Jannies are pretty good at deleting outright BBC spam, pedo shit, and other garbage pretty quick. But sometimes they let soijak and other b8 threads slide because they know anons need relief once in a while.
Yeah but i meant in general, if a dude is nice to people (not saying he has to be always nice to everyone) how is that a lack of masculinity?
6 months ago
Anonymous
It is more a matter of why you're being nice and how much you're being nice. Being nice can be a defense mechanism, but if it comes from a genuine place then it is okay.
>Even just a dude normally being nice means he lacks masxulinity?
There is a difference between being nice, because you want to, and being nice, because you have to. A strong man is nice because he wants to, but he very much doesn't have to be. A weak man is nice because he has to, and being anything else would leave him shunned by society.
If the people in your life would leave you because you stood up for yourself against them, you're nice because you have to be.
what is "nice"
some women are roasties and they get turned on by not nice behaviour sure
but closer to sane women for example may be put off if a man was overly deferential in decision making. if a woman is indecisive about something small in the grand scheme of things like where to eat, a guy saying whatever you want would be frustrating to her.
Yeah but i meant in general, if a dude is nice to people (not saying he has to be always nice to everyone) how is that a lack of masculinity?
Being kind is good. Being nice is good. Being friendly is good.
Being weak is bad. Being a doormat is bad. Never standing up for yourself is bad.
A lot of guys think "nice" is enough and forget that you need to also have confidence and self-worth.
what is "nice"
some women are roasties and they get turned on by not nice behaviour sure
but closer to sane women for example may be put off if a man was overly deferential in decision making. if a woman is indecisive about something small in the grand scheme of things like where to eat, a guy saying whatever you want would be frustrating to her.
Nice people are boring, that's a wide known fact. They're only good as a teacher, colleagues, corpo boss, co worker, or any other professional relationship. It doesn't have anything to do with masculinity, just character in general
it's too predictable. if you're mean you keep her on her toes. she doesn't know what to expect. a nice guy is always a nice guy. she knows that if she marries you, you'll still be nice 10 years later. you'll be nice on your honeymoon, nice on your baby shower. it's boring
So?
Look at the amount of women that get involved with super sketchy guys and/or lust after serial killers
The sexiest man on earth is the one who just brained your husband with a rock
No. A lot of women have almost animalistic mindsets, as in "big violent strong man = attractive" instead of focusing on what humans should care about more such as morals, values, good actions, etc. Women who are raised in a Christian household and attend church will be attracted to more important factors such as those, and physical attractiveness is a secondary thing. Its just that SO many women are like the first thing I mentioned, so everyone thinks that's what women are like by default. Its how they're raised.
Women don't consider attractive men "nice". "Nice is a way of complimenting a man they would never in a million years frick.
When a dude is attractive, they call him "Mature" or "Confident". "nice" just means you achieve a basic level of decency but otherwise are worthless unless they need money or something else from you.
Depends on what you mean by “bad”, like I’m all for Femdom stuff but that doesn’t endorse any domestic abuse that could follow. Woman should really learn the difference instead of larping outside the sheets as “not one who breaks easily”
If a man falls into the "nice guy" stereotype, he's probably a loser.
You can be nice (or more precisely, not an absolute piece of shit) while still being confident and assertive. I'm neither. I know i'm a loser so i don't even bother approaching women
>What about the risk!?
That's why you get nothing while Chad gets pussy. You've invented an entire scenario in your head that happens to like... 3 dudes per year while a hundred billion men are fricking women every day that didn't get #metoo'd.
Grow some fricking balls.
when I was a kid my dad did cabinet work for a climbing gym and they gave our family a year of free membership, it was actually really fun, mostly actual climbers practicing on off season so a lot of fun stories and they liked teaching me and my brother and encouraging us to try hard routes
I tried going to one a few years ago right before covid and it was all starbucks girls and skinnyfat college guys with $500 of rei tier moron equipment doing the easiest routes over and over and drinking gatorade, sucked
The texting screenshot hits hard. I have learned never to say things like that, especially the first text. Stop being sincere or kind over a text, keep it to setting up plans very clearly or mild jokes/flirtation. Nothing dries a girl up more than a text like “Hey, thinking of you today, hope you’re doing well!”
>keep it to setting up plans very clearly
I think this is the most important part. "Let's do it again sometime" is the "Where do you want to eat?" of first dates. Women want the guy to be decisive, which is honestly one of their more reasonable preferences.
I think it's less about women wanting men to be decisive and more about removing barriers
scenario 1 >Let's do it again sometime >>I'd like that >When are you free? >>X date and Y time >Would you like to go to Z? >>Yes
That's way too many steps. If you just text >Let me take you to $place this weekend. Is Saturday good?
Then it's up to her. If she says yes, great. If she says she can't make it Saturday but can make it Sunday, then you're in. If she just says she can't make it Saturday but doesn't offer an alternate time she's probably not interested.
