Yes. This is correct no matter how much other subs will disagree. Bring a male sub isn't necessarily unhealthy but it is the result of trauma. Every time. We are broken men. I surmise it's mostly on childhood but maybe the world just grinds some of us down as we go along. It's something like become a vampire. It's something done to you that infects you and you become something else. The women I've been with are the same kind of predators that made me this way. They take acceptable avenues and use willing participants for their sadism but it's the same urges my grandmother had when when she abused me. It's quite a fate, growing to crave the thing that eats you. I'm getting closer to being free by talking about this so frankly.
I can't relate but I believe its personal. I can pinpoint my femdom fetish to single kids animation on television. Guy with glasses got repeatedly humiliated by tall girl, his pants kept falling down exposing his small dick and the girl was amused and laughed about it. (yes it was really kids animation from perverted country, either french or swedish). I was maybe four and thats when I remember getting my first hard on and being excited for the first time in my life, and I've been into dominant women since that day. Who knows what kind of sick c**t made show like that for kids, I haven't been able to find it.
Keep looking inward. The things you recognize you are attracted to come after the trauma. It takes a awhile to figure out some times because we bury things or things that don't seem like a big deal now were huge in context.
I've been thinking about it and that single animation is all I've been able to find out. My mother was never dominant figure for example, nor my father was weak figure. They were very traditional and when I was teenager and on peak of my sexual awakening I was huge butthole brat who told my mom to do all kinds of shit for me and bossed her around
3 months ago
Anonymous
Perhaps that fren. Perhaps you have grief or guilt at how you treated her and you long to take the role you felt you deserved. Perhaps it's being in your father's shadow. Perhaps it's something you don't want to remember. Who knows
3 months ago
Anonymous
That doesn't make sense, my femdom fetish "activated" long before I turned into butthole teenager. And it was watching that aforementioned perverted kids show. That is also my earliest memory of watching television alone. I sincerely believe that show fricked with my brain enough to "cause" a fetish, if you can call it that.
3 months ago
Anonymous
Whatever you say boss. You're the expert and everything.
3 months ago
Anonymous
Sounds like he successfully argued you into a corner and you're having difficulty accepting that you might be wrong.
3 months ago
Anonymous
You sound like you're same gayging so I'll let you know just it's not my job to argue with closet cases about why they're perverted homosexuals. I don't have to convince them someone touched them or didn't touch them or whatever. That's their business. After all they're the experts.
3 months ago
Anonymous
Nah thats different guy, I too believe that best person to explain your own sexuality is yourself. Its just so unique.
3 months ago
Anonymous
It isn't that unique and neither are you or anyone really. It's just stuff that people often deny until their deaths. I really couldn't possibly care any less about any of your mental well-being I was just making conversation.
3 months ago
Anonymous
>tfw you have to make multiple posts explaining how you don't care
For me, it was the israeli drama teacher in 5th grade convincing me to wear a pink dress and play a princess role, "because it will be hysterical." Knowing what I know now, I'm pretty sure it wasn't a coincidence that she chose the blond and blue kid for that little experiment.
Sexuality itself is cultural, sexual norms vary across time and place, as do the deviations from those norms. Some guys have a "fetish" for women with body hair for example, but the norm that women should remove their body hair is rather recent, and the fetish can only exist in that context. Bondage scenarios are explicitly designed around transgression and often incorporated aesthetic signifiers related to oppression and domination in society like whips, handcuffs, uniforms etc. The taboo element necessarily goes against the "typical" expression of sexuality and defines itself against it.
This is such a leftist way of thinking. You're focusing on attributes of the power play, but ignoring the deeper dynamics that we can observe universally, even in animals. Dogs love submitting to strong masters.
3 months ago
Anonymous
>we can observe universally, even in animals. Dogs
Lmao, yeah dude a dog is a typical animal. Think about what you're saying for even a second.
Power. A lot of dudes who have a bunch of responsibilities and power and status like getting dominated by a woman dominatrix (women are usually a submissive in this person's day to day life). It feels nice to relinquish power and receive punishment once in a while for a short period of time. Also something sexy about a weak woman gaining power over you, and doing whatever she wants to you. I think that's the psychological aspect of it, atleast for rich techbros who visit a dominatrix a few afternoons. Same logic applies to stuff like pegging and cbt.
