>Be me, work as a retail store vendor >Have to go to several stores in my territory >Get along with one of the girls at my store >Start talking to her >She gets touchy and smiles at me >Want to wait until I leave my job to ask her out >Few months later, abruptly quit job because of manager >Decide to go to her store on my day off at new job >See her with a baby bump >Left the store ASAP
Western women rejected you. You're like a homeless bum who refuses free food because it isn't what you "deserve". You are a homosexual. Go frick some chinkoid and make her happy.
KEK
When women get pregnant their hormones shift their preferences away from masculine men whose offspring they want to bear towards beta males who seem like big enough suckers to raise another man's offspring
That's why she was so friendly before she started showing. Lmao
I would fricking murder hundreds of people to go back to 2013. It really felt like the last year humantiy was optimistic about the future and affording your basic needs wasn't getting more fricked by the day. I grew up during a great decade and hit adulthood for just long enough to know what I'd never get to enjoy again.
>I would fricking murder hundreds of people to go back to 2013.
there are hundreds of people directly and unashamedly responsible for how shit society has become, and you could hypothetically murder them today to make society more like it was in 2013, but you won't.
Yeah, life isn't fair. Some babies die minutes after being born, some are literally ripped apart while still inside their mothers through abortions. Some kids get deadly diseases or get run over. Some teenagers get sent to war and blown up. You've made it this far, be grateful for what you have you fricking homosexual.
She's just busy
Her phone died, she didn't see your text
She was tired
She had class in the morning
Her friend was visiting from out of time
Her dog was sick
Which isn't even the case in the movie bc she tells him over and over she wanted nothing serious and their relationship was casual-- and ofc every time he overinvested she understandably became more embarrassed/repulsed by him.
She wanted nothing serious with HIM. She's not obliged to feel the same towards men she considered better/more attractive than the JGL character and she never said she wanted to spend her entire life in a casual relationship or moving from fling to fling.
She found a guy she considered husband material, he felt the same towards her and they married.
women are manipulative creatures, learn to read between the lines.
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Anonymous
And the thing is: she was utterly unambiguous about considering their relationship just a casual thing. She said it to his face more than once.
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
>with him
Leaving that part out was ambiguous and manipulative.
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
Why? She wasn't beholden to him in any sense about her private life or plans.
Telling him she wanted nothing serious with him should suffice. What she'd do in the future shouldn't concern him and vice-versa.
pretty much, she told him from the start she wasn't into him
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yes anon, she wanted nothing serious with HIM, women won't tell you upfront that they're talking about you specifically, so they sugarcoat it by being vague and not wanting anything serious "in general"
if a girl doesn't make it clear she wants to be with you from the get go, have some self respect and move on.
This. Girls do stuff like this all the time. They like having entertaining guys around for good sex but know he isn't good enough to sacrifice their long-term freedom and options.
I've been the victim of it - twice actually. It's easy to get caught up in the emotions when you're talking to someone daily and they're lusting for your wiener 24/7. But remember, if a girl wants you for a serious relationship she won't ever say she's only looking for casual. She'll tie you down immediately.
>This. Girls do stuff like this all the time.
And it happens the other way around-- we have flings with women and if one of them gets attached when we don't feel the same we distance ourselves from them. >if a girl wants you for a serious relationship she won't ever say she's only looking for casual. She'll tie you down immediately.
True. At least she'll try and if there's mutual longterm interesting then it's a serious relationship.
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
>we have flings with women and if one of them gets attached when we don't feel the same we distance ourselves from them.
Who is we? The vast majority of the male population does not have multiple relationship or sexual options. It's insanely hard to get one girl interested and it's why we get caught up in emotions so fast even when she only wants casual.
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
>The vast majority of the male population does not have multiple relationship or sexual options.
That varies from place to place and generation to generation. The Cinemaphile audience, at least the more vocal one when it comes to relationships etc, seems to face more sexual scarcity than others.
