most of the time, no, sometimes it can be, if you are compatible with the other person youre having sex with, but thats rare in my experience. most of the time its people trying to fill a hole (metaphorically and literally i guess) that they dont know how to fill otherwise, they want to feel loved, validated, wanted, and they want to impress their friends with how good they are at seduction, but most of the time the actual sex itself is secondary. they just desperately dont want to be alone and dont know how to admit truly love and accept themselves with constant validation from others.
Sex is an integral part of any romantic relationship and do not fricking cope otherwise. Sexual chemistry is incredibly important for long term relationships.
Sex not mattering is the biggest meme and unironically probably damages huge numbers of people. Sex is literally what distinguishes a relationship from familial/friend to romantic. Not to mention that you require it to have kids.
Real life with a long term partner is fricking boring, and them's the breaks. You can care about them a lot, but you will be spending shitloads of time around them and 90% of that time will be lounging about in underwear relaxing/reading/watching tv. This means the sex WILL tend to die down eventually, but ideally not for years, and even then it shouldn't be getting to a point where you don't have sex at all. If you are not having good sex with them to begin with, then its going to get even worse, until one of you breaks. You can only cope for so long that the emotional connection is worth more than a good sex life.
My parents have been married for over 30 years and are in their late 60s and still frick pretty regularly. My sister has been in a relationship for 15 years and they still frick like rabbits. My friend has been in a relationship for 7 years and they still frick all the time. Literally everyone I know in a successful long term relationship has regular sex with their partner.
Sex builds helps build romantic feelings, helps maintain a relationship, helps develop a bond and connection, helps you to have a release from all the little niggling personality clashes two people inevitably have.
Please do NOT fall for the meme that sex doesn't matter in a relationship, or that bad or unfulfilling sex is healthy in a long term relationship. There is a reason so many people divorce and unironically sex is a huge factor.
>Sex is an integral part of any romantic relationship and do not fricking cope otherwise. Sexual chemistry is incredibly important for long term relationships.
he never said otherwise moron, he said that people use casual noncommittal sex as a way to cope with emptiness
>Sex not mattering is the biggest meme and unironically probably damages huge numbers of people. Sex is literally what distinguishes a relationship from familial/friend to romantic. Not to mention that you require it to have kids.
I’m not saying you’re completely wrong but you ain’t completely right. I’ve been married to the same woman since 2009 and we were together two years before that.
Sex is as important as BOTH of you make it. Sex doesn't matter long term. If it did, there would be no successful older couples.
My ex wife was the best piece of ass I ever had. Sex was unbelievable. Took it in the ass too.
Also a completely toxic person who refused to work on the relationship in therapy and was far more interested in just blaming me for all the problems in the marriage. I was in therapy by myself because I knew both of us were fricked up and hoped she would come. She wouldn’t. She would start fights and stand in front of the door holding my car keys and running her mouth. She would goad me into putting my hands on her then play the victim. This was a pattern she tried constantly and I eventually walked out.
My wife now is very sexually attentive but she isn’t as “good”. That dosent mean she’s bad and I would trade her for anything. We’ve been to hell and back and I feel things for her I’ve never felt for anyone.
Tl;dr sex matters only as far as you make it matter
Empty sex like one night stands and (I assume) hookers is like fast food. Sex with someone you care about and who cares about you is amazing. It's more about the intimacy and connection than feeling nice
I've had some amazing experiences with hookers. As for one night stands I've had one that turned into a long term relationship but every other one I've had has been very disappointing and in most cases was way more trouble than it was worth, especially when it came to the morning after.
I think sex is vastly overrated. The best part is the initial insertion feeling the warmth surrounding your dick. I'd take a handjob while getting my nipple sucked or a good blow job over it any day of the week.
