>they're an idealized person
This but there's also two more major factors:
1 - all interaction with this "person" is either one-way or fantasy, it's literally impossible for the person to feel rejection or experience embarrassment
2 - through extensive media exposure the fictional character can become an ubiquitous fixture in the person's life (maybe one of very few), and one of the primary motivators of romance and eros is familiarity and regularity.
In general kids of both sexes are having far more parasocial relationships and dating far far far less. There are lots of proposed reasons but the most obvious one is simply that kids stay at home and frick around on screens all day instead of wandering around a mall or city center being bored. Hooking up used to just be something to do, and now it's something you essentially go out of your way to do.
IIRC these guys are Russian
Do you think they're still around and gathering in this manner? Imagine coming across them on a dark night, it would be incredible
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I hear it wasn't actually a cold thing bunch of bunch of guys who got too drunk one night decided to do something with an image of her and have sex with each other.
Anon we literally have pics and records of these people gathering regularly wtf do you mean, you think a buncha gay Russians just got soo fricked up during one of their drinking orgies they pulled out the GIANT FLAG OF THE CARTOON RAT they just casually had lying around and went out paying tribute to her in the night cold?
Yeah no, I believe the getting drunk and going to frick around outside in the snow, but I don't believe a buncha homosexual Russians just happened to gather for a sex party and had a random huge worship flag of Gadget somewhere
I'll sooner believe they're actually genuine Gadgetphiles, especially when there's many pictures of them doing this Also I think there's at least one if not several women in the group but that's unrelated
Real women are vapid. I mean, have you tried getting laid in 2023?
Cartoon characters are perfect and they don't age or hit the wall. Plus there's many more species than boring old humans.
We're post survival creatures. Once we got off the farm and stopped growing our own food, that was it. We're cows kept by a larger society, our docility enforced by research meant to trick our hominid brains in to thinking we're happy while we spin whatever hamster wheel we chose to run on to get points we exchange for food and pretty colors.
>What causes men to "fall in love" with cartoon characters?
The same reason shut-ins form "friendships" with imaginary people. Imaginary women have no agency, so the "relationship" can never be complicated by real friction over differences in wants or needs or other real-world concerns, and the "relationship" and can only be ended by the waifugay. In other words, it's an emotional coping mechanism for people who haven't yet solved the hedgehog's dilemma.
>Imaginary women have no agency, so the "relationship" can never be complicated by real friction over differences in wants or needs or other real-world concerns
Can understand this, but that doesn't stop me from being an ASMRgay. It's far far easier to get positivity from one-sided interactions without the risk of spilling your spaghetti
nobody chooses to be gay anon, they only choose to follow their attraction down the rabbit hole
the same goes for cartoon characters, cryptids, floor tiles, or anything else
this is also a thing - you need someone to snap you back to reality once in a while or you'll never progress socially as a result of this. good on you OP. that said, sharing the delusion isn't too bad either if you have friends in it with you which is why we have fanfiction circles and greentext stories. keep the balance and don't fall into the deep end.
>it's an emotional coping mechanism for people who haven't yet solved the hedgehog's dilemma
If the amount and quality of the "warmth" you get from having a waifu is equal or better than you could (realistically) get from a real woman, then the problem is solved, no?
>"noooo atay away from us, incel. no one will ever love you" >"ew dont fall in love with a fictional character, she'll never love you like a real woman would" >"noooo get away from us, we dont want you"
They usually had enclosed childhoods where their parents kept them from interacting from girls until they were "ready", as in, already adults.
Without those interactions, their only exposure to females would be through cartoons, creating warped views, parasocial fantasies, escalating to obsession and r34 addiction.
The Sonic community is a prime example of this phenomenon.
for me it was the opposite, i had sisters and their friends were always around. it really doesn't make women look like a good sell when ypu have that much exposure to their candid thoughts and actions
This seems like it could be at least partially true. I was never allowed to alone around girls my own age. Even in High School, being unsupervised with a girl was a hard no. I was taught that sex is only acceptable between a married man and woman and that pre-martial sex of any kind was one of the worst possible things I could do, right up there with murder and marijuana. Alcohol is okay though if you're at least 21. Throughout my teen years I secretly jerk offd despite being in constant fear of my dad beating the shit out of me if I were ever caught. Fortunately I was never caught, but now I have no idea how to interact with women and will absolutely never attempt to initiate sexual contact with anyone.
I spent most of my time in school avoiding girls like the plague as interacting with them led to embarrassment and humiliation. I fricking wish I had my parents as an excuse.
