Unironically though, it has to be an isolated lifestyle which then creates pressure and insecurity, right? That or genuine autism (not Cinemaphiles "DUDE I'M SO AUTISTIC" act)
Because how else would you remain a virgin in your twenties and above?
My friend got divorced two months ago. He went on Tinder and found a date and they fricked on the first date. Meanwhile I haven't gotten laid in three years. Sigh.
Dating can be rough. I have social anxiety. I don't bother anyone with it and I plough on through. Last girl I dated, we were in a restaurant, on a first date. We had never seen each other in real life. I got a panic attack. The walls were caving in on me. She said to me: "Do you want to go outside?". I went outside for a smoke and the rest of the evening was smooth.
It was just nice that she recognized it. I don't know how to be in these social situations. Back there I was flying million dollar equipment. Back here I can't even hold a job parking fricking cars!
Stick your dick in a living person? It doesn't fit into my idea of what kind of man I want to be. Masturbation once a week (without porn) is enough to quell my arousal.
if you have the unholy sperg combination of high neuroticism and introversion youre just fricked
even worse if you inherited your neroticism from your parents so you grew up in an unstable household
self doubt, insecurity, bad social skills due to self imposed isolation, and depression are all pussy repellent
I'm sociable enough to have several groups of friends, some of whom I met back in middle school and we're still close. I'm also a 31 year old virgin. Social skills mean nothing these days.
I didn’t say women are the same. I said if you can have a conversation with a woman, eventually you’ll have sex with one of them. Maybe you talk to 20 before you one is drunk or you become more than friends, it’s just a natural progression that will sometimes happen. I ought to cut your fricking tongue out for this disrespect
internet tough guy badass megaforce zero solid state: go!
9 months ago
Anonymous
Hey you stupid frick, I ended off with a joke to tone down the seriousness of what I said. God you fricking moronic fricks, no wonder you’re a virgin. Oh my god. Ow this just gave me a headache. I need to go do some deep breathing exercises
9 months ago
Anonymous
didn’t read any of that
see
You look like this
9 months ago
Anonymous
Funny coming from you. You’re obviously a shut in
9 months ago
Anonymous
kek you’re built like linkara homie lmao
9 months ago
Anonymous
I don’t know who linkara is. What part of I have a life did you not understand
9 months ago
Anonymous
>i have a life buying women from vietnam to be my wife
oh yeah big man on campus. hot shot. rock and fricking roll, bro.
I'm probably irredeemably unattractive. Why settle for an ugly guy with ok social skills when a hot guy with ok social skills is right around the corner?
nta, but I have mild autism also. I can only frick in a bed, with privacy. No way would I ever frick outdoors. I can't even get hard. I had one girl wanting to frick me in the stalls of a pool. She whispered in my ear:" I want you". And left. I was just sitting at the pool for another twenty minutes. She was seething when she came back, lel. I told her: "I can't do it, there's kids around." "But tonight we will get a room together and I will frick your brains out."
Be a loser like me with no social life. I did eventually lose my virginity at a very late age but its easy to slip into isolation and end up with no one as a man.
Sexually active? One that doesn't know about jerking off? Frick, I don't understand the point of sex when you can jerk off and have more important things to do than have relationships with women(or boyfriends for some sick people, lol).
>Frick, I don't understand the point of sex when you can jerk off
If you don't understand the value in being sexually desired by others it's clear you gave up on that happening a long time ago.
9 months ago
Anonymous
there is no value because it’s completely arbitrary bullshit made up by spoiled first worlders. the people in third world countries that aren’t if they’re going to survive the night aren’t worried about a fricking hole.
9 months ago
Anonymous
It’s fundamental human nature, it’s far from arbitrary. Where do you think things like jealousy and monogamy come from? Do you need be sexually desired is to be inferior. You know that you’re kind of a dead end
9 months ago
Anonymous
Sorry I had a stroke
9 months ago
Anonymous
To act as if third worlders aren't having sex is disingenuous. Everyone wants to have sex unless you have a mental illness.
But sure, if you are just barely surviving you will prioritize getting food and a roof over your head rather than having sex (you'll still desire sex though). However, I assume you are doing absolutely fine considering you're spending your time on Cinemaphile, in which case your entire argument is just a cope.
i reject your philosophies. don’t reply again.
9 months ago
Anonymous
nah homie the only rejection that exists in your life is females rejecting you homie lmaooo
9 months ago
Anonymous
upvoted
9 months ago
Anonymous
NO, I’M FRICKING BORED AND I’M ANGRY. IT ISN’T A PHILOSOPHY EITHER, IT’S ONE OF THE PILLARS OF THE HIERARCHY OF NEEDS. IF YOU’RE NOT SEXUALLY DESIRED BY ANYONE AND ARE A VIRGIN, YOU AUTOMATICALLY WILL HAVE LOW SEROTONIN AND AN INFERIORITY COMPLEX
interesting ip addresses
9 months ago
Anonymous
naaah this homie thinks he's mr robot nah homie you goofy af
9 months ago
Anonymous
Black person
9 months ago
Anonymous
downvoted homie
9 months ago
Anonymous
m8 i’ve been thinking about suicide since i was 14. there isn’t anything you can say that will hurt me.
9 months ago
Anonymous
9 months ago
Anonymous
NO, I’M FRICKING BORED AND I’M ANGRY. IT ISN’T A PHILOSOPHY EITHER, IT’S ONE OF THE PILLARS OF THE HIERARCHY OF NEEDS. IF YOU’RE NOT SEXUALLY DESIRED BY ANYONE AND ARE A VIRGIN, YOU AUTOMATICALLY WILL HAVE LOW SEROTONIN AND AN INFERIORITY COMPLEX
9 months ago
Anonymous
To act as if third worlders aren't having sex is disingenuous. Everyone wants to have sex unless you have a mental illness.
But sure, if you are just barely surviving you will prioritize getting food and a roof over your head rather than having sex (you'll still desire sex though). However, I assume you are doing absolutely fine considering you're spending your time on Cinemaphile, in which case your entire argument is just a cope.
9 months ago
Anonymous
Well, not that long ago. I'm 21 and I didn't even look at girls in high school. I watched porn and jerked off, which I still do, but I can't imagine myself as a lover. I'm pretty good looking by the way.
9 months ago
Anonymous
Holy shit Black person that has to be the easiest age to frick at. It gets harder as you get older. That's coming from someone who had zero friends in highschool. It is hard to make connections with a greater variety of people as everyone gets older and set in their ways
9 months ago
Anonymous
It was an insurmountable mountain for me when I was 21. You need to have the right friends and environment to just stumble into it. Which is what '40 year old Virgin' is.
The height delusion is the weirdest of all. Is it some kind of cope for people who don't want to accept ugliness is the real chance-killer? Height is so irrelevant unless you're a literal midge or giant
I hate to break it to you guys, but women usually aren’t that turned on by your physical appearance all that much. A lot of women turns women on is emotional and just knowing that you’re getting turned on by them, and if you’re tall and well built, you can really have some women who are going to be way more into that then your face. Women can literally imagine a grizzly bear pretty much raping them and find that way more arousing than more arousing than a short guy with a pretty face
It’s real and it’s out there. Although women cares about it to a different degree. Some don’t really care at all, some prefer you taller, and some wouldn’t take you if you’re like 5’9”. I have a buddy who is 5’9” and this absolute b***h said she wanted to have sex with other guys but it wouldn’t be making love, and she said it’s because he wasn’t big enough. She was a fricking b***h though, and not even hot herself. Plus she was like 30 and a single mom, but she was a pharmacist so making tons of money that was the only good thing about her
If my only two options were to be in an open relationship or murder-suicide, I would choose murder-suicide every time. Unless of course she was okay with me fricking other girls and not the other way around, but I don’t think that would be a healthy relationship, and I might as well just be single and fricking a lot of girls
9 months ago
Anonymous
Tiny dick energy.
9 months ago
Anonymous
It’s a lot better than being a cuck. What is the point of any of it if it’s open
I'm 5'4". In a way being a manlet is nice because I'm not one of those 5'10" gays worrying that I might not be pierceived as 'tall enough'. I already know that for sure.
The upside in having such shortcomings (no pun inteded) is that if you ever do attract a partner, you'll know they're not superficial. Something which is hard to come by and suggest at least some level of emotional maturity. There's a way to twist almost any negative into a positive depending on your perspective.
I'm waiting for sex with the right person in an actual relationship, I don't believe in hookups, I haven't found the right person yet
>society thinks I'm an evil incel terrorist because of this
It's funny how when women are single, society is like "You go girl! Don't settle for anyone! Only date men worthy of you!" but when a man is single, everyone thinks he's a weirdo failure of a man
Im as ugly on the inside as I am on the outside. I will probably never lose it if we are being honest. Going to events or anywhere else but the gym is just depressing. I want to kill myself but I am pretty sure my parents would be upset
Not this type of ugly , Years of horrible confidence and bad experiences mixed with a disease has given me a low self worth. Going to the gym helps , but it can only do so much.
