>femake hikikomori. >not living in her own filth. >looks like she bathed very recently. >Looks cute and like she takes care of herself.
I'm not buying it.
My first gf was close enough to a femcel when I met her, and I can tell by experience her desk isn't nearly dirty enough to be a "loner NEET". I couldn't even sleep on her floor because it was full of shit like crumbs, half empty bags of chips, DVD cases of Supernatural and Final Fantasy games, manga, music CDs, empty coke bottles and dirty socks.
This is just fricking gross.
My girlfriend is an autistic femcel(stupid oxymoron term) weeb would-be-NEET and if she wasn't cute or didn't do housework or didn't put out I'd kick her out.
>looking good, doing housework and providing sex >bare minimum
It's a rarity among women these days, the fact a femmoron knows how valuable that is and regular women don't is an indictment on modern women
I'm a maleNEET and have that situation, I just do housework and cook while my gf works. Learn how to smooth talk and frick well. If you give a woman orgasms she's never felt before, she will put up with almost anything.
One of my close friends is a girl hikikomori. She's 22 years old and lives with her parents. She's diagnosed with a variety of mental disorders including severe depression and agoraphobia. When I met her she was recovering and relatively outgoing but she eventually fell into a depression again and as of today hasn't left her house in a year. She stays in bed on her laptop all day making mental hospitals in the sims and browsing the internet. She pisses in plastic containers in her room, her hair is matted constantly from constantly staying bed, she rarely bathes, she eats very little, and she self harms. Haven't seen her since last November. She refuses all visitors except for mental health workers.
There's nothing romantic about it. It's very fricking grim. She's a very sick person. Yes I am in love with her, how could you tell?
Is sad how much parents and internet enable this shit. Especially the internet. Now it's cool to have mental problems which only encourages people to not resolve them but actively make it worse.
You do realize she's probably in contact with several other dudes just like you who also want to "rescue" her, right?
Not to rain on your parade but I did the saviorgay thing too so I just wanna warn you, and mine isn't as severely mentally ill as yours
girls cant be hikkis because the moment she steps online there are thousands of men simping for her
lonelyness is essential to hikkikomori culture and women cant be lonely
that's not a real female jap hikikomori. the only ones in japan that do this are ugly ass ones because they've been getting bullied their entire life so they stay recluse and hate society etc. eventually when their parents die or kick them out they end up homeless then suicide.
>Few perfectly scattered objects on a table >Look at me I'm an outcast
morons like you eat this slop up. I guarantee you you donate to Twitch streamers
I cannot stop fantasizing about being 15yo son in a family where 60yo impotent chud father marries 20yo submissive waifu, which I seduce and frick and then he fricking dies and I inherit all his money and have a comfy neet life
No, it's really that simple. Just stop being a loser. Go. Listen to the advice from your high school guidance counselor. It's more powerful then you realize
1) understand what you want
2) work towards it
3) break the shackles of what's preventing you from what you went
There. If you want more through instructions and people to talk with check the law of attraction threads in the x board and properly understand its message
You can still be a Cinemaphile homosexual if your want but at least now you aren't a Cinemaphile homosexual wallowing in your self-pity
I know what I want but I'm a 34 year old autist and can't really fix tha, I hsve my doubts about sny advice from /x/
7 months ago
Anonymous
Black person, I was a 36 year old neet. Stop making excuses to justify why you shouldn't improve yourself. You have nothing to lose by taking one goal and working towards it.
Judge the results yourself. Either you are successful and you improve something on yourself and get motivation to keep going or it fails and you are still where you are expect this time you spent slightly less time on Cinemaphile.
7 months ago
Anonymous
>How do I help myself? >Nooo not like that!!!
I understand why some people end up like this, but some people do it because they're lazy and leech off their family. The worst kind are the oblivious ones who think they've outsmarted society or something dumb like that when all they're really just insanely selfish.
The type of people who really become like this don't want to be like this and it pains them to no end.
7 months ago
Anonymous
1) understand what you want
2) work towards it
3) break the shackles of what's preventing you from what you went
There. If you want more through instructions and people to talk with check the law of attraction threads in the x board and properly understand its message
You can still be a Cinemaphile homosexual if your want but at least now you aren't a Cinemaphile homosexual wallowing in your self-pity
Just to tack on. Law of attraction isn't magic. It's not say a incantation and you get phat pussy filled with gold in your face.
It's about establishing attitude and discipline to excerise your will.
"Once you are 25 you can't change your self" Though I hear that more to excuse the actions of inner city youths being savages.
I didn't see the last but I've been in others. I was on that track before I realiize that 95% of my problems were internal obstacles and my attitude so I try to help those that are in need but the overdose on black pills get my ire the most.
I honestly hate doomers with a passion. They don't contribute anything but actually work against everyone else with their shit attitude but get to take part in the good times since they are almost always wrong.
What are you doing to better your economic prospects?
Asking for reals not to be a dick. Looking at my own budgets for my household and realizing I need more I put in a plan to increase my employment value with the expectation of better pay. Sucks having to study for certs but it will pay off
Well for one I'm swimming in debt and I barely make enough money to pay rent, let alone afford food or god forbid, pay of my debts, which will take at least +10 years at this rate.
