Emptiness
Lack of perceived emotion can be more gripping than keeping up appearances
It's something most Oriental and Asian cinema lack, and something that artsy fucks rely too much on
I recently lost a dear relative, he was not immediate to me but he was always good to me, he was a really good man, I didn't cry but I was on the verge of tears.
it depends who its for. But still, men don't weep and sob like women, it's unnatural. You're meant to be strong and let the women deal with the emotional bullshit for you.
You can allow yourself a tear or two in private, later.
I've been to several funerals, but I do live in Europe, I guess maybe in the states it's accept for men to cry like women, which I guess isn't that odd when it's acceptable to raise boys as girls.
I wouldn't be surprised if a lot of actors refuse to cry on camera, or shed more than a manly tear. The same way some actors refuse to lose a fight in their movies.
My uncle cried at his father's funeral. I shed a few tears. No shame in it. Wailing and making a scene wouldn't be good but there's nothing wrong with crying.
Are you homosexuals emotionally stunted or something? I broke down crying at my dad's funeral and I'm not ashamed of it. That doesn't mean im a homosexual who cries at Netflix or something
Honestly Ive never cried at a funeral. I havent been to that many anyway, but i buried my mom 4 months ago and just didnt cry at the funeral at all. It just felt kinda surreal at tbe moment, i was just watching a bit dumbfounded, but didnt cry.
Cried plenty after that, home alone especially when getting smashed drunk and still do, but at the funeral i just wanted it to be over asap
Same as when my sister died. I went in and saw her cold on the floor and held her hand one last time and held in my emotions until I got back to my car.
Grieving is a private thing for me. I wait for months after a tragedy so that everyone else has had time to get over it, and then one day, when I feel ready, I walk alone down to a stream that runs through the woods behind my house, get down on my hands and knees, submerge my head into the water, and scream and cry while knowing nobody will ever know.
yes, it is extremely homosexual and effeminate for a man to cry. a man may allow himself to silently weep when bereaved, but never cry. a man must also not wipe away his tears. only women and homosexuals dab at their tears. a tear streaked face will also trigger a nurturing reflex in women and homosexuals that will make the man appear desirable and will compel them to offer their bodies to the man for sexual gratification.
The only time I saw my father cry was when my sister fell out of her high chair when she was a baby and smacked her head on the ground and passed out and had to be rushed to hospital. It was very cringe.
Bet your mom divorced him soon after too huh? Not because your sis is a retard now, but because of the crying. Must've made her perma-dry. Then seeing your goofy fucking faces looking just like him? It's a wonder you made it out of childhood without being drowned. Assuming you both did. I couldn't blame your mom if that's what she did though.
Nope. It happened about 20 years ago and they are still married and my sister is a software engineer despite being a normie party slut which is a weird job for someone like her to have so she didn't get any brain damage.
My Dad died a year ago and I randomly cry every now and then, but I didn't cry at his funeral. I didn't actively stop myself, it just didn't bring the feelings up.
I didn't cry at my Grandma's funeral. Then they played Edelweiss right at the end and it hit me like a fucking truck. I immediately had tears in my eyes. I went to see her the day before she died, and Sound of Music was playing. She, my dad and I all sang it together before she fell asleep and we left. I've heard the song a few times since and it still gets me.
>Socially awkward autists on 4chin that can't control their emotions and social behavior pretending they never cry and saying it's gay
LOL I bet the average male Cinemaphile user cries more then the average male non Cinemaphile user. Stop lying.
if you don't get hot eyes when a movie character redeems themselves, or when The Crew Gets Together In The End (exception: capeshit, that's a given and trite), or when there are insurmountable issues, or when Emmy Rossum forgives somebody in Shameless, you're a fag
Today, I received the news that a friend/friend of the family died less than a week after he went to the nursing home. Fortunately, I was able to see him one last time and we had a good talk a few days ago. My mom told me on the phone and I cried afterwards while writing about it in my diary.
But just a few days ago, I watched a few episodes of an anime and cried harder. Why did I cry harder about a Japanese cartoon than a real person I knew who died? I don't understand myself.
crying is caused by estrogen
Jake cried in Jarhead
Unless it was a tragic ending, and an immediate family member, it's mostly pathetic to cry at a funeral.
I've never seen a woman not cry at one so this checks
>Is it gay to cry at a funeral if you're a man?
Who the fuck cares.
Posts like this make me realize Cinemaphile must be full of edgy teenagers
You'd be surprised how many of your fellow homosexuals have made it into their 30's without an ounce of self-reliance.
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Emptiness
Lack of perceived emotion can be more gripping than keeping up appearances
It's something most Oriental and Asian cinema lack, and something that artsy fucks rely too much on
I recently lost a dear relative, he was not immediate to me but he was always good to me, he was a really good man, I didn't cry but I was on the verge of tears.
it depends who its for. But still, men don't weep and sob like women, it's unnatural. You're meant to be strong and let the women deal with the emotional bullshit for you.
You can allow yourself a tear or two in private, later.
Leave the house you fucking nerd holy shit
Its always the pathetic virgins spouting this shit
I've been to several funerals, but I do live in Europe, I guess maybe in the states it's accept for men to cry like women, which I guess isn't that odd when it's acceptable to raise boys as girls.