But the rules are the same regardless of how easy or hard it is for you to get women, namely: you can't onesidedly expect to make it a longterm attachment.
In fact (as the movie abundantly shows) the second you display neediness/lack of options whatever remains of desire/attraction in the other person tends to disappear and become a type of repulsion.
Your best bet is to always be ready to break up and if the other person starts it be resilient and act casual rather than desperate about it.
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
>the second you display neediness/lack of options whatever remains of desire/attraction in the other person tends to disappear and become a type of repulsion.
I completely agree but the sad reality is female hypergamy has ruined the average man's opportunities to reliably find women for intimacy. It's hard to not look desperate or overly attached when maybe 1 women every year shows sexual interest in you despite massive efforts.
Men should have options. But it's a losing game now and after years alone what else can you do other than get attached to the first person who holds you?
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
>female hypergamy has ruined the average man's opportunities to reliably find women for intimacy
Keep in mind that
1-not everyone is meant to develop longterm relationships
2-that said, you have social value (steady job, emotional balance, social skills) it's not that hard to find a woman once you're realistic about your prospects
3-unless you're very poor/hideous/disabled many men who are less attractive/less wealthy than you do find women to date and mate.
4-if you don't, b***hing about it constantly makes your chances even slimmer as it's not just a self-fulfilling prophecy (it gives you a less attractive vibe) but it's also a waste of precious time.
Cherish the relationships you do have while you have them and make the most out of life regardless of being single or not.
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
I know you're trying to inject hope fuel but statistically speaking it's unlikely an average young man will ever find a women who loves him. And I don't want to wait until I'm 32 to date a 33yr women that wouldn't have looked at me twice a decade ago and got fricked countless times by 6'2 collegiate athletes.
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
I'm trying to be very realistic and not shying away from prospects such as marrying women you find less attractive (never single mothers though, only raise your own children) or even living a bachelor's life either by yourself or with your parents. All of those alternatives can be as good as if not better than marrying the wrong woman, being unhappy/divorce-raped etc.
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
Unfortunately, yes, many of us face the bad or worse options of being forever alone (by choice), or the marriage->divorce court pipeline.
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
Being forever alone is far from being the worst scenario.
Anyone else reached the "acceptance" stage of the grief of being forever alone?
Honestly, it's sort of liberating. Being single isn't that bad, guys >never have to worry about cheating drama, pregnancy scares, STDs, or losing all my shit in a divorce >can do whatever I want, whenever I want >get to spend all my hard-earned money on myself
This is the natural outcome of a certain realistic and unfazed wisdom. Doing the best with what we have and what we can accomplish.
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
>Being forever alone is far from being the worst scenario.
I know. To me, divorce hell would be worse.
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
it's not just the "Cinemaphile audience" it's over 65% of all young western men today being chronically single and/or virgins, and that number grows every year instead of shrinking as you'd expect it to as men get older. western culture and society is literally collapsing in real time and nobody seems to care, or they downplay the problem, or they're just ignorant to it.
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
Where did you get this 65%?
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
latest sex poll by the UN
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
Link it, nothing coming up on google.
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
it varies slightly by country (a few %) but pew research has the US at 63% in the 18-29 range for men in 2023. unsurprisingly it's half that for women as the top percentages of men start forming dating app harems.
if the main character had even a little self respect this movie would be called 30 days of summer and 470 days of doing literally anything else with my free time instead of investing it into an attention vaccum that is being extremely up front with me about what she sees me as
pretty much, she told him from the start she wasn't into him
>she tells him over and over she wanted nothing serious >gets married
ok
yes anon, she wanted nothing serious with HIM, women won't tell you upfront that they're talking about you specifically, so they sugarcoat it by being vague and not wanting anything serious "in general"
if a girl doesn't make it clear she wants to be with you from the get go, have some self respect and move on.
