If it makes you guys feel any better I only have time to shitpost while I walk the dog and every other second is work, raising kids, or attending to their mother’s endless and fictional emotional needs.
I'll be 29 in a month and I'm in the same boat. With that said though, I did finally get a job over the summer so I'm starting to think that anything is possible.
It's kind of funny actually. I'd always felt like a weird, awkward loser, but seeing firsthand the way some people behave and carry themselves in public has unironically done wonders for my self esteem. For the first time in many, many years, I feel like I might make it after all.
doesn't it get easier the longer you go without closeness, i am 25 and also have never held hands never hugged or anything, but i honestly don't feel it now,
but then again having a gf or something like that outside of marriage is frowned upon specially in middle class societies
I’m 29 and I have a smart and good kid, a loving wife, a good and suportive father and mother in law, an annoying but dumb lovely dog, a stable but alright paying job, my own vehicle and Im going to buy my house soon.
Im still depressed and want to kill myself everyday. Whats wrong with me?
They constantly want to do shit and 75% of the time they just want to do that shit so they can take pictures for Instagram to show people they do shit. It's exhausting.
literally me a year ago, kissless virgin at that, then 3 months ago a gf found me and it's like I'm living a different life now we're gonna move in together soon
Same, honestly I gave up on the idea of intimacy. I'm just gonna focus on my career, get rich and then retire in a farm. Maybe get a dog or something I dunno.
>Need to be making 6 figures to hope to afford home >Food prices are insane >No paternal leave
But, yeah you should be pumping out kids by the time you're 25 for some reason
That's the irony. He's always saying what he knows will portray him as this rugged and reliable cop with integrity and charm. In reality he cries every time someone catches him being a shitheel. It's really funny and makes me like the guy even though he's weak and pathetic at times. That's how a lot of guys are. They wish they could be stoic and smooth. The second they get triggered though, they are crying and trying to get sympathy for their wrongdoing. I imagine a little boy who hurts his sister and begins to cry because he knows he might get out of punishment if he acts aggrieved enough
I thought he was a pretty good guy despite his layers of cope and cringe, but I think he should have been a bit more useful regarding the main story as he spent too much time backseating while Rust carried
It would have been fun to see him going around doing regular detective work to contrast Rust's bizarro lifestyle. He was a good detective and respected by his peers.
Evolution is slow. Evolution doesn't care about recent economic trends or increased intra-species competition due to overpopulation, the imperative remains more or less the same for each individual.
I never understand this. Do people really need to work for 8 hours to fill their day? There are endless movies, books and games as well as infinite hobbies and that's without even getting into time sinks like shitposting.
It gets old pretty quickly and I don't have shit for money, so I can't really do anything like travel. I don't even know if I would enjoy traveling nowadays. At the same time I try to not to take my absolute minimal amount of at home work to pay the bills for granted.
Eh, I've been doing it last two years and I reckon I could do it endlessly. For most of the things I referenced you don't even need money. Money would open more avenues and possibilities but it's not necessary.
No, I mean that there are thousands of tasks that make up a day. Lots of them support the logistics of being an independent adult human with their own home and transportation and food. Remove all those things which all adults do daily to survive, you're just left with free time. I'm too jaded to have tolerance for boredom. I only enjoy free time because it's in contrast to my obligations. It feels precious and I appreciate it because it's rare. If every day was totally empty of obligations, it would all start to blend together. I would also be crippled with shame that I couldn't support my aging parents or lavish a girl with nice things.
>can't have fun for yourself
your loss, i've been doing it for years and i'm doing fine.
No, I mean that there are thousands of tasks that make up a day. Lots of them support the logistics of being an independent adult human with their own home and transportation and food. Remove all those things which all adults do daily to survive, you're just left with free time. I'm too jaded to have tolerance for boredom. I only enjoy free time because it's in contrast to my obligations. It feels precious and I appreciate it because it's rare. If every day was totally empty of obligations, it would all start to blend together. I would also be crippled with shame that I couldn't support my aging parents or lavish a girl with nice things.
I live on my own though I rent. I'll never be able to afford a home even working which is part of what made me quit working. Just felt like an uphill battle with no return. I own my car and food is cheap if you're canny about what and from where you purchase. Sounds like we're just different because I certainly don't need obligations to enjoy freedom to spend my spare time doing as I wish. >I would also be crippled with shame that I couldn't support my aging parents or lavish a girl with nice things.
Not an issue for me as I'm single and my parents don't require my assistance.
>infinite hobbies
homie get the frick out of here with this NEET cope, you don't have any hobbies what are you're not learning to play harpsicord all day you jerk off and play old ass videogames over and over on your poverty PC
utilitarism sucks, thibgs are good as they are.
a pair of boobs isn't judged by how much milk they can feed a baby, but how aesthetic and suckable for adults they really are.