7 months ago
Anonymous
Work on paying the debt off so you're free and not in ten years time sit and go "fuuuuck if only I had done x, y and z instead of still being in debt"
I don't know how many times I've put shit off because "it will take x amount of years" only to be past that time now and not having what I wanted to do.
I know it's not that simple, but at the same time, it really is that simple. The first thing you need to do is get out of excuses mentality. It will frick you up.
7 months ago
Anonymous
This guy said it better [...]
But just to emphasis. Debt fricking sucks. You know what sucks more? That same debt but with 2 more years of interest built on it because it was put off.
Do you have a budget planned? I just started using fireflyiii and setting up the rules for my transactions. It's eye opening to see what all your money goes.
Use what ever works best for you in either software or old school green ledger bookkeeping just make one if to haven't already
Gotta admit, it's more the prospect of wage slaving for the next 10 years that depresses me more than anything. I live in a flat with two other dudes, and they may or may not move out the flat, at which case it dissolves and I'm on the streets. And if my money problems weren't bad enough (though I can live on little) finding a new apartment or even glat is impossible with how dystopian the current housing market is. Plus part of my debts come from rent, so I'm basically a marked man. Ain't nobody wants to take in someone with a history of overdue rent debts. I made a lot of mistakes in my life but fricking up rent is easily the worst.
7 months ago
Anonymous
I don't want to sound like a downer, but "wage slaving the next 10 years" is kinda part of life. There's not much else choice for most people. You just need to come to terms with that or find a realistic alternative you can be happy with.
I don't want to be discouraging, but it's important to also be realistic and not sugarcoat. You're going to have to put some work in, but that doesn't mean you can't enjoy shit and life. You probably don't even have kids, so you're free in a lot of senses.
7 months ago
Anonymous
Yeah dude. My sympathies. It's a shit world out there.
I hope you land on your feet and pull through. I truely do. My advice is that you can either sink or swim with swimming being the better option.
Considered moving to some where cheaper?
7 months ago
Anonymous
>Considered moving to some where cheaper?
People keep saying "bro move out of the cities lmao" but it'snot cheapef in the suburbs or countrysides either. Plus there's no damn jobs there either.
It's mega over. But thanks for your posts man.
7 months ago
Anonymous
Stop making excuses.
7 months ago
Anonymous
Bro I couldn't even move out if I wanted to, because I can't even get an apartment to rent with my history of debt. Doesn't matter if I have a job and some money saved, they take one look at my debtor's list and I'm out.
7 months ago
Anonymous
Have you tried looking on Craigslist and other unofficial sources? Find something and put up with it for a year so you can establish that you can indeed make rent payments. Use that as your history.
Not going to lie to you anon. You got some road blocks ahead but it's fixable though.
And make that damn budget so you can see where you are losing all your money. The source might suprise you and can be easily fixed
7 months ago
Anonymous
It's only over when you say it is anon. Don't let society dictate the terms to you.
It's hard anon but giving up will only make it harder
7 months ago
Anonymous
>Gotta admit, it's more the prospect of wage slaving for the next 10 years that depresses me more than anything
Unless you can come up with a million dollar idea and sell it then that's sort of how it goes anon. Not to be a Debbie downer.
Honestly it's not soul crushing like it's depicted in the movies. It's a part of life and working with others can be nice. Don't let an attitude learned from popular media tell you how to think.
If your goal is to buy land and live off the grid (mad jealous if you do this) then you only need to "wageslave" for as long as it takes to get your plot of land then you are down with that.
7 months ago
Anonymous
>10 years
nobody tell him
7 months ago
Anonymous
This guy said it better
Work on paying the debt off so you're free and not in ten years time sit and go "fuuuuck if only I had done x, y and z instead of still being in debt"
I don't know how many times I've put shit off because "it will take x amount of years" only to be past that time now and not having what I wanted to do.
I know it's not that simple, but at the same time, it really is that simple. The first thing you need to do is get out of excuses mentality. It will frick you up.
But just to emphasis. Debt fricking sucks. You know what sucks more? That same debt but with 2 more years of interest built on it because it was put off.
Do you have a budget planned? I just started using fireflyiii and setting up the rules for my transactions. It's eye opening to see what all your money goes.
Use what ever works best for you in either software or old school green ledger bookkeeping just make one if to haven't already
You change around 35 to be more mellow. It's after 35 that you're set in stone. I think I read in some article that going all the way back to the romans, they used to consider men under 35 "insane". Or it may have been 25, I'm not 100% sure.
That's just regular /misc/yp cope. Yes, increased age will eventually increase the risk of gene defects (on the basis of "old" sperm) but not only has this been reported on 50 years upwards but it's also npt a guarrantee, as those people like to portray it as.
The "muh autism " they refer to is the mild type that they have and are convinced is why they are a dumb neet who can't get their wheat field maiden.
No, that's just a result of poor decisions and not facing up to them. All the autism did was give the ability to hyper focus, they misapplied it
you're too old, if you have kids now they'll be autistic and moronic
That's only true for women, you stupid moron
Men's balls are good till they're like 80
This.
The only thing stopping me from being a NEET is dissapointing my parents. I lived with them for a year and I literally got a job because of how shameful I felt for them.