>she wanted nothing serious with him >women won't tell you upfront
ahahahahahahahahahahahaahahahahaahahahahaahahahahaahahahaha yet she fricks up his life without caring to explain and fricking marries another one after fricking up the guy's life
women are fricking unhinged they're worse than israelites
>she fricks up his life
He does that himself, she's not his mommy and he's an adult. He has agency and we're not responsible for how other ppl-- men or women-- feel about us.
If someone is in love with you but the feeling's not mutual it's the other person has to work through the heartbreak, learn from the experience and move the frick on.
An important lesson, now more than ever: your feelz are yours, other ppl and society are not responsible for them.
he's a massive moron for fricking up his shit, That's true but she's also responsible for fricking him up
I'm being 100% prejudical and unbiased when i say that she was more at fault, She literally let him frick him ????? I mean what the frick why would she even let him frick her i mean?????? If it's a platonic relationship then Sex literally means it's a profound relationship even leading to somewhere else.
He's literally the same as her they have both things in common why the frick was she trying to project somethnig else ?????????? Why the frick then she married another person who literally was a stranger ??? It's so fricking absurd, Very absurd, Even the virtue of the absurd cannot recognize the insanity of a female
but it's his fault for being a dumbass
>That's true but she's also responsible for fricking him up
Not in the least bc she was upfront. Women we date are not our mommies. >She literally let him frick him ?????
This is 2024 anon, don't embarrass yourself. Sex is very far from being "profound" unless you're talking from a very specific cultural/regional perspective. >Why the frick then she married another person who literally was a stranger ???
We don't know that bc time passed after their breakup and during that time she met this other guy and got engaged.
I think JGL's biggest mistake is to keep thinking emotions and sex were intertwined in his relationship w/ Summer when she was clear about it being casual and mostly sexual.
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Anonymous
>bc she was upfront
totally not a subjective opinion, She literally was fricking upfront i don't give a frick what that prostitute was saying, But bulging into a fricking lonely moron then you're definitely giving him signs that you like him even tho you don't >sex is not profound
I don't give a frick but having sex with your friend is not socially acceptable atleast it implies that there is something, I mean what the frick ? Am i now an old person ? >we don't know
Exactly, got engaged easily but why didn't she choose the other is just absurd
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
>totally not a subjective opinion
She tells it to his face, over and over, she's not interested in a serious relationship. She was obviously going for a casual FWB pastime. Sexual behavior does not necessarily entail the prospect of a longterm partnership in Western societies. >having sex with your friend is not socially acceptable atleast it implies that there is something,
See above. Casual sex runs rampant. >why didn't she choose the other
Because the guy who she got engaged to seemed better to her-- which is 100% her (and everyone's) prerogative.
When they meet later she tells JGL's character she never felt "sure" about him, and he does realize at some point that their relationship was indeed fraught with personal differences.
it's not just the "Cinemaphile audience" it's over 65% of all young western men today being chronically single and/or virgins, and that number grows every year instead of shrinking as you'd expect it to as men get older. western culture and society is literally collapsing in real time and nobody seems to care, or they downplay the problem, or they're just ignorant to it.
>it's over 65% of all young western men today being chronically single and/or virgins,
If the data's correct it's mostly millennials I assume (not least bc some zoomers are still around 12-13).
The data about single women would be interesting for comparison purposes. Society is changing fast, no question about it, and the main issue in the West/Japan/Korea isn't even singlehood, it's low birthrates.
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
>If the data's correct it's mostly millennials I assume
it's the 18-29 range, which includes the very youngest tip of millennials but is mostly zoomers.
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
"Single" in this case meaning "not dating/not in a relationship" instead of "not married"?
>I could've played anything and they would've fell for it
Hotel Mira has gotten me laid a few times. It's a suitably enjoyable alt-rock band that not many average white women have heard so they treat it like the best shit ever after a few drinks.
The only thing I hate more than prostitutes are simps who can't read the room.