Inner ugliness rarely has much to do with outward ugliness. I know plenty of attractive people who are buttholes, the only difference is that they can get away with it.
Hell, the reason I hate aging is that I can't get away with being a douchebag as well as I did in my youth. But also being a douchebag is the most sensible option in a world as shallow and uncaring as this. So this creates a logistical issue.
Easy. You just work and barely socialise or don't socialise at all. Like I'll meet my tiny circle of friends maybe once every few months. Also helps to be unattractive.
>Why?
Because I would only feel even more pathetic than I do now.
9 months ago
Anonymous
Following your logic, so should any man in relationship if they ever spend their own money on their gf. Now, if you've got a sugar mommy, all the more power to you, but that's rare.
9 months ago
Anonymous
>so should any man in relationship if they ever spend their own money on their gf
Not really, I assume there was at least some semblance of mutual attraction at the start.
Never gonna happen unless you're attractive, in which the case the female brain will "trick" itself into the chemical reaction you commonly consider love. But then, you can be a variety of things and still be loved. Notice how women often date abusers.
You're projecting because you're too shallow to love someone as ugly as you
9 months ago
Anonymous
No, I'm just being truthful. This can cause an emotional reaction from people because it's often the uncensored truth that hurts the most.
9 months ago
Anonymous
The same can be said for men. Most men probably won’t move a bearded landwhale. A vast majority of people are pretty much just in the average range. But a woman doesn’t care anymore about just looks than men do, so unless you’re way above your league or happened to be one of the unlucky few truly cursed with terrible genetics, you probably can only blame your personality and possibly lack of self care
9 months ago
Anonymous
>The same can be said for men
More often than not, it's men who can overlook the physical. Even as a relatively attractive man I've caught myself doing this but I've also adjusted my standards to coincide with modernity, AKA a society that is rapidly becoming more shallow.
In knowing that I'm essentially just eye-candy, it seems only fair I would look for the same in a partner and little else.
9 months ago
Anonymous
If anything, women are just catching up to men in how superficial they’re willing to be. Even still, shallow people are almost always looked down on in normal circles. And if you were relatively attractive eye candy, you would probably not be single or this deluded because some women would make the first move, or at least get a friend to let you know that they’re interested
9 months ago
Anonymous
>If anything, women are just catching up to men in how superficial they’re willing to be
Sorry, but no. >Even still, shallow people are almost always looked down on in normal circles
You haven't talked to many women. If you have, maybe you used some kind of time machine prior. In any case, can I really hate the player when the game is rigged? Our lives are predetermined based on a few chemical criteria.
9 months ago
Anonymous
Do you know how many friends I have who are married and are pretty average or unattractive? Maybe you’re getting your idea of women from screenshots you see from tinder, I don’t know. But I mean, you can at least find someone in your league, and if you’re lucky, someone who is better looking and not very shallow
Some guys are just going to be incels, and thats something that they cannot self improve out of.
If you are a 5'2 balding indian janitor, there is no amount of self improvement you can do that will make you visible to women.
Such is life.
Sort of, but not entirely.
Life is absolutely worth living, but only if you are attractive to women, and are having fun in life.
I think people who have good genetics should try and have as many kids as they can, and people who have bad genetics should probably not breed, as they are just bringing liabilities into this world.
Im not saying you have to look like a model, but brining ugly and stupid people into the world is not moral, and people with bad genetics who have been fricked by life will all agree with this.
Yeah but you see so many ugly people breeding with each other. I have a friend who got lucky but his parents were strange mutants who if they had been born 20 years ago would probably just sit around and cry about it on the Internet. I do agree that ugly people are starting to get bred out more because people have more choices.
>Life is absolutely worth living, but only if you are attractive to women, and are having fun in life.
Perhaps, but that goes in line with antinatalist thought. Basically, it was outside of your control whether you were born attractive or not (as a man or woman), and being born in general.
If only you knew. Even Cinemaphile is no longer a safe space for incels. You normies are gonna push us to the point of no surrender. This is no laughing matter. We out 4 blood homie!
This is exactly what they want from you, to prove them right so they can continue blaming you for their problems as a scapegoat. Which is also why you should never be pushed into anything. Just ignore and move on.
It really isn't realistic. It take a rare collection of fricked up traits to reach that point. But we do live in a society where it's increasingly easy to never interact with others or leave your house
[...]
I lost my virginity at 27 to a girl I met through tinder. It can happen late in life (after high school). Prior to her I had never kissed, hugged, or held hands with anyone. I managed to take two other girls out via Tinder but with no long term success. We became bf/gf but she broke up with me pretty quickly after she had her fun with me. Since then I haven't bothered trying to date. The breakup was extremely painful for me and dating was expensive. I think once I got it out of my system it cleared my mind that I'm a total loser and I no longer care that much.
I lost my virginity at 27 to a girl I met through tinder. It can happen late in life (after high school). Prior to her I had never kissed, hugged, or held hands with anyone. I managed to take two other girls out via Tinder but with no long term success. We became bf/gf but she broke up with me pretty quickly after she had her fun with me. Since then I haven't bothered trying to date. The breakup was extremely painful for me and dating was expensive. I think once I got it out of my system it cleared my mind that I'm a total loser and I no longer care that much.
By sleeping with every good looking dude you meet, youre the one that turned yourself into a body.
Men would love nothing more than to lock down a good looking girl who hasnt been run through, but once you have a high body count, you better keep that shit secret because no man will want to put a ring on that
I actually happen to agree with you on that. I think that Chads lack the masculine role models in life that would be needed to show them what a healthy masculinity looks like.
I think men are to blame for women being prostitutes, but the men who are to blame are also not totally at fault because they have never been shown or told that men are meant to find wives and start a family.
If we lived in a Nat Soc state, I can guarantee you this whole women vs men problem would not exist, as all women would be happily married homemakers with a big family, and men would have a healthy masculine framework in which they dont sleep around too much and are able to work for the community and the state.
Its all a big mess, and no one is really to blame for it.
You'll be just a body after your inevitable suicide, troon. Women find you repulsive like a Black person might find a minstrel show repulsive. Your entire existence is focused on an impossibly stupid ideal that will only lead to you killing yourself out of embarrasment.
The only possible way for me to ever even just try to get a girl is to hire a professional assassin and pay him tens of thousands of dollars to literally seek me out at random times putting a loaded gun on the back of my head where if I don't approach at least one girl he'll blow my brains out on the spot or something like that.
I have no clue how anyone is actually motivated enough to seek girls, try to win them over and then spend money, time and effort to try to keep them with you after that. All what happens in my brain when I see a hot girl anywhere is just "damn, she's hot" and I continue on walking, that's it
I'd be a virgin at 30 if I wasn't presented with rich people opportunities to get laid like college and traveling abroad. I still feel like an incel because I can't get laid in my hometown.
>tfw went to college (including college parties and music festivals during college) AND I traveled abroad and I never even kissed, let alone had sex
I'm the quintessential failed normalgay
I didn't get laid in college either. I had to travel to East Asia and frick a troony before I felt confident enough to have sex with girls. You're probably just holding out for a top tier girl like I was before I gave up. Sex is gay and won't make you happy, but it can become an addiction.
It's way easier to get a man to come over to your place for sex. Girls are scared they'll get murdered. I wasn't even thinking I'd get murdered. I was more worried about rejection and embarrassment. Still am.
Methinks you should've lowered your standards. This kind of fear from women should not be merited unless we're talking about some supermodel or celebrity.
9 months ago
Anonymous
I remember my issue now. I'd had girls over at my place prior to fricking the troony. Problem was that I was too scared to initiate sex. When I had the troony over, he initiated the sex and was pushy when I was hesitant. That taught me how to do the same with girls.
9 months ago
Anonymous
After typing this, I realize that the way I'd probably get good at picking up girls is by going to gay hangout places and acting coy as men try to pick me up. This is what I mean by sex being gay.
The person in my social group who had slept with the most women recently got arrested for domestic violence. Pretty ironic how women made him and broke him in the end.