Not a full hiki, though I am a NEET wizard. I'm happier being a NEET, a lot of people shame NEETs, even in this thread, but people shamed and mocked me when I was trying my best to contribute to society, at least now it's quiet and peaceful.
The only way you can do this is because somebody else is carrying you. That's no way to live a proper life. Being a leech of your family and/or society.
yeah I really wanna contribute to a society that taxes the productive people to give that money to women so that they can not start families and spend all their money traveling the world alone and getting drunk. if being a worthless leech is seen as something to aspire to, then why not embrace it?
participating in a system that rewards immoral behaviour is immoral. no matter what choice you make, you're immoral. may as well make the easiest one.
>giving up because others
Pathetic. You claim to be a lonely neet but all your excuses for living are based on other people and not yourself.
I call that being a life cuck
yeah, like I said, you're the problem. you think you should live for yourself. you want everyone to suffer as you jack off in a corner and for them to cheer you on as you do so. I think that's evil.
you should be happy I'm just NEETing. the alternative would be terrorism.
>oh well no point in trying. Might as well just lay down and spread my cheeks so it's easier for them.
Your ancestors look down on you in contempment. You're parents resent you for your wasteful life they gave you.
I personal don't care what you do. You're an example I can use for my kids as to what not to become. So keep on being a pathetic neet loser whose only ambition is to chug down some more slop while you watch your escapist anime to stave off crying.
7 months ago
Anonymous
and yet, you're the one paying my bills.
7 months ago
Anonymous
>and yet I'm burden with disappointed family and no friends and prospects but only allowed to live by the state that I claim to hate
Bravo. You have really out done yourself with that masterclass rhetoric kek
7 months ago
Anonymous
my family are all childless overachievers who spend all their time and money partying, vacationing, or otherwise blowing it on meaningless trivialities. every single person I talk to thinks that welfare for worthless neets is a good thing. nobody cares. that's the society we live in. everybody thinks that bad things are good, because noticing that bad things are actually bad would make them uncomfortable, it would force them to change their lives. so they willfully choose not to notice it.
7 months ago
Anonymous
Awww so from trash becomes trash. Sorry you couldn't rise above those losers.
P.s. they all talk about you beyond your back on what a neet you become. They only say they support such ideas because they don't want to upset you
7 months ago
Anonymous
nah
>maximizing utility is bad because.... IT JUST IS OK?
for its own sake, yeah
>I live according to the standards set by others rather then myself
Lol life cuck
>just stop caring
very compelling moral argument there
>my family are all chads who think I'm a NEETchad
Their larps are always so bad
never said that
Does anyone want to tell him what his family actually thinks of him and his neet style?
Maybe a sense of shame will inspire them.
cope
7 months ago
Anonymous
>maximizing utility is bad because.... IT JUST IS OK?
7 months ago
Anonymous
>I live according to the standards set by others rather then myself
Lol life cuck
7 months ago
Anonymous
>my family are all chads who think I'm a NEETchad
Their larps are always so bad
7 months ago
Anonymous
Does anyone want to tell him what his family actually thinks of him and his neet style?
Maybe a sense of shame will inspire them.
7 months ago
Anonymous
7 months ago
Anonymous
imagine if your father was a /misc/cel, christ
7 months ago
Anonymous
I don't know. I think for the neets here any father would be better then the no father they had. At least they would have guidance that isn't how to jerk off better from discord strangers
>439 times in /LULZ/
Why do bottom of the barrel loser incels cry about /misc/?
7 months ago
Anonymous
Incel hugboxes like /LULZ/ are feasting grounds for grooming trannies
7 months ago
Anonymous
They fear the occasional good advice that manages to percolate up on pol once in a blue moon that doesn't coddle them but instead tells them to take command of their life.
Pols a weird place that if the people who inhabited listened to their own advice and ideas then no one would be posting there.
I get some neetbux, so I guess it's society that's carrying me. But I'm okay with that since I don't owe anything to a society that basically just shits on me.
Yeah. I get that as a former neet. However my contributing to society isn't for the approvals of others but for my own goals of getting the frick out of it.
No point in living in the system if you can escape it with a bit of hard work. You ever think it purposely beat you down to make you into a slave through your neet lifestyle?
By being a neet, I am getting out of society in a way, and I don't think of myself as a neet slave, in some ways I think it's more freeing than when I was waging.
You aren't though. You are dependent on the very system that you hate. And all your resources is going to maintaining it.
You aren't free, you're the perfect slave they want. Demoralized, and always consuming. No interests beyond food slop and media slop. No desire to improve.
They have chains on you and you think your free because you can't see it
They are doing a pretty shitty job at it if you ask me, I hardly consume and I participate as little as I can to society and its rot. Oh well, even if I am a slave it's still a more peaceful life than before.
I am beyond certain that you don't cook or really create anything. Your entire life is based on being supported by others. All the food you eat is processed garbage and all the media you watch is pirated while you buy plastic figures of it. You drain off those who do create only to put right back into the very system you claim you aren't supporting.
You are the slave they want and you tell yourself that you are free kek
Yeah. I get that as a former neet. However my contributing to society isn't for the approvals of others but for my own goals of getting the frick out of it.
No point in living in the system if you can escape it with a bit of hard work. You ever think it purposely beat you down to make you into a slave through your neet lifestyle?