Depends on the girl and the frequency of emoji use.
for a guy, laughing emojis are allowed as reactions but the other ''cute'' ones should be avoided completely because you come off as creepy for using them
6 months ago
Anonymous
Unless she clearly wants your dick at which point the winky emoji becomes acceptable.
>how is it any different than the other dating apps?
It's mostly inner-city yuppies. It's touted as the more "cerebral" dating app because it's not quite just a swipe-fest like Tinder or OKC. It's full of 25-35 Democrat-voting, #I'm With Her-touting goodboys that can't get a match on Tinder with the hot women, or OKC with the freaky women. The starter pack is actually fairly descriptive of the type of guy on Bumble.
Not interested in starting the conversation with women and on Tinder only like 1 match in 20 will start a convo. Bumble is so much better when the roasties need to put in some effort.
Not interested in starting the conversation with women and on Tinder only like 1 match in 20 will start a convo. Bumble is so much better when the roasties need to put in some effort.
So all I would have to do to have my choice of women is outcompete soibois on Bumble?
Bumble is wild. Actually went on multiple dates with a girl off bumble and she tried to convert me to Mormonism. Last correspondence with her was her telling me she was worried about my soul and me going to hell over the phone. Shit was wild.
Anyone else immediately abort when a girl responds "wrong" or takes ages to respond?
I would only go on dates if I was 100% sure that the girl was into me.
damn this one is me sort of. Mostly the physical contact problem though cuz I'm a virgin and don't know how to interact with a woman romantically. Feelsbadman
For whatever its worth I still after fricking close to 20 women dont know how to initiate physicality. On dates I just dont. Then when you get to their place to "watch a movie" or something its just natural
>Then when you get to their place to "watch a movie" or something its just natural
ah ok this makes sense. Yeah I feel awkward about that stuff, but probably in private it's more intuitive.
have to incrementally escalate physical contact, same with flirting.
it feels weird at first, but then it is nice.
sounds corny, but guide her in gently through a door as you let her pass, hand gently on her back.
brush her hair from her eyes, put your hand on hers when you say something.
have to look for opportunities, and do it. don't overthink it.
same with holding her gaze for just a little longer than is normally comfortable, it's all part of human courtship.
if she doesn't react or smiles, then proceed to the next level of touching - sit closer to her than you would with someone else, then later arm around her, then pull her into you a little.
if you lock eyes while sitting beside one another, and she looks at your lips, then move in for a kiss on her lips. closed mouth at first, hold it for a second or two then move back.
hold her face with your hand, kiss her again and so on.
might take a few dates/meetings, depends on how it goes.
have to risk a little. if she seems uncomfortable, pull back somewhat, keep a bit more distance - but play it cool either way.
final tip, make it clear you're interested as soon as you realise it, even in small ways. that way you avoid the friend trap
ah, here's the California version for you: >1. contact your male legal advisor by registered letter >2. have him draw up a contract whereby you are allowed to send a letter to the legal advisor of the female you find interesting >3. wait 3-6 months for a reply >4. repeat until you die of old age
each letter must be started and ended with a profuse apology
just find some or any excuse to touch her like tap her on the shoulder to get her attention and then she will be into that and give you more opportunities and ramp up from there
mostly it's just that it feels good to touch them and it feels good for them too
A girl I was into in high school recently messaged me if I want to go grab a coffee. I waited a week to reply because I was nervous and eventually said yes. She said she is busy and doesn't want to anymore 🙁
Don't wait a week to reply bros
>Girls think it makes you seem cool when really you just can’t be bothered to reply.
When did this meme start? Girls want to be chased. They want to feel desired and wanted. If they think that's icky and want some aloof wanna-be redpill homosexual then let them, they're not worth chasing anyways.
There’s a difference between chasing and seeming desperate. A lot of guys never learn how to shake the desperate vibe which is a shame as it’s embarassing as frick.
>When did this meme start? Girls want to be chased. They want to feel desired and wanted. If they think that's icky and want some aloof wanna-be redpill homosexual then let them, they're not worth chasing anyways.
.t virgin
the point of waiting to reply is to give the illusion that you have things going on that keep you busy so she knows you are a better match than a guy who's desperate for attention replying immediately
>Girls want to feel chased by guys they'll use as emergency supplies to boost their ego
That's called orbiting, not chasing. There's a difference between pursuing a woman you're interested in with a level of assertiveness, and making your feelings and intentions known, and being a beta orbiter that just waits for the right time to make his move (he never will). Chasing doesn't mean showering her with attention and listening to her stories about how her current boyfriend is so mean to her and being "her shoulder to cry on", which I assume is what you're talking about.
>women don't want nice guys
This is true. Women want to be beaten and raped so they can participate in victim Olympics. Bonus points if they're in a loveless abusive marriage and have 3 kids.