This is going to sound incredibly hokey, but it’s the truth: understand that you are addicted and that you do not jerk off because you are horny, but you are horny because you jerk off. It’s really no different than a heroin addiction in that sense. It’s just a much more subtle road to addiction psychologically. Understand that addictions only get worse over time — “moderation” will not help you and you will never wake up suddenly cured. Understand that going cold turkey is your only option (there are no health risks, unlike with some drugs).
I’m not part of any online communities, I do not use reddit, and I’m not religious or a puritan. That guy says he has a problem and I’m trying to give him the help he asked for.
Honestly I started running before bed. Get a good sweat going, burn through those immediate glycogen stores in your muscles and hit the bed hard and comfy.
You're supposed to have sex before bed, it lets you fall asleep within minutes. Sexlets will never understand the power of sex before sleep
hold on Jamie, i think these 2 are both valid answers, i mean when you think about it, you know back in those fricking caveman days, you were either chasing the kill or doing your duty to god by impregnating those kitchen serving females.
I find it a lot harder to resist in the morning. I'm so horny I wake up grinding my bed. Then usually I decide to take a quick pick at some hottie online and from there on my day is ruined I can't stop thinking about women. So now I'm trying to go through morning without looking at any woman at all and it seems to be working. I still think about them all the time but it's less than before
I didnt care much for her when I watched the occasional episode. I always thought Bernadette was hotter.
But for a while I was obsessed with the thought of Penny cheating with a young lab intern (or something) behind Leonard's back, first reluctantly, then she gets addicted despite the younger guy treating her like shit.
Started writing 2 different smutty fanfics about that and read way too much smut set in that universe.
she's not cheating on me, so no.
I find the idea of women cheating with me on someone hot (though self inserting myself as an attractive young man requires a lot of suspension of disbelieve)
I'm 34 years old and never even kissed a girl. I never had any kind of sexual experiences at all.
recently I calculated that people kiss at least 3 times per day minimum from the age of 12 which means so far I missed out on 25000+ kisses, and missed out on 7000+ times having sex.
From my point of view sex isnt something real and woman are some sort of a meme.
usually I spend the day doing nothing because I also never had a job and dont have completed any kind of education and I wouldnt fit into society anyway so there is nothing really here for me to do.
You feel the need to attack people who feel bad enough already that they want to die. That's pretty pathetic.
Ending up like you did is the final stage of patheticness holy shit. >whaah whaahh Im so helpless and can’t do anything to better my situation whaaaah whaahhhhb
The boomers were right. You millennials are worthless
10 months ago
Anonymous
I won't disagree with you. I can at least take solace knowing that it's not my fault though.
10 months ago
Anonymous
It’s your life so take some responsibility. Nobody will come along and pull you out of that hole you’ve made for yourself, you have to climb out on your own.
But it’s easier to just blame everything and everyone else and take no responsibility and not try to better yourself in any way so keep doing that I’m sure it will help
10 months ago
Anonymous
Thanks, Dr. Peterson.
10 months ago
Anonymous
I'm not blaming anyone. I was born with a mental defect. There's not really much I can do. I'd be like telling an actual, literal 60 IQ moron that if he just works hard enough he can be a top class surgeon one day.
10 months ago
Anonymous
>It's a smug homosexual zoomer without clue judges other people episode.
10 months ago
Anonymous
simple truth is simple truth, even when coming from a smug butthole.
10 months ago
Anonymous
You don't even know why those particular anons feel the way the way they so. You're just assuming its something like tfw no gf type shit when you really don't have ant idea what's happened to anyone or what's going on in their lives.
10 months ago
Anonymous
And I honestly don’t give a shit. I just like to preach and feel superior than others because I’m a narcissist. And I am better than them.
10 months ago
Anonymous
You're just a zoomer with no life experience. Pride cometh before the fall, kiddo.
10 months ago
Anonymous
>already have a bachelors degree and I earn 30$ an hour at my SUMMER JOB
Nah bro I haven’t done anything with my life ever
10 months ago
Anonymous
Exactly, no life experience.