>You've failed as a man
anon you're repeatedly waiting 60 seconds and solving captchas again and again to be able to anonymously post on a cartoon frog kissless virgin imageboard in your free time, anyone who is posting ITT in the first place is already a failure
>and there is nothing to do at the moment
so exactly like I said, you spend your free time here. and I'm sure you do it sometime after work as well. accept your reality as is, don't now wait 60 seconds again and solve another captcha again to post yet again in an adult virgin thread on Cinemaphile how you're not a failure
I’m not claiming to be a massive success, but I’m not a no life virgin either, like the people probably posting from their mom’s basements right now. I’m not a virgin, and I’m in the early stages of dating a new girl right now. At worst Cinemaphile is my guilty pleasure that I sometimes check back in on. It’s like a sick relative to me I just have to look in every once in awhile
9 months ago
Anonymous
there's only virgins and failed normalgays here, nothing else. absolutely no one normal would spend any time regularly on here, ever. if you had a son and later found out he regularly spends his free time arguing on Cinemaphile in virgin threads I'm sure you would feel bad about that fact, not be happy and proud
9 months ago
Anonymous
You’re right enough for the most part. It’s probably not a mentally healthy habit. But it’s a little extreme to say no one somewhat normal can be posting here. I’ve been using this place since I was young enough to have just sort of stuck around. I go months sometimes without using Cinemaphile. Sometimes when I’m really bored, I make the mistake of coming back here again
9 months ago
Anonymous
>But it’s a little extreme to say no one somewhat normal can be posting here
look we're all desensitized so we don't even register most things, but I can asure you no sane normal person would regularly visit a site where he's at all times just one scroll away from for example an extreme close-up of Nikocado Avocado's brown coinslot butthole
to a normal person most of the things here is like scrolling through extremely detailed footage cartel beheadings mixed with absolutely schizophrenic mentally ill textual posts
9 months ago
Anonymous
Nah man, no one is completely normal and sane. I’m sure a lot of people have some thing they do that is really weird behind closed doors. In this particular using Cinemaphile would probably be pretty weird to them. But it’s not like you have a skeleton in your closet or something that would shock them. There’s a lot of posts that seem mentally ill, but it’s okay to read that. I’m probably desensitized but I also know to read everything with the base assumption it’s a joke or some kind of mental venting of their strangest thoughts. I wouldn’t be surprised to know that some people in this thread are actually pretty unwell though
9 months ago
Anonymous
of course there is a spectrum to everything, including mental illness. but it's fairly safe to say that a standard normal person would find most of this site just as a disgusting pathetic pointless scrapyard and would not want to spend any of his time on here, maybe glance at it in fascination like observing a mental asylum but that's it. but we're arguing semantics at this point
9 months ago
Anonymous
True, it’s a site that does have a lot of losers on it and a bad reputation, so you wouldn’t ever want to be caught using it. I think though a fairly normal person can still occasionally come here though. If it’s not a weird Internet forum they sometimes go on, they’re doing something that is probably about as weird in one way or another. At least for a big portion of typical people. They could be on chat logs or doing some really weird or nerdy types of other activities who knows
9 months ago
Anonymous
posts like these are deliciously deluded. this is 2023 man, Cinemaphile (while still popular among them) isn't some central hub for losers and degenerates. now it's a normalgay-infested website where people post cutesy or smartass Cinemaphile comments on reddit, 9gag or some of the foreign equivalents of these websites, you have women posting on plenty of boards like /adv/, gore and porn is heavily on it's way out on the blue boards. How come that there's still so many homosexuals here posting stuff like >he has a le GF! this ain't no place fer you, buster! >lmao you're christian? we're so ebil and edgy, you wouldn't be here if you were one
it's like you're living in a different reality
9 months ago
Anonymous
>deliciously deluded
ironic
again, I can asure you no sane normal person would regularly visit a site where he's at all times just one scroll away from an extreme close-up of Nikocado Avocado's brown coinslot butthole while having to dodge literal cancer banner ads and wait 60 seconds and solve captchas in order to anonymously post on that same site
9 months ago
Anonymous
So what are you going here?
9 months ago
Anonymous
because I'm clearly not normal, like anyone else who spends his free time arguing in adult virgin threads on Cinemaphile
9 months ago
Anonymous
you can call it group therapy. normies always talk about therapy, while they gobble up 5 kinds of anti-dipressents. 4 in 5 girls in her 20s is on drugs in america.
9 months ago
Anonymous
you can always go back to plebbit, you easily offended normie NPC.
9 months ago
Anonymous
yes, normalgays are easily offended and they would never regularly visit and post on sites like these, thanks for proving my point
9 months ago
Anonymous
>just one scroll away from an extreme close-up of Nikocado Avocado's brown coinslot butthole
I just browsed through the catalog for you. Bare-assed black women in nazi uniforms were the biggest (and likely only) offender here.
The only difference between a man who has had sex and a man who hasn't is that the former provides more value to women. Ergo, if you judge men on that standard, you are concerned primarily with how much value men provide to women. Which makes you a woman.
>Only a virign would say this
Men literally cannot be virgins. That's a paradoxical statement. Virgins are women, they always have been. Women who have not had sex are highly desirable in every civilization, the same is not true for men. When a woman has sex, it changes her psychologically and physiologically, the same is not true for men.
The concept of a "male virgin" was invented by feminists attempting to 'level the playing field' and rate men by the same standard that men regard women, only their standard is based entirely on how much sexual pleasure they can receive from a man, while men valuing virgins is based primarily on their ability to provide healthy heirs, which contributes to society. Women having more sexual pleasure does not benefit society. The concept of a male virgin is inherently hedonistic, and if you use that term your opinion has zero value. You are only concerned with immediate pleasure and cannot make arguments on a moral level.
Not arguments. My point exactly. Why should I regard your opinions with any value at all? You go through life assuming that your opinion follows the majority with no awareness of how bizarre and unnatural you actually appear to normal people.
There are two women who each live a few hours away from where I live now and they have both told me they want to frick but I'm afraid of spilling my spaghetti so I've canceled plans numerous times with them. I am a 28 year old virgin shut-in.
I don't know why I'm sitting here. I almost never share your opinion on movies, much less life. Yes, I'm single and barely work, but I don't hate women, I'm not racist or homophobic, and I'm also very loyal to movies I don't like
When Cinemaphile was down I made myself some scrambled eggs, put it on toast, and layered a fried egg on top of that. Halfway through eating it, I started crying and don't know why.
Threadly reminder that “they” hate guys who are alone and fine with it
If you learned to live alone and take care/ignore your sexual needs, you are going to be just fine, don’t fall for the roast monster psyop, even from the manprostitutes who desperately try to flex on you (they’re low IQ shitwits)
I lost it at 23 and it was so crazy, its all i could think about, like i wasn't even ugly and my frienda uglier than me were getting laid. It really fricks with your head, but once you finally have sex you literally never worry about it again. Its such a weight lifted off your shoulders you feel like you can do anything
I mean, it must have some impact right?
Your brain would be telling you: >"Hey, we did it! Our genes are actually worth passing on! You aren't a complete subhuman!"
That must have some positive impact, right?
that depends on your mentality and the value you assign to sex, you could have the same impact as training hard for a chess tournament and winning it if chess was your thing
It’s not about your mentality, it’s nature’s anti-depressant. If you were depressed, odds are you could be 100% better if you went from a loveless touchless virgin to in a positive relationship. It’s why people get depressed right after a breakup. It’s not so much losing the partner as you go off your natural chemical reward structures. Just orgasming inside a vegana triggers oxotyin which you can’t really get from anything else, expect maybe petting a kitten, but it’s nowhere near as much
9 months ago
Anonymous
The fact that this is the only value women bring is a lot more depressing.
9 months ago
Anonymous
I'd rather have a woman to talk to them you homosexuals. Having a partner is an emotional support system unless you're moronic and or choose wrong
9 months ago
Anonymous
>I'd rather have a woman to talk to
you must be a woman
pls be in london
9 months ago
Anonymous
>I'd rather have a woman to talk to them you homosexuals
No, you wouldn't. Otherwise you'd be doing that right now. >Having a partner is an emotional support system
Virgin?
9 months ago
Anonymous
What kind of next level projection is this? How can you argue against something which is so obviously true. Unless you’re in a seriously messed up relationship, they’re going emotional support. Having someone who cares about you and will be nice and loving would quite naturally be supportive
9 months ago
Anonymous
>Having someone who cares about you and will be nice and loving would quite naturally be supportive
Yeah no shit. I'm talking about real life though, not a Nicholas Sparks novel.
9 months ago
Anonymous
It’s not Nicholas Sparks. I’m not saying you’re going to be like Romeo and Juliet or always doing baby talk, but they’ll at least listen to your problems, or you’ll have someone to lay on a couch with and other things, it’s definitely emotional support
9 months ago
Anonymous
>but they’ll at least listen to your problems
When put in technical terms, sure, they have an auditory organ that will detect your complains and proceed to laugh at you internally, if not externally.
Just don't make the mistake of ever complaining about shit that is too real, they'll see you as a loser forever.
Best to just discuss mundane shit and play the normie part.
9 months ago
Anonymous
You don’t know anything about real life or relationships, you pretending otherwise is a joke
Don't read too much into the negativity here. A lot of these guys have physical and mental disabilities. This is the extend of their socialization.
9 months ago
Anonymous
Yeah I couldn’t really agree more
if you can use buzzwords like incel, then i can call you a fricking homosexual
It’s not a buzzword. You’re coming across like a major incel to any ordinary person, and I don’t use the word incel lightly
9 months ago
Anonymous
>lightly
you used the buzzword 4 times in a row in 3 posts.