I've been hikki NEET for 10 years and don't want to be anymore but I'm also completely lost and have no idea where to go in life. Thoughts? Any successful bros' advice? I have unlimited time to study anything.
I have no interests, I'm a blank slate with no personality due to my years in isolation. Consooming has been my sole interest for a decade. So unless my job was to recite video game and internet meme facts, I'm useless.
See it's that attitude that's stopping you. Drop it.
You do have interests you don't know them. If you can get that interested in vidyagames then it must have been some hook in it for you.
There's a wide world out there anon. Goto a local job center and take their evlautuon of skills and interest test to help you get a foothold as you determine what it is that you want to do
You could study video game design, I have a friend who just graduated and got a job at a big vidya studio.
Get a low bar entry job, preferably one that requires physical labor
>just start doing manual labor, bro
Worst advice. It's soul-crushing, not intellectually stimulating and his coworkers will all hate him for being weak and unskilled, unless it's a total goyim job like Amazon or something. Even shoveling mulch, he will get laughed at and ridiculed by the hispanics for being so weak. Personally, my dad forced me to stop being NEET and get a construction job where we mostly did rigging and told me they would "teach me the ropes" but all they did was yell and bully me and I hated it and wanted to kms. Don't do that.
Nah, actual intensive dangerous physical labor requires certification he doesn't have yet. His problem is he sits on his ass all day overthinking stuff and stewing in his own misery.
just pretend you don't have a lifetime of emotional baggage and develop a positive outlook on life while working a shitty entry-level job. think about what you want to do in life but also don't be too introspective because you'll fall into your usual depressive spiral of inaction. and in your free time, you should join hobby clubs (just pretend you have interests) or volunteer (basically like working, except you don't get paid and you get even more opportunities to socialize!).
and after a few short years of doing this, you too can be the social equivalent of a moronic person being taught to hold down a minimum-wage job.
I'm pretty sure anon is asking how NOT to become a moronic midwit wagie. No one is really giving him good advice because everyone here is either a moronic midwit wagie or a NEET. No one here knows. Personally I'm already retired, but it was due to luck and generosity from family members, which is not within his control. The sad fact of the matter is that most people are ignorant and can't help even if they wanted to. Those at the top won't share their secrets because they'd lose their power. A lot is also due to contacts, which anon has none of. Any friends he may have had are long gone. So he has limited options. This hopelessness, I'm sure, also reinforces it because he gives up and says "What's the point".
I'll require the following to make up my mind. Please assist me. >What's a Hikikomori? >Are they only guys? >Are they only Japanese? Do we have a counterpart? >Why do they exist? >Will I need to be one in order to enjoy this movie?
What do japanese hikkis do once their parents pass away? Does japan even have a welfare system? I imagine you get forced to wageslave at the worst job possible.
alright now you're advertising, go away
You realize we have literal crypto-bought user ads on 3chin now, right?
the frick does that have to do with anything
touching grass is overrated
In Japan, touching grass is barely an option. At least in America there's somewhat of a potential to move out of your parents home
Did they pave over all of chiba finally or what
>4 years old
what kind of moronic shilling is that?
post the real thumbnail
Their silence is deafening
literally me except I'm not japanese
>attention prostitute
Pass.
>Imagine the smell
Fishy sweat with a tinge of sweetness
god I want a chuhai so bad rn bros
I want that Haibane Renmei frame
>femake hikikomori.
>not living in her own filth.
>looks like she bathed very recently.
>Looks cute and like she takes care of herself.
I'm not buying it.
no, why would i leave my comfy room to go to some b***hes room
My first gf was close enough to a femcel when I met her, and I can tell by experience her desk isn't nearly dirty enough to be a "loner NEET". I couldn't even sleep on her floor because it was full of shit like crumbs, half empty bags of chips, DVD cases of Supernatural and Final Fantasy games, manga, music CDs, empty coke bottles and dirty socks.
gross.
I hate women so fricking much, why they make everything about themselves?
Because women never leave childhood, only their bodies change and mentally they remain a child
This is just fricking gross.
My girlfriend is an autistic femcel(stupid oxymoron term) weeb would-be-NEET and if she wasn't cute or didn't do housework or didn't put out I'd kick her out.
>femNEETs get thrown a lifeline as long as they do the bare minimum
>NEETs have to fend for themselves
Tell me again how this is fair
>looking good, doing housework and providing sex
>bare minimum
It's a rarity among women these days, the fact a femmoron knows how valuable that is and regular women don't is an indictment on modern women
I'm a maleNEET and have that situation, I just do housework and cook while my gf works. Learn how to smooth talk and frick well. If you give a woman orgasms she's never felt before, she will put up with almost anything.
Looking and smelling myself I can say absolutely not. I am disgusting and so are probably the majority of us.
One of my close friends is a girl hikikomori. She's 22 years old and lives with her parents. She's diagnosed with a variety of mental disorders including severe depression and agoraphobia. When I met her she was recovering and relatively outgoing but she eventually fell into a depression again and as of today hasn't left her house in a year. She stays in bed on her laptop all day making mental hospitals in the sims and browsing the internet. She pisses in plastic containers in her room, her hair is matted constantly from constantly staying bed, she rarely bathes, she eats very little, and she self harms. Haven't seen her since last November. She refuses all visitors except for mental health workers.