I'm writing a novel, learning Spanish and enjoy cooking but yes I do also jerk off and play video games but just because I don't participate in every hobby does not mean there are not infinite hobbies, because there are.
Hey dude, please go on a vacation by yourself somewhere, even if u have to wagecuck at some skill-less job for 2 months. Just go somewhere by yourself for 2-3 weeks, you will reset your brain and it will be similar to unplugging from the matrix. You will realize you're alive and how badly you want to change. You're not happy, I know because I was you. Don't go down the path where you say the same thing at 30.
I bought a shotgun to blow my head open. Seems like the only good path. I resent being born and hate my parents for it. Killing myself is the only solution. I've put the barrell in my mouth loaded safety off and got drunk playing russian roullete but I couldn't because of survival instinct and cowardice. I wish i was brave or had free will
I kept switching the safety on and off while drunk hoping I'd forget what it was on. It was a modified russian roullette
>Never had a friend
Literally impossible bro, the no job no gf i can buy but everyone has/needs friends.
Existing for 25 years without acciddentally running into someone to befriend should get you a steam accievement or something cause its almost impressive
I'm on the same boat at 27 turning 28 in a few weeks. Not sure what to do but I lost all motivation to graduate. But I started eating edibles and I am gonna fail a few classes.
I gotta find a job but it's a pain to get one, I wouldn't mind if I could get a internship or something but I feel like I get passed over anyways.
I need to leave this room. All I do is sit in it all day
>jerk off all day >read outrage bait threads on Cinemaphile >maybe watch half a movie while on your phone >never interact with another human being
SURELY HAPPINESS WILL FIND ME ANY TIME NOW
>Never had a friend
Literally impossible bro, the no job no gf i can buy but everyone has/needs friends.
Existing for 25 years without acciddentally running into someone to befriend should get you a steam accievement or something cause its almost impressive
A man needs a woman to keep is testosterone in check. Men can turn into literal ape brained monkeys sometimes. A woman needs a man to keep her from running her life into the ground. Woman cannot think ahead. They have no concept of the future.
having a 9 to 5 job is the worst thing in this world. zero time for anything. after work completely exhausted so the day is basically over. tired all day without the chance to take a nap. i hate everything about it, frick the money.
It's not that bad, I got home from work yesterday at 4. Made dinner, played with my dog, exercised, played vidya for a couple hours, and spent a couple of hours working on music.
Oldgay here. For me it started being a problem around 36/37. That was the age that people started looking at me differently because I hadn't picked some cow and started breeding yet.
Where did this meme come from that all men are meant to marry and reproduce? Not even Jesus said that.
>11 But he said unto them, All men cannot receive this saying, save they to whom it is given.12 For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother's womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.
I'm 29 not bad looking but I have fricked up every sexual encounter I've ever came close to. My friends and family joke about it but most think I'm gay or have a mental problem.
18. There are only a few reasons why a man wouldn't be starting a family as soon as he is eligible to do so. These are homosexuality, indecisiveness, or laziness.
I'm turning 37 in two months. Yesterday I spent hours thinking about going out in the park and hanging myself from the tree with my tie. I woke up today and started thinking about it first thing.
I sit in my old rotting and leaking house planning every last detail how I'm going to kidnap a newborn baby girl and raise her to be my personal slave.
Got molested by my dad as a kid which made me a timid coward and afraid of sex, then was embarrassed a lot by girls in school because they saw what a coward I was so now I'm terrified of them. It was so bad other guys would make fun of me for how scared I was of them. My anxiety meds make it almost impossible to get hard. I'd off myself but it would ruin my mom's life
Anon I hope you find a way through it all. When fear and the past threaten to engulf us, we have to simply fall into the abyss of uncertainty. I've been without meds for years. For me they were a crutch that eventually gave out. I found my own way in my own particular plights. Don't give up. You can do it.
>school
Bro don't even worry about it. It really wasn't your fault. Hell if anyone gives you shit about it now just plain tell the truth, people are more understanding than you think. And if not? Frick em, let them get raped see how they like it.
30. I will not discuss this, I will not ague. This is fact, and anyone disagreeing is cope. Frick, I could even say 25 if you want to get younger, because if you don't have things going by then, oh buddy.
It's probably 30. I'm 32, have a career, house, expendable income etc. Dating in this age bracket is a fricking minefield of single moms, Disney adults, and fatties.
I’m 32, used to be a normie, had relationships, but then just fell off the edge of the world into a hole of misery. Now I’m rebuilding my life and dating. Honestly it’s not been that bad since there’s a lot of 24-28 year old professional women. If I were slightly less pathetic and bad at sex I think I could do well.
Hey fren I just want you to know life is going to kick you in the balls, kick sand in your face and you're going to be in misery again real soon. Good luck!
