He was coping because deep down he would have rather been single, banging 20 year old bawds. Was kinda jealous of Rust's lone wolf lifestyle, even though for Cole it was probably miserable.
There's still time. My parents just had another kid in their 40s and she's perfectly healthy and has made their lives joyful again. I'd love to have kids one day seeing the happiness she has bought them and myself.
Ok boomer
I'll happily be single my entire life. Can't put a price on doing what you want when you want. Idk why people are so quick to attach themselves to a ball and chain
I work 70hours a week as a truck driver and can barely afford to take care of myself.
Now you want me to take care of a wife and child? Then I take a look at the divorce laws, public schools, current situation of our country, etc and want me to get married and have kids?
frick no
I wanted to more than anything, but as the years go on I realize it is pointless until the situation is corrected.
>I'm too scared to reproduce
lol
I have a steady career, but as I get older I start to not tolerate women's bullshit even more. Maybe it's because I work at a hospital and it made me a misogynist.
>I hate women too much to reproduce
lol
thanks Mr. Shekelstein, very good
>I won't reproduce because that's what le israelitez want!!!
rofl
Normalgays with a family are the blandest and most soulless and boring husks of human beings, no matter at which company I've been. Humans who can't take care of themselves shouldn't have children. Easy as.
>I'm too cool to reproduce
lmao
Thanks for my daily laugh at incel copes. This is why I come to Cinemaphile
I've never had a gf and I've never had sex, and am happy being unattached to anything. But dude, you should still seriously never say what you just said out loud, it always comes off as a massive cope.
I work 70hours a week as a truck driver and can barely afford to take care of myself.
Now you want me to take care of a wife and child? Then I take a look at the divorce laws, public schools, current situation of our country, etc and want me to get married and have kids?
frick no
I wanted to more than anything, but as the years go on I realize it is pointless until the situation is corrected.
Stop spending all your money on methamphetamine and lot lizards, there’s absolutely no reason you shouldn’t be swimming in money. Doubly so if you aren’t taking care of anyone but yourself. I drove for 8 months 10 years ago and came out of it with 75 thousand dollars. What the frick are you doing with your money?
>I work 70hours a week as a truck driver and can barely afford to take care of myself.
What are you 3rd world? In America, you'd be making six figures, unironically.
>I work 70 hours a week >as a truck driver >I can barely afford to take care of myself
at least one of these statements is false.
How much do you spend on prostitutes, beer, and Crystal?
I guess first focus on that porn addiction. I'll get flamed for this but maybe talk to a professional because these things are sometimes just a symptom of something else in your life that's fricking you up
I have a steady career, but as I get older I start to not tolerate women's bullshit even more. Maybe it's because I work at a hospital and it made me a misogynist.
Nurses, techs, female doctors and female directors are incredibly low IQ. >Work for the IT department >Nurses constantly put in emergency tickets for dumb shit >One put in an emergency ticket because she didn't know she was supposed to click the X to make a message go away (something she could have asked a co-worker, but they all hate each other) >Get multiple "how do I do my job" tickets >Nurses will not accept the answer you give them, even though it's the correct answer >Had a female director who didn't know she was clicking on an ad despite it literally saying "ad" >Female directors in general put in tickets for weird shit, never have a problem with male directors >Techs are usually hoodrat women who can't communicate properly >Had a female doctor throw a b***h fit because an icon for an application was missing >Showed her how to access it through the back way, but she wanted the icon because "it affects patient care"
It's terrifying that some of these roasties are actually married and their husbands let them act like this. That's why I can't be married. I REFUSE to let anyone I deal with leave the house stupid.
>the israelites don't want me to procreate because they want to erase my kind >the israelites want me to procreate to make more cattle to consoom
make up your mind
Normalgays with a family are the blandest and most soulless and boring husks of human beings, no matter at which company I've been. Humans who can't take care of themselves shouldn't have children. Easy as.
you're not interesting for having obscure taste in films & music, you're not better than normalgays for browsing le secret club or being able to hold a conversation in obscure literary topics.
the sooner you realize no one gives a shit and get off your high horse the better your life will be
>thinks life can be better if you are surrounded by moron mindlessly reproducing chimpanzees, who can't help themselves but to always pick the worst of choices for themselves and the surroundings
You are absolutely deluded and definitely too young to give others life advice
>should
No. NDErs say that we can live these lives however we want. There are no musts because everyone goes to heaven unconditionally when they die.
And NDEs are more real than this world, in every way. For example, they are more consistent experiences, illustrated well by this quote:
>"For me, life is sort of like the haunted house. When you come in, you know it's just an experience. It's small, it's just one night, right? So it's just this one life. You're eternal, you have billions of lives, so knowing that you're going to come in just for one to have an experience, though it may be judged as tough, or difficult, or scary, you actually chose it because you knew it was just going to be an experience, you know it's no big deal. You understand on the other side that this part, life, is actually the dream, and you just wake up after. It's no different than one dream you had last night, out of a lifetime of dreams. This life that you're having right now is just one, it's just a blip."
So just like life is more consistent than our dreams (dreams last a few moments, life has been the same for decades), so too is the NDE reality more consistent than life (life has been the same for decades, the NDE reality has been the same for forever, for way more than trillions of years). Here this point is elaborated more on:
And it is instantly evident to NDErs that heaven is real too, even atheists:
>"It's real to us when we're in it, but once I was there in heaven I realized that's more real, that felt more real, and it made much more sense to me than anything here. This is kind of nonsensical at times. In heaven, it's so clear, so real, so rational, so logical, but yet emotional and loving at the same time. Immediately I knew that was real and this was not. Immediately."
From https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/mysteries-consciousness/202204/does-afterlife-obviously-exist
The implications an unconditional heaven would have for society are pretty dire. The classic "but if you're an atheist why don't you just fricking murder someone because there are no consequences anyways" argument would instantly apply to everyone. What would keep anyone from doing evil if they'd be guaranteed a good afterlife regardless?
You fricking israelite, stop spreading this nonsense over the chans. Reincarnation IS A TRAP. Walking into the white light is doom for all to reincarnate on this hellhole.
https://old.reddit.com/r/ReincarnationTruth/comments/pykwyb/ive_researched_the_afterlife_for_nearly_10_years/
Eh, that's starting to get into R-strategist territory. K-strategists should stop at 2-3 kids.
Don't cry when half of them end up on the streets like the low class vermin they are.
>Past a certain age (23), a man without a devoted stay-at-home cardio bunny wife, at least 2 healthy children attending private schools with large social circles, a vested interest in his children's education and keeping them on track to attend an ivy league university, control over his children's screen time and social media usage, college funds for his children, daily family dinners, a friendly dog weighing over 35 lbs, a house in a high-trust area able to entertain parties of up to 40 people, a garden, a book collection, a tasteful collection of wine and spirits, multiple antiques and paintings, ongoing renovation plans for his house, an emergency preparedness kit, multiple guns of various types and the training to use them, at least 2 cars including an SUV, a vacation cabin capable of housing multiple families, a diversified stock portfolio, enough liquid assets to last for 3 to 6 months of expenses, a well-funded retirement plan, life insurance, a well-paying profession with benefits and infrequent travel, the respect of his coworkers, an athletic lifestyle, a healthy sleep schedule, multiple hobbies and artistic skills, a close friend group of white people known for over a decade, an active role in his community through social clubs and volunteer work, the ability to take frequent trips with his spouse and friends as well as family trips, and an active but discrete sex life can be a bad thing.
This is what I hate about families and happiness, it just like appeals to the white supremacy patriarchal sexist male power fantasy. Thank you for saying that
I dunno why but things like this makes me want to Carcosa people like that
It's not envy, I just want to be the out-of-control inevitabily on a lifelong plan
How on earth do you manage all of this at 23? The only people who might have all of this are children of the super rich who don’t actually have to do legit work.
people are memeing if they say you should have a wife kids and house at 19 years old or whatever but there is a place where you should be settling in and that age is 30. i didnt have my first child till I was 31 but was already married and owned a home so it was okay but you really need to lay down a family when you are in your early 30's or you are gonna be one of those.
Suspicious deaths don't happen in my neighbourhood so I'm okay there. Even if something did I figure people would know it wasn't me because it happened outside the home I rarely leave.
>horde all of the women
this is one of the dumbest lies out there >but muh tinder selection bias
something like 13% of American women use tinder which means globally it's like 3% at most
> something like 13% of American women use tinder which means globally it's like 3% at most
In America single young adult women are either on OLD or recently hopped off bc not enough Chad matches or her Chad matches refused to surrender his harem to relationship with her. It's a completely hopeless situation
I'm 27 and never so much as got a woman's phone number. I'd honestly like to get married and have kids but I'm like an alien compared to most guys, and not in a good way. Even if I found a woman willing to put up with me, I'd make a terrible husband and father. I can barely deal with my own problems and make shit money
dont listen to this guy
people are led to believe that life progress is linear nowadays just like the normie view of history, due to the education and work system, but this isn't how it goes.
some people ended up absolutely nowhere for the first 25 years of their lives being junkie dropouts who never worked, and then turn their whole life around. if you make efforts and goals and keep an open mind you can live multiple lives, dont ever let pedophilic israelites take away the transformations you can have by believing their bullshit about genetic depression and genetic social skills and taking dick-killer pills to escape bad thoughts. people who have it all but without the necessary suffering, are not happy, they are just degenerate.