>take ages to reply cause you know he won't mind >oh but if you tell a girl why she ghosted you for 2 days you're seen as a clingy emasculated gay
So which is it?
it's neither.
the answer is, only put in as much energy as the girl does. you can experiment with a bit more, but if she's not replying or never makes plans with you, pull back on the energy. doing so usually means within a relatively short time, she'll start ramping up the energy she puts in.
it doesn't have to be totally equal, but if you set up date ideas, she needs to be adding an equal proportion of energy in some other way, making you food, making you feel comfortable, anything.
you can also communicate it to a degree, challenge her to pick a place to go every few times, or make it a back and forth game.
the man should be the decisive one for the most part though, no matter what she says.
time to start again. just have to grind a bit further to level up.
if you recognise traits that turns them off, stop doing it and try a new approach.
who you think you are, probably isn't who you are.
experiences open you up and you eventually find your way
>listening to morons posting macros here
If it's anything like my climbing gym you won't regret it
It's filled with fit sweaty babes wearing sports bras and yoga pants climbing all over stuff so you see their muscles
You're insane. What shows do you like? I agree watching it just cause "lol mafia badass wow" is stupid but to me its about much more thats just surface level.
Why is 'White' a sign of blandness? like as if the same movie was made by a ethnic it would be 100 times better.
I wonder ~~*why*~~, it certainly wasn't 'we' who did it.
vanilla, real vanilla is a fairly expensive spice, with an incredible smell and taste. chocolate is common as dirt, and without milk/sugar/vanilla tastes like it too
This was made by a /misc/turd and a good example of why is the little paragraph on Rome. That's not how a modern woman leftoid would criticize watchers of that show, kek.
Let's see what Black folk like >Black Panther >TikTok >WorldStarHipHop fight videos >Daytime "Are you the father?" shows like Maury and Dr. Phil >Friday >Tyler Perry
What else am I forgetting?
being a doormat and being an butthole will have the same results if you lack self respect and confidence. people can tell when you're faking. build yourself up and tend to your life like a garden, a bit every day. the bees shall be drawn to your flowers and the honey shall flow.
>Be taught to act formal and mind my manners as a kid >Become way too formal to the point where I use "sir" and "ma'am" to kids just a couple grades above me >Become a doormat >Realize what a homosexual I was right at the end of highschool >Too late to change because standing up for myself as an adult would get me arrested or fired
I hate Fight Club, but I always think about that line where Brad Pitt says "How can we know ourselves if we've never been in a fight?" Sometimes, I just wanna beat the shit out of someone for the hell of it, just to say I've been in one. I feel like I got cucked by life.
read about improving your assertiveness.
a lot of it you'd think would land you in trouble, but it doesn't it just puts you on an even playing field.
I'm similar to you regarding always having been polite, but I stood my ground when it came to fights. never had a particularly serious one, in terms of injuries, just bruises.
as an adult I'm still too 'nice', but at some point I snap.
different people will test you all the time, if you show solid boundaries or even a little bit of verbal aggression or a hard no, then they will quickly learn and not bother you with that again.
definitely read about it, then apply it in small amounts.
say "no, I don't do that" instead of "can't do that" I read helps in terms of business. sets a strong boundary.
walk with your head up, looking straight ahead, scanning left and right as you go. walk with purpose. state things clearly, if you want someone to move a clear but not annoyed "excuse me" in a loud enough voice that they can't help but hear it is better than a quiet polite one to start with.
after a while you'll become used to it and better at it
does come with practice
Good advice. Politeness and assertiveness aren't exclusive. Despite whatever they might think, women still are attracted by basic acts of etiquette towards themselves and others, like opening a car door for them. Whether because it shows generosity, a sense of traditional patriarchal possessiveness, makes them feel speical or just shows that you weren't raised by shitbags, idk. Probably even more so because most young men don't do those things.
I like how it's just plain incomprehensible for them to like or even admire a character despite its flaws. Reminds me of the original star trek episode of Khan.
That's their way of coming back down to earth and coping with their boring meaningless normie lives after living vicariously through antiheroes for multiple seasons
>Maybe if you want to find a girl who values niceness, join a church?
Church women aren't nice though, they're some of the most petty, selfish, backstabbing c**ts I've ever met in my life.
t. Catholic
It means Catholics are a bunch of people suffering from fetal alcohol syndrome on account of their prostitute mother drinking all the time. You understand.
>The men at my church are the nicest bunch of guys you'll ever meet and most of them have wives and children, including the younger guys.
They are nice now, that doesn't mean they were betas back when they were dating their women.
look at all the seething bawd chasers in the replies
IF YOU WANT A NICE GIRL AND NOT A bawd
DO
NOT
USE
DATING
APPS
get a hobby or volunteer, find people who share your interests
it's that simple
>get a hobby or volunteer, find people who share your interests
it's that simple
this. it must be done in an active and regular way for long enough and without the aim being to frick/find a girlfriend. the main aim should be doing things you like because you like them.