There's nothing romantic about it. It's very fricking grim. She's a very sick person. Yes I am in love with her, how could you tell?
Is sad how much parents and internet enable this shit. Especially the internet. Now it's cool to have mental problems which only encourages people to not resolve them but actively make it worse.
The internet was a mistake
Is she even cute? Would she clean up nicely?
Or are you letting your desperation and savior complex blind you?
Nah she is very pretty and probably would have been a kind of alternative/emo Stacey in another life if she wasn't crippled by mental illness.
You do realize she's probably in contact with several other dudes just like you who also want to "rescue" her, right?
Not to rain on your parade but I did the saviorgay thing too so I just wanna warn you, and mine isn't as severely mentally ill as yours
and yet she still gets male attention
>in love with her
Real life doesn't work out like the movies, anon. Have a good one.
Yeah guys like him are pretty pathetic.
Absolutely nothing pathetic about him you Black person
>Absolutely every*thing pathetic about him you Black person
post address
554 Waterbury Ct, Apt 4
San Jose, CA 95117
I'll be waiting.
Sent 🙂
>including severe depression and agoraphobia
So it's fricking nothing. I could fix her. Good diet + exercise + exposure therapy + some talk therapy.
girls cant be hikkis because the moment she steps online there are thousands of men simping for her
lonelyness is essential to hikkikomori culture and women cant be lonely
that's not a real female jap hikikomori. the only ones in japan that do this are ugly ass ones because they've been getting bullied their entire life so they stay recluse and hate society etc. eventually when their parents die or kick them out they end up homeless then suicide.
>Few perfectly scattered objects on a table
>Look at me I'm an outcast
morons like you eat this slop up. I guarantee you you donate to Twitch streamers
>incels don't know that literally all women are this messy
if you think that this is a trait of femcels then L-M-A-O!
This is what Japanese women are really like.
>some holes can only be filled with that kind of stuff
What did she mean by that?
Please bless with source
>Holes MUST be filled
That's such a normal and natural human behavior.
next time some homosexual OP posts some bait Japanese TV can't be kino template, post this.
total dyke death
Wrong, they're only like that for gaijin
Wtf? Where's my Tokyo penthouse?
i will never be a comfy jap neet with an aging okaasan who is very disappointed in me!
I cannot stop fantasizing about being 15yo son in a family where 60yo impotent chud father marries 20yo submissive waifu, which I seduce and frick and then he fricking dies and I inherit all his money and have a comfy neet life
Porn has rotted your brain.
it sure did, but don't tell me you wouldn't want to be in this kind of situation
Incest is so low on my list of aberrant sexual fantasies, it doesn't even cross my mind.
Can you give us the YouTube link like why OP are you this lazy?
You're the lazy one, anon-kun.
I used to be a depressed shut in until I decided to be neither of those things
Not hard
>Just stop being what you are
K mr therapist
if you want to spend your life as a gay moron that's not my problem, keep making excuses, gay moron
No, it's really that simple. Just stop being a loser. Go. Listen to the advice from your high school guidance counselor. It's more powerful then you realize
Don't bother, he doesn't want to change. Defeatism has conquered him completely.
How do I stop being a loser Mr expert?
1) understand what you want
2) work towards it
3) break the shackles of what's preventing you from what you went
There. If you want more through instructions and people to talk with check the law of attraction threads in the x board and properly understand its message
You can still be a Cinemaphile homosexual if your want but at least now you aren't a Cinemaphile homosexual wallowing in your self-pity
I know what I want but I'm a 34 year old autist and can't really fix tha, I hsve my doubts about sny advice from /x/
Black person, I was a 36 year old neet. Stop making excuses to justify why you shouldn't improve yourself. You have nothing to lose by taking one goal and working towards it.
Judge the results yourself. Either you are successful and you improve something on yourself and get motivation to keep going or it fails and you are still where you are expect this time you spent slightly less time on Cinemaphile.
>How do I help myself?
>Nooo not like that!!!
I understand why some people end up like this, but some people do it because they're lazy and leech off their family. The worst kind are the oblivious ones who think they've outsmarted society or something dumb like that when all they're really just insanely selfish.
The type of people who really become like this don't want to be like this and it pains them to no end.
Just to tack on. Law of attraction isn't magic. It's not say a incantation and you get phat pussy filled with gold in your face.
It's about establishing attitude and discipline to excerise your will.
How is this type of trolling is called?
If it was a cutsey anime girl with giant knockers saying it, would you listen then? If so just imagine that and get your shit together.
In before all the porn addiction no life neets enter trying to hype up how being a worthless loser is totally keen.
Go out and make your parents happy. They are old and expected to retire by now. Stop being a drain on them.
I see you were here in my previous thread. Blackpillers are always good for a laugh. What's your favourite doomer cope?
Mine's "s-successful p-p-people don't mock us pessimist losers... !!!" Actually cracks me up.
"Once you are 25 you can't change your self" Though I hear that more to excuse the actions of inner city youths being savages.
I didn't see the last but I've been in others. I was on that track before I realiize that 95% of my problems were internal obstacles and my attitude so I try to help those that are in need but the overdose on black pills get my ire the most.
I honestly hate doomers with a passion. They don't contribute anything but actually work against everyone else with their shit attitude but get to take part in the good times since they are almost always wrong.