>Why do men never cry in funerals in kino?
Its just rain.
I wouldn't be surprised if a lot of actors refuse to cry on camera, or shed more than a manly tear. The same way some actors refuse to lose a fight in their movies.
My uncle cried at his father's funeral. I shed a few tears. No shame in it. Wailing and making a scene wouldn't be good but there's nothing wrong with crying.
Are you homosexuals emotionally stunted or something? I broke down crying at my dad's funeral and I'm not ashamed of it. That doesn't mean im a homosexual who cries at Netflix or something
>woah, all these autists here, on Cinemaphile
>who woulda thunk
go write a blogpost about how emotional release isn't gay somewhere else
Real men only cry when watching anime.
Yeah
I cried after I had to put my dog down. But I did it in my car so people wouldn't see me. I put on music too, so no one could hear me.
Real one
this but I went into a stall in the bathroom at work. He was only four years old, lymphoma is a bitch
Damn, sorry to hear that. 4 years really is young.
Honestly Ive never cried at a funeral. I havent been to that many anyway, but i buried my mom 4 months ago and just didnt cry at the funeral at all. It just felt kinda surreal at tbe moment, i was just watching a bit dumbfounded, but didnt cry.
Cried plenty after that, home alone especially when getting smashed drunk and still do, but at the funeral i just wanted it to be over asap
Same as when my sister died. I went in and saw her cold on the floor and held her hand one last time and held in my emotions until I got back to my car.
you didn't fuck her? pathetic
I didn't cry at my mothers funeral and I delivered the eulogy at my fathers funeral. But I did have to fight the urge, of course.
You're supposed to do that shit in private.
Grieving is a private thing for me. I wait for months after a tragedy so that everyone else has had time to get over it, and then one day, when I feel ready, I walk alone down to a stream that runs through the woods behind my house, get down on my hands and knees, submerge my head into the water, and scream and cry while knowing nobody will ever know.
Good to let it out.
yes, it is extremely homosexual and effeminate for a man to cry. a man may allow himself to silently weep when bereaved, but never cry. a man must also not wipe away his tears. only women and homosexuals dab at their tears. a tear streaked face will also trigger a nurturing reflex in women and homosexuals that will make the man appear desirable and will compel them to offer their bodies to the man for sexual gratification.
Bro..:I can’t cry anymore even when I’m sad. What the fuck is wrong with me ?
The only time I saw my father cry was when my sister fell out of her high chair when she was a baby and smacked her head on the ground and passed out and had to be rushed to hospital. It was very cringe.
Bet your mom divorced him soon after too huh? Not because your sis is a retard now, but because of the crying. Must've made her perma-dry. Then seeing your goofy fucking faces looking just like him? It's a wonder you made it out of childhood without being drowned. Assuming you both did. I couldn't blame your mom if that's what she did though.
Nope. It happened about 20 years ago and they are still married and my sister is a software engineer despite being a normie party slut which is a weird job for someone like her to have so she didn't get any brain damage.
My dad didn't cry at his mother's funeral
it can be hard to do sometimes. like I went to a relatives funeral who I was really close to and I just couldn't bring myself to cry for some reason
My Dad died a year ago and I randomly cry every now and then, but I didn't cry at his funeral. I didn't actively stop myself, it just didn't bring the feelings up.
>cry
By cry, I mean get teary-eyed and sniffly.
I didn't cry at my Grandma's funeral. Then they played Edelweiss right at the end and it hit me like a fucking truck. I immediately had tears in my eyes. I went to see her the day before she died, and Sound of Music was playing. She, my dad and I all sang it together before she fell asleep and we left. I've heard the song a few times since and it still gets me.
I cried at one of my lecturers funerals when he died from cancer but I didnt cry at my grandmothers funeral.
>itt losers pretend crying is a bad thing
kek
It's like farting. Everyone knows you can't really help it, but you will be looked down a little when you do it in front of people.
well sometimes people can’t hold it in and i don’t blame them
Not at all. You're just a socially unaware virgin.
Sure.
I'm sober. I cry all the time. Not a single fuck given.
crying is whatever
I can't believe people care so much about their social standing or the perception from others when they're at a funeral.
interesting theory phil let's check the video evidence shall we
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>Socially awkward autists on 4chin that can't control their emotions and social behavior pretending they never cry and saying it's gay
LOL I bet the average male Cinemaphile user cries more then the average male non Cinemaphile user. Stop lying.
You are silly.
.. And that's a good thing
Cinemaphile - Television & Film
>man
>crying
yeahhhh maybe dont?
serious ick
if you don't get hot eyes when a movie character redeems themselves, or when The Crew Gets Together In The End (exception: capeshit, that's a given and trite), or when there are insurmountable issues, or when Emmy Rossum forgives somebody in Shameless, you're a fag
Today, I received the news that a friend/friend of the family died less than a week after he went to the nursing home. Fortunately, I was able to see him one last time and we had a good talk a few days ago. My mom told me on the phone and I cried afterwards while writing about it in my diary.
But just a few days ago, I watched a few episodes of an anime and cried harder. Why did I cry harder about a Japanese cartoon than a real person I knew who died? I don't understand myself.
>cried
>my diary
>anime