You guys give Soiboys a lot of shit but at least those guys:
Have sex
Have families
Own homes and cars
Are educated
Have good careers
Have large friend groups
Are successful socially and romantically
While you losers sit around saving images of them on your computer all day like gays
>if a male does brutal things then it's a heckin toxic problematic yikes don't idolise them >if a woman does brutal things then she's a power queen yasss slay dismantling male power structures
hmmmmmmmmm
Been ages since I've seen Taxi Driver but I don't recall Travis being that bad
He's an autistic loner like us, but he works a good honest job, stays out of trouble, protects that chick then goes HAM on an underage brothel
What did he do wrong
"Rorschach did nothing wrong" is a sentiment held by people who haven't read Watchmen and people who have read Watchmen. Sois who read the sparknotes need not apply.
Are women really so simple they think you finding one of these characters interesting to watch is the same as idolising them? Do they not know the difference between reality and fiction?
>starter pack
go back
No no no no, you autistic pisscel, he's trying to PARODY those types of people. How about next time you educate yourself, mkay?
How does Cinemaphile do it? Even with all its flaws it still manages to maintain a level of quality far above the other media boards.
Jannies are pretty good at deleting outright BBC spam, pedo shit, and other garbage pretty quick. But sometimes they let soijak and other b8 threads slide because they know anons need relief once in a while.
I've seen this posted on every board except Cinemaphile and /misc/
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Joseph Biden
what movies does he watch?
stop posting me mkay
>If a person is nice he's a loser
???
to women, literally yes
but more precisely, the niceness is just a coping mechanism for lack of masculine attractiveness
Women aside. Even just a dude normally being nice means he lacks masxulinity?
>Even just a dude normally being nice means he lacks masxulinity?
Yes
Damn man thats sucks
Tommy Vercetti? Shit... I didn't think they'd ever let him out
He kept his masculinity down, helps people being nicer
There is a difference between being nice and being good.
Yeah but i meant in general, if a dude is nice to people (not saying he has to be always nice to everyone) how is that a lack of masculinity?
It is more a matter of why you're being nice and how much you're being nice. Being nice can be a defense mechanism, but if it comes from a genuine place then it is okay.
>Even just a dude normally being nice means he lacks masxulinity?
There is a difference between being nice, because you want to, and being nice, because you have to. A strong man is nice because he wants to, but he very much doesn't have to be. A weak man is nice because he has to, and being anything else would leave him shunned by society.
If the people in your life would leave you because you stood up for yourself against them, you're nice because you have to be.
Being kind is good. Being nice is good. Being friendly is good.
Being weak is bad. Being a doormat is bad. Never standing up for yourself is bad.
A lot of guys think "nice" is enough and forget that you need to also have confidence and self-worth.
what is "nice"
some women are roasties and they get turned on by not nice behaviour sure
but closer to sane women for example may be put off if a man was overly deferential in decision making. if a woman is indecisive about something small in the grand scheme of things like where to eat, a guy saying whatever you want would be frustrating to her.
Nice people are boring, that's a wide known fact. They're only good as a teacher, colleagues, corpo boss, co worker, or any other professional relationship. It doesn't have anything to do with masculinity, just character in general
it's too predictable. if you're mean you keep her on her toes. she doesn't know what to expect. a nice guy is always a nice guy. she knows that if she marries you, you'll still be nice 10 years later. you'll be nice on your honeymoon, nice on your baby shower. it's boring
that's toxic as frick
So?
Look at the amount of women that get involved with super sketchy guys and/or lust after serial killers
The sexiest man on earth is the one who just brained your husband with a rock
I wouldn't enjoy a relationship like that
No. A lot of women have almost animalistic mindsets, as in "big violent strong man = attractive" instead of focusing on what humans should care about more such as morals, values, good actions, etc. Women who are raised in a Christian household and attend church will be attracted to more important factors such as those, and physical attractiveness is a secondary thing. Its just that SO many women are like the first thing I mentioned, so everyone thinks that's what women are like by default. Its how they're raised.
Women don't consider attractive men "nice". "Nice is a way of complimenting a man they would never in a million years frick.
When a dude is attractive, they call him "Mature" or "Confident". "nice" just means you achieve a basic level of decency but otherwise are worthless unless they need money or something else from you.
Men prefer bad girls too. Search your feelings, you know it to be true.
only to pump and dump
Depends on what you mean by “bad”, like I’m all for Femdom stuff but that doesn’t endorse any domestic abuse that could follow. Woman should really learn the difference instead of larping outside the sheets as “not one who breaks easily”
Xena was a genocidal murderer who killed children for fun
If a man falls into the "nice guy" stereotype, he's probably a loser.
You can be nice (or more precisely, not an absolute piece of shit) while still being confident and assertive.