10 months ago
Anonymous
It doesn't really matter why they feel bad about their situation. It is not getting better unless they want to make it better and take action.
That can mean asking for professional or other help, that can mean changing their situation or finding a way to accept it.
But waiting for it to get better by accident is not a good strategy.
My family used to regularly ask me when will I bring a gf over, constantly implying as if I must have a gf that I'm just too shy to bring her over. Then after some time they just started asking why don't I call a friend over at least, questions of why am I not outside on a Saturday, why am I not going on vacation with friends during summer etc.
oof brother. we used to have a these big family dinners several times a year at my grandparents house, and my sister and cousins would bring their boyfriends/girlfriends and later partners. grandparents kept saying to me that its okay if I brought someone to, there was plenty of space. those questions eventually stopped too.
used to actually hate going to them, because inevitably the conversation would go round the table and everyone would tell whats was new in their life, and i just had nothing to contribute. i could feel the awkwardness as the entire family looked at me with confusion or pity.
>so you going on any vacations with someone this summer? >what are you doing this weekend? >you going to a new years party? >you seeing anyone? come introduce them to us! >hows it going at your job?
those questions hurt, but I think the day I realized my family just stopped asking hurt more.
Tell her I haven't had sex in two and or 3 and a half years I don't remember
Then I'd tell her that her eyes are spaced weirdly and she's a huge c**t and then I'd force myself on her.
Historically speaking most men of pretty much all cultures were incels and the idea that they weren't is a boomerism leftover from a time when they were essentially a big caste of hedonist oligarchs (relatively speaking, if you considered their place in the global hierarchy). Like 80% of dudes did not get to breed, and genetic records show this. We're just fooled by overly promiscuous boomers.
How do I stop being ashamed of myself to actually be able to show interest in women?
It's almost as if I have to hide the fact that I'm a sexual being for whatever reason, as if my penis should be used for pissing and nothing else. I'm incapable of flirting/showing sexual interest because it feels "out of character" like I'm not being myself. And it's not like I think girls don't enjoy being flirted with, I see other guys flirting with girls and girls even enjoying it.
But it just that it feels absolutely wrong and turbocringe to myself whenever I try it, nothing about it feels natural or right whatsoever. In fact it feels pretty much like the pic related meme. As if you can only be a lecherous pervert or an asexual monk, no in-between.
But again, it feels like I'm doing some pretend larp show, practicing will only make me good at larping. I need start from some different angle to not feel like I'm putting on some different larp character
Not that anon but prepared to be made to feel ashamed by women. In my experience, women generally basically want you to have a nice day if you don't know how to flirt.
You might be able to rise above and overcome it, and I'm not trying to dissuade you.
If somebody had told me this a year ago I might have progressed differently.
Just remember: women don't care about your vulnerability, they don't care about your lack of experience, and they don't care about your feelings. They only pretend to when they need to.
I'm sure there are women out there who aren't like that, but I haven't really met any who aren't just older
i had the exquisite joy of having an office within earshot of another room where 5 women had their desks. the shit they would talk about and the absolutely cold and callous way they would talk about men really shocked me. just absolute brutality.
I was the same until women showed overt interest in me. That came by moving somewhere new, being the new guy, having a different accent. Suddenly women were interested, so I started presenting myself better as well. These two things made it go away for a while. You have to improve yourself enough so that some women will do the hard work for you and make it clear they like you
That might not be your brain. That might be how people actually feel about you.
I’m an ugly autist who doesn’t talk much, and even among other dudes who are talking casually about sex (and who I regularly chat and get along well with) the one time I tried to join in they suddenly get uncomfortable and change the subject.
If it’s that bad with other guys, it’s astronomically worse with women. The idea of you being a sexual being is instinctively horrifying to them.
Non-virgins of Cinemaphile, do women even enjoy the act of sex? From what I've read, it seems like they only really enjoy the feeling of validation they get from sex.
sexual satisfaction takes place mostly in the mind, if you dont keep it fresh it gets boring.