Imagine staying with a c**t who tells you to your face that she doesn't want anything serious with you and you're just her pass time.
But that was JGL’s point, she overstepped that where it was clearly more than just sex. The night she comes over in the rain even though he told her he didn’t want to keep going the way things were. He thought that was their next step in the relationship
His fault for not understanding that she wasn't done with attention whoring yet, never once in the movie did she explicitly state it, she simply led him on and he was too up his own fantasies to see the rug being pulled underneath him.
>He thought
Self-delusion. She was clear about their relationship being very casual and no-strings attached. Wanting to frick/feeling lonely didn't mean she wanted to spend the rest of her life with him lol
going after a girl that looks like Zooey. You know you're competing with at least 100 simps.
Every girl I have been with has had that one guy that sends her poetry and gifts all the time. Generally they are fat loser incels but after awhile they just get annoying. My last gf I told her to stop talking to the guy and start refusing his gifts as it was inappropriate. I told her it was that or I was leaving.
It's absolutely insane that every girl has at least one guy like that attached to them. If you're reading this and you're "that guy" you should unironically have a nice day.
I genuinely despise orbiters like this, all that wasted effort on someone who doesn't consider you an option at all.
If these guys just shot their shot and moved on after getting rejected their chances of finding someone would drastically improve, there's plenty of fish in the sea
>my last gf i told her to stop talking to the guy and start refusing his gifts
>but noooooo you don't understand he showers me with attention and makes me feel important even tho i don't consider him that's why i can't block him my boyfriend :3
Females are fricking insane they're fricking insane bro, They'll literally keep a fricking orbitter and let him send messages and won't even budge to block him or do any shit because the attention they get is insanely benefetial to them so she can keep ignoring your messages
I rewatched the movie 2 times, She's at fault for being a fricking prostitute who literally cannot say no
He also needed to not be a fricking moron and just go for her even when she shows she doesn't want to but i guess loneliness does that
Man at least you guys seem normal and suffering from a general loneliness so there is hope for you.
Meanwhile I have an autistic fixation on an actress and legit don't care about anyone else. A legit naturally gorgeous, kind, intelligent woman could show interest in me and I would reject her. I'm still straight so I have a preference towards women but I don't feel any attraction or lust towards other women. I can find other women attractive but it's similar how I can find a dude handsome purely aesthetically.
Anyone else reached the "acceptance" stage of the grief of being forever alone?
Honestly, it's sort of liberating. Being single isn't that bad, guys >never have to worry about cheating drama, pregnancy scares, STDs, or losing all my shit in a divorce >can do whatever I want, whenever I want >get to spend all my hard-earned money on myself
What brought you this acceptance? Did you attempt what seems to me the best path (get out more, build a social network, meet people, not just women, by doing things)?
>What brought you this acceptance?
I realized I have absolutely no clue how to interact with normies and that being alone, although depressing, is better than the anxiety that comes with talking to women
I'm here too. 32 years old. Dated some girls a while back. Realized I'm simply too asocial and depressed to have another person in my life. I've started to enjoy and cherish solitude. For all my time is mine own.
>Be me, work as a retail store vendor
>Have to go to several stores in my territory
>Get along with one of the girls at my store
>Start talking to her
>She gets touchy and smiles at me
>Want to wait until I leave my job to ask her out
>Few months later, abruptly quit job because of manager
>Decide to go to her store on my day off at new job
>See her with a baby bump
>Left the store ASAP
Based manager protecting his territory
Her mom is the store manager so I'm not sure it's even a coworker of hers
I'm more embarassed you're reposting this.
Theres 3 billion adult women out there quit acting like a gay over just 1
>3 billion women
>2.9 billion of those are pajeet and chang women
>100 million or less worth dating
At least get your stats right.
And why do you think you're too good for some jeet or chang? You're a Cinemaphile incel, get a grip.