>Dating in this age bracket
Not natural. Every period in human history before the moronation of postmodernism the wife is 10-20 years younger than her husband. Why would you want a disgusting, washed-out roastie? You should be dating zoomettes.
Nah, tried it with a 24 year old. Only thing we had in common was we liked to frick. The fresh out of college thing is endearing to a point but then I start acting like a second dad and explaining how the actual world works. Not my thing. I know you're all going to roll your eyes at this but I want to have more in common with a life partner.
The point he is making here is that hes saying men have base desires that if left unchecked, could lead to their self destruction. He is projecting this onto Rust and its supposed to be a point of hypocrisy for the character and let us know something about him.
Hart does have a family, but he still cheats on his wife with a much younger woman and is a borderline alcoholic. Hes also violent and basically behaves like a dumb brute just fricking and fighting everything on impulse. Having a family doesnt help that at all and it ends up costing him that after his wife leaves him.
Rust on the other hand is basically this hermit living out a Spartan lifestyle where he has this solid philosophy he focuses on and doesnt just give into his base desires. Hes also capable of violence, but holds great control over it while Marty just starts swinging the moment he gets upset.
Rust was not a character to aspire to. He was le enlightened pessimist, he was an optimist who was coping with his own misery. All the negative shit he said was unironically bullshit, because he didn’t actually believe it.
I agree with your analysis on Woody though
Yeah, Rust is a weird freak and not a role model, but that scene was Marty projecting his own failures onto Rust and despite his own flaws, he didnt have those issues. At the end of the show, both seem to somewhat resolve their issues. Rust does for sure with healing his bleak pessimism and moving on from the death of his daughter and the dark spiral he went down after that.
In mid-2018, 29-year-old Grant Amato was unemployed, living rent free in his parents' guest house in the rural village of Chuluota, Florida. He had not once lived on his own and had recently been kicked out of UCF's anesthesiology school for lack of attendance and also fired from a job as a nurse for stealing medication. It was around this time that Grant began to experiment with a relatively new realm of online cam sites.
If it makes anyone feels better, I got married at age 33 and just had my first kid at 34. Mom is 36 and the baby is healthy and beautiful. I was completely broke and jobless all the way up to March 2021. You can still make it
What sorts of interactions do you have such that you're "given a pass?", which I take to mean that you have basic respect as a man because you've had sex/a serious relationship and are divorced which is extremely common. I assume this refers to friends or others that you can have honest conversations with.
The idea is interesting to me because the people I do interact with are extremely polite around this point and never bring it up. If people have privately concluded that I'm a virgin, it hasn't negatively impacted my career or relationships with (older) family members.
A family is the only thing worth working for otherwise you are just a bing bing wahoo balding slave
Inb4 coping slaves seethe. I'll take a morning blowjob from the mother of my children any day over your life. It's better than just being a lonely slave with nothing good in life. Feels good man
Yeah it's like he's crying while typing that. Too many sitcoms romanticize the life of being single, drinking and partying, so it's hard to not fall for it.
Yeah it's like he's crying while typing that. Too many sitcoms romanticize the life of being single, drinking and partying, so it's hard to not fall for it.
What? Incel schizophrenia?
>working to support yourself makes you a slave >but if you're working to provide for your family you're not a slave
???
We are all slaves in this world unfortunately. The difference is some slaves have something to go home to, making it somewhat bearable. The rest just rot and cope like posters above
>We are all slaves in this world unfortunately.
ok homie, I've moved on from that cynical existential bullshit at this point in life. You should too.
I'm not the one who jumped in here and tried to defend his life choices from a question that was never even asked lol
Why are you coping so hard and attacking me? I'm merely saying having a family is the end goal in life
If you enjoy bing bing wahooo balding incel life... Okay? But it's a very depressing path
>We are all slaves in this world unfortunately
This is gonna sound like armchair psychology bullshit, but I really think I can help you. If you hate your job, start taking some long walks and think about something you truly want to do, something that sparks your passion, then come up with a plan and start working to it.
I don't want to offend you but it seems like you're looking for meaning in the wrong places, we're all born with some desire to achieve something and I'm sure you have some dreams inside you that you forgot about because of adult responsibilities.
I'm using most of my free time trying to make a video game now (and procrastinating on Cinemaphile), some people want to write a book, or make a movie, whatever, but don't let yourself become an empty shell who only lives to work and then rest from work until you die.
I truly feel that I lack any "passion" in the context you are referring to. There's never a shortage of "just visualize your passion in life and work towards pursuing it" advice in the world. It obviously comes from those who have found theirs. I don't have anything like that. I enjoy things, but I don't know of anything I would like to pour my life into. If I was rich, I would just hang out and travel and raise a family. I would wake up when I wanted, eat a nice breakfast with coffee, work out a bit, go for a walk, and chill. I wouldn't be working on writing a novel or building furniture or anything like that. I wouldn't be creating anything. I'd just focus on my little enclave and enjoying life. I wish I had a burning passion to do something, but I just don't.