He's right in that Rust needs somebody to stabilise him but he's wrong in thinking that just having a family would accomplish that. They even show that when Rust does start dating that woman but ultimately it falls apart and he doesn't even care that much.
Pretty much, to be honest. Some people don't have the social ability to get a partner without paying for it. What's so bad about that? It's a mutual agreement. There should be a properly regulated brothel on every street corner too, just in case you're in the mood.
Marrying someone doesn’t automatically mean they love or even like you. Imagine having to take care of someone that actively hates you and will leave as soon as she cements her citizenship and steals enough of your money.
Literally why is accusing people of being Indian the response to everything these days?
12 months ago
Anonymous
Because every day another 5 million pajeets get access to the internet and they are ruining the world
12 months ago
Anonymous
Because Indians are completely fine with buying their wives from the wives fathers, the comment I was responding to said that was the nature of his parents marriage. There’s a reason that India is the rape capital of the entire world, that’s what happens when you’re raised to think women are objects you possess. It’s all about context my street shitting banchod.
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>Because Indians are completely fine with buying their wives from the wives fathers
You're a fricking moron. It is the other way around. The fathers have to bribe the guys to take their daughters. A girl I used to work with was about to marry a doctor and his family pulled a $60K dowry demand out of their arse two weeks before.
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Dude I’m fricking desi and dowries are only for families with lots of money.
not everyone wants love out of a relationship. My wife and I entered into a partnership to raise kids together (out of obligation to our parents). Outside of fostering a healthy environment for them, we're pretty much independent of each other.
That sounds awful, you will both give off bad vibes to your children and they will think that's how normal couples should be when it's not.
That's basically how my parents were. Now that me and my siblings are adults they can't even be in the same room for 10 minutes without yelling arguments and live apart. My siblings left town so I have to deal with this for 20 years as they are entering retirement age without much savings at all
If the keeds are the only thing holding the marriage together then it's gonna get bad very fast when they grow up
Brothels are dead. They were already dying and then covid killed them. Sex work is completely legal and regulated in my country and now that they can do it from their own home, as well as verify people's identity and details online prior to meeting them, there's absolutely no need for a house which takes a cut. They still exist here but they're all full of fresh off the boat Chinese that can barely speak English and they're way rarer than they used to be.
I don't think prostitution is even legal in my country. It's definitely not available to someone like me. I wouldn't know where to look.
Again, the sex-havers horde all of this stuff away from us.
As a former prostitute monger, sex is shit and I now don't care about not having a girlfriend, I prefer to just jack off in the morning then get on with my day
Just nuke Melbourne and Sydney and then you don't need the asteroid. This is a beautiful country but unfortunately it's full of Australians. And now chinks.
>Brothels are dead.
No they aren't. Just the business is changing along with everything else in society. Had a friend who had to run one for a few weeks to collect a legitimate business debt. It made a fricking shit ton of money an the only thing that stopped him from buying in when offered was the stigma that running sex workers has with his other business networks. As much as it is "completely legal" it is still at the fringes and you still have to deal with a lot of criminals trying to get the worker for nefarious shit (a big one is stopping them from selling cocaine). That brothel wasn't chinks it was a mix of backpackers and failed models. Having the house taking a cut makes it very easy as the location, marketing and security is taken care of for them - a lot of girls who freelance also work part time in the brothels when they need something steady while they relocate or restart after a break.
>It's a mutual agreement
No it's not, what you are talking about it's a bussiness transaction
When the money is gone, the girl is instantly gone. PLEASE don't tell me that you are one of those who thinks she'll grow on you and stick with you during hard times
No? That literally didn't happen to half of the people I knew who were legitimately married. The woman gets bored and fricks off as soon as she thinks she can get a better man. That's what women do. I still want to have one for a little while.
I would honestly bring some filipina here if she came with lifetime warranty. But this way she can come here, get a job, meet some friends and find a new guy, she doesn't even need a green card from me
When did you accept that nothing was ever going to change? Eventually, we all have "a day" that becomes the template for the rest of our lives. What was yours?
6 years ago I was made redundant from my job and got a year's salary as a payout. I thought I would use that time to make a fresh start with my life and yet I did absolutely nothing for an entire year. I just treaded water as a neet until the money ran out and then got another shitty job I hated. I don't deserve a better life. I had every chance to actually do something different and I yet I chose not to. If I do make anything with my life with complete freedom and a financial headstart then I never will. Things won't ever get better and I'm the reason why.
When I got a gf at 26
My life is pretty much the same 5 years later, with added shit
I learned that there is no such thing as "your shit changing", you just add shit to your current shit
i dont understand this, i'm 25 KHHV neet and my life is completely different from how it was 5 years ago due to things i started doing, i still have some of the same issues but i live a very different life and i'm basically a completely different person both mentally and physically after getting over social anxiety and getting Cinemaphile and looksmaxxing
i literally didnt use to go outside for months justing grinding MMOs, how did my shit not change?
I went through a boxing phase that lasted a year and a half and got mega shredded but on the big scheme of life I was the same person inside later.
Just because you take a 2 weeks vacation trip to New Zeland and do completely different shit, when the ride is over and you fall back to "normal" you'll realize looking back that it was a big slope but the rollercoaster is the same.
Some people do make a complete 360, but it's fringe cases like that dude from that movie that from a rich family became a hippie and died eating poisonous plants.
Those are real changes
Yours is not
>I went through a boxing phase that lasted a year and a half and got mega shredded
Thats badass, had you ever done any kind of fighting before that?
I'm out of shape but I've been trying to change that by going to the gym regularly
>had you ever done any kind of fighting before that?
None
But like I said
That's a toolset and looks I don't have use for
It was cool while it lasted, but because I didn't become a boxer, i just fall back to normal me
Ask yourself if you are commited to be Cinemaphile and looksmaxxing all your life, even if it has no usefulness in your life, then you'll know if you've changed or not
i'm the guy you replied to, its funny because one of the things i did was start muay thai, which i've been doing for over 3 years now and still do, i never went on vacation either, i understand what you mean, but in the long term i disagree, if i didnt take any of these steps my life would end with me killing myself without basically experiencing anything, its a gradual process to transform, you simply suffer from depression and need to stay just at the right amount of discomfort for a long time to change your life. your post is basically just saying that no change whatsoever is valid, you didn't set any actual standards or anything, thats just how you feel, and you shouldnt even think about that, just change your life the way you want it to be.
you will probably always have a daily routine that you get "stuck" in, but you can seek out novelty if thats what you want, and your routine doesnt have to be mundane suffering.
i'm the guy you replied to, its funny because one of the things i did was start muay thai, which i've been doing for over 3 years now and still do, i never went on vacation either, i understand what you mean, but in the long term i disagree, if i didnt take any of these steps my life would end with me killing myself without basically experiencing anything, its a gradual process to transform, you simply suffer from depression and need to stay just at the right amount of discomfort for a long time to change your life. your post is basically just saying that no change whatsoever is valid, you didn't set any actual standards or anything, thats just how you feel, and you shouldnt even think about that, just change your life the way you want it to be.
you will probably always have a daily routine that you get "stuck" in, but you can seek out novelty if thats what you want, and your routine doesnt have to be mundane suffering.
i forgot to emphasize, i also feel the same way about getting Cinemaphile and all that being a waste because i dont "use" it, but i am using it in how i'm changing my life altogether, my identity and mind changed, i don't get girls or anything like that yet, but thats just another goal you can seek out. which is what i'm doing right now, i stopped being a bugman and now i'm setting my mind on socialization and getting back into trying to make it financially, even though i'm at square one with all of these, i didn't even have those quests unlocked a few years ago, but now i have the tools and everything.
1.5 year of boxing is also not that much dude, it is a big thing to start since its too intimidating for 99% of normies to even start and you seem to acknowledge that, just get back on it and aim to simply be consistent with it, you don't have to do fights or have goals in it, even training once a week will have an impact on who you are and what your life is.
>Eventually, we all have "a day" that becomes the template for the rest of our lives.
clearly you understand your problem, so make an attempt to change it?
people have routines, no shit, humans are adaptive and you basically start making little chemicals that make you slowly content doing whatever you do to survive in your environment, if you want to feel then you need to get out and break some patterns.