So yes validation is a vital part of it, if you dont satisfy her in these aspects your relationship is gonna go down the drain.
Take gratitude that you`re not someone like hunter Avallone who`s wife got exposed wanting to cheat on him by arranging a gangbang with pissplay with 5 black guys
I dont know why but this made me think of an old Rush Limbaugh bit where a feminist was complaining about the price of birth control, and he was like "She is having so much sex she can't afford BC!". And the feminists were fricking pissed at him and tried to cancel all his sponsors.
I can't watch a show with this b***h without immediately jerking off or fricking my gf. I can't even watch a show with her voice in it without an immediate erection.
bros, it's over. stop trying and changing your entire lives and personalities just so you could attract a 4. when a woman likes you she will ride buses for 6 hours straight just to see you and suck your wiener. we will never know this feeling. it's over
Flaccid pussy
Test
Go home and watch TV alone. Women are the devil.
I don't think it's possible to still be alive after that long.
Tell her she'll find someone eventually, she's such a sweetheart.
Don't do this. She'll ruin your life, trust me.
Damn Penny actually has great body shape. I thought she was the broad shouldered, fridge-looking kinda girl
the ~~*bulldyke*~~ they hired to be sheldon's gf actually complained about all of the penny breasts poking out scenes so they covered her up
REALLY? SOURCE?
Why do women think they look good with short hair? They all go through this phase and they all look like shitty dykes
>I luv penis
Yeah you do if you like short haired dykes. Long hair on a woman is as far from penis as possible
tell her I can relate since I'm married lol
>since I'm married
so it's been SIX YEARS
she gave me a handy for Valentine's Day
*raises hand*
Having sex with w*men is cringe, I'd lose my appetite if she told me about her sex life.
you think thats bad!
Is sex really that good? 33 year old virgin himbo here
nah
at first, then it devolves into a superset of problems you never even knew existed
and then you start to miss your past NEET life with sweet nostalgia
>then you start to miss your past NEET life with sweet nostalgia
This is me right now but I can't go back because I know what I am missing.
most of the time, no, sometimes it can be, if you are compatible with the other person youre having sex with, but thats rare in my experience. most of the time its people trying to fill a hole (metaphorically and literally i guess) that they dont know how to fill otherwise, they want to feel loved, validated, wanted, and they want to impress their friends with how good they are at seduction, but most of the time the actual sex itself is secondary. they just desperately dont want to be alone and dont know how to admit truly love and accept themselves with constant validation from others.
sh-shut up!
Get good.
homo
Skill issue
Lol. Lmao.
Sex is an integral part of any romantic relationship and do not fricking cope otherwise. Sexual chemistry is incredibly important for long term relationships.
Sex not mattering is the biggest meme and unironically probably damages huge numbers of people. Sex is literally what distinguishes a relationship from familial/friend to romantic. Not to mention that you require it to have kids.
Real life with a long term partner is fricking boring, and them's the breaks. You can care about them a lot, but you will be spending shitloads of time around them and 90% of that time will be lounging about in underwear relaxing/reading/watching tv. This means the sex WILL tend to die down eventually, but ideally not for years, and even then it shouldn't be getting to a point where you don't have sex at all. If you are not having good sex with them to begin with, then its going to get even worse, until one of you breaks. You can only cope for so long that the emotional connection is worth more than a good sex life.
My parents have been married for over 30 years and are in their late 60s and still frick pretty regularly. My sister has been in a relationship for 15 years and they still frick like rabbits. My friend has been in a relationship for 7 years and they still frick all the time. Literally everyone I know in a successful long term relationship has regular sex with their partner.
Sex builds helps build romantic feelings, helps maintain a relationship, helps develop a bond and connection, helps you to have a release from all the little niggling personality clashes two people inevitably have.