Western women rejected you. You're like a homeless bum who refuses free food because it isn't what you "deserve". You are a homosexual. Go frick some chinkoid and make her happy.
Would be easier if you homosexuals stopped marrying up all the women so quickly.
you get what you deserve b***h. Next time don't forget about your credits in the cooler and check your fricking outdates.
Why are you spamming this fake story everywhere?
KEK
When women get pregnant their hormones shift their preferences away from masculine men whose offspring they want to bear towards beta males who seem like big enough suckers to raise another man's offspring
That's why she was so friendly before she started showing. Lmao
At least she isn't getting fricked downstairs while he waits upstairs for her to "find her phone"
Early millennial adulthood (2005-2014) was so comfy. Shame about how everything turned out.
Yeah, I had a blast from 19 to about 31. Should have been a lot more considerate of the future. Now paying the price.
you need to get old so others can be young
I would fricking murder hundreds of people to go back to 2013. It really felt like the last year humantiy was optimistic about the future and affording your basic needs wasn't getting more fricked by the day. I grew up during a great decade and hit adulthood for just long enough to know what I'd never get to enjoy again.
>I would fricking murder hundreds of people to go back to 2013.
there are hundreds of people directly and unashamedly responsible for how shit society has become, and you could hypothetically murder them today to make society more like it was in 2013, but you won't.
It was the end of an era. They said the world would end in 2012, and they were right.
This is life as a white man in 2024
>this is unfair
Sometimes life is shit for people who don't deserve it.
Yeah, life isn't fair. Some babies die minutes after being born, some are literally ripped apart while still inside their mothers through abortions. Some kids get deadly diseases or get run over. Some teenagers get sent to war and blown up. You've made it this far, be grateful for what you have you fricking homosexual.
He put himself in that situation. Sexual selection isn't about "fairness".
She's just busy
Her phone died, she didn't see your text
She was tired
She had class in the morning
Her friend was visiting from out of time
Her dog was sick
Which isn't even the case in the movie bc she tells him over and over she wanted nothing serious and their relationship was casual-- and ofc every time he overinvested she understandably became more embarrassed/repulsed by him.
>she tells him over and over she wanted nothing serious
>gets married
ok
She found the right guy (rich chad). JGL was too emotional and had feminine traits
>Believing women
lmao you're still a virgin right?
She wanted nothing serious with HIM. She's not obliged to feel the same towards men she considered better/more attractive than the JGL character and she never said she wanted to spend her entire life in a casual relationship or moving from fling to fling.
She found a guy she considered husband material, he felt the same towards her and they married.
Ohhhh ok. See. Maybe should have said that.
women are manipulative creatures, learn to read between the lines.
And the thing is: she was utterly unambiguous about considering their relationship just a casual thing. She said it to his face more than once.
>with him
Leaving that part out was ambiguous and manipulative.
Why? She wasn't beholden to him in any sense about her private life or plans.
Telling him she wanted nothing serious with him should suffice. What she'd do in the future shouldn't concern him and vice-versa.
This. Girls do stuff like this all the time. They like having entertaining guys around for good sex but know he isn't good enough to sacrifice their long-term freedom and options.
I've been the victim of it - twice actually. It's easy to get caught up in the emotions when you're talking to someone daily and they're lusting for your wiener 24/7. But remember, if a girl wants you for a serious relationship she won't ever say she's only looking for casual. She'll tie you down immediately.
>This. Girls do stuff like this all the time.
And it happens the other way around-- we have flings with women and if one of them gets attached when we don't feel the same we distance ourselves from them.
>if a girl wants you for a serious relationship she won't ever say she's only looking for casual. She'll tie you down immediately.
True. At least she'll try and if there's mutual longterm interesting then it's a serious relationship.
>we have flings with women and if one of them gets attached when we don't feel the same we distance ourselves from them.