I'm neither. I know i'm a loser so i don't even bother approaching women
>??
Men have been trying to decipher the bowl of scrambled eggs that is the female brain for millennia, anon. Don’t worry yourself too much about it.
If you like a girl, take a chance on her instead of playing it safe. Nothing dries a girl's panties like a guy that's afraid to make a move.
>guy makes a movie
>gets hit with a sexual harassment charge
>goes to jail
>gets raped and murdered in prison
No winning.
I meant to say move but with metoo movie works as well.
>What about the risk!?
That's why you get nothing while Chad gets pussy. You've invented an entire scenario in your head that happens to like... 3 dudes per year while a hundred billion men are fricking women every day that didn't get #metoo'd.
Grow some fricking balls.
don't put too much stock into that image, it was made by a salty troon angry at who they used to be
virgin cope
Women genuinely unironically think this. Adapt accordingly
i understand all but the climbing?
It’s a classic “date idea where we barely interact but technically sounds fun”
when I was a kid my dad did cabinet work for a climbing gym and they gave our family a year of free membership, it was actually really fun, mostly actual climbers practicing on off season so a lot of fun stories and they liked teaching me and my brother and encouraging us to try hard routes
I tried going to one a few years ago right before covid and it was all starbucks girls and skinnyfat college guys with $500 of rei tier moron equipment doing the easiest routes over and over and drinking gatorade, sucked
i think later half of 2010s it became a popular physical activity for girls and men with low bodymass
The texting screenshot hits hard. I have learned never to say things like that, especially the first text. Stop being sincere or kind over a text, keep it to setting up plans very clearly or mild jokes/flirtation. Nothing dries a girl up more than a text like “Hey, thinking of you today, hope you’re doing well!”
>a text like “Hey, thinking of you today,
also any text would imply thinking of you
>keep it to setting up plans very clearly
I think this is the most important part. "Let's do it again sometime" is the "Where do you want to eat?" of first dates. Women want the guy to be decisive, which is honestly one of their more reasonable preferences.
I think it's less about women wanting men to be decisive and more about removing barriers
scenario 1
>Let's do it again sometime
>>I'd like that
>When are you free?
>>X date and Y time
>Would you like to go to Z?
>>Yes
That's way too many steps. If you just text
>Let me take you to $place this weekend. Is Saturday good?
Then it's up to her. If she says yes, great. If she says she can't make it Saturday but can make it Sunday, then you're in. If she just says she can't make it Saturday but doesn't offer an alternate time she's probably not interested.
I don't understand the emoji, Netflix and bumble
The blush emoji is for homosexuals. Bumble is for homosexuals. Netflix is - well you get the gist.
texting with emojis give women the ick, unless they are sexual inuendos or you are an illiterate thug
texting without emojis feels so formal though
Be an emoticon chad
for a guy, laughing emojis are allowed as reactions but the other ''cute'' ones should be avoided completely because you come off as creepy for using them
Unless she clearly wants your dick at which point the winky emoji becomes acceptable.
Depends on the girl and the frequency of emoji use.
>Bumble is for homosexuals
how is it any different than the other dating apps?
>how is it any different than the other dating apps?
It's mostly inner-city yuppies. It's touted as the more "cerebral" dating app because it's not quite just a swipe-fest like Tinder or OKC. It's full of 25-35 Democrat-voting, #I'm With Her-touting goodboys that can't get a match on Tinder with the hot women, or OKC with the freaky women. The starter pack is actually fairly descriptive of the type of guy on Bumble.
Not interested in starting the conversation with women and on Tinder only like 1 match in 20 will start a convo. Bumble is so much better when the roasties need to put in some effort.
So all I would have to do to have my choice of women is outcompete soibois on Bumble?
Bumble is wild. Actually went on multiple dates with a girl off bumble and she tried to convert me to Mormonism. Last correspondence with her was her telling me she was worried about my soul and me going to hell over the phone. Shit was wild.
Anyone else immediately abort when a girl responds "wrong" or takes ages to respond?
I would only go on dates if I was 100% sure that the girl was into me.
damn this one is me sort of. Mostly the physical contact problem though cuz I'm a virgin and don't know how to interact with a woman romantically. Feelsbadman
For whatever its worth I still after fricking close to 20 women dont know how to initiate physicality. On dates I just dont. Then when you get to their place to "watch a movie" or something its just natural
>Then when you get to their place to "watch a movie" or something its just natural
ah ok this makes sense. Yeah I feel awkward about that stuff, but probably in private it's more intuitive.
have to incrementally escalate physical contact, same with flirting.
it feels weird at first, but then it is nice.
sounds corny, but guide her in gently through a door as you let her pass, hand gently on her back.
brush her hair from her eyes, put your hand on hers when you say something.
have to look for opportunities, and do it. don't overthink it.
same with holding her gaze for just a little longer than is normally comfortable, it's all part of human courtship.
