU and look to YOU in their times of need. You shouldn't have to pawn your kids off to a therapist or counselor.
>a swat or two
That's also still really bad. This isn't your pet dog who'll still love you after you whack them on the nose with a rolled up newspaper, human children are more complex. You start to lay your hand on them, or hell even so much as threaten to do so and you've lost their unconditional respect, now they fear you and you're no longer a parent to your children, you're a terrifying authority figure that they follow out of fear, and as soon as they get old enough to realize you're aren't all powerful they'll begin to rebel.
No? I got spanked all the time and while sure, I had times when I'd be scared cuz I knew I'd done something wrong it didn't stop me from loving my mom well into adulthood.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stockholm_syndrome#:~:text=Stockholm%20syndrome%20is%20a%20proposed,%2C%20kidnapping%2C%20and%20abusive%20relationships.
This is why you shouldn't shout at yoir kid either
Every single parent I met who speaks shit like this, their kids walk all over them.
My dad was "firm" (grabbing, shaking, breaking my shit, screaming) when I was a kid and it only ended when I took a swing at him at 13 and threatened to stab him in his sleep. The experience gave me a lifelong hatred of authority.
It's all anecdotal but if you can't figure out how to communicate through your kid with words alone you're an uncivilized brainlet and shouldn't have reproduced to begin with.
>My father was on the extreme of the spectrum, ANY physical correction equals a massive beat down because I have tremendous emotional baggage
Incredible
How does someone get this complacent with being slapped around? Would your dad sneak into your room at night and "physically correct" you?
The worst my mom did to me was slap my hand, I'm sorry you had a deadbeat as a father who probably raped you too given your answer.
>still having to be hit at 13
Clearly he didn't hit you hard enough if you're still that much of an butthole at 13
are you still a c**t as an adult?
That's so un-fricking true, it's unbelievable if you actually think that way. Did a best friend ever smack you on the arm as a kid? Did you ever get kicked in the groin while you were playing? Did those things result in you holding a lifelong grudge against the kid who did it, or did it teach you to mind your fricking space and that kids can be rough? If a kid gets spanked for doing something they should know better than, then they won't get hit again after that because they'll have LEARNED THE FRICKING LESSON. You act like any parent who disciplines their child looks for every opportunity to smack their kid around, when in actuality good parents who aren't afraid to spank only end up doing it like 2-3 times total in a kid's life and the kid grows into a better person for it, assuming they aren't a complete little shit, in which case once again *good* parents will recognize that and not bother. Get fricking real. No shit parents shouldn't beat their kids, but spanking doesn't even come close to that.
>You start to lay your hand on them, or hell even so much as threaten to do so and you've lost their unconditional respect
First of all, children of the age that you should spank when they misbehave are not old enough to have enough mental development to have a concept of respect or even comprehend threats, this is why you are using corporal punishment because they are not developed enough to understand larger concepts like empathy or shame.
Secondly you shouldn't want their unconditional respect, you want their CONDITIONAL respect, raising your kid to think they should respect you without condition actually is abusive and is basically setting them up to be taken advantage of.
Your kid should learn to respect you because of how you take care of them, not how you punish them.
They should learn to respect you conditionally based on how you act.
But people cannot comprehend respect if they don't have empathy which they cannot learn if they don't understand that there are consequences for them being pricks, ideally they should learn this early, teaching them this early requires corporal punishment because young children are not mentally developed enough to comprehend theory of mind.
I wouldn't say it necessarily requires corporal punishment, but that the use can be more effective when used on young kids compared to older ones. A two year old being a little shit might just need one swat on their ass, and they will likely never act out poorly again. Whereas doing that to an eight year old is likelier to make the kid more rotten because they managed to get to a point where they truly believed being a shithead was acceptable until one day their parents showed them it wasn't. The bottom line is that kids need to learn asap that they can and will get some kind of punishment if they don't behave when they're still at their most malleable, whereas it gets nigh on impossible to instill values when they're at an age that a lot of their future identity is already being cemented.
>That's also still really bad
Your kind don't manage nuclear reactors. When this country's full of you, it's actually going to become a third world shithole. The infrastructure's already falling apart as it is.
>your kind
Prety sure blue eyed white men invented nuclear reactors
>you're no longer a parent to your children
>you're a terrifying authority figure that they follow out of fear
So a regular parental figure then
Cry harder you Black person. Just because your parents were too strung out to raise you properly doesn't mean society has to deal with your moronation when you grow up. Main reason why so many of you are closeted homosexuals or trannies.
This would turn into a /misc/ thread if we could see flags. Just saying.
why doesn't Cinemaphile have flags anyways?
It's honestly crazy to me that abusing your kids is actual abuse now
I'm sorry you were abused as a kid, take my advice and get some help because you clearly haven't recovered if you still believe that hitting children is even slightly rational
I can tell you. What parents do in public nowadays when their children has a tantrum is let them cry and roll around on the floor, waiting until they tucker themselves out. It's annoying
Yes, parenting is annoying, if you're doing it properly. You will get frustrated, but in order to be a good parent you need to put your emotions aside and rationally deal with your kid, not project an emotional outburst onto them because you're mentally weak.
It works though. If acting out is met with a lack of attention and good behaviour gets a lot of attention they will naturally be inclined to do what's right. If you punish tantrums directly you create a connection between acting out and attention even if the attention is negative. Another important component is teaching the skills a kid needs to handle their feelings. If you want them to be better, they have to be taught how.
>parents aren't allowed to discipline their kids anymore
>kids grow up to be entitled shitheads who use social media
>block anyone who doesn't agree with their head-ass nonsense
This is why the world is becoming worse.
It just means I'll have to find new and novel ways to punish children.
Depends on what they've done, you can punish a child if they deliberately disobey you (Say if you give them a chore which they refuse to do) you can take away privileges of theirs such as toys and games, however if it's a young kid that isn't properly able to express the new emotions they're feeling, punishment doesn't really solve anything, it just makes them more confused (why am I being punished for expressing myself this way, does that mean it's wrong for me to feel this way, I need to suppress this emotion) then you have adults that can't express their feelings or emotions properly so they bottle them up until they explode
>I was a shithead kid and I got into shit that deserved an ass whipping
Is that what your father told you after years of whipping you with his belt?
I actually agree with you. But I can see the opposition, I was a pretty bad kid but fear of a whupping only kicked in after I had already done thing I got whupped for. Trouble is, the only alternative is grounding your kid and most children under 10 don't comprehend that as a punishment at all.
Can't you take away theirs toys, video games and smartphones. and then force them to do homework and chores?
And when they don't listen to you because they know you're a pushover, what then?
Exactly. Kids need to fear their parents first, it's the only way they'll learn respect. Which sounds awful but it worked for me.
And up to that point, max had been doing whatever the frick because he thought he could get away with it. If Max had been even a slight bit shittier of a person, he wouldn't have regretted shit. There is a middle ground.
While Pete's son respects his father, Pete's wife is with Goofy.
Nobody will hold your hand when you die.
Especially kids nowadays. They need that childhood trauma, it builds character.
Yes, they learn that if they have power, they can and should use for others to respect and listen to them
Bullying is a means of correcting antisocial behavior. Granted it almost always goes too far but the answer shouldn't be to completely remove it but rather moderate it, there is no reason why mild bullying couldn't be allowed what needs to be stopped is having it escalate to violence.
t.Eddy
Some children deserved to be punched by their parents. Not like knocking teeth out or a shiner or anything, but a good gutpunch for doing something incredibly stupid will make them remember not to do it again.
And not toddlers, of course kek.
If your kid is willing to go forever without TV, phones, video games, toys, snacks or dessert just to be able to be a little shit, I honestly don't think it can be salvaged, and the only solution is murder-suicide.
Just de-auth their devices on network while you blast kidbopz versions of your favorite tunes. Just because you can't strangle the little shits doesn't mean you have to be lazy.
>don't beat your kid
>kid responds to things other than beatings
My mum's a kindergarten teacher and the kids that get beaten by their parents are the biggest shitheads because they won't respond to anything other than beatings.
if you have to hit your children to keep them in line you're a shitty parent. you're a grown up and grown ups use their heads to solve problems not just smack them until they go away
>I suffered, so everyone else has to now!
Funny because people that never get hit when they misbehave grow up to be sociopaths.
Why would a person who is conditioned from a young age to believe there are no consequences for their actions, that they can treat anyone however they want without repercussion ever care about the feelings of other people?
>It's honestly crazy to me that spanking your kids is actual abuse now
A lot of people have trouble differentiating between disciplining and abusing. This goes for observers as well as the parents doling out the punishment.
>This goes for observers as well as the parents doling out the punishment.
And people in this thread, apparently.
Do you suppose the difference isn't arbitrary?
A literal slap on the wrist is not abuse, is not arbitrary.
What's the difference between a slap on the wrist and blunt trauma?
Sorry your parents were shitty anon but this is extreme cope
Note how homosexualry has settled into society ever since the governent decided that all slaps are abuse, rather than taking them on a case by case basis.
All the replies to this post just tells me a lot of idiots don't know how to actually discipline a child
If this was any other board, everyone would agree with you. But remember, Cinemaphile is Cinemaphile's own little r-e-d-d-i-t.