I know a lot of people say this guy is horrible but he keeps being pushed to the limit.
Your wife fricking your only friend, your daughter being an angry teenager that hates you and having fricking gangbangs, come on now.
I was always super nervous around her trying to be funny and interesting and it was just cringe.. when we held hands and kissed I was literally vibrating from nerves and was just pathetic. Next date I brought her flowers but she already made up her mind that our personalities were 'too different' and wanted to be friends instead, never heard from again
>wanted to be friends instead, never heard from again
Women are frustratingly indirect. Wish just once one would say what she means. Just say "I don't want to see you ever again."
I like how you just think you deserve to be dumped and just accept it. Don't do that anon, it's not good for you and women don't like low self esteem either.
>25 >dropped out of uni cause moron >dead end wagie job >khhv >At least I can afford to be financially independent enough to try and cut my parents off so I don't have to face their judgement and disappointment every time we speak
I think a lot of people who are unhappily married like to demonize those who simply realized that marriage and kids are not for them and prefer to live for themselves, instead of for somebody else.
Deep down they envy those people and they realize their lives would've been much better if they didn't marry and have kids, of course they will never admit it because that will shatter the illusion that their lives somehow have deeper meaning simply because they chose to procreate. I've always found it funny how people with families somehow feel superior. Having kids should be a personal choice, nothing more.
Of course there are people who are indeed happily married and have kids, they are the really lucky ones. Just looking at the statistics is enough to discourage me from ever giving it a try.
I have a few close friends who are already divorced in their late 30's after 6-7 years and their lives are a complete mess because of it.
probably like 30
23
Rust is literally me. I'm at the phase where I need to make aggressive moves so I don't become Old Rust.
i want my wizard powers so bad bros...
I never got that meme, how is not nutting going to give you wizard powers?
gandalf and dumbledore are gay
>past a certain age, like 25, a man should have a wife, 2 kids, a house and 2 cars. All fully paid.
Literally impossible.
The followers of the King in Yellow took that from you. Their eyes turned inward to stare into the black sun above Carcosa
my age 🙁
9 months. A child without a loving family will probably not survive and if he does he will be socially maladjusted.
what about Evil Roy Slade?
I'm 29 and have never had a gf
if it makes you feel any better im ignoring my gf to jack off and play video games
If it makes you guys feel any better I only have time to shitpost while I walk the dog and every other second is work, raising kids, or attending to their mother’s endless and fictional emotional needs.
as a neet who can spend a week without making any sort of plan to do anything. your life sounds like my nightmare.
>raising kids
Anon you're complaining about the most meaningful pursuit in life.
I'll be 29 in a month and I'm in the same boat. With that said though, I did finally get a job over the summer so I'm starting to think that anything is possible.
It's kind of funny actually. I'd always felt like a weird, awkward loser, but seeing firsthand the way some people behave and carry themselves in public has unironically done wonders for my self esteem. For the first time in many, many years, I feel like I might make it after all.
same, going to kys before I become wizard
are you stupid? why would you have a nice day over a stinky hole?
why would I live if I can't even get a stinking hole
because life is way more than that? You have been brainwashed by normalgays. Stop caring
>Stop caring
I did, that's why I'm going to kys
sounds like you never stopped caring about being a failed normalgay
what are you, a gay ???
Closes I've had was just sexting a couple girls.
I am 26.
doesn't it get easier the longer you go without closeness, i am 25 and also have never held hands never hugged or anything, but i honestly don't feel it now,
but then again having a gf or something like that outside of marriage is frowned upon specially in middle class societies
Same
Gf's are a monkeys paw homie enjoy ur freedom
I’m 29 and I have a smart and good kid, a loving wife, a good and suportive father and mother in law, an annoying but dumb lovely dog, a stable but alright paying job, my own vehicle and Im going to buy my house soon.
Im still depressed and want to kill myself everyday. Whats wrong with me?
You've never done it tough
Iron deficiency, type 1 diabetes, chronic muscle tension, or some undiagnosed medical issue
Get a blood test homie
you treat your life like a checklist
Atheism
try 31
who cares? i'm ignoring my girlfriend right now because spending time alone is nicer
>get first gf at 26
>she constantly wants to do shit and go places
>I rarely want to
>she gets pissed
They constantly want to do shit and 75% of the time they just want to do that shit so they can take pictures for Instagram to show people they do shit. It's exhausting.
so why don't you break up with her then if it's nicer to spend time alone?
Time to go for fat sheboons bro
literally me a year ago, kissless virgin at that, then 3 months ago a gf found me and it's like I'm living a different life now we're gonna move in together soon
same at 30
Same, honestly I gave up on the idea of intimacy. I'm just gonna focus on my career, get rich and then retire in a farm. Maybe get a dog or something I dunno.