Please do NOT fall for the meme that sex doesn't matter in a relationship, or that bad or unfulfilling sex is healthy in a long term relationship. There is a reason so many people divorce and unironically sex is a huge factor.
Why are your parents and sister discussing their sex life with you?
I am fricking all of them
Some families love each other and are close?
They aren't prudes? They're mature enough to discuss such topics without affecting dynamics?
Guess your family is immature
That's a lot of cope just to say they're degenerates
It's nothing to do with immaturity
>Sex is an integral part of any romantic relationship and do not fricking cope otherwise. Sexual chemistry is incredibly important for long term relationships.
he never said otherwise moron, he said that people use casual noncommittal sex as a way to cope with emptiness
I'm going to side with this guy even though I've never had sex
>Sex not mattering is the biggest meme and unironically probably damages huge numbers of people. Sex is literally what distinguishes a relationship from familial/friend to romantic. Not to mention that you require it to have kids.
I’m not saying you’re completely wrong but you ain’t completely right. I’ve been married to the same woman since 2009 and we were together two years before that.
Sex is as important as BOTH of you make it. Sex doesn't matter long term. If it did, there would be no successful older couples.
My ex wife was the best piece of ass I ever had. Sex was unbelievable. Took it in the ass too.
Also a completely toxic person who refused to work on the relationship in therapy and was far more interested in just blaming me for all the problems in the marriage. I was in therapy by myself because I knew both of us were fricked up and hoped she would come. She wouldn’t. She would start fights and stand in front of the door holding my car keys and running her mouth. She would goad me into putting my hands on her then play the victim. This was a pattern she tried constantly and I eventually walked out.
My wife now is very sexually attentive but she isn’t as “good”. That dosent mean she’s bad and I would trade her for anything. We’ve been to hell and back and I feel things for her I’ve never felt for anyone.
Tl;dr sex matters only as far as you make it matter
When you say she isn't as good do you mean her ability in bed or how attractive you find her?
They hated him because he spoke the truth. Any other answer is just cope.
what is anon yapping about?
Gay stuff about feelings and shit
That gay anon never met a women who just wants to frick
wow porn-broken, cum brained zoomers really hated this post
>b-b-but eating ass is normal and healthy !!!
>himbo
It's great if it's with a girl you love and she loves you.
>33 year old virgin himbo
Barbie viral marketing is working I see
Empty sex like one night stands and (I assume) hookers is like fast food. Sex with someone you care about and who cares about you is amazing. It's more about the intimacy and connection than feeling nice
I've had some amazing experiences with hookers. As for one night stands I've had one that turned into a long term relationship but every other one I've had has been very disappointing and in most cases was way more trouble than it was worth, especially when it came to the morning after.
>Sex with someone you care about and who cares about you is amazing. It's more about the intimacy and connection than feeling nice
lmao homosexual
>t. Hispanic Fuentes
I think sex is vastly overrated. The best part is the initial insertion feeling the warmth surrounding your dick. I'd take a handjob while getting my nipple sucked or a good blow job over it any day of the week.
Do you get that warm insertion feeling while wearing a condom?
It's alright. Like the joy you feel eating a great meal and not thinking about the massive shit you'll take later.
Better than not having it at all. So good is relative
>himbo
>virgin
no
If you jerk off regularly and lust after women then you already know the answer cobber.
Only done with someone you love
>SIX MONTHS
Which episode of the Twilight Zone is this?
Say something autistic and yell bazinga then I go sit in MY spot on the couch
PLEASE GET OUT OF MY APARTMENT THATS MY PURSE I DONT KNOW YOU
The cope in this thread is crazy.
The fact no one got the reference is crazier.
I haven't had sex in over 30 years
I haven’t nutted in a week.
Getting kind of horny.
how do i legit stop jerking off? i cannot go to sleep if im horny, if i dont jerk off,i cannot sleep to recover, my dick is holding me hostage.
You just got to stop cold jerky (heh)
Edit: wow 1800 upvotes!