9 months ago
Anonymous
Imagine how dark the world would be if you had Spina bifida or some shit this place really would seem like a glowing beacon of freedom but you'd be angry and lashing out at people suggesting it's possible to live a normal life
9 months ago
Anonymous
I’m not even angry. I’m just confused why people think that they’re convincingly not an incel when they’re saying the most clueless and virgin shit I’ve ever read in my life
9 months ago
Anonymous
Nah it makes me furious to be an ugkyvshort weird moron but have sex multiple times then see people using absolute coping mechanisms about why they dont have sex. You're making excuses and I have to read them all god damn day I waste my fricking time here. If I can have sex but you can't there is something literally wrong with you and if that's the case I'm sorry I ever said anything. I'm out of the car and done wasting my time in this thread
9 months ago
Anonymous
weak larp
9 months ago
Anonymous
I'm sorry the truth hurts anon. Please keep pretending real life is like your lovey dovey gay movies.
9 months ago
Anonymous
>Having someone who cares about you and will be nice and loving would quite naturally be supportive
wake up. real life is calling.
9 months ago
Anonymous
You don’t know anything about real life or relationships, you pretending otherwise is a joke
9 months ago
Anonymous
He's closer to the truth than you are
9 months ago
Anonymous
The incels are closer to the truth huh? What a joke. It would be funny if it were also sad
9 months ago
Anonymous
if you can use buzzwords like incel, then i can call you a fricking homosexual
9 months ago
Anonymous
Why would you immediately assume he's an incel? The vast majority of couples break up or get divorced. You'd think that wouldn't be the case if things were as good as you romanticize them to be.
9 months ago
Anonymous
Yeah, I think it’s commonly known that a lot of people eventually breakup or get a divorce. It doesn’t mean that’s how the relationship was when it started or at its peak. If you’re going to say stuff that sounds like you have the life experience of a third grader, what else can I assume about them than they’re incels
9 months ago
Anonymous
> It doesn’t mean that’s how the relationship was when it started or at its peak
Yeah, because people were keeping up appearances. They didn't let their guard down in other words. Don't get me wrong, I think a relationship can be maintained for a long time if you put a mask on. But that's not what true connection is about.
9 months ago
Anonymous
It’s not that hard to have an emotional bond with someone. It’s actually pretty easy to fall in love with someone. I don’t know why this is like some sort of thing that sounds unrealistic to you. Do you think most people aren’t affectionate with their partners, and wouldn’t get emotional support? There’s no sense arguing because no one can be this stupid and think otherwise
9 months ago
Anonymous
>It’s not that hard to have an emotional bond with someone
As long as you abide by certain rules and never reveal too much of yourself or be too vulnerable. In a controlled environment, it's possible for a time. I attribute this mainly to the fact that a woman is bound to get bored and engage in discussions with you out of that alone. Not so much out of some genuine care. >It’s actually pretty easy to fall in love with someone.
No one claimed otherwise. > Do you think most people aren’t affectionate with their partners, and wouldn’t get emotional support?
Yes, I do.
9 months ago
Anonymous
Well if you’re going to need to trauma dump, you should probably tell it to a therapist, because obviously there’s a certain limit to how vulnerable and weak you should make yourself to a partner. If you’re not even that messed up, though, you can pretty much just share whatever, and it’s no big deal. You’re not always trying to turn someone on 24/7 when you’re in a relationship, so there’s times you can just share something that’s bothering you and it’s not going to hurt anything. I think mainly what is confusing you is these are problems you have, and you’re thinking this is a problem that everyone else would have too with women. I’m sorry but it’s pretty normal to just get into a relationship and do all of the other things that I said. Maybe you just need to work on yourself before you’re ready for that
9 months ago
Anonymous
>and it’s no big deal
It's ammunition is what it is. >so there’s times you can just share something that’s bothering you
It really depends on what that is. Generally, I would not advise you to do so.
Many women will take great pleasure in the fact that something is bringing you discomfort/pain, etcetera.
9 months ago
Anonymous
Nah man, I’m sorry but you’re lost buddy. It’s not ammunition unless things are going to end up severely dysfunctional and you would be at the point of breaking up anyway. If you don’t have any major problems, then you shouldn’t even be giving ammunition to really hurt you anyway. I’m talking just about sharing stuff that is stressing you out, or maybe something that sort of hurt you a little bit. Not like major things that would come back to bite you
9 months ago
Anonymous
you life in a dream, where everything is butterflys and rainbows. if a woman leaves you, she already has a back up man and is calling him, the second you kick her out.
9 months ago
Anonymous
I've had three long term gfs and those were the best times of my life. It just feels good having someone to bounce ideas off of and to have someone to wake up to in the morning very cozy.
I'm looking again. >You wouldn't. Otherwise you'd be doing that right now
That's some really dumb logic. You're posting on 4chsn right now so that means you'd rather be doing that instead of literally anything else?
I would if I was still in a relationship
9 months ago
Anonymous
I kind of doubt that but good for you if managed to somehow find 3 women fit for dating. Even one is something of a small miracle nowadays.
9 months ago
Anonymous
Your mother is the only woman who is hardwired to feel pity for you and be an emotional support system.
Don't expect this from women unless you're ready for a disappointment. You'll have to be the best boyfriend in the world for the exchange of a bland spaghetti dinner and maybe, just maybe some missionary sex.
You will continue being depressed, unmotivated, and anxious but your self-esteem would be a bit better for a time because you know you aren't irredeemably unlovable.
Sounds like you're taking internet comments at their word, but incels are world champions at the whole coping thing. Nobody's really holding out for a perfect 10 blonde virgin tradwife, they just say they are. In reality there isn't an incel on the planet who wouldn't accept if a morbidly obese black woman with a colostomy bag hit on them.
I'm a 26yo kissless hugless virgin and I accepted my fate a long time ago. Why can't you gays just move on?
>Where are the condoms, Jeremy? >What? >The condos. Where are the condoms? >I thought you were getting the condoms. >You what? >NO CONDOMS? You fricking idiot, Jeremy! You total fricking idiot! That was YOUR job, you fricking moron! You cretin! YOU'RE A FRICKHEAD! THAT'S WHAT YOU ARE! A FRICKING SHITHEAD! >It was a joke, Mark. I was joking. It was a virgin joke.
>6 months in to my 24th year on god’s green earth >no prior relationship experience to speak of >still nowhere close to getting a gf
looks like it’s gonna be another wasted year boys
I find it odd how you can enjoy making out. To me, I just get a sensational like a spider is on my tongue and I’m tasting orange sour skittles. You don’t even want to know what it feels like when my balls are getting cupped
I'm kind of like that. I enjoy relationships but mostly under the agreement that it's an on and off thing, and that can't happen.
Reason being is that I need to recharge after spending too much time around someone.
I slept with a total of 3 women, and got close with approx. 6 (like meaning, i felt them up and made out with them, and in one case they went down on me), but in NO case was I able to cum. And I know, "you must be GAY", but no, my best friend was in love with me, was gay, and I could NOT get it up for him either, men are fricking disgusting. I ended up having to never speak with him again.
bascially...I am not able to enjoy a physical relationship with men or women. So...I mean, whatever. Maybe we should have gone to war and got killed or some shit. Sex with women was enjoyable, sure....but...it just wasn't as amazing as I expected. Frankly, I would rather someone give me a shot of Morphine as opposed to fricking an attractive woman.
...you serious?
Yeah?
That's racist.
A German not being a monster? Yeah, totally unrealistic.
X-men
Unironically though, it has to be an isolated lifestyle which then creates pressure and insecurity, right? That or genuine autism (not Cinemaphiles "DUDE I'M SO AUTISTIC" act)
Because how else would you remain a virgin in your twenties and above?
My friend got divorced two months ago. He went on Tinder and found a date and they fricked on the first date. Meanwhile I haven't gotten laid in three years. Sigh.
Get rejected too many times, you stop trying
Dating can be rough. I have social anxiety. I don't bother anyone with it and I plough on through. Last girl I dated, we were in a restaurant, on a first date. We had never seen each other in real life. I got a panic attack. The walls were caving in on me. She said to me: "Do you want to go outside?". I went outside for a smoke and the rest of the evening was smooth.
It was just nice that she recognized it. I don't know how to be in these social situations. Back there I was flying million dollar equipment. Back here I can't even hold a job parking fricking cars!
i’m 20 and have no sex drive. basically asexual. i find women insufferable to talk to. so i’m on my way.
Never had sex. Many such cases. SAD!
Or just be under 5'7
Holy cope I'm an inch shorter than that, shockingly ugly, and weird. But I've had three gfs just in my early 20s because I wasn't a shut in back then.