Who is we? The vast majority of the male population does not have multiple relationship or sexual options. It's insanely hard to get one girl interested and it's why we get caught up in emotions so fast even when she only wants casual.
>The vast majority of the male population does not have multiple relationship or sexual options.
That varies from place to place and generation to generation. The Cinemaphile audience, at least the more vocal one when it comes to relationships etc, seems to face more sexual scarcity than others.
But the rules are the same regardless of how easy or hard it is for you to get women, namely: you can't onesidedly expect to make it a longterm attachment.
In fact (as the movie abundantly shows) the second you display neediness/lack of options whatever remains of desire/attraction in the other person tends to disappear and become a type of repulsion.
Your best bet is to always be ready to break up and if the other person starts it be resilient and act casual rather than desperate about it.
>the second you display neediness/lack of options whatever remains of desire/attraction in the other person tends to disappear and become a type of repulsion.
I completely agree but the sad reality is female hypergamy has ruined the average man's opportunities to reliably find women for intimacy. It's hard to not look desperate or overly attached when maybe 1 women every year shows sexual interest in you despite massive efforts.
Men should have options. But it's a losing game now and after years alone what else can you do other than get attached to the first person who holds you?
>female hypergamy has ruined the average man's opportunities to reliably find women for intimacy
Keep in mind that
1-not everyone is meant to develop longterm relationships
2-that said, you have social value (steady job, emotional balance, social skills) it's not that hard to find a woman once you're realistic about your prospects
3-unless you're very poor/hideous/disabled many men who are less attractive/less wealthy than you do find women to date and mate.
4-if you don't, b***hing about it constantly makes your chances even slimmer as it's not just a self-fulfilling prophecy (it gives you a less attractive vibe) but it's also a waste of precious time.
Cherish the relationships you do have while you have them and make the most out of life regardless of being single or not.
I know you're trying to inject hope fuel but statistically speaking it's unlikely an average young man will ever find a women who loves him. And I don't want to wait until I'm 32 to date a 33yr women that wouldn't have looked at me twice a decade ago and got fricked countless times by 6'2 collegiate athletes.
I'm trying to be very realistic and not shying away from prospects such as marrying women you find less attractive (never single mothers though, only raise your own children) or even living a bachelor's life either by yourself or with your parents. All of those alternatives can be as good as if not better than marrying the wrong woman, being unhappy/divorce-raped etc.
Unfortunately, yes, many of us face the bad or worse options of being forever alone (by choice), or the marriage->divorce court pipeline.
Being forever alone is far from being the worst scenario.
This is the natural outcome of a certain realistic and unfazed wisdom. Doing the best with what we have and what we can accomplish.
>Being forever alone is far from being the worst scenario.
I know. To me, divorce hell would be worse.
it's not just the "Cinemaphile audience" it's over 65% of all young western men today being chronically single and/or virgins, and that number grows every year instead of shrinking as you'd expect it to as men get older. western culture and society is literally collapsing in real time and nobody seems to care, or they downplay the problem, or they're just ignorant to it.
Where did you get this 65%?
latest sex poll by the UN
Link it, nothing coming up on google.
it varies slightly by country (a few %) but pew research has the US at 63% in the 18-29 range for men in 2023. unsurprisingly it's half that for women as the top percentages of men start forming dating app harems.
>Fricks a prostitute
>Surprised at the outcome
>Copes beyond cope
>Ends coping even more
Yeah whatever dude
>she takes days to reply to you
>you reply within the hour
Why do you do this Anon?
if the main character had even a little self respect this movie would be called 30 days of summer and 470 days of doing literally anything else with my free time instead of investing it into an attention vaccum that is being extremely up front with me about what she sees me as
>470 days of doing literally anything else with my free time
like posting on Cinemaphile?
pretty much, she told him from the start she wasn't into him
yes anon, she wanted nothing serious with HIM, women won't tell you upfront that they're talking about you specifically, so they sugarcoat it by being vague and not wanting anything serious "in general"
if a girl doesn't make it clear she wants to be with you from the get go, have some self respect and move on.