Basically it comes down to a realisation that no matter how much you want something, or try to change yourself, you're still a slave to the whims of everyone around you, and they will fight tooth and claw not to change, and not to let you have anything you want.
I'm starting to think this as well. Better than being with a wife that resents you and a bunch of kids putting grease marks all over your shit and btfo'ing your economy.
Your wife is your best friend, right Cinemaphile? Like, its okay to have a dude you call your “best friend” who you hang out and drink beer with, but you are married to your lifelong best friend whom you’d forsake all others, right?
>marry a girl you grew up with
I was too stupid and didn’t play with girls when I was younger
Well there was this one tomboy and I had a crush on her too but she got lots of attention from boys and moved away at the end of the 4th grade
because women get brainwashed by the globohomosexual israelite into thinking she needs to "sow her oats" and gets convinced that she cucked herself out of a fun party lifestyle because she got hitched too early
How different is this than just marrying your (similar in age) sister? Assuming no genetic issues with offspring it doesn’t seem that different than marrying your childhood friend. And no I’m not attracted to my sister or anything, I don’t even have siblings I just never understood the normie hatred of incest besides the genetic issues.
>past a certain age, a man without a supermodel wife, a rich father in law, multiple 10/10 girlfriends, and a nice lawn all on a cop's salary, can be a bad thing
I don't see how people have more than two kids and not wanna kill themselves. You have absolutely no free time and your wife will refuse to frick you because she'll be too concerned with the kids.
Once you get past two and one of them hits 12 it’s like shaving an extra adult (if it’s female).
I heard from a couple with 5 that if you have good relationships with your extended family it’s no different than 3: lots of baby sitting and extracurriculars gives you free time and once they hit 15 they basically only require money rather than time to raise.
>Jesus Christ
no kids >Buddha
no kids >Muhammad
no kids >Isaac Newton
no kids >Plato
no kids >Mary Magdalene
no kids >Mother Teresa
no kids >Florence Nightingale
no kids >Joan of Arc
no kids >Lawrence of Arabia
no kids >Edward the Confessor,
no kids >the Dali Lama
no kids >the Pope
no kids >Dr. Seuss
no kids >Amelia Earhart
no kids >Wright brothers
no kids >George Bernard Shaw
no kids >Beethoven
no kids >Tchaikovsky
no kids >Mussorgsky
no kids >T.S. Elliot
no kids >George Washington
no kids >Leonardo
no kids >Michelangelo
no kids >Vincent
no kids >Virgil
no kids >Salvador Dali
no kids >Jackson Pollock
no kids >Thoreau
no kids >Chekhov
no kids >Nietzsche
no kids >Schubert
no kids >Spinoza
no kids >Keats
no kids >Poe
no kids >Proust
no kids >Rimbaud
no kids >Whitman
no kids >Harlan Ellison
no kids >Lewis Carroll
no kids >Joseph Campbell
no kids >Immanuel Kant
no kids
lying israelites be lying. All have / had kids, just not in the public eye. >Harlan Ellison
Proof that you are israeli - he was a deviant and got several fans pregnant, but never claimed any of his bastards.
>33 yo >no real education >never held down a real job >no money >no family >no gf >junkie >criminal past
Pretty comfy tbh. Looks like the human race is getting btfo by 2040 so I think I was right in never saving up for retirement.
Lmao you morons know census data has existed since Rome right? You can literally look back and see what age people were married and with what income brackets. You tards have been convinced that the norm is to be married at like 20 but truth is the historic average is like 25-27 with 30+ not being uncommon. In particular you see during depressions and recessions the marriage age increases with 20-24 average happing in economic booms like post ww2.
Point being it’s only to late if you decide it’s to late.
I dumped a girl because she wanted kids and I didn't. Now i'm alone and sad. I make enough money to support kids, I just don't want to be enslaved for the next 20 years. I want to be able to quit whenever I want. Is this price really worth paying to not be alone?
I met a girl who I think was my actual soul mate. She wanted kids and I didn't so she left. Now I'm thinking that maybe I fricked up, maybe I was supposed to be with her.
>all my friends are married, some have kids >I have never had a gf and haven't had sex in years
Heh, at least I'm almost done with my phd and have a few research papers published, r-right?
I am slightly autistic and just have weird vibe that makes women feel repulsed. I also have no body language and can't read one.
Additionally I lack any religious feelings and have no reproductive desires.
I do have extreme libido though, just no feelings regarding having offspring.
When I was young inability to have sexual intercourse with women almost drove me to suicide, so I started to use prostitutes.
So far I fricked around 150 women(95% prostitutes), 300 ladyboys/shemales and around 5 guys(wanted to check if I am gay, but sex was unenjoyable).
The reason I frick ladyboys is that even female prostitutes sense you are autistic and start ridiculing you or having contempt.
I spend all my money on travels to SEA and rarely buy clothes or personal items.
For a while I managed to frick normal women by studying human behaviour and pretending to be a busy business man with little time but it was too exhausting in the long term and I was unhappy with the ratio of effort/results.
I usually frick the same person only once, and I am not attracted to the person afterwards.
If I like a woman or ladyboy I am no longer attracted sexually to them.
Ladyboys and trans.
Women aren't good at sex unless they get excited, which happens very rarely, guys lack sensuality. Trans girls often are both horny and sensual.
Cool. I used to hang out with a troony. I liked the mix of female sensuality coupled with the male sexual drive. Seeing her dick took me out of it though.
Literally the one advantage balding very early in life has. It immediately makes them look older, but then are perceived to be aging less due to already looking older to begin with. See Patrick Stewart.
>23 >some sexual experience but had years of dryspell also so feel like the KHHV guys anyway
And I absolutely refuse to settle for the ugly girls or fat girls which I see some guys doing. I tried it too because of the "just lower your standards bro" meme and it made me unhappy. Anyone else in this spot?
>30yo >in shape, gym 4-5 times a week >$55k/yr job in low cost of living area >no gf since I was 16 >went on one date 4 years ago and I gave her the ick so bad she left mid-date >she was a coworker too so it was kinda awkward >she's fat now anyway I'm glad it didn't work out
>start work at a call center >sit next to a girl that's about my age >her smile lights up the room, she is always happy and cheerful >over the course of a year she starts talking to me more >will spend her break time sitting next to me and talking >sometimes sneaks up behind me and runs her fingers through my hair >I ask other men if they think she's into me >"nah" >ask her out anyway >turns out she gets asked out a lot at work and says no to everyone because she doesn't date coworkers(thus the other men telling me no) >makes an exception for me >wow she must really like me >we go on a date to an Italian restaurant first >bill comes >we split the bill because I'm a sperg and didn't know the intricacies of dating and how women like being provided for >on our way to movie >go to bathroom >get a text from her "I really don't want to be here...." >ok I guess we can do something else >leave bathroom >her face is red with embarrassment, says her sister is gonna pick her up and for me to enjoy the movie >wtf? >she tells me that text was meant for her sister not me >oh.... OH.....
long story short, if you like a girl PAY THE FRICKING BILL I don't care how much the both of you make
Splitting the bill these days is code for "there isn't going to be a 2nd date" or saying you have no chemistry. God I feel awful looking back on my dumb ass.
No, you're moronic. If a girl actually likes you she's not gonna break it off over buying her own meal.
Women will buy YOU shit if they actually like you.
You no longer have to lie awake at night in regret over splitting the bill, you can spend that time wondering what you ACK-chewally did that made her so dry 🙂
No, you're moronic. If a girl actually likes you she's not gonna break it off over buying her own meal.
Women will buy YOU shit if they actually like you.
You no longer have to lie awake at night in regret over splitting the bill, you can spend that time wondering what you ACK-chewally did that made her so dry 🙂
oh, it was probably me attempting to hold her hand too early
kek, imagine thinking the problem was that you didn't pay for her on the first fricking date and NOT that you invaded her personal space at first opportunity lmao
Girls are moronic and have double standards, you can't expect them to act sensibly
Also I'm so not used to being touched that if someone ran their fingers through my hair from behind me I'd most likely elbow jab them by instinct alone or worse
A girl touching a guy is different than a guy touching a girl. When girls like guys they can touch the guy's chest, touch his hair, etc. But if you're a guy you never do that to a girl unless you've been dating for a while. Holding hands for a girl is also a lot more intimate than touching your hair. That said, splitting the bill and holding hands too early are faux pas but really shouldn't be deal breakers if she likes you. It might have been something else.
>mfw I could've had a 17-year-old by now if the woman I lost my virginity to hadn't miscarried >mfw I could've had a 10-year-old by now if the woman I dated at 25 hadn't miscarried >mfw I could've had a 5-year-old by now if my ex-wife actually wanted children and didn't lie to me from the start
It's over.
>I wish I could just forget about the past
Yeah, I try not to think about it, but it's pretty hard when your life just reset from a divorce (I've basically been homeless for a year, thank god for good friends).