I'm a total loser and I've fallen in love with Hailee Steinfeld. I rationally acknowledge she has no idea I exist and would most likely find me repulsive, but it really felt like we had an intimate relationship that lasted several years. I've cried like a baby thinking about her. I'm so desperate I've fallen in love with a fantasy. I've tried to redirect my devotion to 2d girls, but it's difficult.
women love animals. virtually all woman will gush when they see a cute puppy. not all men will do the same. older women in particular tend to baby their pets and call them their children. older gays do this as well. It's cause real love has been frustrated and so has to find another expression.
>what has been your experience?
That most people enthuse over animals the same way. The common factor among the ones who don't is they're aloof, cold or just plain self-conscious about showing emotion.
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ok, so I'd say that you're either female, gay, or effeminate, i.e: you have some vested interest in minimizing the difference between the sexes. Or let me put it this way: it's not like men don't like animals, but women will positively gush and fawn over some small furry creature, as a rule. go walk down the street with a dog and the vast majority of people going out of their way to kneel down and fawn over it will be women. this is cause women unconsciously see themselves as animals for some reason
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actually honestly the reason probably being that women are socially positioned to be the "other," so they're non-rational. and if human beings are the distinctively rational creature, i.e: if our rationality is what makes us human, then women are forcibly "coded" as less human, and they get some consolatory pleasure from that
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actually honestly the reason probably being that women are socially positioned to be the "other," so they're non-rational. and if human beings are the distinctively rational creature, i.e: if our rationality is what makes us human, then women are forcibly "coded" as less human, and they get some consolatory pleasure from that
Sorry for the experiences that led you to think like that. Hope things improve for you.
>But cartoon characters don't have holes, they're not real
So? The affection of men is so easily expressed, that a cartoon character would appease them.
You will see when you're in your 30s or 40s and still don't have a girlfriend / wife. I most likely won't either but at least I don't cope with cartoon character
>That’s clearly a girl
A 2D one, who will never love you back or acknowledge you in any way. How can you not see what I'm saying, is your brain damaged?
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>But cartoon characters don't have holes, they're not real
So? The affection of men is so easily expressed, that a cartoon character would appease them.
is a girl you braindead idiot
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There are no girls on Cinemaphile you silly goose.
Your waifu actually says more about about what you want to see in yourself.
When I was a teen, my waifu was Auska from NGE. When my mates would ask me if I fap to her, I would be disgusted by the thought. Then I asked myself, if I don't want to sexualise my waifu, then are they really my waifu?
After some consideration, I realized that I liked Auska because she was more assertive than I was irl.
So I adopted her outspoken nature and overtime the idea of her being my wife faded.
I continue to do this with every other character that would reach 'waifu' status and that seems to resolve the thoughts and I can do back to fapping over them.
Tldr: your waifu just represents something you subconsciously acknowledge you are missing within yourself.
Oh, boy! Another Cinemaphile-patented armchair psychology thread! For me, I suspect it's because I grew up on cartoons and the internet. Whatever attraction I may have had to real girls faded over time, and I probably wasn't very interested in them in the first place.
>in antiquity
A guy once got so turned on by the cult statue of Aphrodite at Knidos that he snuck into the temple at night, came on it and felt such intense shame when his cum stain was found that he threw himself off a cliff.
they're an idealized version of real women with compassion, kindness, spirit, and moral fiber.
FPBP
That aside it's perfectly understandable, fiction emulates, mimics or mocks life, it only follows that it'd evoke some of the same feelings
>they're an idealized person
This but there's also two more major factors:
1 - all interaction with this "person" is either one-way or fantasy, it's literally impossible for the person to feel rejection or experience embarrassment
2 - through extensive media exposure the fictional character can become an ubiquitous fixture in the person's life (maybe one of very few), and one of the primary motivators of romance and eros is familiarity and regularity.
In general kids of both sexes are having far more parasocial relationships and dating far far far less. There are lots of proposed reasons but the most obvious one is simply that kids stay at home and frick around on screens all day instead of wandering around a mall or city center being bored. Hooking up used to just be something to do, and now it's something you essentially go out of your way to do.
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t. 20 year old zoomer
You posted this same image on Cinemaphile, hello fellow Cinemaphile-lurker
IIRC these guys are Russian
Do you think they're still around and gathering in this manner? Imagine coming across them on a dark night, it would be incredible
>"westerner, what seek thee? do ye wish to interfere or do ye wish to pay cum tribute too the goddess?"
Would it get me out of being conscripted into Ukraine?
You will survive your conscription
>because I used to be that guy.
You went through that experience and don't know the answer? Do you have alzheimer's?
>Do you have alzheimer's?
No, but I think my perception of reality had to be prett fricked in some way to believe something so stupid.
hey moron the causes of a persons actions aren't as a rule transparent to them
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I hear it wasn't actually a cold thing bunch of bunch of guys who got too drunk one night decided to do something with an image of her and have sex with each other.
