>Ma, sooner or later, there comes a point in a man's life when he's gotta face some facts. And one fact I gotta face is that, whatever it is that women like, I ain't got it. I chased after enough girls in my life. I-I went to enough dances. I got hurt enough. I don't wanna get hurt no more. I just called up a girl this afternoon, and I got a real brush-off, boy! I figured I was past the point of being hurt, but that hurt. Some stupid woman who I didn't even want to call up. She gave me the brush. No, Ma, I don't wanna go to Stardust Ballroom because all that ever happened to me there was girls made me feel like I was a-a-a bug. I got feelings, you know. I-I had enough pain. No thanks, Ma!
This is exactly how I feel. I'm 38. I'm done. I'm over it.
Come on, anon. Put on the blue suit and go the Stardust Ballroom.
It's just too much hassle, and in 2023 it's too dangerous. What if I get plastered on Twitter for dating someone who is arbitrarily too young for me according to the bluehairs that day? Nah, you can keep it. More chicks for you, hey? I'm out.
The first problem you mentioned with dating is how bluehairs on twitter will react. That's fricked up anon. You are fricked up. Don't think like that anymore ok?
this.
you are mind-broken by internet memes. they don't matter in the real world. ignore that shit.
>Movie has a happy ending and he gets a pretty girl
He gets a DOG!
If it was a female dog he has 99 problems but a b***h ain’t one
hit me
Now imagine how he'd feel in [current_year + 3]
though to be fair this movie did have a very charming and happy ending, his friends were just fricking buttholes
This except I've never actually asked out or approached any women
This is almost every incel pretty much
That has been my strategy for 42 years and it has kept me safe so far.
you deserve your lot then.
you were given the gift of life, by your parents and you are a debtor, who took this gift and then decided to not even try to do anything with it. It's beyond pathetic. You didn't even try.
No. Don't give that anon the honorific of calling himself an incel. An incel is someone who tried. Someone who despite his best efforts was rejected and failed. I have massive respect for incels. They got dealt a shitty hand (too short, too ugly, too asian, too whatever) and they lost. They deserve happiness and probably would have gotten it in a better world.
Men who don't even try are volcels (derogatory). You are celibate by your own choice, and not even a good choice like dedicating your life to God. No, you just choose to spit in your ancestors' faces and rot away, because it's comfortable and you are a coward.
Cry about it.
you're the virgin 30 year old pathetic cowardly volcel in a Cinemaphile self-pity thread.
I'm not crying. I'm raging. You're the one crying.
Man up, you fricking loser.
Cry about it
>just be miserable dealing with women and kids because of dead people
No
>you were given the gift of life, by your parents
I'm an accident bastard child
You have it totally backwards. Volcels are based, incels are cringe.
And I never will
Same. I never got the interest from women that suggested that I should escalate with them.
Fricked up thing is that I get some likes and matches, but they don't lead to anything.
Never got any interest IRL. I must be too unapproachable.
I used to cope that women were always coy when they were interested but after regularly seeing women interact with guys they're into, I realise now that I'm just ugly.
Well sometimes they are coy. It's frustrating to read that some women, the shy ones, actively avoid men they like, or won't give them any signs.
Then there are those women who make it pretty fricking obvious that they want a guy and make it easy for him to escalate.
Dudes will be like this and still somehow insist that women are the problem
It's not like he'd be successful if he did
Guys who act like this are almost universally self-aware enough that they know that even if they tried, women would be actively repelled by them.
Quints and I get a girl
Being an incel in 1960 must have been incredibly boring
It was. Back in my days you didn’t have black pills you could get from the internet. You had to go to a shrink and then they’d send you to a psych ward and drill a hole in your brain, that’s what we called a black pill
They'll still do that in psych wards but chemically.
>ma when you gonna give up you got a based and blackpilled gigatrucel turbomanlet on ya hands cuz I ain't ever gonna ascensionmaxx
>whatever it is that women like, I ain't got it
turns out you can get a woman just by swallowing your pride and buying her shit
but that type of transactional relationship doesn't sit right with me so I jumped ship
How do you even meet women
>0 success on dating apps
>go to meetups and hobby groups, sparsely attended, only women are over 40
>WFH so don't interact with colleagues much
>go to bars/pubs and all the women are siloed in their little groups
>cold approaches get cold shouldered
>every female accquataince I have is in a long term relationship
>none of my friends are willing to set me up
>0 success on dating apps
This is a massive indicator that you need to dramatically change something about your photo quality or bodyfat percentage. Any well-groomed man who is in shape will get loads of matches up until the age of 50 (maybe even higher if you are willing to be a sugar daddy). People will say "i'm ugly" but in reality all they need to do is lose weight.
not him, but like 99% of matches go nowhere
the numbers you have to playing as an average guy on those apps are soul-crushing
I'm not fat and I got my photographer friend to take some photos (not in a staged photoshoot sense).
Demoralization post.
That tinder insights trend that happened a few months back was a sucker punch of a blackpill.
[coping] Wow, what a sad life this b***h must lead.
Even more depressing is the dudes moaning about their 10% matchrate, I'd kill for those odds.
At least as a guy, i only pay for my lack of success on tinder with wasted time. Girls like that pay for it with a bodycount, diminishing their value.
>188 days
>54 dates
>37 (in a row?!) casual sexual encounters
>nothing to show for it.
to show for it.
Except fricking 37 dudes.
That's not an accomplishment, or progress towards an accomplishment.
>Men must work to aquire their value
>Women must work to preserve their value
A woman who has 37 (in a row?!) sexual partners in a 6 month period is effectively ruined. That would be like a guy cutting his fingers and nose off, quitting his job and throwing all his assets in the trash. Deliberately making himself less worthy of a committed relationship.
> Fricks 37 men in 188 days
> Roughly one new man every five days
> Roughly 74 men a year
> Do this for seven years (age 18 to 25)
> Frick 518 different men
She'll literally have taken miles of dick by the time she's halfway through her 20s
And women have the gall to complain about men turning into incels.
You can't. It's over.
How can it be over when he hasn’t even gotten started yet
from my experience talking to other people about it, it always seems to be work, school, or friends of friends i.e large social gatherings
guys on dating apps are usually above average in couple of important ways, normies have mostly learned not to bother with that crap
I'm past the age where large social gatherings happen regularly. Everytime I go to a party, I more often than not have already met everyone there and whenever there's a woman I don't know she's always there with her boyfriend.
yeah i wasn't really offering solutions just describing what I've observed
sometimes you're just in a low odds situation
The only thing you didn't mention is church. I only ever met girls through friends. I had one Chad friend who always took me to get togethers, parties, bars and everything else. Without him I would have been fricked
Cinemaphile discord servers.
>9+ body count
yikes, somebody get this prostitute out of my sight
That's a man
As you suggest, it is impossible now.
Social media and frick apps ruined everything.
Women are the choosers and on there they only want Chad.
I love Ernest Borgnine's voice
I love you
I read that in his voice
homosexual
another demoralization thread
we see what you're doing
Ive never had genuine feelings for a girl since my childhood friend moved away and I never saw her again, I've never considered getting into a relationship a possibility or had a desire to do so since, im in my mid 20s
Who cares? Watching a good film next to a fireplace with your cat nearby is the best it gets.
Not my problem
To think that inceldom was a problem just a decade after WW2.
I know how that feels. I wish I didn't.
There is pretty much no point to living if you're a sub-top 5% man. Nothing and nobody cares about you except your parents (if you're lucky) and you pretty much just exist to slave away so that women can have endless fun with Chad.
>this is considered "white" in amerimutt land
lol