Stick your dick in a living person? It doesn't fit into my idea of what kind of man I want to be. Masturbation once a week (without porn) is enough to quell my arousal.
reddit moment
Zip it, dopey
NTA but you’re full of shit. obsession with sex and jacking off all the time is reddit.
he’s fricking right, loser
You look like this
based
cringe
Give me five of these and I'd conquer 'Nam in two weeks.
if you have the unholy sperg combination of high neuroticism and introversion youre just fricked
even worse if you inherited your neroticism from your parents so you grew up in an unstable household
self doubt, insecurity, bad social skills due to self imposed isolation, and depression are all pussy repellent
I'm sociable enough to have several groups of friends, some of whom I met back in middle school and we're still close. I'm also a 31 year old virgin. Social skills mean nothing these days.
What are you talking about? If you can literally hold a conversation with a woman and not run away and you’re bound to eventually have sex
>dude women are all the same bro yeah man lmao exact same shit plays out every time
I didn’t say women are the same. I said if you can have a conversation with a woman, eventually you’ll have sex with one of them. Maybe you talk to 20 before you one is drunk or you become more than friends, it’s just a natural progression that will sometimes happen. I ought to cut your fricking tongue out for this disrespect
internet tough guy badass megaforce zero solid state: go!
Hey you stupid frick, I ended off with a joke to tone down the seriousness of what I said. God you fricking moronic fricks, no wonder you’re a virgin. Oh my god. Ow this just gave me a headache. I need to go do some deep breathing exercises
didn’t read any of that
see
Funny coming from you. You’re obviously a shut in
kek you’re built like linkara homie lmao
I don’t know who linkara is. What part of I have a life did you not understand
>i have a life buying women from vietnam to be my wife
oh yeah big man on campus. hot shot. rock and fricking roll, bro.
You can do better than that, come on
>dude gives real advice
>incel finds way to be offended and feel victimized instead of following simple advice that could change his situation
Yawn
I'm probably irredeemably unattractive. Why settle for an ugly guy with ok social skills when a hot guy with ok social skills is right around the corner?
nta, but I have mild autism also. I can only frick in a bed, with privacy. No way would I ever frick outdoors. I can't even get hard. I had one girl wanting to frick me in the stalls of a pool. She whispered in my ear:" I want you". And left. I was just sitting at the pool for another twenty minutes. She was seething when she came back, lel. I told her: "I can't do it, there's kids around." "But tonight we will get a room together and I will frick your brains out."
Be a loser like me with no social life. I did eventually lose my virginity at a very late age but its easy to slip into isolation and end up with no one as a man.
Why do you ask that as if it's a rare phenomenon, homosexual
Forgot to attach pic
because it is
>in the past year
Anyone sexually active doesn't go an entire year without having sex. This was pre-Covid too so you can't even use the pandemic excuse
Yes, fewer people are sexually active. That doesn't mean they are virgins.
Not having sex with ONE person when you're in your thirties is rare.
Sexually active? One that doesn't know about jerking off? Frick, I don't understand the point of sex when you can jerk off and have more important things to do than have relationships with women(or boyfriends for some sick people, lol).
>Frick, I don't understand the point of sex when you can jerk off
If you don't understand the value in being sexually desired by others it's clear you gave up on that happening a long time ago.
there is no value because it’s completely arbitrary bullshit made up by spoiled first worlders. the people in third world countries that aren’t if they’re going to survive the night aren’t worried about a fricking hole.
It’s fundamental human nature, it’s far from arbitrary. Where do you think things like jealousy and monogamy come from? Do you need be sexually desired is to be inferior. You know that you’re kind of a dead end
Sorry I had a stroke
i reject your philosophies. don’t reply again.
nah homie the only rejection that exists in your life is females rejecting you homie lmaooo
upvoted
interesting ip addresses
naaah this homie thinks he's mr robot nah homie you goofy af
Black person
downvoted homie
m8 i’ve been thinking about suicide since i was 14. there isn’t anything you can say that will hurt me.
NO, I’M FRICKING BORED AND I’M ANGRY. IT ISN’T A PHILOSOPHY EITHER, IT’S ONE OF THE PILLARS OF THE HIERARCHY OF NEEDS. IF YOU’RE NOT SEXUALLY DESIRED BY ANYONE AND ARE A VIRGIN, YOU AUTOMATICALLY WILL HAVE LOW SEROTONIN AND AN INFERIORITY COMPLEX
To act as if third worlders aren't having sex is disingenuous. Everyone wants to have sex unless you have a mental illness.
But sure, if you are just barely surviving you will prioritize getting food and a roof over your head rather than having sex (you'll still desire sex though). However, I assume you are doing absolutely fine considering you're spending your time on Cinemaphile, in which case your entire argument is just a cope.
Well, not that long ago. I'm 21 and I didn't even look at girls in high school. I watched porn and jerked off, which I still do, but I can't imagine myself as a lover. I'm pretty good looking by the way.
Holy shit Black person that has to be the easiest age to frick at. It gets harder as you get older. That's coming from someone who had zero friends in highschool. It is hard to make connections with a greater variety of people as everyone gets older and set in their ways
It was an insurmountable mountain for me when I was 21. You need to have the right friends and environment to just stumble into it. Which is what '40 year old Virgin' is.
this exact post is in this exact thread every single time
we're living in a simulation
You are in the wrong board if you are looking for constant originality and better thread quality. I would suggest
(smartest board) or >>>/x/.
If you are 5'9 in modern (sóy)ciety, you basically are not getting laid unless a miracle happens
The height delusion is the weirdest of all. Is it some kind of cope for people who don't want to accept ugliness is the real chance-killer? Height is so irrelevant unless you're a literal midge or giant
height is most definitely not irrelevant, but yes your face is the most important part
face > height > frame
it's face > frame > height
I hate to break it to you guys, but women usually aren’t that turned on by your physical appearance all that much. A lot of women turns women on is emotional and just knowing that you’re getting turned on by them, and if you’re tall and well built, you can really have some women who are going to be way more into that then your face. Women can literally imagine a grizzly bear pretty much raping them and find that way more arousing than more arousing than a short guy with a pretty face
It’s real and it’s out there. Although women cares about it to a different degree. Some don’t really care at all, some prefer you taller, and some wouldn’t take you if you’re like 5’9”. I have a buddy who is 5’9” and this absolute b***h said she wanted to have sex with other guys but it wouldn’t be making love, and she said it’s because he wasn’t big enough. She was a fricking b***h though, and not even hot herself. Plus she was like 30 and a single mom, but she was a pharmacist so making tons of money that was the only good thing about her
Open relationships are kino if you set the right boundaries and stick to them. Your friend missed out because he's a snowflake.
If my only two options were to be in an open relationship or murder-suicide, I would choose murder-suicide every time. Unless of course she was okay with me fricking other girls and not the other way around, but I don’t think that would be a healthy relationship, and I might as well just be single and fricking a lot of girls
Tiny dick energy.
It’s a lot better than being a cuck. What is the point of any of it if it’s open
>getting cucked is kino
Cinemaphile - Television & Film
Okay gross gore
Has your wife's pussy returned to its pre-BBC status?
Never date single moms.
Simple as.
Bro, thousands of pictures, webms, twitter posts, and tinder profiles beg to differ
I'm 5'4". In a way being a manlet is nice because I'm not one of those 5'10" gays worrying that I might not be pierceived as 'tall enough'. I already know that for sure.
The upside in having such shortcomings (no pun inteded) is that if you ever do attract a partner, you'll know they're not superficial. Something which is hard to come by and suggest at least some level of emotional maturity. There's a way to twist almost any negative into a positive depending on your perspective.
I'm waiting for sex with the right person in an actual relationship, I don't believe in hookups, I haven't found the right person yet
>society thinks I'm an evil incel terrorist because of this
It's funny how when women are single, society is like "You go girl! Don't settle for anyone! Only date men worthy of you!" but when a man is single, everyone thinks he's a weirdo failure of a man
Im as ugly on the inside as I am on the outside. I will probably never lose it if we are being honest. Going to events or anywhere else but the gym is just depressing. I want to kill myself but I am pretty sure my parents would be upset
Being ugly on the inside is something you can change
Not this type of ugly , Years of horrible confidence and bad experiences mixed with a disease has given me a low self worth. Going to the gym helps , but it can only do so much.
Inner ugliness rarely has much to do with outward ugliness. I know plenty of attractive people who are buttholes, the only difference is that they can get away with it.
Hell, the reason I hate aging is that I can't get away with being a douchebag as well as I did in my youth. But also being a douchebag is the most sensible option in a world as shallow and uncaring as this. So this creates a logistical issue.
how?
If you learn to be beautiful to yourself, you can be beautiful to others. And also yoga. Don’t ask me why
Inside and outside are like an ecosystem influencing each other.
>meet women at university!
almost all my classmates are men
>meet women through friends!
I don't have many friends, the ones that I do all are all men
>meet women at work!
don't shit where you eat
Easy. You just work and barely socialise or don't socialise at all. Like I'll meet my tiny circle of friends maybe once every few months. Also helps to be unattractive.