You're in your mid 30s, your friends all have kids between 2 and 6, so even if you have a kid now or a year from now, your friends children are too old, and when your children get to their age THEY are staring fricking middle-school, and when your kid is a late teenager YOU are fricking 50.
I'm 31 and have accomplished literally nothing in my entire life. I can't even foresee myself not committing suicide by the end of the year, let alone anything required of having a normal functional life. The thought of having a family or even a relationship is so far outside my realm of comprehension that it might as well be a made up fantasy. And then I have free days like this weekend and I just sit here doing literally nothing. I don't even leave the house. I make no efforts to do anything to change. Please god strike me down.
>trade glances with a girl all the time, but i dont know her >i only meet her at public transport, and asking her out in there is a bit too much for me, and i dont get an opportunity to catch her alone.
She probably thinks i have a gf because i dont ask her out.
I wish i had more confidence, fellow wizards, or i am wrong and she isnt into me or i am missing a huge opportunity here...
Being constantly stressed out and drowned in responsibilities is what keeps men sane until they retire.
Having extra time to think or have hobbies is very dangerous if you aren’t extremely disciplined.
Objectively?
Yes. Security in old age, if you do it right.
As your parents get older you’ll see a lot of their single friends start getting desperate and getting married in a rush to virtual strangers because they don’t want to die alone. But even that and a bunch of savings doesn’t protect them from the inevitable situation of being old, alone, and increasingly senile: unable to financially or physically care for yourself and burning through the little money you have left on care services and hospital bills, until the state finally declares you unfit to handle yourself and you get stuck in a home that’s basically a glorified coffin for people who didn’t want kids or didn’t care to instill any values in them.
Thats not really a viable option even if you have good kids with good values because they will have their own family and responsibilities by then and they can't/won't put their life on hold for however many years just to care for their parents, it just isn't realistic.
no
and if you have to ask such question, it's a double no
doesn't mean you couldn't pick up java (or programming in general) as a hobby, and work at your own pace, see where it takes you
if you want to get your foot in the door with no knowledge or experience, q&a is your best bet. spam resumes, don't get discouraged, be open to relocation. good luck anon.
it's pretty rough out there and such a naive question made me think you didn't even glance at the extent of such thing, the market, the competition, the breadth of the domain itself.
i don't want to discourage you, i think the transition is possible, i've seen it before. if you have engineering/applied sciences credentials 6 months is enough to land an entry level codemonkeying job. otherwise i'd say 2 years, workshops, volunteering in non-profit projects, to get something in your resume. don't get scammed by a bootcamp.
why dont women want to get married and start a family? they all want "kids someday" but then they are 40 with no kids. If it was men who got pregnant guys who probably have dozens of kids to try to build an army. Hopefully artificial wombs will give men the freedom to have kids without needing a woman.
Honestly I don't get why everyone doesn't have a kid first chance they get. If you look online for people who say they regret having kids, everyone who for one reason or another "regrets" it also says it's the best decision they ever made and they wouldn't change it for the world.
>If you look online for people who say they regret having kids, everyone who for one reason or another "regrets" it also says it's the best decision they ever made and they wouldn't change it for the world.
if you asked my parents if having their one child would turn out like me, they would have aborted me and never had children. i cringe to even think about how much my parents regret my birth
>If you think they're so disappointed in you then why not use that as motivaton to become someone they can be proud of?
because ive given up and dont care anymore, and ive ruined and wasted my life anyway. i feel bad for them that their only child became a completely worthless pathetic loser, but in all honesty they werent great parents anyway. very little affection, barely taught me any life skills. i dont care. i just live in misery and will kill myself soon.
i wish a woman would marry me and we could have like ten kids together and i could become a famous movie director and make kinos for all the world to enjoy but sadly i am just another incel chud posting on Cinemaphile
This but I don’t need to be a movie director, I just need to have a simple job that is respected by society and my family and that is capable of providing for my family.
45 if you're a man. 30 if you're a woman. Don't listen to doomer bullshit that morons spew out saying it's over after 25. However, don't waste time just because you think you have it. Always work towards the long term goals. Don't get lazy or demoralized. Get off the internet if you need to make it happen.
>Go to college for 2 years >Drop out >Be virgin NEET for 10 years >Be 29 >Finally decide to follow my dream of getting a Ph.D >Waited too long, school won't accept my credits and have to start all the way over
So much for being done before I'm 40.
So do I stay the course or do what Cinemaphile says will make me happy and go get a job so I can meet a girl and have babies?
Whatever age Rust was.
it's a good thing that Rust can use Marty's family once in a while
marty was talking about himself. not about rust
rust had a kid and a family tho
He lost that family.
Unlike women, men don't move on as easily when it comes to stuff like that
He was coping because deep down he would have rather been single, banging 20 year old bawds. Was kinda jealous of Rust's lone wolf lifestyle, even though for Cole it was probably miserable.
At that point Marty was single. He just couldn’t bang college age bawds because he was fat and bald, and didn’t even have a cool job anymore.
interesting parallel between the two
by 35 you should have a steady career, a wife, a kid and at least one more on the way
>me when i'm 39 and work a part time job, never had a gf and obviously never plan on having kids
hahah, it's like "oh well"
it's ok, I'll knock up your gf and she'll tell you it's your baby.
There's still time. My parents just had another kid in their 40s and she's perfectly healthy and has made their lives joyful again. I'd love to have kids one day seeing the happiness she has bought them and myself.
Ok boomer
I'll happily be single my entire life. Can't put a price on doing what you want when you want. Idk why people are so quick to attach themselves to a ball and chain
>umm I don't actually WANT to reproduce
kek
>I'm too scared to reproduce
lol
>I hate women too much to reproduce
lol
>I won't reproduce because that's what le israelitez want!!!
rofl
>I'm too cool to reproduce
lmao
Thanks for my daily laugh at incel copes. This is why I come to Cinemaphile
>I'm too addicted to Cinemaphile to reproduce
ROFLMAO
I bet you haven't reproduced, you projecting crack head
I've never had a gf and I've never had sex, and am happy being unattached to anything. But dude, you should still seriously never say what you just said out loud, it always comes off as a massive cope.
I work 70hours a week as a truck driver and can barely afford to take care of myself.
Now you want me to take care of a wife and child? Then I take a look at the divorce laws, public schools, current situation of our country, etc and want me to get married and have kids?
frick no
I wanted to more than anything, but as the years go on I realize it is pointless until the situation is corrected.
Stop spending all your money on methamphetamine and lot lizards, there’s absolutely no reason you shouldn’t be swimming in money. Doubly so if you aren’t taking care of anyone but yourself. I drove for 8 months 10 years ago and came out of it with 75 thousand dollars. What the frick are you doing with your money?
>10 years ago
>What the frick are you doing with your money?
Anon, I....
Truck drivers make bank. You're just shit with your money
yea, I can take care of myself, that's what I do
How am I supposed to add a wife and child to that?
you can't be a truck driver and start a family. its impossible. She WILL cheat
Nah you just have to move your mother in to watch that b***h.
>I work 70hours a week as a truck driver and can barely afford to take care of myself.
What are you 3rd world? In America, you'd be making six figures, unironically.
>I work 70 hours a week
>as a truck driver
>I can barely afford to take care of myself
at least one of these statements is false.
How much do you spend on prostitutes, beer, and Crystal?
32 here
>shit call center job
>no gf, no friends
>slept with one (1) fat chick in my entire life
>addicted to porn
so I'm a failure. how the frick do I even recover from this fricking life
I guess first focus on that porn addiction. I'll get flamed for this but maybe talk to a professional because these things are sometimes just a symptom of something else in your life that's fricking you up
how badly are you addicted to porn?
Like watching it without jerking off?
First step: you now only jerk off to pictures of dressed women. No videos, no naked shit, no sound.
I have a steady career, but as I get older I start to not tolerate women's bullshit even more. Maybe it's because I work at a hospital and it made me a misogynist.
>I work at a hospital and it made me a misogynist.
How exactly?
Nurses, techs, female doctors and female directors are incredibly low IQ.
>Work for the IT department
>Nurses constantly put in emergency tickets for dumb shit
>One put in an emergency ticket because she didn't know she was supposed to click the X to make a message go away (something she could have asked a co-worker, but they all hate each other)
>Get multiple "how do I do my job" tickets
>Nurses will not accept the answer you give them, even though it's the correct answer
>Had a female director who didn't know she was clicking on an ad despite it literally saying "ad"
>Female directors in general put in tickets for weird shit, never have a problem with male directors
>Techs are usually hoodrat women who can't communicate properly
>Had a female doctor throw a b***h fit because an icon for an application was missing
>Showed her how to access it through the back way, but she wanted the icon because "it affects patient care"
It's terrifying that some of these roasties are actually married and their husbands let them act like this. That's why I can't be married. I REFUSE to let anyone I deal with leave the house stupid.