That's an excuse rich men tell people to cover up form the trauma they received as children. They are the most insecure about their trauma because the very notion that their upbringing wasn't "perfect" isn't antithetical to the image they have of themselves.
Stems from early life experiences when you are a child, when adult women can physically dominate you. For me I can distinctly remember interactions with older girls that flipped some kind of switch in me.
Depends on the guy, to be honest.
I like doing both, I like being in charge, but sometimes it's fun to let her do what she wants, if she wants to.
As long as it's all consensual and for sex, not some "lifestyle" larp bullshit, there's no problems for me.
It was a whole new world when I realized Designer didn't care what kind of situations I was putting women in as long as they were fully clothed in formfitting latex.
The song in the final scene is an absolute banger but its not available anywhere (apart from youtube uploads of it that are clipped from the movie, sound effects and all). I fricking wish they'd have released the soundtrack.
40 yo coworker with bad temper grabbed me by the balls after a meeting where I called her out on her bullshit.
Pretty sure she realized I got hard as frick.
Didn't m00t (creator of 9gag) make this exact same argument but for cucking instead of femdom? And isn't he still, a massive wiener sucking double homosexual?
I'm pretty sure you're just a homosexual anon. That or the creator of 9gag. I mean, tomato tomato in that case.
Loved it.
Femdom is extremely gay. Makes me want to vomit.
Blowjobs and cowgirl position included.
Femdom turned the Wachowski brothers into the Wachowski sisters.
what makes men want to be dominated by women?
Trauma
Yes. This is correct no matter how much other subs will disagree. Bring a male sub isn't necessarily unhealthy but it is the result of trauma. Every time. We are broken men. I surmise it's mostly on childhood but maybe the world just grinds some of us down as we go along. It's something like become a vampire. It's something done to you that infects you and you become something else. The women I've been with are the same kind of predators that made me this way. They take acceptable avenues and use willing participants for their sadism but it's the same urges my grandmother had when when she abused me. It's quite a fate, growing to crave the thing that eats you. I'm getting closer to being free by talking about this so frankly.
I can't relate but I believe its personal. I can pinpoint my femdom fetish to single kids animation on television. Guy with glasses got repeatedly humiliated by tall girl, his pants kept falling down exposing his small dick and the girl was amused and laughed about it. (yes it was really kids animation from perverted country, either french or swedish). I was maybe four and thats when I remember getting my first hard on and being excited for the first time in my life, and I've been into dominant women since that day. Who knows what kind of sick c**t made show like that for kids, I haven't been able to find it.
Keep looking inward. The things you recognize you are attracted to come after the trauma. It takes a awhile to figure out some times because we bury things or things that don't seem like a big deal now were huge in context.
I've been thinking about it and that single animation is all I've been able to find out. My mother was never dominant figure for example, nor my father was weak figure. They were very traditional and when I was teenager and on peak of my sexual awakening I was huge butthole brat who told my mom to do all kinds of shit for me and bossed her around
Perhaps that fren. Perhaps you have grief or guilt at how you treated her and you long to take the role you felt you deserved. Perhaps it's being in your father's shadow. Perhaps it's something you don't want to remember. Who knows
That doesn't make sense, my femdom fetish "activated" long before I turned into butthole teenager. And it was watching that aforementioned perverted kids show. That is also my earliest memory of watching television alone. I sincerely believe that show fricked with my brain enough to "cause" a fetish, if you can call it that.
Whatever you say boss. You're the expert and everything.
Sounds like he successfully argued you into a corner and you're having difficulty accepting that you might be wrong.
You sound like you're same gayging so I'll let you know just it's not my job to argue with closet cases about why they're perverted homosexuals. I don't have to convince them someone touched them or didn't touch them or whatever. That's their business. After all they're the experts.
Nah thats different guy, I too believe that best person to explain your own sexuality is yourself. Its just so unique.