I have never even kissed a girl.
Just get a call girl and do it. Women essentially view men the same exact way, the difference is most don't need to pay for sex.
If prostitutes are my only option I would honestly rather die a kissless virgin
I have no problems with seeing prostitutes. I just can't justify paying them when I cum in under 2 minutes. Shit's pointless.
Why? It's the equivalent of watching a youtube video without the 10 minute ad prior
>Why?
Because I would only feel even more pathetic than I do now.
Following your logic, so should any man in relationship if they ever spend their own money on their gf. Now, if you've got a sugar mommy, all the more power to you, but that's rare.
>so should any man in relationship if they ever spend their own money on their gf
Not really, I assume there was at least some semblance of mutual attraction at the start.
I don't want to. I want to actually be loved and desired.
Never gonna happen unless you're attractive, in which the case the female brain will "trick" itself into the chemical reaction you commonly consider love. But then, you can be a variety of things and still be loved. Notice how women often date abusers.
You're projecting because you're too shallow to love someone as ugly as you
No, I'm just being truthful. This can cause an emotional reaction from people because it's often the uncensored truth that hurts the most.
The same can be said for men. Most men probably won’t move a bearded landwhale. A vast majority of people are pretty much just in the average range. But a woman doesn’t care anymore about just looks than men do, so unless you’re way above your league or happened to be one of the unlucky few truly cursed with terrible genetics, you probably can only blame your personality and possibly lack of self care
>The same can be said for men
More often than not, it's men who can overlook the physical. Even as a relatively attractive man I've caught myself doing this but I've also adjusted my standards to coincide with modernity, AKA a society that is rapidly becoming more shallow.
In knowing that I'm essentially just eye-candy, it seems only fair I would look for the same in a partner and little else.
If anything, women are just catching up to men in how superficial they’re willing to be. Even still, shallow people are almost always looked down on in normal circles. And if you were relatively attractive eye candy, you would probably not be single or this deluded because some women would make the first move, or at least get a friend to let you know that they’re interested
>If anything, women are just catching up to men in how superficial they’re willing to be
Sorry, but no.
>Even still, shallow people are almost always looked down on in normal circles
You haven't talked to many women. If you have, maybe you used some kind of time machine prior. In any case, can I really hate the player when the game is rigged? Our lives are predetermined based on a few chemical criteria.
Do you know how many friends I have who are married and are pretty average or unattractive? Maybe you’re getting your idea of women from screenshots you see from tinder, I don’t know. But I mean, you can at least find someone in your league, and if you’re lucky, someone who is better looking and not very shallow
Some guys are just going to be incels, and thats something that they cannot self improve out of.
If you are a 5'2 balding indian janitor, there is no amount of self improvement you can do that will make you visible to women.
Such is life.
Which is why antinatalists were always in the right.
Sort of, but not entirely.
Life is absolutely worth living, but only if you are attractive to women, and are having fun in life.
I think people who have good genetics should try and have as many kids as they can, and people who have bad genetics should probably not breed, as they are just bringing liabilities into this world.
Im not saying you have to look like a model, but brining ugly and stupid people into the world is not moral, and people with bad genetics who have been fricked by life will all agree with this.
Yeah but you see so many ugly people breeding with each other. I have a friend who got lucky but his parents were strange mutants who if they had been born 20 years ago would probably just sit around and cry about it on the Internet. I do agree that ugly people are starting to get bred out more because people have more choices.
>Life is absolutely worth living, but only if you are attractive to women, and are having fun in life.
Perhaps, but that goes in line with antinatalist thought. Basically, it was outside of your control whether you were born attractive or not (as a man or woman), and being born in general.
If only you knew. Even Cinemaphile is no longer a safe space for incels. You normies are gonna push us to the point of no surrender. This is no laughing matter. We out 4 blood homie!
This is exactly what they want from you, to prove them right so they can continue blaming you for their problems as a scapegoat. Which is also why you should never be pushed into anything. Just ignore and move on.
It really isn't realistic. It take a rare collection of fricked up traits to reach that point. But we do live in a society where it's increasingly easy to never interact with others or leave your house
Internet is making heightism into a thing. Just be interesting.
30 lvl wizard
AMA
What went wrong?
ugly and autistic.
I probably couldnt
>27
okay late bloomer.
Wpuld you lose it to a fat ugly sheboon
I lost my virginity at 27 to a girl I met through tinder. It can happen late in life (after high school). Prior to her I had never kissed, hugged, or held hands with anyone. I managed to take two other girls out via Tinder but with no long term success. We became bf/gf but she broke up with me pretty quickly after she had her fun with me. Since then I haven't bothered trying to date. The breakup was extremely painful for me and dating was expensive. I think once I got it out of my system it cleared my mind that I'm a total loser and I no longer care that much.
I am 29 years old and I never even kissed a girl
Frick, I really hate men. We're just a body to you, nothing more.
Ywnbaw
>We're just a body to you, nothing more.
Yes
you say this and when someone treats you right you call them a “nice guy” and friendzone them for the homosexual ass frat rapist
yeah, because talking to you is fricking boring. you talk about tv shows while i want to talk about warhammer.
By sleeping with every good looking dude you meet, youre the one that turned yourself into a body.
Men would love nothing more than to lock down a good looking girl who hasnt been run through, but once you have a high body count, you better keep that shit secret because no man will want to put a ring on that
You're deluded. Men, especially women fricking chads would never settle down in their prime.
I actually happen to agree with you on that. I think that Chads lack the masculine role models in life that would be needed to show them what a healthy masculinity looks like.
I think men are to blame for women being prostitutes, but the men who are to blame are also not totally at fault because they have never been shown or told that men are meant to find wives and start a family.
If we lived in a Nat Soc state, I can guarantee you this whole women vs men problem would not exist, as all women would be happily married homemakers with a big family, and men would have a healthy masculine framework in which they dont sleep around too much and are able to work for the community and the state.
Its all a big mess, and no one is really to blame for it.
Ironically, it's the exact opposite, even movies prove this
You'll be just a body after your inevitable suicide, troon. Women find you repulsive like a Black person might find a minstrel show repulsive. Your entire existence is focused on an impossibly stupid ideal that will only lead to you killing yourself out of embarrasment.
The only possible way for me to ever even just try to get a girl is to hire a professional assassin and pay him tens of thousands of dollars to literally seek me out at random times putting a loaded gun on the back of my head where if I don't approach at least one girl he'll blow my brains out on the spot or something like that.
I have no clue how anyone is actually motivated enough to seek girls, try to win them over and then spend money, time and effort to try to keep them with you after that. All what happens in my brain when I see a hot girl anywhere is just "damn, she's hot" and I continue on walking, that's it
I'd be a virgin at 30 if I wasn't presented with rich people opportunities to get laid like college and traveling abroad. I still feel like an incel because I can't get laid in my hometown.
>tfw went to college (including college parties and music festivals during college) AND I traveled abroad and I never even kissed, let alone had sex
I'm the quintessential failed normalgay
I didn't get laid in college either. I had to travel to East Asia and frick a troony before I felt confident enough to have sex with girls. You're probably just holding out for a top tier girl like I was before I gave up. Sex is gay and won't make you happy, but it can become an addiction.
Lol this is such a larp. Fricking a man is way more intimidating than a woman.
It's way easier to get a man to come over to your place for sex. Girls are scared they'll get murdered. I wasn't even thinking I'd get murdered. I was more worried about rejection and embarrassment. Still am.
Methinks you should've lowered your standards. This kind of fear from women should not be merited unless we're talking about some supermodel or celebrity.
I remember my issue now. I'd had girls over at my place prior to fricking the troony. Problem was that I was too scared to initiate sex. When I had the troony over, he initiated the sex and was pushy when I was hesitant. That taught me how to do the same with girls.
After typing this, I realize that the way I'd probably get good at picking up girls is by going to gay hangout places and acting coy as men try to pick me up. This is what I mean by sex being gay.
The person in my social group who had slept with the most women recently got arrested for domestic violence. Pretty ironic how women made him and broke him in the end.
>WOW THAT'S A WOMAN WITH TWO breasts AND A PUSSY. I LOOK AT HER AND I GET HORNY. I WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH HER AND SHE WANTS MY SPERM.
Pathetic.
Uploading a selfie is a bad idea
Sour grapes. You've failed as a man.