A bunch of Russians? Getting drunk? In the winter? Nahhhhhhhhh
Anon we literally have pics and records of these people gathering regularly wtf do you mean, you think a buncha gay Russians just got soo fricked up during one of their drinking orgies they pulled out the GIANT FLAG OF THE CARTOON RAT they just casually had lying around and went out paying tribute to her in the night cold?
To be fair, what else is fun to do in Russia these days?
Yeah no, I believe the getting drunk and going to frick around outside in the snow, but I don't believe a buncha homosexual Russians just happened to gather for a sex party and had a random huge worship flag of Gadget somewhere
I'll sooner believe they're actually genuine Gadgetphiles, especially when there's many pictures of them doing this
Also I think there's at least one if not several women in the group but that's unrelated
As someone who knows Russians I can assure you they're absolutely weird enough to do stuff like this and I love em for it
Real women are vapid. I mean, have you tried getting laid in 2023?
Cartoon characters are perfect and they don't age or hit the wall. Plus there's many more species than boring old humans.
We're post survival creatures. Once we got off the farm and stopped growing our own food, that was it. We're cows kept by a larger society, our docility enforced by research meant to trick our hominid brains in to thinking we're happy while we spin whatever hamster wheel we chose to run on to get points we exchange for food and pretty colors.
>What causes men to "fall in love" with cartoon characters?
The same reason shut-ins form "friendships" with imaginary people. Imaginary women have no agency, so the "relationship" can never be complicated by real friction over differences in wants or needs or other real-world concerns, and the "relationship" and can only be ended by the waifugay. In other words, it's an emotional coping mechanism for people who haven't yet solved the hedgehog's dilemma.
>Imaginary women have no agency, so the "relationship" can never be complicated by real friction over differences in wants or needs or other real-world concerns
Can understand this, but that doesn't stop me from being an ASMRgay. It's far far easier to get positivity from one-sided interactions without the risk of spilling your spaghetti
Asmr is only good for porn, especially joi
Don't even care about lewds at this point, I just want to hear a woman whisper words of positivity and comfort, and it's fricked up
nobody chooses to be gay anon, they only choose to follow their attraction down the rabbit hole
the same goes for cartoon characters, cryptids, floor tiles, or anything else
this is also a thing - you need someone to snap you back to reality once in a while or you'll never progress socially as a result of this. good on you OP. that said, sharing the delusion isn't too bad either if you have friends in it with you which is why we have fanfiction circles and greentext stories. keep the balance and don't fall into the deep end.
skill issue
>it's an emotional coping mechanism for people who haven't yet solved the hedgehog's dilemma
If the amount and quality of the "warmth" you get from having a waifu is equal or better than you could (realistically) get from a real woman, then the problem is solved, no?
No. One day, experience will show you they're not comaprable.
That requires first answering a fundamental question.
>posting an unmoving image
>worse a jpg
Pathetic
>"noooo atay away from us, incel. no one will ever love you"
>"ew dont fall in love with a fictional character, she'll never love you like a real woman would"
>"noooo get away from us, we dont want you"
I wonder what was their reaction seeing gadget get BUGGED[spoiler] in the recent movie[/spoiler]
Seething, judging by the amount of threads on Cinemaphile at a time.
Im guessing the cult doesnt still exist right, the only image or info about them is from years and years ago
Pretty much all the info out there is ancient
https://fanlore.org/wiki/Gaykoslavie
They usually had enclosed childhoods where their parents kept them from interacting from girls until they were "ready", as in, already adults.
Without those interactions, their only exposure to females would be through cartoons, creating warped views, parasocial fantasies, escalating to obsession and r34 addiction.
The Sonic community is a prime example of this phenomenon.
for me it was the opposite, i had sisters and their friends were always around. it really doesn't make women look like a good sell when ypu have that much exposure to their candid thoughts and actions
God why did I play clarinet?!
my absolute favorite thing about pics like this, is people's expressions in the background
>Shamfur dispray!
This seems like it could be at least partially true. I was never allowed to alone around girls my own age. Even in High School, being unsupervised with a girl was a hard no. I was taught that sex is only acceptable between a married man and woman and that pre-martial sex of any kind was one of the worst possible things I could do, right up there with murder and marijuana. Alcohol is okay though if you're at least 21. Throughout my teen years I secretly jerk offd despite being in constant fear of my dad beating the shit out of me if I were ever caught. Fortunately I was never caught, but now I have no idea how to interact with women and will absolutely never attempt to initiate sexual contact with anyone.
I spent most of my time in school avoiding girls like the plague as interacting with them led to embarrassment and humiliation. I fricking wish I had my parents as an excuse.