>Need to be making 6 figures to hope to afford home
>Food prices are insane
>No paternal leave
But, yeah you should be pumping out kids by the time you're 25 for some reason
the serial cheater private investigator who's kids hate him said so
That's the irony. He's always saying what he knows will portray him as this rugged and reliable cop with integrity and charm. In reality he cries every time someone catches him being a shitheel. It's really funny and makes me like the guy even though he's weak and pathetic at times. That's how a lot of guys are. They wish they could be stoic and smooth. The second they get triggered though, they are crying and trying to get sympathy for their wrongdoing. I imagine a little boy who hurts his sister and begins to cry because he knows he might get out of punishment if he acts aggrieved enough
I thought he was a pretty good guy despite his layers of cope and cringe, but I think he should have been a bit more useful regarding the main story as he spent too much time backseating while Rust carried
It would have been fun to see him going around doing regular detective work to contrast Rust's bizarro lifestyle. He was a good detective and respected by his peers.
No he didn’t.
Evolution is slow. Evolution doesn't care about recent economic trends or increased intra-species competition due to overpopulation, the imperative remains more or less the same for each individual.
>25
>never had a job
>never had a friend
>never had a girlfriend
>still in childhood bedroom
What the frick do you do all day?
I never understand this. Do people really need to work for 8 hours to fill their day? There are endless movies, books and games as well as infinite hobbies and that's without even getting into time sinks like shitposting.
It gets old pretty quickly and I don't have shit for money, so I can't really do anything like travel. I don't even know if I would enjoy traveling nowadays. At the same time I try to not to take my absolute minimal amount of at home work to pay the bills for granted.
Eh, I've been doing it last two years and I reckon I could do it endlessly. For most of the things I referenced you don't even need money. Money would open more avenues and possibilities but it's not necessary.
>can't have fun for yourself
your loss, i've been doing it for years and i'm doing fine.
I go to work because it’s better to get paid to shitpost on my phone and goof off with coworkers than to sit around naked in my gaming chair all day.
If you say so. I much prefer sitting around naked all day to working though I do it from my couch instead of a gaming chair and I wear clothes.
No it's not
No, I mean that there are thousands of tasks that make up a day. Lots of them support the logistics of being an independent adult human with their own home and transportation and food. Remove all those things which all adults do daily to survive, you're just left with free time. I'm too jaded to have tolerance for boredom. I only enjoy free time because it's in contrast to my obligations. It feels precious and I appreciate it because it's rare. If every day was totally empty of obligations, it would all start to blend together. I would also be crippled with shame that I couldn't support my aging parents or lavish a girl with nice things.
I live on my own though I rent. I'll never be able to afford a home even working which is part of what made me quit working. Just felt like an uphill battle with no return. I own my car and food is cheap if you're canny about what and from where you purchase. Sounds like we're just different because I certainly don't need obligations to enjoy freedom to spend my spare time doing as I wish.
>I would also be crippled with shame that I couldn't support my aging parents or lavish a girl with nice things.
Not an issue for me as I'm single and my parents don't require my assistance.
>infinite hobbies
homie get the frick out of here with this NEET cope, you don't have any hobbies what are you're not learning to play harpsicord all day you jerk off and play old ass videogames over and over on your poverty PC
utilitarism sucks, thibgs are good as they are.
a pair of boobs isn't judged by how much milk they can feed a baby, but how aesthetic and suckable for adults they really are.
*utilitarianism
I'm writing a novel, learning Spanish and enjoy cooking but yes I do also jerk off and play video games but just because I don't participate in every hobby does not mean there are not infinite hobbies, because there are.
This but 29
Sleep, shitpost, and watch YouTube
Same here. I was actually doing comparatively well for a few years, but sure enough I'm back to where I started. Living with family.
I really don't care that much. If I moved out I would just be all alone anyways.
Now that I'm here I'm starting to feel that way. Also, the few close friends I have are moving to practically the other side of the country.
Hey dude, please go on a vacation by yourself somewhere, even if u have to wagecuck at some skill-less job for 2 months. Just go somewhere by yourself for 2-3 weeks, you will reset your brain and it will be similar to unplugging from the matrix. You will realize you're alive and how badly you want to change. You're not happy, I know because I was you. Don't go down the path where you say the same thing at 30.
I bought a shotgun to blow my head open. Seems like the only good path. I resent being born and hate my parents for it. Killing myself is the only solution. I've put the barrell in my mouth loaded safety off and got drunk playing russian roullete but I couldn't because of survival instinct and cowardice. I wish i was brave or had free will
There is no such thing as Russian roulette with a shotgun, moron. You need a revolver for that.
I kept switching the safety on and off while drunk hoping I'd forget what it was on. It was a modified russian roullette
Nope zero friends.