>if this was another board with more sociopaths than Cinemaphile people would agree with us
Why is there a proliferation of tough guy rhetoric here now? Wasn't this bad a decade ago
Now we have people unironically advocating for hitting your kids and justifying bullying
As wimp Cinemaphile's opinions became mainstream, wimps on Cinemaphile were finally able to use mainstream sites and left. As ANGRY normalgay's opinions became ban worthy on mainstream sites, they moved here. Simple, really.
Disciplining your child =/= Beating up child
Use your braincells Cinemaphile and apply some real adult logic. Talking and blackmailing isn't going to work if your child start assaulting people thinking they can get away with a verbal warning.
Honestly? I think it stems from women being more allowed to express their sexuality, let me explain, in the past all men thought they were hot shit because they oppressed women, made them think they were less capable than men, ect, and with the rise in women's liberation we have more women who don't feel the need to settle for the VAST amount of shitty men there are in the world, this shift in our dichotomy causes men to go fricking insane, because we're still coming off the heels of this fantasy world where women are servile and men are their "protectors" we have men who still believe they are hot shit getting utterly mind fricked when they enter the real world and women who are sexually liberated tell them to piss off, these men feel the need to prove to themselves and "the world" I guess that they're actually the super cool and badass macho men and women are the issue, which leads to thinking that anything that isn't "macho man" type stuff also contributes to them being seen as lesser men
It's literally just contrarianism. Remember this every single time you see a bunch of Cinemaphile posters displaying extremely bizarre and unjustifiable behaviour. This is an environment wherein dishonesty and trolling are not punished, ergo they will occur.
Being a roidraging tough guy like the guy that got shotgunned by picrelated is bad, but so is being a pussy. No one cares about you if you get trampled on by being a pussy. Not the letter of the law, not the cops, not women, not your woman if she's not top-tier, not your job, not your c**ty boss, not your c**ty HR, not the taxman, not your friends if you haven't known them since childhood, not your society, not the news. As we enter a dark age in Western society you will be incarcerated unjustly and disrespected regularly. The only answer is to retaliate as hard as you can get away with in that circumstance to remove shitheads in your vicinity.
Who's being a "tough guy"?
Corporal punishment was not in any way controversial until maybe twenty years ago and it's still common pretty much everywhere regardless.
It's like saying somebody is pretending to be tough because they drive a car.
You beat bullies, you dont talk to them. You show them someone bigger will frick you up if you dont play nice. That is how reality works libfoid. Violence is all some understand. Eventually they wont be dealing with smaller targets, but ones with a fricking gun and a badge.
>Cinemaphile is Reddit
>when Cinemaphile & /misc/ exist
>It’s crazy that physical violence used on kids is considered physical violence
>they hated him because he spoke the truth
I wanna frick the bird.
Which one? The Milf hen? The old flamingo? The qt wagie girl (male)? Because I agree.
sex
I know. I really like his hyper religious dove girl. It's suffering knowing literally nobody would ever waifu any of them enough for art and any thread to even post them is on thin ice so hard to maybe spread attention. Some of them are funny too imo.
Tried looking it up, comic is about a year old and doesn't have much of a backlog?
And you're waifuing these characters already?
I don't blame you, Digital Circus proves people will jump after less
am I moronic for not understanding this one
Look at the photo, the stepbrother banged his wife. I mistook it for an incest joke at first.
It's obvious anon it's... um... the page it's on doesn't clear it up much, almost all the other jokes are... comprehensible
>https://www.happyroadkill.com/post/bird-up
It's two unrelated jokes. The first one is making fun of the dove for being so evangelical she's wearing a chastity belt for non-fetish reasons and the second is a cuckolding joke
Renember when Webcomics were mostly made of
A. Shitty comics (like the one you posted)
B. Somewhat good comics
C. Pretentious comics
D. EDGE
F. Sprite comics
G. Furhomosexualtry
H. Nerd stuff
Yeah...Now half of them are gone I mourn for the death of sprite comics, every single fricking day
the only ones that are dead are sprite comics, all all of the other categories are alive and well.
please forgive me!! and tails gets trolled are ongoing and they hit most of those
sexy transgirl crow
I've literally only ever met one Aiden in my life who was a decent guy. Every other Aiden was an insufferable, weak willed, entitled, homosexual.
I guess a troony would know a few things about fricking someone up developmentally
>the majority of those replies
>"corporal punishment is AbUsE"
Those anons, and people like them, are why we have a crime problem these days.
We have the lowest crime rates in human history, world wide. Stop watching the news, they're lying to get the ad revenue from people trying to sell you bunkers and canned beans.
>he thinks crime is going down
So, what's life like in your parent's gated community?
Yes, crime is and has been going down worldwide for a while now. There was a spike on 2020, and may be in 2027 when world War 3 started, but otherwise there's no reason to assume crime rates will continue to increase after 2030
Either the stats are rigged, or something is making people's perception of the crime rate go up
>something is making people's perception of the crime rate go up
yes, the increased paranoia and fear due to insecurity that much of the world faces has led to the belief that there is much more violent crimes happening more often
>Murder rate
Cool now posts stats regarding theft and vandalism
>1990s drop
Crime bill, stop and frisk, heavy sentencing for drug possession, blatant racial profiling = murders went down
>2020 spike
Prison reform, early release, light sentencing, cops afraid to take action lest they get the chauvin threatment,
Crime will exist regardless of parenting.
Thing is some kids got spanked and some kids got cigarettes burns in their faces from their meth addict parents
It's evil to hit children.
Children are not innocent, they are selfish and are unable to sympathize with others, they have to learn how to
This. Kids are buttholes, and if their problem behaviors aren't curbed, they stay that way, or get even worse.
A child unable to sympathize is innocent the most cruel kids are unaware of the trauma they cause.
>blame everything except the individual responsible
bruh
i hate that argument, if you raise a kid in an artificial world that you've constructed, they aren't allowed to know about tomatoes but also they're constantly told "You need to kill someone! Go out and kill someone! Do it now!" and that kid grows up to kill someone, is it that kids fault?
So knowledge of tomatoes would prevent a killer in the making from damnation?
Or cucumbers
It's only evil to kill children, not to hit them. The only thing about hitting children is that as an adult you are automatically stronger than your kids, so it's best to only do spankings and hit them with soft objects like flip flops. Parents shouldn't punch, kick or throw dangerous objects like frying pans at them
Thing is spanking never worked when i was a kid because it just made me angry. It didn't make me afraid of getting hit.
Spanking is not about making the kid afraid of being hit. The reason it's a slap (the weakest way to hit someone) on the buttocks (the second strongest muscle and largest concentration of fat on most kids) is precisely so it hurts as little as possible. It's a ritualistic behavior meant to imitate actions that our caveman brain still responds to. Of course, it's not supposed to make you "afraid of being hit". So, it won't fricking work if your parents are more moronic than literal cavement.
>It didn't make me afraid of getting hit.
Thats because your parents didnt hit you hard enough. My knees trembled avery time my dad took off his belt until one day he hit me... and it didnt hurt. It burn and stung a little, but it didnt hurt as much as I remembered it.
Yeah it's not about bring afraid. It's just to associate punishment with bad behavior on a fundamental level.
if you're at the point where the only way for you to control your child is to smack them around, you've already failed several steps as a parent
>Another moron who thinks child abuse and discipline are the same thing
As opposed to what?
Kids aren't sentient, people in general barely are, you can't talk someone into behaving like a empathetic human being you have to train them to be through positive and negative reinforcement like training a dog.
Are you going to teach your dog not to piss on the carpet by putting it in the corner and talking to it?
>Kids aren't sentient, people in general barely are,
"Sentient" means "capable of perception via one or more senses". If you have functioning skin, eyes, ears, a nose, or a tongue, you are sentient.
Would you prefer sapient/sophent?
Point is kids are not rational actors.
Spanking should be absolutely the last resort to a social or moral (not educational, such as struggling in school) lesson that the kid is just not absorbing or rejecting. It's a mentally damaging act to do, but unfortunately, it's really fricking effective and kind of the impatient parents go-to method. I would never condone hitting, beating, or using a tool of any kind-- no rods or belts or shoes or any of that shit. Spanking is already a violent act as it is, you don't need to put a cherry on top.
And why I say "last resort", I mean last resort. Like, your kid keeps breaking your sisters dolls on purpose and you've spoken to him, grounded him, and done other lighter punishments for over a week straight and he still does it just to be an butthole. If after that, he's still doing it, frick I don't know. I guess you gotta start shelling out money for therapy; sorry, poor parents.
seeing the replies to this comment makes me realize why so many kids are doped up on ADHD medication nowadays.
Do anons really think spanking as a last resort after repeated offenses is the same as beating a child over nothing?
A parent holds back when they punish, society does not. It's better to drill that into a kid's skull while they still have the time to correct themselves.
You're talking about ppl who either had no guidance or single parent households. I wouldn't expect homosexuals on Cinemaphile of all places to know the lines of discipline vs abuse. I said what I said and I stick by it and I'll will spank my child if I KNOW that's the discipline they need in the moment. But of course these go nowhere homosexuals would prefer kids being on pills and transitions because smacking their ass a few times is like summoning Hitler himself.