if she doesn't react or smiles, then proceed to the next level of touching - sit closer to her than you would with someone else, then later arm around her, then pull her into you a little.
if you lock eyes while sitting beside one another, and she looks at your lips, then move in for a kiss on her lips. closed mouth at first, hold it for a second or two then move back.
hold her face with your hand, kiss her again and so on.
might take a few dates/meetings, depends on how it goes.
have to risk a little. if she seems uncomfortable, pull back somewhat, keep a bit more distance - but play it cool either way.
final tip, make it clear you're interested as soon as you realise it, even in small ways. that way you avoid the friend trap
gay beta advice, grab her by the waist and powerbomb her thru a table
that would have been my tl;dr version
after which you rip your t-shirt off like hulk. hogan and piss all over her back
Seems a bit rapey. Are you form eastern europe by any chance?
ah, here's the California version for you:
>1. contact your male legal advisor by registered letter
>2. have him draw up a contract whereby you are allowed to send a letter to the legal advisor of the female you find interesting
>3. wait 3-6 months for a reply
>4. repeat until you die of old age
each letter must be started and ended with a profuse apology
hahaha
just find some or any excuse to touch her like tap her on the shoulder to get her attention and then she will be into that and give you more opportunities and ramp up from there
mostly it's just that it feels good to touch them and it feels good for them too
girls have low self esteem and think you're being dishonest if you're nice to them without knowing them
This is why you should always be a lazy replier when messaging. Girls think it makes you seem cool when really you just can’t be bothered to reply.
A girl I was into in high school recently messaged me if I want to go grab a coffee. I waited a week to reply because I was nervous and eventually said yes. She said she is busy and doesn't want to anymore 🙁
Don't wait a week to reply bros
wait a few hours is alright mostly. not a week.
done that many times with various things. it's a quick way to lose friends, girlfriends etc.
>Girls think it makes you seem cool when really you just can’t be bothered to reply.
When did this meme start? Girls want to be chased. They want to feel desired and wanted. If they think that's icky and want some aloof wanna-be redpill homosexual then let them, they're not worth chasing anyways.
That is not the image I thought I clicked, but oh well.
There’s a difference between chasing and seeming desperate. A lot of guys never learn how to shake the desperate vibe which is a shame as it’s embarassing as frick.
In this day and age women can get attention with ease. It means nothing to them now.
OY OY OY OY OY
>When did this meme start? Girls want to be chased. They want to feel desired and wanted. If they think that's icky and want some aloof wanna-be redpill homosexual then let them, they're not worth chasing anyways.
.t virgin
the point of waiting to reply is to give the illusion that you have things going on that keep you busy so she knows you are a better match than a guy who's desperate for attention replying immediately
Girls want to feel chased by guys they'll use as emergency supplies to boost their ego. That doesn't mean they actually want anything else from them.
>Girls want to feel chased by guys they'll use as emergency supplies to boost their ego
That's called orbiting, not chasing. There's a difference between pursuing a woman you're interested in with a level of assertiveness, and making your feelings and intentions known, and being a beta orbiter that just waits for the right time to make his move (he never will). Chasing doesn't mean showering her with attention and listening to her stories about how her current boyfriend is so mean to her and being "her shoulder to cry on", which I assume is what you're talking about.
Mission Impossible
>women don't want nice guys
This is true. Women want to be beaten and raped so they can participate in victim Olympics. Bonus points if they're in a loveless abusive marriage and have 3 kids.
Is rock climbing a new nerd” thing? Wouldn’t expect it.
lmao the rock climbing out of nowhere is hilarious
What’s wrong with bumble?
It puts the burden on women to get the conversation going, right? So I imagine that's seen as a crutch for socially awkward guys.
Imagine beating the person who made this into pink mist with a rusty crowbar hahaha that would be WEIRD
>take ages to reply cause you know he won't mind
>oh but if you tell a girl why she ghosted you for 2 days you're seen as a clingy emasculated gay
So which is it?
it's neither.
the answer is, only put in as much energy as the girl does. you can experiment with a bit more, but if she's not replying or never makes plans with you, pull back on the energy. doing so usually means within a relatively short time, she'll start ramping up the energy she puts in.
it doesn't have to be totally equal, but if you set up date ideas, she needs to be adding an equal proportion of energy in some other way, making you food, making you feel comfortable, anything.
you can also communicate it to a degree, challenge her to pick a place to go every few times, or make it a back and forth game.
the man should be the decisive one for the most part though, no matter what she says.
If this was a version for women it just have "is fat" in the middle
Bullshit like this is why I gave up on dating
time to start again. just have to grind a bit further to level up.
if you recognise traits that turns them off, stop doing it and try a new approach.
who you think you are, probably isn't who you are.
experiences open you up and you eventually find your way
literally the way to make modern women attracted to you is to treat them like s*(&
God dammit
>just got a membership to the climbing gym two months ago.
