My current GF did this to me a few arguments ago. Just because I didn't agree on her opinion of something. >You're gaslighting me! That's abusive
I was so annoyed I told her if she felt that was truly the case, she could leave right now and I wouldn't stop her. She backed down after that.
I tried to date a girl back during the early lockdown who accused me of doing this. She was sort of right, though— I was trying to convince her that the other guy she was interested in dating was a scumbag grifter.
Ironically, I was correct and he made a fool out of her kek.
Lmao. Correct move but you can take it further. Say you're not comfortable in a relationship where the other feels like that. Say you need to take a step back and re evaluate if you are a psycho.
You'll never see someone slobber on your dick so fast
Honestly, you should break up with her. Arguments and fights are one thing, but the second she accuses you of abuse once, you just know she will do it again, and maybe to a third party. Her mind is melted by feminist rhetoric and she's gonna do power plays that also make her feel like she's the righteous party.
>Honestly, you should break up with her. Arguments and fights are one thing, but the second she accuses you of abuse once, you just know she will do it again, and maybe to a third party. Her mind is melted by feminist rhetoric and she's gonna do power plays that also make her feel like she's the righteous party.
Quoted for emphasis.
SHE WILL DO IT AGAIN AND WORSE.
Get out of it now. The moment a woman even hints at accusing you of abuse you need to GTFO immediately. They can ruin your life over lies and will.
I wish I would have known this years ago. I spent three years with a girl who did this three months into our relationship. One day she decided she wanted other dick so she cheated on me and tried to play it off like it was okay because I was a gaslighting abuser in her eyes.
You have to know how to deal with therapy talk b***hes. Instead of trying to explain yourself, you need to say "That's really interesting, what makes you say that? I'm really sensitive to accusations due to past trauma and as a Sagittarius sometimes my desire to be respected pushes people away. I need to continue on my journey of self-actualization." Just listen to some Emma Chamberlain to pick up the lingo.
it's when someone slowly, over time, tries to convince you that your perceptions are wrong, the metaphor being that they slowly turn down the gas (thus dimming the light), and when you eventually state that the room is darker, they say, "What are you talking about?"
This pic is really making me reflect on the presence of her pussy under her clothing, the fact that she has a pussy. I feel like I'm on the cusp of a breakthrough here, like if I focus on this "knowing that" she has a pussy underneath her clothes, I'll be able to see it in all women all the time. Today I'm going to experiment with seeing women as naked under their clothes and trying to see their pussy by projecting with my third eye.
Is gaslighting the most worthless term? >to manipulate another person into doubting their own perceptions, experiences or understanding of events
If there is a conflict of interpretation, expression your opinion or view of an event is not manipulation. Seems like a term invented by weak people to call upon when they're failing an argument.
Yeah, pretty much. That isn’t to say that coercion/manipulation can’t come in the form of arguments, but the term is basically used to describe feeling threatened by a person for disagreeing with you.
Gaslighting used to have meaning and required some actual skill to pull off- it was a result of usually something methodical with planning to trick someone into doing or thinking something against their will- think an ultimate level of persuasion crossed with inception tier lies.
Now it just means anytime some woman who has a skewed view of reality misremembering something, so every 2 minutes, has to have a conversation about how actual physical inarguable events actually occurred.
It's a classic catch 22, where if someone thinks they're being gaslit that means they probably aren't, and anyone who's truly being gaslit probably doesn't see it unless it's pointed out to them.
Gaslighting used to have meaning and required some actual skill to pull off- it was a result of usually something methodical with planning to trick someone into doing or thinking something against their will- think an ultimate level of persuasion crossed with inception tier lies.
Now it just means anytime some woman who has a skewed view of reality misremembering something, so every 2 minutes, has to have a conversation about how actual physical inarguable events actually occurred.
>required some actual skill to pull off >think an ultimate level of persuasion crossed with inception tier lies.
You sound autistic, gaslighting isn't a skill
No it's not. The term has been heavily watered down by blue haired white womyn but you're also watering it down if you choose to believe it's just about convincing people you're right.
I’ve had the term explained to me several times and I still don’t really get it. How is it different to just tricking someone, or convincing someone to change their views? If a girl (and it has happened) told me I was gaslighting her I’d tell her to frick off with the moronic zoomer buzzwords
I came to the same conclusion, it's pretty much an empty buzzword now. "Manipulation" already covers it. And it doesn't help that I noticed the very worst and most manipulative/crazy women you know LOVE to use the word "gaslighting" constantly.