>IT nerd
yeah, thats why you're not getting married. because you dont want to. lol.
thanks Mr. Shekelstein, very good
>the israelites don't want me to procreate because they want to erase my kind
>the israelites want me to procreate to make more cattle to consoom
make up your mind
Encouraging race-mixing provides an answer to both those claims.
>one more on the way at 35
Only if your wife is 3+ years younger
It's a win for me if I'm not homeless by 40.
Normalgays with a family are the blandest and most soulless and boring husks of human beings, no matter at which company I've been. Humans who can't take care of themselves shouldn't have children. Easy as.
Sour grapes, when you die your cat will eat you.
>thinks having offspring will protect his rotting corpse from becoming worm food
you're not interesting for having obscure taste in films & music, you're not better than normalgays for browsing le secret club or being able to hold a conversation in obscure literary topics.
the sooner you realize no one gives a shit and get off your high horse the better your life will be
>thinks life can be better if you are surrounded by moron mindlessly reproducing chimpanzees, who can't help themselves but to always pick the worst of choices for themselves and the surroundings
You are absolutely deluded and definitely too young to give others life advice
already have a steady career at 26 but my autism is off the chart, no way in hell I'll have a family
it's so over
One more of which?. A career, a new wife or a kid?
>should
No. NDErs say that we can live these lives however we want. There are no musts because everyone goes to heaven unconditionally when they die.
And NDEs are more real than this world, in every way. For example, they are more consistent experiences, illustrated well by this quote:
>"For me, life is sort of like the haunted house. When you come in, you know it's just an experience. It's small, it's just one night, right? So it's just this one life. You're eternal, you have billions of lives, so knowing that you're going to come in just for one to have an experience, though it may be judged as tough, or difficult, or scary, you actually chose it because you knew it was just going to be an experience, you know it's no big deal. You understand on the other side that this part, life, is actually the dream, and you just wake up after. It's no different than one dream you had last night, out of a lifetime of dreams. This life that you're having right now is just one, it's just a blip."
So just like life is more consistent than our dreams (dreams last a few moments, life has been the same for decades), so too is the NDE reality more consistent than life (life has been the same for decades, the NDE reality has been the same for forever, for way more than trillions of years). Here this point is elaborated more on:
And it is instantly evident to NDErs that heaven is real too, even atheists:
>"It's real to us when we're in it, but once I was there in heaven I realized that's more real, that felt more real, and it made much more sense to me than anything here. This is kind of nonsensical at times. In heaven, it's so clear, so real, so rational, so logical, but yet emotional and loving at the same time. Immediately I knew that was real and this was not. Immediately."
From https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/mysteries-consciousness/202204/does-afterlife-obviously-exist
So heaven is undeniably real.
The implications an unconditional heaven would have for society are pretty dire. The classic "but if you're an atheist why don't you just fricking murder someone because there are no consequences anyways" argument would instantly apply to everyone. What would keep anyone from doing evil if they'd be guaranteed a good afterlife regardless?
You fricking israelite, stop spreading this nonsense over the chans. Reincarnation IS A TRAP. Walking into the white light is doom for all to reincarnate on this hellhole.
https://old.reddit.com/r/ReincarnationTruth/comments/pykwyb/ive_researched_the_afterlife_for_nearly_10_years/
im 33 and single, its not my fault women refuse to marry me
might be your fault
you son of a b***h
I'm 26 and have 5 kids. Got a job right out of college then married my gf and we've made it a goal to have one kid every year.
Eh, that's starting to get into R-strategist territory. K-strategists should stop at 2-3 kids.
Don't cry when half of them end up on the streets like the low class vermin they are.
this is my dream but im an old man... maybe in the next life
>this is my dream
Honestly, what is the appeal?
you wouldnt get it
Guess what you only get one life
rip
by 35 you should have conquered persia and died
how were the 50s? you old homosexual?
>Past a certain age (23), a man without a devoted stay-at-home cardio bunny wife, at least 2 healthy children attending private schools with large social circles, a vested interest in his children's education and keeping them on track to attend an ivy league university, control over his children's screen time and social media usage, college funds for his children, daily family dinners, a friendly dog weighing over 35 lbs, a house in a high-trust area able to entertain parties of up to 40 people, a garden, a book collection, a tasteful collection of wine and spirits, multiple antiques and paintings, ongoing renovation plans for his house, an emergency preparedness kit, multiple guns of various types and the training to use them, at least 2 cars including an SUV, a vacation cabin capable of housing multiple families, a diversified stock portfolio, enough liquid assets to last for 3 to 6 months of expenses, a well-funded retirement plan, life insurance, a well-paying profession with benefits and infrequent travel, the respect of his coworkers, an athletic lifestyle, a healthy sleep schedule, multiple hobbies and artistic skills, a close friend group of white people known for over a decade, an active role in his community through social clubs and volunteer work, the ability to take frequent trips with his spouse and friends as well as family trips, and an active but discrete sex life can be a bad thing.
Uhm sorry sweaty that is white supremacy patriarchy male fantasy
This is what I hate about families and happiness, it just like appeals to the white supremacy patriarchal sexist male power fantasy. Thank you for saying that
I'm so glad some one actually stepped up and said it
Why would you hate families and happiness? Are you mad at God for something?
SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE FOLKS AT THE BACK
I dunno why but things like this makes me want to Carcosa people like that
It's not envy, I just want to be the out-of-control inevitabily on a lifelong plan
Haha yeah I don't want nor need that
I have enough money to last 3 years. Just that. I guess that’s something.
Did anyone actually read all this
Yeah, some of us didn't destroy our attention spans with tiktok
Greentexts aren’t any better
No I was busy spending time with my family.
i did, and it is quite good. basically tics all the boxes. probably not by age 23 but possible if you rode the stocks/crypto waves perfectly.
that sounds like hell
fitter happier - radiohead
How on earth do you manage all of this at 23? The only people who might have all of this are children of the super rich who don’t actually have to do legit work.
You don't, it's a moronic power fantasy for tradlarpers who can't handle reality not meeting their expectations.
>a friendly dog weighing over 35 lbs
>past a certain age, a man without a family can be a bad thing - t. moved lawn man
people are memeing if they say you should have a wife kids and house at 19 years old or whatever but there is a place where you should be settling in and that age is 30. i didnt have my first child till I was 31 but was already married and owned a home so it was okay but you really need to lay down a family when you are in your early 30's or you are gonna be one of those.
24
dude not cool
>fall for the family meme
>your wife divorces you, takes half your shit, and your kids begin to hate you
>no kid or wife past 35
>neighborhood start thinking you're a creepy pedophile and monitor you
Pretty sure my neighbours know I'm just a loser that's a borderline shut-in.
sure and if one suspicious death happens there everyone will think you did it
who gives a shit?
Suspicious deaths don't happen in my neighbourhood so I'm okay there. Even if something did I figure people would know it wasn't me because it happened outside the home I rarely leave.
>look ten years younger
>milf neighbor eyefricks me whenever I'm back from my morning run
You should penisfrick her
Who the frick cares. My neighbors think I'm crazy, I don't care.
I'm thinking 21
>Long term single at 38 and realise exactly what he means
I know that feel
>horde all of the women
>don't let me use theirs
>get mad at me for not having one
What the frick do normalgays want?
>horde all of the women
this is one of the dumbest lies out there
>but muh tinder selection bias
something like 13% of American women use tinder which means globally it's like 3% at most
I didn't say anything about tinder.
Where are the women who are available to funny looking autistic men with no life prospects? Show them to me.
> something like 13% of American women use tinder which means globally it's like 3% at most
In America single young adult women are either on OLD or recently hopped off bc not enough Chad matches or her Chad matches refused to surrender his harem to relationship with her. It's a completely hopeless situation
the age is 25 and you missed you chance
>31
what now bros? The Smith & Wesson retirement plan?
you don't need to have a nice day, you just have to accept you will never have a functional family.
underrated
>26
And to think I had a chance bros
24.
once you're over 24 it's basically over for you to establish a viable long-term relationship.
I'm 27 and never so much as got a woman's phone number. I'd honestly like to get married and have kids but I'm like an alien compared to most guys, and not in a good way. Even if I found a woman willing to put up with me, I'd make a terrible husband and father. I can barely deal with my own problems and make shit money
That's bullshit
dont listen to this guy
people are led to believe that life progress is linear nowadays just like the normie view of history, due to the education and work system, but this isn't how it goes.
some people ended up absolutely nowhere for the first 25 years of their lives being junkie dropouts who never worked, and then turn their whole life around. if you make efforts and goals and keep an open mind you can live multiple lives, dont ever let pedophilic israelites take away the transformations you can have by believing their bullshit about genetic depression and genetic social skills and taking dick-killer pills to escape bad thoughts. people who have it all but without the necessary suffering, are not happy, they are just degenerate.