>A parent holds back when they punish
Most of the times they are just venting their frustations on the little shits.
im obviously biased, but it definitely seemed like most of the times i was hit was because i made a mistake, was blamed for something i didnt do, or said something harmless my parents didnt like.
See.
It's a win win situation.
I was only spanked once in the church bathroom. It didn't give me much trauma. Other stuff did until I got over it.
hitting kids is hitting kids and I should be allowed to kill you without consequence if you defend it in any context.
I'm replying to agree with you and frick all the spoiled pansies ITT who think discipline is abuse.
I remember when I tried to be like a badass little kid and when my dad said he was gonna spank me I just said "I DON'T CARE I LIKE IT!" and my dad never did it again.
My parents actually kicked the shit out of me reguarly as a kid.
My mom used to punch me in the stoch hard enough to knock the wind out of me and judo throw me if I acted up, My dad would put me into chokeholds, I don't consider either of these to be abuse and I find it kind of annoying whenever I tell people about this and they immediately get all weepy "oh my god I'm so sorry that happened to you..." b***h please, are people really so sheltered that they think shit like spanking is abuse? what did all these people from so called non abusive homes get punished? Did they just get away with everything?
I figure people that never got hit as a kid are all rapists/ drug addicts as adults.
wow looks like all of those beatings shook up your brain and rendered you moronic
I never received a beating and I'm a stickler for the law; even shit like going out of my way to use a crosswalk
>My mom used to punch me in the stoch hard enough to knock the wind out of me
> My dad would put me into chokeholds
>I don't consider either of these to be abuse
My dude, both of those are literally assault, a crime that people get arrested for, you fricking moron.
>Le zoom
Nobody would do that shit in public in the fricking 50s, frick outta here with that shit
>a crime that people get arrested for
Not when done to their kids idiot.
No abuse would be doing something that actually causes injury, getting hit or choked is just painful, do you consider stubbing your toe or accidentally scratching yourself abuse?
No the only actually abusive shit my parents did was all the emotional blackmail shit and gaslighting they did when I was a kid, never taking my side about fricking anything, that's the shit that pissed me off not getting punched in the gut when I was genuinely being a c**t.
>Nobody would do that shit in public in the fricking 50s
They did far worse back then, my dad's dad broke his bones on multiple occasions, my grandma used to beat my mom with a wire clothes hanger.
My grandparents made my dad kneel on rice and beat him up with wires and tree branches. The 50s were wild.
All the replies to this post are the kinds of people that think they can reason with misbehaving children.
Your kids are going to be arrested some day for having sex with dogs and you'll have no idea why.
Shit like that happens every day in your favela. Who are you kidding?
>t. Dog Fricker
That's you, Hernandez, and then you kill it and record it to put on a snuff site.
Your mind is at its lowest point when you are a child, therefore whatever major experiences you experience as a kid, will affect your life in some way. If you decide to take your anger out on your children they will do the exact same to others and most likely you when they grow up.
>just let your child dominate you and be a permissive figure in their lives!
Yeah, I don't think you should be a parent.
People with more than five braincells should be able to rub them together to devise a series of words or non-physical negative reinforcement
>People raised by single moms
If I'm being honest, I want to be a parent someday and I currently have no idea what I'll do to punish my kids. Spanking is pretty probably detrimental (Studies showing longterm detriment on mental health, etc) but sometimes taking toys away (And things of that sort) just isn't enough. I guess timeouts but if a kid is undisciplined getting them to actually comply is gonna be a struggle.
Sometimes you just gotta beat their ass anon. I remember when my uncle caught my cousin smoking he chained him up in the basement like he was Gollum for 3 weeks.
The dude never smoked again.
Sounds horrifying
~~*studies*~~ say that?
Slapping/spanking kids is a very contested issue even outside of us seeing a lot of redditors here. I think it goes without saying spanking them, SOMETIMES popping them on the mouth, is not that bad. You shouldn't start at 11, you need to work with them and let them tucker themselves out in certain situations, but if you just see your son beating or biting another kid or sibling wouldn't that actually be a GOOD thing to associate hurting another citizen with pain?
>I think it goes without saying
Obviously it doesn't go without saying, moron, or you wouldn't have hordes of people calling you an abusive psycho - which you are.
>implying that's the same guy and implying people didn't just dump their specific emotional trauma on his statement
honestly I've never gotten spanked for fighting my brother, they just let us tucker each other out and then separated us. I guess they figured the pain of the reletively even match (we were pretty close in age) was enough to stop usbfrom hurting each other too bad.
>wouldn't that actually be a GOOD thing to associate hurting another citizen with pain?
That's the expected outcome. What you can get instead is that the kid associates the caregiver with pain
What my mother did was explain how whatever undesirable behavior could harm me. She was completely reasonable and logical about what was okay or not okay for me to do so I didn't feel the need to rebel (against what? my own self-interest?) or test her honesty. I was precocious and might've been more trusting than average so maybe this doesn't actually work on the average child. Or maybe it does. I rarely misbehaved and consequently I can count the times I was disciplined on one hand. So that's my recommendation, and start while they're young. I was a baby when she started giving me these explanations.
You had a mother that loves you
Timeouts did frick all to me as a kid
If I was sent to my room I would play video games
If they took my video games away I would play with toys
I they took the toys away I would read
If they took books away I would draw
If they said I couldn't draw I would amuse myself with my imagination
Some kids literally cannot be disciplined without corporal punishment, and honestly even that might not work after awhile I stopped caring if I got hit and even egged on my parents, my dad had the idea to start making me run laps as punishment, I ended up liking it and joined the track team... So yeah it can be difficult.
>I was a shithead kid and I got into shit that deserved an ass whipping
Doesn't sound like it helped.
>the virgin "let them tucker themselves out"
vs
>the chad "I WILL PUT YOU THROUGH THAT FRICKING WALL"
My dad's favorite was "I will tear your arms off and beat you to fricking death with them!"
I got spanked all the time but it was for crying, and it has done nothing for me as an adult. Spanking is an abuse because you do not have control of where and when parents can apply it, even if it could be an appropriate response for bad behaviour.
Spanking stops people from becoming narcissistic sociopaths when they grow up. I got spanked exactly one time when I was a kid. Know what I did? I threw a pissed off cat at my mom and it cut her arms open. Can you imagine how much of a piece of shit I'd have grown into if I didn't think there were consequences for my behavior? That spanking was the single best piece of parenting my dad ever did, I unironically grew up to thank him for it. Fricking loved my dad.
I thought the issue is that he breaks into peoples houses to do it?
Ideally, a child would only get a spanking if they were too stupid to stop doing that thing they won't stop doing.
Perhaps too often, a child gets a spanking because the parent it too stupid to even attempt any other way of telling a child to not behave in the way they are behaving.
Gotta assume all of these replies are some combination of
>parents just beat the frick out of you for every minor inconvenience which is not an actual spanking
and/or
>literally childless
I'm childless, but i work in a school for 4-6 year olds. Kids that are beaten for missbehaviour usually just try to hide what they have done, and they only "obey" when there's the risk of the parent beating them into a pulp, in the worst cases they even replicate the violence against others when corrected, there's a boy who wants to play non stop foot-ball, the moment the play time ends and I have to take the ball the kid starts to cry and punch my leg, when we told that to his mom, she did grab him and started to give him full force slaps in front of everyone.
Kids who don't get a good beating also can behave bad but you can just stay there not obeying their demands, one hour or another they will undestand and give up.
Also, when the kid who sufffers violence understand that we can't beat him, they just do whatever they want doesn't matter what you do. And when the child grows up and their parents beatings don't hurt that much anymore, they just don't know how to behave in society.
My mom says that me and my siblings should have been beat more as kid so we'd act right and stop neing shitty to her at times.
I'm not saying spankings should be off of the table but I don't know if me getting hurt for being stupid would help. If I did something wrong yeah she can beat me but being hit for a small mistake is probably pushing it. Scolding a kid hits them the hardest when they understand that they screwed up.
Also, do people really care what people do to thier own kids? Nobody today really has a community so don't think you'd be shamed for it.
Corporal punishments can work, when there a time and place for it.
Or am I wrong?
I don't equate spankings to beatings like some. However, my own father found that spanking was less effective than taking toys/games away from me in correcting misbehavior.
One of my first wake up calls to race realism was working as a teacher in an urban environment after years of being a country teacher and having to sit through a lecture on how we can't just get mad at black people for smacking their children because it's their cutlure. All the little millenial teachers had to have a ten minute lobotomy just to reset their brains to "THING I HAVE BEEN TAUGHT IS FUNDAMENTALLY WRONG IS NOW OKAY BUT ONLY IF _____ DOES IT BEEP BOOP." It was my first moment of, "Oh, wow, they really are just pets to you, aren't they?"
It's one thing to give a little harmless smack that they don't like the fact that someone who is normally cared for them has "tried" to harm them for being out of line, but a lot of spanking, actual turn your skin red spanking, was abusive and raised kids to believe that violence is just a clear, easy, and acceptable way to get what you want from people and teaches that people you care about will torture you for not falling in line for them. Some may come out of the experience okay, but every time you're rolling the dice to see if you raise an abusive or borderline adult.