>she wanted nothing serious with him
>women won't tell you upfront
ahahahahahahahahahahahaahahahahaahahahahaahahahahaahahahaha yet she fricks up his life without caring to explain and fricking marries another one after fricking up the guy's life
women are fricking unhinged they're worse than israelites
>she fricks up his life
He does that himself, she's not his mommy and he's an adult. He has agency and we're not responsible for how other ppl-- men or women-- feel about us.
If someone is in love with you but the feeling's not mutual it's the other person has to work through the heartbreak, learn from the experience and move the frick on.
An important lesson, now more than ever: your feelz are yours, other ppl and society are not responsible for them.
he's a massive moron for fricking up his shit, That's true but she's also responsible for fricking him up
I'm being 100% prejudical and unbiased when i say that she was more at fault, She literally let him frick him ????? I mean what the frick why would she even let him frick her i mean?????? If it's a platonic relationship then Sex literally means it's a profound relationship even leading to somewhere else.
He's literally the same as her they have both things in common why the frick was she trying to project somethnig else ?????????? Why the frick then she married another person who literally was a stranger ??? It's so fricking absurd, Very absurd, Even the virtue of the absurd cannot recognize the insanity of a female
but it's his fault for being a dumbass
>That's true but she's also responsible for fricking him up
Not in the least bc she was upfront. Women we date are not our mommies.
>She literally let him frick him ?????
This is 2024 anon, don't embarrass yourself. Sex is very far from being "profound" unless you're talking from a very specific cultural/regional perspective.
>Why the frick then she married another person who literally was a stranger ???
We don't know that bc time passed after their breakup and during that time she met this other guy and got engaged.
I think JGL's biggest mistake is to keep thinking emotions and sex were intertwined in his relationship w/ Summer when she was clear about it being casual and mostly sexual.
>bc she was upfront
totally not a subjective opinion, She literally was fricking upfront i don't give a frick what that prostitute was saying, But bulging into a fricking lonely moron then you're definitely giving him signs that you like him even tho you don't
>sex is not profound
I don't give a frick but having sex with your friend is not socially acceptable atleast it implies that there is something, I mean what the frick ? Am i now an old person ?
>we don't know
Exactly, got engaged easily but why didn't she choose the other is just absurd
>totally not a subjective opinion
She tells it to his face, over and over, she's not interested in a serious relationship. She was obviously going for a casual FWB pastime. Sexual behavior does not necessarily entail the prospect of a longterm partnership in Western societies.
>having sex with your friend is not socially acceptable atleast it implies that there is something,
See above. Casual sex runs rampant.
>why didn't she choose the other
Because the guy who she got engaged to seemed better to her-- which is 100% her (and everyone's) prerogative.
When they meet later she tells JGL's character she never felt "sure" about him, and he does realize at some point that their relationship was indeed fraught with personal differences.
>it's over 65% of all young western men today being chronically single and/or virgins,
If the data's correct it's mostly millennials I assume (not least bc some zoomers are still around 12-13).
The data about single women would be interesting for comparison purposes. Society is changing fast, no question about it, and the main issue in the West/Japan/Korea isn't even singlehood, it's low birthrates.
>If the data's correct it's mostly millennials I assume
it's the 18-29 range, which includes the very youngest tip of millennials but is mostly zoomers.
"Single" in this case meaning "not dating/not in a relationship" instead of "not married"?
That was just a dream. It never happened. The whole end section where he gets his shit back together doesn’t happen. Rewatch and you’ll see.
The smiths have unironically gotten me a few girls
same but I think it's probably the nice car and the mood, I could've played anything and they would've fell for it
>I could've played anything and they would've fell for it
Hotel Mira has gotten me laid a few times. It's a suitably enjoyable alt-rock band that not many average white women have heard so they treat it like the best shit ever after a few drinks.
both were shit people but her more so
>two israelites
This is true. Only white attractive people can relate to this movie.