N-NO YOU!!!!!
>listening to morons posting macros here
If it's anything like my climbing gym you won't regret it
It's filled with fit sweaty babes wearing sports bras and yoga pants climbing all over stuff so you see their muscles
What is wrong with those pants?
Cinemaphile be like
Frick i thought most of the films listed there and the sopranos were actually good i had no idea i was just an aggressively bland white guy!
if you think the sopranos are good you're a chud
You're insane. What shows do you like? I agree watching it just cause "lol mafia badass wow" is stupid but to me its about much more thats just surface level.
Holy shit, someone took that "films women will never understand" a bit too personally.
>mfw when my Deadwood addiction isn’t called out
wienerSUCKA
Bland white dudes have patrician taste ngl
Why is 'White' a sign of blandness? like as if the same movie was made by a ethnic it would be 100 times better.
>Why is 'White' a sign of blandness?
Dunno, why do you eat stuff like this and call it food?
Its funny that this is literally ghetto black food and they pretend like we eat it
The only time blacks are exposed to white people food is in prison that's why they think all white people food is bland
full support saar
thought this was a merchant ai image at first, probably need a break from this site
looks like the seasoning police are here.
>ize gon put sam mo salt on dees sheeeit
> the only white cuisine blacks know is prison food
lmao
now THIS is white people food
>wypipo food is so bland
>Y PEEPO DOHN SEASON DEY ALCOHOL
more sugar than 100 donuts, more salt than 100 big macs. its no wonder they die of heart disease at 30
We should never have let calling things vanilla mean basic. It's better than chocolate anyways.
I wonder ~~*why*~~, it certainly wasn't 'we' who did it.
vanilla, real vanilla is a fairly expensive spice, with an incredible smell and taste. chocolate is common as dirt, and without milk/sugar/vanilla tastes like it too
im pretty sure that thing is bait but the white liberals who actually agree with the sentiment just hate themselves
that image is 10/10 bait
twitter-friendly downscaled version
>wolf of wall street
>white
This was made by a /misc/turd and a good example of why is the little paragraph on Rome. That's not how a modern woman leftoid would criticize watchers of that show, kek.
I agree it looks to formal, women make memes with the photo editor on Instagram. Although women and zoomers fall for memes all the time.
Let's see what Black folk like
>Black Panther
>TikTok
>WorldStarHipHop fight videos
>Daytime "Are you the father?" shows like Maury and Dr. Phil
>Friday
>Tyler Perry
What else am I forgetting?
>no tarantulino movies
i call bullshit
Women will never understand the drudgery of white collar job starter pack?
men of all races like half the shit on that list (the wire really sucks though man)
>bland white dudes
>antisemites
the country would be saved if this were true
>uh good films are actually bad okay
>OMG I HATE WHITE MEN
>woman don't like me because I am... le NICE
is a massive cope for deeper issues with your personality
this is a variation of the other one which says he watches marvel, drives a honda, and has an android
When I was a small kid I thought Jaffar from Aladdin was super cool. I was him for halloween
Nice I love that movie
What does it even mean to be "nice"? Should I just be an butthole to everyone instead and disregard every social norms and conventions?
Why not?
Remember all women want is money and coke
being a doormat and being an butthole will have the same results if you lack self respect and confidence. people can tell when you're faking. build yourself up and tend to your life like a garden, a bit every day. the bees shall be drawn to your flowers and the honey shall flow.
you peaked 10 years ago
>chud
you never peaked
>THE CREATOR SAID HE IS A BAD GUY!
>YOU'RE NOT ALLOWED TO THINK LONE WOLF SIGMAS FIGHTING AGAINST OVERWHELMING ODDS ARE COOL!
this but instead you're in a straightjacket yelling at the top of your lungs and then smugly looking at the camera like you one-upped someone
Got any more stale memes you want to share with us?
>Be taught to act formal and mind my manners as a kid
>Become way too formal to the point where I use "sir" and "ma'am" to kids just a couple grades above me
>Become a doormat
>Realize what a homosexual I was right at the end of highschool
>Too late to change because standing up for myself as an adult would get me arrested or fired
I hate Fight Club, but I always think about that line where Brad Pitt says "How can we know ourselves if we've never been in a fight?" Sometimes, I just wanna beat the shit out of someone for the hell of it, just to say I've been in one. I feel like I got cucked by life.
read about improving your assertiveness.
a lot of it you'd think would land you in trouble, but it doesn't it just puts you on an even playing field.