Edit 2: thanks for the gold kind stranger!!
This is going to sound incredibly hokey, but it’s the truth: understand that you are addicted and that you do not jerk off because you are horny, but you are horny because you jerk off. It’s really no different than a heroin addiction in that sense. It’s just a much more subtle road to addiction psychologically. Understand that addictions only get worse over time — “moderation” will not help you and you will never wake up suddenly cured. Understand that going cold turkey is your only option (there are no health risks, unlike with some drugs).
>Le reddit nofap
Kys christcuck, just like your False God. You have no power here.
I’m not part of any online communities, I do not use reddit, and I’m not religious or a puritan. That guy says he has a problem and I’m trying to give him the help he asked for.
Honestly I started running before bed. Get a good sweat going, burn through those immediate glycogen stores in your muscles and hit the bed hard and comfy.
You're supposed to have sex before bed, it lets you fall asleep within minutes. Sexlets will never understand the power of sex before sleep
hold on Jamie, i think these 2 are both valid answers, i mean when you think about it, you know back in those fricking caveman days, you were either chasing the kill or doing your duty to god by impregnating those kitchen serving females.
ezpz method
I find it a lot harder to resist in the morning. I'm so horny I wake up grinding my bed. Then usually I decide to take a quick pick at some hottie online and from there on my day is ruined I can't stop thinking about women. So now I'm trying to go through morning without looking at any woman at all and it seems to be working. I still think about them all the time but it's less than before
She deserves a medal for that
that's not what ross is referring to
ross is saying he should get a medal for rejecting rachel's advances
I reply:
>6 months? I haven't had sex in 35 years and I'm fine.
Then I go back to my apartment and close the door.
Produced by larry david
SHELDOR GREEN LANTERN MY PUSSY
>How horrible, let me help you with that.
Six sexless months for a woman is like 6 years for a man.
prostitute
Pump her full of my cum. Goddamn, she was so fricking hot in these earlier seasons. She's still attractive but she was smoking hot back then.
I didnt care much for her when I watched the occasional episode. I always thought Bernadette was hotter.
But for a while I was obsessed with the thought of Penny cheating with a young lab intern (or something) behind Leonard's back, first reluctantly, then she gets addicted despite the younger guy treating her like shit.
Started writing 2 different smutty fanfics about that and read way too much smut set in that universe.
Cuck
she's not cheating on me, so no.
I find the idea of women cheating with me on someone hot (though self inserting myself as an attractive young man requires a lot of suspension of disbelieve)
tell her to lose weight
Give her the number for the BBC ranch
SEXOOOOO
6 months without sex can you imagine h-haha
I'm 34 years old and never even kissed a girl. I never had any kind of sexual experiences at all.
recently I calculated that people kiss at least 3 times per day minimum from the age of 12 which means so far I missed out on 25000+ kisses, and missed out on 7000+ times having sex.
From my point of view sex isnt something real and woman are some sort of a meme.
usually I spend the day doing nothing because I also never had a job and dont have completed any kind of education and I wouldnt fit into society anyway so there is nothing really here for me to do.
You're not alone anon.
You were probably robbed by society because it's designed to do exactly that to any individual who is too unique or soulful
Don't worry. Soon we will all be in Valhalla, brother.
Not soon enough
>t. losers
My mommy thinks I'm cool
Mine is dead
🙁
Ending up like you did is the final stage of patheticness holy shit.
>whaah whaahh Im so helpless and can’t do anything to better my situation whaaaah whaahhhhb
There's no way to fix ugliness and Assburgers, Anon.
The boomers were right. You millennials are worthless
I won't disagree with you. I can at least take solace knowing that it's not my fault though.
It’s your life so take some responsibility. Nobody will come along and pull you out of that hole you’ve made for yourself, you have to climb out on your own.
But it’s easier to just blame everything and everyone else and take no responsibility and not try to better yourself in any way so keep doing that I’m sure it will help
Thanks, Dr. Peterson.