Depression and narcissism met similar fates to gaslighting, they're all mentally ill behaviors which normies use to refer to normal emotions. Feeling sad = feeling depressed, someone is arrogant = narcissist. If that's the pattern, my guess is the next meaningless buzzword will be maladaptive daydreaming, it's a relatively new term that's already making the usual pop psy rounds. Feel bored and your mind wanders = maladaptive daydreaming.
Accusing others of gaslighting nowadays is, in most cases, what somebody that gaslights others would do.
In the original sense gaslighting is a form of emotional manipulation ("I like cats." "So you're saying you hate dogs?") and is more often than not used by woman, because all forms of emotional manipulation is their primary form of aggression.
Emotional manipulation in general works better on weak minded, insecure individuals, where as rational, more grounded people typically disengage from people using emotional manipulation, because nothing get's resolved in those types of conversations.
how do you have a girlfriend of 10 years and not get married and have kids? You're already just as financially liable as you would be if you were married.
I was the other post
I'm not financially liable because the laws don't work that way here
and also we don't have kids because we don't want them, nor will we ever
My friend's wife decided she wants to divorce. He now has to pay $2400 a month in child support. Her parents are giving her a house so she’s going to just not work and live on the child support. They split custody of their kids 50/50.
I was the other post
I'm not financially liable because the laws don't work that way here
and also we don't have kids because we don't want them, nor will we ever
where do you live where ten years of cohabitation doesn't result in shared assets obtained during that time?
>living on 2400 a month with multiple children
Lol no, she’s definitely going to have to get back to work before long.
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She believes that she’s going to eventually start her own therapy practice. She dropped out of getting her masters and has basically earned some form of weekend counselor certificate online. No one in her life will tell her that she’s not going to make a dime from it. I’m looking forward to watching her life unravel.
>They split custody of their kids 50/50.
Who is the primary conservator? Can he determine the kid's residence?
DID YOU JUST MAKE A FRICKING TYPO IN YOUR POST? YOUR POST THAT WAS SUPPOSED TO BE FUNNY BUT NOW ALL ANYONE WILL NOTICE IS THE TYPO? SO THAT THE TYPO TAKES ALL THE WIND OUT OF THE SAILS OF THE JOKE?
>girlfriend says something mean to me >i bring up that she said something mean to me >"i never said that" "you are gaslighting me"
damn she crazy but she has big breasts, so what can you do
I am so sick and tired of this term. It is entirely used by women and women-adjacent men. My girlfriend uses it, my friend uses it, I cannot stand it anymore. It just means "lying" now. It has nothing to do with the original definition. I don't remember what I told my friend 3 months ago? Now I am "gaslighting" her. My girlfriend hasn't accused me of gaslighting her ever (yet) but she uses the word a lot and if I call her on it she's gonna have some "zinger" to prove me wrong how it's actually the same thing somehow.
You’re sneed feeding me.
Take your trophy bait role ScarJo and frick off.
My current GF did this to me a few arguments ago. Just because I didn't agree on her opinion of something.
>You're gaslighting me! That's abusive
I was so annoyed I told her if she felt that was truly the case, she could leave right now and I wouldn't stop her. She backed down after that.
That's when you tell them you don't feel like you can trust them on an emotional level
You should leaves her if you can. She's saying that to gaslight you herself. If I never had a child I would leave my wife
>If I never had a child I would leave my wife
that's some dark shit you just shared lol
Thats literally how most married couples with children feel
Alright just don't Chris Watts her
I tried to date a girl back during the early lockdown who accused me of doing this. She was sort of right, though— I was trying to convince her that the other guy she was interested in dating was a scumbag grifter.
Ironically, I was correct and he made a fool out of her kek.
That's not gaslighting.
Of course it isn’t, but because what I was telling her made her feel insecure about her relationship with that other guy, she called it gaslighting.
Lmao. Correct move but you can take it further. Say you're not comfortable in a relationship where the other feels like that. Say you need to take a step back and re evaluate if you are a psycho.
You'll never see someone slobber on your dick so fast
Honestly, you should break up with her. Arguments and fights are one thing, but the second she accuses you of abuse once, you just know she will do it again, and maybe to a third party. Her mind is melted by feminist rhetoric and she's gonna do power plays that also make her feel like she's the righteous party.
>Honestly, you should break up with her. Arguments and fights are one thing, but the second she accuses you of abuse once, you just know she will do it again, and maybe to a third party. Her mind is melted by feminist rhetoric and she's gonna do power plays that also make her feel like she's the righteous party.
Quoted for emphasis.
SHE WILL DO IT AGAIN AND WORSE.
Get out of it now. The moment a woman even hints at accusing you of abuse you need to GTFO immediately. They can ruin your life over lies and will.