It isn't that unique and neither are you or anyone really. It's just stuff that people often deny until their deaths. I really couldn't possibly care any less about any of your mental well-being I was just making conversation.
>tfw you have to make multiple posts explaining how you don't care
For me, it was the israeli drama teacher in 5th grade convincing me to wear a pink dress and play a princess role, "because it will be hysterical." Knowing what I know now, I'm pretty sure it wasn't a coincidence that she chose the blond and blue kid for that little experiment.
stress
Fetishes are probably genetic. I think that ur fetish is most likely fetish of ur fathers, but you never talk about it obviously so you never know
>Fetishes are probably genetic.
Brainlet take.
explain
Sexuality itself is cultural, sexual norms vary across time and place, as do the deviations from those norms. Some guys have a "fetish" for women with body hair for example, but the norm that women should remove their body hair is rather recent, and the fetish can only exist in that context. Bondage scenarios are explicitly designed around transgression and often incorporated aesthetic signifiers related to oppression and domination in society like whips, handcuffs, uniforms etc. The taboo element necessarily goes against the "typical" expression of sexuality and defines itself against it.
This is such a leftist way of thinking. You're focusing on attributes of the power play, but ignoring the deeper dynamics that we can observe universally, even in animals. Dogs love submitting to strong masters.
>we can observe universally, even in animals. Dogs
Lmao, yeah dude a dog is a typical animal. Think about what you're saying for even a second.
For me it was the dominatrix gags in Leslie nielsen movies. However, reality can't really live up to the fantasy.
Power. A lot of dudes who have a bunch of responsibilities and power and status like getting dominated by a woman dominatrix (women are usually a submissive in this person's day to day life). It feels nice to relinquish power and receive punishment once in a while for a short period of time. Also something sexy about a weak woman gaining power over you, and doing whatever she wants to you. I think that's the psychological aspect of it, atleast for rich techbros who visit a dominatrix a few afternoons. Same logic applies to stuff like pegging and cbt.
I am a NEET loser in my 30s and I jerk of to femdom since I am 12. I have zero power. Your theory is bullshit.
I'm just telling you why rich guys also get off in it.
That's an excuse rich men tell people to cover up form the trauma they received as children. They are the most insecure about their trauma because the very notion that their upbringing wasn't "perfect" isn't antithetical to the image they have of themselves.
This is true for most cases. Having too much control over life can frick with your brain.
Stems from early life experiences when you are a child, when adult women can physically dominate you. For me I can distinctly remember interactions with older girls that flipped some kind of switch in me.
>wank to femdom shit a lot
do it in real life? nah
A wise man. Though excessive cooming is still pretty bad for you.
It's a rich man's kink
Depends on the guy, to be honest.
I like doing both, I like being in charge, but sometimes it's fun to let her do what she wants, if she wants to.
As long as it's all consensual and for sex, not some "lifestyle" larp bullshit, there's no problems for me.
Porn addiction.
t. porn addict.
This guy
has it right.
that's a man
The thing about this movie is that it wasn't sexy at all. It was too busy being "about grief" to be sexy.
you can watch porn for that
>tfw you love latex but think BDSM is stupid as shit
Real hard to find good stuff. Not to mention gays and trannies.
It was a whole new world when I realized Designer didn't care what kind of situations I was putting women in as long as they were fully clothed in formfitting latex.
kino
why they keep dressing her in latex?
The song in the final scene is an absolute banger but its not available anywhere (apart from youtube uploads of it that are clipped from the movie, sound effects and all). I fricking wish they'd have released the soundtrack.
40 yo coworker with bad temper grabbed me by the balls after a meeting where I called her out on her bullshit.
Pretty sure she realized I got hard as frick.
What messed up workplace is this?
and how can I get a job there?
gimp shit
Kino.
femdom is for high iqs only. people who arent are on the left side of the intelligence bell curve
Didn't m00t (creator of 9gag) make this exact same argument but for cucking instead of femdom? And isn't he still, a massive wiener sucking double homosexual?
I'm pretty sure you're just a homosexual anon. That or the creator of 9gag. I mean, tomato tomato in that case.