He's right in that Rust needs somebody to stabilise him but he's wrong in thinking that just having a family would accomplish that. They even show that when Rust does start dating that woman but ultimately it falls apart and he doesn't even care that much.
I'm starting to think that mail order brides should become legal
It's a great way to entitle a stranger to half your things.
Pretty much, to be honest. Some people don't have the social ability to get a partner without paying for it. What's so bad about that? It's a mutual agreement. There should be a properly regulated brothel on every street corner too, just in case you're in the mood.
Marrying someone doesn’t automatically mean they love or even like you. Imagine having to take care of someone that actively hates you and will leave as soon as she cements her citizenship and steals enough of your money.
I mean, that happened with my parents, and that was a normal marriage.
Nope, poojeets aren’t normal people.
Literally why is accusing people of being Indian the response to everything these days?
Because every day another 5 million pajeets get access to the internet and they are ruining the world
Because Indians are completely fine with buying their wives from the wives fathers, the comment I was responding to said that was the nature of his parents marriage. There’s a reason that India is the rape capital of the entire world, that’s what happens when you’re raised to think women are objects you possess. It’s all about context my street shitting banchod.
>Because Indians are completely fine with buying their wives from the wives fathers
You're a fricking moron. It is the other way around. The fathers have to bribe the guys to take their daughters. A girl I used to work with was about to marry a doctor and his family pulled a $60K dowry demand out of their arse two weeks before.
Dude I’m fricking desi and dowries are only for families with lots of money.
https://m.timesofindia.com/city/jaipur/in-hadauti-brides-are-available-for-rs-50000/amp_articleshow/59571423.cms
not everyone wants love out of a relationship. My wife and I entered into a partnership to raise kids together (out of obligation to our parents). Outside of fostering a healthy environment for them, we're pretty much independent of each other.
That sounds awful, you will both give off bad vibes to your children and they will think that's how normal couples should be when it's not.
nta, but didn't he just describe the average marriage up until last century?
That's basically how my parents were. Now that me and my siblings are adults they can't even be in the same room for 10 minutes without yelling arguments and live apart. My siblings left town so I have to deal with this for 20 years as they are entering retirement age without much savings at all
If the keeds are the only thing holding the marriage together then it's gonna get bad very fast when they grow up
>without much savings
sounds like that's the real problem. your parents are irresponsible and poor decision makers
Brothels are dead. They were already dying and then covid killed them. Sex work is completely legal and regulated in my country and now that they can do it from their own home, as well as verify people's identity and details online prior to meeting them, there's absolutely no need for a house which takes a cut. They still exist here but they're all full of fresh off the boat Chinese that can barely speak English and they're way rarer than they used to be.
I don't think prostitution is even legal in my country. It's definitely not available to someone like me. I wouldn't know where to look.
Again, the sex-havers horde all of this stuff away from us.
As a former prostitute monger, sex is shit and I now don't care about not having a girlfriend, I prefer to just jack off in the morning then get on with my day
Yeah, but I should have gone through that process when I was a teenager and gotten it out of my system, and I didn't get to do that.
it is what it is, it was what it was
You don’t really get it out of your system, it’s never enough.
If there was any justice in this world an asteroid would hit Australia and sink it to the bottom of the ocean.
Just nuke Melbourne and Sydney and then you don't need the asteroid. This is a beautiful country but unfortunately it's full of Australians. And now chinks.
Don't forget street shitters
Yeah, that too.
>Brothels are dead.
No they aren't. Just the business is changing along with everything else in society. Had a friend who had to run one for a few weeks to collect a legitimate business debt. It made a fricking shit ton of money an the only thing that stopped him from buying in when offered was the stigma that running sex workers has with his other business networks. As much as it is "completely legal" it is still at the fringes and you still have to deal with a lot of criminals trying to get the worker for nefarious shit (a big one is stopping them from selling cocaine). That brothel wasn't chinks it was a mix of backpackers and failed models. Having the house taking a cut makes it very easy as the location, marketing and security is taken care of for them - a lot of girls who freelance also work part time in the brothels when they need something steady while they relocate or restart after a break.
>It's a mutual agreement
No it's not, what you are talking about it's a bussiness transaction
When the money is gone, the girl is instantly gone. PLEASE don't tell me that you are one of those who thinks she'll grow on you and stick with you during hard times
No? That literally didn't happen to half of the people I knew who were legitimately married. The woman gets bored and fricks off as soon as she thinks she can get a better man. That's what women do. I still want to have one for a little while.
I would honestly bring some filipina here if she came with lifetime warranty. But this way she can come here, get a job, meet some friends and find a new guy, she doesn't even need a green card from me
Family life's not for me. I'm like House or John Frusciante
45 but really 43
i'm closer to 19 than 18
i'm closer to 19 than 18
i'm closer to 19 than 18
I'M CLOSER TO 19 THAN 18
is it over?
if you dont have a wife, 2 kids, a house, a car, and a stable career by 19 then you should just give up, boomer.
45
When did you accept that nothing was ever going to change? Eventually, we all have "a day" that becomes the template for the rest of our lives. What was yours?
6 years ago I was made redundant from my job and got a year's salary as a payout. I thought I would use that time to make a fresh start with my life and yet I did absolutely nothing for an entire year. I just treaded water as a neet until the money ran out and then got another shitty job I hated. I don't deserve a better life. I had every chance to actually do something different and I yet I chose not to. If I do make anything with my life with complete freedom and a financial headstart then I never will. Things won't ever get better and I'm the reason why.
When I got a gf at 26
My life is pretty much the same 5 years later, with added shit
I learned that there is no such thing as "your shit changing", you just add shit to your current shit
i dont understand this, i'm 25 KHHV neet and my life is completely different from how it was 5 years ago due to things i started doing, i still have some of the same issues but i live a very different life and i'm basically a completely different person both mentally and physically after getting over social anxiety and getting Cinemaphile and looksmaxxing
i literally didnt use to go outside for months justing grinding MMOs, how did my shit not change?
I went through a boxing phase that lasted a year and a half and got mega shredded but on the big scheme of life I was the same person inside later.
Just because you take a 2 weeks vacation trip to New Zeland and do completely different shit, when the ride is over and you fall back to "normal" you'll realize looking back that it was a big slope but the rollercoaster is the same.
Some people do make a complete 360, but it's fringe cases like that dude from that movie that from a rich family became a hippie and died eating poisonous plants.
Those are real changes
Yours is not
>I went through a boxing phase that lasted a year and a half and got mega shredded
Thats badass, had you ever done any kind of fighting before that?
I'm out of shape but I've been trying to change that by going to the gym regularly
>had you ever done any kind of fighting before that?
None
But like I said
That's a toolset and looks I don't have use for
It was cool while it lasted, but because I didn't become a boxer, i just fall back to normal me
Ask yourself if you are commited to be Cinemaphile and looksmaxxing all your life, even if it has no usefulness in your life, then you'll know if you've changed or not
i'm the guy you replied to, its funny because one of the things i did was start muay thai, which i've been doing for over 3 years now and still do, i never went on vacation either, i understand what you mean, but in the long term i disagree, if i didnt take any of these steps my life would end with me killing myself without basically experiencing anything, its a gradual process to transform, you simply suffer from depression and need to stay just at the right amount of discomfort for a long time to change your life. your post is basically just saying that no change whatsoever is valid, you didn't set any actual standards or anything, thats just how you feel, and you shouldnt even think about that, just change your life the way you want it to be.
you will probably always have a daily routine that you get "stuck" in, but you can seek out novelty if thats what you want, and your routine doesnt have to be mundane suffering.
i forgot to emphasize, i also feel the same way about getting Cinemaphile and all that being a waste because i dont "use" it, but i am using it in how i'm changing my life altogether, my identity and mind changed, i don't get girls or anything like that yet, but thats just another goal you can seek out. which is what i'm doing right now, i stopped being a bugman and now i'm setting my mind on socialization and getting back into trying to make it financially, even though i'm at square one with all of these, i didn't even have those quests unlocked a few years ago, but now i have the tools and everything.
1.5 year of boxing is also not that much dude, it is a big thing to start since its too intimidating for 99% of normies to even start and you seem to acknowledge that, just get back on it and aim to simply be consistent with it, you don't have to do fights or have goals in it, even training once a week will have an impact on who you are and what your life is.
>Eventually, we all have "a day" that becomes the template for the rest of our lives.
clearly you understand your problem, so make an attempt to change it?
people have routines, no shit, humans are adaptive and you basically start making little chemicals that make you slowly content doing whatever you do to survive in your environment, if you want to feel then you need to get out and break some patterns.
Basically it comes down to a realisation that no matter how much you want something, or try to change yourself, you're still a slave to the whims of everyone around you, and they will fight tooth and claw not to change, and not to let you have anything you want.