I wish I would have known this years ago. I spent three years with a girl who did this three months into our relationship. One day she decided she wanted other dick so she cheated on me and tried to play it off like it was okay because I was a gaslighting abuser in her eyes.
Classic great move.
Still, get out as long as still can. This woman sounds like a nightmare
You have to know how to deal with therapy talk b***hes. Instead of trying to explain yourself, you need to say "That's really interesting, what makes you say that? I'm really sensitive to accusations due to past trauma and as a Sagittarius sometimes my desire to be respected pushes people away. I need to continue on my journey of self-actualization." Just listen to some Emma Chamberlain to pick up the lingo.
That sounds exhausting. I'd rather just be alone
Yeah I just tell them to stop talking. If they continue I leave. Works every time.
yes
(I'm not, but I'll say I am to gaslight you)
I want to have sex with ScarJos mouth so badly. I'm addicted to women with luscious lips like hers.
B A S E D
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D
Her lips are the best
>YOU'RE THROAT FRICKING ME !
I don't know how people can deny she's the hottest woman ever
Nobody knows what that word means anymore do they?
literally this
>gaslighting us about the definition of gaslighting
that's some next level abuse anon
I’ve looked up the definition like 10 times and I still forget it. It’s when someone makes you think you’re crazy when you’re not?
>gas light on your car indicates you are low on gas
>you are in fact not low on gas
you've been gaslitty
It's all in your head bro
Huh I'll be damned I thought it had a T.
You're gaslighting me!
it's when someone slowly, over time, tries to convince you that your perceptions are wrong, the metaphor being that they slowly turn down the gas (thus dimming the light), and when you eventually state that the room is darker, they say, "What are you talking about?"
You light your fart on fire?
>t. every women online and irl if you disagree with her twice
YOU'RE gaslighting ME!
You gaslighted me FIRST!
>YOU'RE gaslighting ME into thinking I'm gaslighting you!
The ultimate come back. No way to escape this argument
it's actually a pretty lame comeback despite being true
Doing trophy bait movies should be againts the law.
no u
You're Bondburgering me!
She fat in this.
good
Fcuk yes. I hope she brapped in those trackies.
This pic is really making me reflect on the presence of her pussy under her clothing, the fact that she has a pussy. I feel like I'm on the cusp of a breakthrough here, like if I focus on this "knowing that" she has a pussy underneath her clothes, I'll be able to see it in all women all the time. Today I'm going to experiment with seeing women as naked under their clothes and trying to see their pussy by projecting with my third eye.
Is gaslighting the most worthless term?
>to manipulate another person into doubting their own perceptions, experiences or understanding of events
If there is a conflict of interpretation, expression your opinion or view of an event is not manipulation. Seems like a term invented by weak people to call upon when they're failing an argument.
Yeah, pretty much. That isn’t to say that coercion/manipulation can’t come in the form of arguments, but the term is basically used to describe feeling threatened by a person for disagreeing with you.
Gaslighting used to have meaning and required some actual skill to pull off- it was a result of usually something methodical with planning to trick someone into doing or thinking something against their will- think an ultimate level of persuasion crossed with inception tier lies.
Now it just means anytime some woman who has a skewed view of reality misremembering something, so every 2 minutes, has to have a conversation about how actual physical inarguable events actually occurred.
It's arguably a real manipulation tactic, but to a woman its as simple as "you disagreed with me so you're making me think I'm crazy"
It's a classic catch 22, where if someone thinks they're being gaslit that means they probably aren't, and anyone who's truly being gaslit probably doesn't see it unless it's pointed out to them.
>required some actual skill to pull off
>think an ultimate level of persuasion crossed with inception tier lies.
You sound autistic, gaslighting isn't a skill
Successful gaslighting is absolutely a skill.
>gaslighting is my superpower
I don't think you realize how cringy that sounds, do you joker laugh as well?
It's similar to trolling but not the same.
No it's not. The term has been heavily watered down by blue haired white womyn but you're also watering it down if you choose to believe it's just about convincing people you're right.
Lol shut up you moron, you obviously don’t understand what the term means.
Are you sure about that?
I’ve had the term explained to me several times and I still don’t really get it. How is it different to just tricking someone, or convincing someone to change their views? If a girl (and it has happened) told me I was gaslighting her I’d tell her to frick off with the moronic zoomer buzzwords
It's just lying with the intention of driving the other person crazy.
You might change your mind after being gaslit but that's not the intention behind it.
I came to the same conclusion, it's pretty much an empty buzzword now. "Manipulation" already covers it. And it doesn't help that I noticed the very worst and most manipulative/crazy women you know LOVE to use the word "gaslighting" constantly.