I'm similar to you regarding always having been polite, but I stood my ground when it came to fights. never had a particularly serious one, in terms of injuries, just bruises.
as an adult I'm still too 'nice', but at some point I snap.
different people will test you all the time, if you show solid boundaries or even a little bit of verbal aggression or a hard no, then they will quickly learn and not bother you with that again.
definitely read about it, then apply it in small amounts.
say "no, I don't do that" instead of "can't do that" I read helps in terms of business. sets a strong boundary.
walk with your head up, looking straight ahead, scanning left and right as you go. walk with purpose. state things clearly, if you want someone to move a clear but not annoyed "excuse me" in a loud enough voice that they can't help but hear it is better than a quiet polite one to start with.
after a while you'll become used to it and better at it
does come with practice
Good post, hopefully it won't be ignored
t. MBAgay
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Great points, I suggest the books No More Mr Nice Guy and When I Say No I Feel Guilty as well
chekt, tripz of useless knowledge.
mean tto say useful. I've become corrupted
Good advice. Politeness and assertiveness aren't exclusive. Despite whatever they might think, women still are attracted by basic acts of etiquette towards themselves and others, like opening a car door for them. Whether because it shows generosity, a sense of traditional patriarchal possessiveness, makes them feel speical or just shows that you weren't raised by shitbags, idk. Probably even more so because most young men don't do those things.
I like how it's just plain incomprehensible for them to like or even admire a character despite its flaws. Reminds me of the original star trek episode of Khan.
this is the worst thread on the entire board right now, you just know it will hit +300 replies before the janny deletes it
That's their way of coming back down to earth and coping with their boring meaningless normie lives after living vicariously through antiheroes for multiple seasons
People like antiheros all the time, why soi homosexuals get triggered when some dudes like badass characters like Tyler and the Drive guy?
because they're not simping to women 24/7 or preaching about "marginalized" groups or chanting free Palestine. Either in the movie or on twitter
and women, if chad or tyrone left you with a child, join a church
>used up roasties playing the "im religious card" so they don't die single mothers
lmao
Is he next?
>Maybe if you want to find a girl who values niceness, join a church?
Church women aren't nice though, they're some of the most petty, selfish, backstabbing c**ts I've ever met in my life.
t. Catholic
>catholic
there's yer problem, sport
oh believe me, I know for a fact Evangelical, Lutheran and especially Baptist women aren't one iota better, and usually even worse.
the frick is that supposed to mean. are you just trying to sound cool and smart
It means Catholics are a bunch of people suffering from fetal alcohol syndrome on account of their prostitute mother drinking all the time. You understand.
>The men at my church are the nicest bunch of guys you'll ever meet and most of them have wives and children, including the younger guys.
They are nice now, that doesn't mean they were betas back when they were dating their women.
>The men at my church are the nicest bunch of guys you'll ever meet
Probably fixing the problem at it's source: bringing Freedom and Democracy to their countries.
Woman take. “You obviously missed the point” no you dumb b***h I just formed my own opinion.
look at all the seething bawd chasers in the replies
IF YOU WANT A NICE GIRL AND NOT A bawd
DO
NOT
USE
DATING
APPS
get a hobby or volunteer, find people who share your interests
it's that simple
>get a hobby or volunteer, find people who share your interests
it's that simple
this. it must be done in an active and regular way for long enough and without the aim being to frick/find a girlfriend. the main aim should be doing things you like because you like them.
>how DARE you interpret art in any way that reddit or the author deems appropriate
Thoughts on my personal "literally me" characters?
add norman bates and caligula
I can smell your BO from here
Bo?
Body Odor
You guys give Soiboys a lot of shit but at least those guys:
Have sex
Have families
Own homes and cars
Are educated
Have good careers
Have large friend groups
Are successful socially and romantically
While you losers sit around saving images of them on your computer all day like gays
They are in open relationships or get married to a roaatie who divorces them in 5 years
Sounds like a win
You are talking about boomers
they get divorced at 46 and end up alone in a single bedroom apartment
>Have families
r/antinatalism and r/childfree disagrees
>Own homes and cars
you have to be 18 and have a basic understanding of the financial system to post here
You mean the guys in the meme?
That some girl marries because she's getting older and he's the least bad option available?
>if a male does brutal things then it's a heckin toxic problematic yikes don't idolise them
>if a woman does brutal things then she's a power queen yasss slay dismantling male power structures
hmmmmmmmmm
"You Missed The Point By Not Idolizing Them" Starter Pack:
Been ages since I've seen Taxi Driver but I don't recall Travis being that bad
He's an autistic loner like us, but he works a good honest job, stays out of trouble, protects that chick then goes HAM on an underage brothel
What did he do wrong
"Rorschach did nothing wrong" is a sentiment held by people who haven't read Watchmen and people who have read Watchmen. Sois who read the sparknotes need not apply.
>the original joker
>but has a happy ending where he gets a slap on the wrist prison sentence then a book deal and becomes a national celebrity
why shouldn't i idolize him?
I call you every night and hange up!!!
Im gonna carve your name in my leg!!!
Are women really so simple they think you finding one of these characters interesting to watch is the same as idolising them? Do they not know the difference between reality and fiction?