For me, 80% of my problems are economical. And guess how our economy is doing right now.
What are you doing to better your economic prospects?
Asking for reals not to be a dick. Looking at my own budgets for my household and realizing I need more I put in a plan to increase my employment value with the expectation of better pay. Sucks having to study for certs but it will pay off
Well for one I'm swimming in debt and I barely make enough money to pay rent, let alone afford food or god forbid, pay of my debts, which will take at least +10 years at this rate.
Work on paying the debt off so you're free and not in ten years time sit and go "fuuuuck if only I had done x, y and z instead of still being in debt"
I don't know how many times I've put shit off because "it will take x amount of years" only to be past that time now and not having what I wanted to do.
I know it's not that simple, but at the same time, it really is that simple. The first thing you need to do is get out of excuses mentality. It will frick you up.
Gotta admit, it's more the prospect of wage slaving for the next 10 years that depresses me more than anything. I live in a flat with two other dudes, and they may or may not move out the flat, at which case it dissolves and I'm on the streets. And if my money problems weren't bad enough (though I can live on little) finding a new apartment or even glat is impossible with how dystopian the current housing market is. Plus part of my debts come from rent, so I'm basically a marked man. Ain't nobody wants to take in someone with a history of overdue rent debts. I made a lot of mistakes in my life but fricking up rent is easily the worst.
I don't want to sound like a downer, but "wage slaving the next 10 years" is kinda part of life. There's not much else choice for most people. You just need to come to terms with that or find a realistic alternative you can be happy with.
I don't want to be discouraging, but it's important to also be realistic and not sugarcoat. You're going to have to put some work in, but that doesn't mean you can't enjoy shit and life. You probably don't even have kids, so you're free in a lot of senses.
Yeah dude. My sympathies. It's a shit world out there.
I hope you land on your feet and pull through. I truely do. My advice is that you can either sink or swim with swimming being the better option.
Considered moving to some where cheaper?
>Considered moving to some where cheaper?
People keep saying "bro move out of the cities lmao" but it'snot cheapef in the suburbs or countrysides either. Plus there's no damn jobs there either.
It's mega over. But thanks for your posts man.
Stop making excuses.
Bro I couldn't even move out if I wanted to, because I can't even get an apartment to rent with my history of debt. Doesn't matter if I have a job and some money saved, they take one look at my debtor's list and I'm out.
Have you tried looking on Craigslist and other unofficial sources? Find something and put up with it for a year so you can establish that you can indeed make rent payments. Use that as your history.
Not going to lie to you anon. You got some road blocks ahead but it's fixable though.
And make that damn budget so you can see where you are losing all your money. The source might suprise you and can be easily fixed
It's only over when you say it is anon. Don't let society dictate the terms to you.
It's hard anon but giving up will only make it harder
>Gotta admit, it's more the prospect of wage slaving for the next 10 years that depresses me more than anything
Unless you can come up with a million dollar idea and sell it then that's sort of how it goes anon. Not to be a Debbie downer.
Honestly it's not soul crushing like it's depicted in the movies. It's a part of life and working with others can be nice. Don't let an attitude learned from popular media tell you how to think.
If your goal is to buy land and live off the grid (mad jealous if you do this) then you only need to "wageslave" for as long as it takes to get your plot of land then you are down with that.
>10 years
nobody tell him
This guy said it better
But just to emphasis. Debt fricking sucks. You know what sucks more? That same debt but with 2 more years of interest built on it because it was put off.
Do you have a budget planned? I just started using fireflyiii and setting up the rules for my transactions. It's eye opening to see what all your money goes.
Use what ever works best for you in either software or old school green ledger bookkeeping just make one if to haven't already
You change around 35 to be more mellow. It's after 35 that you're set in stone. I think I read in some article that going all the way back to the romans, they used to consider men under 35 "insane". Or it may have been 25, I'm not 100% sure.
I can understand being mellow and having a different attitude from experience.
My problem is when people are convinced you can't learn anymore or change your mindset.
Failed normalhomosexual's life sure is sad huh
Let him cope
I would but Cinemaphile convinced me I've passed my chance to help them or society at large since I'm 34 and "too old" now to make a difference.
>reeeee you're too old, if you have kids now they'll be autistic and moronic
Ok I guess I won't have children then.
>reeeeee you're not helping the decline of the white population!
Frick you man. Hell if I do, hell if I don't.
Yeah that's bullshit. It was 36 when I met someone and got married while getting my shit together at my job.
Anybody who says it's too late is just crab bucket bs.
Take the time to figure out what you want and make it work anon. I know you can
That's just regular /misc/yp cope. Yes, increased age will eventually increase the risk of gene defects (on the basis of "old" sperm) but not only has this been reported on 50 years upwards but it's also npt a guarrantee, as those people like to portray it as.
To add on to this.
The "muh autism " they refer to is the mild type that they have and are convinced is why they are a dumb neet who can't get their wheat field maiden.
No, that's just a result of poor decisions and not facing up to them. All the autism did was give the ability to hyper focus, they misapplied it
you're too old, if you have kids now they'll be autistic and moronic
That's only true for women, you stupid moron
Men's balls are good till they're like 80
Kys
I'm good I put on the hood
This.