Whoch is why the most violent generation right now, the one doing riots in places like portland, is 20something college kids that have never been physically disciplined as they were raised after the strict laws went into effect. Truly, believing your lying eyes is the worst.
Violent crime and murder have been on the decline and the Rodney King riots are worse. Also the material conditions for millennial and zoomers are worse so they don't have the prospects of owning a home and starting a family with a stable career and future older generations have.
Maybe stop selling all the real state to the chinese, HMMMM?
That's a neat idea, but people act for profit in the confines of what is allowed by law and regulations. To control that requires a push for more business regulation, you can't just tell someone to stop doing what's profitable and expect them to stop. Why would they?
Maybe stop selling real estate at all and reorient the development of land away from the profit motive that leads to homelessness as a means of inflating property values and instead create a system of publically distributed houses that create jobs and families?
Frick dude you have to understand...It's not JUST about talking to your kid, and the morons who smack their kids around need to understand you can't JUST smack your kids. You need both.
They have to understand WHY you did it and what they did. They're blank slates, you can't just ask them to clean their room. They don't even know what CLEAN IS. You have to explain it to them. You are their only frame of reference to the world so all information has to be passed through you.
Moreover there's a difference between open defiance and ignorant defiance. If your kid is standing on a table with their pants off you can't just beat them. You have to explain why they're being a little turd. But if they're doing it SPECIFICALLY BECAUSE you told them not to? Sure give em a smack because at some point kids (more so if you have a son) are testing the boundaries because we're hardwired to explore. But AFTER try to figure out why your kid is doing it. They might just want more attention so just ask.
tl;dr You must balance being firm and fair. Smacking is a last resort. Talk to your kids, because in the beginning you are their ONLY source of information to this new world. They genuinely don't know shit.
It's crazy to me that parents used to think they own their children, I'm glad we started to see kids as actual human beings
>all these angry replies
It's hilarious how many childless incels are seething at this post
>spanking bad, when I have a kid (not happening) I'll straighten him out with my le words!
I mean, you could possibly try, but you'd still have to be stern, which either means some yelling, or even a bit of screaming since there's going to be a point during the child's age where they won't listen until stimulated by something that makes them cease their attempts to drown out their parents attempt at authority. The problem is a lot of people seem to think all kids can just be reasoned with in 100% calm terms, and that's just not true because all humans act out, especially in childhood because we all literally don't know better in our early years. Anybody who says "well some kids are pretty agreeable at a young age" is pulling from a literal minority of the rarest instances when some kids weren't being turdlets
>"Listen here BUSTER, spanking is BAD because it causes TRAMA"
>"Didn't you know that HITLER, yes the fascist dictator HITLER, used to sit on his throne and watch the NAZIS spank AFRICAN AMERICANS"
>"Know your place CHUD"
The trick to corporal punishment is than it's more psychological than physical. A light tap is the same as a hard strike in terms of getting the point across- that a parent is willing to cross a boundary. Straight up taking out anger on a child is the wrong way to do it.
One hundred percent certain not a single one of these replies, pro-spanking or not, is coming from someone who has a child.
I’m surprised they still use Quagmire in recent Family Guy.
Quagmire has been relegated to being the "older friend" of the group
Guagmire is now the occasionally horny voice of reason of the show. Less obnoxious than Brian and Lisa, though
I liked the premise of the pilot episode in that Johnny gets rekt by women, but can destroy dangerous wiener-blocking animals no problem
He's not a lovable sex pest anymore
They know how to use a character with a troubling past.
That's because he's now an old man who gets pissy at his friends and has been hating Brian's guts since Season 8.
Even Peter told him he's a rapist when he asked for his own show
Pepe did nothing wrong
Pepe might be the most salvageable.the but the problem is that WB made a huge deal of getting rid of him. In recent years they toned down his gimmick in a number of ways. Making him less handsy. Having Penelope reciprocate. Letting him lose more. I don't think in current year pepe was doing anything all that questionable and they still chose to get rid of him. Now if they brought him back it'd look like they weren't sticking to their guns. And pepe isn't like speedy who has a huge following so he's probably gone for good.
Honestly the best way to solve it is just to do it like the episode where she reciprocated his feelings but just couldn't stand his smell and he was too obvious to figure it out. I think they did three versions of that. One where she just starts wearing a clothes pin on her nose so she can't smell him, one where perfume spilled on him and he didn't sink anymore, and one where she jumps in garbage so she'll sink too but then it ends with her chasing him instead because now he can't stand her smell.
All kino.
Based
Eh, he was never really used all that much in the original shorts either.
Good, French people don't belong on TV.
Definitely not Hank Azaria's Apu, but didn't they announce they bringing Apu back?
I hope it isn't that one fricker who caused this shit in the first place.
Hope he chokes on this shitty life
On the contrary, I actually want to see him pick up the role. Just imagine the backlash: he wrote the book and got Apu dropped because he was called Apu as a kid
>Claim they won't stop using Apu
>They stop using Apu
>Claim Homer won't stop strangling Bart and it was all just clickbait
>Homer stops strangling Bart for real
Never trust Fox when it comes to this shit
Nothing of value was lost
They couldn't even use him back then, he was literally treated as a massive creep in-universe. Frick, he was even the only KND villain to have gotten arrested.
We have studies now on the effects of corporal punishment and how it usually leads to measurable negative mental effects down the line, where does the idea that hitting your kids works even come from and why do people still cling to it?
Because whatever the frick parents are doing nowadays obviously doesn't work, their kids are gigantic pieces of shit
I'd rather a kid throw tantrums in public than be perfectly behaved but with mental issues that persist to adulthood.
The kind of thinking that tries to curtail kids being kids is the same reason so many of them are on ADHD medication these days, incidentally
I'd rather you get beaten
Hurt people hurt people, if you have bad parents, say they're maybe alcoholics or just evil and beat you as a kid, you may grow up to belive that's just what parents do, and so on and so forth, we have generations of people that just think "my father beat me as a kid, therefore I outta beat mine! That's how parenting works!" Same reason why so many men in the United States are circumcised.
>where does the idea that hitting your kids works
animal instincts
>thing bad/annoying
>hit thing until go away
I don't remember seeing animals hit their children for doing something wrong
You clearly haven't been around many animals
A common behavior you'll see from mammals is parents slapping their kids upside the head
A common behavior you'll see in mammals is literally eating their newborns, shit, and vomit.
I'll never get the obsession with she people of trying to learn life lessons from a lesser life form instead of just using common sense and reasoning.
>I don't remember seeing animals hit their children for doing something wrong
>hit
That's because they opt for biting/nipping instead.
>animal instincts
Which are notoriously objectively and morally correct always and humans have lived for thousands of years exclusively following our "animal instincts"
not only you are putting words in my mouth, but to demonstrate a counterpoint to an argument that i didn't mention you posted new york?
I think he's trying to show that humans are objectively superior to all animal life and posted New York to show an example of what we've achieved.
>posted New York to show an example of what we've achieved
burn it all down
roundhouse kick humanity in the teeth
curb stomp humanity
You're a fricking idiot, I posted a picture of just a generic skyline full of skyscrapers to show that humans do not follow their "animal instincts" and it's caused us to become a more successful species because of this
notice how i never brought up the point of animal instincts good or animal instincts bad.
also frick skyscrapers
Minorities do it and libtards want to simp for them
Circle
Of
Violence
>Studies
There are studies showing that the world would be better if you fricked your mother.
Studies mean jack shit.
Corporal punishment worked for thousands of years, people only started complaining about it for the last few decades.
In the last few decades people who were raised without corporal punishment grow up to be narcissistic sociopathic c**ts because they have never faced consequences for their actions and think the world revolves around them.
>In the last few decades people who were raised without corporal punishment grow up to be narcissistic sociopathic c**ts because they have never faced consequences for their actions and think the world revolves around them.
because you have to beat the hell out of children for them to understand this, right?
>because you have to beat the hell out
Again with the extremes, you literally cant think of degrees of force. A single spank is not beating the hell out of anyone.
>because you have to beat the hell out of children for them to understand this, right?
Unironically yes.
Granted it doesn't necessarily have to be the parent doing the hitting, it could be another adult, another kid, an animal,etc the point is people need to understand that other people have feelings and boundaries and that there are consequences to violating them if you never get that you never learn how to empathize with others and devolve into a solipsistic world view where you don't consider others unless it benefits you.
People have been complaining about the behavior of kids since antiquity, and just because a custom as been carried out for thousands of years does not mean it's a beneficial one
People were complaining about the behavior of KIDS before.
Only recently have we had this behavior being exhibited by large quantities of adults, and we have that because these people were denied valuable life lessons as kids and grow up in a state of arrested development.
Where were all the neets and e-thots and man children in the past?
They were either beaten until they straightened up and flew right or were killed.
>If you don't physically punish your kids, they'll become NEETs and e-thots and manchildren
Incredible.
Prove me wrong
Because it's "trad" and trad circlejerking is currently the hot topic among Cinemaphile contrarians
anyone else's parents made you hold out your hand to them so they could smack it with a wooden spoon, then smack you after you refused to hold it back out after the first 3 times?