I'm not blaming anyone. I was born with a mental defect. There's not really much I can do. I'd be like telling an actual, literal 60 IQ moron that if he just works hard enough he can be a top class surgeon one day.
>It's a smug homosexual zoomer without clue judges other people episode.
simple truth is simple truth, even when coming from a smug butthole.
You don't even know why those particular anons feel the way the way they so. You're just assuming its something like tfw no gf type shit when you really don't have ant idea what's happened to anyone or what's going on in their lives.
And I honestly don’t give a shit. I just like to preach and feel superior than others because I’m a narcissist. And I am better than them.
You're just a zoomer with no life experience. Pride cometh before the fall, kiddo.
>already have a bachelors degree and I earn 30$ an hour at my SUMMER JOB
Nah bro I haven’t done anything with my life ever
Exactly, no life experience.
It doesn't really matter why they feel bad about their situation. It is not getting better unless they want to make it better and take action.
That can mean asking for professional or other help, that can mean changing their situation or finding a way to accept it.
But waiting for it to get better by accident is not a good strategy.
at least an acceptable use of the term 'mommy".
my mom is probably wondering what the frick is wrong with me, if she hasn't already just written me off completely.
My family used to regularly ask me when will I bring a gf over, constantly implying as if I must have a gf that I'm just too shy to bring her over. Then after some time they just started asking why don't I call a friend over at least, questions of why am I not outside on a Saturday, why am I not going on vacation with friends during summer etc.
They don't ask any questions anymore.
Ouch!
oof brother. we used to have a these big family dinners several times a year at my grandparents house, and my sister and cousins would bring their boyfriends/girlfriends and later partners. grandparents kept saying to me that its okay if I brought someone to, there was plenty of space. those questions eventually stopped too.
used to actually hate going to them, because inevitably the conversation would go round the table and everyone would tell whats was new in their life, and i just had nothing to contribute. i could feel the awkwardness as the entire family looked at me with confusion or pity.
>so you going on any vacations with someone this summer?
>what are you doing this weekend?
>you going to a new years party?
>you seeing anyone? come introduce them to us!
>hows it going at your job?
those questions hurt, but I think the day I realized my family just stopped asking hurt more.
You feel the need to attack people who feel bad enough already that they want to die. That's pretty pathetic.
get a tan, grow a beard and just start rayping. if they think you're a coloured there's literally no consequence
Tell her I haven't had sex in two and or 3 and a half years I don't remember
Then I'd tell her that her eyes are spaced weirdly and she's a huge c**t and then I'd force myself on her.
Historically speaking most men of pretty much all cultures were incels and the idea that they weren't is a boomerism leftover from a time when they were essentially a big caste of hedonist oligarchs (relatively speaking, if you considered their place in the global hierarchy). Like 80% of dudes did not get to breed, and genetic records show this. We're just fooled by overly promiscuous boomers.
what is the number if you exclude child mortality?
Even then it is probably too high. Just imagine how many bastards that would mean
Eh, back then people died young all the time (wars etc). Probably more rare than nowadays for a guy who lived past the age of 30 to remain an incel.
Rape her
Tell her that's nothing and she should see what it's like going your whole life without sex
I would immediately serenade her with an enchanting rendition of this:
Laugh at her and then my gf kicks her ass since she's jealous and feisty
Did she give a reason why? No way someone like this doesn't have sex unless she doesn't want to
How do I stop being ashamed of myself to actually be able to show interest in women?
It's almost as if I have to hide the fact that I'm a sexual being for whatever reason, as if my penis should be used for pissing and nothing else. I'm incapable of flirting/showing sexual interest because it feels "out of character" like I'm not being myself. And it's not like I think girls don't enjoy being flirted with, I see other guys flirting with girls and girls even enjoying it.