The only thing stopping me from being a NEET is dissapointing my parents. I lived with them for a year and I literally got a job because of how shameful I felt for them.
Same happened to me anon. Delay launch.
It doesn't matter why but that you did it. Good shit anon. Hopefully it put you on the right track
doing it for others can help for some years but after a certain point it doesnt cut it and you go back to point 0
Hope we get more kinos about the horrors of NEET life
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This is literally me, she's me.
"She" looks like a boy. I think the guy just keeps a boymoder as his pet.
>"IT'S A MAN, BABY!" -every poster on Cinemaphile, since 2015
Hey I ain't judging. I had a trans gf, my radar's just very finely tuned.
you're a subversive israelite and you should kys
based, I wish I had a cute and wholesome trans gf
No such thing. They are all porn sick pill popping defense.
Have fun with your hyper emotional internet addict girl dick that will assure you of rape the second you break up with them
typical hapa pig face
Not a full hiki, though I am a NEET wizard. I'm happier being a NEET, a lot of people shame NEETs, even in this thread, but people shamed and mocked me when I was trying my best to contribute to society, at least now it's quiet and peaceful.
The only way you can do this is because somebody else is carrying you. That's no way to live a proper life. Being a leech of your family and/or society.
yeah I really wanna contribute to a society that taxes the productive people to give that money to women so that they can not start families and spend all their money traveling the world alone and getting drunk. if being a worthless leech is seen as something to aspire to, then why not embrace it?
More excuses to justify being a lazy bum leeching off the work of other people. The worst part is you think it's great. It's fricking pathetic.
Seethe homie
participating in a system that rewards immoral behaviour is immoral. no matter what choice you make, you're immoral. may as well make the easiest one.
yeah, like I said, you're the problem. you think you should live for yourself. you want everyone to suffer as you jack off in a corner and for them to cheer you on as you do so. I think that's evil.
you should be happy I'm just NEETing. the alternative would be terrorism.
>oh well no point in trying. Might as well just lay down and spread my cheeks so it's easier for them.
Your ancestors look down on you in contempment. You're parents resent you for your wasteful life they gave you.
I personal don't care what you do. You're an example I can use for my kids as to what not to become. So keep on being a pathetic neet loser whose only ambition is to chug down some more slop while you watch your escapist anime to stave off crying.
and yet, you're the one paying my bills.
>and yet I'm burden with disappointed family and no friends and prospects but only allowed to live by the state that I claim to hate
Bravo. You have really out done yourself with that masterclass rhetoric kek
my family are all childless overachievers who spend all their time and money partying, vacationing, or otherwise blowing it on meaningless trivialities. every single person I talk to thinks that welfare for worthless neets is a good thing. nobody cares. that's the society we live in. everybody thinks that bad things are good, because noticing that bad things are actually bad would make them uncomfortable, it would force them to change their lives. so they willfully choose not to notice it.
Awww so from trash becomes trash. Sorry you couldn't rise above those losers.
P.s. they all talk about you beyond your back on what a neet you become. They only say they support such ideas because they don't want to upset you
nah
for its own sake, yeah
>just stop caring
very compelling moral argument there
never said that
cope
>maximizing utility is bad because.... IT JUST IS OK?
>I live according to the standards set by others rather then myself
Lol life cuck
>my family are all chads who think I'm a NEETchad
Their larps are always so bad
Does anyone want to tell him what his family actually thinks of him and his neet style?
Maybe a sense of shame will inspire them.
imagine if your father was a /misc/cel, christ
I don't know. I think for the neets here any father would be better then the no father they had. At least they would have guidance that isn't how to jerk off better from discord strangers
https://desuarchive.org/_/search/boards/LULZ.desu.meta/text/%2Fpol%2Fcel/
>439 times in /LULZ/
Why do bottom of the barrel loser incels cry about /misc/?
Incel hugboxes like /LULZ/ are feasting grounds for grooming trannies
They fear the occasional good advice that manages to percolate up on pol once in a blue moon that doesn't coddle them but instead tells them to take command of their life.
Pols a weird place that if the people who inhabited listened to their own advice and ideas then no one would be posting there.
>giving up because others
Pathetic. You claim to be a lonely neet but all your excuses for living are based on other people and not yourself.
I call that being a life cuck
I get some neetbux, so I guess it's society that's carrying me. But I'm okay with that since I don't owe anything to a society that basically just shits on me.
By being a neet, I am getting out of society in a way, and I don't think of myself as a neet slave, in some ways I think it's more freeing than when I was waging.
You aren't though. You are dependent on the very system that you hate. And all your resources is going to maintaining it.
You aren't free, you're the perfect slave they want. Demoralized, and always consuming. No interests beyond food slop and media slop. No desire to improve.
They have chains on you and you think your free because you can't see it
They are doing a pretty shitty job at it if you ask me, I hardly consume and I participate as little as I can to society and its rot. Oh well, even if I am a slave it's still a more peaceful life than before.
I am beyond certain that you don't cook or really create anything. Your entire life is based on being supported by others. All the food you eat is processed garbage and all the media you watch is pirated while you buy plastic figures of it. You drain off those who do create only to put right back into the very system you claim you aren't supporting.