My mom threw frying pans at me
She couldn't just throw a sandal, throwing a frying could kill a full grown man, then again you survived so idk
Hello fellow Irish anon
hurting kids might be questionable but I do think parents don't really think things trough one way or another in how to best help their children grow up. A lot of them are to neglecting and let others (tv, the state etc.) do everything. Hurting them doesn't help, pampering them doesn't help, letting them completely to themselves don't help and not being a part of their lives or barely bothering with them doesn't help.
so the solution...is to not have kids
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Well first of, you should only have kids if you really want them AND have good (enough) health in the family, I for one wouldn't want to give my kids anything that only makes them suffer more or handicap them. Second, I believe it would be best to explain whatever you can to your children and be nice without being overbearing, try to set a good example. Punish them if they do something wrong but don't turn it into a regular shouting match or use violence (unless they did something very seriously wrong).
>you should only have kids if you really want them AND have good (enough) health in the family
Thinking like this is why many countries around the world now have a shrinking population, your line of thought is gonna collapse our economy and way of life, if not humanity itself.
>your line of thought is gonna collapse our economy and way of life, if not humanity itself.
You are a lunatic, and have been brainwashed by capitalists propaganda.
No, a decline in population is not going to lead to the end of humanity, or an economic collapse. 1. The economic is entirely made up, if the people running t don't want it to collapse it won't. 2. Humanity has only grown this size rapidly within the last couple hundred years, we lived for thousands of years on a population of millions or even possibly less
Not only was spanking supposed to be an absolute last resort because your kid was openly mocking that words weren't working on them (which is way more rare than most people realize) for having committed a really fricking bad thing, but Count Spankulot was notoriously a fricking weirdo no one liked in universe and the show regularly treated as a villain that even fricking Father agreed went too fricking far in multiple places.
Toilenator was more liked than him. Toilenator.
>ITT: childless virgins tell others how parenting should be done
This was annoying before but now that I am a parent it's become far fricking worse. Seriously you people need to stay the frick in your lanes and leave the parenting to parents.
Yes, because raising children is just as easy as creating them
You're obviously doing a shit job and your kids will grow into absolutely insufferable individuals
This is a "where's your cartoon, Goobermeister?" response. Getting micromanaged by non-parents that Luvs diapers are inferior to Huggies diapers is one thing. This is very broad and morality criticism that anyone can take part in. Anyone can step in and say it's not okay to smack your child, your dog, or your spouse. Like, do I need to be married in order to comment on someone in an abusive relationship or something?
>Anyone can step in and say it's not okay to smack your child, your dog, or your spouse. Like, do I need to be married in order to comment on someone in an abusive relationship or something?
No, you have to let parents of children do whatever they wish and you aren't allowed to say a word about it, let them raise future serial killers
>Like, do I need to be married in order to comment on someone in an abusive relationship or something?
Without weighing in on the situation morally, it's kind of been proven that you really should just shut your damn mouth about someone else's spousal abuse. The person being abused most likely is going to see you as an outside force butting into their life and, at the very worst, will confide in their spouse that you are a threat opening you up to a violent action by someone who's been proven to have a pretty violent streak to begin with. Also, that battered wife still isn't going to realize the error of her ways and frick you, man.
Could we go back to the main thing of the thread instead of discussing parenting stuff
>parenting isn't easy
Yet that doesn't stop morons in this thread from pretending they're experts on the subject while never having even done the act necessary for producing offspring.
Meant for
Have you ever thought that maybe they making a selfless sacrifice by not bringing in sentient life to experience the horrible world while carrying bad genetic traits like lack of height, small penises, and lactose intolerance
>Cinemaphile
>selfless
that's just an ad hominem you just made, and doesn't refute the point I made
What's there to refrute? You made a moronic assumption that still doesn't change the fact that people who have no experience in parenting are acting like they're experts on the subject without any sort of experience or know how.
You don't need to be a chef to know that certain dishes taste like shit
You'd sooner trust a chef to make you a meal than some random person off the street.
Just because you can tell a dish tastes like shit doesn't mean you know what's wrong and how to fix it if you aren't a chef
Your ancestors had all that but lived and reproduced anyways. They were probably happier than you too
those ancestors had multiple children who ended up in bad places, or who ended up not creating children at all. Just because a family life is created, doesn't mean it would be a pleasant one, especially if the offsprings of all those ancestors end up being terrorists, murderers, and Cinemaphile users
The world's not horrible you were just raised wrong
And by that logic, if my parents didn't create me then I wouldn't be raised wrong by them so my point of selfless sacrifice still stands
Anti-natalism is very unproductive, Anon.
Why not do all that and then go out for some cigarettes?
>WTF you guys aren't parents so you aren't allowed to criticize me, stop telling me to stop beating my children!!
guess I can't look down on child molesting parents either. I'm not a parent, I just don't get it.
Lowkey Im too selfish and lazy to be a parent and my biggest fear about being a father is failing to be a parent. Because not being a parent, my frick ups are my fault and only I suffer. As a parent, my frick ups become my child’s problems.
And the sad part is, I want to be a father and raise a kid, if I did become a father I would want to stay for them, but I know they would be better off if I wasn’t in there life and it just hurts knowing I would be a bad father despite wanting to be a father
boy sure I love derailed threads
pretty sure this is the actual topic OP had in mind.
So did the erotic feeling of spanking and being spanked developed first by a spanker, or a spankee? And was it issued of pushed back feelings of childhood abuse mixed with the crossing of wirings, or a continuous cycle of violence that turned into pleasure once the roles were inverted for the victim?
No, I was never spanked and now as an adult I love spanking and being spanked. I honestly just like butts and it grew from there.
>all of the sniveling betas itt
This is frankly the same reason we need to bring back REAL bullying in schools
So I guess no one here has a South American mom right? They would just smack your shit then and there if you misbehave, kinda like
/thread
Wait what was this thread about?
Could you name even one example of a bullied person who ended becoming good for society, cause most of them end up alcoholic, abusive to their spouses, and even killers. The bullies end up even worse people morally since they realize they can harm others for fun and get away with it
>this much projecting
Lmao. What a gay.
Daaaaamn. Almost like there’s a limit to the frequency and severity of a punishment. But discipline hurts peepohs feelings 🙁 so let’s just let everyone do what they want.
Still can't name anyone who benefited form bullying
Me. I learned that decking an butthole in the face is the best way to get them to frick off. But I’m sure crying to the counselor did you wonders too.
Crime has actually been increasing since the St. Floyd’s summer, and it only dropped prior to that because of tough on crime policies and the war on drugs breaking up the mafia and larger gangs, along with locking up current and future criminals
Typical tough guy conservative with nothing of value to add.
Assuming all physical punishment is bullying is a dishonest approach to the conversation
the comment was a response to this statement from this
>we need to bring back REAL bullying in schools
>no meme arrow
Ah so you look like and say those things?
Have another (you) newhomosexual.
Projection
I mean anecdotally my friend was bullied pretty badly growing up, but he seems a good father to his toddler and he took up data science
And then they try robbing the local gas station and get gunned down in their teens.
The thing is you can just talk with your kids instead of hitting them. As a parent you have (or at least should have) such a rapport built up with you children that talking to them should suffice. Your words should hold weight enough alone without having to resort to the threat of physical violence.
I have never seen fat little goblina women discipline their kids ever. They just run around and scream and grab things.
Pepe Le Pew and for a more obscure example the Drunk Stork from the classic Looney Tunes shorts
>Pussyfoot in a bikini
>ITT South Americans and rednecks justifying child abuse
You are all literally subhuman filth.
>inb4 you just weren’t spanked maaan
I promise you, I was hit more than you homosexuals ever were. I thank god none of you will breed.
>People talk about spanking
>Anon got fricking HIT instead
>Because his frame of reference is violence, he cannot understand discipline
The reason hispanics use a flip flop is precisely because it doesn't hurt, it just makes noise. Like the stupid paper fans the japanese use.
Comics and Cartoons?
Damn straight
This is very on topic about the nuances that would prevent us from having characters like count spankula on new cartoons.
Fair point, just report the thread (which was rather shitty from the opener, honestly).
>report the thread
You're a moron, this thread is vastly more entertaining and insightful than the daily fricking "how big is too big" porn threads or the "Dall E Ai" shlock
Hey frick you buddy, I wanted to talk abotu Count Spankulot, not my fault things evolved.
I think the biggest argument for why spanking actual children is bad is because we had an opportunity for either a good character discussion thread or a massive fetish thread and everyone ended up sperging about their childhood trauma instead.
Threads like these turning into therapy sessions happen every time. Just imagine if this was a thread about A Goofy Movie.
...it'll still be 50/50nifnits gonna be fetish or therapy sesh
Which is funny since anybody with an objective sense of reality would realize that both Pete and Goofy are right in their own way.
They're both wrong because they didn't understand love. Goofy thinks being lenient and a buddy is love but that's just affection, Pete thinks making his kid piss scared is love but that's just being overly protective in his own way, keeping him in a bubble that he made with boundaries he set with no regard to his son's feelings or needs. True love is hard and ever since people formed a concept of love they've been trying to crack just defining it in human words without it being a self referential paradox.