If this was made today her husband would be black. Tell me that I’m wrong.
You’re not. And they’d make it explicit why she married him
The only thing I hate more than prostitutes are simps who can't read the room.
Imagine staying with a c**t who tells you to your face that she doesn't want anything serious with you and you're just her pass time.
But that was JGL’s point, she overstepped that where it was clearly more than just sex. The night she comes over in the rain even though he told her he didn’t want to keep going the way things were. He thought that was their next step in the relationship
His fault for not understanding that she wasn't done with attention whoring yet, never once in the movie did she explicitly state it, she simply led him on and he was too up his own fantasies to see the rug being pulled underneath him.
>He thought
Self-delusion. She was clear about their relationship being very casual and no-strings attached. Wanting to frick/feeling lonely didn't mean she wanted to spend the rest of her life with him lol
going after a girl that looks like Zooey. You know you're competing with at least 100 simps.
Every girl I have been with has had that one guy that sends her poetry and gifts all the time. Generally they are fat loser incels but after awhile they just get annoying. My last gf I told her to stop talking to the guy and start refusing his gifts as it was inappropriate. I told her it was that or I was leaving.
It's absolutely insane that every girl has at least one guy like that attached to them. If you're reading this and you're "that guy" you should unironically have a nice day.
I genuinely despise orbiters like this, all that wasted effort on someone who doesn't consider you an option at all.
If these guys just shot their shot and moved on after getting rejected their chances of finding someone would drastically improve, there's plenty of fish in the sea
>my last gf i told her to stop talking to the guy and start refusing his gifts
>but noooooo you don't understand he showers me with attention and makes me feel important even tho i don't consider him that's why i can't block him my boyfriend :3
Females are fricking insane they're fricking insane bro, They'll literally keep a fricking orbitter and let him send messages and won't even budge to block him or do any shit because the attention they get is insanely benefetial to them so she can keep ignoring your messages
I rewatched the movie 2 times, She's at fault for being a fricking prostitute who literally cannot say no
He also needed to not be a fricking moron and just go for her even when she shows she doesn't want to but i guess loneliness does that
I am 29 years old and I never even kissed a girl
Same but 39.
I still post Wojacks on Cinemaphile like some kind of 27 year old!
I'm 21 and i literally gave up lol
don't be a moron
you are so young that just a bit of progress every day will pay off over time
>Wojacks
>27 year old!
More like 14 year olds. Get your shit together anon.
I'm sure I don't need to fill this one out for you...
Man at least you guys seem normal and suffering from a general loneliness so there is hope for you.
Meanwhile I have an autistic fixation on an actress and legit don't care about anyone else. A legit naturally gorgeous, kind, intelligent woman could show interest in me and I would reject her. I'm still straight so I have a preference towards women but I don't feel any attraction or lust towards other women. I can find other women attractive but it's similar how I can find a dude handsome purely aesthetically.
That tells me there is something wrong with me.
You're the Gadon poster aren't you? You need to professional seek help, son
Anyone else reached the "acceptance" stage of the grief of being forever alone?
Honestly, it's sort of liberating. Being single isn't that bad, guys
>never have to worry about cheating drama, pregnancy scares, STDs, or losing all my shit in a divorce
>can do whatever I want, whenever I want
>get to spend all my hard-earned money on myself
What brought you this acceptance? Did you attempt what seems to me the best path (get out more, build a social network, meet people, not just women, by doing things)?
>What brought you this acceptance?
I realized I have absolutely no clue how to interact with normies and that being alone, although depressing, is better than the anxiety that comes with talking to women
I'm here too. 32 years old. Dated some girls a while back. Realized I'm simply too asocial and depressed to have another person in my life. I've started to enjoy and cherish solitude. For all my time is mine own.