You are the slave they want and you tell yourself that you are free kek
Yeah. I get that as a former neet. However my contributing to society isn't for the approvals of others but for my own goals of getting the frick out of it.
No point in living in the system if you can escape it with a bit of hard work. You ever think it purposely beat you down to make you into a slave through your neet lifestyle?
I wish I lived in such a kino apartment
shouldnt wagies being wagin right now? back to work.
https://desuarchive.org/_/search/text/wagies/
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ebin robot meem
break's over, back to the cagie wagie!
>getting your knowledge of the working world from Cinemaphile and media
It's like a virgin knowing what is like to frick (i.e. also you. Loser)
https://desuarchive.org/_/search/boards/LULZ.desu.meta/text/wagie%20cagie/
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ebin robot meem
That flick is 3 years old
This image just reminds me of those Chinese homemade porn where some dude bangs chicks looking out sky scrapers.
I've been hikki NEET for 10 years and don't want to be anymore but I'm also completely lost and have no idea where to go in life. Thoughts? Any successful bros' advice? I have unlimited time to study anything.
What are your interests? If you don't know check out a career center and see if they can help you find it.
In the meantime start applying to any job(s) just to get your foot in the door and used to working with others.
I have no interests, I'm a blank slate with no personality due to my years in isolation. Consooming has been my sole interest for a decade. So unless my job was to recite video game and internet meme facts, I'm useless.
That's why I'm struggling so hard.
Get a low bar entry job, preferably one that requires physical labor
See it's that attitude that's stopping you. Drop it.
You do have interests you don't know them. If you can get that interested in vidyagames then it must have been some hook in it for you.
There's a wide world out there anon. Goto a local job center and take their evlautuon of skills and interest test to help you get a foothold as you determine what it is that you want to do
You could study video game design, I have a friend who just graduated and got a job at a big vidya studio.
>just start doing manual labor, bro
Worst advice. It's soul-crushing, not intellectually stimulating and his coworkers will all hate him for being weak and unskilled, unless it's a total goyim job like Amazon or something. Even shoveling mulch, he will get laughed at and ridiculed by the hispanics for being so weak. Personally, my dad forced me to stop being NEET and get a construction job where we mostly did rigging and told me they would "teach me the ropes" but all they did was yell and bully me and I hated it and wanted to kms. Don't do that.
Nah, actual intensive dangerous physical labor requires certification he doesn't have yet. His problem is he sits on his ass all day overthinking stuff and stewing in his own misery.
just pretend you don't have a lifetime of emotional baggage and develop a positive outlook on life while working a shitty entry-level job. think about what you want to do in life but also don't be too introspective because you'll fall into your usual depressive spiral of inaction. and in your free time, you should join hobby clubs (just pretend you have interests) or volunteer (basically like working, except you don't get paid and you get even more opportunities to socialize!).
and after a few short years of doing this, you too can be the social equivalent of a moronic person being taught to hold down a minimum-wage job.
>why isn't everyone bending over backwards to make me king? it's not fair
Brootal
wagies, our response?
Wagecucks, not like this...
https://desuarchive.org/_/search/boards/LULZ.desu.meta/text/wagecucks/
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ebin robot meem
To quote Thomas the Tank Engine, 'homie, I ain't clicking that.'
I'm pretty sure anon is asking how NOT to become a moronic midwit wagie. No one is really giving him good advice because everyone here is either a moronic midwit wagie or a NEET. No one here knows. Personally I'm already retired, but it was due to luck and generosity from family members, which is not within his control. The sad fact of the matter is that most people are ignorant and can't help even if they wanted to. Those at the top won't share their secrets because they'd lose their power. A lot is also due to contacts, which anon has none of. Any friends he may have had are long gone. So he has limited options. This hopelessness, I'm sure, also reinforces it because he gives up and says "What's the point".
>I fricked around and and wasted my youth so now I have to double make up for it?!
>how could this happen to me?!!!
Yeah frick around and now you have to make up for it. Or just give up like a homosexual.
It helps having a discrete goal in mind.
I'll require the following to make up my mind. Please assist me.
>What's a Hikikomori?
>Are they only guys?
>Are they only Japanese? Do we have a counterpart?
>Why do they exist?
>Will I need to be one in order to enjoy this movie?
That should have all 3 pointing to the White picture saying "THIS IS ME" and say "International disease".
What do japanese hikkis do once their parents pass away? Does japan even have a welfare system? I imagine you get forced to wageslave at the worst job possible.
Probably just kill themselves. There's no bright future for them, in any case.
people who hikki don't have the conviction for that.
Pretty much. Their entire life is built on getting hand outs and support from others. They literally can't take initiative to kill themselves
Well Japan has almost no homeless schizos so what do you think happens to them? Turned into soilent?
they die in there rooms
>NEET wastes away and dies of starvation because his mommy died and stopped bringing him tendies
I could see that.
and yeah im neet death is the only way out for me tbh
They either die or just live a life of getting a meager income and living in internet cafe/Manga reading rooms
Basically what they were doing before except now under someone else's roof rather then their own
Japan's property tax is brutal, they just can't afford it so the police/government kicks them out and shoves them in low-income housing
Hikki?
more like Hikkwab amirite?
Being unemployed is the lamest disability you could opt for.
People respect trannies and morons more.
Don't get a fricking job.