Travel is great but it isn't some elixir for apathy for everyone. I'm speaking from experience.
for this guy, it's not about travel, it's just about leaving the pornhub n dominos den
I'm on the same boat at 27 turning 28 in a few weeks. Not sure what to do but I lost all motivation to graduate. But I started eating edibles and I am gonna fail a few classes.
I gotta find a job but it's a pain to get one, I wouldn't mind if I could get a internship or something but I feel like I get passed over anyways.
I need to leave this room. All I do is sit in it all day
pro tip: if happiness has to be acquired then it isn't happiness.
>jerk off all day
>read outrage bait threads on Cinemaphile
>maybe watch half a movie while on your phone
>never interact with another human being
SURELY HAPPINESS WILL FIND ME ANY TIME NOW
>maybe watch half a movie while on your phone
If you do this get the frick off my board
I went on a trip and it just made me notice everywhere is stupid so who cares.
>Never had a friend
Literally impossible bro, the no job no gf i can buy but everyone has/needs friends.
Existing for 25 years without acciddentally running into someone to befriend should get you a steam accievement or something cause its almost impressive
>30
>have a WFH job
>have friends
>tfw no gf
>still in childhood bedroom
In 5 years you'll be me
I finally made it out when I was 29. I don't remember anything from my 20s because nothing happened.
65
15
my age, 43
A man needs a woman to keep is testosterone in check. Men can turn into literal ape brained monkeys sometimes. A woman needs a man to keep her from running her life into the ground. Woman cannot think ahead. They have no concept of the future.
How can you possibly believe that a major concern of current-day men is having TOO much testosterone? Lol.
having a 9 to 5 job is the worst thing in this world. zero time for anything. after work completely exhausted so the day is basically over. tired all day without the chance to take a nap. i hate everything about it, frick the money.
i only do it because people expect me to do it, i have noone to do it for except nagging family. i was happy with my neet bux.
It's not that bad, I got home from work yesterday at 4. Made dinner, played with my dog, exercised, played vidya for a couple hours, and spent a couple of hours working on music.
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Oldgay here. For me it started being a problem around 36/37. That was the age that people started looking at me differently because I hadn't picked some cow and started breeding yet.
You should at least be married by 30, after that it's just sad
Where did this meme come from that all men are meant to marry and reproduce? Not even Jesus said that.
>11 But he said unto them, All men cannot receive this saying, save they to whom it is given.12 For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother's womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.
Matthew 19: 11-12
I'm 29 not bad looking but I have fricked up every sexual encounter I've ever came close to. My friends and family joke about it but most think I'm gay or have a mental problem.
Late 20s to 30s depending on the person
22
35 unironically
Unironic answer: mid 30s
18. There are only a few reasons why a man wouldn't be starting a family as soon as he is eligible to do so. These are homosexuality, indecisiveness, or laziness.
whatever age you are when you start posting cat pictures online in lieu of having a personality
Unironically, it's 28-29. By natural law you should already have a kid and be married by that age.
late 30s if you're a westoid
Time has passed by and i still think these threads are made by the fbi or whatever as a way to prevent school shootings
60
im turning 30 tomorrow and see this as a warning
Happy birthday and thanks for the priest-mage sad face pic
thanks, i might be a loser 30 year old who didnt even kiss a woman but at least i have my platic figures
I'm turning 37 in two months. Yesterday I spent hours thinking about going out in the park and hanging myself from the tree with my tie. I woke up today and started thinking about it first thing.
why do some people get really upset if you've dropped out from the crazy train, is it because they're tired and want purpose in life?
like, i'm not even talking about this place, people in general seem to seethe about my lack of worries.
I had my first kid at 28. I'm 45 now. I also have a 13 year old.
I've been here since 2006.
You're here forever.
damn, this homie got pregnant yo
Yes, out of my penis. It's a god damned miracle.
I sit in my old rotting and leaking house planning every last detail how I'm going to kidnap a newborn baby girl and raise her to be my personal slave.
Guys this is tv not LULZ
whats the difference
There’s less women here
WW3 needs to break out, maybe some of you won't make it but it'll certainly make broken men out of you.
Zoomers need conflict badly.
I am 29 years old and I never ven kissed a girl
I'm 72 and have never even been a girl
you are memeing, while I'm 100% sincere
>yes, anon, listen to the cheating hypocrite
25
Also you should have completed your master's by that time and have a large apartment without too much loan left.
47 i'd say
>girlfriend fell asleep on the couch
>not going to wake her up so i get the whole bed to myself
feels good
205, you're gonna want minions when you're a vampire
big wake up call for all of you.
I'm running late because I abused nyquil again last night.