But it just that it feels absolutely wrong and turbocringe to myself whenever I try it, nothing about it feels natural or right whatsoever. In fact it feels pretty much like the pic related meme. As if you can only be a lecherous pervert or an asexual monk, no in-between.
practice
start small and escalate etc
But again, it feels like I'm doing some pretend larp show, practicing will only make me good at larping. I need start from some different angle to not feel like I'm putting on some different larp character
Not that anon but prepared to be made to feel ashamed by women. In my experience, women generally basically want you to have a nice day if you don't know how to flirt.
You might be able to rise above and overcome it, and I'm not trying to dissuade you.
If somebody had told me this a year ago I might have progressed differently.
Just remember: women don't care about your vulnerability, they don't care about your lack of experience, and they don't care about your feelings. They only pretend to when they need to.
I'm sure there are women out there who aren't like that, but I haven't really met any who aren't just older
i had the exquisite joy of having an office within earshot of another room where 5 women had their desks. the shit they would talk about and the absolutely cold and callous way they would talk about men really shocked me. just absolute brutality.
>as if my penis should be used for pissing and nothing else
maybe its better that way, nothing good ever came from sex or jerking off.
Unironically, have sex with a few escorts, it really is all in your head and will pop like a bubble when it does.
I doubt prostitutes will make me learn how to flirt. Penis in vegana isn't the problem here.
Go for asian women from asia.
I was the same until women showed overt interest in me. That came by moving somewhere new, being the new guy, having a different accent. Suddenly women were interested, so I started presenting myself better as well. These two things made it go away for a while. You have to improve yourself enough so that some women will do the hard work for you and make it clear they like you
That's called desperation
If you can't find a woman then you should move. It's not desperate, it's realistic.
Your whole post was so moronic, there is no point even debating
That might not be your brain. That might be how people actually feel about you.
I’m an ugly autist who doesn’t talk much, and even among other dudes who are talking casually about sex (and who I regularly chat and get along well with) the one time I tried to join in they suddenly get uncomfortable and change the subject.
If it’s that bad with other guys, it’s astronomically worse with women. The idea of you being a sexual being is instinctively horrifying to them.
TREBLINKA
i shrug
not my problem
Tell her 'great, in another 21 years and 6 months, you'll have gone without sex as long as I have'
Call her out for lying. Nobody, and I mean NOBODY, not even the biggest losers go 6 months without sex these days.
Non-virgins of Cinemaphile, do women even enjoy the act of sex? From what I've read, it seems like they only really enjoy the feeling of validation they get from sex.
sexual satisfaction takes place mostly in the mind, if you dont keep it fresh it gets boring.
So yes validation is a vital part of it, if you dont satisfy her in these aspects your relationship is gonna go down the drain.
Take gratitude that you`re not someone like hunter Avallone who`s wife got exposed wanting to cheat on him by arranging a gangbang with pissplay with 5 black guys
Most women are asexual and just put out to get what they want (money and other materialistic shit).
32 yo shutin virgin here
gonna play spongebob and hope i can one day muster up the conviction to off myself
Does the pussy close up a bit if she was having regular sex and then stops for a long while? Like would she be tighter?
i would never speak to her in the first place. i got more important things to do, like play video games
The amount of sex that she canon had on the show, would you say that is average, above average, below average for women?
>wyd?
Know that she's lying but not care why
I dont know why but this made me think of an old Rush Limbaugh bit where a feminist was complaining about the price of birth control, and he was like "She is having so much sex she can't afford BC!". And the feminists were fricking pissed at him and tried to cancel all his sponsors.
breed her
I can't watch a show with this b***h without immediately jerking off or fricking my gf. I can't even watch a show with her voice in it without an immediate erection.
Can her an incel and report her as a terrorist
bros, it's over. stop trying and changing your entire lives and personalities just so you could attract a 4. when a woman likes you she will ride buses for 6 hours straight just to see you and suck your wiener. we will never know this feeling. it's over
It’s not just over. It never even began.