Gaslighters would definitely accuse others of gaslighting. That's absolutely the spirit of it.
Gaslighting (when the term is used correctly) is a very specific kind of manipulation.
>you STUPID FRICKING b***h
>derives from the title of the 1944 film Gaslight
Anyone seen this? Place I would have looked for such a thing recently removed searches.
A great example of gaslighting is NASA.
I'd say the US deepstate since Obama.
kys /misc/x/turd
a great example of a homosexual is you
Gaslight is such a convenient word women came with. Most of the time they're just too spoiled to handle criticism
it's one of the many ways the insincere use to control the sincere
I once lied to my ex gf and she accused me of gaslighting her. It's the inaccuracy that really grinds me gears.
She was really just mad that something I had said spoiled her fun and made her look bad.
are you gaslighting me into thinking that im gaslighting you because you had gaslighted me?
So gaslighting/gaslit etc is now a meaningless buzzword, what's the next term to be driven into the ground?
My guess is vibe.
Depression and narcissism met similar fates to gaslighting, they're all mentally ill behaviors which normies use to refer to normal emotions. Feeling sad = feeling depressed, someone is arrogant = narcissist. If that's the pattern, my guess is the next meaningless buzzword will be maladaptive daydreaming, it's a relatively new term that's already making the usual pop psy rounds. Feel bored and your mind wanders = maladaptive daydreaming.
Gyatt; normies are using the term for any mid ass, and forgetting the term should be reserved for only the greatest of gyatts
Accusing others of gaslighting nowadays is, in most cases, what somebody that gaslights others would do.
In the original sense gaslighting is a form of emotional manipulation ("I like cats." "So you're saying you hate dogs?") and is more often than not used by woman, because all forms of emotional manipulation is their primary form of aggression.
Emotional manipulation in general works better on weak minded, insecure individuals, where as rational, more grounded people typically disengage from people using emotional manipulation, because nothing get's resolved in those types of conversations.
>You're ddlg-ing me
god, I love my gf
10 years, lads
not married?
Are you insane?
how do you have a girlfriend of 10 years and not get married and have kids? You're already just as financially liable as you would be if you were married.
I was the other post
I'm not financially liable because the laws don't work that way here
and also we don't have kids because we don't want them, nor will we ever
My friend's wife decided she wants to divorce. He now has to pay $2400 a month in child support. Her parents are giving her a house so she’s going to just not work and live on the child support. They split custody of their kids 50/50.
shitty
where do you live where ten years of cohabitation doesn't result in shared assets obtained during that time?
>living on 2400 a month with multiple children
Lol no, she’s definitely going to have to get back to work before long.
She believes that she’s going to eventually start her own therapy practice. She dropped out of getting her masters and has basically earned some form of weekend counselor certificate online. No one in her life will tell her that she’s not going to make a dime from it. I’m looking forward to watching her life unravel.
I have no idea honestly.
>They split custody of their kids 50/50.
Who is the primary conservator? Can he determine the kid's residence?
If she keeps a job for a year (likely) I'm putting a ring on her
YOURE BUG GUYING ME
DID YOU JUST MAKE A TYPO?
DID YOU JUST MAKE A FRICKING TYPO IN YOUR POST? YOUR POST THAT WAS SUPPOSED TO BE FUNNY BUT NOW ALL ANYONE WILL NOTICE IS THE TYPO? SO THAT THE TYPO TAKES ALL THE WIND OUT OF THE SAILS OF THE JOKE?
>tfw you realize it's not a typo and the bug guy is in this thread right now
ouffffff
You're clit tickling me!
>girlfriend says something mean to me
>i bring up that she said something mean to me
>"i never said that" "you are gaslighting me"
damn she crazy but she has big breasts, so what can you do
I am so sick and tired of this term. It is entirely used by women and women-adjacent men. My girlfriend uses it, my friend uses it, I cannot stand it anymore. It just means "lying" now. It has nothing to do with the original definition. I don't remember what I told my friend 3 months ago? Now I am "gaslighting" her. My girlfriend hasn't accused me of gaslighting her ever (yet) but she uses the word a lot and if I call her on it she's gonna have some "zinger" to prove me wrong how it's actually the same thing somehow.
I hope they never experience the real thing... maybe it makes their otherwise ordinary life seem more interesting.
I genuinely dont give a frick about a lot of things so women confuse my apathy for gaslighting.
>YOU'RE 360 NOSCOPING ME
She didn't say that
>You're tubthumping me!
You're bean bopping me!!
This is the dude that invented the majority of narcissistic terms.
YOURE CLICKBAITING ME