I was like 15
Lmao he fell for the family meme
Living alone is great, especially in current year
I'm starting to think this as well. Better than being with a wife that resents you and a bunch of kids putting grease marks all over your shit and btfo'ing your economy.
Your wife is your best friend, right Cinemaphile? Like, its okay to have a dude you call your “best friend” who you hang out and drink beer with, but you are married to your lifelong best friend whom you’d forsake all others, right?
How to achieve this anons? It seems real irl, if very difficult to achieve.
marry a girl you grew up with
having the childhood friendship is a foundation that none other can trump
I would've done that but we moved apart and now they're trailer trash and we have nothing in common
>marry a girl you grew up with
I was too stupid and didn’t play with girls when I was younger
Well there was this one tomboy and I had a crush on her too but she got lots of attention from boys and moved away at the end of the 4th grade
Then why are middle/high school romances so infamous for their failure rate?
because women get brainwashed by the globohomosexual israelite into thinking she needs to "sow her oats" and gets convinced that she cucked herself out of a fun party lifestyle because she got hitched too early
If she can be manipulated that easily then she was just a closet hoe to begin with
>the israelites are the reason the first woman I built a relationship with isn't my forever partner
yes
How different is this than just marrying your (similar in age) sister? Assuming no genetic issues with offspring it doesn’t seem that different than marrying your childhood friend. And no I’m not attracted to my sister or anything, I don’t even have siblings I just never understood the normie hatred of incest besides the genetic issues.
I am 29 years old and I never even kissed a girl
>past a certain age, a man without a supermodel wife, a rich father in law, multiple 10/10 girlfriends, and a nice lawn all on a cop's salary, can be a bad thing
I bet some cops have cushy salaries, especially if they're in a good union. Also you can occasionally "misplace" evidence like money or drugs
takes a long time, but it's a steady paycheck if you rise in the ranks
>I bet some cops have cushy salaries
Marty was also a "peoples person", that certainly helped
>cannot overcome their biological urges
?
I guess you're a breatharian
>There is no objective reason to eat food other than a animalistic desire to feed. If you allow that desire, you are a lesser person.
>There is no objective reason to have a child
if you're a Christian, there is
>if you're a Christian, there is
if you're an atheist too, it's propagation of the species
Generally speaking about 30. After that shit starts to go haywire.
I'm 30 next year.
I don't see how people have more than two kids and not wanna kill themselves. You have absolutely no free time and your wife will refuse to frick you because she'll be too concerned with the kids.
You get a wife that likes sucking dick moron
>Hurr women don't change over time
Sounds like you either make bad decisions or have a disgusting penis. Either way, good luck with that, good women aren't exactly growing on trees.
Once you get past two and one of them hits 12 it’s like shaving an extra adult (if it’s female).
I heard from a couple with 5 that if you have good relationships with your extended family it’s no different than 3: lots of baby sitting and extracurriculars gives you free time and once they hit 15 they basically only require money rather than time to raise.
>Jesus Christ
no kids
>Buddha
no kids
>Muhammad
no kids
>Isaac Newton
no kids
>Plato
no kids
>Mary Magdalene
no kids
>Mother Teresa
no kids
>Florence Nightingale
no kids
>Joan of Arc
no kids
>Lawrence of Arabia
no kids
>Edward the Confessor,
no kids
>the Dali Lama
no kids
>the Pope
no kids
>Dr. Seuss
no kids
>Amelia Earhart
no kids
>Wright brothers
no kids
>George Bernard Shaw
no kids
>Beethoven
no kids
>Tchaikovsky
no kids
>Mussorgsky
no kids
>T.S. Elliot
no kids
>George Washington
no kids
>Leonardo
no kids
>Michelangelo
no kids
>Vincent
no kids
>Virgil
no kids
>Salvador Dali
no kids
>Jackson Pollock
no kids
>Thoreau
no kids
>Chekhov
no kids
>Nietzsche
no kids
>Schubert
no kids
>Spinoza
no kids
>Keats
no kids
>Poe
no kids
>Proust
no kids
>Rimbaud
no kids
>Whitman
no kids
>Harlan Ellison
no kids
>Lewis Carroll
no kids
>Joseph Campbell
no kids
>Immanuel Kant
no kids
seethe + cope
Sherman Hemsley didn't have any kids either.
Also Hitler.
>the creators of the current clown world were gays and/or virgins
wow, heckin based!!
>creators of the current clown world
Anon..
?
>Lawrence of Arabia
no kids
Gee wonder why? lmaoo
Bro, Lawrence wrote gay porn.
yeah, no shit
everyone in that list was a homosexual, except for maybe George Washington
lying israelites be lying. All have / had kids, just not in the public eye.
>Harlan Ellison
Proof that you are israeli - he was a deviant and got several fans pregnant, but never claimed any of his bastards.
>Muhammad
>no kids
Uhhhh
>no kids
Amerimutt detected
>33 yo
>no real education
>never held down a real job
>no money
>no family
>no gf
>junkie
>criminal past
Pretty comfy tbh. Looks like the human race is getting btfo by 2040 so I think I was right in never saving up for retirement.
Lmao you morons know census data has existed since Rome right? You can literally look back and see what age people were married and with what income brackets. You tards have been convinced that the norm is to be married at like 20 but truth is the historic average is like 25-27 with 30+ not being uncommon. In particular you see during depressions and recessions the marriage age increases with 20-24 average happing in economic booms like post ww2.
Point being it’s only to late if you decide it’s to late.
>I'm gonna drop another epic truth bomb catchphrase because I can't actually write or plot
why do you homosexuals lap this up
I dumped a girl because she wanted kids and I didn't. Now i'm alone and sad. I make enough money to support kids, I just don't want to be enslaved for the next 20 years. I want to be able to quit whenever I want. Is this price really worth paying to not be alone?
I met a girl who I think was my actual soul mate. She wanted kids and I didn't so she left. Now I'm thinking that maybe I fricked up, maybe I was supposed to be with her.
Theres billions of girls don't get hung up over one b***h
Single men become isolated and weird
anyone here has that pic of the empty room but has mario 64 edited
>all my friends are married, some have kids
>I have never had a gf and haven't had sex in years
Heh, at least I'm almost done with my phd and have a few research papers published, r-right?
Oyvey I agree it's bad for the economy and consumer spending
I am 43 and have no family
I am slightly autistic and just have weird vibe that makes women feel repulsed. I also have no body language and can't read one.
Additionally I lack any religious feelings and have no reproductive desires.
I do have extreme libido though, just no feelings regarding having offspring.
When I was young inability to have sexual intercourse with women almost drove me to suicide, so I started to use prostitutes.
So far I fricked around 150 women(95% prostitutes), 300 ladyboys/shemales and around 5 guys(wanted to check if I am gay, but sex was unenjoyable).
The reason I frick ladyboys is that even female prostitutes sense you are autistic and start ridiculing you or having contempt.
I spend all my money on travels to SEA and rarely buy clothes or personal items.
For a while I managed to frick normal women by studying human behaviour and pretending to be a busy business man with little time but it was too exhausting in the long term and I was unhappy with the ratio of effort/results.
I usually frick the same person only once, and I am not attracted to the person afterwards.
If I like a woman or ladyboy I am no longer attracted sexually to them.
>even female prostitutes sense you are autistic and start ridiculing you or having contempt.
Like what?
Snarky comments, refusing service, taking money and throwing you out, etc.
Women sense autism like dogs smell fear.
I've been there, sometimes I just wanted to suck on their breasts yet it really freaks them out for some stupid fricking reason
>I fricked around 150 women(95% prostitutes), 300 ladyboys/shemales and around 5 guys
Who gives the best blowjobs?
Ladyboys and trans.
Women aren't good at sex unless they get excited, which happens very rarely, guys lack sensuality. Trans girls often are both horny and sensual.
My homie
Cool. I used to hang out with a troony. I liked the mix of female sensuality coupled with the male sexual drive. Seeing her dick took me out of it though.
>slightly autistic
>fricks lady boys
{X}
Why woody look in every movie are same ? Even 20 yo movies
Literally the one advantage balding very early in life has. It immediately makes them look older, but then are perceived to be aging less due to already looking older to begin with. See Patrick Stewart.
>23
>some sexual experience but had years of dryspell also so feel like the KHHV guys anyway
And I absolutely refuse to settle for the ugly girls or fat girls which I see some guys doing. I tried it too because of the "just lower your standards bro" meme and it made me unhappy. Anyone else in this spot?