Wrong
They were just overbearing and didn't take time to listen, but their methods are still solid
Threads like these are why its hard to discuss A Goofy Movie seriously
Worthless homosexuals
>Squidward's father spanked him as a child, isn't that sad?
>Yes I suppose that's rather sad but Squidward can relieve himself complaining about it in a Cinemaphile thread. Now get back to work
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Frick them for removing "Shake like me" from streaming, reruns and the fricking "complete ATHF collection" DVD that came out this year
The funny thing is that even BLM people thought this was moronic.
People on Twitter probably wanted the Radioactive Black Man who bit Shake who is white to get reparations for being exposed to radioactivity
Anybody advocating for corporal punishment ITT should not be listened to because they were hit as children and grew up to become Cinemaphile users.
M'Baku The Man-Ape
M'Baku was in both Black Panther movies, Infinity War and Endgame. They just don't use the full name anymore.
He also doesn't wear the ape pelt. He's not the same character anymore, anon. That's the fricking point
M'Baku is unfortunately the most popular character from that entire franchise
What is the matter here. I really don't get it?
*spanks*
"Harder Daddy!"
"What the FRICK!?"
His entire joke was that only an ancient, creepy monster would actually spank a kid in modern times and all the other adults pretty much treated him like a child abuser (even though they themselves were doing worse bodily harm to the KND)
He's also the only KND villain to canonically get punished by the legal system.
Since it's getting an animated series
Should've gotten the jab
>a..ah y..yea spank m-me mommy
>i disobeyed your orders and now i need a punishment
>c-can you use t-t-the paddle this t-time, please?
Would you smack your elderly grandmother because she didn't follow your directions? Would you instill her with fear so that she becomes obedient and follows your directions to avoid violent punishment? No?
Then don't hit your kid either.
No, but I'd smack my kids if they were being little shit out of spite for me.
Last I checked, you don't hold legal guardianship over your elders.
>Would you smack your elderly grandmother because she didn't follow your directions?
No because she would break also elderly people generally don't need such correction because they have fully formed brains.
But in the case of say an old with dementia who doesn't understand what they are doing you can by all means use physical force to restrain them/ keep them from hurting themselves or others, even if they didn't break from a smack it wouldn't do much good because they won't be able to form new associations like kids can.
>Would you instill her with fear
Corporal punishment has nothing to do with fear, it's about creating a pavlovian association between something unpleasant (pain, stress) and the antisocial behavior until they are old enough to develop a sense of empathy or shame.
I'm a weird case. I know my parents fricking sucked at parenting, I was basically never punished for anything. But at the same time, I was treated terribly in general. Moved out at 17. I do care about others and try to be a good person but I'm undisciplined as hell and struggling to learn to be so.
This is what the argument should be about. Not about the psychological ramifications of being hit as a child but the actual parenting in general. My parents were shit at parenting AND spanked/hit me. I was never confused why I got hit because I knew I was being a little shit and was starting to learn that actions have consequences which made sense to me. What didn't make sense to me was the constant arguing, pridefullness, lying, or obsessiveness for control my parents constantly showed. That ended up causing the most damage on my mental well-being and in turn stunted my growth into properly adjusting into adulthood.
Turn him into count suckula and make him suck the kids wieners and hes fine
>spanking will somehow lead to serial killers
Holy frick, that's one stupid leap of logic. Yes, excessive punishments will yield terrible results, but a fricking swat on the ass isn't going to change a child from Mr. Rogers Jr. to fricking Charles Mason Jr.
The overlap between people who think smacking a child is a crime yet constantly drugging a kid with adhd medication or giving him a smartphone 24/7 is perfectly acceptable just shows that people just change to fit the times, rather than improve.
>muh spanking bad
You spank children around the age of 10 when they understand the punishment, before that you simply hold them and not allow them to cause a tantrum.
>simply hold them and not allow them to cause a tantrum
lol
hi 162
It’s insane that these are treated like fricking Mammy Two Shoes
Ms. Bellum wasn't removed because she offended black people, she was removed because she was supposedly just "token sexy woman character", and the guy in charge of the Powerpuff Girls reboot was literally a weirdo obsessed with one of the character. So much so that he even made a self-insert character designed and voiced by himself
>Ms. Bellum wasn't removed because she offended black people
I meant it more in the way that the characters are viewed as some sort of old shame from a bygone era.
Well that still applies to my point, since "sexy" characters are practically nonexistent now because "muh male fantasy" or whatever talking point is brought up to shame something. Which made the decision to axe Bellum all the more hilarious when she was literally the brains behind the mayor, and her sex appeal was extremely tasteful at all times, especially compared to Minerva who did have her sexiness played as just straight up eye candy in the few segments of classic Animaniacs she appeared in. While I'm not about to claim the lack of sexy women is somehow done to avoid pissing off trans folk, it is pretty baffling how one of the most innocuous "sexy" characters in cartoons is treated like she was a shameful slight against women.
Really. There are no sexy characters at all anymore?
Not nearly as many as there used to be. Sure, people will sexualize characters from current cartoons, but half the time those characters barely have any curves to them
Ok. So there are still sexy cartoon characters and cartoon characters people find sexy.
Not nearly as much as there used to be that they're virtually nonexistent
But you just conceded that they arent absent and that people continue to sexualize cartoon characters. At best youre arguing there arent ENOUGH sexy cartoon characters. How many should be in the quota?
I never said they were completely absent. The point is that they shouldn't be treated as problem because they never were. Why are you moving the goalpost like this?
He's being pedantic because he jacks off to the little girls from the Owl House.
Im reframing your point to illustrate what i think is a flaw in your argument, maybe 2.
1. If sexy characters in cartoons are practically nonexistant then is the internet so full of sexualizations of these cartoon characters? They cant not be sexy if the general response is sexualization.
2. Your argument indicates that there is a desirable number of sexy cartoon characters but you wont put the number to words because itll sound silly
NTA but you're acting like a character needs to be intentionally designed to be sexy to be sexualized by internet artists.
Close! I dont think a character needs to be designed to be sexy to be sexy, i think they just need to be sexualized. See the onceler for deets.
Which is just absurd since fricking Maggie Simpson, a literal baby, has tons of porn. Sure, a lot of it uses her various older designs where she's not a baby, but that hasn't stopped some folk from doing smut of her non-adult design. And nobody in their right mind finds babies sexually attractive.
Pal, people will sexualize literal blobs and blocks if they can feel up to drawing such shapes with curves. That in no way implies that a square (or a box if you want to get three dimensional) is inherently sexual looking, it just means that some people will apply sexiness to things for a number of reasons. Remember, this is the very website where a man admitted to hundreds of anonymous users that he finds floor tiles arousing.
Ok and if theres a large contigent of people drawing Triangela from Shape Friends with big hooters and posting "Please step me isoceles mommy" then im sorry but that is clearly a sexy shape at least to someone.
Ignoring that literally all cartoon porn is just getting horny for shapes anyway.
It's more than that in a lot of cases. Some characters are liked for being the kind of woman (or man) that tics all the boxes for people, hence why various cartoon and anime girls are so popular. Sure, you can boil it down to them just being shapes on paper/pixels on a screen, but there's still more going on than just neurons activating over shapes
You're just being needlessly obtuse. Sure SOMEONE can find it hot but that's not the same as a sexualized character. Large busts, wide hips, full lips, shapely figures are pretty universally signs of a sexy woman. That's the kind of characters you can't really make anymore. Even adult animation rarely does anymore. If someone can jack it to minnie mouse more power to em but that's clearly not a character that's meant to be sexy.
My homie there's porn of the ghosts from pacman. Rule 34 exists for a reason. The existence of people who will coom to a character does not imply the character is sexy.
No, there aren't.
I hate how the concept of a motherly black person is a "harmful stereotype".
nta but it's absolutely a result of this fear of everything old
even if something was never offensive, once it becomes old enough it'll be culled in fear that it miiiight be offensive
It's not the response you're looking to get, but here's a reminder that Mark Hamill is 72.
Yeah. They can't use this character anymore.
Spakula was voiced by Daran Norris, Hamill voiced Stickybeard
Let’s talk about the reverse. How many times did you get in trouble for shit that wasn’t true. But because you’re the kid, and they’re the adult, your side of the story is always in the wrong. Because why would an “adult” lie
Like look, I wasn’t the most well behaved kid. I did stupid shit and got in trouble alot, but I would argue at least 40% of the things I got in trouble for were out of context or straight up lies. I was once accused of throwing glass on the sidewalk by one of my neigherbors and forced to spend the day going around the neighborhood picking up glass shards by hand then right an apology letter for something I didn’t do. Even as an adult I’ve lost a job over shit that didn’t happen because someone lied about my actions.
I got spanked like two times as a kid. First time was because I was being a moronic little turd and poked one of my brothers in the eyes with a stick over not being taken by our grandmother for the day. The second time was because I carelessly pointed a BB gun at the same brother while it was loaded. And while maybe I could try to justify the second time as me just being a small little shit who could just barely hold the damn gun up, I still shouldn't have been pointing that thing at anybody since BBs can do a lot of damage up close. But I sure as hell learned not to act like in such stupid ways after that.