Got molested by my dad as a kid which made me a timid coward and afraid of sex, then was embarrassed a lot by girls in school because they saw what a coward I was so now I'm terrified of them. It was so bad other guys would make fun of me for how scared I was of them. My anxiety meds make it almost impossible to get hard. I'd off myself but it would ruin my mom's life
Anon I hope you find a way through it all. When fear and the past threaten to engulf us, we have to simply fall into the abyss of uncertainty. I've been without meds for years. For me they were a crutch that eventually gave out. I found my own way in my own particular plights. Don't give up. You can do it.
>school
Bro don't even worry about it. It really wasn't your fault. Hell if anyone gives you shit about it now just plain tell the truth, people are more understanding than you think. And if not? Frick em, let them get raped see how they like it.
30. I will not discuss this, I will not ague. This is fact, and anyone disagreeing is cope. Frick, I could even say 25 if you want to get younger, because if you don't have things going by then, oh buddy.
It's probably 30. I'm 32, have a career, house, expendable income etc. Dating in this age bracket is a fricking minefield of single moms, Disney adults, and fatties.
Yup, if you weren't dating and fricking during your 20's, god damn.
I wasn't.
I’m 32, used to be a normie, had relationships, but then just fell off the edge of the world into a hole of misery. Now I’m rebuilding my life and dating. Honestly it’s not been that bad since there’s a lot of 24-28 year old professional women. If I were slightly less pathetic and bad at sex I think I could do well.
Hey fren I just want you to know life is going to kick you in the balls, kick sand in your face and you're going to be in misery again real soon. Good luck!
That was rude 🙁
Sorry fren. Life is suffering. Get used to it.
>life is going to kick you in the balls again
I get kicked in the balls everyday. Still gonna try to get laid though.
>Dating in this age bracket
Not natural. Every period in human history before the moronation of postmodernism the wife is 10-20 years younger than her husband. Why would you want a disgusting, washed-out roastie? You should be dating zoomettes.
Nah, tried it with a 24 year old. Only thing we had in common was we liked to frick. The fresh out of college thing is endearing to a point but then I start acting like a second dad and explaining how the actual world works. Not my thing. I know you're all going to roll your eyes at this but I want to have more in common with a life partner.
Less rolling my eyes more doing the Jackie Chan meme face. What you described is the perfect relationship.
Ideally you’ve met your wife by your early 20s and then you have kids between 25-30.
The point he is making here is that hes saying men have base desires that if left unchecked, could lead to their self destruction. He is projecting this onto Rust and its supposed to be a point of hypocrisy for the character and let us know something about him.
Hart does have a family, but he still cheats on his wife with a much younger woman and is a borderline alcoholic. Hes also violent and basically behaves like a dumb brute just fricking and fighting everything on impulse. Having a family doesnt help that at all and it ends up costing him that after his wife leaves him.
Rust on the other hand is basically this hermit living out a Spartan lifestyle where he has this solid philosophy he focuses on and doesnt just give into his base desires. Hes also capable of violence, but holds great control over it while Marty just starts swinging the moment he gets upset.
That's how I read it too
Rust was not a character to aspire to. He was le enlightened pessimist, he was an optimist who was coping with his own misery. All the negative shit he said was unironically bullshit, because he didn’t actually believe it.
I agree with your analysis on Woody though
Yeah, Rust is a weird freak and not a role model, but that scene was Marty projecting his own failures onto Rust and despite his own flaws, he didnt have those issues. At the end of the show, both seem to somewhat resolve their issues. Rust does for sure with healing his bleak pessimism and moving on from the death of his daughter and the dark spiral he went down after that.
In mid-2018, 29-year-old Grant Amato was unemployed, living rent free in his parents' guest house in the rural village of Chuluota, Florida. He had not once lived on his own and had recently been kicked out of UCF's anesthesiology school for lack of attendance and also fired from a job as a nurse for stealing medication. It was around this time that Grant began to experiment with a relatively new realm of online cam sites.
It's even more pathetic to repost this exact same thread for months on end for your subreddit or discord.
If it makes anyone feels better, I got married at age 33 and just had my first kid at 34. Mom is 36 and the baby is healthy and beautiful. I was completely broke and jobless all the way up to March 2021. You can still make it
Not for me, a lot of ships have sailed out into that horizon
You'll be divorced in the future once you encounter the first serious post-wedding life problem lmao, most likely a job loss.
22.
I'll say 38. Where I live anyway.
I was married and divorced in my early 30s. I seem to get a pass cuz I gave it a try and don't drool on teenagers.
What sorts of interactions do you have such that you're "given a pass?", which I take to mean that you have basic respect as a man because you've had sex/a serious relationship and are divorced which is extremely common. I assume this refers to friends or others that you can have honest conversations with.
The idea is interesting to me because the people I do interact with are extremely polite around this point and never bring it up. If people have privately concluded that I'm a virgin, it hasn't negatively impacted my career or relationships with (older) family members.
40
Says the fricking guy who lost his entire family, lives alone and all he does is jerk off and drink.