>cartoon wife
old man shit
Women are evil, so people invent fictional women that aren't evil, and then the monkey brain does its thing. It's not complicated.
autism spectrum disorder
I'm a total loser and I've fallen in love with Hailee Steinfeld. I rationally acknowledge she has no idea I exist and would most likely find me repulsive, but it really felt like we had an intimate relationship that lasted several years. I've cried like a baby thinking about her. I'm so desperate I've fallen in love with a fantasy. I've tried to redirect my devotion to 2d girls, but it's difficult.
cope.
whom does it hurt?
No one, except for the person doing it
how does it hurt them?
Mankind.
how?
neglect of real human beings who want love and feeding into an illusory world
they don't want love.the illusory world is at worst indiffweent to incels
everyone wants love in some form
no one wants an incel's love. an incel can have family and friends. that's enough
I always imagined that it was the animalistic purity of childhood diverted bc for some reason love wit human beings didn't work out.
Like why women and gays love animals so much.
We are hurt by human beings, so instead we love something lower on the chain of being
this combined with the affinity children feel like with animals (cause their rational nature isn't as activated yet)
>Like why women and gays love animals so much.
Whut
women love animals. virtually all woman will gush when they see a cute puppy. not all men will do the same. older women in particular tend to baby their pets and call them their children. older gays do this as well. It's cause real love has been frustrated and so has to find another expression.
We've had wildly divergent experiences of the world anon. Not saying you're wrong and I'm right though.
what has been your experience? I am guessing now it's some anodyne thing like "all people are the same irrespective of sex"
>what has been your experience?
That most people enthuse over animals the same way. The common factor among the ones who don't is they're aloof, cold or just plain self-conscious about showing emotion.
ok, so I'd say that you're either female, gay, or effeminate, i.e: you have some vested interest in minimizing the difference between the sexes. Or let me put it this way: it's not like men don't like animals, but women will positively gush and fawn over some small furry creature, as a rule. go walk down the street with a dog and the vast majority of people going out of their way to kneel down and fawn over it will be women. this is cause women unconsciously see themselves as animals for some reason
actually honestly the reason probably being that women are socially positioned to be the "other," so they're non-rational. and if human beings are the distinctively rational creature, i.e: if our rationality is what makes us human, then women are forcibly "coded" as less human, and they get some consolatory pleasure from that
Sorry for the experiences that led you to think like that. Hope things improve for you.
>What causes men to "fall in love" with cartoon characters?
A man will stick his dick in anything with a hole.
>A man will stick his dick in anything with a hole.
But cartoon characters don't have holes, they're not real
Never having an actual fulfilling two way relationship will hurt in the long run and socially stunt them
there are more than just sexual relationships to have.
>But cartoon characters don't have holes, they're not real
So? The affection of men is so easily expressed, that a cartoon character would appease them.
You will see when you're in your 30s or 40s and still don't have a girlfriend / wife. I most likely won't either but at least I don't cope with cartoon character
so he'll have more than you?
No, he might just still be obsessed with a cartoon character and not know what's causing his sinking depression. Don't ask how I know
>So? The affection of men is so easily expressed, that a cartoon character would appease them.
That’s clearly a girl, stupid.
>That’s clearly a girl
A 2D one, who will never love you back or acknowledge you in any way. How can you not see what I'm saying, is your brain damaged?
is a girl you braindead idiot
There are no girls on Cinemaphile you silly goose.
the anon?i don't care
I wonder how they felt
Your waifu actually says more about about what you want to see in yourself.
When I was a teen, my waifu was Auska from NGE. When my mates would ask me if I fap to her, I would be disgusted by the thought. Then I asked myself, if I don't want to sexualise my waifu, then are they really my waifu?
After some consideration, I realized that I liked Auska because she was more assertive than I was irl.
So I adopted her outspoken nature and overtime the idea of her being my wife faded.
I continue to do this with every other character that would reach 'waifu' status and that seems to resolve the thoughts and I can do back to fapping over them.
Tldr: your waifu just represents something you subconsciously acknowledge you are missing within yourself.
thank you, buddha
Because humans are violent, horny carnivores.
Oh, boy! Another Cinemaphile-patented armchair psychology thread! For me, I suspect it's because I grew up on cartoons and the internet. Whatever attraction I may have had to real girls faded over time, and I probably wasn't very interested in them in the first place.
lol gay
Samegayging is a trait of the weak.
lol super gay
>men
You haven't seen the women that are just as bad with their rooms full of their husbando merch?
I'm more interested in what causes men to do this as men are more intelligent and psychologically complex.
They have better taste.
I'm sure even the most autistic of them will find a human partner eventually, and possibly even have kids someday so it shouldn't count
i wonder what waifugayging was like in antiquity or the middle ages
>in antiquity
A guy once got so turned on by the cult statue of Aphrodite at Knidos that he snuck into the temple at night, came on it and felt such intense shame when his cum stain was found that he threw himself off a cliff.
i feel like aphrodite would've been ok with it
they made statues