But having said that, I can still point out a method of punishment that I'm pretty resentful of, which was my grandmother's use of soap in the mouth for bad language. That moment still sometimes crops into my head, and I would have much preferred just being sternly talked to or even slapped lightly upside the face for not minding my manners. Being picked up like a dog that shat on the carpet and getting soap crammed in my mouth was extremely alarming to my tiny little brain back then.
So get the frick over yourselves if you think spanking is somehow the Auschwitz treatment
Why are there so many idiots in this thread that think spanking and beating are the same thing?
Because to a child it is. It is a terrifying violation of trust that communicates nothing except "fear me because i can create pain in you whenever i am displeased". An adult can differentiate between a slap and a beating. A child who has no life experience only knows that his parents have decided it is acceptable and important that he feels pain.
I think the bigger issue is how many of these abused kids go on to be abusive parents.
Depending on the severity of the spanking, it can quickly become just plain beating. Light use of the hand will just shock the person being spanked more than anything. But excessively hard swats with the hands, or just straight up using an implement like a belt is going to do physical damage. And you can't say that welts from a beat aren't beatings
I think it's because giving a little pop is different than repeated strikes so hard they cause skin discoloration.
you guys play video games?
>Discipline? No I would simply use facts and logic to earn my toddler's respect in the grocery store
Do children HAVE to be smacked around to make them behave? No, of course not. But the fact of the matter is that sometimes, not always, but sometimes a child may require a bit of "tough love" as it's called to get them to straighten out. To act like a smack on the ass or a slap to the back of the head will turn a child into a future death row inmate is just flat out disingenuous and not based on any kind of supportable fact. Yes, SOME kids might turn into shit people from how they were raised, but it's not a 100% guarantee. Just like how a person can watch the Rocky Horror Picture show and grow up straight. nobody with a rational mind thinks it always screws with a person's sexuality.
>An assumption based purely on your emotions.
No it's pure common sense AND backed up by tons of studies. That's why they're pulling back on Child/Teen transition in many civilized nations
>So then post some rather than having a meltie over the possibility someone else might do it.
Nah, it won't convince you. I don't care what you think. You can find the studies if you want. GAG and other groups make this data readily available.
>backed up by tons of studies.
Such as
Go educate yourself. GAG[ Gays Against Groomers], Billboard Chris and more have lots of compiled data and links to whistleblowers in the trans community.
Trannies are just NGC People who're being psyopped/gaslit.
citation needed, closetcase
I gave you the fricking search terms you need. If you want to learn, you'll have to seek it yourself.
>closetcase
lmfao
But don't you know Google is pozzed and will just censor all of the results anyway? You should give people actual reputable studies demonstrating your point.
Diogenes would laugh at the notion of someone just going "take my word for it bro"
I'm not saying take my word for it. I'm saying pick up a spoon and shovel the data into your wienerhole.
honestly reads like a lefty pretending to be moronic to try and make le other guy look bad
Its trans derangement syndrome not unique to the right.
"And so Diogenes said 'it's not my job to educate you sweaty do your own research but only with info so bad faith and anti-gay the gays have left GAG' and it was so based a moron put these words in an image."
My favorite diogenes story was when he trolled plato's definition of man as a featherless biped by throwing a crude map showing where to find chickens at him
Ok and so some of this data is...?
Go find it yourself. I told you what it isd and where it is. I'm not spoonfeeding you any more than that. You only get ONE LAST spaggettio airplane landing from this fella.
HERE IT COMES! OPEN UP! EOOOWWWWWWWWW COMING IN FOR A LANDING: Gays against Groomers or Billboard Chris
Anon youre claiming to have this knowledge yet you cant cite any of its numbers or point us directly to it, instead youve referred us to what i can only assume are 2 twitter accounts.
Go find out for yourself moron. I'm not doing you any more favors.
>twitter accounts
Of course they have twitter. What a moronic deflection. Go look at the data for yourself. Avail yourself. I've led you tot he water but cannot force you to drink.
>I've led you tot he water
you didnt though
post links
I'm not spoonfeeding you. You can copy paste the keywords I furnished you with into your search engine of choice.
why isnt this image enlarging when i click the arrows in the upper-right corner?
You gave me a treasure map to fantasia written in crayon and told me the blue bits are water.
No I didn't. Either of those search results gets you EXACTLY what you need and I'm trying to direct you to in the top 5 results.
Link some.
Eat shit and die. Use the search terms and enlighten yourself. see
post links
No. Frick you. You don't want to learn and so you won't be convinced bvy whatever I give you.
If you wanted to learn, you could copy and paste the search terms I provided you with and investigate for yourself. You don't want that. You want me to link something so you can scan it lazily and then find a biased "debunk" that doesn't even actuall debunk or even address the claims. You just want to swat me down so you can further harden your beliefs. If you didn't, you'd be open to doing the research I suggested.
You are a baby man.
Hilarious coming from the pussy who won't even google something and click a top 5 result
You can keep repeating yourself as if it's some sort of win but we both know it's not.
I'm sitting here politely directing you to the info you want and you're making homosexual power games about me doing things you demand of me. Frick you. The info is where I told you it is. If you want it, go fricking get it homosexual.
A baby man in his doo doo palace of lies.
lmao please comtinue to behave in this way
Well actually the thing is, in almost all online discussions, only about 30% of the people who read the dicussion contribute to it. So I win a possible larger victory with the silent majority every time I make you guys act like fearful childen who can't google something. They see how fearful and dishonest you are. If you had guts or highground or any character, you'd go straight to the sites I mentioned and start ripping the data to shreds. But you won't, because you're afraid to learn or change. And that gets seen too.
By your logic of the silent majority, would it not benefit them to post some actual citations?
>By your logic of the silent majority, would it not benefit them to post some actual citations?
I told them where to find it. It's a much more effective teaching strategy to elicit investigation and curiosity than it is to ram things down people's throats. I pointed to two different places with large amounts of links to data and studies about the issue of trans people. If they want to check, they can. Just like you.
Trying too hard just hardens people you moron. If you're too hardeneed to even do a google, you were a lost cause to begin with.
I think it's safe to say by not posting anything easily accessible you've dwindled the amount of people who might hear you out from "some" to "zero." The couple hundred butthurt replies when called out over this also probably don't help. But in your case it might just be safer to pretend rather than risk you shooting up a mosque.
>I think it's safe to say by not posting anything easily accessible you've dwindled the amount of people who might hear you out from "some" to "zero."
It's not though. People who're actually good faith operators who are opoen to learning will take the step to highlight the search term and right click it then select "search internet".
All you've done is make your side out to be completely dishonest clowns who won't even engage when given something to engage with.
Id actually just prefer to have you make specific claims followed by a direct citation so the conversation is focused on the issues and not on the assumption that the whole corpus of bill board's on twitter roundly justifies any and every claim you could care to make.
>assumption that the whole corpus of bill board's on twitter
But I didn't say check his twitter. He has one yes but I didn't tell you check that. I said google "Billboard Chris". [The first result is his personal website where has a great compilation of damning studies and data]
Sorry i was just mocking you for citing a twitter account and someone called billboard chris.
lmao so you're just gonna make fun of the fact that a guy made a site with tons of very recent relevant data about trans people?
Please continue, you're only smashing the legbutt cause to into smaller and smaller smithereens.
>legbutt
Maybe you should use the site to rustle up some data there pard, your arguments looking weaker than a rattlesnake with dentures ya hear
Nope. That's on you. If you want to learn, you can feed yourself lil' piggy. Trough's over there.
Are you hitting on me pard
>Switching to flirtatious behavior in an attempt to make me lash out or look gay
Classic. You're out of cards.
>giving troony kids special treatment
>forcing all the kids through education that muddies basic biological truth
Dude, if I was a neglected 7 year old and I saw how much attention little troony kids get? I'd be jumping onboard just to get sparkly stickers to put on my pencilcase. Much less all the more complex social reasons that happen later.
>trannies say they always felt trans, even as kids
>kids say they feel trans
There's no proof that you only suddenly feel like a woman in adulthood with no such feelings in childhood. Trannies have been reporting and going to therapy for this shit that's been going on since before adulthood and before it was acceptable to the point that teachers would ever bring it up in a classroom. You're ignoring facts and spinning a narrative.
>There's no proof that you only suddenly feel like a woman in adulthood with no such feelings in childhood.
There is no such thing as "feeling like a woman". You have the chromosomes you have and the you have the personality and interests that you have.
In order to "feel like a woman" one must think there are things and feelings that are woman only but also have these feelings without any real lived experience. It's nonsense.
>Trannies have been reporting and going to therapy for this shit that's been going on since before adulthood and before it was acceptable to the point that teachers would ever bring it up in a classroom.
Literally not relevant. People also report being dinosaurs when they're young. My little brother thought he was a Kaiju. He would crab walk around the playground screeching like Destoroyah.
I see all this talk about what men and women are and aren't and I just think:
But if there is nothing deeper to it, then what if a person just wants to change their clothes, body and appearance?