A family is the only thing worth working for otherwise you are just a bing bing wahoo balding slave
Inb4 coping slaves seethe. I'll take a morning blowjob from the mother of my children any day over your life. It's better than just being a lonely slave with nothing good in life. Feels good man
That just sounds like you're the one coping lol
Yeah it's like he's crying while typing that. Too many sitcoms romanticize the life of being single, drinking and partying, so it's hard to not fall for it.
What? Incel schizophrenia?
We are all slaves in this world unfortunately. The difference is some slaves have something to go home to, making it somewhat bearable. The rest just rot and cope like posters above
>What? Incel schizophrenia?
>traditionalist is now throwing the word incel
You reek of desperation.
Why are you coping so hard and attacking me? I'm merely saying having a family is the end goal in life
If you enjoy bing bing wahooo balding incel life... Okay? But it's a very depressing path
As I said
Incels will seethe at the truth
>We are all slaves in this world unfortunately.
ok homie, I've moved on from that cynical existential bullshit at this point in life. You should too.
slave mentality
probably vaxxed to not cause any waves at the office
I'm not the one who jumped in here and tried to defend his life choices from a question that was never even asked lol
>We are all slaves in this world unfortunately
This is gonna sound like armchair psychology bullshit, but I really think I can help you. If you hate your job, start taking some long walks and think about something you truly want to do, something that sparks your passion, then come up with a plan and start working to it.
I don't want to offend you but it seems like you're looking for meaning in the wrong places, we're all born with some desire to achieve something and I'm sure you have some dreams inside you that you forgot about because of adult responsibilities.
I'm using most of my free time trying to make a video game now (and procrastinating on Cinemaphile), some people want to write a book, or make a movie, whatever, but don't let yourself become an empty shell who only lives to work and then rest from work until you die.
I truly feel that I lack any "passion" in the context you are referring to. There's never a shortage of "just visualize your passion in life and work towards pursuing it" advice in the world. It obviously comes from those who have found theirs. I don't have anything like that. I enjoy things, but I don't know of anything I would like to pour my life into. If I was rich, I would just hang out and travel and raise a family. I would wake up when I wanted, eat a nice breakfast with coffee, work out a bit, go for a walk, and chill. I wouldn't be working on writing a novel or building furniture or anything like that. I wouldn't be creating anything. I'd just focus on my little enclave and enjoying life. I wish I had a burning passion to do something, but I just don't.
>working to support yourself makes you a slave
>but if you're working to provide for your family you're not a slave
???
>I'll take a morning blowjob from the mother of my children any day over your life
How fat is she anon?
I know a lot of people say this guy is horrible but he keeps being pushed to the limit.
Your wife fricking your only friend, your daughter being an angry teenager that hates you and having fricking gangbangs, come on now.
30 for a man
16 for a female
>past a certain point, a family can be a bad thing for a man
what point is that?
but i have family! my ma and dad!
going to be 28 and got my first kiss a few months ago, got dumped because too socially moronic
>got dumped because too socially moronic
What happened?
I was always super nervous around her trying to be funny and interesting and it was just cringe.. when we held hands and kissed I was literally vibrating from nerves and was just pathetic. Next date I brought her flowers but she already made up her mind that our personalities were 'too different' and wanted to be friends instead, never heard from again
>wanted to be friends instead, never heard from again
Women are frustratingly indirect. Wish just once one would say what she means. Just say "I don't want to see you ever again."
I like how you just think you deserve to be dumped and just accept it. Don't do that anon, it's not good for you and women don't like low self esteem either.
If it makes you feel any better, you played it right and hid your autism for long enough to get a kiss. Not a lot of people itt can say the same.
>25
>dropped out of uni cause moron
>dead end wagie job
>khhv
>At least I can afford to be financially independent enough to try and cut my parents off so I don't have to face their judgement and disappointment every time we speak
I'm coming up on 32 and it is apparent
A zoomette asked me why I was not married the other day and I just said well I was an alcoholic in my 20s so...
She cancelled our second date.
I think a lot of people who are unhappily married like to demonize those who simply realized that marriage and kids are not for them and prefer to live for themselves, instead of for somebody else.
Deep down they envy those people and they realize their lives would've been much better if they didn't marry and have kids, of course they will never admit it because that will shatter the illusion that their lives somehow have deeper meaning simply because they chose to procreate. I've always found it funny how people with families somehow feel superior. Having kids should be a personal choice, nothing more.
Of course there are people who are indeed happily married and have kids, they are the really lucky ones. Just looking at the statistics is enough to discourage me from ever giving it a try.
I have a few close friends who are already divorced in their late 30's after 6-7 years and their lives are a complete mess because of it.
at what point should I start caing? I'm 22 and I have not felt a desire to get a gf since highschool
You don't have to care if you don't want to, never feel pressured to do something just because everyone else is doing it.
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