>You've failed as a man
anon you're repeatedly waiting 60 seconds and solving captchas again and again to be able to anonymously post on a cartoon frog kissless virgin imageboard in your free time, anyone who is posting ITT in the first place is already a failure
I’m at work, and there is nothing to do at the moment. I’m sorry I can’t be busy 24 hours a day
>and there is nothing to do at the moment
so exactly like I said, you spend your free time here. and I'm sure you do it sometime after work as well. accept your reality as is, don't now wait 60 seconds again and solve another captcha again to post yet again in an adult virgin thread on Cinemaphile how you're not a failure
I’m not claiming to be a massive success, but I’m not a no life virgin either, like the people probably posting from their mom’s basements right now. I’m not a virgin, and I’m in the early stages of dating a new girl right now. At worst Cinemaphile is my guilty pleasure that I sometimes check back in on. It’s like a sick relative to me I just have to look in every once in awhile
there's only virgins and failed normalgays here, nothing else. absolutely no one normal would spend any time regularly on here, ever. if you had a son and later found out he regularly spends his free time arguing on Cinemaphile in virgin threads I'm sure you would feel bad about that fact, not be happy and proud
You’re right enough for the most part. It’s probably not a mentally healthy habit. But it’s a little extreme to say no one somewhat normal can be posting here. I’ve been using this place since I was young enough to have just sort of stuck around. I go months sometimes without using Cinemaphile. Sometimes when I’m really bored, I make the mistake of coming back here again
>But it’s a little extreme to say no one somewhat normal can be posting here
look we're all desensitized so we don't even register most things, but I can asure you no sane normal person would regularly visit a site where he's at all times just one scroll away from for example an extreme close-up of Nikocado Avocado's brown coinslot butthole
to a normal person most of the things here is like scrolling through extremely detailed footage cartel beheadings mixed with absolutely schizophrenic mentally ill textual posts
Nah man, no one is completely normal and sane. I’m sure a lot of people have some thing they do that is really weird behind closed doors. In this particular using Cinemaphile would probably be pretty weird to them. But it’s not like you have a skeleton in your closet or something that would shock them. There’s a lot of posts that seem mentally ill, but it’s okay to read that. I’m probably desensitized but I also know to read everything with the base assumption it’s a joke or some kind of mental venting of their strangest thoughts. I wouldn’t be surprised to know that some people in this thread are actually pretty unwell though
of course there is a spectrum to everything, including mental illness. but it's fairly safe to say that a standard normal person would find most of this site just as a disgusting pathetic pointless scrapyard and would not want to spend any of his time on here, maybe glance at it in fascination like observing a mental asylum but that's it. but we're arguing semantics at this point
True, it’s a site that does have a lot of losers on it and a bad reputation, so you wouldn’t ever want to be caught using it. I think though a fairly normal person can still occasionally come here though. If it’s not a weird Internet forum they sometimes go on, they’re doing something that is probably about as weird in one way or another. At least for a big portion of typical people. They could be on chat logs or doing some really weird or nerdy types of other activities who knows
posts like these are deliciously deluded. this is 2023 man, Cinemaphile (while still popular among them) isn't some central hub for losers and degenerates. now it's a normalgay-infested website where people post cutesy or smartass Cinemaphile comments on reddit, 9gag or some of the foreign equivalents of these websites, you have women posting on plenty of boards like /adv/, gore and porn is heavily on it's way out on the blue boards. How come that there's still so many homosexuals here posting stuff like
>he has a le GF! this ain't no place fer you, buster!
>lmao you're christian? we're so ebil and edgy, you wouldn't be here if you were one
it's like you're living in a different reality
>deliciously deluded
ironic
again, I can asure you no sane normal person would regularly visit a site where he's at all times just one scroll away from an extreme close-up of Nikocado Avocado's brown coinslot butthole while having to dodge literal cancer banner ads and wait 60 seconds and solve captchas in order to anonymously post on that same site
So what are you going here?
because I'm clearly not normal, like anyone else who spends his free time arguing in adult virgin threads on Cinemaphile
you can call it group therapy. normies always talk about therapy, while they gobble up 5 kinds of anti-dipressents. 4 in 5 girls in her 20s is on drugs in america.
you can always go back to plebbit, you easily offended normie NPC.
yes, normalgays are easily offended and they would never regularly visit and post on sites like these, thanks for proving my point
>just one scroll away from an extreme close-up of Nikocado Avocado's brown coinslot butthole
I just browsed through the catalog for you. Bare-assed black women in nazi uniforms were the biggest (and likely only) offender here.
I'm having regular sex though. One of us has failed a lot more than the other 😉
Cope however you'd like, tradcuck
NTA but you've failed as a man also for being here
t. sex haver
If you judge a man primarily by the value he provides to women, then I don't consider you to be a man.
>sex is about providing value to a woman
Only a virign would say this lmao. Thanks for the blazing hot take though
The only difference between a man who has had sex and a man who hasn't is that the former provides more value to women. Ergo, if you judge men on that standard, you are concerned primarily with how much value men provide to women. Which makes you a woman.
>Only a virign would say this
Men literally cannot be virgins. That's a paradoxical statement. Virgins are women, they always have been. Women who have not had sex are highly desirable in every civilization, the same is not true for men. When a woman has sex, it changes her psychologically and physiologically, the same is not true for men.
The concept of a "male virgin" was invented by feminists attempting to 'level the playing field' and rate men by the same standard that men regard women, only their standard is based entirely on how much sexual pleasure they can receive from a man, while men valuing virgins is based primarily on their ability to provide healthy heirs, which contributes to society. Women having more sexual pleasure does not benefit society. The concept of a male virgin is inherently hedonistic, and if you use that term your opinion has zero value. You are only concerned with immediate pleasure and cannot make arguments on a moral level.
Holy cope
Not arguments. My point exactly. Why should I regard your opinions with any value at all? You go through life assuming that your opinion follows the majority with no awareness of how bizarre and unnatural you actually appear to normal people.
Holy truth
Tldr
Have you never heard that relationships work 2 ways? This thread is rotted to the core, I cannot save anyone here
This is a funny movie but not nearly as funny as people make it out to be, I mean the humor is mostly just foul language.
>WOW THAT'S A HYDROGEN MOLECULE AND TWO OXYGEN MOLECULES. I LOOK AT IT AND GET THIRSTY. I WANT TO DRINK WATER.
Pathetic.
>lust and the need to drink water are the exact same things
oh yeah
enjoy the lake of fire
Both are innate desires which are fundamental for the survival of the species.
I lost my virginity at 19. After that I only had some sort of sexual relations with prostitutes.
I'll die alone, homie.
There are two women who each live a few hours away from where I live now and they have both told me they want to frick but I'm afraid of spilling my spaghetti so I've canceled plans numerous times with them. I am a 28 year old virgin shut-in.
I don't know why I'm sitting here. I almost never share your opinion on movies, much less life. Yes, I'm single and barely work, but I don't hate women, I'm not racist or homophobic, and I'm also very loyal to movies I don't like
When Cinemaphile was down I made myself some scrambled eggs, put it on toast, and layered a fried egg on top of that. Halfway through eating it, I started crying and don't know why.
>6'2
>7 inch dick
>have been called handsome by women
>still virgin because I'm an autistic NEET
God had to nerf me with autism because I would simply be too powerful otherwise
It's your fault then
Threadly reminder that “they” hate guys who are alone and fine with it
If you learned to live alone and take care/ignore your sexual needs, you are going to be just fine, don’t fall for the roast monster psyop, even from the manprostitutes who desperately try to flex on you (they’re low IQ shitwits)
I'm an incel who's fine with living alone and this is cope. You are missing out on a fundamental near-universal aspect of humanity.
HahahahahabHAHAHAHAHAAHHAHAHAHA
I lost it at 23 and it was so crazy, its all i could think about, like i wasn't even ugly and my frienda uglier than me were getting laid. It really fricks with your head, but once you finally have sex you literally never worry about it again. Its such a weight lifted off your shoulders you feel like you can do anything
Nah after I haven't had sex for a few years I start to feel similar to the way I was as a virgin. Socializing ect does require practice
I really wonder how much clearer my brain would be if i just got laid
I'm always feeling depressed, unmotivated, anxious etc
thinking than getting laid is some magical ritual that will do a 180 on your personality is the most virgin thing i read all thread
Nah having sex makes you think more clearly for sure if it has been a while it never
I mean, it must have some impact right?
Your brain would be telling you:
>"Hey, we did it! Our genes are actually worth passing on! You aren't a complete subhuman!"
That must have some positive impact, right?
that depends on your mentality and the value you assign to sex, you could have the same impact as training hard for a chess tournament and winning it if chess was your thing
It’s not about your mentality, it’s nature’s anti-depressant. If you were depressed, odds are you could be 100% better if you went from a loveless touchless virgin to in a positive relationship. It’s why people get depressed right after a breakup. It’s not so much losing the partner as you go off your natural chemical reward structures. Just orgasming inside a vegana triggers oxotyin which you can’t really get from anything else, expect maybe petting a kitten, but it’s nowhere near as much
The fact that this is the only value women bring is a lot more depressing.
I'd rather have a woman to talk to them you homosexuals. Having a partner is an emotional support system unless you're moronic and or choose wrong
>I'd rather have a woman to talk to
you must be a woman
pls be in london
>I'd rather have a woman to talk to them you homosexuals
No, you wouldn't. Otherwise you'd be doing that right now.