Adults can do what they want. I think it's probably also okay to let your son dress in frilly pinks. What's not okay is when you demand others play along with a fantasy or deny reality. Be a boy named "Billy" who wears pink and loves nail polish. Use normal pronouns. Stop trespassing onto other people's reality. Your need to piss in a pink room next to real women doesn't override their right to have bioligically limited spaces.
Does that mean the religious can't impose their values on pedos?
No because pedos are immoral on a level beyond the religious and spiritual. Most culture understand consent and sexual trauma. It's a basic human truth akin to gender reality.
>Most culture
>basic human truth
Exceptions sure are a lazy way to avoid admitting error.
So is the flawed logic of assuming every moral issue is because of religion.
Indeed
I don't care if people legally get their name changed, so why would I care if they change their pronouns?
>ALL trans people are self-hating gays, gender-non conformers, grooming victims or dishonest fetishists.
You say this like it's a gotcha but most trans people self-identify as gender-non conforming.
>so why would I care if they change their pronouns?
They're demanding you lie and view reality as they demand you to. A bearded man doesn't get to ask for "She/Her", a lanklet MtF doesn't get to demand "He/Him" and nobody gets to demand "They/Them". You get the pronouns I choose base on how I read your biological sex. If people get it wrong often, that's no skin off your nose anyways unless your whole life is a big LARP and this guy is breaking character and ruining your immersion.
It's very simple: Do what you want and keep your fricking delusions to yourself.
>favoring the realities of some over others.
Yeah phsyical and mental security override your mental illness. Pretty clean case. You aren't having your reality intruded on when women say they don't want your male muscles in their pisspot rooms.
>phsyical and mental security override your mental illness
So then why is it acceptable to attack pedos, but then decry muslims attacking those that morally offend them?
>most trans people self-identify as gender-non conforming.
So you're in the wrong body and know which one you should be in but ALSO non of the genders are things you conform to? That's a self-negation you moron.
>There is no such thing as "feeling like a woman".
Dresses arent a function of biology so gravitating towards those arent chromosome based either way.
>Literally not relevant.
It's relevant because you're saying that they're all trenders, either lonely incels or gets who want attention. This all operates under new things like trans acceptance in classrooms and incel discord groups being the only influences in trans people.
>. This all operates under new things like trans acceptance in classrooms and incel discord groups being the only influences in trans people.
You're being purposefully moronic: Without all the current social incentives and bioligical influences of today, the rate of troon trend was less than 1%. I'm just saying the trenders used to be small in number and have grown massively. That back when it was less than 1%, they were just self-hating gays or gender non-conformers who would do ANYTHING to just live a "normal" life.
>Dresses arent a function of biology so gravitating towards those arent chromosome based either way.
Are you actually saying anything? I don't think this is a reply or a response... Just a trueism.
Shut the fricking up kiddy diddler. There's also cultures where they cut the clits off girls. Bad culture exist.
>Bad culture exist
Who decides which are good?
Basic morality and morals do not derive directly from Religion. Basic pro-social pro-human behavior is always the moral behavior. There's no blurriness or confusion about it unless you're a sociopath.
If people change, what is pro-social or pro-human?
People don't change. What a dishonest fricking shithead attitude. People are always the same, they just get taken in by moronic ideas.
Being taken in by moronic ideas isn't a change?
Correct. You're still the same human, you're just wrong and stupid. That doesn't constitute change.
Does that mean that no matter what happens to a human, its always a human? No matter how disfigured, contorted, or distorted it gets?
Look, if you want to frick kids, just come out and say it. People have said far worse things on this shithole of a site
Why do you want me to?
Because it sure sounds like that's what you want if you're so fixated on pedos being rightfully dunked on by society
How am I fixated on pedos if you steered the conversation back to it after the question of people changing?
You literally brought it up first
Yes. That was an inflammatory inquiry meant to dig at
's declaration that the need to piss in a pink room next to real women doesn't override their right to have bioligically limited spaces. A jab if you will at favoring the realities of some over others.
I must have confused you with someone else who was implying it's mostly trenders. I know that acceptance increases trenders, I already mentioned transmaxxers.
No you don't have me confused. You just think there's "authentic" troons when there's no such thing and such a thing cannot even logically be possible. ALL trans people are self-hating gays, gender-non conformers, grooming victims or dishonest fetishists.
There is nothing else to it and every argument that would try to rebutt this stance has to accomplish sisyphean tasks like saying a boy liking pink and wanting to suck dicks makes him a girl and not just a femme gay.
>like saying a boy liking pink and wanting to suck dicks makes him a girl and not just a femme gay.
You're showing you have no idea what trannies are, just memes. Thanks for proving the point
Why is everyone so obsessed with vore? Don't they know that's not how sex work? It must be grooming from all those Kirby games.
No, you're completely ignoring what goes on. If a young boy expresses interest in traditionally female interests nowadays, they get pushed into the troony pipeline. Same for young girls who like being muddy and T-Rex toys.
Trans idealogy is hatefully regressive gender roles nonsense that literally genocides gays. Most trannies turn out gay if they just cope with the dysphoria until they're older. They're literally hunting out future gays and sterilizing them.
>If a young boy expresses interest in traditionally female interests nowadays, they get pushed into the troony pipeline.
That's not true. I've seen anti-trans propaganda based on regret and malpractice and that never comes up. It's why you haven't provided a source, you're telling me this happens and to accept it uncritically like you have.
Cope as much as you want, there are girls who had their breasts zippered at 16 who still have complications and bleeding from the procedure half a decade later. People brought in and medicated just because they're unconfortable and confused.
>LINKS AND PROOF
Google the terms I told you to google homosexual
I've already told you I've seen regret and malpractice cases. The fact that you think that's supposed to make me believe your entire moron narrative shows you really are a social moron.
>I've already told you I've seen regret and malpractice cases
Yeah because we do this shit to minors. It's not ok.
>The fact that you think that's supposed to make me believe your entire moron narrative shows you really are a social moron.
No you're just unwilling to accept that it's causing extreme harm and is LITERAL anti-gay genocide. You're taking all the gay kids and telling them they aren't a boykissing boy, they're actually a girl and that's why they want to kiss boys.
>Gay genocide does not involve killing gays
What a lame ass shit genocide.
sterilizing all the gays you can convince to take drugs that chemically castrate them is a pretty hardcore genocide but yeah it's not a violent active one, it's a meta genocide.
A Metacide, gonna steal that for a coffee table book idea
>Trans idealogy is hatefully regressive gender roles nonsense that literally genocides gays.
Gays left GAG because the GOP was supporting genocide of gays through DeSantis who slammed Trump for being too pro-gay by offering condolences to the Pulse shooting and topping it off with pro-DeSantis, pro-nazi imagery. "Groomer" isn't what they're just calling people who talk about gender shit in a classroom, they're talking about all gays. You having some sort of special sensitivity that makes it so you see "trans ideology" as hateful and genocidal should have you calling every Republican a nazi but you're far from that. You have a fun narrative that cuts around real hate and functions off braindead and unsubstantiated memes.
>Gays left GAG
No they didn't. I still follow them on twitter. They still just post pro gay, anti gender ideaology materials all the time. You're just posting the leftoid rebuttal that gets sharewd in troony circles as an attempt to stymie discussion and prevent people from seeing truth.
>Groomer" isn't what they're just calling people who talk about gender shit in a classroom, they're talking about all gays.
No they aren't. I've even seen them at legit Groomer Storytime protests. Obvious bulldyke lebos and shit.
Assuming you aren't trolling, you are an interesting case. We all have our thresholds for what we tolerate and what gets us going and social media has warped our perspectives about what big things are happening. This reluctance of yours to cite studies and leaning on cherry picked gag info all while saying all trans people aren't real shows why you accept these narratives so easily. In a case like this it isn't really about grooming, it isn't about kids, it's about a lack of understanding about what trannies are and a complete ignoring of decades of research and cases from decades before what you're calling grooming today.
I hate you and your kind, but love homos. Frick you.
>Without all the current social incentives and bioligical influences of today, the rate of troon trend was less than 1%
The rate of homosexuals was once just as small because of societal circumstances, but that doesn't make it any less valid
Yes it does because being gay is something you can actually define. Being a troony just means you hate yourself and want to cope with drugs and surgery. Being gay means you prefer to frick with people who have the same body as you.
This is a PATHETIC cope.
DAMMIT, HEAVY! FRICK OFF!
You. Are. Dead!
post links
Your 4D chess plan was to sit and argue with a bunch of people you decided weren't going to listen to you anyway for 500 replies?
Make like four swords and give me links
Wrong
Cope
I can just tell a bunch of you tards probably think Sovcits are right
Platinum mad
I'm just reminded that a former coworker once tried to say the philosophers totally argued like internet dwelling morons and I can't help but find it hilarious that Socrates would have said "listen here, you dumb Black person" or something to that effect
and the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon
Who else is glad they avoided this thread til the end? I didn't expect it to be like this.
But that's just flat out wrong
Great thread guys.
Certainly a rollerscoaster when the thread was just about questionable characters that probably aren't as problematic as most anons would have thought
Necessary evil, otherwise they'll take their shit to other threads
Nice bullshit