>30yo
>in shape, gym 4-5 times a week
>$55k/yr job in low cost of living area
>no gf since I was 16
>went on one date 4 years ago and I gave her the ick so bad she left mid-date
>she was a coworker too so it was kinda awkward
>she's fat now anyway I'm glad it didn't work out
good morning I hate fat women
>went on one date 4 years ago and I gave her the ick so bad she left mid-date
greentext the story for us
>start work at a call center
>sit next to a girl that's about my age
>her smile lights up the room, she is always happy and cheerful
>over the course of a year she starts talking to me more
>will spend her break time sitting next to me and talking
>sometimes sneaks up behind me and runs her fingers through my hair
>I ask other men if they think she's into me
>"nah"
>ask her out anyway
>turns out she gets asked out a lot at work and says no to everyone because she doesn't date coworkers(thus the other men telling me no)
>makes an exception for me
>wow she must really like me
>we go on a date to an Italian restaurant first
>bill comes
>we split the bill because I'm a sperg and didn't know the intricacies of dating and how women like being provided for
>on our way to movie
>go to bathroom
>get a text from her "I really don't want to be here...."
>ok I guess we can do something else
>leave bathroom
>her face is red with embarrassment, says her sister is gonna pick her up and for me to enjoy the movie
>wtf?
>she tells me that text was meant for her sister not me
>oh.... OH.....
long story short, if you like a girl PAY THE FRICKING BILL I don't care how much the both of you make
Splitting the bill these days is code for "there isn't going to be a 2nd date" or saying you have no chemistry. God I feel awful looking back on my dumb ass.
No, you're moronic. If a girl actually likes you she's not gonna break it off over buying her own meal.
Women will buy YOU shit if they actually like you.
You no longer have to lie awake at night in regret over splitting the bill, you can spend that time wondering what you ACK-chewally did that made her so dry 🙂
oh, it was probably me attempting to hold her hand too early
kek, imagine thinking the problem was that you didn't pay for her on the first fricking date and NOT that you invaded her personal space at first opportunity lmao
>NOT that you invaded her personal space at first opportunity lmao
she did it first by casually running her fingers through my hair regularly like we were some intimate couple
Girls are moronic and have double standards, you can't expect them to act sensibly
Also I'm so not used to being touched that if someone ran their fingers through my hair from behind me I'd most likely elbow jab them by instinct alone or worse
A girl touching a guy is different than a guy touching a girl. When girls like guys they can touch the guy's chest, touch his hair, etc. But if you're a guy you never do that to a girl unless you've been dating for a while. Holding hands for a girl is also a lot more intimate than touching your hair. That said, splitting the bill and holding hands too early are faux pas but really shouldn't be deal breakers if she likes you. It might have been something else.
>mfw I could've had a 17-year-old by now if the woman I lost my virginity to hadn't miscarried
>mfw I could've had a 10-year-old by now if the woman I dated at 25 hadn't miscarried
>mfw I could've had a 5-year-old by now if my ex-wife actually wanted children and didn't lie to me from the start
It's over.
I spend way too much thinking about hypotheticals like this from years ago. You drive yourself insane. I wish I could just forget about the past.
>I wish I could just forget about the past
Yeah, I try not to think about it, but it's pretty hard when your life just reset from a divorce (I've basically been homeless for a year, thank god for good friends).
You're in your mid 30s, your friends all have kids between 2 and 6, so even if you have a kid now or a year from now, your friends children are too old, and when your children get to their age THEY are staring fricking middle-school, and when your kid is a late teenager YOU are fricking 50.
So glad I never wanted kids so I've never had to worry about this shit
I don't care anymore and neither should you, my fellow wizards.
I always wanted a pure and loving girl but they don't exist.
I'm 31 and have accomplished literally nothing in my entire life. I can't even foresee myself not committing suicide by the end of the year, let alone anything required of having a normal functional life. The thought of having a family or even a relationship is so far outside my realm of comprehension that it might as well be a made up fantasy. And then I have free days like this weekend and I just sit here doing literally nothing. I don't even leave the house. I make no efforts to do anything to change. Please god strike me down.
>trade glances with a girl all the time, but i dont know her
>i only meet her at public transport, and asking her out in there is a bit too much for me, and i dont get an opportunity to catch her alone.
She probably thinks i have a gf because i dont ask her out.
I wish i had more confidence, fellow wizards, or i am wrong and she isnt into me or i am missing a huge opportunity here...
Don't talk to her. She thinks you're a creep
You could strike up a conversation to get a feel for things anon. You don’t necessarily have to skip straight to asking her out.
Hey man, I tried. Turns out I'm just destined to die alone.
Was Marty talking about Rust or himself here?
Being constantly stressed out and drowned in responsibilities is what keeps men sane until they retire.
Having extra time to think or have hobbies is very dangerous if you aren’t extremely disciplined.
Objectively?
Yes. Security in old age, if you do it right.
As your parents get older you’ll see a lot of their single friends start getting desperate and getting married in a rush to virtual strangers because they don’t want to die alone. But even that and a bunch of savings doesn’t protect them from the inevitable situation of being old, alone, and increasingly senile: unable to financially or physically care for yourself and burning through the little money you have left on care services and hospital bills, until the state finally declares you unfit to handle yourself and you get stuck in a home that’s basically a glorified coffin for people who didn’t want kids or didn’t care to instill any values in them.
Thats not really a viable option even if you have good kids with good values because they will have their own family and responsibilities by then and they can't/won't put their life on hold for however many years just to care for their parents, it just isn't realistic.
50
Is it possible to learn Java in six months and get a
coding job? I want to switch careers
no
and if you have to ask such question, it's a double no
doesn't mean you couldn't pick up java (or programming in general) as a hobby, and work at your own pace, see where it takes you
if you want to get your foot in the door with no knowledge or experience, q&a is your best bet. spam resumes, don't get discouraged, be open to relocation. good luck anon.
>and if you have to ask such question, it's a double no
What does this even mean?
it's pretty rough out there and such a naive question made me think you didn't even glance at the extent of such thing, the market, the competition, the breadth of the domain itself.
i don't want to discourage you, i think the transition is possible, i've seen it before. if you have engineering/applied sciences credentials 6 months is enough to land an entry level codemonkeying job. otherwise i'd say 2 years, workshops, volunteering in non-profit projects, to get something in your resume. don't get scammed by a bootcamp.
Age 19. It's over.
I have a family, both parents are still around.
I have asked out and been rejected by 109 different women. No, it has never been my fault.
A man who doesn't spend time with his family can never be a real man.
why dont women want to get married and start a family? they all want "kids someday" but then they are 40 with no kids. If it was men who got pregnant guys who probably have dozens of kids to try to build an army. Hopefully artificial wombs will give men the freedom to have kids without needing a woman.
Honestly I don't get why everyone doesn't have a kid first chance they get. If you look online for people who say they regret having kids, everyone who for one reason or another "regrets" it also says it's the best decision they ever made and they wouldn't change it for the world.
>If you look online for people who say they regret having kids, everyone who for one reason or another "regrets" it also says it's the best decision they ever made and they wouldn't change it for the world.
if you asked my parents if having their one child would turn out like me, they would have aborted me and never had children. i cringe to even think about how much my parents regret my birth
If you think they're so disappointed in you then why not use that as motivaton to become someone they can be proud of?
>If you think they're so disappointed in you then why not use that as motivaton to become someone they can be proud of?
because ive given up and dont care anymore, and ive ruined and wasted my life anyway. i feel bad for them that their only child became a completely worthless pathetic loser, but in all honesty they werent great parents anyway. very little affection, barely taught me any life skills. i dont care. i just live in misery and will kill myself soon.
i wish a woman would marry me and we could have like ten kids together and i could become a famous movie director and make kinos for all the world to enjoy but sadly i am just another incel chud posting on Cinemaphile
This but I don’t need to be a movie director, I just need to have a simple job that is respected by society and my family and that is capable of providing for my family.
There are 3 types of people who have kids in 2023:
1. Irresponsible idiots
2. Keeping up with the Jones/kids are a status symbol types
3. Religious idiots
>29
>travel for work
>only girls I pull nowadays are 5-6’s/ and or neurotic thots
>deathly afraid of hitting 40 with no roots
Should I keep traveling even though I’m stacking cash and wanting to buy a house or start a business ?
just keep stacking cash, clearly its making you happy.
>watching kino
>romantic kissing scene
>have to look away
am i the only one
I think it might be over for me at 33. I'm trying to get my shit together but don't know how.
45 if you're a man. 30 if you're a woman. Don't listen to doomer bullshit that morons spew out saying it's over after 25. However, don't waste time just because you think you have it. Always work towards the long term goals. Don't get lazy or demoralized. Get off the internet if you need to make it happen.
I don't know specifically what age he was talking about, I just know that I'm past it.
>Go to college for 2 years
>Drop out
>Be virgin NEET for 10 years
>Be 29
>Finally decide to follow my dream of getting a Ph.D
>Waited too long, school won't accept my credits and have to start all the way over
So much for being done before I'm 40.
So do I stay the course or do what Cinemaphile says will make me happy and go get a job so I can meet a girl and have babies?
What job can you get at this point?
You can still go to college but don’t expect getting a a PHD to be reasonable
>What job can you get at this point?
I meant after getting a Bachelor's.