>Having a partner is an emotional support system
Virgin?
What kind of next level projection is this? How can you argue against something which is so obviously true. Unless you’re in a seriously messed up relationship, they’re going emotional support. Having someone who cares about you and will be nice and loving would quite naturally be supportive
>Having someone who cares about you and will be nice and loving would quite naturally be supportive
Yeah no shit. I'm talking about real life though, not a Nicholas Sparks novel.
It’s not Nicholas Sparks. I’m not saying you’re going to be like Romeo and Juliet or always doing baby talk, but they’ll at least listen to your problems, or you’ll have someone to lay on a couch with and other things, it’s definitely emotional support
>but they’ll at least listen to your problems
When put in technical terms, sure, they have an auditory organ that will detect your complains and proceed to laugh at you internally, if not externally.
Just don't make the mistake of ever complaining about shit that is too real, they'll see you as a loser forever.
Best to just discuss mundane shit and play the normie part.
Don't read too much into the negativity here. A lot of these guys have physical and mental disabilities. This is the extend of their socialization.
Yeah I couldn’t really agree more
It’s not a buzzword. You’re coming across like a major incel to any ordinary person, and I don’t use the word incel lightly
>lightly
you used the buzzword 4 times in a row in 3 posts.
Imagine how dark the world would be if you had Spina bifida or some shit this place really would seem like a glowing beacon of freedom but you'd be angry and lashing out at people suggesting it's possible to live a normal life
I’m not even angry. I’m just confused why people think that they’re convincingly not an incel when they’re saying the most clueless and virgin shit I’ve ever read in my life
Nah it makes me furious to be an ugkyvshort weird moron but have sex multiple times then see people using absolute coping mechanisms about why they dont have sex. You're making excuses and I have to read them all god damn day I waste my fricking time here. If I can have sex but you can't there is something literally wrong with you and if that's the case I'm sorry I ever said anything. I'm out of the car and done wasting my time in this thread
weak larp
I'm sorry the truth hurts anon. Please keep pretending real life is like your lovey dovey gay movies.
>Having someone who cares about you and will be nice and loving would quite naturally be supportive
wake up. real life is calling.
You don’t know anything about real life or relationships, you pretending otherwise is a joke
He's closer to the truth than you are
The incels are closer to the truth huh? What a joke. It would be funny if it were also sad
if you can use buzzwords like incel, then i can call you a fricking homosexual
Why would you immediately assume he's an incel? The vast majority of couples break up or get divorced. You'd think that wouldn't be the case if things were as good as you romanticize them to be.
Yeah, I think it’s commonly known that a lot of people eventually breakup or get a divorce. It doesn’t mean that’s how the relationship was when it started or at its peak. If you’re going to say stuff that sounds like you have the life experience of a third grader, what else can I assume about them than they’re incels
> It doesn’t mean that’s how the relationship was when it started or at its peak
Yeah, because people were keeping up appearances. They didn't let their guard down in other words. Don't get me wrong, I think a relationship can be maintained for a long time if you put a mask on. But that's not what true connection is about.
It’s not that hard to have an emotional bond with someone. It’s actually pretty easy to fall in love with someone. I don’t know why this is like some sort of thing that sounds unrealistic to you. Do you think most people aren’t affectionate with their partners, and wouldn’t get emotional support? There’s no sense arguing because no one can be this stupid and think otherwise
>It’s not that hard to have an emotional bond with someone
As long as you abide by certain rules and never reveal too much of yourself or be too vulnerable. In a controlled environment, it's possible for a time. I attribute this mainly to the fact that a woman is bound to get bored and engage in discussions with you out of that alone. Not so much out of some genuine care.
>It’s actually pretty easy to fall in love with someone.
No one claimed otherwise.
> Do you think most people aren’t affectionate with their partners, and wouldn’t get emotional support?
Yes, I do.
Well if you’re going to need to trauma dump, you should probably tell it to a therapist, because obviously there’s a certain limit to how vulnerable and weak you should make yourself to a partner. If you’re not even that messed up, though, you can pretty much just share whatever, and it’s no big deal. You’re not always trying to turn someone on 24/7 when you’re in a relationship, so there’s times you can just share something that’s bothering you and it’s not going to hurt anything. I think mainly what is confusing you is these are problems you have, and you’re thinking this is a problem that everyone else would have too with women. I’m sorry but it’s pretty normal to just get into a relationship and do all of the other things that I said. Maybe you just need to work on yourself before you’re ready for that
>and it’s no big deal
It's ammunition is what it is.
>so there’s times you can just share something that’s bothering you
It really depends on what that is. Generally, I would not advise you to do so.
Many women will take great pleasure in the fact that something is bringing you discomfort/pain, etcetera.
Nah man, I’m sorry but you’re lost buddy. It’s not ammunition unless things are going to end up severely dysfunctional and you would be at the point of breaking up anyway. If you don’t have any major problems, then you shouldn’t even be giving ammunition to really hurt you anyway. I’m talking just about sharing stuff that is stressing you out, or maybe something that sort of hurt you a little bit. Not like major things that would come back to bite you
you life in a dream, where everything is butterflys and rainbows. if a woman leaves you, she already has a back up man and is calling him, the second you kick her out.
I've had three long term gfs and those were the best times of my life. It just feels good having someone to bounce ideas off of and to have someone to wake up to in the morning very cozy.
I'm looking again.
>You wouldn't. Otherwise you'd be doing that right now
That's some really dumb logic. You're posting on 4chsn right now so that means you'd rather be doing that instead of literally anything else?
I would if I was still in a relationship
I kind of doubt that but good for you if managed to somehow find 3 women fit for dating. Even one is something of a small miracle nowadays.
Your mother is the only woman who is hardwired to feel pity for you and be an emotional support system.
Don't expect this from women unless you're ready for a disappointment. You'll have to be the best boyfriend in the world for the exchange of a bland spaghetti dinner and maybe, just maybe some missionary sex.
You will continue being depressed, unmotivated, and anxious but your self-esteem would be a bit better for a time because you know you aren't irredeemably unlovable.
blah blah chad blah blah women blah blah
Lets talk about the real issue, you WONT LOWER YOUR STANDARDS, there a women out there available for all of you
This. Just lower your standards and date a radfem.
Sounds like you're taking internet comments at their word, but incels are world champions at the whole coping thing. Nobody's really holding out for a perfect 10 blonde virgin tradwife, they just say they are. In reality there isn't an incel on the planet who wouldn't accept if a morbidly obese black woman with a colostomy bag hit on them.
This is also a cope. You have not moved on.
>who wouldn't accept if a morbidly obese black woman with a colostomy bag hit on them
Yeah, nah
Just re-watched this the other day and realized that they never actually state his age.
the question: was he autistic? he cannot function in the work force. cannot hold small talk or imagine himself in the mind of others.
Only 2 more years
>totally unrealistic premise
>Where are the condoms, Jeremy?
>What?
>The condos. Where are the condoms?
>I thought you were getting the condoms.
>You what?
>NO CONDOMS? You fricking idiot, Jeremy! You total fricking idiot! That was YOUR job, you fricking moron! You cretin! YOU'RE A FRICKHEAD! THAT'S WHAT YOU ARE! A FRICKING SHITHEAD!
>It was a joke, Mark. I was joking. It was a virgin joke.
10/10 bait OP
>lost my virginity at 20
Phew almost didn't make the cut.
I'm a 26yo kissless hugless virgin and I accepted my fate a long time ago. Why can't you gays just move on?
Most people can. These threads are made by women who can't even lock down your average incel, they're that low on the hierarchy.
>6 months in to my 24th year on god’s green earth
>no prior relationship experience to speak of
>still nowhere close to getting a gf
looks like it’s gonna be another wasted year boys
How do these threads always hit the bump limit?
Cinemaphile has been "invaded" by normies , but its always been a hub for social misfits.
Is it odd that I made out with a girl, enjoyed it, and then just completely stopped anything romance at all? This happened years ago...
I find it odd how you can enjoy making out. To me, I just get a sensational like a spider is on my tongue and I’m tasting orange sour skittles. You don’t even want to know what it feels like when my balls are getting cupped
I'm kind of like that. I enjoy relationships but mostly under the agreement that it's an on and off thing, and that can't happen.
Reason being is that I need to recharge after spending too much time around someone.
I slept with a total of 3 women, and got close with approx. 6 (like meaning, i felt them up and made out with them, and in one case they went down on me), but in NO case was I able to cum. And I know, "you must be GAY", but no, my best friend was in love with me, was gay, and I could NOT get it up for him either, men are fricking disgusting. I ended up having to never speak with him again.
bascially...I am not able to enjoy a physical relationship with men or women. So...I mean, whatever. Maybe we should have gone to war and got killed or some shit. Sex with women was enjoyable, sure....but...it just wasn't as amazing as I expected. Frankly, I would rather someone give me a shot of Morphine as opposed to fricking an attractive woman.